My parents told my brother to TAKE my HOUSE because i DON'T have a FAMILY. Complete Story Part 1-3.
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- My parents told my brother to TAKE my HOUSE because i DON'T have a FAMILY. Complete Story Part 1-3.
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That alot of Bull you paid for it don't do it
I swear we need a movie of this, this was so worth 30 mins, I've never been so mad at strangers and so satisfied about an ending.
frl !! i wish i could rewatch it for the first time it was so good !!
I didn't even realize it was 30 minutes long from how invested I was in it🤣
Fr! So worth it
If this was a audiobook I would read it❤😂
Idk why but Andrew Garfield as the OP and Glen Powell as Dan just fit so much as casting for this story. 😂
Tbh this OP is just amazing. Like he didn’t blame the kids for their actions as it was their parents influence and didn’t shut down the rest of his family even the ones that didn’t side with him. Plus he straight up pulled himself up by his bootstraps. Just an amazing guy.
I feel bad for those kids, they’ll never get to know their amazing uncle, and will just be stuck with their entitled parents for the rest of their lives, how is that going to turn out? I almost think it would be better for OP to press charges put them in jail and take care of the kids on his own, but he shouldn’t be held responsible for that
@@C0smicTrash I have come up with a fool proof plan for these kind of situations: your parents can't betray you, if you don't have parents...
All around good guy. If I was him I wouldnt have this amount of patience.
@@C0smicTrash the kids or at least some of them will probably grow up to realize the reality behind the situation. Let's be honest, some of them are going to be the unloved child same as OP was so those will have a reality check soon enough. These kids who will see reality will probably try to reconnect with OP, if they won't be too embarrassed to and OP, as the amazing person he seems to be will be the best fucking uncle they could ever wish for.
pretty much all these stories are fake 90% chance this guy isnt real
Honestly I would have pressed every charge I could against them.
All of there kids would’ve gone to foster care where any number of terrible things could happen to them.
If they didn’t have kids, I’d make their lives a living hellhole. No one fucks around with me and I mean NO ONE
@@StrawberrykoalThose kids cannot be that better off with parents like these two showed in the video.
@@StrawberrykoalIn all honesty, they might have ended up with better parents than the ones they have considering the context💀 But you still got a point.
@@Ethan-ft3eh that’s not true, the world is an old sugar and rainbows, they could get abused in any number of ways by some sick weirdo, they could even be left starve.
I love that the camper is in his garden like a trophy of sorts, so he can see how far he's come and how deseving his is of this house he worked so hard for.
He's a great person. Even if he's hurt physically, verbally, emotionally, he considers his brother's kids to not file a case. Everyone fantasizes that if they were in that situation but it's incredibly selfless. Proud of this man for working hard for where he is now, sacrificing his comfort just to live, constantly doing everything he can to survive. It's hard as hell especially not getting any help from that bad family but you did it bro. Kudos!
This man must be some kind of saint. I don’t understand how you leave this situation without 4 murder charges.
4 shallow graves and a solid alibi is how.
It being a fake story is how.
@@Stormsong93just remember that there is a story that posted in reddit and then suddenly became true because it's really is. A husband telling his side in Reddit and someone show his post even though it's anonymous, the story telling it it's her. She killed their children to avoid custody I think. It in the news.
@@schyracollbrande1900 melt my brain
The kids of OP's Brother was probably the reason why.
Even if this story is fake I wouldn't even be mad because of how satisfying and entertaining this is, good on you OP.
Definitely feels fake but I agree.
Of course it's fake
@@tomj1676 Probably but who cares about that, it's still pretty well written.
@@ichthyic yeah the ending is to perfect. I would say its fake aswell. Which doesnt mean there arent parents like this out there
Eh, it's not fake considering OP written more in the comments section too.
the cop threatening to charge the SIL for littering is such a god damn hilarious moment in an all around heart-wrenching story
I don't think he's gonna have a hadr time finding love. This guy is hard working and merciful to people who weren't one bit merciful to him. He's a real man.
