13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM

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  • 13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM
    🔍 Discover the timeless wisdom of Marcus Aurelius and Stoicism, presenting 13 powerful ways to face your enemy without resorting to direct confrontation. Join us on a journey of resilience and strategic insight as we explore Stoic teachings that empower you to navigate conflicts with wisdom and composure. Embark on a mindful exploration of Marcus Aurelius's wisdom and Stoic teachings, unraveling ways to face your enemies without engaging in physical or verbal combat.
    🌟 In this video, we cover:
    ✅ Keep emotions in check during conflicts.
    ✅ Cultivate empathy for diverse viewpoints.
    ✅ Allow time for tensions to ease.
    ✅ Prioritize tranquility over external chaos.
    ✅ Make decisions based on reason, not emotion.
    ✅ Seek peaceful resolutions through dialogue.
    ✅ Establish clear limits to protect your well-being.
    ✅ Rise above the need to prove oneself right.
    ✅ Find growth in challenging situations.
    ✅ Assess the importance of each conflict.
    ✅ Release resentment for personal freedom.
    ✅ Strive for cooperative and constructive solutions.
    ✅ Showcase virtues even in the face of opposition.
    🌟 Join us on this insightful journey as we integrate Stoic ways into actionable insights for facing enemies with wisdom and grace.
    🔍 Here's what you'll learn:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:22 - 1. Delve into the Depths of Your Adversary.
    04:40 - 2. Choose Your Battles Wisely.
    08:00 - 3. Speak with Calm and Clarity.
    11:16 - 4. Seek the Shared Path.
    14:53 - 5. Appeal to Their Inner Values.
    18:35 - 6. Using Humor Wisely in Conflict Resolution.
    22:12 - 7. Offer Empathy.
    26:13 - 8. Embrace the Art of Compromise.
    29:34 - 9. Seek External Aid Without Shame.
    33:07 - 10. Forgiveness.
    36:47 - 11. Growth from Ashes of Conflict.
    39:58 - 12. Setting Boundaries.
    43:16 - 13. Remember, You Control Your Reactions.
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    #Stoicism #FacingEnemies #MarcusAurelius #StoicRealms

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  • @paradihimo9277
    @paradihimo9277 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Distance from them is the best way to negative people

    • @ChriztineGamble
      @ChriztineGamble 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What if they live with you?

    • @christelmayer
      @christelmayer หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Get affordable psychological help, or leave the person.
      You will never win with a narcissist!

    • @DjBonds-ex3iv
      @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤🎉❤🎉 TRUE ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

    • @DjBonds-ex3iv
      @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@christelmayer❤🎉 NARCISSIST NEVER TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANYTHING.😂🎉😂🎉😂

    • @DjBonds-ex3iv
      @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน

      GREAT VIDEO 🥰💘💌☄️🌠 SHINE THE LIGHT ON THE TRUTH... ONLY A FEW ARE WORTHY OF A BATTLE 👀😎🎶🎧😇✨😇✨😇✨😘🎁🎇🎁🎇🎁😇💪💪💪💪✍️🙏STEP BACK, GET QUIET, DON'T ARGUE , LEAVE , SAY SERENITY Prayer, GO TO A TWELVE STEPS RECOVERY MEETING, TALK TO A PERSON IN RECOVERY, TALK TO YOUR THERAPY GROUPS, TALK TO A THERAPIST ❤ LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

  • @cynthiachronister4082
    @cynthiachronister4082 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    😊my dad used to say"dont argue with idiots"he was so brilliant ❤

    • @winstonmatthews2713
      @winstonmatthews2713 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤You know why, 🎋🌾Because you would just be stupid just like them, 🎋🌾

    • @WhiteBirdMustFly2
      @WhiteBirdMustFly2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Practice Your Stoicism’s, It is logical and while being assertive, one Can Win In Their Game Of Words, while still being kind. Wrestling with Pigs, never worked, as it is foolish, and lowers you to their kinds level.
      A wise man fights with words, not fists, my Grandpa said.

    • @dacunomaximino1624
      @dacunomaximino1624 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      not "brilliant" rather be luck of patience...

