Man Drains 401K for Romance Scam-Here’s How!

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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

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    • @rachaddle6581
      @rachaddle6581 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Um..dead give away just in her images and background!! Does she appear to be poor?? Absolutely not! Her make-up, clothes, bed, interior of apartment/house, her glasses etc! Come on!!! Stop allowing yourself to be sooooooooooooooooooooooo damn blind!!! This girl isn't suffering lack of funds!! She is working for top notch pimp company who's goal is scamming dumb people.🔴🔴🔴🔴🔴🔴

    • @LordBelakor
      @LordBelakor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Your channel is pure charity, heloing the gullible and stupid. Good you do it, and help those people not beeing scammed, but they are so blind and stupid not to see the so obvious signs, so much of those obvious signs

    • @fidelismichael1647
      @fidelismichael1647 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LordBelakor😢

    • @purenkool2011
      @purenkool2011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This man got it in one: it’s an addiction. Social Catfish are very kind and gentle with such addicts, which is a loving way to do an intervention. It takes a lot of courage to admit being scammed, used, abused but that is the start of the healing process. I guess it’s like a heroin, gambling or alcohol type of addiction. Something clicked in his brain? He feels shame. We allow addicts to work on their addiction step by step. This must be the same kind of a thing. This man needs a therapist to build up his confidence, to deal with his compulsive behaviour. 💐🥺🤓

    • @pornstarintraining
      @pornstarintraining 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LMAO SUCKA !!

  • @pepperwestwood
    @pepperwestwood ปีที่แล้ว +5617

    If you make it through hearing this guy describe her features, you can make it through anything in life.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 ปีที่แล้ว +385

      ..hahaha...'shoulders'...smh

    • @pepperwestwood
      @pepperwestwood ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@lisawentworth6831 actually just realized I myself creepily compliment shoulder/collarbone area sometimes 😍 Still, f this guy.

    • @macmillerfanforever9968
      @macmillerfanforever9968 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      🤢🤮 ewww right?!? my thoughts exactly!!! I was hoping to see this comment, he has me cringing fr fr and I didn’t think he was ever going to shut up!

    • @NineNineOne
      @NineNineOne ปีที่แล้ว +244

      OMG I’m glad someone else noticed! Waaaaay too much description of her physical appearance to not be creepy. I wanna hear his detailed physical description of the guy he is ACTUALLY talking to! Haha

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit ปีที่แล้ว +110

      That was excruciating 😖

  • @Benjamoose
    @Benjamoose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3647

    She tells him she "can't video chat because her phone is old and crappy".
    Immediately sends him a selfie with her holding a giant smart phone with two camera lenses.
    Absolute genius of a guy.

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      ​@british_vlogMore the other way around.

    • @looking4things669
      @looking4things669 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      @@ivanaandric5703 British-vlog is being facetious. Just saying.

    • @desdicadoric
      @desdicadoric 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yup. Crazy

    • @cherylb5680
      @cherylb5680 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Einstein he isn't! 😂

    • @emmanuelsalas5298
      @emmanuelsalas5298 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I'm stupid cause i didn't think about that 😂

  • @Julian-zc9vm
    @Julian-zc9vm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +338

    If the guy is gonna pay someone to talk to him, how about a therapist?

    • @Aerojet01
      @Aerojet01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Firstly, they have to recognize they have a problem.

    • @Religious_man
      @Religious_man 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes please for the love of God, GET HELP!

    • @jenniferagrusa3155
      @jenniferagrusa3155 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely

    • @_1ben
      @_1ben 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      a therapist ? his local dive bar bartender , much cheaper and leaves a better taste in your mouth

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He even didn't talk with "her" once... 😮🤦🏻‍♀️🤯 He only paid "her" 401k...

  • @FlaviusFlav
    @FlaviusFlav หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    One good thing about scammers is they keep men like this from interacting with real women.

    • @jumpinjojo
      @jumpinjojo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂😂

    • @Cleatus546
      @Cleatus546 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Good point.

  • @Ayatoqua
    @Ayatoqua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5299

    This guy is not being scammed, he's just paying for a fantasy.

    • @lspbeautea4791
      @lspbeautea4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Nail on the head.

    • @caveninit
      @caveninit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I was thinking the exact same thing.

    • @lukebignell7846
      @lukebignell7846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      He wants the fantasy of being with a much younger woman who works in the industry. For the money he has sent so far, he could have paid per play on numerous such women! What a fool!
      He wants the illusion that it’s some form of a real relationship. He needs to wake up.

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      It's cheaper to go to a strip club and at least be in physical proximity of pretty women. Or pay for an escort and at least get sex for his money. Or he can pay for a live chat with some cam model on her own site who he can at least see live on video and she will do whatever he pays for. With all of those, he's at least getting something for his money - real live interaction with a real person. And it would still be cheaper. He could be at a strip club helping some young woman "pay for medical school" if he wants to help people

    • @lspbeautea4791
      @lspbeautea4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@susaninika7552 definitely

  • @andyzedd3236
    @andyzedd3236 ปีที่แล้ว +4425

    I love watching these videos. I'm not the smartest guy in the world but these guys make me feel like a Neurosurgeon.

    • @apt5044
      @apt5044 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an independent woman, TOTALLY agree! They all say how intelligent they are but...... really? I think they are overestimating their brain capacity! As a single woman, who is fairly wealthy, I get so many scam attempts, that I report, or block.....so ummm, no sorry, you are not that bright sorry. Alternatively, you want to believe the fantasy, so disregard common sense, or, you are just happy to pay for emotional prostitution. Either way, you are simply not that smart sorry. Another hot tip.....if they are young, beautiful, buff, wealthy and are looking to fall in love with a wrinkly old man/woman....it is too good to be true! We all know the dating pool we can get, so anything else is just lying to yourself.

    • @LylaRose485
      @LylaRose485 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      I see all these obvious fake accounts on Facebook all the time and the retarded commentators seemingly can't figure it out. That gives me a confidence boost at least. If you fall for a romance scam you're an idiot. The red flags are right in front of you and "loneliness" is no excuse. Not being able to do a video call is always a huge red flag but people are retarded. And I know it's possible to fake video calls but anyone with half a brain would figure out the video isn't legit.

    • @zoranagavrilovic9403
      @zoranagavrilovic9403 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not really though, he said she had same interests as him

    • @april110
      @april110 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @legadillo
    @legadillo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +302

    These people are like hoarders. They can’t see the problem, but somebody comes in to clean it up for them, and as soon as the cleaners leave, they go back to hoarding.

    • @seashells616
      @seashells616 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Excellent comparison. Agreed.

    • @crystinamarie1
      @crystinamarie1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So sad.

    • @Aerojet01
      @Aerojet01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Some people need saving from themselves.

    • @YourXellency
      @YourXellency 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m your 100th thumbs upper!
      Scam boys be like, “This is the last time I’ll pay a scammer, but it’s not the last time I’ll date online.” 😂

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is mental disorder, too... 😖

  • @RA-wp6th
    @RA-wp6th 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    I think he doesn't care if they are scammers. He just enjoys the illusion of thinking he's talking to a beautiful woman.