However, there's no rest for the weary..
@dickhanes7094 He did pull himself up by the bootstraps and stood his ground; can't blame him for being disrespected as a child.
@dickhanes7094real men don’t go around saying “real men…” and judging other men for simply having human emotions and reactions.
He did say that he likely wouldn't be as merciful the next time he goes through shit like that, so you'll never know
@dickhanes7094That's some macho airhead bullshit if I've ever herd some. The only people I know who say stuff like this are total losers and several have been to jail because they felt like they were not being eespected enough and resorted to violence.
"for the sake of Dan's kids"
As a person who's grown in a house of abuse and negligence... how could the OP possibly believe the cycle would stop.. those kids are just going to experience the same thing. Those kids would benefit from being separated for those pieces of shits
No there is a problem here. I forgot what this diagnosis is. But likelihood is the four kids will come out equally love. Now properly raise is debatable. This happens a lot to parents who have a child unintentionally that cause them misfortune so they start to hate on the kid. The hate comes a strong bond between other family members so they keep on doing it. The fact they can feel embarrassment means they have empathy just not for him. Its weird
My guy CONQUERED THE WORLD. Not only did he defeat his terrible family beyond repair, he got a new job and his own home. The difficulty of navigating through this must of been massive, and I doubt that many could even pull this off. This is a man I salute to, and I hope his life is only getting better from here.
He had no other way but up but my god, that climb was impressive. Just imagining how many hours he clocked and being on call at all times. That was dedication. Just imagining myself doing that is making me sweat. And I'm not in his position of having lived in a camper. Good for him though. He had a worse than indifferent family, he had an entitled one and he stood up for himself. Honestly, they don't even deserve the right to communicate with him anymore. They're just tactless strangers in my opinion.
The jump of joy at 17:25 was the best part
The 2 cops need a raise
Like really
This guy has my respect. He thought of the kids. Almost no one thinks of the kids. I really think that if he did though, the kids might have a chance. They deserve better parents.
If he actually thought of the kids he would’ve got them arrested or cps probably turn out better
@@emeraldbonsaiif you think hardly about it. Getting the cops involved in those kids life is a gamble. Like your rolling dice. If you get lucky. They get adopted and taken from the parents. If you get unlucky. The kids woul just rot away. ( althoygh if the rest of the familly aka the uncle n stuff were to try to take custody of the kids ot would be better)
I only worry that the kids are probably going to be raised the same way by the family, one that gets everything and the rest left to their own
Yeah, the only people being rude in these are the parents. The children didn’t do anything, they don’t know anything yet
This is fake
This story is bittersweet. If the cards were stacked this much against you and you kept your head up and kept pushing through, imagine the satisfaction this man must feel when he shares what he built up with a woman he loves and starts a family in that house. You are an inspiration man! You found yourself going through hell and kept going.
This story is a work of fiction lol.
@@boobyslater9390 don’t tell me that xD
@@boobyslater9390truly sounds like it
@@boobyslater9390i don't think so..
You don't think a lot of the time, I bet.@@faridwiser5441
They assaulted him, harassed him, trespassed, destroyed property, committed fraud, threatened him, bribed him, and maybe even neglected him when he was a kid. Definitely enough to get them a good few years in jail
I did some research and calculations, their crimes above if he were to press charges would amount to 10+ years minimum, maximum 20+ years to life depending on the court's decision, and how good the defending lawyer is at his job.
Not to mention they probably stalked him
@@tannerplayz2209 It won't even depend if he had a good lawyer or not. He has all the evidence which could easily get him, his wife, Family and his kids arrested in a snap.
Few years only? I would charge them to life for what they have done to him
@@spiraltreptune true, very true
"If a tree falls and no one is around to hear it, will it still complain?"
I love this line.