    • @doctokdoes434
      @doctokdoes434 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Another good one is ‘never debate a moron’ or ‘morons shout the loudest’

    • @Originalwisdom2024
      @Originalwisdom2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Silence is the power that conquers all types of emotions

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Limit the amount of time around negative people and male sure there is a clear purpose while in their presence. Stay confident but kind 😇

  • @StoicZone101
    @StoicZone101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    "The best revenge is to unlike who performed the injury" - Marcus Aurelius

    • @placebojesus5652
      @placebojesus5652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Or worse, unsubscribe.

    • @brianjacob8728
      @brianjacob8728 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      the Roman Facebook. who knew...

  • @ThomasinaAdams27
    @ThomasinaAdams27 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    To argue with a fool makes you a bigger fool. a fool like to prey on your fears, when they are the fearful one. I don't even dignify them. Love this wisdom.💞💞💞

  • @reginaldpowell6145
    @reginaldpowell6145 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    controling and acknowledging your emotion is key

    • @LocNguyen-fc6ct
      @LocNguyen-fc6ct 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would the US and UK governments allow a person of a different nationality and their nationality to run the US and UK governments?
      Because I am a Russian girl with dual citizenship. I want to run the US and British governments.
      Who knows the answer? Please give me an answer.
      Thank you
      I am a Vietnamese Communist. But I also have US citizenship. Can I run the United States government in Congress.
      I am a Russian politician.
      Can I run the US government and the British government?

    • @Mina.15
      @Mina.15 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LocNguyen-fc6ctgo ask Joe

  • @patriciagonzalez6903
    @patriciagonzalez6903 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Anyone that learned and practiced Ancient Greek philosophy has a successful life. Thank you!

  • @ganymeade5151
    @ganymeade5151 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Learning how to deal with haters is challenging. It pays to learn even if corrupt and bad people think you have lost and they have won. Refuse to play their zero sum games that are rigged against you. Know that you are right, even if haters disrespect you. Realize that many people are driven by misperceptions, delusions, emotions, and not logic. Realize that some people are just impossible and evil and cannot be appeased and look for so called errors to exploit.

    • @frankie7508
      @frankie7508 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No do not engage, but rather set healthy boundaries.

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sometimes humour can be used with great effect. If you can laugh at yourself and at the situation, you can also get them to drop their defences and see things from your perspective. I did this today with some belligerent men. I let them know I was onto their in-jokes and had a laugh about it. You can turn the tables, do the unexpected and this can be disarming. Especially if you can laugh. Laugher is a massive piece in your armoury and it can be used to defuse tension. It's also been used by oppressed people for centuries.
      "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."
      Mahatma Gandhi

  • @cher4500
    @cher4500 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I already know how.. Examine everything.. Always examine what they hide.. My mother's teaching. Take them down quietly. Pick your battle quietly with delay. Everyone has something to hide.. Then sometimes let it ride.. For some.. Hold the tongue.. For some! Not for all.. Using your battles wisely. 👌🏼 🌹 💖 🐦

    • @riviclaye615
      @riviclaye615 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      A lot of these tactics will not work with a narcissist.
      These tactics could put you in harm's way.
      With a narc:
      1. Don't engage AT ALL (if possible)
      2. Block/Delete/Ignore
      3. Gray rock
      4. Run!!!

    • @revathia5258
      @revathia5258 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@riviclaye615l

    • @janedoe8446
      @janedoe8446 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@riviclaye615 Thank you for the reminder!!

  • @user-hj2sh8ev4q
    @user-hj2sh8ev4q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Sometimes its our ex friends who turn into enemies

    • @sanelisiwedlamini7142
      @sanelisiwedlamini7142 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's why I don't have freinds 😊

    • @fallonrappaport5270
      @fallonrappaport5270 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      They were always enemies under the guise of friendship

    • @Clevelandsteamer324
      @Clevelandsteamer324 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Betrayal never comes from our enemies

    • @patsiebentley111
      @patsiebentley111 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's the worst kind !

    • @lolalucky6373
      @lolalucky6373 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I don't believe in friend no way .my mother was my best friend but after she passed I'm lonely 😭😭

  • @BibleBrainTeaser-zz7oe
    @BibleBrainTeaser-zz7oe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    In times of doubt and uncertainty, lean on God's promises. He is faithful to His word and will sustain you through every trial. Take courage, for He is with you always. Amen.

    • @daliahpitter2737
      @daliahpitter2737 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ❤❤❤ facts

    • @mbrilliB
      @mbrilliB หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @davemojarra4734
      @davemojarra4734 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you have evidence for your assertions?

