Joe Rogan relationship advice for Lex Fridman
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We all deserve someone that smiles when they talk about us the way lex smiles when he talks about robots.
Dry as an unbuttered toast. 5 🌠, would recommend
and Tim dillon
🤣😅👍🤣😅👍!!!
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LOL!!!
This is actually great advice from Joe - “Be somebody that someone wants to be in a relationship with.”
@JustMemes No that’s not what he means at all. He is saying don’t be a garbage individual who doesn’t work on oneself and you won’t have issues finding or maintaining a healthy relationship. People have a lot of nasty character traits and habits they don’t feel like addressing thus sabotage themselves throughout life. This stuff doesn’t need to be excused as part of one’s “personality”.
Duh. If people don't know this already they're fucked
@@pnut3844able It should be obvious but i've been all over this country and there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that a large percentage doesn't know or simply doesn't care to know. So basically you're right, they're fucked and honestly have nobody but them selves to blame as harsh as it is.
Yea he stole it off Jordan. Grow up
@@Platypus_Warrior what the fuck are you rambling on about? Go home, you're drunk. I remember when I had MY first drink.
"Don't settle for hot and mean. That's how you get Amber Heard."
🤣🤣🤣💀
Borderline personality disorder in a nutshell - known a couple of ladies who fit that template and you got to get as far away from them as possible...
😅😅😅😅 so true !!! Great advice 😜
Hot and steaming?
I've heard she was no amber...
@@Rendell001 Dated one for two years. Never again.
"don't get hot and mean. hot and mean is not fun."
the world is full of people who need to hear this and take it to heart.
like Johny Depp... Johny needs to hear this xD
No. It's about being brutal honestly, and rationally. You cannot be taken advantage from and do nothing. It makes even worse people. Kids when they get away with stuff truly think they have gained insight.
He means don't go psychotic while you are hot. He is a man child with words.
I mean it can definitely be fun
Joe Rogan's brain is completely fried. Literally sounds like it came out of a third grader's mouth
It would seem most women are mean these days. There are still a few sweethearts left, but they’re not as common as they once were
To the guy that said "Lex is building his wife in his basement" I can’t stop laughing man
joe rogan having to hold back those man-tears just by describing his wife was sweet
💯💯
It's hard god dam work to find a great woman nowadays with all the fake bullshit out there.They are out there but it's hard to find the 1 who no matter what they are your partner 💯
The whole idea/thing about women in the eastern world just seems so much more attractive then women in the states these days.
@@robertgerrard You got that right
@FIGHFANNERD 9 It depends on where you live honestly. I live in LA... You're more likely to get struck by lightning than to meet a woman who's attractive but not a POS narcissist here.
Vulnerable moments like these is what makes the Joe rogan podcast a real experience, Lex always struck me as someone who had all his ducks in a row but I actually appreciate him more just for being human and having struggles like all of us but also an absolute legend
This is Lex's Podcast
Nailed it exactly my friend. Hearing joe talk this openly and sincerely takes me back to why I started listening to Joe back in 2010.
@@Absurdword lex is pretty good and so is joe
The way Joe talks about his wife and his friends.. he's truly happy and truly happy to have found these people to have in his life. Don't care what anyone ever says about him or who tries to take him down. Judge a person on who they surround themselves with and who is friends with them in return.
@@thebzo lol true true,
Ok. That's pretty bloody sweet; Rogan getting a little choked up when he talks about how nice his wife is. Love it.
"What a strange illusion it is to believe beauty is goodness"
Leo Tolstoy
Thank you for sharing this quote. 👍🏻
Two grown men having an open conversation about relationships and somehow people still find things to hate about them
Envy
cause this reveals how normal and boring they are lel
Misery loves company man.
There are things to hate about Joe at least
@@PauIdenino like what?
joe's advice is something i always tell myself and others: be the best version of yourself for someone. Too often people worry so much on what they want in a partner , but they forget about trying to hold the same standards for themselves. If you want someone who is genuine and kind and honest apply those same rules to yourself. And lastly, find people who share same values and beliefs as you do.
I had many girlfriends and even I proposed once. But deep there I knew I did not want that. So I waited like an asshole and changed inside and finally found completely different girl, different to any former girls. She is genuine kind and nice person, no stupid pride to say something nice, no manipulation but honesty. So I say - be alone, learn to be alone. Many people are with others because they do not know how to be alone and they chose wrong. When you learn how to be alone and because you start to really like yourself then everything change. You are no longer with somebody because you hate to be alone but you like yourself and you invite somebody to your great life.
