Not only do people not care about you, they want to see you fail so they can get narcissistic supply off your downfall. Thanks for delivering the cold hard truth as always, Joel.
My dad used to tell me ALL OF THE TIME " ...Youre lucky if you leave this earth having just one friend ". Words to live by. Its true. My boy passed in 2021. NO ONE has called to see how i have been. No one.
People in today's world have become so self important and always believe that they deserve special treatment. When people were kids, they were always just handed out everything by their parents. And now a days, it's always this game of me me me with them, help me, take care of me, do this for me and do that for me. Nobody cares about your life and problems, that's why it's your life and your problems. Nobody ever thinks now that people have their own life to live, things to achieve and take care of because people now have become completely selfish and always just make it all about themselves.
I am a woman and Muslim and almost 50 with 4 kids, 2 of them are boys and I want them to listen to your videos (my youngest son is almost 11 and my first son is almost 17) your content is so needed especially nowadays! This country wants to eradicate masculinity in men and yes this world is upside down with it comes to values and principles … 😢😢😢it is frightening indeed but thanks many young men are finally waking up and really realizing things for what they truly are! Much love ❤️ keep doing what you are doing God bless you young man!
Told my wife this many times.. nobody gives a crap about us.. we have to do WHATEVER we have to do to make it and THRIVE in ABUNDANCE.. there probably is no more motivating statement then to know there's no back-up plan.. Sink or swim.. Do or die.. Remember peeps.. the obstacle is the path. ☮️
Most people are living in toxic positivity. They live as though nothing bad could or would ever happen. But when bad things do end up happening, they are caught completely off guard.
Toxic Positivity And Toxic Negativity Are Two Sides of The Same Coin: Neither Should Be Considered As Objective Sometimes The Coverts Can Mask Up Consistently With Toxic Positivity, They Are Insincere All Around And The Toxic Negativity Ones Are More Sincere in The Sense They Are True To Their Character: But They Are Still Just As Dangerous 🌞🌈
Life is a privilege to be alive? Basically for 52 year's of my life I felt like a lady who should never have been born cause of always having an insane abuser in my life who suffocated my existence & being wonderfully alone for approximately 2 year's REALLY HELPED ME OUT! No one should be forced to answer to anyone & the sick abuser's who do that SHOULD BE FORCED TO ANSWER TO ALL OF THIER ABUSE! But they're cowards & they find a vulnerable victim & mirror all of their wrongs onto them cause they hate themselves! They can't be a real person & stand up to the WRONG that they do! You can't have any communication at all with a liar cause they're useless & can never be trusted & there absolutely is no forgiveness for thier insanely poor actions of stealing killing & destroying who they choose! They are SICK!
I love listening to you. 🥰 sometimes it's hard to stay motivated until you see there's still intelligent sensible and righteous people in this crazy world still. Even if it's rare. At the end of the day no one will ever care about others more than themselves which makes sense anyways, we have to survive first but as an empath, I know I definitely have always given more than I've received, and sometimes that can really make you feel depleted, I take a lot of time for self care, we need to, because at the end of the day no one us going to do it for us and if we don't take care of ourselves we won't be able to take care of others.
Exactly 💯 I can resonate with your words to the core of my heart. It's important to give distance and love others from arms length (Giving the benefit of the doubt). I often call this, "Hopeful Reciprocation." Allow others to reciprocate. And if they don't take effort, it's important to mirror their actions. 💪
You’re saving lives dude. I’m 60 and whenever I tapped into my ultra male side, things worked out good with women, jobs etc. You’re 100% correct. I failed too much with half measures .
Bro you are right. I put my trust in the Lord Jesus, and he comforts me he helps me through. His love is amazing. He’s all we have. He’s a great father as a man we need our father.
Big Time 💯 FACTS❗️❗️🗣️ Self Love Is Way Important Tbh Once You Realize You Are Happy And You Not Following Your Crowd It Will piss ppl off 🤡 screw them
Love yourself first. Forgive yourself first. The others sometimes take advantage of you when you give away your power in order to get more love from them.
I barely ever had anyone care about me! I had a best friend & 1 good relationship with my boyfriend If you don't care about yourself...Why should anyone else? You MUST PUT YOURSELF 1st!!!!!!!!!!!!