    • @Aryan_Gentleman_
      @Aryan_Gentleman_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He'll definitely have an AI gf

    • @MBT372
      @MBT372 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Probably 😊

  • @heidiheaux7007
    @heidiheaux7007 ปีที่แล้ว +3103

    The fact that this man called tampons “menstrual medicine” tells you exactly how much experience he’s had with real women. 😳😂

    • @jackfavvv0280
      @jackfavvv0280 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      And it's not even medicine.

    • @md28stads
      @md28stads ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Maybe he meant Midol. 😂

    • @katroamleft4721
      @katroamleft4721 ปีที่แล้ว

      What the actual fuck 😂😂 he needs to get some reproductive health education

    • @katroamleft4721
      @katroamleft4721 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      ​@@jackfavvv0280 oh dear Jack.....duh

    • @user-uy8vs2ue3f
      @user-uy8vs2ue3f ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ikr does he not have a mother, a sister, or see a women irl?

  • @sofakingcrazy
    @sofakingcrazy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1697

    He's not a victim at a certain point, he's paying for a fantasy service.

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      That's right, and a very expensive fantasy service. Better go to Vegas, have some drinks, dinners, gamble, and have a good time.

    • @AntonArmsberg
      @AntonArmsberg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kevinmalone3210 Or hire some escorts if you're really into that but everything except dating a scammer.

    • @TCLindasUtube2009
      @TCLindasUtube2009 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      For sure! Pay for a girlfriend/boyfriend type communication service. Someone should start a legit role play service!

    • @GiantSquid2001
      @GiantSquid2001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      EXACTLY... THANK YOU!

    • @j.d.4697
      @j.d.4697 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He acts like a smart, sane person but clearly he is barely smarter than a dog.

  • @pauldittmer5050
    @pauldittmer5050 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    This dude is the reason why scammers are out there.

    • @richrodgers9961
      @richrodgers9961 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not kidding I’m tempted to send him a pic of a random mediocre looking chick and ask for money.

    • @AB-nk5wv
      @AB-nk5wv 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Him describing her measurements and judging every aspect of her body in the beginning of the video has incel written all over him

  • @uninsurable9028
    @uninsurable9028 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I like reading the comments as much as I like watching the video. You guys are hilarious.

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, another entertainment. 😂

    • @sponzie1
      @sponzie1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Milburt
    @Milburt ปีที่แล้ว +2094

    Every time he sent money he was being told “I love you”, “you’re amazing”, “my hero”, “can’t wait to be with you”.
    THAT is what he was paying for.

    • @tiffanyswensen9490
      @tiffanyswensen9490 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I'll do it for $5 a pop.

    • @jujubegold
      @jujubegold ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Absolutely and even faced with the truth of her deception he stayed in contact and still gave her money. It’s what she’s providing to him. A thrill to his mundane life. A story to tell. Perhaps being captain save a ho is enough for him.

    • @itsjustnopinionok
      @itsjustnopinionok ปีที่แล้ว +9

      14:50 his response to those words

    • @MusicByJC
      @MusicByJC ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@jujubegold Maybe he can look at as charity. He is certainly is helping some Nigerian dude, that I am sure could use the money.

    • @jujubegold
      @jujubegold ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@MusicByJC it’s not one dude. It’s multiple people involved in scamming. It’s like a mafia. Banks involved too.

  • @rosaballard5501
    @rosaballard5501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2357

    This gentleman should become addicted to donating money to good charities instead of scammers

    • @Joven.lnversor..
      @Joven.lnversor.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You don't have money it obvious

    • @eaglewinnings8003
      @eaglewinnings8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Will good charities talk dirty to him and make him think he’s going to potentially get intimate with women half his age?

    • @deborahllwalker
      @deborahllwalker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@eaglewinnings8003 well said.

    • @elinazariel
      @elinazariel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes like food for poor children since he is chef and likes to talk about food stuuf..

    • @gigilovesgod8825
      @gigilovesgod8825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's Correct 👏🏻

  • @robisherwood527
    @robisherwood527 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Some people are beyond help.

  • @MaxTheDog167
    @MaxTheDog167 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    The FBI tells you not to send money to strangers online, I mean what more do you need to stop??? lol 🥴🤣

    • @tipsudachaomuangkhong4581
      @tipsudachaomuangkhong4581 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He craves that good feeling and a therapist could probably help him more at this point. He rejects reality

    • @helenestiernstrand6575
      @helenestiernstrand6575 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Momma pulling his ear…

    • @Mioochii
      @Mioochii หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah I was like daaamn even the fbi is contacting you brother . Get a clue for Christ’s sake

  • @asfaltsflickan
    @asfaltsflickan ปีที่แล้ว +1461

    Not him describing her like he’s a judge at a dog show and she’s a Dalmatian with a great conformation 😂

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Yeh, very creepy. Coming from Dalmacija. (Dalmatian) I'd score 0/10 for obedience & definitely bite. What a horrible image😂

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@saraprva4172 I come from Dalmacija too. Split. Odakle si ti?

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ivanaandric5703 Also Split, Brda ❤️ working in London 😥

    • @vero9348
      @vero9348 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I say he's on the spectrum and therefore the weird description and compliments

    • @SPACEDOUT19
      @SPACEDOUT19 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@saraprva4172 you have to agree, that girl has some great shoulders

  • @Lauren-gs7bn
    @Lauren-gs7bn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    “Her phone is old and crappy”, yet her photos look almost professional…. Right

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The photos are professional. She’s a playboy model. Most scammers use professional photos stolen from real people. They’re not taking on phones.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@JaimeMesChiens we know. But this is the telltale sign when all their photos look great but they tell you they have a “crappy” phone. Which nobody that’s relatively young has a phone that crappy. Especially the ones with really professional photos.

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dude...never EVER criticize a woman's possesion....maybe THATS reason you cant find one~

    • @brindacockburn4033
      @brindacockburn4033 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I saw an newer iphone in selfie

    • @spedmonie416
      @spedmonie416 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Her phone had like two cameras in the next photo after that lmfao

  • @azgal663
    @azgal663 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He’s sending money & “I love you” to a dude in Nigeria! 😆🤣🤣🤣

    • @TonyaR789
      @TonyaR789 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yasminx16
    @yasminx16 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m absolutely shocked he had a wife

  • @isherwoody
    @isherwoody 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1971

    When a younger person, way out of your league, contacts you online, they are almost certainly a scammer. As soon as they ask for money, they are definitely a scammer. How delusional do you have to be to keep sending money to these people? Is it an addiction?

    • @StellaFl
      @StellaFl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Amen!