Another update:
This will not surprise some people who commented on my previous posts, because my parents did some of the exact things they said they would. Which was wanting either my money, or my signature. I did expect the classic lines of narcissists saying that I owed them, or give me some kind of socialist BS of sharing the wealth. But that was just my imagination running wild. The ensuing situation was somewhat similar to that. But much more tame, I guess you could say. They seem to know not to push me too far now. And were mostly aiming for pity.
It began when my parents recently got in touch with me through social media, and asked for a meeting in a public place of my choosing. It just screamed trap. But I wasn't afraid. In fact, I was amused. They know I'm not to be fucked with anymore. So I could only wonder what they wanted this time. I picked a local restaurant that may have a name of an olive and a garden in it, and we met up there. Dan was with them. But he kept his mouth shut, most of the time...
We had awkward greetings, ordered some drinks, and then cut to the chase. My parents begged me to help Dan get his own apartment so he could finally move out. Apparently, Dan's credit isn't so great. Gee, I wonder why? Could it be his wife regularly spends him into a hole? Well they asked that I help by either supplying some capital, or by cosigning for the apartment and helping to pay the rent for it. I simply said no to both. That's when Dan spoke up in anger and yelled at me that I have so much, and I don't have a family to support like he does. He needed my help, and I should be sparing the money for his family since I don't have one myself. I laughed and asked where they were when I needed their help. Of that's right. They were pointing and laughing at me for being homeless. Or should we go further back to my childhood. I'd love to delve into that with plenty of ears to listen in around us. My mother grabbed my hand and begged me not to speak of any of it. My father and Dan both just looked away and said nothing. Pretty sure they wanted to say something like they used to at me, but held their tongues.
I asked them if they thought I was rich or something. And their looks said it all. And when I told them I don't have that kind of money, they looked at me like deer in headlights. I broke it down about how much I'd managed to save for the down payment on my house, and the way I had to live and work in order to save that much so fast. And then how I spent nearly all of it on the down-payment of my house. I'm still in financial recovery. I did have monthly income to spare, yes. But most of it was going right into my savings. I asked Dan what his yearly salary was, and when he told me, I pointed out that it was actually a bit higher than mine. I then loosely broke things down in rough math in front of my parents on how about 70% of my income goes to my mortgage, insurance, gasoline, internet, phone, food, and other bills. And then there's maybe 30% of that left at most that I can put into savings. And I need that money saved get back on my feet in time. And I have to make sure I have savings to fall back on. My truck is from the 90s. If it were to break down, I'd need money to either fix or replace it. And there's other things one would need a rainy day fund for, like home repairs, doctors, taxes, lawyers, or anything in general you'd need quick cash for when it's a sudden unexpected expense. So, as you can see, I just can't spare money for Dan. And I also refuse to cosign for anything as that would leave me on the hook for any bill Dan couldn't or wouldn't pay. Then I pointed out that, that's likely why my parents didn't cosign for Dan's apartment themselves long ago. And my mother just started crying again.
I was pretty much one step ahead of them in all of this. I'm not an ATM, and I'm not a fool. And I stated that right to their faces. I expected my father to become angry with me like he always does. But this time he just, well...didn't. I've known this man to explode on me for the slightest provocation of not enabling my brother all of my life. But this time he just didn't do that. There wasn't even a sneer on his face. The only way I could describe the look he had was regret and defeat. Maybe regret for being a shitty parent. Or maybe regret because he can't bully me around anymore. Who knows.
Either way my parents couldn't really argue with me, and I wasn't about to give them any money. Dan just got up and said this was all just a waste of their time, and that he was leaving. My mother started apologizing for him, but Dan still wanted to leave. Then just to kill with kindness I offered to buy them a round of unlimited soup and salad while we were all there. I guess they couldn't turn down free food since we hadn't ordered anything but drinks yet, and they stayed. I went out of my way to talk about anything other than money. Dan remained quiet, and was either eating his food or looking at his phone. But my parents just awkwardly talked with me. They brought up that they've recently joined a local Christian church. And that they'd already been going for the last two weeks. I said "Good for them", and they of course started trying to advertise that they'd like me to go too. I simply said no thanks, and they were smart enough not to push further.
