Her husband really should have left her. He shouldn't be putting up with all that bullshit. Plus she has her porn collection all over their house WTF. That is so gross and crazy. Her husband is crazy too, just for tolerating it.
I've met people like Sarah before. My guess is that she's spent her whole life saying she's "quirky and weird" to get away with not being a better/ more responsible person.
More creepy, hanging your house full of ornaments resembling men's genitalia. For one reason or other she's a bit obsessed with sex. Who goes immediately to a foot fetish site to make money when you gave your's away.
Service member here... if you are injured you get sent typically to a hospital in Germany. Then you are sent all the way back to your base. I had to come home early and my flight was paid for... everything back to my station in the States. You are fed 3 meals a day or given MREs. Trust me the military isn't going to let you starve to death.
I am not a service member, but have done medical rotations at Water Reed and other veterans hospitals, and despite some government red tape… the care for US military members is top notch. I can’t quite understand how some people believe that deployed US soldiers rely on random Internet charity for food, lodging and medical care. Even if you have no connection to the US military, that makes no sense and would be front page news everywhere if true.
My dad served 25 years in the Navy and did eight tours of Vietnam. He was injured by a falling tree, had his leg crushed. He was indeed airlifted to Germany to have his lower leg pinned back together. As soon as he was able to walk unassisted, he was sent right back to Vietnam and continued fighting. I get the giggles when these women fall for the "I'm in the military but I need Apple cards to eat and can't video chat" bullpoo. The military takes care of everything for service members and video chat is indeed allowed. I guess the delusion is just too strong.
My hubby is a Vietnam vet! The Army pays for everything! Even paid for my insurance back then in the 60s. Military has always taken care of their own and spouses! He doesn’t need their services now but aware they are available! Don’t ever believe a scam that says military won’t pay for their servicemen/women!
And publicised it so the world , and anyone he'll ever meet, can see this embarrassing humiliation. Shame on herfor having no shame and being horrible to someone who's better to her than she deserves- and better than she's ever likely to find again. How tragic, sickening and revolting. She's disgusting.
IKR...has the audacity in her complete delusional state to talk about how the scammer did another human wrong but yet SHE was the one stepping out on a COMMITMENT. The scammer owed her nothing. Of course that REALITY goes right over her head. Even in the discussion with the crew she immediately shifted the attention back to how wrong the scammer was when they talked about her marriage.
Dignity, respect and love; everyone deserves these three things. You should have that in a life partner, if you don’t, leave. I feel so bad for the husband. He’s clearly blinded by his love for his wife.
Yeah her huaband could actually do better. Usually it's fat loser old dudes getting catfished by Nigerian romance scammers who turn their back on good wives who could do better.
@BlueSynth yeah, the 10 or so videos I've listened to have had me thinking that these people deserve to be robbed. But there's still the one poor lady who lost her husband and the guy who's wife passed that were like "hey, that's fucked up." I'd be fine with romance scammers if they had morals and just targeted the cheaters.
My exact same thoughts. No BACKBONE AND WILL NEVER HAVE ONE. THE ONLY REASON SHE IS WITH HIM IS TO BE ABLE TO TALK TO OTHER MEN. SHE GOT EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVED! ITS KARMA..
Lol, right! “She said she lost 60k in investments”. “She emptied out her 401k, sent him money on Discover cards”. She’s a whole liar and had her husband completely in the dark.
@@doomeddodo She was still lying. The closest thing she came to admitting that she wanted to be with John was admitting that maaaybe she had some thoughts about him that she shouldn't have had. Like...ummm yeah we all know that. He is calling you beautiful, you keep saying you "just want to meet him" and gave him every cent you and your husband own in the whole world. That is obviously not a platonic relationship on your part. But she would never admit it
To be fair, I am not even really that sorry for her husband. I am actually almost as angry at him for putting up with this. 10% of what she has done wold be an understandable grounds for divorce but instead he just says "Well, its only money so I just want to support her" while she is heartbroken over her fake man she wanted to have an affair with. This whole situation is maddening
I dont feel bad for her husband. I guarantee he was abusing her and she found alternatives to get a way from him emotionally. He deserves everything he had coming to him. Sorry but if he abuses his wife and lets her have these antics, he should responsible even after a divorce to support her. Realistically I bet he should be in jail for the way he treated her.
@@stallionstudios you can not guarantee poooop. What are you smoking? Are you such a simp or just delusional? Where do you get that her husband was abusing her? He maybe weak and probably deserves whatever happening in his life but I don't see how he could be abusive. If anyone is abusing anyone it is his wife abusing his trust. Your gaslighting level is astounding.
@@stallionstudios A whole lot assuming there, i also dont feel bad for him, but nowhere are there signs that he abuses her, its more likely she would be abusing him.
Amen! I dealt with a cheating husband for 42 years left after I found out I was dying because he was poisoning me. I was in hospital for two years with organ failure. I had to leave the state for protection & am doing very well on my own & love being on my own. He didn't want a divorce because he'd have to give up half of everything.🤦 He was on a dating site & I found out so much during the 6+ year divorce!
There is a difference between “quirky and free-spirited” versus “reckless, uncaring immaturity.” If you harm others with your “quirkiness,” you have crossed that line and it isn’t cute anymore.
I don’t think this is normal on the husbands side, which man or woman would just sit there and say it’s just money where as they don’t look that wealthy 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
Has anyone checked in on him and made sure he hired a divorce attorney? This slag admitted he would allow her to bring additional people into her life specially "because that's how he is" and that he wouldn't partake. She's not even hiding how slimy and grimy she is. She's not taken any responsibility. What a raging narcissist. The best thing that could happen to both of them is for John to leave her high and dry on her a$s.
@@EMILY4DAYS For sure. I feel like she has done some sneaky shit before this too but this just ended up coming to light due to the amount of money. If this dude was real, she would have left her husband.
She's not quirky or weird, she's immature, manipulative, irresponsible and shockingly disrespectful towards her husband and her marriage. The only thing I hear from her is me me me , I I I. I guarantee her husband is not as ok with what she's done as she keeps saying he is. I hope her husband sees her for what she is, moves far far away from her and finds a woman who can give him the love and respect he deserves.
@@kairee8989 Her husband is a manipulator too. That money was obviously hers because she didn't need his approval and signature for it. He is probably professionally unemployed and married her to sponge off of her. I don't doubt if she got a big inheritance and he latched onto her at that point.
@@pollypurree1834 is that what the video said? He’s unemployed? She was doing these transactions through her personal bank. They never had a shared account. I mean if he is a mooch at the end of the day there’s no excuse for that but that’s her fault too for letting him mooch. It’s no excuse for her to treat him like complete shit. I’m js
Hate that word. No such thing as a soul mate. If that was the case, she would have already been with scammer before taking a vow before GOD to her current husband. There are multitudes of Pookies, RayRays or dimple faced chads out there who have had at least 7 soul mates meaning one of these has mine.
She run out of money! Do you think anyone on their right mind would speak to someone like that, and say omg you're pretty without getting paid?😂 I'm sorry but this is the truth.
I noticed this as well!!! She complete takes him for granted and doesn't appreciate him at all!!! She lucky to even have a man looking like that and treating him so poorly!
@@jasmithmarin9478 She’s a damn thief - why is a bank robber put in jail for taking money that does not belong to him, yet she does the same thing & is not in jail, where she belongs!🤬
Ya this woman has issues. She seems to think everything should revolve around her. If course now this wasn't her fault. Narcissism at its best and worst
I agree with all these comments. Her husband is a good man, especially staying with her. I mean, why wouldn't a person put all that money and effort into your marriage instead of a complete stranger? I mean that's just my morals and beliefs... I feel so sorry for her husband. 💔
_"It's just money!"_ says husband Brian. *No, sir!* It is sadly wayyyyyy more than that! It is a disloyal, narcissistic wife who abused your trust and loyalty. I cannot imagine ever forgiving such treacherous behaviour!
I obviously can't see his thoughts, but I get the impression that he is emotionally checked out and says "Its just money" cause he doesn't know how to fix the situation and feels he couldnt find anyone else. So, he gave up, checked out, and stuck around. Seems hurt and angry, and decided to check out.
So you find a partner who loves and accepts you and your quirks, gives you room to explore and trusts you enough to be okay with meeting and speaking to strangers online. And you repay him by emotionally cheating and sending a stranger THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS OF YOUR SHARED/MARITAL MONEY. 😂😂😂 What????
We're dealing with a peculiar specimen. It's difficult to understand. Hell I start seeing red flags as soon as an attractive woman calls me handsome. Being cynical like that has made me scam repellent
Agreed! It must have been hard for her to share her story. Which I hope is a wakeup call to some else. However, with all the quirks and understanding her partner accepted, the fact that she had no boundaries is mind-boggling. Even if we have no idea of who/what he actually is, sending that amount of marital assets doesn't excuse it. Hopefully they will find peace. Geeze...
