No One Cares About You
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- No one cares about you. The sooner you realize this, the better off you'll be. Put in the work regardless of the chaos around you.
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Most people dont care about you, they care what you can do for them.
Sounds a bit selfish
@@lifeafterkings6315 It's true though
Exactly!
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People show there true colours when you no longer of benefit to them......
You know what they say, "when days are dark, friends are few" 💯
Never heard that but so true
You hit the nail right on the head man!! After years and years of let downs from family, friends and girlfriends I’m done.. The only person I need in this world is me.. I’m lost for words when it comes to relationships.. Nothing but lies, games and heart aches
I hear you Stevo. I've been a bleeding heart liberal progressive my entire life & helped everyone, family, friends, even total strangers & it cost me everything. I didn't help people because I expected anything in return but now that I'm in a very dire situation nobody cares. It's actually very sad how uncaring most humans have become.
@stevo6891 Totally agree
@@John-sg5un I use to be close with cousins and my little brother now they are strangers.. I understand when people get married it changes but to never answer back text or calls come on no excuses.. The way I see it if people want you around they will make time no excuses..
With the exception of my mother, I am in the same boat as you. I am very leery of most people.
Cold hard fact.... This one is harsh, but unfortunately true.
Care about your family who only love you~
Going through this right now 💯! Tore my Achilles people will tell they care about you while you’re up and disappear on you at the drop of a dime.! It’s cool because I’m only getting stronger in the process. “Notice who is in the locker room after you lose, not after you win”.
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Big Facts. Only the Most High. Nobody else is for you. Keep Pushing bro... Pay it all forward
The only being that truly cares about you is GOD. If you put him first he promises that he will take care of you and all of your needs
@@davidrivas6412 Care about your family who love you~
Nah not even god cares. He proved that to me a long time ago. Even before I was born
@@bigbannana9088 what made you think God dont care about you
@@user-bs5qr5ie4s idk
It's true, it's like once you talk to them again after awhile they act exited to see you but it's a facade
Care about your family who only love you~
That's that beauty of it.When nobody cares about you and you don't have to worry about them
Right on, brotha! I grew up with narcissistic parents. Those kinds of people are evil as puck! I tried getting other relatives to help me through it. Instead of them helping, they all turned on me. They do NOT care. So, I had a choice. I could stay around the hell they put me through or get the puck out. I got the puck out! I'm my own man, now. I got my own pad. Guess what??? Those shits are never welcome back in my life. Ever! And you're right. I ran into them a while back. They acted like nothing is wrong and still blame me. As hard as puck it was going through this, I can now say that I'm stronger than I was before. Damn, glad I choose to overcome.
I share your pain bro, also had narcissistic parents and they’ve never once showed sympathy, compassion and accountability for how they mistreated me in life. We have to forget about getting closure from narcissistic parents who never admit their wrongdoings and don’t even show love and kindness to their own children. I’ve accepted that I don’t have parents or a family but the pain still hurts of knowing that your own parents don’t love and care for you and dealing with the deep loneliness. But we’ve been living this for a while now and we’ll get through it.
So right Shàun, exactly how it is.
People in need are a lot of work. Very few people will ever genuinely care.
Damn son your entire comment is itself a big motivation. Almost what i needed.. what i actually was looking for to go ahead
So I typed in “No one cares about you” because I realized how true it really is. Been let down by so many in life, especially women. Surprised me, but made me realize things are rarely what they seem.
I agree, when they see you in public they act like it's all good. Slowly getting to the point of standing alone and making my own way.
There is no selfless act.
Ive learned that lesson the hard way, youre good with a lot of people but if you only need a tiny bit of help or anything they run like shit. And theyre exactly acting like they did nothing wrong. Disgusting.
They all fighting a battle don’t forget to fight for yourself they won’t fight for you
That’s exactly how things go now a days Shaun you hit right on the spot 💯
I have my tribe.....god, myself n my 6 fur babies!!! I feel more peace then ever before. It can be done n you can find bliss!! Most folks are fair weather friends n family!!
“Indifference makes the difference.”