When the meal was finished, Dan left a $10 on the table for the tip and walked off without saying another word to me or anyone. My mother just excused his behavior and we all parted ways. That was about it. Not nearly as much drama as I though there'd be. But this is still far better than how things used to be with my parents and brother.
As for SIL. Well she's been regularly complaining online about my parents. She really doesn't seem to like the fact that she's not queen bee of their house. And I think her toxic is finally getting to them. Why else would they be so desperate to come crawling back to me. SIL actually wants my parents to move into a camper like I had to do in order to make space in the house. And she's being told "No!" every time. She does seem to have a following of Karen minded people like her though. Because here and there I get messaged by someone I don't know, that are intent on raging at me for not giving up my house for SIL. I don't bother to argue with these people anymore. I just block and move on. Though there was one persistent troll who had my phone number. And they call from a different number every time. Yes, it seems to be the same person who called me to say I need to make way for a real family man like Dan. But I could care less. The calls though, seemed to have slowed down, if not maybe stopped. Because I made it clear to that person that they were only amusing me by keeping this up so long. The last time they called was around the beginning of the month. And it's been silence from them since then.
Aye mate! Would you be as kind to provide a link to the post, please?
Thanks for the update. Can't wait to hear the one where OP finds a lady friend 😏
Clear gigachad energy despite not being a real story
@@jakubekgraniei don’t think it’s possible as TH-camr has some kind of filter that now removes links from the comments section, probably due to bots that kept spamming links. It even removes usernames or certain names as I tried it myself when I tried to give someone’s Twitter name on TH-cam.
Link to the original post? And ty for sharing an update
I thinks we can all agree his parents, brother and SIL are despicable human and that MC was way more humans than most of us would have been in the same situation.
I got so happy when he started describing his Christmas Eve and I am happy to believe that the next one will be the same without the assholes
Well they showed up on Christmas in the video lol.
@@Telltales. that’s why I said the next one
nah i disagree.
@@notnilc2107 they have no reason to insist tho
@@Telltales. I have come up with a fool proof plan for these kind of situations: your parents can't betray you, if you don't have parents...
i was litterally shaking with the amount of anger the brothers family gave me. its a miracle how the op was still able to think straight and not press charges all for the kids sake.
I feel like he got used to it over the years and put his foot down after learning how a family should be.
“You’ve denied us a home because you’re too selfish to share and help out family.” We have word for that Dan; Hypocrite. Classic Narcissist.
This story made me fall in love with this man as much as his relatives did at Christmas.
Good god he’s a champ. He actually stood up for himself and called everyone out on their BS. He got the whole family on his side, he did everything right, he made posts first, he recorded, he thought of the kids, he called them out infront of officers. He tore SIL a new one, his parents and his brother.
Get this man a girlfriend, a good job and a dog and a camping he deserves it. Hope he’s living his best life now.
me says how could it be worth it to watch 31 minutes of a reddit story
👁️ 👄 👁️
me, proceeds to watch the entire thing
I WAS SO ENGROSSED I DIDNT EVEN REALISE IT WAS THAT LONG😭
Also I love ur user
@@strwbrryriki thanks! :D
I'm blind and it's the only way I can use Reddit since Reddit changed how visually impaired can get use 3rd party apps. Eff Reddit.
@@missustoad1I used to scroll Reddit all day with Reddit is fun app and engage on communities alots. Now I even uninstall their official app.
Makes people realize just how lucky their childhood/early adulthood was.
This makes me feel more normal, hearing somebody else who also has problems with their parents
Feels weird I’m so use to living poor that whenever we gain a lot of money people just say I should be grateful when I feel nothing for money it’s just a tool to me not making my life better, but fine I will suck it up I will feel lucky I get to live easy with toxic stereotypical parents
Unless you were this kid in your family...