She’s totally delusional!!! Look at him (catfish picture) and look at her 😳 there is absolutely no way a guy like him would want a woman like her. I don’t feel bad for her one bit. She did her husband dirty and she’s clearly a moron. 🤦🏻♀️
I am 78 and the wife of a Vietnam veteran! The military does not treat their people like she has been told. The military paid for me to choose the Dr of my choice in 1965 to have for my pregnancy and hospital stay. They took great care of me too! They are well fed..well taken care of always. He still can avail himself for services if needed. Don’t ever buy the story our military doesn’t care for these people in the service! 🇺🇸
Her husband is a moron. No self respecting man would put up with this! She is a raving lunatic, stupidest woman I've ever seen! What a miserable couple!🙄
I liked weirdos because I’m weird. But what the fuck!?! This woman is not just weird she’s selfish. She has a man who clearly adores her and she’s all over the internet looking for special ‘friends.’ Give me a break
She’s a narcissist. If he sticks around, he better be ready cause the next stunt she’s going to pull is going to be even crazier. Narcs love pushing boundaries to see if their supply will continue to give them support and “love”.
@@ickiedeer-lamb7282 he’s not leaving. He is a narcissist’s ultimate target; he has a point to prove about unconditional love, and she has the person who is going to supply her with tolerance, disaster after disaster. In many ways she will destroy herself in the process of destroying him due to her having to reach new extremes to reach her dopamine hit of horrible behavior that or rewarded by affection, patience and love, to which she deserves none of.
She is repulsive in every sense of the word. She doesn’t deserve him. “It’s just money, it’s just money”. No, it’s YOUR money. Your wife is out here sending YOUR money on a man she was hoping to dump you for.
Brian is swallowing a lot of anger right now, the twitches in his eyes, the grating of the teeth, so much suppressed emotion....it’s going to eat him alive unfortunately.
BC he had no idea and probably just found out she's given ALL of their money to a make believe romeo that didn't even have to steal her SS# and bank account PWs! YIKES
Because she's deflecting. She tries to make herself look pitiful by comparing herself "see, we are both victims! Oh, I'm so glad I'm not the only victim, this is bigger than just me." It makes her feel like she has no responsibility to take for her actions. That's how it came across to me anyway.
Not even it makes her feel "guilty" for how she's treated her husband. No she feels "stupid" because she was fooled. So selfish and self-centred Guaranteed if he was real she would start having a affair with him and keep stringing her husband along I feel for the husband.
@@wayneolsen8965I felt bad for him in the beginning but at this point does he even have any respect for himself? He couldn't even put his foot down to her shenanigans one time. And he's not even a terrible looking guy, imo he's actually better looking than her and could for sure find someone better.
She's lying to herself and to everyone, denial. She got obsesses with an illusion and the scammer behind the illusion knew how to manipulate her. She is simply a dumb human with a dumb hubby who enables her. Who knows, maybe in past life she was a scammer and this life being scammed or maybe in a past life she was a worm and just entered as a human form so not bright in human ways yet.
I don’t get how anyone has that sort of money to give away. I’m lucky if I have a spare £30 left over at the end of the month. If I had £250k I’d be buying a house outright.
What a selfish woman. She’s got a handsome, tolerant, REAL husband, but chose to send all her money to a scammer!!! Cut your ego woman, you are IT competent, so why didn’t you check with the US defence force if what he told you was true??? I don’t feel sorry for her, I do feel sorry for her wonderful real husband…. He should walk out of this marriage… he deserves so much better, this selfish (all we hear is “I”) woman will never change. !!! Now it’s online, that wonderful, patient, loving REAL husband can take his pick of any (real) woman in this world!!!!!
When Brian said he didn't know she talked to some John until the hosts told him, it means that fat bitch would he dumped him in 1 second if that scammer actually turned out to be real
EVERYBODY: you get what you put up with. What you Allow will be allowed. No one should walk all over you- stand up and Stop them. Google assertiveness techniques, support groups and how to be independent.
I have no sympathy for him . He accepted her intimacy with John. She’s probably been unfaithful before and he just accepts it , so she carries on. They deserve each other .
Wait. She said selling feet pictures are weird? But it’s not weird at all to give a complete stranger you have never met $250,000!? These people are soooo crazy.
Imagine taking thousands of dollars from your husband and ruining your finances and then thinking you did nothing wrong. This woman will keep doing this. She is insufferable.
He doesn’t realise that ,he is just a simp that doesn’t get it , if John was real she would have left him that day ,that’s why she was sending money to him in the hope that she would have met him in person .
I know! Halfway thru the video, she said that giving all the money to John "ruined us." But she doesn't feel like she did anything wrong!? She also said she feels like the blame belongs only with "that person," the scammer. So she's taking no responsibility for destroying the family finances and hurting her husband.
1:25 I looked away for a second, and heard what I thought sounded like "I am obsessed with peanuts." I thought, "Are we talking about the Charles Schultz cartoon with Charlie Brown and Snoopy, or Planters peanuts? Either way, there's nothing wrong with that." And then I looked up and saw the screen and I realized I need to get my hearing checked.
"Why is our military treating people like this?" It isn't. People on deployment don't pay for their food, medicine, and transportation. How could this woman be so stupid?
how can se be this stupid? a gorgeous fit military man was claiming she was 'the most beautiful woman he ever saw' and she belived him. im pretty sure shes a few cans short of a 6pack.
Right, she should be begging him for forgiveness and being so gullible. Then she needs to give him her credit cards, and she needs to stop spending money or not have a bank account at all.
When she introduced herself I thought she was saying that she is obsessed with peanuts...🤣 when I realised what she actually said it was "OMG this is the most embarrassing woman on that series."
She probably _was_ saying peanuts- her keepers certify that's her favorite snack She gets extra if she behaves herself during the show and picks up the logs properly
Yes, she is weird, crazy, and wacky and is not just interested in him as a friend. NO woman sends hundreds of thousands of dollars to JUST someone she wants to be friends with. Wow.
She claims just friends but admits to romance. She seems psychotic, lying to herself and everyone and believing her own lies. So a scammer calls her pretty and believes that as well.
I dont feel bad for her husband. I guarantee he was abusing her and she found alternatives to get a way from him emotionally. He deserves everything he had coming to him. Sorry but if he abuses his wife and lets her have these antics, he should responsible even after a divorce to support her. Realistically I bet he should be in jail for the way he treated her.
The whole "queen" thing seems to be an essential to these scams. Would any woman really want to called "my queen"? Sounds like something out of a cheap romance novel. That's one big red flag. I am also blown away at how vulnerable some are to being told how beautiful they are....and not to question why the military would leave an injured soldier in Syria to pay their own way home????? Really. Think of all the penis trinkets she could have bought with that 250,000.00 dollars.
Her husband looks so low and dejected. There's no love in this relationship, she's a selfish manipulator and his self esteem is too low to walk away. Sad times
He has no self esteem, he feels he can do no better than her and won't leave her. She married a stepping stone she just abuses. He'd be so much better on his own.
@@elipotter369Agreed! I think he is in shock. I’ve reacted the same in a past relationship. I was just in total shock. (I learned my BF was married…the day after he moved in with me)
@@lzbhcvm6747hell yeah. I’m talking bring back 499BC when the greeks and the Persians were besties. Or 27BC now that was the good old days where Rome was so perfect. 610 CE would be a revolutionary day for the ladies of Arabia. Oh and omg 1492CE was such a great year to be living in America. You get my drift lol
@@lzbhcvm6747the ole times of cutting your tongue 👅 out for speaking nonsense?😂 Go MGTOW ur self under a 🪨🕳️. This is beyond pandering to anyone obviously both of them are messed up it’s not a healthy marriage. Folks like you, her, and him probably should stay single unless you ❤️🩹 well.
@@lzbhcvm6747the old times. Like when people owned slaves? When women were beaten and couldn’t vote? When gay people like myself were beaten, imprisoned and executed? Is that what you’re talking about? Were those really good times?
The husband kept saying its just money, but he wasn't grasping the reason as to why she was sending all that money. She definitely would've cheated on the husband if that man was real.
Yeah she's a terrible person. Disgusts me just to look at her. She got what she deserved and her husband kind of has too for being so weak. He should stand up for himself, then use those legs to run.
also that she lied to brian about the amount of money she lost was disgusting... normally i can watch these videos and feel a little empathy to the victim. but this psychopath of a woman has nothing worthy of empathy. i feel so sorry for brian and hope he can get away from her and rebuild his life. he seems like a pretty chill guy. im not saying she deserved to get scammed, but she needs to wake up and see how the world works
What do you mean no remorse? She's sitting next to him bawling her eyes out in the video. She's sorry af. You ever been married 25 years? I have been, and my husband never has to tell me he is sorry, I know how he feels. However, I bet you my cup of coffee here that she did say sorry to him.
"Did I care about him? Yes! Was I hoping to meet him? Yes!" 😂 Are you delusional? Yes! Is the guy in the photo out of your league? Yes! Are you a horrible wife? Yes! Does your husband deserve someone better? YES!!
Yes she willingly gave in fact. All these victims They were not robbed like beaten down. They all had a choice. None of them were ever, ever forced to send any one any money. In reality, You don't owe that person Anything at all. I don't feel sorry for any of them. I could care less they get scammed. Look at me I disability & special needs. Yet I know better then to send money to complete strangers We were taught when we were younger. Not to go Or take things from strangers. That should be giving too.