You’re 💯 regarding this. It’s a damn shame we live in such times (especially with smartphones & social media dominating our society) in which people don’t genuinely care. But at the end of the day, it’s what they signed up for so they can’t be mad if you repay them with the same sample they gave you.
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Shaun,
Very Good Video It Speaks nothing but the TRUTH. 1000% Correct.
Spot on mate , always keeping focus and having a great attitude will thrive any obstacle.
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I keep getting ghosted after each date. I don't even feel like it's worth chasing after women anymore. They simply want to have a fling and leave. I'm looking for a partner to hustle with. Too bad I can't find anyone.
Real words! Happy that I am not alone seeing this reality! Keep going man
This video helped me get through this day. Thank you.
Pure truth. I’m 60. For too long in my life I believed that people would really care and save me. What a stupid mindset. Take it from me and what’s said in this video, it’ll make you stronger. Unfortunately I learned too late and the damage is done. You’re on your own. Live it and breathe it!
Fellas, y’all need to keep grinding and fighting. Just an example from my own experiences in life,I was having struggles with being social and meeting new people after college.
I got a new job, cool. No social life at all. So I took it upon myself to improve this area of my life and starting signing up for events, meet ups and other things I found cool. Guess what? I ended up meeting tons of people and networked the shit ton of it.
My point with this is that nobody came for my rescue. I made the internal decision that I was going to change and I did, keep y’all head up and keep yourself accountable to better yourself so you can have more fulfilling life.
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I listen to this video every day. Helps me to always keep things in perspective when it comes to people
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Straight truth spoken here, people listen to these words for they are the truth.
you are right, if you rely your happiness on other people you are lost, it is time to upgrade
I wouldn't say people don't care, but they have their own shit going on and you have to be your own hero, don't wait for somebody to save you, take action
they only care about what you can do for them (favors)
Care about your family who love you~
@@hamoodZXyea right
@hamoodZX easy for u to say i had an abusive father a psychopath for a mother and have a toxic brother
Spoke it word for word once again💯💯💯
Your videos the last 3 Months since I’ve found you have changed my mindset and Motivation. Thank you
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This was a great video. I've thought about this before, and I understood that everyone is for themselves, you've done much more than the average person for spreading this message, and thats what really shows to me that you truly care about others. You are doing this for the sole purpose to better the lives of others, which is also exactly what I want to do in life. I can tell you went out of your way to make a youtube channel not for the fame (like most) but to help others, which I appreciate a lot.
🤜🏼🤛🏼 thanks for watching my guy
I was eagerly waiting for this video
Your ballin outta control Shaun . See you at the top 😎
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Ay man just wanna say you are highly appreciated truly inspired me to be a better man thank you 🙏💪🏼💯
That’s a beautiful thing bro. Keep going ✊🏼
Big facts my bro. You just never miss 🙌 let’s goooo 100k subs in no time with this great content
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they either hate and wish u dont rise up or they dont care enough to do so.. its either 1or 2. it took me a long time to understand this, now i say nothing on my life and my moves, even when they pretend to care and be interested, i keep it dead ass plain i never go into detail bout what im doing
Yep, its just me and my walk with God. He’s never broken a promise yet, everyone else has. Yet my family and friends think im lost. No way, im just different, and thats fine by me. God bless you guys 👍👍
Thank you!
Funny thing Shaun I helped many friends accomplish goals , they were so close to me . Soonest they got a good paying job they don’t know me anymore. All of them. Not once have they called me to help me get a better job , I was struggling and was down but no one helped me. They knew because we worked at the same place and knew the struggle.
Till this day not one call from any of them . But I’m almost done with my degree… all this gave me motivation 💪💪 thank you for the video I thought I was the only one. 👊👊
@SaltGeo same here😃
This has been the realist video I’ve seen this year
Spoke it word for word. Coming to terms with a whole lot.
Care about your family who only love you~
Unless they think you have money then they act like they care trying to get you to give them some.
I really needed to hear this today.
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Learned this the hard way.. We need to not just hear this but listen. Internal work gets easier and easier after the awareness.