They've been throwing verbal attack in my back,while I passed by on my bike today., This always happends in an area where im outnumbered. They dont do it loud but quite subtle. I try not to lose energy to these lowly individuals. Its quite difficult sometimes.
Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble.
I’ve noticed that it seems many chosen ones have either lost their father to death (myself included) or had an absent father or one who wasn’t the best teacher. Maybe God allowed that so that we would be pushed to go to Him more for guidance? Since He’s the ultimate father. He fills the gap & steps in when we are without an earthly father. Idk just something I’ve noticed & pondered
@@Fireinmyeyesthat’s so hard bc it feels like you have to teach yourself everything from scratch. And doesn’t feel fair. But maybe it’s for the best bc God helps with all of that if we let him And that process makes us stronger & better people in the end anyway ❤
For real man this is right on...we need warriors...even Jesus was a hard working carpenter...David wasn't afraid to cry but was the mightiest most fearless warrior. Bro in the future u ever wanna come down to my spot for free camping lol bro got your back
You are spot on Joel but may I add one more thing to the list and that's spending time in nature. It's so healing to the soul that one feels connected to the Creator.
As If Only You Have To Prove Your Self To Them --- While They Do Not Have To Prove Themselves To You: While Providing No Credit For The Good Services You Provide Them
Yes, loving your woman with reciprocation on both ends while remaining yourself is different than idealization, placing her on a pedestal, and making her God in your life which is what the Jezebel women want most of you...serve them.
I’m thinking of this in a relationship type of way Idk why but maybe it will help someone out there in some way . We DO have to be selfish to become selfless. Selfish in good ways, taking care of ourselves first.. taking steps to become who God designed us to be spiritually, mentally, & physically. I do think that when a man has done that, he’s ready to be joined with his God given woman. And Joel’s right, being “nice”won’t get you there. The right woman,will have done the same things when they meet.The right woman will naturally, through her respect, submission, support, love, understanding & friendship…. Cause her man to naturally desire to do loving things to take care of her needs also. He won’t be able to resist, & that’s good bc that’s just how God designed things in a healthy relationship .Maybe it’s bringing her flowers & opening doors for her, maybe it’s not. That is such a personal thing . Everyone’s different.It has nothing to do with what society expects, it all comes down to the love & respect between two people & what naturally occurs when that is firmly in place with God in the center
Becoming a man is A 2 Z but the 24 letters in between are the lessons that propel you to the Z and the catalyst, most males just want to jump from A all the way to Z and not do the work or expect their parents to do it for them.
I really appreciated this video... There's a 46 year old man who should see this BUT HE DOESN'T WANNA HERE THE TRUTH....He wants someone to take him in? He wants it easy but used to be a very talented worker & was in great shape but blamed everything on a mean wife? I unfortunately knew the WORST men! I finally don't feel sorry for anyone anymore cause NO one ever cared or felt sorry for me! You have to love yourself & do good for you cause NO one else will ! You really do have to be SELFISH in order to be able to be selfless & help someone else🥲😂 Feminist are BULLIES!
I kinda chose to stay in solidarity. Just to leave out all possible cancerous "relationships". I still have a couple of friends here and there but not nearly as much as i had before. I find that its fir the better. Some people dont know how to respect boundaries, then when you start setting them, you end up the bad person lol pretty funny how that works . Its different for other people. I enjoy a life of less deama , less fake shit, less stress
Jesus is a proxy for Baphomet. Yahweh is Ba'al.. Ba'al is the devil... Those who wrote the Bible are still around today but don't worship Jesus.. think about that for a minute.
@@aericamerel1816 That's the truth. Those who pull our fiat currency out of the air treat the public like mushrooms, they keep us in the dark and feed us sh*t.
@@aericamerel1816indeed, Lucifer, aka the morning star is the Jesus of the flesh people worship in idolatry which separates them from true spirit of Christ, demiurge deceives you to worship it as “God” when it is actually “Satan”
As a woman, this is extremely refreshing to hear from a masculine man. Cause I have had experiences with passive men and it's not for me. No offense. Just, damn. This isnt harsh, it's just a man being a man. I like to see it.