I find it incredibly hard to believe that her husband has no feelings about this. Pissing away 1/4 million dollars to emotionally cheat with a stranger?
I think she means it. Not everyone is in a 'normal' relationship. There are tons of people who clearly have their main partner but where both are free to play around. That does not in any way mean they care any less for that one partner. Though I think that kind of relationship does require 100% honesty. She lied to him but I do think she is honest about her feelings towards him.
So a married woman who looks like HER would have a man who looks like THAT fall head over heels and say she’s the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen…? Seems legit. 😐🙄
It boggles my mind how the majority of women in these stories fall for that immediate red flag line "You're so beautiful". It has to be the result of what I call The Social Media Syndrome. You post your picture on Social Media, and your friends repeatedly tell you how beautiful/hot/sexy you are, and you actually begin to believe it! Ladies, your friends and family members are being kind. Please, get naked and take a good long look in a mirror. Then ask yourself, would a young, handsome, ripped & cut man, who obviously works hard to make his body pleasing to the eye, want this fupa and these sagging breasts in his life? If you can honestly answer YES! - Then, there is just no hope for you at all.
yeah she's just gross, selfish, uncaring, unappreciative etc... "oh penises on my clothes for Xmas" totally immature and inappropriate around kids. As if he would wanna touch her 🤮🤡🤑
Im not sure he is, he's dead behind the eyes... hate to think what he's like when he realises it's more money then he thought... he needs to leaves this woman....
If this is the way she treats her "soul mate", I'd hate to see how she treats someone she hates. I nearly choked when she said she wanted to know why people serving in the military are treated so poorly. How can ANYONE be that delusional? Her husband seemed like he wanted to work through what happened, but his body language told a different story. Inside, he seems deeply hurt and broken. He said "...it's just money...", but it's about much, MUCH more than that and he knows it. As someone who places an extremely low level of trust in people I don't know, I find it mind boggling how people on the show fall for this shit, especially to the point of sending huge amounts of money, sometimes to the point where they're financially struggling to support a fucking STRANGER! How in the hell can anyone be that delusional??? The vast majority of people we cross paths with in life DO NOT deserve our trust, much less our hard-earned money. But, yeah, I'll believe every fucking word some random ass stranger tells me online. I'm sharing my life with my "soul mate", but I'm sending every dime we have to this random ass guy online who I only want to be "friends" with. God damn. 😢
Imagine being Brian's parents and siblings knowing that his dreadful choice for a wife has wrecked his life. They must be devestated. He could have done so much better.
I totally understand how she feels. I’m talking to a gorgeous young lady from Ukraine and it’s very nice to receive compliments from her. I also feel bad for her because the poor woman has one problem after the other. Now she’s having all sorts of trouble trying to get on a plane to see me. I just sent her $3000 for her visa application and I’m so excited to see her after 5 years of texting.
Sarah: “I don’t think I did anything wrong.” Also Sarah: *bankrupts herself so thoroughly that her husband has to choose between divorce and retirement*
Just because it wasn't in the video, doesn't mean it didn't happen. In reality she's probably said "I'm sorry" a thousand times, but privately. And there's nothing wrong with that.
Why apologize to him? So he let it happen. The woman is crazy and ungrateful, we all see that, but why did her husband allow her to do all that? It's no longer a relationship or a marriage, it's torture that will end in murder or murder and suicide... Both are guilty.
I'm alone, there is no happiness, at least not for me. Maybe I deserve it tho, but it is not a happy place, very dark and slimey, and introspective and.....I could go on, but I think I made my point.
@lobodesade6780 I hope you find happiness. Being lonely is awful. Being used by someone as this woman is using her husband is just as awful. I hope one day you are no longer lonely. I believe we all experience loneliness at one point or another. Reach out to someone if possible.
@themudpit621 not disrespectful at all. He is being used and abused by her. If and that's a big if she truly loves him then maybe they can work it out. He needs self-esteem and to know his self-worth. He seems like a nice guy and I don't want him to be alone but better alone than to be with someone who beats you down mentally and emotionally. That is abuse and worse than being alone.
@@themudpit621 you're a lvl0r0n. She was clearly trying to leave Brian for this guy she's never met. That was the end goal here. She wasn't going to stay faithful to Brian. And then she got caught, everything backfired, and now she's broke and dependent on Brian. Did you hear the part about how Brian didn't know about any of this until very recently? When it had been going on for years?? Any logical person would've left this 8itch the moment they found out. She's a terrible person. Absolutely disgusting.
@@JohnDoe-ov7hc Some men are just so extremely easy-going that their wives walk all over them. They take advantage of their total lack of aggression, and their inability to stand up for themselves. Most men have it in us to be aggressive and confrontational whenever we need to be. Some men have much higher levels of aggression. And then there’s guys like him who just want to coast through life without drama and letting their woman do whatever she wants. She’s using his nature against him.
LOL I’m just a quirky narcissist who has abused my husband financially and mentally because I wanted someone more attractive than him but not divorce him because he pays the bills and funds my bad habits. -Gives compliments to her husband when she finds out the guy was fake and now she has to be “stuck” with her loving husband. The sin of lust RUINS lives.
My hope is Brian live off her and plays video games all day. They were pretty clear it was “her 401k” and accounts. Maybe that’s why he’s so chill, he’s lived off the woman for a long time and another guy just got in one the action.
Many of these people who are catfished seem to have some mental disadvantage,because there's no logical reasoning and consequences of their actions seem to be totally irrelevant. I can understand a desperately lonely person falling prey to this type of scam,but a happily married person😮 She says her actions make her feel stupid,but then she still shares her story online. Crazy crazy.
Divorce courts exist to destroy families and divide men against women so that only the government is there to rely on and to enforce rules. Women like this one are literally the reason western civilization is going down the shitter. The reality is that women like here should dress modestly, plant a garden, sew, clean, cook, and organize her household... Not chatting with randos online, but as soon as you say that its "CunTRoLlinG". So in the end, fewer men end up getting married and women like her turn into pathetic spinsters selling feer pics in an already over saturated smut market.
😢 he will never divorce her people like that are so lonely and have low self-esteem that they're willing to let somebody use them in real life the only difference between him and her is that she's stupid enough to fall for a fake person but at least he knows who he fell for and he's just like whatever this is all I can get!
Well tbf if he was real he wouldn't have messaged her in the 1st place. Young handsome dudes don't pursue overweight middle-aged women that are not traditionally pretty. That works for pretty young women/men and middle-aged, beer gut men as well for that matter. If it seems too good to be true, it's not true.
@mimiveggie8653 The lack of self-awareness I've seen in these videos is astronomical. I've seen two with obese women thinking they were talking to famous actors. One even left her husband for the fake boyfriend.
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What she did to her husband was so much worse than what the scammer did to her.
Exactly! Imagine if this was for real... she would have left her husband for him, no doubt, and that poor husband still sticks with her...
Her husband really should have left her. He shouldn't be putting up with all that bullshit. Plus she has her porn collection all over their house WTF. That is so gross and crazy. Her husband is crazy too, just for tolerating it.
Yep
Agree!
Ya, that poor guy. She gave away everything they had together😢
The victim here is her husband, I have no sympathy for her.
But the husband is also a bit strange. What husband is ok with this??? OMG
Got that right...if I was her husband I would furious 😠 😡 would divorce her what an insult
U damn right I don't understand why her husband is pussy whip 😂
So true !!!!
I agree
I've met people like Sarah before. My guess is that she's spent her whole life saying she's "quirky and weird" to get away with not being a better/ more responsible person.
Good call.
I mean she is but she's very manipulative
More creepy, hanging your house full of ornaments resembling men's genitalia. For one reason or other she's a bit obsessed with sex. Who goes immediately to a foot fetish site to make money when you gave your's away.
Exactly this.
right.
Service member here... if you are injured you get sent typically to a hospital in Germany. Then you are sent all the way back to your base. I had to come home early and my flight was paid for... everything back to my station in the States. You are fed 3 meals a day or given MREs. Trust me the military isn't going to let you starve to death.
I am not a service member, but have done medical rotations at Water Reed and other veterans hospitals, and despite some government red tape… the care for US military members is top notch.
I can’t quite understand how some people believe that deployed US soldiers rely on random Internet charity for food, lodging and medical care.
Even if you have no connection to the US military, that makes no sense and would be front page news everywhere if true.
My dad served 25 years in the Navy and did eight tours of Vietnam. He was injured by a falling tree, had his leg crushed. He was indeed airlifted to Germany to have his lower leg pinned back together. As soon as he was able to walk unassisted, he was sent right back to Vietnam and continued fighting. I get the giggles when these women fall for the "I'm in the military but I need Apple cards to eat and can't video chat" bullpoo. The military takes care of everything for service members and video chat is indeed allowed. I guess the delusion is just too strong.
Hypothetical scenario question: if both of your hands were injured and all taped up, will the military coordinate a nurse to
‘Help you out” ?