    • @yawchongkan3124
      @yawchongkan3124 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence, I always remember this reminder of human limits

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I don't believe in letting everyone get away with wrong. I like to address it in a way and help them correct it. Especially with customer service or racism. ❤🎉

    • @randychris5031
      @randychris5031 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly bro 😎 some situations need to be dealt with squarely😊

    • @ChrisKHensley
      @ChrisKHensley 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@randychris5031 I found myself in a work situation where an African American woman made a racist comment about white people in the workplace. I thought about my options. Should I hit her? Well, no.
      Should I taddle on her? Well, what would the end result be? Instead, I considered maybe this is her own insecurity and it makes her feel more empowered. Surely, it represents her as being more shortsighted. Perhaps it's best to just allow her to keep being her, and not let it bother me.
      In this dilemma, where I feel like everyone should be able to work in a place without discrimination, I weigh the odds, provide charity to the perpetrator of this disrespect, and end up with the best result.

    • @user-cw4zv5mn2i
      @user-cw4zv5mn2i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Make sure you won't regret it afterwards though

    • @charlottengobeni606
      @charlottengobeni606 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True but I do that with empathy

    • @stevenweiss2148
      @stevenweiss2148 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The police do not either. That's why you should call the police instead of being charged breaking the law yourself

  • @Etic335
    @Etic335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yes, Right!!! all hard work on our shoulder. To make sure others are OK. We are extremely mature and confident. Runn away from ignorance... don't try to teach them.❤ Don't forgive Egoistic person, they will never change.

  • @bobsarfatty4673
    @bobsarfatty4673 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    He who rules his will, is stronger than he who rules a city.

    • @yeswing10
      @yeswing10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      From the Holy Bible

    • @veronv4536
      @veronv4536 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Great wisdom 👍

  • @venky526
    @venky526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Think before you act,react.

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Don't fight every battle some just sit back pray hold every word and actions

  • @WayOfWisdom1
    @WayOfWisdom1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    "No man is free who is not master of himself"Epictetus

    • @Anna_Key
      @Anna_Key 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm glad you spelt that name. The captions wrote Epic Teeters, Epic Tattoos, Epic Teachers.
      I knew that couldn't be right.

    • @emaniwright5921
      @emaniwright5921 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like Epictetus he was a true jedi master and those words still ring true today!!!!

  • @simons1008
    @simons1008 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I am a student who is learning a lot. I am also applying these skills to my own life.
    I am sharing Stoicism with my family and friends. We need new knowledge especially about how to use our minds in positive ways.
    I love these powerful teachings. Thank you. God delivers on time.

  • @antoniaboniche6956
    @antoniaboniche6956 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I love your voice. It sounds so calm and trustworthy ❤

  • @miniminamanmina3715
    @miniminamanmina3715 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Sometimes a battle fought and lost may not be a loss but a planting of seeds of longer term change in your favor.

  • @user-vw2bf7rk4w
    @user-vw2bf7rk4w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Its not the surface of what another person is saying..your right, its their depths, what is really going on, behind it all. Thank you 😊

  • @phoenixrisin2269
    @phoenixrisin2269 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    You can’t perceive life through their eyes if they are pathological narcissist if you aren’t one. Run!

  • @carolynrogers6218
    @carolynrogers6218 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I am so much in need of a teacher . I am a willing student, awaiting for my teacher to show themselves. I am desperate and at my lowest which as a result, I am willing to do what ever it takes to master these skills.

