My Stepfather Destroyed My Life Cos He Thinks Step Bro Deserves My Fiancée More Than I Do...
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- My Stepfather Destroyed My Life Cos He Thinks Step Bro Deserves My Fiancée More Than I Do...
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I love how mid story, he starts referring to his step brother as brother. real MVP of this story !
Yeah I noticed that. Really loved that detail
He's Real one
I noticed that as well.
Omg I was just about to comment that, it was so heartwarming😊
Nah the uncle is the real mvp
The stepbrother is a real one for outing his own dad. He's good people to have around. The step-dad on the other hand can kick rocks under a fast moving river.
He did what was right rather than picking a side. That man being his father is a disgrace to him.
Good person* but most definitely bro gave op back his relationship, a mother and all the family support he lost. Mvp fr
@@pasindudinusha6507step dad was the bad apple, had a good mother and an amazing son despite being so terrible himself
I love how people from bad homes can become great people. The step brother has a sick, manipulative father, but after realising that his dad was being selfish, tried to fix his relationship with his step brother and fix the family, absolute G.
For real. Reading the title I thought the stepbrother would be an asshole, but he was even willing to pay the girl again to tell the truth. That's not just a real one, that is an absolute legend! I mean, it should be expected, but with all these horror stories, this is a nice change. What a good guy.
I don’t know what’s worse: disownment due to no evidence or falsified evidence. Either way, this family needs to do some damage control.
i saw a video elsewhere about this... The stepdad is such a goddang moron...
No amount of damage control can fix this
Nah its over
Well tbf…they didnt know false evidence was false and thought it was real. Which would be evidence in that situation. They went out of there way to make it seem like he cheated and made it pretty believable esp if your in an emotional state like that.
He's a doormat for reconciling with all of them. The lack of self respect is outstanding. I get the forgiveness for his peace, but that doesn't mean they have to be part of his life anymore and not after that betrayal
MVP award goes to the Brother. He went above and BEYOND to try and fix this.
agreed
Honestly he’s actually a good person maybe it’s because of these stories but I seem to have developed a negative impression of step family. As for the step dad hope he has a will ready because had I learned that I’d be the one waiting for him and it would not be pretty for the guy.
When a married man that goes on tinder dates tells you you're not man enough for your woman...
Clearly, i hate those fake man that talks about being manly but has no honor
He's such a loser, lol
Lying to break his gf and him already branded him dishonorable. Going on tinder solidified it.
@@revresbo101 The only consistent thing about him is that he's full of it.
I had a friend in Highschool who was falsely accused of rape he was 18 and she was 16. His whole family disowned him. He spend 3 months in jail waiting for the trail day, because he was 18 no money and couldn't make bail. During the trail she confessed to making it up, so her super religious family wouldn't be mad she wasn't a virgin. Side note for the girl her family is very extreme they disowned one of there kids for coming out gay. So I can feel for her a little bit. Long story short he was found innocent, charges dropped, record cleared. He got his GED and went into the military, never talked to his family or saw that town again. Nothing hurts more then your own family and friends turning on you.
Good for him.
Good luck to this man
Are you still in contact?
@@dolphinlover25 I saw him a few years after everything had happened. He was in the Army still and was passing through to go visit his new girlfriend's family. We just happened to run into each other. We exchanged numbers, but really didn't have much in common anymore except old school stories. Hadn't seen or talk to the guy in 10 years.
Idk man, I don’t know that I would feel sorry for her if her not being a virgin was her own choice. Like, she obviously knew how her family might react, lost the v anyways (not that anything’s wrong with that if it was her choice) got scared and blamed an innocent guy? It was her choice to lose her virginity, it wasn’t his to go to jail or get disowned.
Edit: not* being a virgin
@@lisal8568 she probably thought she could hide it but her parents found out. Shes def in the wrong, and usually false accusations can be discerned from actual incidents by checking out the family situation. Very often false accusations come as a result of extremely shitty parents.
Shes def in the wrong but to the girl it was likely her trying to gain some freedom from a stifling life and then trying to blame someone else so she isn’t disowned. Its terrible but its an unfortunate situation all around.