My hubby is a Vietnam vet! The Army pays for everything! Even paid for my insurance back then in the 60s. Military has always taken care of their own and spouses! He doesn’t need their services now but aware they are available! Don’t ever believe a scam that says military won’t pay for their servicemen/women!
Of course, that's self-evident to anyone who is not a completely addled imbecile. You know, like Sarah.
There's a huge difference between "being supportive" and being a door mat.
Exactly. I think men would refer to him as a simp. Sorry. And I have no idea why
That's true, if he sent $250,000 to a woman on the internet she wouldn't stick with him. There's nothing stopping him leaving her.
He must really have low self esteem. She's not even attractive so it can't be because of that.
Get the feeling that hubby just wants a sandwich, a bed and a tv.
But why is he a doormat for her?
She’s a bigger villain than the scammer. She cheated, committed fraud, and stole from her husband.
And still feels sorry for herself. I can't take it
She was dickmitised.plain and simple.
I hope he divorced her. He can do a lot better.
And publicised it so the world , and anyone he'll ever meet, can see this embarrassing humiliation. Shame on herfor having no shame and being horrible to someone who's better to her than she deserves- and better than she's ever likely to find again. How tragic, sickening and revolting. She's disgusting.
IKR...has the audacity in her complete delusional state to talk about how the scammer did another human wrong but yet SHE was the one stepping out on a COMMITMENT. The scammer owed her nothing. Of course that REALITY goes right over her head. Even in the discussion with the crew she immediately shifted the attention back to how wrong the scammer was when they talked about her marriage.
The irony of her crying about someone that’s NOT MARRIED TO HER “being that cruel”, whilst SHE IS screwing over her own HUSBAND is not lost on me.
true...she doesn't deserve her husband. She should have stayed single
I love how chill he is until they really talk to him and suddenly he spends the rest of the time looking like hes thinking of ways to murder.
He even starts covering his mouth while talking.
She's delusional.
She ruined her husband's & her future.....over this liar.
It isn’t just money, Brian, it’s your dignity.
It's your... Oh, forget it!😅
Dignity, respect and love; everyone deserves these three things. You should have that in a life partner, if you don’t, leave. I feel so bad for the husband. He’s clearly blinded by his love for his wife.
@@jessieb7290he blinded by no love he’s just desperate and insecure
She paid some kid a quarter of a million dollars to tell her she’s hot. One of the more pathetic things I’ve ever heard
I would have told her she’s smokin hot for half of that🙌😆
Damn straight
And she still thinks she is hot. The lesson is not learnt.
She is just an ugly 3/10 but she still thinks she is the prize in the relationship.
its like those dude ho spend money on streamer girls for attention xD
@@marcusherts9345Hell, I'll tell her in person, for just 50k
She doesn't realize how lucky she was to find anyone to marry her, let alone put up with her.
Yeah her huaband could actually do better. Usually it's fat loser old dudes getting catfished by Nigerian romance scammers who turn their back on good wives who could do better.
cho cho mama wont you ride with me
Yep , she looks like a bucket full of Burnt Lego !
What's the point of finding someone (the guy) so stupid that he won't leave her even when she's cheating openly
😂😂😂😂😂
For once the scammer was the least scummy person in this story.
For once? I would say it's 50/50 from the episodes I've watched
@@BlueSynth83 you know what your right a lot of these people are massive dickheds
@BlueSynth yeah, maybe even 70/30 with more being terrible people
@BlueSynth yeah, the 10 or so videos I've listened to have had me thinking that these people deserve to be robbed. But there's still the one poor lady who lost her husband and the guy who's wife passed that were like "hey, that's fucked up."
I'd be fine with romance scammers if they had morals and just targeted the cheaters.
I agree ,why is she talking to other men ...if she's married 🤨🙄.
Your husband isn't supportive of your shenanigans. He's just missing a backbone.
Maybe he is just too chill.
Ehh my guess is he’s doing the same behind her back. He seems too chill about all this lol
My exact same thoughts. No BACKBONE AND WILL NEVER HAVE ONE. THE ONLY REASON SHE IS WITH HIM IS TO BE ABLE TO TALK TO OTHER MEN. SHE GOT EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVED! ITS KARMA..
It's men like him that are the problem for us all.
Sometimes people just need all their money taken off them. Like a re balancing?
Balls!
Sarah: my husband knew everything.
Husband: I just found out today.
Lol, right! “She said she lost 60k in investments”. “She emptied out her 401k, sent him money on Discover cards”. She’s a whole liar and had her husband completely in the dark.
Exactly.
She lied the whole time to him than in the camera to everybody,like wtf lady.
Poor guy.
@@doomeddodo She was still lying. The closest thing she came to admitting that she wanted to be with John was admitting that maaaybe she had some thoughts about him that she shouldn't have had. Like...ummm yeah we all know that. He is calling you beautiful, you keep saying you "just want to meet him" and gave him every cent you and your husband own in the whole world. That is obviously not a platonic relationship on your part. But she would never admit it
To be fair, I am not even really that sorry for her husband. I am actually almost as angry at him for putting up with this. 10% of what she has done wold be an understandable grounds for divorce but instead he just says "Well, its only money so I just want to support her" while she is heartbroken over her fake man she wanted to have an affair with. This whole situation is maddening
Shocked me too. Who could be that calm about $60,000 then finds out it’s $250,000. I’m in the wrong business
The way she openly abuses and exploits Brian is absolutely astounding. She isn't the victim; she's the perpetrator.
She keeps lying about the love affair and her feelings for the scammer
I dont feel bad for her husband. I guarantee he was abusing her and she found alternatives to get a way from him emotionally. He deserves everything he had coming to him. Sorry but if he abuses his wife and lets her have these antics, he should responsible even after a divorce to support her. Realistically I bet he should be in jail for the way he treated her.
he didn't even get an apology or a thank you
@@stallionstudios you can not guarantee poooop. What are you smoking? Are you such a simp or just delusional? Where do you get that her husband was abusing her? He maybe weak and probably deserves whatever happening in his life but I don't see how he could be abusive. If anyone is abusing anyone it is his wife abusing his trust. Your gaslighting level is astounding.
@@stallionstudios A whole lot assuming there, i also dont feel bad for him, but nowhere are there signs that he abuses her, its more likely she would be abusing him.
I hope Brian learns to love himself enough to understand that he doesn't have to deal with disrespect and lies.
Amen! I dealt with a cheating husband for 42 years left after I found out I was dying because he was poisoning me. I was in hospital for two years with organ failure. I had to leave the state for protection & am doing very well on my own & love being on my own. He didn't want a divorce because he'd have to give up half of everything.🤦 He was on a dating site & I found out so much during the 6+ year divorce!
That man is out getting side cat himself.
@@debraolson7553 I'm glad you are doing better!!
@@missvida6251 Good for him, at this point, I'm on his side. And after I saw this, I'd be willing to side piece for him anytime. And I'm a guy.
@@BronzeDragon133 😂😂😂
There is a difference between “quirky and free-spirited” versus “reckless, uncaring immaturity.”
If you harm others with your “quirkiness,” you have crossed that line and it isn’t cute anymore.
Somebody needs to check Brian for a pulse. It's like he's so used to the abuse that nothing matters to him. It's so sad.
I don’t think this is normal on the husbands side, which man or woman would just sit there and say it’s just money where as they don’t look that wealthy 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
Has anyone checked in on him and made sure he hired a divorce attorney? This slag admitted he would allow her to bring additional people into her life specially "because that's how he is" and that he wouldn't partake. She's not even hiding how slimy and grimy she is. She's not taken any responsibility. What a raging narcissist. The best thing that could happen to both of them is for John to leave her high and dry on her a$s.
@@pn4640she hasn't even been honest about what she was doing. John doesn't even know all of her slime.
@@EMILY4DAYS For sure. I feel like she has done some sneaky shit before this too but this just ended up coming to light due to the amount of money. If this dude was real, she would have left her husband.
Honestly, I think they just built a robot for this episode.
She's not quirky or weird, she's immature, manipulative, irresponsible and shockingly disrespectful towards her husband and her marriage. The only thing I hear from her is me me me , I I I. I guarantee her husband is not as ok with what she's done as she keeps saying he is. I hope her husband sees her for what she is, moves far far away from her and finds a woman who can give him the love and respect he deserves.
He probably thinks getting back out on the dating scene would be a ticket to more drama and insanity.
And he is not wrong.
He's probably mentally slow.
Exactly. A manipulator who have self esteem issues.
@@kairee8989 Her husband is a manipulator too. That money was obviously hers because she didn't need his approval and signature for it. He is probably professionally unemployed and married her to sponge off of her. I don't doubt if she got a big inheritance and he latched onto her at that point.
@@pollypurree1834 is that what the video said? He’s unemployed? She was doing these transactions through her personal bank. They never had a shared account. I mean if he is a mooch at the end of the day there’s no excuse for that but that’s her fault too for letting him mooch. It’s no excuse for her to treat him like complete shit. I’m js
“He’s my soulmate, he’s my everything.” 100% guarantee if dude in the catfish photos was real, she would of left her husband. What a joke.
would *have
@@MyNameHere101 would've'hd'f
Would've, a contraction of would have.