I lost now a student because i asked him seriously to not leave me on read, for i know how to organize my time, my week etc. ; ) The guy disppear one week and come later " we did we left off?" like someone go suddently went into a LSD trip and the world should stop for his trip . While i start telling him how i would like to do, and why i keep all chat on Zoom, he starts interrupting creating confusion, " this never happened to me" and from confusion he goes to anger and leave me on zoom. Me calm. Typical devil thing Yes, to some people it never happened that the teacher just has a sense of respect. I am not mad, but i have to stop and say: please dont do this, is it possible? Last month happened a similar thing while me asking (for the last time) and very seriously a child to not throw stones to my window. You are punished for having boundaries or giving any consequence for what people DID WRONG!
Where God is concerned making yourself last in the queue gets you through the door first .. if you put yourself first and can’t bend the knee God has no use for you 🤷♂️⚡️❤️
And i do have to correct you, i do know what thats like. Women do go through it too. Just not your common, everyday woman that youre chasing. But some of us do know what its like. I wouldnt be quick to group us together. You never know...
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Not only do people not care about you, they want to see you fail so they can get narcissistic supply off your downfall. Thanks for delivering the cold hard truth as always, Joel.
Very true especially if your good looking/chosen and they are jealous.
@@marilynnjacobsen1077 FACTS‼️🗣 bunch of weirdos..
@@marilynnjacobsen1077No even 0 mistake
Sad reality!
You are my best supplies ! Real high ups girl ! Let's go !
My dad used to tell me ALL OF THE TIME " ...Youre lucky if you leave this earth having just one friend ". Words to live by. Its true. My boy passed in 2021. NO ONE has called to see how i have been. No one.
Condolences on your loss.
i hope you are ok
Its Major Suck
It's obvious they just care about what you can do for them.
People in today's world have become so self important and always believe that they deserve special treatment. When people were kids, they were always just handed out everything by their parents. And now a days, it's always this game of me me me with them, help me, take care of me, do this for me and do that for me. Nobody cares about your life and problems, that's why it's your life and your problems. Nobody ever thinks now that people have their own life to live, things to achieve and take care of because people now have become completely selfish and always just make it all about themselves.
They Have Given Themselves
Entire Over To Their Egos 🌞
Become Spiritually Dead 🌈
My advice keep boundaries, don't trust anyone, be a good person, treat people with respect, work hard, stay humble, love everyone
God cares about all of us!
Only him, and maybe mom and father
Why would he? What's the point?
My life is not the work of a caring god.
I am a woman and Muslim and almost 50 with 4 kids, 2 of them are boys and I want them to listen to your videos (my youngest son is almost 11 and my first son is almost 17) your content is so needed especially nowadays! This country wants to eradicate masculinity in men and yes this world is upside down with it comes to values and principles … 😢😢😢it is frightening indeed but thanks many young men are finally waking up and really realizing things for what they truly are! Much love ❤️ keep doing what you are doing God bless you young man!
God bless you
Thank you
Its especially hard when you learn that Loved One doesn't care about you as much as you care about them.
Such an experience can be Devastating .
Told my wife this many times.. nobody gives a crap about us.. we have to do WHATEVER we have to do to make it and THRIVE in ABUNDANCE.. there probably is no more motivating statement then to know there's no back-up plan.. Sink or swim.. Do or die.. Remember peeps.. the obstacle is the path. ☮️
Most people are living in toxic positivity. They live as though nothing bad could or would ever happen. But when bad things do end up happening, they are caught completely off guard.
Bro I am winning ! Completely and utterly !
Toxic Positivity And
Toxic Negativity Are
Two Sides of The Same
Coin: Neither Should Be
Considered As Objective
Sometimes The Coverts
Can Mask Up Consistently
With Toxic Positivity, They
Are Insincere All Around
And The Toxic Negativity
Ones Are More Sincere in
The Sense They Are True
To Their Character: But
They Are Still Just As
Dangerous 🌞🌈
Never stunt mustache growth ! Keep elevating my style ! Attractive man attract attractive girls ! From in and out !
Life is a privilege to be alive?