@Scr33chsame man. I have younger brother who I have a very strong relationship to and kind and supportive parents who treat us both equally well, no favourites. It’s sad to know that there are people like op who have families who don’t support them and have their backs in their time of need. I feel truly blessed to have the family I have.
Not me tbh, I was always punished and had little freedom as a kid. Adulthood is my chance to experiment and be childish.
just said to myself i would only watch part of it but sat here for 30 mins watching this lol🤣
Same, it was actually pretty relaxing for me. I don't know man, the story where the bad guys (or should I say bad people) with the combination of relaxing music and Minecraft gameplay just made me relax.
Mihajlo Bogdanović
Here I am too. Lol
Same i was like this is to long but ended up watching it anyway 😂
His Boss was the Real Man. He supported him in his worst days.
I seriously don't get how parents can be so blantly biased towards one child and straight up ruin another. I get that some children may be better in looks , skills and other fields that other but straight up treating them this shitty is seriously messed up
Narcissistic family dynamic. Sounds like one or both of the parents had NPD. If there is a parent with NPD a golden child and scapegoat child dynamic is always formed. I was a scapegoat child in a narcissistic family dynamic, it's soul crushing. I'm really impressed and glad OP was able to pull out of it and make something of himself. It's really hard to recover from that level of narcissistic abuse.
@Sceth that and they weren't human. Sometimes unfortunately human kids get raised by things that shouldn't be around any people
seeing people like this make me lose faith in humanity... like knowing my petty ass, they would've all been locked up kids or not. Charges pressed
NGL if that were me I'd do the same
@@_Bezuga_4269 I like it up the butt
great minds think alike
On the other hand, the OP is an amazing individual who restores my faith in humanity
@@supernerd4623 you fit the name
He should press charges, as much as it sucks for the children they really shouldn't be raised to believe the same things their parents do, that they are perfect and deserve all good things
Their seven year old already is.
@@happilyevernever4289I guess it’s not too late to put up for adoption
@@happilyevernever4289 to the orphanage they go!😂
@@Ezme666you done them petty 😂
@@Ezme666Thats worse than being raised by their terrible parents.
That was so sad but wholesome at once. OP has te be one of the nicest most down tonearth guys you could ever meet. Hopefully he will be blessed with a lovely caring wife and be a good father as bad as his parents were to his children.
Those kids probably don’t have bright futures to begin with when they have parents like that.
This dude is a fucking Saint, he didn’t sue after all that because of the kids, well done.
I’m not sure i would’ve been able to restraint myself after all that.
I really hope OP gets to go camping with future family in that same camper where he can tell stories to his children about his crazy experiences while he was younger.
Or he just wont have kid and Still Tell the story to Friend at parties we dont know , maybe he doesn't want kid
@@pixazelz he did say he going into the dating scene cause he's not getting any younger
And he is in no rush for marriage, us guys don't really have a timer for marriage compared to girls, most guys in their 20s work on their status so when they are like in their early 30s, they are wealthy or have a mortgage for their house, it doesn't mean you can't do it in your 20s, but the majority does the former
@@user-qc8ms5wj1w Still doesn't mean he want kids . Less and less people want kids nowadays my boyfriend and I chose to never have a biological child and if we ever get a kid IT would be adopted. We think about helping others and since so many kids need loving family and There is so many people on Earth anyway.we want to be available for the children's that need help :)
It is terrifying that op’s family was able to do as much as they did. I am glad op got support from the rest of the family and things were looking up.
the way those numbers would be blocked, chargers pressed, hand thrown if that was me.
"Do it for Dan" this is so frustrating. This story fills me with rage!
Brother: "Give me your house because I have kids and you don't."
OP: "I didn't have them arrested because they have kids."
If the same logic didn't apply the first time, it shouldn't give them a get out of jail fee card, either.