Is it okay to never be in a relationship and be single my whole life by choice if I’m happier that way too? :]
@@DragonBallZuper absolutely, read up on the ancient cynics of greece, they were homeless by choice and had no possessions and they were very content with their lives. You can be happy with all sorts of different lifestyles if you do it righteously
@@DragonBallZupersorry that makes you a loser who never learned to be a real man capable of commitment
Lex, you already *are* someone people would want to be in a relationship with.
Don't change yourself in the search for love, unless it's an aspect you actually want to change
Chicks dig Lex
Lex, my only regret in life is having kids late, at age 31. Find a lady who wants a big family, it's not about your happiness perse, but about duty and your servitude towards your forefathers who got you here. It is a task to undergo and suffer, but also to enjoy. It will all make sense, go for it, don't waste more time.
@@denniskatinas lmfao
@@theRatPackwasthebest Haha its true tho, for me it is. I never wanted kids, my girlfriend had to seduce and trick me for years. There's no regret. Get as many kids as you can bare around you. It's why you're here.
Very well put, I agree. Lex has a lot going for him but it's hard to see especially when most of your life was spent well disciplined in the academic world
My grandma who was married for over 50 years said, find someone who can deal with your brand of crazy. My grandpa said, have a place that grandma won't go
🤣
Like a man cave?
What your grandma said is basically the take-home lesson from the movie *Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind* and a key reason for my adoration of it.
@@JoachimMoeller I had absolutely no idea, now I'm curious. Tyvm 👍
The worst factor in relationships is that in the early phase when the love bio-chemistry is through the roof both partners want to please their loved ones and are open and tolerant to the other's favorite preferences (interests, hobbies, food, etc). And after that period is over than you realize this person actually enjoys things that you are not liking at all. And it becomes very unpleasant to live with a person so different than you.
Facts
Heres a question I learned long ago… “Are you the man the woman you are looking for is looking for?”
The same advice applies to business and career/money. Everyone wants to get paid, but what are you GIVING?
I believe that Lex will find his person, and they will have wonderful children.
"Hot and mean it's not fun." The quote of the day.
I beg to differ lol
Sounds like the diarrhea I had this morning.
Shhhh... Amber Heard that.
Attitude, smarts and looks. In that order. It is nice to have all 3, but the most important is attitude.
Meeting people as an adult in general is the real challenge. Especially people who are open-minded, creative and stay away from alcohol.
Stay away from alcohol 🤣 wtf 🤡🤡
@@AManCalledDutch Some people can keep it to an occasional drink, so great if you do. For many it's a toxic addictive drug that destroys lives. It's not for me personally, so I prefer a significant other to not drink either. Shouldn't be hard to understand...
Call me...
@@AManCalledDutch y'know, not destroying your brain, since when did that become strange?
It only gets worse as you get older. You have to put in the work to do it today today today so that you have friends and possibly a partner tomorrow.
Why is the thumbnail always have Natalie Portman when lex is getting relationship advice
I think he’s trying to throw out a hint… lol
“To have a worthy mate, be worthy of a worthy mate.” - Charlie Munger
The modern day poet 2 Chainz said it best. "Don't try to find the one, focus on becoming the one."
Modern Day Emily Dickinson (if she was black and tall).
@@M00NBULLET …and also a man
@@jordan8659 Which year are you living in? Lmaooo
@@M00NBULLET good point lmfao
Can you not do both lol
Its crazy to see how much Joe has grown, from a meathead to a thoughtful person
He’s always been thoughtful … 🤡
Joe Rogan is a fantastic human being. Also Lex. I think I would feel better arround Lex, kind of personality reasons i think. What i appreciate the most about them is how real they are plus they are doing such a great job for humanity
1:36 "You can be deceived by perfect symmetry." Great quote.
Both of you guys are my top favorites! Thank you for doing what you do!
That little impersonation of Alex Jones @ 1:58 was perfect lmao
Everyone wants someone they can gain from that’s the problem. People forgot what love is. And it isn’t always about what you can get out of the other person
well said code breaker
The Joker has sound advice..
@@lesshuman00 ofcourse not sex is part of love. It’s wrong if all your looking for is sex. It’s lust.
Speak for yourself, not everyone is like you
@@padarousou lmao I know everyone isn’t like that but most are selfish materialistic and immature. I didn’t even say once that’s how I think. And did you watch the video. Basically saying if you don’t have anything they want it’s ok for them not to be interested. Enhancing the idea to gain something from other people. I believe love is more about giving then getting. And when you put someone else above your own wants that is the beginning of figuring out what love is. I know every person in the world doesn’t think alike. What is the point?