Basically for 52 year's of my life I felt like a lady who should never have been born cause of always having an insane abuser in my life who suffocated my existence & being wonderfully alone for approximately 2 year's REALLY HELPED ME OUT! No one should be forced to answer to anyone & the sick abuser's who do that SHOULD BE FORCED TO ANSWER TO ALL OF THIER ABUSE! But they're cowards & they find a vulnerable victim & mirror all of their wrongs onto them cause they hate themselves! They can't be a real person & stand up to the WRONG that they do! You can't have any communication at all with a liar cause they're useless & can never be trusted & there absolutely is no forgiveness for thier insanely poor actions of stealing killing & destroying who they choose! They are SICK!
The thunder was great “tell them
I’m coming and hell’s coming with me”
NAILED it. Nobody gives a shit anymore.. ✌😶🙌
I wake up at 4am and start training. And when 9am comes around u see the bots start just barely waking up. It crazy
Its attitude when they dont care
so look after yourself
Health, happiness, pet care
I thought about this yesterday.. in order to be selfless you have to selfish they shame and call you selfish because they don’t want you to win
I love listening to you. 🥰 sometimes it's hard to stay motivated until you see there's still intelligent sensible and righteous people in this crazy world still. Even if it's rare. At the end of the day no one will ever care about others more than themselves which makes sense anyways, we have to survive first but as an empath, I know I definitely have always given more than I've received, and sometimes that can really make you feel depleted, I take a lot of time for self care, we need to, because at the end of the day no one us going to do it for us and if we don't take care of ourselves we won't be able to take care of others.
Agreed! Well said ❤
Exactly 💯 I can resonate with your words to the core of my heart. It's important to give distance and love others from arms length (Giving the benefit of the doubt).
I often call this, "Hopeful Reciprocation."
Allow others to reciprocate. And if they don't take effort, it's important to mirror their actions. 💪
I have this fault aswell, I always try to give nothing but positive and uplifting energy to others even when I'm being treated poorly.
Having too much empathy is a gift and a curse.
You’re saving lives dude. I’m 60 and whenever I tapped into my ultra male side, things worked out good with women, jobs etc.
You’re 100% correct. I failed too much with half measures .
Bro you are right. I put my trust in the Lord Jesus, and he comforts me he helps me through. His love is amazing. He’s all we have. He’s a great father as a man we need our father.
Big Time 💯 FACTS❗️❗️🗣️ Self Love Is Way Important Tbh Once You Realize You Are Happy And You Not Following Your Crowd It Will piss ppl off 🤡 screw them
Love yourself first. Forgive yourself first. The others sometimes take advantage of you when you give away your power in order to get more love from them.
👍
This message is giving me the chills bruh ❤
Bingo, why we really have to look out for ourselves.
It really doesn't matter in reality you have to care about yourself
I barely ever had anyone care about me! I had a best friend & 1 good relationship with my boyfriend
If you don't care about yourself...Why should anyone else?
You MUST PUT YOURSELF 1st!!!!!!!!!!!!
Amen and Amen!
Brutal truth.
Perfect timing with your messages as usual 🕰️
Ignore haters no joke ! Getting things done ! Done done done done ! Suffering build !
They've been throwing verbal attack in my back,while I passed by on my bike today., This always happends in an area where im outnumbered. They dont do it loud but quite subtle. I try not to lose energy to these lowly individuals. Its quite difficult sometimes.
God cares and that's all that matters‼️
the optimal goal is the replacement of false needs by true ones, the abandonment of repressive satisfaction ‼️
Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble.
Amen 🙏 this is so true God cares ❤
Thanks.
I’m 59 years old and never knew my dad. I’m learning from your channel. It’s been a blessing in my life!
I’ve noticed that it seems many chosen ones have either lost their father to death (myself included) or had an absent father or one who wasn’t the best teacher.
Maybe God allowed that so that we would be pushed to go to Him more for guidance? Since He’s the ultimate father. He fills the gap & steps in when we are without an earthly father.