    • @mauritaschut8466
      @mauritaschut8466 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand where you are coming from but something to remember is that when we are desperate for anything, it opens the door to all kinds of charlatans and con artists who will happily take advantage of our desperation. Desperation is the opposite of stoicism. However, I empathize with being very thirsty for knowledge and understanding, and that drive and desire can be the perfect catalyst to learn and incorporate really useful ideas, knowledge, and wisdom.
      Do you meditate? Not that you have to, of course, but it's a really great place to really ground yourself and start getting in touch with your own higher wisdom. The more you adopt it as a daily practice, the more everything starts to make more sense, and you start seeing yourself and the world from a whole new, amazing perspective.
      And absolutely, start learning from experienced, wise teachers that walk the talk, while also always checking in with your own intuition. There are a lot of resources online, you do not NEED a "guru" these days like we did in the past because there is a plethora of information at our disposal and we can so easily look up questions we have and find GOOD answers that RESONATE with us. Be open, curious, and eager to learn while retaining healthy skepticism.
      I have found many great teachers online, including on TH-cam, whether from this Era or those who have passed over, and they have helped me a lot. But just because I respect and appreciate them and their opinions does not mean I just accept everything they say. I always keep in touch with my higher wisdom through meditation, which really helps me weed out stuff that doesn't resonate. (And if u aren't a meditator and want to learn, a great place to start is with guided meditations; Brian Scott's meditations are among my favorite on YT, but there r a lot of other really great options)
      Aaron Abke's "Mind Science" series is great for all things to do with understanding and dealing with our ego. Michael Singer is an older guy whose written some well-known, life changing books (like the Untethered Soul) and he has a great podcast on YT. Oh man, there's so many, it just depends what your cup of tea is. If i started a list, i dont know where it'd end!There are teachers from every different Era, from all around the world, and whether you read their stuff, listen to audio books of their writings/works (if u cant buy them, there r lots for free on YT) or they have podcasts/shows, you have lots of free access and lots of perspectives. As you go along, you realize that the really good ones have a lot in common, just different ways of expressing their thoughts and different things they focus on.
      Just remember, you don't have to learn it all in a week, a month, or a year. You will happily spend the rest of your life learning, just like they did/do. That's what brings wisdom.
      I'm sorry for the long rant, I hope it was at least a little bit helpful.☺️🙏💫 Have a wonderful day🌞

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    • @DesireeDore
      @DesireeDore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My teacher once told me: when you're looking for a teacher, stop. Because it is wasteful to look outside of yourself for guidance. You and those who work on your behalf (guides, guardians, ancestors, angels, ect) are the best teachers you could have.
      * When you're looking outside, you ignore the inside.
      You are Creator. You are Spirit experiencing humanity. Every drop of wisdom you desire is already yours. You just have to tune in and let go of doubt. Find validation within yourself. Learn to honor what resonates with you and works against you. Tap in and listen.
      And if you're still looking for a teacher, I would recommend the Four Agreements if you haven't read it already. Most of my teachers I've never met in person, but their role in my life is no less great than those I have!
      Many blessings. 🩶

    • @DesireeDore
      @DesireeDore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      BTW the teacher that gave that advice... and I didn't realize this till after I wrote the comment... is named Carol Rogers.
      Thought that was a really cool synchronicity. 🎉

  • @thedandyhighwayman
    @thedandyhighwayman หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Imagine how we have regressed as humanity from Stoicism to Wokism.

    • @frankie7508
      @frankie7508 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The real question is why? And it's my guess that it's because the public school system here in the united states has been infiltrated with communist and socialists.

    • @pamulahwilliams1744
      @pamulahwilliams1744 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Respectfully, and the sad part is there are many who think they're woke by their interpretation and they still are not...woke...that is.😪

    • @inca3370
      @inca3370 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What's wokism?

    • @TitoJonJon
      @TitoJonJon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      1oo%

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@inca3370Being told how to accept things that you do not want to . How to accept other peoples truths at the expense of your own .

  • @WoAiJ
    @WoAiJ 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    True love🩷 Never gives up. Love ♥️,and patience always wins💖

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Speak calm yet firm

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes they really want to wind you up so if you can laugh, it throws them.
      Laugh at the absurdity of the situation and this will disarm them.
      They will begin to doubt their position. That is the start.

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sometimes I like to win because I don't like wrong motives of others 🙏

  • @alicemahomes6976
    @alicemahomes6976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Asking the Holy Spirit to bribe my tongue and shut my mouth.
    This is good teaching, on time for me. I am eighty and still learning. Love Forgiveness is my passion; people place, things and myself.
    Sending ❤😮😇🎁

  • @e.barieau6663
    @e.barieau6663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The message is very good. Using AI to read the text with all the pronunciation errors tends to cheapen the delivery as the listener is being drawn to the mistakes, rather than concentrating on the lesson.

  • @user-yi2mc1lu3w
    @user-yi2mc1lu3w 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m astounded.
    Not only for the clarity of the strategies,
    But also the simplicity of the techniques.
    This philosophy reminds me so much of Buddhist, it is just another branch.