Joe Rogan’s best, best, BEST advice ever. Choosing the right partner is one of life’s most important decision ever.
I would also add check that potential partner out. If no one among family, friends, church, co-workers says anything bad about her that's a good sign. Most women have some people they don't along with. So if everyone loves your woman that's a good sign. A bad sign: if she has no female friends that's a red flag.
I like the idea of pretending all my thoughts and conversations are recorded. That will help me have a more positive mindful mindset ! 🙏 🙌
that's honestly a little insane. You're being conditioned to self censor, not at all healthy for a free thinking individual. Maybe you should be re-educated as well?
Joe's energy as he thinks about his wife >
How can anyone hate this man ? 😂😂
right?! The friends I have that don't like him honestly don't fucking know him, they are just tribal sheep who recently were told what to think about him. It takes a certain personality to "hate him" I can understand like some of my girl friends who just don't vibe with his choice of topics and hobbies but to actually hate him just takes ignorance
Facts
So true.
@@bgdream24 tribal sheep imma have to use that one day lmaooo
Absolutely! People just wanna hate. Those are usually intimidated by the fact he is absolutely well rounded they would love it if he was just a “bro “ who was tough and didn’t talk about emotions just about fights and comedy and basic stuff but when a tough guy shows he is more than that it throws people into a spin they can’t cope. Their little brains can’t cope so they hate !
Great advice from Joe. Shared values and a positive attitude. The fruit of the Spirit as the Apostle Paul described.
Joe Rogan has a really good understanding of relationships, the key being that whatever you want in a partner you have to be that. In other words, what are you prepared to give. People won’t do that these days so much, it’s all take take take
To a certain point I agree, I know I was by no means the best partner. I could barely manage a good night or a good morning text. I don't know if I was taking too much, I just don't think I was open enough to give enough.
There's more key detail. One must be secure in oneself (and a connection with God, humbleness in regard to God is good,… if one has such feelings),… and have an abundance mindset,…. not 'needy'.
@@quentins8165 That's really the same thing. If you're not giving you're taking, you'll be draining energy from the relationship.
@@bonsummers2657 being secure in oneself, indeed, knowing oneself is the same as knowing God and in so doing humility will arise, along with natural kindness and compassion.
And, the "Don't settle for hot and mean. They're are plenty of hot and nice girls out there." Very true.
This is my fave
Love these 2 guys. Rogan is so rock solid.
Patience and kindness are the keys.
Equal energy Exchange above all.
That was elegantly said. Very beautiful description, and advice. Thank you.
The best way to find your love is just go and meet people. Be on some events, do something with others and just live surrounded with people.
Just do it! No need to think much about it and ask others for advice.
Good luck! )))
Just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and I said exactly this. Before I go looking for someone who I deem worthy of me, I need to be someone worthy.
shoot me an email baby you got the goods!
Good on you for not hoping into something new right after the breakup good men are looking for women who work on themselves.
@@johnstone2029 no dont simp. men like you are the reason most women have a severely over inflated sense of value. also have some self respect and dont be so desperate..
With a profile picture like that , you will have no issue getting a new boyfriend
Be someone that men like. You go girl 👍
"Be somebody that someone wants to be in a relationship with" thanks Joe
That's actually really solid advice..there are plenty of people with little to offer who can't figure out why they're single
@@jschoma11 most single ppl don’t think they have anything to offer. That’s why they stay single and don’t ask ppl out
@@jamsteroffthewheel4731 right..thats why Joe's advice is good..if they don't think they have anything to offer then they need to fix that
@@jschoma11 I think they know that and would fix it if they knew how
@@jamsteroffthewheel4731 well..isn't it obvious? If someone is down on their looks..get in shape..dress better..if they feel their personality is lacking..interact with more people and so on..work on whatever you feel bad about..and it's all down to the individual..the "knowing what to do" isn't the hard part..it's actually doing the work that is
You always think you know what Joe is going to say but then he still manages to pleasantly surprise you
Bickering is my biggest flaw, being a perfectionist won’t take you far in life bro, get THAT part together, even I hate that about myself and have been working on it for ages
Kind loving good people especially your soul mate a happy good energy person🥰🥰 great advice from Joe to Lex…
I think the best advice is what Joe said about surrounding yourself with positive, healthy, friendly, generous people.