I think if this were me, I'd probably have to go to prison for what I'd do to the step-dad. And I most certainly would never forgive the mom or the girlfriend. The brother seems like a cool guy though.
Why wouldn’t you forgive the mom and ex
@@lilliana9827 The mom for marrying the bastard in the first place and also disowning her own son at his behest, and the girlfriend for refusing to even let him defend himself and dating the brother.
If I was him, I WOULD NEVER FORGIVE THAT EX🤢
Putting so much efforts into relationship just to end up her blindly believing a random girl that text her😟 *JUST NO, NOT AT ALL💔*
Also, it goes both ways. I will never have belived "a random guy" making stuff up(maybe she is acting distance without any vaild reason or the date and time match up her going somewhere out of blue still would talk to her and hear her out 1st)
The point is if you want to be happy have to forgive them , that doesn't mean the relationship go as back as before the shit show, but would still help you move forward
@@mirkostefani6327 Forgiveness doesn't always equal happiness and you can still move on without letting someone off the hook for ruining your life. Plus, he didn't just forgive them. He tried to reconnect with them.
His girlfriend does not deserve him. Not because he is the greatest guy alive, but because she failed him as a partner and human being. Instead of hearing him out and trying to believe him, she sided with people who had no business in that relationship whatsoever. He clearly was willing to do whatever it takes to prove that he hadn't done any wrong, just to be broken up with, dismissed and disowned. wow
Didn't he say she is his first girlfriend? That means she is also his only girlfriend. He should have dated someone else.
@@pasindudinusha6507hard to emotionally trust anyone for awhile after that methinks
The issue is, we're able to side with the OP because we "know" he's innocent. Not like there aren't cheaters out there that pretend to love their partners and then cheat and lie. On top of that the step father provided doctored evidence to back up his claim. Something most others would have believed in as well.
So from her perspective, you can't blame her.
But from the OP's perspective, you can and should.
@@Thialasyes, I can totally blame her from her perspective
I wouldn't go as far to say she doesn't deserve him but it is bad that she didn't even try to listen to his side. I could excuse the immediate reaction as emotions were high and fresh but after a week or so she should of at least heard him out. The fact he immediately offered his phone too as that is the compete opposite reaction of a cheater
She didn't believe him when it mattered. She didn't even listen.
SHe was manipulated, in shock and the higher loves brings you the higher the fall is.
@@tomjoad1363she didn't even listen to him. She didn't even hear his side.
I'm not gonna lie, I would have probably ended up in an big orange jumpsuit after discovering the truth
Good for you. I would have ended up in a chair. One that Is *shockingly* terrifying
@@gachax5703DAMN THAT WAS A GOOD ONE!
Why did i think you wanted to start cooking meth??
@@sniglissnail3544 lol
@@sniglissnail3544 *Breaking Bad intensifies*
I hate it when the family only believes one side and doesn’t even hear our son/fiancée
the reason is because they think if they listen they might accidentally let themselves be swayed by a liar. Which is damned ironic.
The problem is that is shows that's all the relationship was worth to them. They didn't trust OP enough to listen to him. I would find it hard to want to talk to any of them again.
@@sanddagger36also you gotta remember we don’t know how extensive the texts were and how long he was gaslighting the mom and gf.
@epichungering9648 just like us, OP knows nothing except that they didn't listen to someone who deserved at least that much. So even if you can argue they had a reason, OP can argue they also have a reason for never trusting them again.
Definitely a new twist in the "was framed and my brother stole my wife" genre.
First time I see someone admit it.
That seems to be a disturbingly common theme.
"Was framed and my brother didn't steal my wife..." heh!
@@RustedGreatBascinetfamilies are fucked up 🤷
That man's got SOME guts to tell a dude from the MILITARY to man up 💀
Brother is a definite W, I don't really blame anyone besides the step father, love and connection is something that sticks with you and it sounded like no one was really over what happened.