This has to be one of the most infuriating Reddit story I've ever heard. Jesus fucking Christ. And one of the most believable as well, as the "repeat the nonsense until it makes sense" is something I've witnessed several times in my life (just do it for Dan).
I wouldn't have pressed charges but after they BROKE IN my fucking house I'd hire a lawyer and send them a formal letter and also getting a restraining order. In the letter I'd warn them that if I even saw any of them across my street I'd instantly press all the charges I could and their kids would go to foster home never to be heard of again.
Extremely sad that some people have to deal with parents like that. At these times, I thank God to be an only child.
I would get a DNA test and see if he matches with his dad. I can't see any other reason why he is treated so differently than his brother.
Some parents are just bad parents.
You are wrong. Badly.
This man is the epitome of "The best revenge just to live a good life."
I love how this guy acknowledges his mistakes and takes responsibility for the tiny bad things he does that anyone would let slide.
I feel satisfied knowing that OP had a happy ending and has his own house. It’s hard enough to get one and he had to defend it himself ! He is a great guy !
The main mistake the OP made was not immediately making a police report on the first occasion the parents, brother, and SIL showed up and barged into OP’s house. That would have made it easier to arrest them for trespassing on any repeat episodes.
This man is an example of discipline and sheer dedication. He went from rock bottom to very stable
So they wouldn’t let op live with them when he came upon hard times and then suddenly expected him to give up his house. The sheer fucking audacity of these people.
This guy deserves the world, I've never felt more sadness hearing a story.
My thing is
Who said they needed to have 4 kids when there was barely space for a few.
People can choose how large their family is but if you know you have limited resources and you don’t get paid enough or have decent credit to get a place of your own then why set yourself up like that and feel entitled to ppl (even if it’s family) giving up a HOUSE for your comfort ????
They clearly just wanted to take their anger out onto the OP and it’s very sad
yessss bro upload videos like this, not parts
Will do!
30 minutes worth of pure anger and later on satisfactory. best story channel imo
At any point they could’ve started a process of getting their own house. The parents could’ve even co-signed on a loan for them if they really needed their own house.
Even the vile parents knew that Dan was an entitled spoiled brat (that they had raised) and that Dan would renege on paying the rent and bills and the parents would be stuck paying them by co-signing. But of course they had no problem trying to stiff their scapegoat son with Dan's rent and bills. What a couple scumbags.
Bruh respect to that damn uncle he takes shit from no one and understands if u fuck up ur honour ur done
OP's brother : you dont have a wife or kids.
OP : And you dont have a house. what your point?
Id call CPS and tell them that their parents took them while they broke and entered into a house.
And bro "never been camping"? 2 years definitely qualifies
Nahhhh the fact that the MC thought about the children, made me have respect for him
Yeah, because f**k them kids... You can tell they are being raised as entitled brats... I hope when he does find a wife, she creates a mountain of envy from SIL, just to make her regret not using her wasted degree.
Goddamn, this is just absolutely insane, id have gottwn a restraining order long ago, and they all would have been staring down the barrel of one of my firearms if they tried to pull any of that shit. But this dude handled this situation with far more poise and grace than i could even fathom, well done.
I think it was sad how the dad was barely mentioned in this video but he felt defeated like he actually knew what he did and there was nothing he could do about it anymore so he spent the rest of his days with assholes and noisy children
The way my hands shook with -RAGE- as i listened to this! I wanted to punch something SO BAD! OP should’ve pressed every charge there was. Those kids are gonna grow up just as twisted as the parents. Maybe if Dan and SIL were jailed and grandparents had to take over care they’d understand what narcissistic toddlers they housed (obvs not the actual kids)
I feel so damn bad for the kids. Especially because they might be brought up hating OP but he had put the first and maybe saved/salvaged there life.