I agree though keep great people around you. Don't let negativity invade your life.
It took me finding someone who treated me the way I was treating guys I liked and respected, to know I was on the right track (been married to him for almost 14 years). It also took me a long time to figure out I didn't need to be, nor did I want, an 8x10 glossy. That's one way of saying, "Be yourself," but people have to understand that in their own way. You might not be ready for "the one" yet, which as another commentor said, is OK.
@\f_a/ Haha, damn I'm old!
@\f_a/ 😊
if you are not hot for him when you can be , then you are lazy and entitled.
Be your best self
so you rode the carousel with the chads and when you hit the wall, got a nice guy to pay full price(used) for what others got for free(new). How romantic.
With Lex it revolves around the fact he never puts himself in situations where he can serendipitously meet women. If he spends all day his study learning, your meetings with new potentiel women per year falls drastically, and with that, your ‘hit rate’ because you aren’t practicing your social skills
Hit rate, cringe. Also you don’t know what he’s doing. And there are multiple ways to go about this beyond the path you mention. I heard Andrew Huberman talk about setting him up with a friend. He may be meeting more women than you think. He seems fairly social for an introvert.
@@evedotcom soon as I read hit rate and imagining "tagging" women like some deer out in the wilds...*cringe* lol, but I sorta get what he means although his description leaves much to be desired. Never be "eager" for something, especially meeting someone for a relationship, it never ends well. Find someone when you find someone, no point to force it to happen. I've never put myself in social situations to increase my "hit rate" and never really was trying to look for a girlfriend..but guess what? I always ended up finding one when I found one.
@@evedotcom didn’t mean Hit rate as in sleep with them. I just mean interactions that lead to some form of romantic development. Also if you want proof of this, look at what he says in this video where talks about working too hard and not making the time and on top of that he has another video which is like an example of his usual. He literally spends it completely alone studying AI, exercising alone and like practicing guitar
It also helps a lot to meet many (new) people. It seems Lex is so busy with his work and he doesn't spend much time to just go out there.
Beautiful clip! 🥲 Thank You.
Joe very obviously loves his beautiful, smart, and kind wife
You are so lucky to have Joe to be your friend. He obviously deeply cares for you, and is a great role model.. ❤️🕊️🙏
really needed this!!
That is absolutely great advice!
So right Joe…find someone who shares your values, who is kind, smart and honest. So nice to hear Joe speak about his wife.❤️
That's right. That's damn good advice. Great video.
Love these two men. Wise words.
lex's "brick house" line at the end was gold!
The bit about Tim Dillon is the best part of this great conversation lol
Relationships are about compromise dog. Gotta learn where and when to compromise and where and when to stay firm. So long as you have your values in line with one another, its all about picking your battles well.
Be the "best" version of yourself. Whatever that may be. Whatever makes you happy. As you are striving for that... is when you will meet someone who is right for you.
I dated a girl who I thought was the one, fairly attractive and so kind, she changed hard, got back into hard drugs, made up lies about me, spoke to me like shit, threw things at me, lied to me. I wasnt on the ball, I didnt grow up in a very loving home and I probably projected my kindness onto her superficial front. I miss the person I thought they were, hopefully I’ll meet them for real, whoever they are…
i dont think she changed, i think everyone acts nice in the beginning and then once they have you they show you who they really were all along.
@@mcchickenmuhchicken yeah I guess, I flip between perspectives. Based on all my experiences I think you’re right it just hurts I was blind to it for so long, but at least I can be grateful that I wised up to the bs
I've experienced something similar (though not to this extreme). They're out there, man, you gotta attract her by becoming your best self. You won't find her consciously.
never date a drug addict!
@@derpestarzt bs, I was a drug addict too, I just never went back to it. Feel free to steer clear but you’ll be missing out on a lot of good people
I love it how Joe hardly talks bout his family ya don’t even know there names,he shields them ya don’t want no weirdos knowing about your family his got it sussed perfectly 👌
Great advice from Joe Rogan ! So many people are in a relationship for superficial reasons.
What kind of superficial reasons do you mean?
hey
Sense of humor is huge, be kind and be a mature man as best you can and keep growing.
Yeah, I have to agree with another commenter. Don’t look for perfection, but BE the perfection (as best you can) for someone. BE the person everyone wants to be with. That might just help you find a great mate. And of course have very similar perspectives on faith, family, and life…..
I love the way joe talks about his wife, i can feel love in those words.
Joe and Lex - thanks for the best podcast ever!