Idk just something I’ve noticed & pondered
@@VR-jb9hbliterally said yesterday my father was a teacher for 35 yrs but didn't teach me shit
@@Fireinmyeyesthat’s so hard bc it feels like you have to teach yourself everything from scratch. And doesn’t feel fair. But maybe it’s for the best bc God helps with all of that
if we let him
And that process makes us stronger & better people in the end anyway ❤
Thank you for taking your time and energy to speak with us terryjoeljunior. We really appreciate you. 💯❤️🙏
Truth brother. 144,000 . Right when you said nature that thunder rolled.. Also.. hilarious on guessing when the thunder was going to hit next 🤣
For real man this is right on...we need warriors...even Jesus was a hard working carpenter...David wasn't afraid to cry but was the mightiest most fearless warrior. Bro in the future u ever wanna come down to my spot for free camping lol bro got your back
People don’t care but yet theirs too many jealous people and even worse when it comes to your own blood
I dealt with everything you're saying
Wow, this is one of your best man. You're wise beyond your years. And you're really shining in your purpose and sharing. Great talk and teaching!
Be the best version of yourself that you can be.
Take care of yourself and teach yourself and learn and adapt and evolve for the better.
I hope that everyone has a great day today. 💯❤️🍀
Only a few select people maybe, and God and Jesus ☺️
Thank you! ❤️
So easy too understand and too relate...💪
You need to health yourself, before you can heal other.
This is so true for women too!
One of your best videos yet, brother.
I watched (listened) to this twice. Love you brudder, man! Club Code.
Always be on your mission
You are spot on Joel but may I add one more thing to the list and that's spending time in nature. It's so healing to the soul that one feels connected to the Creator.
Yes I agree 😊A great way for us to take care of ourselves & feel connected to God
Crucial imo
👍💯
Morning kings and queens. 🎉😂❤
Even new jobs dgaf about you….poor training, confusion, and lack of communication. It’s like your a burden instead of a blessing 😢
As If Only You Have To Prove
Your Self To Them --- While They
Do Not Have To Prove Themselves
To You: While Providing No Credit For
The Good Services You Provide Them
That's just how it goes down.
Always be that clean fresh organized man ! A man !
Thank you
You are my best supplies girl ! I know certain things good I go took it !
Life is what you make it ✨️.
Absolutely!
Yes, loving your woman with reciprocation on both ends while remaining yourself is different than idealization, placing her on a pedestal, and making her God in your life which is what the Jezebel women want most of you...serve them.
I’m thinking of this in a relationship type of way
Idk why but maybe it will help someone out there in some way .
We DO have to be selfish to become selfless. Selfish in good ways, taking care of ourselves first.. taking steps to become who God designed us to be spiritually, mentally, & physically.
I do think that when a man has done that, he’s ready to be joined with his God given woman. And Joel’s right, being “nice”won’t get you there.
The right woman,will have done the same things when they meet.The right woman will naturally, through her respect, submission, support, love, understanding & friendship….
Cause her man to naturally desire to do loving things to take care of her needs also.
He won’t be able to resist, & that’s good bc that’s just how God designed things in a healthy relationship .Maybe it’s bringing her flowers & opening doors for her, maybe it’s not. That is such a personal thing . Everyone’s different.It has nothing to do with what society expects, it all comes down to the love & respect between two people & what naturally occurs when that is firmly in place with God in the center
Good advice
I care about me so that’s all that matters and obviously God first
That right there! The one that made that thunder 🙌 he is the one! ☝️He’s always right on time. 😂😘 I love you Lord you are so good! 🙌✨♥️✨🙏
😂😂
Yes -> cause
The badass man. Don't need to be nice. His money makes things happen.
Respect.
Amen and amen 🙏!
Women experience it when they get old and lose their looks.
This is an EXCELLENT video 🤣😂🤣
Becoming a man is A 2 Z but the 24 letters in between are the lessons that propel you to the Z and the catalyst, most males just want to jump from A all the way to Z and not do the work or expect their parents to do it for them.
You care...
“Treat her like a queen” lol facts tho 😂
Love this dude lmaoooo
14:00… got me laughing, been there before… never again.
This is so refreshing thank you so much for your channel and honesty 💛
Yeah true.
Good vibes good video s
My life as a God cares about me 💯
I really appreciated this video...