    • @TheKickass85
      @TheKickass85 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I mean it must be addiction for him even after he found out the person wasn't real and as they was telling him about the person they're dealing with that has over multiple different accounts he still didn't want to come to realization that she was not real I mean look at his back story I had a problem with girls in college I had problems with girls high school I have problems with a wife who was mentally and physically abusive to me and was really abusive to me sexually I mean this guy acting like what he expected he's going to get some snow white that walks through the door and that's going to sit there and treat him like some kind of king he needs professional help

    • @siximpossiblethings6388
      @siximpossiblethings6388 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I have a feeling it may be, in part, the sunken cost fallacy. It's like a gambler who won't leave a slot machine after hours of dropping money into it with no return because eventually it has to pay off. Problem is, even when a payoff occurs, it's far too little compared to what has already been put into the machine, but it's enough to keep the gambler on the hook to keep playing for that big payoff that's "certainly about to hit."

    • @TheKickass85
      @TheKickass85 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siximpossiblethings6388 yes but to be honest a lot of them just hoping that it is an actual real person instead of using their common sense and listen to their instincts especially the red flags because you got to ask yourself, why would a person that you just met be asking you for money and of course they're going to use some made up story about they have problems they have cancer but unless you can verify this you should never send nobody money but everybody just wants to be this good person and not be considered a a hole but you got to protect yourself you know and a normal person is not going to sit there and act a complete stranger let me give you 80 or 90,000 or 20,000 you know and they know their scams in the world but they still do it because they are hoping that this person is real they letting their loiness and Desperation over Cloud their judgment

    • @Hajiroku
      @Hajiroku ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It’s the sunk cost fallacy. You threw in so much money that you don’t want to quit. You already threw in so much money that what’s 100 more.

  • @Msghen24
    @Msghen24 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    She can't pay her bills but all her photos looks like she's living a lavish life lol,she even said she's using a crappy phone but the mirror shot shows she have a latest phone 🤣.This man is delusional.

    • @stonehengeconstructioncc1705
      @stonehengeconstructioncc1705 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@stonehengeconstructioncc1705 the 'victims' never notice that reality...they believe what they are told.

    • @allwhatilove914
      @allwhatilove914 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Anf Gucci bags

    • @genpaullacamera2233
      @genpaullacamera2233 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello beautiful how are you doing today?

    • @billwilliams328
      @billwilliams328 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You would be surprised how many people live off of credit to post nice photos to their social but can't pay their bills.

  • @user-lb1rl8ex6t
    @user-lb1rl8ex6t 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    The fact that this man was once married is a miracle in of itself. What kind of woman saw herself to be married to this guy.

    • @jennyj0007
      @jennyj0007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Someone with low marriage prospects

    • @AlbertonBeastmaster
      @AlbertonBeastmaster 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Definitely not a hairdresser.

  • @GeoffJensen
    @GeoffJensen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    This dude was married, and he thinks tampons are "menstrual medicine". I can't imagine why he's divorced.

    • @diannacooper9267
      @diannacooper9267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Midol... not tampons.

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@diannacooper9267exactly. Someone with common sense 🙄

    • @jellyfishbeans94
      @jellyfishbeans94 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My dad used to think when i went to work for an education company, he thinks I'm studying there but i was in fact working for almost 6 months. Some people just doesn't care about their family as much as they should, even when i told him i was working there.

  • @maybebuffalo6049
    @maybebuffalo6049 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    "We discussed culinary things" - like favourite pizza toppings 😂😂😂😂😂 quite the Michelin chef discussion 😂

    • @teapot6219
      @teapot6219 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Love how he tries to sound intelligent and truly believes he's a smart man 🤣

    • @Gioachina0279
      @Gioachina0279 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dumb with too much Money then

    • @Ch4rlz_ThA_Princ3
      @Ch4rlz_ThA_Princ3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ​@@teapot6219hey a person can be smart with numbers or coding but be completely inept with interpersonal communication like this guy.
      So there's different measurements for intelligence

    • @POCKBA
      @POCKBA ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My favorite is the wallmart chicken😆

    • @mollyram2997
      @mollyram2997 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right? All he's thinking about are her pepperoni nips. If she looked like a troll he's having nothing to do w her

  • @shv3t
    @shv3t 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +470

    Being warned by the FBI to not send more money is WILD 😂

    • @JohnnyRayedd-Neck
      @JohnnyRayedd-Neck 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      lol and the light bulb 💡 still didn’t go on !😂

    • @datgurlky1
      @datgurlky1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂

    • @Stannely1
      @Stannely1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bruv...😂😂😂

    • @elizabethstead1768
      @elizabethstead1768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @margaretkaufman1144
      @margaretkaufman1144 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How can the FBI Control what u do with your own money???? It’s yours if u want to be dumb with it well………😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MK-sd8zr
    @MK-sd8zr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This guy is worried his "wife" will turn ugly as she gets older. We all got fears... I'm scared of his never-ending forehead.

  • @suzeelewis718
    @suzeelewis718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My God, my skin feels like it’s crawling. The way he described her made me nearly throw up. Seriously scary person he is!!!

    • @isolda980
      @isolda980 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He has that serial killer vibe.

    • @sandralevin2489
      @sandralevin2489 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@isolda980he's unattractive in so many ways.

  • @smoocher
    @smoocher ปีที่แล้ว +512

    One thing I'm noticing about ALL of these willing victims is that they obsess a lot over the appearance of the people in the photos they receive.

    • @TonyFed
      @TonyFed ปีที่แล้ว +82

      It’s almost as if they are obsessed with superficial features (ie falling in love with a caricature of a person) vs actually looking for a real human connection based on mutual interests, values, personality, etc.

    • @healingandgrowth-infp4677
      @healingandgrowth-infp4677 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is true but one woman really was manipulated for the attention love bombing mind games so not all.

    • @Thatdudewiththedogs
      @Thatdudewiththedogs ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TonyFed almost! Wait….

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yeah just like most of the 60 year old women who get scammed, most seem to fall for body builders or models even if the person is closer to their age.

    • @user-zx7zr1jn4z
      @user-zx7zr1jn4z ปีที่แล้ว

      @Teija Flink To be fair, just judging by the latest "hot scammer" images they showed, the male ones seem far more realistic/average in looks and quality of pictures than the female ones. They're basically all really young models and influencer types photoshopped and with most popular plastic surgeries, fillers. It screams fake profile.

  • @lornaandrews8405
    @lornaandrews8405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1157

    He likes being scammed. He lives in a fairytale world. He needs counseling. In the face of the truth he still chooses to send money. If he doesn’t get psychological help, he will continue be scammed.

    • @AigleNoir12
      @AigleNoir12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's sad but true...I wish he could wise up quickly

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      He seems really sweet and nice. Unfortunately he’s also very lonely and gullible which makes him prime bait for scammers. He’s also looking at women far out of his league looks wise, which also sets people up. Dude, it’s a Nigerian man. I feel bad but damn. You have to stop and smell the coffee.