Overall a good ending
Bruh the mum and ex do deserve some blame. They blindly believed the dad with no evidence
@@user-mp8qg5tb5e they did have evidence (tho not real) but the girl was paid 1000$ to say all that shit so they had the call and i guess some messages
@@user-mp8qg5tb5e there was evidence, just faked.
@@user-mp8qg5tb5ehe said there were fake texts and screenshots so it's pretty believable especially with how much people cheat in the US
@@camograzer2252??? Thats not how trust works
That Stepbrother is a damn champ.
Few people would turn on their family to do the right thing.
that stepbro: 🍷🗿
@@pastamasta0000
-STEP- BRO
It's sweet how by the last update, he referred to his stepbrother as his brother
I heard this one before. I wouldn't have gotten back with her or forgive any of them.
That’s easier said than done… being in that situation is a wholly different then just imagining it.
I share your sentiment on the matter… but execution of it would be improbable for most.
They will never forget it, and though people can say they forgive each other, the reality is that the hurt will always be there, tinging your interactions with them, playing in the back of your mind.
@@62syi would actually propose her for another time and rught before the wedding show her some forged conversation between her and some dude and cancel the wedding without hearing her side of story
Yeah that relationship is poisoned better to start something new and just keep things ended. My mom deciding to disown me over (allegedly) cheating on a fiance I couldn't fully forgive and relationship would probably never move beyond cordial. Stepbrother would definitely become a bro after that, incredible how much he went out of his way to help OP even when everyone else in OP's life abandoned him
@@greenbrickbox3392the mom there deserves the NC as much as the ex. It would have taken a grand total of two minutes to see that he didn't have such messages on his phone or to call the police to report the situation.
-Step- Brother = MVP 💯🔥
I don't understand the abbreviation, what's an MVP?
@@cat_03tv
*Most Valuable Player* /// BASED CHAD 💯😎
Step father became Ex step father and Step brother became Brother... love that for OP. Step father was the black sheep here, both his Mom and Son are such amazing people.. he on the other hand - trash
You read the title and immediately think oh god this brothers going to a spoiled shit but then you get to the halfway point and you realise that he is a genuinely good person who has a sense of morality
Mad respect to the step-bro, real hero in the story. Also glad to hear that OP and his GF are getting back together, we all like to "Oh man I totally would have believed OP in this situation" but honestly anyone put in the situation of any of these GFs or BFs that get lied to to break up with their SO would all break up with them too, like you get shown fairly reliable proof and your just going to believe the accused, their ain't no forensics detectives for this, you just have to get lucky and hope the mastermind slips up. I can honestly say I would react the same way as both of these individuals in their cases, so I can understand why they think the way they do.
If it was second-hand evidence I didn't gather myself? No. I'd excuse this mentality if this was still the 2000s with the internet barely out of its diapers, but I feel like everyone should know by now how damned easy it is to make very convincing fakes of messages.
But I do agree with one thing. Step-bro really stepped up and deserves a free drink or 50.
It would have been so easy, just ask the girl for the date of thair last few meetups and then check what he did at this time and day.
"Also glad to hear that OP and his GF are getting back together"
I am not. If she didn't trust him before, she sure as hell won't in the future.
@@buragi5441It's probably the exact opposite now. If he wanted to be trash quietly, he would likely get away with it because she'd remember the last time she didn't believe him. She wouldn't want to go through that again.
I would atleast let other side tell their story lmfao
crazy how so many of these stories can be prevented with a simple protocol of "innocent until proven guilty" like seriously man worlds of pain can be avoided by seeking truth
Most of these are fake, can't apply logic or the story fails to achive its objective, namely to entertain.
They actually might be true.
Just look at how people irl get their lives ruined over baseless false accusations.
People these days love to instantly jump the gun and pick a side to then morally grandstand and pretend how virtuous they are, to the point that even when the truth comes out they are in denial because admitting fault would mean they are not the perfect paragons of virtue and morality they love to parade as.@@slightlyamusedyoutuber3517
@@slightlyamusedyoutuber3517 Yeah hope they ban this cancerous virus off this site.