Hate that word. No such thing as a soul mate. If that was the case, she would have already been with scammer before taking a vow before GOD to her current husband. There are multitudes of Pookies, RayRays or dimple faced chads out there who have had at least 7 soul mates meaning one of these has mine.
I agree, said nothing about the hurt she caused her husband!!!
she is sick and the husband has a wishbone and not a backbone
Weird couple.😮
You’re beautiful 😍
She will 100% do this again.
She run out of money! Do you think anyone on their right mind would speak to someone like that, and say omg you're pretty without getting paid?😂 I'm sorry but this is the truth.
No, she has learnt her lesson
@Rajeev Shrivastava she only learned what not to do next time. This women is a scammers dream
She will do it again. It’s a narcissist behavior. Bit c h is crazy.
@@rajeevshrivastava4488 do you do children’s birthday parties or stand up comedy? I can’t figure out if your a comedian or a clown 😆
“It’s not my fault”
Lady, it’s 100% your fault!
Like the old saying goes " accountability is like Kryptonite to Women ".
What made her believe she was gorgeous. Jeeeez
@@robertsmith3672 🤤😂😂😂😂
@@andysalter7192 intimately connected to this.
Scammer: You’re pretty.
Sarah: Here’s 250k
Seriously?
LOL 😂😂😂
It was easier than that
That easy! She obviously believes she’s gorgeous and better looking than she is.
hey beautiful, I love you..... older ungroomed women falling for this crap.
@@summertime9963 . Rather catty. Meow.
She was straight up ready to cheat on her husband.
She did cheat on him
I don't think I heard her once apologize to her husband. Narcissist come in all shapes and sizes.
I noticed this as well!!! She complete takes him for granted and doesn't appreciate him at all!!! She lucky to even have a man looking like that and treating him so poorly!
@@jasmithmarin9478 She’s a damn thief - why is a bank robber put in jail for taking money that does not belong to him, yet she does the same thing & is not in jail, where she belongs!🤬
I thought her first words to her husband would be, "I'm so sorry," but I, too noted the lack of an apology.
Ya this woman has issues. She seems to think everything should revolve around her. If course now this wasn't her fault. Narcissism at its best and worst
I agree with all these comments. Her husband is a good man, especially staying with her. I mean, why wouldn't a person put all that money and effort into your marriage instead of a complete stranger? I mean that's just my morals and beliefs... I feel so sorry for her husband. 💔
Santa, please give Brian two gifts he desperately needs, self-respect and a backbone
And a divorce!
He’ll be doing her a favour if he leaves - she needs a wake up call!!!
@@eexexxxexee883low T is a terrible thing for men
And two balls
the American men are the most miserable of the World now. many guys would just suck it up because of the fears of loneliness
_"It's just money!"_ says husband Brian. *No, sir!* It is sadly wayyyyyy more than that! It is a disloyal, narcissistic wife who abused your trust and loyalty. I cannot imagine ever forgiving such treacherous behaviour!
I wonder how this situation was explained to him. She was about to go meet this "guy"
I know! I wonder too! I can't imagine the pain and hurt Brian went through..
I'm wondering if there is something wrong with him mentally
I obviously can't see his thoughts, but I get the impression that he is emotionally checked out and says "Its just money" cause he doesn't know how to fix the situation and feels he couldnt find anyone else. So, he gave up, checked out, and stuck around. Seems hurt and angry, and decided to check out.
Thats what you get for being a Simp
This woman is the definition of toxic.
Not a single even remotely redeeming quality.
As a man , the fact her husband tolerates this is embarrassing.
Brian: "It's just money."
Me: My brother in Christ, it's a quarter of a million dollars.
I felt bad for him. “I don’t care if it’s 10, 50, 100 thousand dollars.” I was like, keep going dude.
well i don't see why you need to bring Christ into all this. The man died for our sins come on he has had enough!
"My brother in Christ" lol!
The same christ that allowed this stupidity?
@@brozesilver and he turned into a zombie!
So you find a partner who loves and accepts you and your quirks, gives you room to explore and trusts you enough to be okay with meeting and speaking to strangers online. And you repay him by emotionally cheating and sending a stranger THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS OF YOUR SHARED/MARITAL MONEY.
😂😂😂 What????
We're dealing with a peculiar specimen. It's difficult to understand. Hell I start seeing red flags as soon as an attractive woman calls me handsome. Being cynical like that has made me scam repellent
Agreed! It must have been hard for her to share her story. Which I hope is a wakeup call to some else. However, with all the quirks and understanding her partner accepted, the fact that she had no boundaries is mind-boggling. Even if we have no idea of who/what he actually is, sending that amount of marital assets doesn't excuse it. Hopefully they will find peace. Geeze...
A very strange marriage indeed. 🤣
Simple she doesn't love anyone but herself. Merry Christmas 🎄
$ 250,000 to be exact. They will be lucky if they can ever recoup that loss. She may have sealed their fate in penury.
This lady was not scammed, she was willingly paying for attention.
I can't get over how stupid people are.
😂😂😂😂 And she wants sympathy....
She’s totally delusional!!! Look at him (catfish picture) and look at her 😳 there is absolutely no way a guy like him would want a woman like her. I don’t feel bad for her one bit. She did her husband dirty and she’s clearly a moron. 🤦🏻♀️
She scammed her husband.
She took pleasure in being a sugar momma
I am 78 and the wife of a Vietnam veteran! The military does not treat their people like she has been told. The military paid for me to choose the Dr of my choice in 1965 to have for my pregnancy and hospital stay. They took great care of me too! They are well fed..well taken care of always. He still can avail himself for services if needed. Don’t ever buy the story our military doesn’t care for these people in the service! 🇺🇸
She’s wondering how someone could be so cruel, yet she is being cruel to her husband. He loves her blindly. She doesn’t deserve him.
She is a narcissist
Her actions are telling him to leave. He is not listening. When someone tells you who they are, believe them.
I think she supports him financially and he’s been using her for that for the whole marriage.
Some of these people being scammed need a reality check. I don't won't to be cruel but you are hitting above your station here.
Her husband is a moron. No self respecting man would put up with this! She is a raving lunatic, stupidest woman I've ever seen! What a miserable couple!🙄
I liked weirdos because I’m weird. But what the fuck!?! This woman is not just weird she’s selfish. She has a man who clearly adores her and she’s all over the internet looking for special ‘friends.’ Give me a break
She’s a narcissist. If he sticks around, he better be ready cause the next stunt she’s going to pull is going to be even crazier. Narcs love pushing boundaries to see if their supply will continue to give them support and “love”.
She's lucky her husband hasn't left her by now...I would have.
@@ickiedeer-lamb7282 he’s not leaving. He is a narcissist’s ultimate target; he has a point to prove about unconditional love, and she has the person who is going to supply her with tolerance, disaster after disaster. In many ways she will destroy herself in the process of destroying him due to her having to reach new extremes to reach her dopamine hit of horrible behavior that or rewarded by affection, patience and love, to which she deserves none of.
Husband probably wasn't giving her the attention she craved. Its why she loved when the scammer called her "queen" and "gorgeous."
My thoughts exactly!!
She didn’t even respect her husband enough to say sorry on camera when asked if she had anything to say to him. He is the real victim here, unreal.
Those were my thoughts exactly 😢
Her husband’s and idiot too
she doesn't respect him and he doesn't respect himself.
Because she has no self-respect and she will be 24:43 cheating when she gets a chance..she's not all there no common sense whatsoever
This lady looks like a thumb and she's legit out here trying to do better than her husband who I think is out of her league to begin with. 😂
"Is there anything you want to say to Bryan?"
And then she doesn't even say sorry???
No, Brian. It isn't just money. It's your dignity.
You gotta have it first before you lose it
@auroraclark6794 Good point...He seems like a beat down beta...
@@auroraclark6794 Harsh words.
@@niazi12121 harsh reality
She is repulsive in every sense of the word. She doesn’t deserve him. “It’s just money, it’s just money”. No, it’s YOUR money. Your wife is out here sending YOUR money on a man she was hoping to dump you for.
I’ve never rooted for the scammer more. What a piece of work, her poor husband deserves a better life
Based
No that pathetic man deserves it
No he doesn't. He's an absolute mess himself.
Husband is a cuck, he probably enjoyed this.
when she started telling the story of Syria and her hero been shot! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Cracking till Judgement Day and I have no remorse! 😅🤣😂😆🤣🤣😂
Brian is swallowing a lot of anger right now, the twitches in his eyes, the grating of the teeth, so much suppressed emotion....it’s going to eat him alive unfortunately.
Run Brian run
exactly.
He didn’t look at her when he was speaking either
BC he had no idea and probably just found out she's given ALL of their money to a make believe romeo that didn't even have to steal her SS# and bank account PWs! YIKES
I’ll bet she caught it once the camera was off!
Why is it making her feel better that the person who had his images stolen is also a victim?