    • @eaglewinnings8003
      @eaglewinnings8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It’s his drug of choice. The rush he gets from hearing what he wants to hear is worth paying whatever he’s paying to these scammers.
      Almost like those old 1-900 numbers where you paid by the minute and thought you were talking to a Pamela Anderson look alike when really she looked more like your grandmother.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eaglewinnings8003 😂 They still run them 900 number ads with the supposed lonely hot chicks. But they won’t call those because they are honest about the upfront costs. I am baffled why he doesn’t just join an onlyfans or go to a strip club.
      He seems to have a need for the rescue fantasy as well. Hell, I’ll talk to him for $300 a week and actually be appreciative and video chat. Honestly there seems to be a market for these people. They also appear to dislike people in their own looks range, so it’s harder to feel sorry for them.
      I mean this man looks like gargoyle from the Smurfs and was only talking to bikini model looking women, which were of course ALL scammers. I don’t like to insult looks but cmon bro. Get in shape, look your best, get a hair system or something if you want to attract better looking women.

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@crystaloats8177 no he doesn’t. He seems like an absolute creep

  • @jedibob007
    @jedibob007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You know you’re on a whole different level of simp when the FBI is warning you.

    • @isolda980
      @isolda980 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂 LMAO! 😂

  • @SpaceGhost999
    @SpaceGhost999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    "Life is out there kicking me in the teeth again".... bro, you're kicking yourself in the teeth. Thats literally your problem is you don't see its all your own fault.

  • @AM-uu5bb
    @AM-uu5bb ปีที่แล้ว +1446

    He's talking to 16 scammers at the same time. That's beyond unbelievable to me.

    • @missmiss9539
      @missmiss9539 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      They are all working togther

    • @apt5044
      @apt5044 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is a moron... sorry no way to sugar coat this response.... wow.... just WOW! Hey whatever, give them all your money, am sure it will end well! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @tinydream
      @tinydream ปีที่แล้ว +180

      Likely all of them are the same man in Africa

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's clearly an idiot but hopefully he recovers his money and learns from it

    • @davidburke2697
      @davidburke2697 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      He will continue to chat even knowing the truth. Sick dude.

  • @Alwaysinvisable
    @Alwaysinvisable ปีที่แล้ว +1026

    You’ve got to hand it to these scammers, they definitely know who to pick.

    • @mcmcolm
      @mcmcolm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      Statistically, someone who has fallen for an online scam before is the best person to target for another online scam.

    • @passedtense436
      @passedtense436 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      they cast a wide net.

    • @ak-jx1pm
      @ak-jx1pm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dating apps are full of vulnerable people desperate for romance

    • @didtydobble5446
      @didtydobble5446 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      that's a very polite way to put it!

    • @Mike_Davidson
      @Mike_Davidson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What are you implying? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @word-is-bondboxing890
    @word-is-bondboxing890 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This guy only hears what he wants to hear. He cant even answer a simple question even when it is repeated multiple times very clearly.

  • @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643
    @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    "Comes together like a wonderful puzzle." Why did skin suit and Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs suddenly pop into my head?

    • @angelawilliams4239
      @angelawilliams4239 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As soon as I saw your comment I had to tell you I had the exact same thought😅

    • @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643
      @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL. Yeah, my eyes went a little wide and my jaw dropped when I heard it.@@angelawilliams4239

    • @suzeelewis718
      @suzeelewis718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg exactly!!! I just commented if he has a poodle called Precious. He’s soooo scary!!!

  • @athenarisman
    @athenarisman ปีที่แล้ว +725

    So sick of hearing guys like this complain about how they can’t meet “real” women. I reached out to so many guys like him - average 40 year olds - when I was online dating in my 30s, and was always told I was too old for them or “not in their league.” 🙄🙄🙄

    • @Nawtperfect
      @Nawtperfect ปีที่แล้ว +256

      Seriously, it's hard to feel sorry for the guys who demand 8-10s when they are 2-5s. My uncle was such a person, and he died a bachelor because the women who were interested in him didn't look like porn stars.

    • @pinacolada1393
      @pinacolada1393 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @Athena Risman people like that are delusional & unfortunately there seems to be a abundance of them.
      Hopefully you met someone

    • @athenarisman
      @athenarisman ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@pinacolada1393 Thanks, I did eventually meet someone when I was almost 40. In the end, it was definitely worth the wait and all the bs! 🙂

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Seriously, why would a guy tell a woman on a dating site that she's "too old" or whatever... How rude. Did you message them first?

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@athenarisman That's good to hear. Did you meet your partner online?

  • @minka_thork2892
    @minka_thork2892 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    He doesn't like the signs of aging? Man do I have some bad news for him

    • @user.194
      @user.194 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I know right?😂

    • @ANGELGMAILSIX
      @ANGELGMAILSIX ปีที่แล้ว +15

      🤣 🤣 🤣

    • @SAPHYTYRA
      @SAPHYTYRA ปีที่แล้ว +51

      He might be on a goddamned registry

    • @hiitstechsupport1100
      @hiitstechsupport1100 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I thought / hoped I misheard that one haha this man is really something else

    • @karanfield4229
      @karanfield4229 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I love this comment!🥰

  • @oSTYNCLSYo
    @oSTYNCLSYo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    He's no victim, he does it to himself.

    • @lifeloverNorris
      @lifeloverNorris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Speaking of things to do to himself, my god shave off the remaining hair left at the point. You'll look at least 10 years younger bold than with that monstrosity.

    • @spaghettimcmeatballs7489
      @spaghettimcmeatballs7489 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Victim blaming

  • @germimejia7205
    @germimejia7205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    No way he actually thinks hot girls (specifically THAT MANY hot girls) are into him

  • @SwedBaben
    @SwedBaben 2 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    I noticed how the only positive things he could say about her were about her appearance. If you can't name one good thing about someone's personality your relationship isn't real

    • @rarejewel9678
      @rarejewel9678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      All he cares about is the superficial. That is why he is the perfect victim.

    • @carlahaiduk1878
      @carlahaiduk1878 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      But they talked about pizza toppings

    • @laraantipova389
      @laraantipova389 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@carlahaiduk1878 they have so much in common. They both like pizza!

    • @terrytitus5291
      @terrytitus5291 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Another one of these,the guy said he was in love with the pictures,how about getting to know a person,duh!

    • @smachael07
      @smachael07 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I came to the comments to see if anyone else thought he was a CREEP. He is 9/10 creepy.

  • @thycaltrist
    @thycaltrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Dude had the FBI tell him to stop and he went 'it will be fine', he's on a whole other level.

    • @hellman4710
      @hellman4710 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Bruh come on, you're telling me you wouldn't want to be with a dude balding that keeps his side hair long 🤣

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@hellman4710 that’s called a skullet lol

    • @ceIIardoor
      @ceIIardoor ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The got damn FBI

    • @j.rebekah8605
      @j.rebekah8605 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i didn't know the fbi had time to be giving people like this advice. i'd take it if i were him.

    • @tommymaier3017
      @tommymaier3017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@raimeyewens7518 lol

  • @frankyjr888
    @frankyjr888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The victim is completely resistant to advice and will do it again and again, this is an addiction that should be treated.