@@slightlyamusedyoutuber3517even if these specific ones are fake, I've known too many fucked up families to dismiss them. Shit like exiling the young niece who was raped for "breaking up the family" while rallying around the rapist - type shit. People are more unpredictable and idiotic than writers can make up.
@@darkriku12oh ya, my own family does crazy shit. Me and my sister are just kinda ignored by my grandmother because she wanted my dad to be with someone else, this was to the point that the other woman was invited to events until my mom talked to her. That woman had no clue what was up. This is only the tip of that story but I'm telling it in full anyway, just backing up what you're saying
Brother is smart and he is the most innocent here
Never forgive them, in worrying about a betrayal they never stopped to consider the actuality of it and in turn betrayed you instead. They made their choice
If this was a situation where evidence was manipulated or falsified to make me look bad, i could understand wanting to mend things. If this had no evidence, i would tell them that we ca t wver return to normal
Agreed. People keep saying that the mom and ex don’t deserve to be forgiven and to mend their relationship but if I lied about their family members doing something horrible and had fake screen shots of messages to prove it, would you believe me or OP. Anyone can fake evidence so it’s understandable as to why but I also agree that if their was no evidence like at all then their not getting a chance to talk to me ever again.
@@gamesaurs1542 no, they didn't try at all to hear him out and see if the "evidence" is reliable. they just threw him to the curb the moment they saw texts. texts can be so easily falsified. they're honestly not that much better evidence than hearsay. if you had only texts and messages of someone I loved doing something bad I wouldn't believe you unless you gave me some real evidence like a photo or video. you could be a crazy ex or coworker or anyone why tf would I believe your word against the person I love when you basically have no evidence. I would look into it and try to see if you're telling the truth or not but I wouldn't believe you off those texts. he should just move on and stick to with the people who love him like the grandma and his uncle. I mean his fucking uncle had more love for him than his own mother. they don't deserve to have a relationship with him.
@@heheheha1997 See finally a sane person I agree f those old ragdey ass runts and hags.
@@heheheha1997thing is, this evidence came from another trusted individual, one who had no reason a sane person would come up with to fake it or present untrustworthy evidence. Thr stepfather had them all fooled, and was honestly seemingly a skilled manipulator. Anyone under the influence of someone like that who cuts them out in the process of making amends gets a pass in my book, just like someone who had their drink spiked in my eye is totally not responsible for anything that occurs. A skilled manipulator can be worse for one's state of mind than any drug, and so long as they aren't apologizing for the manipulator or even keeping the manipulator in their lives, they get a (somewhat) free pass, so long as nothing similar ever happens again.
@@gamesaurs1542i would let OP a chance to speak simple🤷♂️🤷♂️
Brother will have his place on the rock of eternity
stepdad never liked OP. this was just the way to get rid of him so he wouldn't have a permanent reminder of life before he showed up
Well sounds like he didn't learn his lesson the first time.
True
Exactly homeboy needs to grow a spine
@@quitenerdy1 Yeah.
Bro is giving his ex more of a chance than I would have. If it all it took was a fake text that could have easily been disproven if given the chance was enough to make her break the relationship, then there was no relationship to begin with.
> “He has a very traditional way of thinking relationship-wise.”
Yeah how’s that working out for you?
It sounds so dumb
Imagine having a family like this. OP did a mistake letting them back in his life.
RIGHT!! Why did him cheating even if it WAS true have to do with the mother I understand that they had a good relationship with the fiancé but there was no reason for them to disown him the relationship with op couldn’t have been that strong and honestly I feel like he is doing himself a disservice taking them back the brother is the only one u could maybe have a cool relationship with but truly he should have cleared his name then severed his connection idk maybe it’s just me but he was betrayed by everyone he had except like 2 people.
I do understand the fiancé but everyone else that’s just insane
@@sandstorm9290 you are extremely harsh here
I would understand if they was no evidence n they disowned him
But they was evidence, he was set up. So it's understandable why they got fooled
@@user-qc8ms5wj1w I know, but for the mom to disown him? That’s not a good mom. Even if her son is actually a cheater she should still love him and keep him in her life, no matter how disappointed and angry she is with him. Basically she loved the fiancé more than she did him.