  • @cher4500
    @cher4500 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Never trust nothing, Always look deeper. Question, Observe that person! They lie. You will know it. Through your question again! Quite battles with silence is a battle to win on how you decide to do it! What hurts them the most! What's taken away from them that they like getting etc.. My mother was a smart teacher.. 👌🏼

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    When someone asks me what I think about..........fill in the blank........I just say I have NO OPINION. Shuts them right up. Of course, I have an opinion, but it's none of their business!

    • @goldineperdon2076
      @goldineperdon2076 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lesson of acute insight.😅

  • @JoeZenArt
    @JoeZenArt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    All disputes are imbedded in competition which lives in the Ego. Allowing the awareness to first realize the effects of the any disputes may give the best results and peace empowers.

  • @EllaLioness-to6ve
    @EllaLioness-to6ve 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wish this videos were not so long...
    I have such a headache this morning......
    Thank you. I am sure this a wonderful video

  • @sheilacarter3806
    @sheilacarter3806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was also told if you show out in that spot you will get corrected in that same spot, so be careful. Everyone doesn't have your same teaching
    We mostly behave according to how we had to survive in a certain environment. So, coming from the hood, you had to be very firm so no person could think they would run over you or get you in trouble. So, being a leader meant this at times . If you hit me, I will hit you back to get you off of me. Only in certain situations don't
    But when you are dealing with the enemy, you can't show signs of fear. Not where I am from, you will get eating alive. So change according to your environment 💪🏽😇💗However don't go around doing bad do good.

    • @notagain779
      @notagain779 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @sheilacarter3806, This is interesting from the perspective of gun violence in some big cities. I was once on a jury, where a man from the hood was on the stand, accused of murder. He started to explain how it was necessary to have a gun. To my surprise, the judge let him speak for quite a long time, and asked him questions about the culture of the hood. His answers were enlightening, and gave all of us on the jury a perspective we hadn't considered. He basically felt he couldn't trust ANYONE. He was scared all the time. Very vigilant. He looked and acted dangerous, he said, because he felt he had no choice. I thought, wow, he has courage to say all of this stuff when there were many people from the hood in the courtroom as observers of the case. It was a very interesting but complicated case, involving a number of people trying to pass the "hot" smoking gun off, to pin the murder on another guy. I was glad the judge encouraged him to speak.

  • @maritessalaba5672
    @maritessalaba5672 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He who controls his tongue controls his destiny! For a tongue can both build and destroys a nation!

  • @lechat8533
    @lechat8533 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It`s so good to know that although we may have better technology than societies in the past, there have always been people who were struggling with the same personal conflicts as we do today. Even thousands of years ago, some people were incredibly intelligent and wise, and their incredible findings are still echoing through time, waiting to be heard and put to use.
    Nothing is as captivating as the enigmatic psychology of every single fellow man.
    Everyone's inner life has its own unique fingerprint.

    • @user-oz8wx5gi5j
      @user-oz8wx5gi5j 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's not true. They've actually dumbed down society on purpose.

  • @iamtrinysongzz
    @iamtrinysongzz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I stayed until the end! Gratitude🏁👍🏾

    • @user-cw4zv5mn2i
      @user-cw4zv5mn2i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Make sure you are not altered for bad through the process, it wiser to not stress it too much. Move on when you have to. Change it

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Self mastery.......Place no one above you........unconditional self love........

    • @user-cw4zv5mn2i
      @user-cw4zv5mn2i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In christianity self love is a sin especially over God. Love God and seek solutions

    • @chaneldiane8611
      @chaneldiane8611 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lindalou4858
    @lindalou4858 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ❤😂🎉 never argued, listened to how my needs and dreams never matter, silent responses avoided a punch in the face, then did what I wanted joined with my children. In hindsight never had family fun. Remaining childlike joining in their curiosity I taught how to! Recovering and healing many wounds. Process got me in zombie rx drug fog, because I was vulnerable. I never bought into pop culture. BREATH and SMILE they don't get me let alone understand. Light dimmers gone ❤

  • @a.alexandrajimenez8437
    @a.alexandrajimenez8437 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thanks for sharing. Numbers 12 and 13 so inspire. 🙏💕

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome!