  • @ishkolnik
    @ishkolnik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It seems like an addiction. He knows that he shouldn't do it and hates himself for it, and yet still pays her to continue the communication. Probably quite lonely and depressed, with the idea of being loved filling a void.

  • @darrenshore5853
    @darrenshore5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +389

    This is utterly pathetic. Even before her he was scammed and FBI told him to stop sending money to people. Some people are so pathetic they will always be a victim

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I watched the full video from start to finish. I have reasons to believe this video is fake and that the people are actors. The story doesn't make sense. Think about it for a second. This is a channel dedicated to cat fishing which is essentially people scammed. The guy in the video came on the show through his own volution. Wouldn't that mean he's establishing the basis that he got scammed by an individual and that he's attempting to recover his loss? Instead, the guy is rationalizing that this is a real person and that the interviewers are attempting to tell him that the person is not real and that he's being scammed. How can someone both accept that they're being scammed but want to continue getting scammed? Either the guy is insane or more rationally this is a show and these are actors.

    • @jamesofficial6829
      @jamesofficial6829 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been a victim several times myself. We all want to be loved in life and I have been in disbelief of being scammed when I knew better but a part of me just doesn't want to believe it. I am a man that desperate that just wants to find love. Its real I would do anything to have love myself. @@Dan-di9jd

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Dan-di9jdmaybe reality goes beyond fiction

    • @RedxRiot
      @RedxRiot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Dan-di9jdPeople have the capacity to be absolutely insane and stupid, I’d believe the cognitive dissonance this man is going through

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RedxRiot no I don’t think people are THAT dumb. I mean dumb yes but not like that dumb. I wouldn’t be surprised it’s just actors to get viewers on his channel. That sounds a lot more reasonable to me

  • @christinerewell9954
    @christinerewell9954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    He's a few sandwiches short of a picnic! She looks young enough to be his daughter. As if she'd be interested in him! 🙄

    • @carolynbell7403
      @carolynbell7403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😆 🤣 😂 😹

    • @jamimazada7428
      @jamimazada7428 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Intrested in his Money

    • @user-uy8vs2ue3f
      @user-uy8vs2ue3f ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jamimazada7428 he isn't that rich.

    • @user-db6el7eb9p
      @user-db6el7eb9p ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think he is 26. He just looks old cause poor guy lost his hair

    • @marylivingstone9815
      @marylivingstone9815 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@user-db6el7eb9p He was 26 twenty years ago.

  • @MW-greatteacher10
    @MW-greatteacher10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How on earth does this happen with someone you don't even speak to? Who sends their retirement money to a text picture?

  • @donaldhavasy2356
    @donaldhavasy2356 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The fact he still calls them “Valerie” instead of “the filthy scammer” shows he isn’t done. He’s paying for a dream. 99% of people would know right away this was a scam, but some people want to dream it could be just maybe might be real.

  • @phillipseifert694
    @phillipseifert694 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    She’s telling him she can’t video chat cause she has an old crappy phone, but sends a mirror selfie showing the latest iPhone
    What did he think these almost professional photos were being taken on? It had to be very hard for him to convince himself that she was real

    • @tribalbabymum
      @tribalbabymum ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I love the photos where the scammer sends them a photo of their broken phone asking for a new phone, LOL

    • @patrickcronin3264
      @patrickcronin3264 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I yelled the same thing wtf....he knew all along but loves reading how great he is from these scammers.

    • @travis-tg5cq
      @travis-tg5cq ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and nice house too

    • @gh-xv1ch
      @gh-xv1ch ปีที่แล้ว +3

      im frustrated with this people. if there is no proper video chat, why keep on going?
      can you tell him that (social catfish), he could have just gotten a homeless one around his area, at least he could see them in person, and maybe he'll get a future with her because of his generosity.
      would have been better if daniel just let all those money went for a hair transplant. before proceeding to go on an online date, i doubt a hot chick would really check him out at this stage. just being blunt.

    • @6AlphaMikeCharlie9
      @6AlphaMikeCharlie9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      c´mon we all know she just borrowed it 🤣

  • @ghostofaforgottenweedle
    @ghostofaforgottenweedle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Scammers got dude on their "Most Wanted" list 💀
    Half of Nigeria already had lunch on him.

  • @umadbra
    @umadbra 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Bro doesn't need help from other people... Bro just needs a mirror.

  • @sogxeuro
    @sogxeuro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The delusion of these people is insane. It's important to be realistic about which league you fit into

  • @amelorins
    @amelorins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    The girl said her phone is old and crappy then sent him a selfie with an iPhone 13 phone lmao

  • @ozzymoto6483
    @ozzymoto6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Why do homely middle age and old men believe that hot young ladies online would ever want to be with them? Talk about living in denial.

    • @elizabethrusso6620
      @elizabethrusso6620 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Absolutely. And, the women too. Falling in love with a modelesque, professional businessman who claims his accent is due to his German father, Spaniard mother, whom relocated to Sweden & sent him to boarding school in the UK before he finally came to the USA. Gets worse--the scammers cannot even speak or write proper English. Honestly! Yet, the women continue sending $$. ???

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That’s what Sugar Babies are for. There’s sites for that. Pay them money and be with them.

    • @KS-yp1jl
      @KS-yp1jl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because they think they're being a cool sugar daddy

    • @johnsampson6387
      @johnsampson6387 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because the alternative is live in reality and that is too harsh for the psyche. I'm a balding unattractive man myself and I don't like going outside much because I don't like how many people treat me, and I much prefer to live in an online fantasy world...so I can completely understand him.

    • @vsanchez7158
      @vsanchez7158 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same with the women. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @JennyWren333
    @JennyWren333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    People falling in love with photographs and lies.
    Before you send money to a fantasy, consider your own future.

  • @CarlosPEnis
    @CarlosPEnis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This guy is the definition of "no self repect" 😂

  • @chanel113
    @chanel113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1755

    The way he describes her looks, getting her teeth done, etc. You’d think he’d put some of that effort into his own.

    • @annatannehill716
      @annatannehill716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ikr

    • @kdp8133
      @kdp8133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @LasVegas Ginger That was classic! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nadiyah7071
      @nadiyah7071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      That was creepy AF 😳

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      LoL its always the case with these type of guys.

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      hahaha omg hahaha

  • @rebeccawoehler-moss9627
    @rebeccawoehler-moss9627 ปีที่แล้ว +1613

    Why in the world would someone think a person that “looks” like her would settle for them? Brutal question, but valid.

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      If you listen to everything he said about his past dating experiences, he has a heavily distorted concept of reality, with absolutely no self-reflection, in which he was a blameless victim.
      He probably thinks he's quite a catch, when I can imagine most women running screaming from him because they can spot a narcissist when they see one.

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Exactly. It only happens in life if he's filthy rich.