@@andynorck2389 alot of mothers disown their child if they are found cheating
Or give them the silent treatment
@@user-qc8ms5wj1w well, then a lot of moms suck. It’s fine to be very angry about it and even not talking for a while, but disowning them is very harsh.
And there’s also many mothers that even help their kids in their cheating or at least cover for them, that doesn’t make it right either.
Im glad the step bro told him instead of keeping that in
the worst thing outta this is the fact that there's no way the stepfather can get any punishment for doing such a disgusting move
Aside from the fact that he might just burn in Hell, his wife divorced him, his son disowned him, and his own mother is very disappointed in him...
I'm not so sure. I'm not a legal expert but if OP choose to go down this route he may well have a pretty good case to make for a slander/defamation lawsuit. Even with the high bar requirements the US for such cases it would seem OP has good evidence that the step-father maliciously lied about OP, which should clear the bar.
If so, I say OP should sue and take step-father to the cleaners.
Definitely a major lawsuit in the US on this one due to the damages
I mean he lost his wife and son
Step bro is the MVP
The Brother is the last one I expect to do anything but he turn to be absolutely MVP
I can see how you could blame the fiancée, but with the phone call and the forged texts from the stepfather, I can see why she’d believe his lies.
Any one can forge false conversations, and spit lies from their mouth, its your job to hear out your SO before a stranger
Also adding that there were always woman complementing him and she was very insecure (her asking why he just didn't dump her), yeah, I can see how she would fall for it.
Would I ever be able to forgive her? Maybe. Not without any remorse, though.
Would I get back together with her? Most probably not.
Not blaming her, just.... I value trust and loyalty too much to be with someone who wasn't even willing to listen to me to then decide if they believed/trusted me or not.
@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami there’s a BIG difference between someone saying something and being shown a text conversation
@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami to be fair it wasn’t as just a random stranger it was her so entire family. If you’re so mother is calling your partner a cheating bastard? What are you supposed to think.
Except she just turned on him immediately. Never tried to get "the truth" from op or anything. Had she at least done thar I could see the point you're making, but none of them thought to ask questions except the brother. If you aren't willing to ask questions then why bother listening to what someone tells you?
I don’t care what anyone thinks of my opinion, but the fact that OP forgave the people that didn’t give him a chance at explaining his innocence, made me lose all respect for the OP.
There is just no way that your own mother and fiancée could get away with the absolute betrayal they subjected you to.
Be happy man, but not your ex, or even your own mother deserve what you are giving them back.
How does being lied to with from their point of view evidence evidence qualify as but trail i’m glad that the OP is reconnecting with them they’re all victims of that piece of shit stepfather
Forgiveness is not an automatic pass for reconciliation. This man shoes his lack of self respect by not telling them to kick rocks. After everything they put him through they don't deserve to be part of his life anymore
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684 I don’t know why people just can’t accept forgiveness as an option and reconciliation. They fucked up, they know that they will change and it’s great night he still willing to love them. let’s just agree to disagree
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684Being deceived due to falsified evidence that seems very compelling (such as the supposed affair partner knowing a lot of info about the OP) is rather different than believing blindly when there's no evidence. I'm a bit more understanding of the former situation. Saying that the OP "lacks self-respect" is also bullshit; his mother and ex-fiancée are putting in the work to try and mend things. That's more than can be said about a lot of other stories on this channel where they ask for forgiveness with no effort, and even then the mother and ex didn't ask for forgiveness. They apologized, said they understood if he didn't forgive them or want to repair things. Genuinely apologizing is owning and admitting to mistakes and feeling remorse. Asking for forgiveness is selfish; forgiveness is solely for the person wronged to give for their own healing, if they want to, and can either be public or private.
@@BlazeIgnituswhat you said is true but that also means they don't trust hik enough to even talk abt this stuff. So what if evidence was given
You'd rather believe a stranger over a call than your own fiancee or son. Nah. Not worth it. These people apologized good for em but definitely the bond not gonna be the same. Also the OP should date someone else.