  • @myrianvalenzuela9199
    @myrianvalenzuela9199 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have read this in the bible conquering yourself, your anger is not a wise person. Angry person is a fool, so it means rage and anger can really be conquered. Delaying anger and not responding is the best solution especially when your life is in danger, really you can only compromise. Your bestfriend is yourself in any given situation.

  • @beverlyrampersad7492
    @beverlyrampersad7492 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    ❤thanks for sharing your knowledge and words of wisdom which will help us in our everyday lives it's much appreciated.

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome

  • @funnylucu7101
    @funnylucu7101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You’re wife so lucky to have you because your voice so wise😊
    Terimakasih 🇮🇩

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you! 😃

  • @sudiptabrahma2631
    @sudiptabrahma2631 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent advice for a lifetime practice. Thanks Sir for wisdom truthful invaluable quotes

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very welcome

  • @DjBonds-ex3iv
    @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    COOPERATIVE EFFECT FOR COMMON GOAL❤❤❤❤❤

  • @audiemae9693
    @audiemae9693 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am ready Sir ❤

  • @afrouzkhakpour7067
    @afrouzkhakpour7067 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks ❤.

  • @magicofkarpaty8356
    @magicofkarpaty8356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you

  • @linajamal8743
    @linajamal8743 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankyou
    I am facing this problem
    I don't know why❤

  • @SohaQuotes
    @SohaQuotes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These 13 ways are really cool and amazing. I will apply it in the future. Thanks for sharing. 😀

  • @dacunomaximino1624
    @dacunomaximino1624 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    How about the offender/enemy is the one who is so calm and relax?

  • @deepalib7740
    @deepalib7740 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Practical tips have been given...
    Excellent
    ..

  • @rinkudhawra518
    @rinkudhawra518 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Super🎉...amazing inspiration. Thank you for the kind words of motivation.

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most welcome 😊

    • @tonyoffofficiel9200
      @tonyoffofficiel9200 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@StoicRealmsooôôļļķķķ

  • @Anna_Key
    @Anna_Key 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for this information 🙏🏻

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My pleasure

  • @LifeElevate-1626
    @LifeElevate-1626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big thanks to the channel owner for such an amazing video! Understanding how to manage our emotions is truly the key to success in life.

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Our pleasure!

  • @michealferrell1677
    @michealferrell1677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I noticed that much of this is taught in scripture. One thing that stands out though is the lack of glory due to god .
    A great assessment of national theology perhaps but would need the light of the word of god to interpret rightly.
    Thank you for this friend, learned much

    • @MG-ot2yr
      @MG-ot2yr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's because religions basically hijack good virtues and reassigns their source to a god, rather than a natural characteristic of the evolved human psychology. The main problem with this misconception is the adherent doesn't develop an inner moral conscience on the basis of empathy, compassion, sympathy and a sense of fairness, instead is motivated by fear of punishment and reward in the afterlife. It can also have tragic negative impacts when scripture is misused to motivate an otherwise good person to do evil things.

    • @shampersaud2763
      @shampersaud2763 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @MG , All these wisdom came from GOD ,AND GUIDED INTO HOLY SCRIPTURES.....WHETHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT....

    • @Etj1313
      @Etj1313 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shampersaud2763Nope God isn’t real! The all caps, clearly shows us your not paying attention to the video. Lol

    • @msoliver101ify
      @msoliver101ify 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was thinking the same thing. Great point.

    • @violetagabutan2811
      @violetagabutan2811 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! I've learned so much.

  • @irinadavidofflavrentyeva798
    @irinadavidofflavrentyeva798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish our world leaders today learn, at least some of this timeless, Stoicism wisdom in order to overcome the divide and to create a bridge of understanding. If they, at least, seek comprehension rather than dominant, world would be much safer place to live. "Not me, but us"...This, life-vital stoic's technique, should be taught in our schools instead of brainwashing stupidity.

  • @sheelasai7619
    @sheelasai7619 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the help ,Thanks for the time, Thanks for your wisdom

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure!

  • @gracepilla2283
    @gracepilla2283 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So much to learn. I think im late learning this strategies but so thnkful that ive been following yiu now. And make great difference to response in a very intellectual manner.

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great to hear!

  • @MG-ot2yr
    @MG-ot2yr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is excellent guidance, in a nutshell, stay calm and unemotional, determine why a person feels the way they do and foster a team approach toward a resolution. But I would disagree with the title of this video, you shouldn't want to destroy anyone, and anyone you would consider an enemy is someone who has such character flaws that there could never be any meaningful and lasting resolution....with these people just quietly walk away.