    • @ivanlagrossemoule
      @ivanlagrossemoule ปีที่แล้ว +96

      ​@@peterclarke7240 I think it can be the exact opposite. I think he might be depressed and suffers from low self esteem.
      He goes after women who are far and disconnected from his life, who are very good looking, and I think it's unintentionally a way to remain safe. Talking to a girl who would never be interested and is obviously way too good looking, as well as live too far away anyway, is a way to get attention from a woman without risking it going too far, where you'll get hurt. On top of that, if it really does succeed he uses her as a crutch to get an ego boost from other people. He's obviously also very much trying to live the saviour fantasy where the only reason a woman would love him is if he "saves" her. I think this also shows low self confidence, as he can't really see other value in himself.
      Don't forget that a common sign of a lack of self esteem is acted overconfidence.

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@ivanlagrossemoule Possibly, although, as someone who spent many years working in the Mental Health field, I tend to disagree, Nothing he said indicated he had a depressed person's mindset. Depressed people tend to blame themselves, rather than others, although I admit this isn't always the case.
      In regards to low self-esteem... Again, possibly. Although, again, nothing he said indicated that. People with low self-esteem tend not to aim high, largely because they're both convinced they will fail and are convinced they aren't worth it.
      However, everything he DID say, is more akin to Narcissistic Personality Disorder- high expectations of others, a tendency to blame others for your failings, a lack of self-reflection and introspection (both things a person with depression tends to do far too much of), and a tendency to not see or comprehend your own limitations or need for improvement.
      But you're right, he MAY just be depressed.

    • @user-uy8vs2ue3f
      @user-uy8vs2ue3f ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@SweetUniverse most of the time when someone is filthy rich they will not present themselves like this lol

  • @alliegrant4087
    @alliegrant4087 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    "Can't make a housewife out of a ....you know.... a 304?!? "Lmaoo

  • @kremlintroll3268
    @kremlintroll3268 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    He left his abusive wife to be abused by african men.... Well.. each to his own ^^

    • @Cleatus546
      @Cleatus546 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lorra4789
    @lorra4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    He describes her looks…so..looks are important to him. He is delusional!

    • @bridgetxrose
      @bridgetxrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      To be fair in this situation, since she only texts thats all he had to go on. Hes still very delusional though

    • @isay207
      @isay207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Shallow

    • @lorra4789
      @lorra4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@bridgetxrose he needs to look in the mirror and be real with himself!

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💯💯💯💯

    • @bridgetxrose
      @bridgetxrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@lorra4789 Agreed. This is a common theme with these scammer victims. They get with these “people” who are absolutely out of their league and think that they have some kind of shot.

  • @dougboal7425
    @dougboal7425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1234

    I have zero sympathy for Daniel. He was explicitly told NOT to send money online by the FBI. Then what does he do? Send money to scammers online!
    Deep down, he knows these profiles are fake, but he would rather live in a fantasy where he pretends they are real, even if it means going broke! Wake up Daniel!

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      hahaha your right

    • @shumi9688
      @shumi9688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You got it

    • @grannys-cooking-faith
      @grannys-cooking-faith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@shumi9688 Hit the nail on the head.

    • @cucharlie2006
      @cucharlie2006 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He needs Jesus..

    • @Yinyanchant
      @Yinyanchant ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@cucharlie2006 He NEEDS a personality.

  • @Evi_to_Earth
    @Evi_to_Earth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    His lust is unbearable. Get over it! It’s not “Valerie” you are communicating with a grown Nigerian man.

  • @user-gj1me4mf5c
    @user-gj1me4mf5c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish the Scamfish crew were this forward/honest with all "victims". Hold them accountable for their actions!

  • @LilyMBrandon
    @LilyMBrandon ปีที่แล้ว +1060

    I love how he only talks about her looks, not a single thing about her as a human being

    • @cocobunitacobuni8738
      @cocobunitacobuni8738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she's a piece of meat to him

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      He wanted this to be true. He just didn't want to face the reality of this situation.

    • @uniqueEnergy83
      @uniqueEnergy83 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      That’s all he can go by , 😂😂😂 it’s not like he’s gotten to know her mentally

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      What else can he talk about a person who doesn't even exist?! All he knows about "her" are some photos.

    • @cocobunitacobuni8738
      @cocobunitacobuni8738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@vaska1999 she likes money 😅

  • @nofirstgonzalez7888
    @nofirstgonzalez7888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    You’re not “dating” anyone. You’re giving money to scammers. Period.

  • @user-fi8lf8bs7p
    @user-fi8lf8bs7p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He's not unintelligent. I think he enjoys being a victim, looking for sympathy. He must, since he agrees to keep talking to scammers. He's looking for love but all he talks about are her physical attributes. "Food shop talk". She likes pineapple on pizza. Very haute cuisine. He is what I picture when I hear the word "Gamer". You're 46. Get out of the fantasy world. "Life is kicking me in the teeth again." Oh, please - you did it all to yourself, even sending money after you KNEW this was a scammer.

  • @russellhamner4898
    @russellhamner4898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This total dorkwad is my favorite "victim." He starts off with an exhaustive list of every nitpicky little physical trait that he likes about the woman in the pics the scammer sent him, but then when he realizes how laughably shallow that sounds he says "Oh, and we had really deep conversations" or something like that. And of course the really deep, intellectual conversations were just typical "have you eaten, my king?" type scammer one liners. Never insisted on a video chat or even a phone call! Oh, she didn't have enough data/minutes to call or video chat? The dude was supposedly the one paying the bill! Kept on sending money even after they showed him that "she" was fake. NO sympathy!

    • @cops4robbers663
      @cops4robbers663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He even said the thought she had her teethed whitened like that was a flaw she had! I’m dying

  • @jmh8697
    @jmh8697 ปีที่แล้ว +1135

    If I’m having a bad day, I just think “thank goodness I’m not the victim of a romance scam”.
    Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to go and transfer my life savings to Irena, a Ukrainian supermodel who said I was handsome.

    • @ericagor327
      @ericagor327 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂😂😂😂

    • @AACE73
      @AACE73 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

      I love you my King, I can't wait to see you & marry you but I can't afford the plane ticket......

    • @6AlphaMikeCharlie9
      @6AlphaMikeCharlie9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      wow that´s funny, we have something in common,
      i´ve just send my life savings to Ludmilla who lives in Russia, i´ve not seen or spoken to her yet even though we´ve been dating for 5 years. but i imagine she´s got a sexy voice.

    • @electropsychosis
      @electropsychosis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      This “handsome” thing needs to be an automatic red flag, especially if you look like The Lawnmower Man.

    • @AACE73
      @AACE73 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@electropsychosis 😂

  • @lauragriffin6512
    @lauragriffin6512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    Life isn't kicking him in the teeth. He's doing it to himself. Stop playing a victim and accept responsibility for your own decisions.

    • @lauragriffin6512
      @lauragriffin6512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@qtchloe404 He said that when it was confirmed that he was being scammed, which has happened many times before, and which he ALREADY KNEW, it was life kicking him in the teeth. At some point, you are no longer a victim, but a willing dupe.

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b ปีที่แล้ว

      15:40

    • @tinydream
      @tinydream ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@qtchloe404 He kept sending her money even after he knew she was scamming him. I feel bad for his past but he doesn’t want to change his future.