I would never be able to be calm with that stepdad, but honestly, i would understand the ex's point of view. That’s pretty damning evidence. I'd probably leave my fiance too if i had all of that and their own family agreeing i should. But the mom totally cutting him off is so messed up. I'd be against my kid on that, no doubt, but i wouldn't cut them off. Step brother is a good person at least.
THANK YOU!! People are blaming the ex and mom and saying “no evidence” ACTING LIKE THEY WEREN’T MANIPULATED WITH FALSE EVIDENCE.
@_luvvBug yeah, it's hard to honestly say "no evidence" when he even said he couldn't find an argument against it since there WAS evidence. Fake evidence, but they had no way of knowing that. They'd be dumb to ignore it.
@_luvvBug They didn't even give him a chance. You can get your full text and call receipts from your phone provider in like a day.
"Damning evidence" that anyone could whip up in photoshop with 15 minutes of work and then another 15 to make sure it looks real enough.
@@e_rebus What’s your point there?
I am shocked Op never sued step-dad for Libel.
Dude!!! Keep the mother at a distance, cut off the Ex, make your step brother your best bud!!! He is 5he only one that came through for you!!! If all it took for them to turn on you and cut you off was the word of a stranger, they never really cared about you!!! What if another random chick makes an accusation??? What if the step dad wasn’t an idiot??? Where would you be??? “Family isn’t always blood, it’s the people in your life who want you in theirs”!!! Honestly, I feel bad for his mom and Ex. I think because of their pasts, they can’t truly love anyone!!!
Yeah therefore they belong to the streets.
@@coolgamer2135ex, who was manipulated to believe that her bf was cheating on her, was heartbroken, hasn't been dating anyone for 1,5 a year... belongs to the streets?
W brother tho.
Your mom is not close to you. She literally abandoned "her only rock" the minute she got married. Didnt protect you, let a man immediately come between her relationship with you without questioning it even though she raised you. She then proceeded to kick you out of the house and let you financially support yourself while helping her new husbands son (Which isnt his fault he seems like a good kid considering he came from that man). The only person that gets forgiveness is thevbrother but the mom burned that bridge with her own two hands.
How do you ever trust somebody after that? He is honestly better off without his ex
OP: i was wondering why they didnt call, is my Half Brothet said all this to mess with me?
3pm that day
brother: are you ready to call? We were trying to call you for over an hour?
They were blocked
Oofd
As always, stepbro saves the day
Step bro is a good dude
W -STEP- BRO
Oh my God that stepfather is evil.
The switch to step brother to brother is so cute
I wouldnt let my mother back in my life. The ex is understandable because of the fake proof. But his mother abandoning him simply because she thought he cheated is unacceptable. She is a poor excuse of a mother. She doesnt deserve her children back in her life.
No dont let any of them back
why is everyone blaming the ex and mother and pretending like they werent manipulated lmaooo, every other reddit story when the parents disown the cheater everyone fucking cheers for that but now all of a sudden "she shouldnt even do that even it was true", bruh like yall are crazy
Honestly, both his fiancé and especially his mother was pos. I would’ve stayed off contact with the mother especially.
Bro they’re such good brothers, and i wanna be like bro if my older brother were to get in trouble of somekind too, he’s a real g
Wow the first story that I heard where the step brother is actually the good guy in this. Usually I always hear the step brother being part of the problem or helping forward destroying OP's life.
So very shocked to hear that the step brother stepped up instead and clear OP's name
I feel like there is probably more to the ex sfs plans than just the “evidence”. Like making comments here and there to plant seeds of doubt in their minds. Like maybe things like “I bet he’s really popular with the ladies. He better not cheat” or stuff of the sort to push the narrative he was going for. That way when the “evidence” is released, any potential doubts are replaced by acceptance as fact.