Because she's deflecting. She tries to make herself look pitiful by comparing herself "see, we are both victims! Oh, I'm so glad I'm not the only victim, this is bigger than just me." It makes her feel like she has no responsibility to take for her actions. That's how it came across to me anyway.
"I hate talking about this because it makes me feel stupid."
Woman, that feeling is real.
😂
😂😂😂😂
Not even it makes her feel
"guilty" for how she's treated her husband. No she feels "stupid" because she was fooled. So selfish and self-centred
Guaranteed if he was real she would start having a affair with him and keep stringing her husband along
I feel for the husband.
Haha yeah. Go with what you feel.
@@BD-1-And-Only Yep. Everyone wants her.
The delusional persons mating call.
I’ve never seen a woman more deserving of being alone. Brian needs some self respect.
Brian has no self respect at all
And a spine…
And a wife
he is a cuck --- not meant as an insult but he is that and we know it
@@wayneolsen8965I felt bad for him in the beginning but at this point does he even have any respect for himself? He couldn't even put his foot down to her shenanigans one time. And he's not even a terrible looking guy, imo he's actually better looking than her and could for sure find someone better.
I'll never understand how someone can send $250K to someone they've never met, let alone someone who claims to be happily married.
First time someone asked me for money, answer would be bye bye.
She's lying to herself and to everyone, denial. She got obsesses with an illusion and the scammer behind the illusion knew how to manipulate her. She is simply a dumb human with a dumb hubby who enables her. Who knows, maybe in past life she was a scammer and this life being scammed or maybe in a past life she was a worm and just entered as a human form so not bright in human ways yet.
Very very easy to do.
Life is hard. Life is harder for stupid people
I don’t get how anyone has that sort of money to give away. I’m lucky if I have a spare £30 left over at the end of the month. If I had £250k I’d be buying a house outright.
What a selfish woman. She’s got a handsome, tolerant, REAL husband, but chose to send all her money to a scammer!!!
Cut your ego woman, you are IT competent, so why didn’t you check with the US defence force if what he told you was true???
I don’t feel sorry for her, I do feel sorry for her wonderful real husband…. He should walk out of this marriage… he deserves so much better, this selfish (all we hear is “I”) woman will never change. !!! Now it’s online, that wonderful, patient, loving REAL husband can take his pick of any (real) woman in this world!!!!!
Brian is so taken for granted. She couldn’t even be bothered to apologize to him. Unbelievable.
When Brian said he didn't know she talked to some John until the hosts told him, it means that fat bitch would he dumped him in 1 second if that scammer actually turned out to be real
EVERYBODY: you get what you put up with. What you Allow will be allowed. No one should walk all over you- stand up and Stop them. Google assertiveness techniques, support groups and how to be independent.
Yeah it’s sad asf how she treats him
I have no sympathy for him . He accepted her intimacy with John. She’s probably been unfaithful before and he just accepts it , so she carries on. They deserve each other .
She did apologize to him. She said that Brian is her rock, she is blessed to have him, he is her soulmate.
She would not have given her husband a second thought if that guy turned out to be real
absolutely
100 %
☝️
Jup
She would dip, what I don't get is she's not good looking. Why would a good looking man want a ham beast sea donkey?
Wait. She said selling feet pictures are weird? But it’s not weird at all to give a complete stranger you have never met $250,000!? These people are soooo crazy.
According to her own admission she is obsessed with penises. But that's not weird 🙄
I know it’s unreal !!!
Unreal I shocked on my tea lol
She needs to work instead of selling her hooves.
There's too many pretty tootsie's out there for competition.
God she irked me.
They both have a geranium in the cranium!
Imagine taking thousands of dollars from your husband and ruining your finances and then thinking you did nothing wrong. This woman will keep doing this. She is insufferable.
poor Brian, If John was real she would’ve left him and their cat in a heartbeat.
Yep.
He doesn’t realise that ,he is just a simp that doesn’t get it , if John was real she would have left him that day ,that’s why she was sending money to him in the hope that she would have met him in person .
Nope
Cause if John was real, he would never look at this woman 😂
Forreal poor cat.
doubt
The fact that she feels like she did nothing wrong is disgusting.
I know! Halfway thru the video, she said that giving all the money to John "ruined us." But she doesn't feel like she did anything wrong!? She also said she feels like the blame belongs only with "that person," the scammer. So she's taking no responsibility for destroying the family finances and hurting her husband.
I’m just glad they don’t have kids…
I feel so sorry for the husband, if he was another man, he would’ve divorced her in a heartbeat , or kick her out.
fr
But she also said that it's the worst thing she's ever done
“I hate talking about this because it makes me feel stupid.” Yep. She sure got that right.
The scammer typed, “you’re the most beautiful woman I have ever seen”. 😳
@@davisholman8149 😂😂
That should've been a huge red flag lol.
@@mebutnotme.Khan78 Maybe they don't have mirrors in the house.
@@DobuDobuDobuDot or eyes 👀
The only smart thing she said in the whole video.
1:25 I looked away for a second, and heard what I thought sounded like "I am obsessed with peanuts." I thought, "Are we talking about the Charles Schultz cartoon with Charlie Brown and Snoopy, or Planters peanuts? Either way, there's nothing wrong with that." And then I looked up and saw the screen and I realized I need to get my hearing checked.
😂😂😂😂
😂 I'm crackn up. Lol
"How could he've been so cruel to trick me like this"... Are you for real!? You betrayed and disrespected your own husband! The nerve!
Never trust someone who wears transition lenses.
That part 💯
Yes.😔
Agree - an arrogant, obese, dumpy narcissist.🤨
The audacity
"Why is our military treating people like this?" It isn't. People on deployment don't pay for their food, medicine, and transportation. How could this woman be so stupid?
Right?! Lol. “I can’t believe the military treats people like this” 🤦♀️
Critical thinking is a lost art
Plus there was never any boots on the ground in Syria
@@NickyBlue99right I guess she not too smart to do her own research to see if it’s true or not.
how can se be this stupid? a gorgeous fit military man was claiming she was 'the most beautiful woman he ever saw' and she belived him. im pretty sure shes a few cans short of a 6pack.
exactly, its after deployment when the military releases them that they dont a give a shit about them and their mental health
SHE NEVER EVEN APOLOGIZED TO HER HUSBAND. Thanks for the support. Thanks for helping me mourn my fake lover.
I noticed that too!
She even got the chance when they asked her if she has anything final to say to her husband. Narcissistic to the core.
She’s a criminal herself for forwarding stolen money. Why wouldn’t she apologise to her own many victims?
did anybody ever seen a narcissist apologize?
Right, she should be begging him for forgiveness and being so gullible. Then she needs to give him her credit cards, and she needs to stop spending money or not have a bank account at all.
It's NOT just money. She invited another man into her life, into her heart. Her husband has no self confidence and she's only making it worse!
When she introduced herself I thought she was saying that she is obsessed with peanuts...🤣 when I realised what she actually said it was "OMG this is the most embarrassing woman on that series."
I did a doubletake on that one too. Good grief! I guess what her husband has isn't quite enough.
Same here, I heard “peanuts” and was unsure if she meant the food or the comics.
She probably _was_ saying peanuts- her keepers certify that's her favorite snack
She gets extra if she behaves herself during the show and picks up the logs properly
I thought she said Peanuts, as in Charlie Brown
Not Peanuts, completely nuts.🤯
Yes, she is weird, crazy, and wacky and is not just interested in him as a friend. NO woman sends hundreds of thousands of dollars to JUST someone she wants to be friends with. Wow.
She claims just friends but admits to romance. She seems psychotic, lying to herself and everyone and believing her own lies. So a scammer calls her pretty and believes that as well.
This guy would never find her attractive.
@@AltClev37 She’s lucky the one she married did. Talk about looking a gift horse in the mouth.
Wait until they are older and cannot work. They will miss that money.
Yes she is awful he is a human doormat
May our sons never end up with a woman like this. What a vile disgusting woman. The real victim is the husband here.
Do you mean may your sons never end up as much of a pathetic simp as him
I agree, Brenda. I only feel bad for the husband. However, may we also raise our sons to not be like "John".
I dont feel bad for her husband. I guarantee he was abusing her and she found alternatives to get a way from him emotionally. He deserves everything he had coming to him. Sorry but if he abuses his wife and lets her have these antics, he should responsible even after a divorce to support her. Realistically I bet he should be in jail for the way he treated her.
@@stallionstudioswow, that’s quite a story you’ve invented.
My thoughts and feelings for her husband.
@@stallionstudiosWHAT????sounds like you are projecting
The devastating thing is that she stole her poor husband’s security and future - not just her own. He’s a saint.
He’s a cuckhold unfortunately.
allowing yourself to be cheated on, taken advantage of, and not setting boundaries does not make you a saint. thats actually the opposite
@@Sci-Mon1agreed. It shows a lack of boundaries and people like this often implode or explode after too much suppression
He's no saint. He's a damn FOOL!
he's a fool.
this woman says "no i don't love him" with tears in her eyes. the extent of self delusion is astounding.
She loves someone, but she knows the person she loves doesn't exist.