    • @peggylittle1979
      @peggylittle1979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought the same thing when forwarding this video to friends. I told them to ignore the title and just listen to the message because there is nothing menacing in it.
      On reflection, I think the enemy being destroyed here is one's own self, when one is seeking revenge and/or angrily jumping to conclusions.
      I happily saw this program 3 days ago and used its advice not only to delve into my past to understand my grievances but helped my angry and perplexed daughter begin to look into her own, and now after decades of mistrust I think we have begun to try to understand and better communicate.

  • @btwiswbtwisw5650
    @btwiswbtwisw5650 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us ❤

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My pleasure 😊

    • @user-pf3ht3tc6r
      @user-pf3ht3tc6r 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's good advice to always learn about ourselves because sometimes anger hurt humiliation takes over before we can understand what's happening

  • @hendricksismael7810
    @hendricksismael7810 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You did it again

  • @user26z26
    @user26z26 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for sharing.
    I could learn lots.

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome!

  • @lisaammons4655
    @lisaammons4655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 😊

  • @LloydMajor
    @LloydMajor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very wise!

  • @solsol4436
    @solsol4436 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really apprecate!

  • @napoleonokwumabaf8207
    @napoleonokwumabaf8207 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These fighting my family marine kingdom,arinze ezeanyache ,ifeanyi olele,delamb onyebuchi,onyebuchi onwuemelia,kenechukwu onwuemelia,chimezie initiated wigwe,souyum makenish,jemy nsuma,jalo,chinwe ajumobi,chinelo iwenofu,and kollie garwu,fire prayers.

  • @ursulaschlapbach311
    @ursulaschlapbach311 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly 😊

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    All conflict is with the self...........Others are a reflection of that conflict......everyone is you......being reflected back to you.......

  • @lettenseabraham3267
    @lettenseabraham3267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Listening is essential the best way to learn and understand how to solve problems. Thank for your gold advice.🙏🙏🙏

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure

  • @The_Illmatic_Mechanic
    @The_Illmatic_Mechanic 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Report to the CG's office....Uniform of the day.
    eye sir.

  • @WhiteBirdMustFly2
    @WhiteBirdMustFly2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What if all of this doesn’t work? If only agreeing with them, having empathy and you are left with blame and shame? I statements do not work because they are done, with their demands and leave you insulted, while they are unwilling to hear you?
    What if they respond with “I’m sorry, that You Feel That Way”. “I don’t want to talk about it any more”, as soon as they finish talking, and you would like to respond, but are cut off by their unwillingness to hear anything you would like to say, except that you agree with them about everything that they say… My therapist and best friend, say it’s toxic for you with her only allowing her children to mediate. Letting go will need to happen, so I left unpaid and unheard by her. I forgave and don’t feel bad. I feel freed. 😊

    • @faridahusna2163
      @faridahusna2163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You've broken my ribs😂😂😂

    • @WhiteBirdMustFly2
      @WhiteBirdMustFly2 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@faridahusna2163 ?

  • @DjBonds-ex3iv
    @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน

    CALM , CLARITY, LOVE, PEACE ☮️, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHY ❤❤❤❤❤4/16/2024
    🎧

  • @marym5526
    @marym5526 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks!

  • @rebeccagandi5258
    @rebeccagandi5258 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks to The Bible God's words. When adhere to God's the Bible only then we apply ourselves to all these Sayings .Thank for these words of Wisdom. God helped you. but Jesus is. the Greatest in all these . I kept studying God's Words The Bible Forever !!!!

  • @gwensdailyactivities6305
    @gwensdailyactivities6305 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish you provide more example. Like a video of how an argument is truly solved.

  • @whitelotus7475
    @whitelotus7475 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    In the war of ego the loser always win

    • @lovelocity28
      @lovelocity28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is different. My perspective says the person with the stronger sense of self/ego will win the battle but still be apologetic.