Betrayal hurts more than the enemy attack. true in war and in personal life. The mother is definitely poor excuse of a mom and needs to rethink her life choices. The girlfriend i can understand, the so called evidence was well made and almost anyone would fall for it. The mom should have had more faith and restraint because of her role. The stepdad is evidently a mastermind and a scheming bastard.
That’s sad that his mother didn’t/doesn’t have his back.
The step bro is peak human
While I really liked how the bro and uncle stepped up for op, idk that I would’ve ever forgiven the fiancée if it was me. If you’re planning to marry someone, you should know their core and their moral code. If she jumped so quickly to believing a stranger over the man she was going to marry, she should’ve been getting counselling not planning a marriage. Not to say that people can’t lie so well they pull the wool over everyone’s eyes. But if you’re going to marry someone, shouldn’t you trust them a little more?
Honestly, I think people need to realize that there's no right or wrong answer when it comes to taking back an ex or letting people back into your life in a situation like this. He had his life stolen from him, and he's being offered basically all of it back on a god damn silver platter. Everyone involved (except the step dad obviously) is doing everything in their power to fix what was broken. The story doesn't need to end in resentment, the story doesn't need to end in distant forgiveness. This experience broke everyone involved, and it's their choice if they want to pick up the pieces together or on their own. I just hope that they all know that though the relationship can be mended, it will never be the same. But that doesn't mean it can't be just as good. You can forgive. You can move past this incident. It doesn't have to be a looming specter for the rest of your life.
I disagree how could they push op under the bus for some so called evidence even though it's just a bunch of text that could be easily be forged or faulty l.
They will never forget it, and though people can say they forgive each other, the reality is that the hurt will always be there, tinging your interactions with them, playing in the back of your mind.
Nah i wouldn't forgive, go no contact, move one and live a happy life away from people who didn't even want to listen to my side
@@coolgamer2135 it literally uses personal information that basically no one else new. That is not something that can be easily forced under most circumstances. And no somebody’s stepfather trying to cause their divorce is not common.
This story exactly explains why people shouldn’t instantly think step siblings are evil and sure the step dad was horrible but a lot of other step dads are very nice to people
Wasn't he in the Military? Why is the step dad still alive?
Thought the same but at the very least some paralysis would be a better to heal and to show what men do according to the bastards ideal
OP was medically discharged, meaning that he left the military due to medical reasons.
His so called partner stabbed him in the back immediately and believed a random chick over her partner and bf who she’s known decades….
The fact he’s taking her back is asinine my god.
it’s not her fault though. she was manipulated and provided (false, but still) evidence. that’s pretty believable and very easy to lose control of a situation in such an emotional state.
@@_luvvBug it's entirely her fault and the mothers, that mother should know her son, his partner should know him since they've been around each other decades, she knows his tells and character.
the fact that it was so lazily done and she wouldnt let him prove his innocence is the biggest issue, she REFUSED to even give him the chance too.
@@jsullivan649lol they did give him the chance, he said to call that person, which they did and that person admit she slept with OP
It's not entirely her fault, she should did some digging to see if he didn't cheat
but bruh come on
screenshot of text n the girl admitting they did slept together? that's alot of (false, but still) evidence
@@jsullivan649 There are parents who didn't even think their kid is capable of murder but they have done it.
Also the Ex have the past of abusive relationships explains exactly why she didn't give him the time of day. It was a perfectly brewed pot for OP to be at a disadvantage to a vile step father.
@@jsullivan649the son who had broken promises to her before . The one who was always against her marriage.
And the evidence was damn good. Things only someone really close would know.
I do believe she was wrong but I can see her point. And more with the girlfriend she was insecure from the get go and had severe ptsd from her EXs. She was given evidence and she already considered him to be too good for her. So she believed it. Brother a total W though. Didnt know him for long. And did fall for the evidence but did everything he could to fix it. Well if any of them found out like this they probably would too. But he wasnt expected to
Idk if i could forgive the ex. Or the mom.
Or anyone other than the brother anyways.