Care about your family who only love you~
My entire life experience confirms all of this.
This video made me feel food about myself ❤ subbed 😊
I'm so happy I started following you t the early stage of your youtube journey... becsuse your success is going to be explosive from here on. I hope I can join you along your success man
🙏🏻 🙏🏻 You got no choice but to rise up with me fam! Let’s get it
He nailed this one. Sadly it's the truth!
Care about your family who love you~
Absobloodlutley sir. This I've experienced in my life and once you reprogram your mind to discern who really cares, ýou become free.
Care about your family who love you~
Sure most people care, but only when it's convenient or suits them. Marriage vows are serious but "Till death do us part" seems like: "Till shit hits the fan." I've seen people jump on a bandwagon when it suited them.
💯 bro. Most people don’t actually believe in the vows of marriage. They get married because they feel like it’s something they are ‘supposed’ to do based on pressure from society or because they want a wedding to impress their friends and family.
And " I now pronounce you man and wife" should be " I now pronounce you future enemies "
People's loyalty is controlled by their opportunity. People will snitch when they have new options, and they will do it when you are sick or you need them the most, and they won't care.
These poeple are narcs and fake no heart or care just be stronger love yourself more turn that love back onto yourself..don,t take shit be a force unto yourself.heal yourself more peace and love for the poeple out there in pain,loss and anger .you will get pass this in time.do not let it change you into a worse person.you are better then that trust yourself .first you are all amazeing worthy of the love you deserve.an empath❤❤❤
I agree, the good side is that we will be winners for sure by putting in work. If you dont put in work then you will suffer alone.
Care about your family who only love you~
I'm 68yo & attended a Spiritual Awareness Group of 18 elder people for 4yrs.... I gave these people tons of vulnerable moments, gifts, help and always knew they never had the capacity to do anything for me.
Groups are groups...you are nothing outside of the group and unfortunately very little even inside the group.
Human Nature? Maybe so. We are NOT the best on this planet.
Don't ever worry about people that don't worry about you
this is soooo true boss.
I love the way you just say it. ❤️
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Nice video man ! At the end realising nobody cares, frees you from the search for the approval of others.
💯 across the board!!!
Shaun, love your content!🤛
Thank you my G 🤜🏼🤛🏼
If you go back you are just teaching them how to treat you!
Care about your family who love you~
I have came to the realization a long time ago that I am alone in this world. Already an introvert by nature, I am very observant of my surroundings and especially staying clear of people who are cliquish.
I like the upgrade in style
Straight talk with no Chaser
New sub Bro. Love this video it's facts. Looked at your other videos they look awesome can't wait to get into them! RESPECT!
Needed this
I must be honest there are alot of fake people out there
Damn, this guy hit it on the head
I think it's important to care about the family and friends that you consider close, but if they aren't seem to care for you anymore, or if they never did and you've reached your breaking point, you've got to wish them well and stop caring about them too I guess
Harsh facts!
A lot of what's being said here is very accurate. The only thing I will add is that you should only reciprocate your time to those who make time for you. So, when you do come across people like this in your life, make sure you treasure them because they are RARE.
So true! So true!
A lot of people live in a fools paradise and think others really care about them,you have to realise not many people give a fuck about you these days,it took me a while to learn that
Care about your family who love you~
Real facts 🙏🏽💯🔥
Care about your family who only love you~
How can you have excellent character if you're selfish? If people around you don't care cut them off and build relationships with like minded people.
I read an awesome quote once:
"You're completely on your own.
You don't need help from anyone.
If you can't reach your goals without the validation and support of other human beings, the bulk of whom I promise are against you, then you don't deserve to succeed."
I printed this out and keep it on my desk, and I read it from time to time to remind me of the reality of life. Appreciate you Shaun for talking about subjects like this. \m/
I like the intro.😊
Preach ✅
Facts💯
Care about your family who only love you~
I'm older....lost my wife to cancer many years ago.....my three kids care...my granddaughters care...my two dogs care...but women I've dated could give two shits about me...which is fine... because the feeling is mutual.....I spend my life looking in the forward direction...never back. Every morning is full of promise and every evening of return. Keep thinking free. Great words again, Shaun. Thanks.