I'm glad OP can live peacefully now. Hwo heartbreaking to be treated to awfully by your own parents. Much love and success to OP
The SIL is the real problem to be honest. The brother is basically programmed by favoritism to never stand up to his parents in exchange for getting their support and he's programmed not to go against his wife in exchange for pu*sy. You let this happen long enough and your brain rewires itself. His behavior isn't strange to him. I'm not saying he is a victim, but he is a weak minded individual, who at least provides for his family when not trying to steal the property of others.
His wife on the other hand, is the one who can actually do something about their situation. If she wasn't spending man's money and worked herself, they would get everything they wanted to steal.
This is why favoritism parenting is the worst then you could imagine. because loving your child more than your second child it's a crime
Imagine trying to push your son out of his house so that their other son can live in it, but when the son asked to get a camper so that parents can live in it and they have whole house they say “no one can push out of our home”😂
the audacity of the brother being like oh yeah you can live in the camper and we’ll live in the main house but you cant come in whenever you want and there’ll be a curfew LIKE WHAT
edit: all while not offering rent nonetheless
I have a feeling if OP ever goes into writing he would be a best seller. He constructed the his sorry well regardless of it being true or not. I could tell a true story and it would sound either like a lie or it’s the most truthful thing on earth and there is no in between. Fiction or nonfiction needs a constructive way of telling events. OP is amazing at telling details in pretty few words
This dude has god level patient and calmness, normal people would be already calling the cops and press every charge possible halfway through all of that.
Respect to you man, your like a Phoenix that rise from the ashes.
You start from zero and you had so many enemies but now you have a completely new life and friends.
The fact that despite all the bad they did to him he still didn’t press charges on them to protect them because he is a good person.
"Do it for Dan"
Me: F* YOU DAN!
Also i been the day OP give the last 2 updates (this story also has a 4th part). I recommend OP on both to never let his SIL to meet him alone since she is very unhinge, and we knows police tend to believe a woman without any proof in many cases.
Part 4 is his parents trying him to co-sign a thing for Dan, but the parents learn not only Dan was the bad horse they bet, but also he does MORE than OP but is spend on his 4 kids and wife, since OP said: "if he didn't breed like rabbit and his lazy wife didn't expend to much money or get a job, he would possibly afford the house himself". Since OP literally invest in the house but still had to pay mortgage too and is him alone in this case. The parent falls into the realization OP's finance was even more stable than Dan in a smart sense. They literally had to now cope with the fact Dan's pride and their pride stuck them with 4 kids and a lazy entitled DIL too.
This is probably one of the best Reddit stories I’ve had the privilege to listen to! I’m so glad that the op came out of this with their head held high and their best foot forward! They done well and I wish them luck!
Dan has some nerve to try and steal the house, despite having a better job than OP.
It's about damn time someone finally sticks up for themselves! I'm SO glad!
The family standing up in the end is the best part i almost cried
I’m worried for their kids to be honest. A lot of kids with parents like these turn out two ways. A, carbon copy’s of their parents. Or B, completely hate their parents. Depends on what influences they end up having.
The oldest 7 year old child has already been brainwashed by his mother into thinking his uncle is the "bad man" that makes his mommy cry all the time, not knowing that it's actually mommy that's the manipulative b*tch that tried to steal the "bad mans" house. He and the other children are in for a long, rough and painful upbringing with parents like that.
@@abbiereynolds8016 Poor kid. The fact that this happens as often as it does makes me sick.
send the parents to a care home, BAM! you got your own house.
Truly a selfless human being. He thought about innocent kids over revenge against their horrible parents. We could all learn from him.
OP has great character. Anyone wouldn’t have given af and just threw lawsuits left and right but he knew the kids would be without a provider and they’re innocent in all of this.
OP handled it well, it's surprising that this is even rare. That's why the cops stuck around. Squatters stealing homes is a real problem.
But he's amazing for taking the time and fixing his financial situation. It's not as easy as it sounds, it's emotionally stifling and it takes a lot of inner motivation to keep pushing even when you don't have a shower. Good job! I wish more people had a fighting chance and didn't just lose themselves to addiction.