  • @clementkaiman6133
    @clementkaiman6133 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks ❤👍

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 😊

  • @eng.mwebazedenis
    @eng.mwebazedenis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😮 true advices

  • @markmann2521
    @markmann2521 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The first scenario (be a fly on the wall) is very powerful. When heated debates occur it can become surreal anyway, take it to your advantage, be the proverbial fly on the wall. Get out of your body ride above and observe the complete scene. Listen to what is being said and review what you had said. Many times it all seems pointless or even comical. You now have the upper hand. Keep calm and now slowly and calmly act. Time is playing tricks on you and trust it is in hyper speed. Pause and remember doing nothing is often the very most powerful response. You are your own hero or champion, do not become concerned about what your antagonistic opponent thinks, consider how you will respond and how it aligns with your higher self, respecting virtue. There are bystanders and you are now speculating on how they are judging you? You can start to hear their thoughts? NONSENSE it is all a nasty game in your head, years of pre programming defending your crazy illogical ego. Stay calm do nothing walk away, or do something you are compelled to do ONLY after you are fully convinced your actions are universally beneficial. This does not include vanity by looking better than the other/s. It does include clear headed analysis, like the derogatory letter you say on for a day then decided not to send. Moments of nervous intensity and anger will come and they are a good time to do nothing, why? Because you are not at your best. Please be well! MarkMannM2

  • @user-kk5ev2je5n
    @user-kk5ev2je5n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What is that? Who is my enemy? Google? Microsoft? Some A.I. mob? Dare I? It reminds me of winter soup a bit of everything but not really anything. I'm done learning, you win.

  • @levykhellyjacob1987
    @levykhellyjacob1987 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    _MY BEST WAYS TO FIGHT MY ENEMIES BACK ARE PRAYING THEM. THAT THEY WILL KNOW THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. AMEN. ONLY GOD HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE US ALL._

  • @DjBonds-ex3iv
    @DjBonds-ex3iv หลายเดือนก่อน

    SHARED VALUES IN RECOVERY IN TWELVE STEPS PROGRAMS

  • @calvarez519
    @calvarez519 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Points Covered:
    1. Delve into the depths of Your Adversary. (What, Why.)
    2. Choose Your Battles Wisely.
    (Use your time and energy wisely.)
    3. Speak with Calm and Clarity.
    (For Smarter Discourse.)
    4. Seek the Shared Path.
    5. Appeal to Their Inner Values.
    6. Using Humor Wisely in Conflict Resolution.
    7. Offer Empathy.
    8. Embrace the Art of Compromise.
    9. Seek External Aide Without Shame.
    10. Forgiveness.
    11. Growth From Ashes of Conflict.
    12. Setting Boundaries.
    13. Remember, You Control Your Reactions.
    End.

  • @user-kz1zx6eh6s
    @user-kz1zx6eh6s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Motivational uplifting

  • @Dukelanovic
    @Dukelanovic 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wht there might not mean that we do not need any conflict - we only have to learn to get along with it, for avoiding bigger conflicts.

  • @MrMinhduong
    @MrMinhduong 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As human nature, the opponent always want to win the disagreement and he will become hostile if he is insulted. I highly appreciate the lesson that rather than trying to win the disagreement, let's try to find a solution

  • @TheOceanMan-xc7qp
    @TheOceanMan-xc7qp 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i have found complete silence and becoming a ghost to them works best...you can't reason when they are crazy or clearly operating from another agenda

  • @wonderwoman8231
    @wonderwoman8231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nice video

  • @TheGreatStoicc
    @TheGreatStoicc หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing content bro!

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate it!

  • @johncooper9510
    @johncooper9510 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes works the same today. The king only had to tell the torch holders the pitchfork people want them.

  • @user-sx6xb5nq9l
    @user-sx6xb5nq9l หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly

  • @luluferraree9844
    @luluferraree9844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It really depends on situation. Sometimes you have to speak up and stand for yourself.

  • @carolinesmith8024
    @carolinesmith8024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ppl need to be told why let them get away wgen they kie and harm others ? Stand up for yourself in a bice way if it doesn't work call the law the protect us

  • @edzitha7157
    @edzitha7157 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do we have any book that shares this wisdom?

  • @cher4500
    @cher4500 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ask questions and thoroughly look over them. Ask again etc.. 👌🏼

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good idea!

  • @delorespeterson8251
    @delorespeterson8251 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

  • @dchoi2210
    @dchoi2210 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Will be good if you can give examples (both right and wrong) on each points so we can understand it.

  • @vero8496
    @vero8496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ Nice topic and so necessary. Can you please give examples? ❤

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, sure