She’s right. That’s not love. Real love never makes a person lose their dignity.
Exactly 💯
@@lauralarrabee7870 Her husband seems to be losing his dignity in the name of love.
She loves him
I can’t believe she got lucky enough to find such a supportive husband and she threw it all away.
Ikr 😪 I wud feel blessed to find sum1 lyk him nd not cheat
Supportive…., or a weak liberal fool who’s just a doormat?
We don’t know what her husband put her through emotionally
The same way a battered woman isn't supportive this man is being abused...is a victim.
He's not supportive he's resigned. He's literally got no self-respect.
"You're so beautiful" "You're the most beautiful women i've ever seen" "I love you my queen" SURE JAN, the moment they call you "queen" block them
She’s obviously delusional.
😂😂😂😂 Nigerian 😂
The whole "queen" thing seems to be an essential to these scams. Would any woman really want to called "my queen"? Sounds like something out of a cheap romance novel. That's one big red flag. I am also blown away at how vulnerable some are to being told how beautiful they are....and not to question why the military would leave an injured soldier in Syria to pay their own way home????? Really. Think of all the penis trinkets she could have bought with that 250,000.00 dollars.
It's only African scammers who call women "My Queen" on internet.
The moment they tell you're the most beautiful woman they've seen (& you look like Sarah not Beyonce) is when you need to block!!!
Her saying she doesn't feel she's done anything wrong is CRAAAAZY
Her husband looks so low and dejected. There's no love in this relationship, she's a selfish manipulator and his self esteem is too low to walk away. Sad times
You nailed it!
He has no self esteem, he feels he can do no better than her and won't leave her. She married a stepping stone she just abuses. He'd be so much better on his own.
He looks defeated.
@@elipotter369Agreed! I think he is in shock. I’ve reacted the same in a past relationship. I was just in total shock. (I learned my BF was married…the day after he moved in with me)
@@msthrillingcommentary1343 yikes!
The way she thinks she didn’t do anything wrong and hides behind her tears is sickening.
She can’t really believe that guy - I just cannot believe she is that naive!🤦🏽♂
She has to be slow mentally to think that someone of that caliber would want her weird ass.
she literally says it's the WORST thing she has EVER done in her life, and hopefully will EVER do. Do you watch?
@@themudpit621she said she didn't think she did anything wrong. People hear what they want to hear.
“I don’t think I necessarily did anything wrong.”… wait, what???
Her: “I told my husband everything”
Husband: “I don’t know anything about this, she only told me the other day”
Seriously! What a liar. And then she’s like “I hope the viewers will respect me for my honesty”
I detest this woman
today
@@Nickelodeon81Then he said. “I just want to support her thru this tough time she’s going thru”
LMFAOOOOOO!
You better divorce her. How can you keep supporting a CHEAT. It's not just money: It's INFIDELITY.
HE GAVE HER PERMISSION DAMMIT HOW IS THAT CHEATING!!! THESE COMMENTS ARE SO STUPID ITS UNREAL!!!!
She was planning on leaving her husband for this man. This is completely unacceptable. I hope her husband learns this is not love.
No she would keep him around as her financial mule, and just have fun on the side with her new boy toy. Just as bad, tho
@MikeBarbarossa that's what happens when men learn to be nice and pander to women. The old times need to be brought back
@@lzbhcvm6747hell yeah. I’m talking bring back 499BC when the greeks and the Persians were besties. Or 27BC now that was the good old days where Rome was so perfect. 610 CE would be a revolutionary day for the ladies of Arabia. Oh and omg 1492CE was such a great year to be living in America.
You get my drift lol
@@lzbhcvm6747the ole times of cutting your tongue 👅 out for speaking nonsense?😂
Go MGTOW ur self under a 🪨🕳️. This is beyond pandering to anyone obviously both of them are messed up it’s not a healthy marriage. Folks like you, her, and him probably should stay single unless you ❤️🩹 well.
@@lzbhcvm6747the old times. Like when people owned slaves? When women were beaten and couldn’t vote? When gay people like myself were beaten, imprisoned and executed? Is that what you’re talking about? Were those really good times?
This is hardly a scam… it’s like paying a stripper your life savings and being upset you didn’t get laid. Her husband like, oh she’s just quirky. 😂😂😂
But at least you get to actually see the stripper you're giving all your money to!
She is nasty just nasty
Most strippers will do anything for the right price
The husband kept saying its just money, but he wasn't grasping the reason as to why she was sending all that money. She definitely would've cheated on the husband if that man was real.
No, it’s still a scam even if she is stupid and immoral
She never told her husband that she was sorry. Even after they asked her if there was anything she wanted to say to him - absolutely no remorse
Yeah she's a terrible person. Disgusts me just to look at her. She got what she deserved and her husband kind of has too for being so weak. He should stand up for himself, then use those legs to run.
also that she lied to brian about the amount of money she lost was disgusting...
normally i can watch these videos and feel a little empathy to the victim. but this psychopath of a woman has nothing worthy of empathy. i feel so sorry for brian and hope he can get away from her and rebuild his life. he seems like a pretty chill guy.
im not saying she deserved to get scammed, but she needs to wake up and see how the world works
Such a manipulative disgusting penis obsessed person...makes me sick
What do you mean no remorse? She's sitting next to him bawling her eyes out in the video. She's sorry af. You ever been married 25 years? I have been, and my husband never has to tell me he is sorry, I know how he feels. However, I bet you my cup of coffee here that she did say sorry to him.
@@themudpit621 lol you must be Sarah, replying to all these comments being all defensive. No one agrees with you.
What the hell is wrong with people? I can’t believe this crap. And to think these people get to vote, and sit on juries.
Sara, scammers use terms of endearment like "honey" and "babe" so they don't have to memorize your name
Exactly! And the Queen!!! Actual men don’t talk like that!!! 🤦🏻♀️
Also it makes it easier for them to scam more than one woman at a time. They can just cut and paste their phony sweetness from one victim to the next!
"Did I care about him? Yes! Was I hoping to meet him? Yes!" 😂
Are you delusional? Yes! Is the guy in the photo out of your league? Yes! Are you a horrible wife? Yes! Does your husband deserve someone better? YES!!
Wow, batting 100 on all those questions!
Will she ever change?
NO!
THANK YOU
I don't think he does deserve better if he knowingly puts up with her cheating, narcissism, and complete disrespect for him.
@dfikar Tell me yoy don't understand abuse without telling me you don't understand abuse. ALL victims deserve better.
Lady you did this to yourself! No one robbed you! 🙄
this is how I view it
Exactly!!!! 🤷🏻
Sad but true
Yes she willingly gave in fact. All these victims They were not robbed like beaten down. They all had a choice. None of them were ever, ever forced to send any one any money. In reality, You don't owe that person Anything at all. I don't feel sorry for any of them. I could care less they get scammed. Look at me I disability & special needs. Yet I know better then to send money to complete strangers We were taught when we were younger. Not to go Or take things from strangers. That should be giving too.
Yep, she’s not a victim, she’s a volunteer. Paying for flattery.
If my husband was that nonchalant I'd be seriously suspicious that he's done, or is currently doing, something even worse. 😂
😂😂😂 I need the tea!
I find it incredibly hard to believe that her husband has no feelings about this. Pissing away 1/4 million dollars to emotionally cheat with a stranger?
Some people don't have emotions. He and I are similar in this way.
It's even worse because it wasn't even a real person that she thought it was.
@@danthemankhan yeah, but the money?
Brian is way too forgiving. “It’s just money.” Are you kidding?
Well, you know he will just go to the edge of a cliff.
The audacity she tells the crew, " he's my soulmate" what a disgusting, selfish and hypocrite women...
People throw that term around so much it has clearly lost all meaning
I think she means it. Not everyone is in a 'normal' relationship. There are tons of people who clearly have their main partner but where both are free to play around. That does not in any way mean they care any less for that one partner. Though I think that kind of relationship does require 100% honesty. She lied to him but I do think she is honest about her feelings towards him.
I know right a soulmate would never pull something like what she did.
@@AgonizingDemiseare you serious???
Exactly.
So a married woman who looks like HER would have a man who looks like THAT fall head over heels and say she’s the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen…? Seems legit. 😐🙄
In fairness, he wasn't that good looking.
@@JaimeMesChiens I agree. But I was facetiously responding to the OP.
It boggles my mind how the majority of women in these stories fall for that immediate red flag line "You're so beautiful". It has to be the result of what I call The Social Media Syndrome. You post your picture on Social Media, and your friends repeatedly tell you how beautiful/hot/sexy you are, and you actually begin to believe it! Ladies, your friends and family members are being kind. Please, get naked and take a good long look in a mirror. Then ask yourself, would a young, handsome, ripped & cut man, who obviously works hard to make his body pleasing to the eye, want this fupa and these sagging breasts in his life? If you can honestly answer YES! - Then, there is just no hope for you at all.
@@cynthiac4778 fupa 💀💀💀😬
😂😂😂👏🏼
The economical situation in America is so bad that soldiers have to pay their own way back to the States. My belly is hurting from laughing.