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      That guy just screams retard alert. If anyone asks online asks you for money it's always a scam. He apparently kept sending money despite knowing it was a scam which is an achievement but not as hilarious as that Air Force Controllant who sent 1 million dollars to some Nigerian scammer. Imagine working for the military with classified stuff whatever and still getting duped by some amateur

    • @cieltheeditor7922
      @cieltheeditor7922 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally. He’s pathetic and beyond saving, not to mention a total incel 😂

  • @pg.travels
    @pg.travels 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This guy is making me consider a career change. Scamming looks like easy work..

  • @Nill89
    @Nill89 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Ok, its been proven that she’s a scammer now, I’m not gonna send her money ever again… proceeds to send more money 😂😂😂 This guy is hilarious!!

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Seriously. The guys in Lagos probably couldn't believe it, either 😂

    • @MightyJabroni
      @MightyJabroni ปีที่แล้ว

      Must be some hidden kink. Every broken promise and every check into romantic oblivion must feel like a sweet whiplash on his ass.

  • @walkingstick6655
    @walkingstick6655 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +502

    What's super cringey about all this, is that he felt compelled to reveal all this to the public. And when the FBI is telling you to stop sending money, what the hell is wrong with you?

    • @annanowak9620
      @annanowak9620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      When FBI tells you to stop you know it's really bad...

    • @axjkhl7699
      @axjkhl7699 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      he would probably pay even FBI to body search him

    • @davieboy666
      @davieboy666 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sad prick😂.. I might phone him. 🎉

    • @medici__
      @medici__ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      no shame

    • @javiermp6608
      @javiermp6608 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is mentally sick

  • @clareward8835
    @clareward8835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He looks like he walks round a creepy mansion using his strong hand

    • @Thatboylenny56
      @Thatboylenny56 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @sarahl398
      @sarahl398 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sheritaa3032
    @sheritaa3032 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    🤔How do videos like this make me feel incredibly sorry for the scammed victims but ALSO give me the urge to start my own scamming!?🥴

  • @deniseswann4389
    @deniseswann4389 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +362

    I can see why law enforcement is tired of these people. They never stop falling for this stuff. Dude FBI told you not to send money, I think they have better things to do then babysit you.

    • @franpag2611
      @franpag2611 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      He is enjoying this and is buying a 'social' life for himself. Needs to find a real woman

    • @janewainwright9756
      @janewainwright9756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Absolutely! These sca.mers really are extremely gullible. I feel for their loneliness but for hundreds of thousands of dollars??? Seriously...Babe?

    • @janewainwright9756
      @janewainwright9756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Miscellaneous costs?????

    • @christinecatt8039
      @christinecatt8039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This type of scam is not a crime....so the police will not get involved...neither will the FBI..
      Money is given freely..these people are not coerced in any way...sweet talk, and fooling someone into thinking you love them, again, .this is not a crime
      You can only be used if you allow someone to use you. !!!

    • @zesolodar
      @zesolodar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yep my friend works as a teller at one of the major banks, says people like him walk in almost every day. no matter how many flyers they put on the door and counters, no matter how much he and other tellers, branch managers tell them about it being a scam and they have seen it so many times before people just chose not to listen to reason or think this is the 1 in 1000 time its actually true. whats even worse is when they find out they get scammed the first thing they do is come into the bank and yell at the staff for not stopping it and demanding their money back from the bank. it sucks when all they can do is shrug their shoulders and say we tried multiple times to stop you and talk to you and you cursed us out for calling you stupid and saying we didnt know what we were talking about. he can tell these people exactly whats happening to them word for word and it dosent even register to them how does this guy know its tax stuff, or trying to get them into the country. they must have mind reading abilities

  • @asiamommi
    @asiamommi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Blames 'Life' for kicking him in the teeth when in fact it's his own stupidity..

    • @janeceeastwood8035
      @janeceeastwood8035 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life kicks everyone of us in the teeth. Stand up and grow up.

  • @missrockets777
    @missrockets777 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Help her survive. Such a hero

  • @Bjbuzzkill
    @Bjbuzzkill 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These people have no common sense

  • @redneckedcrake7059
    @redneckedcrake7059 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    When AI really kicks off, these scammers are going to have a field day with AI-generated real-time video calls.

    • @somenteasescrituras4064
      @somenteasescrituras4064 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So true.

    • @ruialexandre6197
      @ruialexandre6197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      We're experiencing the calm before the storm...

    • @blackbat908
      @blackbat908 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That’s WAY into the future. Most watching this video will be dead lol

    • @filvtbak
      @filvtbak 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm gonna love that shit so much, can't wait to mess around with AI, they'll be like real persons, but so much better, bc they won't run away.

    • @Alexsignal90
      @Alexsignal90 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At that point would it just be a very expensive role playing game? 🤣🤣

  • @sakurakitana3087
    @sakurakitana3087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    They Proved She Was FAKE & He Still Sent $$$.
    HE'S NOT A VICTIM
    HE'S SICK & NEEDS HELP

  • @johnharrison6745
    @johnharrison6745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Among others, a good rule-of-thumb is, When someone asks for gift-cards, it IS a SCAM.

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      When someone asks for money it’s a scam. I wouldn’t give $5 to anyone on line.

  • @christopherfreed4966
    @christopherfreed4966 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    this guy is so pathetic he still sends money knowing its fake

    • @sponzie1
      @sponzie1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He is addicted to being needed

  • @Jenny010132
    @Jenny010132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    NOTHING ever raises red flags with these people! The scammer could be standing in front of them screaming, “I AM A SCAMMER STEALING YOUR MONEY” and they still wouldn’t get it!

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your right

    • @jeffreysg
      @jeffreysg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Wait, did you say your are MC Hammer and have a ceiling full of honey? Do you want a $500 google play gift card to help clean it?

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not even an exaggeration. Batshit Lois on Dr. Phil actually received texts from her scammer telling her that he is a scammer and to not send him or anyone else any more money. And she still did.

    • @patriciakalamba8328
      @patriciakalamba8328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beats me...

    • @DocBree13
      @DocBree13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      One of them sent a photo to the woman he was scamming that said “I am a scammer” and she continued to send him money

  • @Dragonfly33
    @Dragonfly33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    Daniel needs a babysitter and a therapist.

    • @elladapetrosyan9610
      @elladapetrosyan9610 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Best comment for this episode! 👍👍👍👍

    • @PROUDCANADIANGIRL
      @PROUDCANADIANGIRL ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Babysitter. 😂 how true.

    • @tatianahawaii13
      @tatianahawaii13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Psychiatrist

    • @johnsampson6387
      @johnsampson6387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No. He needs an understanding, caring non-shallow woman to date him (they probably don't exist in his country though).

    • @macanthonyonyirimba3096
      @macanthonyonyirimba3096 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@johnsampson6387 major 🧢

  • @ronleight9341
    @ronleight9341 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow! There is nothing that can be done for this guy. He wants to be a victim!