Sorry for your loss bro. And yes you are correct. I should have made mention in the video that kids, grandkids, dogs etc will likely always care for you. I guess it’s because I am speaking as someone who doesn’t have any of those but I agree with your perspective.
@@ShaunZacharysometimes family don’t care either so he’s pretty blessed to be able to say all those people in his family care . Some of us have fake family .
Nah when you prove them wrong they cant even look you in the eye last year my nana was calling me a loser fast forward her whole frame was shattered when i came home in my new truck sitting high like a boss popping bottles of champagne that i supplied for the lil family shin dig people at my old job looking hella pissy cuz I always knew i was a winner and a lil measly 1000 bucks never defined me it was one of the greatest feelings and to top it all off my girl even left me but loved me when i was driving a rusty dust buster around with no tags broke af now that i look back everyone cant go with you when you boss up stop worrying about these women yall they just come and go wether you’re winning or losing,family fake,people who you thought wanted to see you win those are actually the ones who doubt you KEEP GOING 🏁🏆
Facts, don’t hate the game though just see it for what it is. Realise, but don’t be bitter about it remember to still treat people well
Good Morning my brotha listen while trucking this morning this woman I’m dealing with got in her feelings because I didn’t want to speak on one of my old relationships from years ago this was Sunday have heard a word from her so I’m focusing on my music, trucking and investing I want to say something but I’m like fuck that appreciate you brotha
Stay up ⬆️ my guy!
@@ShaunZachary I’m studying Shaun I got side tracked like MF haven’t be writing no new music to listen to going down the road and give up time to be on the phone when they want to be on that I’m not calling shit it’s back to square one now I see how woman can fuck up your whole grind and goals tap in with you soon
I agree with u 💯
My appendix rupture I was in the hospital for two weeks I went septic,I had a 3 month recovery from all the damage ,everyone that supposedly care didn't even checked up on me after the first week, this shit is real, never depend on no one in this world but yourself.
Yep I was that stupid guy at one time who believed that my woman would always be there for me through thick and thin. But the minute times started to get tough oh she was gone! And of course tried to gaslight and make everything out to be my fault when really she was just looking for an excuse to move on to greener pastures with a clear conscience. You're not joking about that!
Stay up ⬆️ bro
@@ShaunZachary thanks bro, appreciate what you do on here. I'm probably a little older than your target audience , as a lot of what you talk about I've already been through. But I still listen to a lot of what you have to say just to stay brushed up.
@@CameronShaft Same here man, the “I love you” forever was just words.. I’m really shocked by the people that bailed on me.. It’s crazy how fast people come and go out of our lives!!
Dope!!!!
Sadly. This is 100% true.
40 secs in and yes.. yes they are.
This is how the world operate. Do have no desire from them and there will be no disappointment
Facts bro. The best way to get back at them is to torture them with success. I know it's spite but fuck if it isn't a one hell of a motivator.
#facts
@@ShaunZachary Care about your family who only love you~
💯 agree
this is the truth
Shaun, your commentary in this video is the really s*** ever! I've spent my entire life over valuing people, loving on people, being there for people, standing up for people, giving everything that I had and own, putting myself and my freedom on the line for people, never putting a dollar or material item over a person, and they all turn their back on me! They would not stand up for me, fight for me or support me. And now after doing this my entire life I'm all alone and homeless, working hard to build myself back up to where I was before.
You lived that way and did those things for others because you liked the way it made you feel. You did it for you!
family is all you got in this world well some family to the rest of the world you're just a number
I feel like this everyday it does hurt but it's life and they aren't worth my time on those people it's there problem f they don't like you it wastes my time in focusing myself on them
And I would say that the people that don't care will get burnt as well, I feel that's enough comfort for me.
That’s so true even Job in the Bible, when shit went south even his wife left him and cursed him and encouraged him to mock God.
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god was a dick for allowing that stuff to happen
Been going through this lately. Maybe a long time. Friends and family with exception of 2 people never initiate contact. I need to make new friends
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