Makes you wonder how the Nigerian army is run. I wonder if they have to pay for their vacation time also
He did not find you attractive, he found that you are an easy mark, he was telling you what you wanted to hear.
This.
yeah she's just gross, selfish, uncaring, unappreciative etc... "oh penises on my clothes for Xmas" totally immature and inappropriate around kids.
As if he would wanna touch her 🤮🤡🤑
This story is jaw dropping. The stupidity, the narcissism, the delusions…….omg. After all this, how can her husband be ok with all this?
Im not sure he is, he's dead behind the eyes... hate to think what he's like when he realises it's more money then he thought... he needs to leaves this woman....
He’s not, but at the risk of losing his disgusting wife he just goes with it.
He prolly relies on her financially
@@aselyne5631 that's one possibility.
Maybe he is guilty of something also?
Wow. This lady had the audacity to say she didn't do anything wrong.
She is toxic and narcissistic that's why.
@@Mataylor17😂 Same
The cat shirt gives it away.
Her husband is as much to blame.
Women self-entitlement
If this is the way she treats her "soul mate", I'd hate to see how she treats someone she hates.
I nearly choked when she said she wanted to know why people serving in the military are treated so poorly. How can ANYONE be that delusional?
Her husband seemed like he wanted to work through what happened, but his body language told a different story. Inside, he seems deeply hurt and broken. He said "...it's just money...", but it's about much, MUCH more than that and he knows it.
As someone who places an extremely low level of trust in people I don't know, I find it mind boggling how people on the show fall for this shit, especially to the point of sending huge amounts of money, sometimes to the point where they're financially struggling to support a fucking STRANGER! How in the hell can anyone be that delusional???
The vast majority of people we cross paths with in life DO NOT deserve our trust, much less our hard-earned money. But, yeah, I'll believe every fucking word some random ass stranger tells me online. I'm sharing my life with my "soul mate", but I'm sending every dime we have to this random ass guy online who I only want to be "friends" with. God damn. 😢
One thing social media has shown us is that a good percentage of the population has low IQ. I see no other way to explain this.
Imagine being Brian's parents and siblings knowing that his dreadful choice for a wife has wrecked his life. They must be devestated. He could have done so much better.
Could still do so much better.
I doubt it. I don't think any woman would want him. It seems like he's stuck with her.
I totally understand how she feels. I’m talking to a gorgeous young lady from Ukraine and it’s very nice to receive compliments from her. I also feel bad for her because the poor woman has one problem after the other. Now she’s having all sorts of trouble trying to get on a plane to see me. I just sent her $3000 for her visa application and I’m so excited to see her after 5 years of texting.
@@richardwadd9769 alright bud, good luck to ya. Hopefully it's not a scam.
@@Brujo2016 yeah it’s definitely a scam.
Sarah: “I don’t think I did anything wrong.”
Also Sarah: *bankrupts herself so thoroughly that her husband has to choose between divorce and retirement*
And feet pics
If he chooses divorce, she'll get half of everything he owns.
I can’t imagine working hard for years just to be done dirty like that 🤦🏽♀️
If the husband went for divorce he would take on half her debt to pay off
The level of disrespect is ridiculous 🤦♀️🙄.
Never once did she apologize to Brian for doing everything she did to him
Right??? Its disgusting....
Just because it wasn't in the video, doesn't mean it didn't happen. In reality she's probably said "I'm sorry" a thousand times, but privately. And there's nothing wrong with that.
No it's okay she can get away with it cause she's ✨quirky✨
🤣
Why apologize to him? So he let it happen. The woman is crazy and ungrateful, we all see that, but why did her husband allow her to do all that? It's no longer a relationship or a marriage, it's torture that will end in murder or murder and suicide... Both are guilty.
This woman is an absolute joke. Does she not realise she’s worse than the scammer. The delusion of this thing is crazy.
Brian if you are reading this please, please know you deserve so much better. Please move on and find real happiness even if it means being alone
what a disrespectful comment. Brian clearly loves his wife, but it would somehow make YOU happier if he was alone? So weird...
I'm alone, there is no happiness, at least not for me. Maybe I deserve it tho, but it is not a happy place, very dark and slimey, and introspective and.....I could go on, but I think I made my point.
@lobodesade6780 I hope you find happiness. Being lonely is awful. Being used by someone as this woman is using her husband is just as awful. I hope one day you are no longer lonely. I believe we all experience loneliness at one point or another. Reach out to someone if possible.
@themudpit621 not disrespectful at all. He is being used and abused by her. If and that's a big if she truly loves him then maybe they can work it out. He needs self-esteem and to know his self-worth. He seems like a nice guy and I don't want him to be alone but better alone than to be with someone who beats you down mentally and emotionally. That is abuse and worse than being alone.
@@themudpit621 you're a lvl0r0n. She was clearly trying to leave Brian for this guy she's never met. That was the end goal here. She wasn't going to stay faithful to Brian. And then she got caught, everything backfired, and now she's broke and dependent on Brian. Did you hear the part about how Brian didn't know about any of this until very recently? When it had been going on for years?? Any logical person would've left this 8itch the moment they found out. She's a terrible person. Absolutely disgusting.
The level of confidence this woman has is through the roof lol
Because the dumb husband has made her believe she's all that when she's clearly not.
Its that goblin confidence
almost admirable
Can you really blame her? People are paying for her feet pictures omg...
@@naomihu9399 She never said she actually made any money from it though. So that is debatable:
That husband has no self-respect. I hope he can have the courage to get out of this abusive relationship.
He’s trying to get rid of her. 😆
Im "quirky and wierd" translation "I'm justifying my behavior and not growing"
The real victim here is the husband, she totally scammed him.
Either her husband Brian is a really nice person, a saint, or something really strange is going on with those two and only they know what that is 🤔
@@JohnDoe-ov7hc Some men are just so extremely easy-going that their wives walk all over them. They take advantage of their total lack of aggression, and their inability to stand up for themselves. Most men have it in us to be aggressive and confrontational whenever we need to be. Some men have much higher levels of aggression. And then there’s guys like him who just want to coast through life without drama and letting their woman do whatever she wants. She’s using his nature against him.
He's a doormat
LOL I’m just a quirky narcissist who has abused my husband financially and mentally because I wanted someone more attractive than him but not divorce him because he pays the bills and funds my bad habits. -Gives compliments to her husband when she finds out the guy was fake and now she has to be “stuck” with her loving husband. The sin of lust RUINS lives.
My hope is Brian live off her and plays video games all day. They were pretty clear it was “her 401k” and accounts. Maybe that’s why he’s so chill, he’s lived off the woman for a long time and another guy just got in one the action.
Nicely articulated. I couldn't agree more.
@@Colette92017😊
Well, she did say right up front that she is obsessed with penis.
@@Colette92017Chill? He looks like he was fuming with repressed rage when he was told the news.
Poor Brian is a shell of a man. That vile woman has completely destroyed him. I hope he can regain his dignity and self respect.
He’s as pathetic as his wife for putting up with her for so long.
Yeah it is his fault let's shame this man instead of this toxic woman
@@MisterGoofyi think they just worded things wrong not so much shaming Brian
yea, his fault, he's a loser, can't stand up for himself @@MisterGoofy
Right. Amusing, she feels/believes she’s out of her husbands league.
Many of these people who are catfished seem to have some mental disadvantage,because there's no logical reasoning and consequences of their actions seem to be totally irrelevant. I can understand a desperately lonely person falling prey to this type of scam,but a happily married person😮
She says her actions make her feel stupid,but then she still shares her story online. Crazy crazy.
Brian isn't supportive, he's an enabler.
Glad some said it!!
My guess is he’s doing the same behind her back considering he’s just too chill about it all.
This should totally be admissible in divorce court.
Divorce courts exist to destroy families and divide men against women so that only the government is there to rely on and to enforce rules. Women like this one are literally the reason western civilization is going down the shitter. The reality is that women like here should dress modestly, plant a garden, sew, clean, cook, and organize her household... Not chatting with randos online, but as soon as you say that its "CunTRoLlinG". So in the end, fewer men end up getting married and women like her turn into pathetic spinsters selling feer pics in an already over saturated smut market.
😢 he will never divorce her people like that are so lonely and have low self-esteem that they're willing to let somebody use them in real life the only difference between him and her is that she's stupid enough to fall for a fake person but at least he knows who he fell for and he's just like whatever this is all I can get!
@@rosemarywilliams9969 that only applies to ugly women
Can anyone verify if this is real, cause it looks fake to me.
😂😂
If the scammer was a real guy, she would leave her hubby in a heartbeat.
True. No doubt. If she’d have more money she’d be sending that guy more $$.
Well tbf if he was real he wouldn't have messaged her in the 1st place. Young handsome dudes don't pursue overweight middle-aged women that are not traditionally pretty.
That works for pretty young women/men and middle-aged, beer gut men as well for that matter.
If it seems too good to be true, it's not true.
@mimiveggie8653 The lack of self-awareness I've seen in these videos is astronomical. I've seen two with obese women thinking they were talking to famous actors. One even left her husband for the fake boyfriend.