This whole story can turn into a movie . A movie with a satisfying ending .
Congratulations to this guy. This is how serial killers are made and he’s moved on from the past and is building a future for himself.
I think we all should take a moment to realize that his boss was actually the best not only did he let him park his camper in the company parking he let him charge the camper using the companies electricity and use the bathrooms in the warehouse I don't think many bosses would do this for a employee
This is actually happened to my mom but different kind of properties part. My aunt is favorite of my grandpa. Long time ago my grandpa got to loan from bank by using family land. My mother is the one who has best job among her siblings. She paid everything and land was finally free. My mother said by paying this,she intended to buy from her dad(my grandpa). Turns out, he secretly transferred the land to his fav daughter (my aunt). My mother still not forgive anyone and wait to get everything back. At least give my mom's money since she work her ass off for everything.
I cried listening to this. Way to go to him. Hope things keep going smoothly for him.
I think I might have some hidden trauma.
When the story got to the parts with the police and everyone arguing I started to tremble and have a mini panic attack. I can’t remember my childhood, but my grandparents(who raised me since I was a baby) told me that a lot of messed up stuff to do with bullying and my parents happened to me when I was younger. So that’s probably why.
This story had me so engrossed that I didn’t even realise I’d watched a half an hour long story. Lol
This dude seems chill despite everything he’s been through
This man is inspiring. His story speaks of perseverance, maturity, with enough generosity to fill the hearts of many who hear his story. May the rest of his life be filled with joy and peace!
This man sound like a really good guy, I hope he gets all the best in life. He deserves it.
Wow... The AI voice and the words this guy uses are so calming that I didn't even realize it was a 30 minute long video...
While most people would make fun of people with no partners, they also immensely envy the freedom and flexibility of a single life.
But truly, this would nearly have been my story if I hadn't cut ties over 8 years ago. 'Family' is overrated.
Perhaps the real family is the frienda along the way,
Unfilial parents is a thing and family is more often than not does not involve blood relation.
@@fltfathin I agree 👍🏻
All the blessings in this world to this man who just stayed Strong and never gave an inch
How can a person be this sweet after so many hits in his life🥲🥲🥺🥺this man deserves the world ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I remember reading this story and all its updates. Felt so happy seeing how it ended and how he managed to get his life together on his own after they tried to make him PAY to live at the home he grew up in
Ive never met this guy, but actions speak louder than words he’s a good hearted man hardworking and has been through the mill he more then definitely deserves what he has and I hope the future is going to be good for guys like this
I feel bad for those kids.
And it seems cruel to not call cps on them
No child deserves a life with entitled parents.
Especially extremely narcissistic ones who've already made a 7 year old think so badly of this good guy and think it's acceptable to try to assault him after they all break into his house for THIRD time
Bet Sil is obsessed with that guy also hope this continues and there be a nice update about his dating life
I'm sitting here wondering if any of this is actually real and it's not because I doubt the storyteller it's because this is absolutely f*cking ridiculous, most of the video I'm sitting here thinking 'these are actual real life event' and no matter how many times I think that to myself it just keeps getting more unbelievably absurd
The only reason why we can’t believe it is because it’s too harsh and wrong.. but the thing is, real stuff happens like this in real life, just never said 😢
This story is real it was based of another story and is probably the same story with a few changes reposted
I have no words for Op how good person he was. Well deserved everything he earn now he deserved it and no one can take it away.
I seriously commend this guy's patience and endurance. Like if ir was me i would have pressed charges at the first time they barged into the house without notice for trespassing.
I'm so, so glad OP didn't give in! Narcissism has no cure. I hope they don't ever come back to bother him.
I'm so glad he was able to move on to find a place of his own, make great friends, and start being happy.
Moral of the story is dont let miserable people make you miserable.
Im so glad this had a happy ending. And im glad that he is doing better with himself, i hope all goes good for him.