There's a 46 year old man who should see this BUT HE DOESN'T WANNA HERE THE TRUTH....He wants someone to take him in? He wants it easy but used to be a very talented worker & was in great shape but blamed everything on a mean wife? I unfortunately knew the WORST men! I finally don't feel sorry for anyone anymore cause NO one ever cared or felt sorry for me! You have to love yourself & do good for you cause NO one else will ! You really do have to be SELFISH in order to be able to be selfless & help someone else🥲😂
Feminist are BULLIES!
13.34 yeah
..... thunder..rumble
I kinda chose to stay in solidarity. Just to leave out all possible cancerous "relationships". I still have a couple of friends here and there but not nearly as much as i had before. I find that its fir the better. Some people dont know how to respect boundaries, then when you start setting them, you end up the bad person lol pretty funny how that works . Its different for other people. I enjoy a life of less deama , less fake shit, less stress
Only Jesus care about me
Jesus is a proxy for Baphomet. Yahweh is Ba'al.. Ba'al is the devil... Those who wrote the Bible are still around today but don't worship Jesus.. think about that for a minute.
@@aericamerel1816 That's the truth. Those who pull our fiat currency out of the air treat the public like mushrooms, they keep us in the dark and feed us sh*t.
Amen 🙏🏾
See 15 57 in video
I can see how some guys can turn kinda evil taking that selfish stuff too far
@@aericamerel1816indeed, Lucifer, aka the morning star is the Jesus of the flesh people worship in idolatry which separates them from true spirit of Christ, demiurge deceives you to worship it as “God” when it is actually “Satan”
perfect 👌🏻
i don't care about anybody in this world long as i'm good in life that's all it matters
1:55 Definitely the truth
Man I wish I would have heard this 20 years ago
You're literally in my head.
THAT'S WHY I'M ISOLATED SOLO
Lol he's right .
Only you, should care,
Only you, care ! About you !
Make it great . Make yourself great
100% agree
So much wisdom what age is Terry?
His name is Joel. He's 28. Terry is his father's name.
@@ChosenCheq Thanks.
When you accept that nobody really cares about you one can move on with life,even family and friends dont care that much as you would like them to.
As a woman, this is extremely refreshing to hear from a masculine man. Cause I have had experiences with passive men and it's not for me. No offense. Just, damn. This isnt harsh, it's just a man being a man. I like to see it.
I agree. We as true feminine women NEED a leader.
Facts. We desire to respect and honor a man. Forsure.
@@lili79136yes! We crave it
If You Would Not Say This
To A Man You Were Not
Sexually Attracted To...
Then You Do Not Know
What A True Man Is 🌞
3:00 hits different
I lost now a student because i asked him seriously to not leave me on read, for i know how to organize my time, my week etc. ; ) The guy disppear one week and come later " we did we left off?" like someone go suddently went into a LSD trip and the world should stop for his trip . While i start telling him how i would like to do, and why i keep all chat on Zoom, he starts interrupting creating confusion, " this never happened to me" and from confusion he goes to anger and leave me on zoom. Me calm. Typical devil thing
Yes, to some people it never happened that the teacher just has a sense of respect. I am not mad, but i have to stop and say: please dont do this, is it possible?
Last month happened a similar thing while me asking (for the last time) and very seriously a child to not throw stones to my window.
You are punished for having boundaries or giving any consequence for what people DID WRONG!
Where God is concerned making yourself last in the queue gets you through the door first .. if you put yourself first and can’t bend the knee God has no use for you 🤷♂️⚡️❤️
And i do have to correct you, i do know what thats like. Women do go through it too. Just not your common, everyday woman that youre chasing. But some of us do know what its like. I wouldnt be quick to group us together. You never know...
"You Never Know" Is A Stock
Saying of Cluster B Women
For Men To Gaslight Them
Selves And Second Guess
Amen
My DEARLY LIVING BELOVED LORD GOD ALMIGHTY CHRIST JESUS HOLY SPIRIT LOVES Me And TRULY CARES FOR Me Indeed AMEN!!!!!
"Nobody cares about you!"
And this public service announcement brought to you by the one and only T-DoubleJ, sounding off 😂