  • @Baneslayer
    @Baneslayer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can not believe this level of simping exists.... 😮

  • @BackwoodsFilms
    @BackwoodsFilms 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    "Online dating has burned me, but I am still going to continue to date online."
    Scammer: "That is WONDERFUL news!"

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Immediately after saying this his inbox got filed with friend requests from women out of his league! Such a lucky guy!

    • @Mrvl0125
      @Mrvl0125 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha this guy is funny

    • @davidhumphries1146
      @davidhumphries1146 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm ..not happy people are they?

    • @tubelance
      @tubelance 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FBI: don’t send money to chicks.
      Danny : ok. I’ll send more money to chicks

    • @bms77
      @bms77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justmeagain7that’s the key words “out of their league”…. Some of these dudes are SOOO hard up and lonely that they fall for it. Then some actually get addicted to the roll playing even after learning that it’s not real and that’s how they keep getting scammed lol

  • @Heffsta02
    @Heffsta02 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    his description of her physical form just kept going and going LMAO

    • @forsakenjones4695
      @forsakenjones4695 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Just like Shallow Hal, when he described his ideal woman.🤣

    • @CAMELFLAM
      @CAMELFLAM 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He was attempting to show that he noticed everything befor her chest

    • @wayneolsen8965
      @wayneolsen8965 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like Bob Costas describing Mike Trout at bat

  • @joebermuda6452
    @joebermuda6452 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I couldn’t stop laughing when coming out of HIS mouth he said “ a lot of people say you can’t make a 304 a housewife!!! The way he said it and his nerdy demeanor was priceless

  • @Bristolandlazy
    @Bristolandlazy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He learns she's a Playboy model and still thinks it's possible he's talking to her, wow.

  • @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891
    @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    These guys never ask themselves why a woman who’s out of their league would be into them … 🤦‍♀️

    • @Sandland113
      @Sandland113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We all want something we cannot have,Even the person who is 10 out of 10 want something they cannot have and this why almost everyone is single which that's most people fall for scams!

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The women too. A handsome doctor or oil rig worker has so much trouble finding women.

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@crystaloats8177 My favorite is the oil rig worker asking for money to buy a much needed part for some machinery, and the victim falls for that nonsense.

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He never had friends that tell him the truth. Or he never had a woman tell him how creepy he is. Sometimes it works.

    • @hoosierbaddy3052
      @hoosierbaddy3052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@erinlopez7701 IKR?! They have to drive home the fact to these women that ExxonMobile can pay for its own dang machinery! As if the entire rig was dependent upon the kind and desperate donations from home and abroad. A gofundme for a gas company that owns the world? Oh sure. They even do that with military stories. The ‘soldier’ will ask for money for ammunition and equally needed military gear. AYKM?! And, the US military pays for its own artillery AND flights for the soldiers. Some fall for that scheiss. At least these sheisters are being outed via these videos raising awareness about them. Just when I thought mankind couldn’t get any creepier, enter these scammers. Bleeding some down to a physical death as well as a financial one. Reprehensible! Unconscionable! Sociopathic.

  • @jodylarson4697
    @jodylarson4697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    OMG Daniel! He talks about her hair, her dimples, her glasses, but for heavens sake you know that's not what he's really interested in!
    If he really wants to help people, there are bona fide charities that can use his money.
    I am sure he's on a list. All of Nigeria is passing him around.

    • @lolly5453
      @lolly5453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yeah, her “shoulders” 🙄 sure that’s what caught his eye! 😉

    • @brindacockburn4033
      @brindacockburn4033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Meanwhile he's a real beauty

    • @lolly5453
      @lolly5453 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@brindacockburn4033 tbf, after 12:00 when he has cut that creepy long hair, he looks better. I’m sure if he got out into the real world, kept his expectations to a reasonable level instead of searching for these insta-model-lookin women, he might have a chance at meeting a nice (real, human) woman. Doesn’t sound like he’s learned his lesson tho listening to this interview. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ I guess if we don’t learn from our mistakes and continue the same behaviour, we can’t expect a different outcome... 😏

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not just Nigeria, but also Russia, the former Eastern Bloc, India, the Far East…

    • @Campfire30
      @Campfire30 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      “All of Nigeria is PASSING HIM AROUND”!!!! Lmao you are correct, amazing comment! 😂😂😂

  • @DavidKurtz-gs8kh
    @DavidKurtz-gs8kh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No phones calls no voice mail? Gosh if this doesn’t tell you it’s a scam nothing will Never Never give anyone money online

  • @Mamasitamasbebe
    @Mamasitamasbebe หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “The long hair ‘compilates’ and accents the face , the eyes, shoulders all come together like a puzzle…that I chopped up”, Jeffrey Dahmer. He’s still looking for an IRL victim.

  • @monfisch
    @monfisch ปีที่แล้ว +506

    I’m a little creeped out with the way he described Valerie. He believes he can get a 10 from a sex worker because in his head she has no self esteem like him, and therefore, they would be perfect together. It’s twisted. He has no social skills.

    • @banana9106
      @banana9106 ปีที่แล้ว

      He can get a 10 sex worker, but only if he pays through the nose every time. They make good money, so if he thinks that they will give in their work for him, he is deluded.

    • @char2304
      @char2304 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree 👍

    • @ScandalUK
      @ScandalUK ปีที่แล้ว +57

      It’s the “I’m such a nice guy” routine that you also see from the female victims of these scams.
      It’s like they believe that they’re the only nice people around, so that quality alone puts them ahead of competition.

    • @angeldiaz762
      @angeldiaz762 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ironic part here in all this is that a sex worker would've cost him less than what he spent.

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      He says he doesn’t like the signs of aging and he’s almost bald. This guy is going to spend his life alone if he’s waiting for a woman that’s a 10. He needs to look at 1’s-4’s. That’s his level.

  • @Cerraigh82
    @Cerraigh82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Everything he likes about this girl: hair, nose, teeth, dimples, shoulder, cleavage. Yeah.... He really got to know her on a personal level.
    That girl on the picture looks about 20. He seems super creepy.

    • @TheRealCora
      @TheRealCora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he said hes 26, so i think he just looks 20 years older than he really is

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheRealCora what? I thought he said he’s 40.

    • @imalrockme
      @imalrockme ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@TheRealCora I heard 46.

    • @kongvinter33
      @kongvinter33 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@imalrockme you heard right

    • @eckankar7756
      @eckankar7756 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, they had a deep discussion about pizza toppings

  • @kaede1_346
    @kaede1_346 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These dudes whenever they're asked about what they love about their ''partner":
    "Positive canthal tilt, dimple on right lower cheek, mole 2 cm under eye, C cups, large irises, thick lips, chocolate light brown hair, pink skin undertone..."

  • @SRichards-de7ri
    @SRichards-de7ri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lmao having to fly out to meet the CFO just to quit your job 😂😂

    • @grxzzly94
      @grxzzly94 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      he goofy as hell 😂