Ironically, the only family OP has is his brother he's not even related to
The Stepbrother is a fucking unit! 💪💪💪
Its the way the ex even went on a few dates with the step brother, just annoys me
Stepbro is really a good person
His brother is such a W
I like how OP upgraded his Step-Brother to Brother
His brother (he aint a step brother atp) is the mvp of this story
OP shouldnt take the ex back. She threw him under the bus with no evidence showing she never trusted him to begin with. Thats not someone who will have stable relationships.
The ex needs to give the ring back.
The thing is, if your relationship is strong the things he was accused of really hurt. It is also very easy to get your mind swayed by someone that is by you while the person that is accused isn’t there to defend himself. You have to realize people are just that, people. Although the Mom should have never and I say never stopped contacting OP. This just proves she was weak. If you have a child you have to be ready that they will make mistakes, bigger or smaller. It’s still your child, you are their safe place. What I’m about to say goes to almost every relationship (or atleast this is my opinion), squares up in your circle will always fuck up the shape of it. Food for thought. If you believed someone was trustworthy atleast hear them out. Let them take the stand.
I’m sorry, but the fiancée isn’t innocent here.
Those messages are
SO. FREAKING. EASY.
to fake.
If she trusted him she would have loved him enough to _listen._ From then on, her decision would hers to make.
But not listening to someone she “loved” is what makes her the “bad guy”
Now that's how step siblings should be with each other! You got a real one OP, don't throw him away
THANK YOU, STEP BROTHER!!!!
The step brother is a good person so many would say nothing
Stepbro is a real one.
Brother is several times the man his father wishes he was. He realized what had happened and quickly took action to make things right, only needing a bit to process just what the hell he had discovered.
Also, props to OP for keeping his cool during the phonecall with the stepfather. I would have mocked the ever loving crap out of him for the comment about not being "man enough." Like he is in any position to talk about what it means to be a man. There's nothing manly about destroying a happy relationship.
I hate how the family turned against him
The family should be ashamed. Disowning him after taking the word of someone they don't know. Glad his brother did the right thing and I'm glad he didn't just instantly forgive his mother and ex and made them suffer. I do hope him and ex got back together but she has alot of making up to do and hope she realises what she almost lost.
That stepbro is a real champ.
The classic family member gets me falsely accused and family throws me away but later learns the truth type of fake story.
Just letting everyone know who watches this that OP and his ex did NOT end up getting back together. He states it was due to different factors than what happened and he wishes her all the best. Fucking sad to imagine what could have been if the stepprick didn't interfere with what sounded like a lovely relationship.
I love how in mist stories where this happens, the OP forgives and forgets, but in this case, OP is only kind to those who helped him, like his step(brother), but to those who have wronged him, gets immediately gets the packgod treatment.
Bro when op got the call from the stepbrother I thought he was gonna say the ex and him were together…
It aint a step-bro anymore. It is a regular bro now.
Since he is a private citizen, he could prove defimation pretty easily. especially with the call he had recorded.
I wouldn't get back with your x, people who think impulsively and don't even try getting the other side's don't deserve second chances in the relationship that they destroyed
If someone told my my fiance is better off with someone else, they're getting their jaw broken.
Step brother was the real brother he never realized he had
This one, makes me frustrated to read, what kind of man destroy someone else happiness for someone else? Disgusting - and the family should of have been there more for OP. This persons manipulation damaged the family and he deserves what he gets.
Anddd that’s when I file for defamation! Let’s goooooo! Cmon old man we’re going to court!☠️
It sucks everyone was willing to believe OP cheated but ex-SD pulled out all the works to manufacture that story, so it's hard to really hold it against them. Do kinda hope OP and the ex start seeing each other again, it sounds like they still get along, and she's still willing to tough it out which you don't find that often anymore.
This sounds way to unreal.
OP should of fought back more when accused
Wow, so happy you have an MVP of a brother! :O
God bless you and Jesus loves you very much. by putting our faith in him as lord and saviour we are saved
Step dads Mom being a sweet old lady 🥹. This story really had some unexpected twists.
Sever ties with the mom, step dad and ex fiancée. To hell with them. You leave me for no reason dont come back with an excuse