Beautiful advice Joe thanks
And Lex you are a great guy! And it’s clear your a good man as well. Total catch!
You're kind, you're fit, you're 6 ft. tall, you run 5 or 6 days a week you lift 3 days a week, you make 200K a year, you're really happy with your life largely because you don't have much for expectations and have really over achieved compared to where you came from, but all that you are now takes up so much of your time, that even though you're none of the bad things Joe listed, that fact that you don't feel the need to keep up with the Jones's with bigger houses and more cars, still disqualifies you, not because you're bad but you're still not enough because you aren't mainstream enough compared to most women's expectations.
Lex and Joe are the bromance we all outright or secretly want.
Awesome. I love Joe and Lex you're great.
Most informative, SOUND 5 minutes either of these two has spoken about publicly.
Make it VIRAL!
"You're a great guy."
-Every woman's first words before rejecting a guy.
This is Joe Rogan at his best - love it
Amen Joe Rogan! Nailed it & well put!
this convo is on point
Lex has a point. Everything kind of stops when you're in love - it is a lot of work but its always been worth it in my experience.
Wasn't worth it once to me. Not once. Only worth it in the fact that I experienced it enough to actively swear it off and have grown exponentially as a person, not only being alone, but WANTING to be alone.
It took me years and several relationships to realize I actually prefer being single. I think relationships are highly overrated. If you can accept that you don’t need to be in one, life can be damn liberating. My career took off, I found new hobbies and was far less stressed
Interesting. It took me years and several relationships to realise I’m okay and enough being single. I‘ve become much healthier and more successful since (after an initial painful transition). But I would not say I prefer being single and relationships are highly overrated. I would say at this time in my life, being single has been necessary and, contrary to popular belief, a fulfilling experience. I can see value in a high quality relationship and I’m gradually opening up to it, but I also feel whole on my own. It’s a great position to be in. There can be so much value in extended periods of being single.
No question that career takes off when you're single, best time of my life was when I was single, saved the most money.
you guys must be american
@@davidgalea6113 Aussie here, absolutely love being single, career is in a great place, life is great. I also only sleep with someone i love, so the downside is no sexytime, but the gym takes care of that haha.
@@MideanStone relationships are important, evolution hardwired this into us. Look at the The Harvard Study of Adult Development. one of their conclusions from this massive 75 year study is that there is a very strong correlation between happiness and relationships. Im single i might be content the way things are but im not going to pretend that a good relationship is not one of the most important thing is life.
Such great advice!!! ♡♡
Thank you for this. ❤
I learned an important lesson early in life. There was a stunningly beautiful woman in an office where I worked. One day she came to work beside me. I was the happiest man on earth. Then I learned she had zero personality and was as interesting as a blank wall. Personality is what you fall in love with.
Lex could find someone easy ! He's a cool dude 😎
Me and Mr Rogan share similar values.. Glad to be part of this experience
This is true, thanks for reminding us.
Ah I love this clip and Lex and Joe having a genuine discussion about real relationships and what is truly important in partners and friends. I would add to the traits of kindness and happiness, someone intelligent like you Lex!
I love to discuss movies and music and art and want to know what books you've read and interesting conversations you've had. If I ever try dating again that would be my criteria. In the meantime I'm enjoying my solo journey
have you had moments where you’ve fallen or have you been able to balance it well
Lex loves Natalie Portman on his thumbnails clips HAHAHHA
Can't blame that, Natalie Portman is basically perfect (of course, it's subjective but... it's not lol, she's perfect).
Lex with his calm, hypnotic voice would make an excellent therapist
Thanks for this guys
Let him finish his question Joe!
Joe being on the right side of the table affected my equilibrium.
Such good advice. Thumbs up Rogan.
-Focus on yourself and be better
-Be with someone who has similar values as yours
Most Valuable: Surround yourself with great people.
I'm sure Joes wife is as nice and happy as he says, but she now has a 100 million reasons to be even happier.
shell take 50m ))
lol good one. "Sure Joe, I will get you a beer, whatever you want, Hon."
I feel like this podcast is turning into a long list of romantic pieces of advice for Lex. Hopefully you'll find someone nice💜
3:56 positive, healthy, friendly, generous people.
Such great advice
I don't know what faith Lex is if any, but I think for me finding someone who shares the same faith and values makes a huge difference. Start there and see what you find... yourself as well as your other half
His family is Jewish.
Joe speaking facts 💯
Never go for hot, go for smart and funny. The physical will change this is the most important fact. Think to yourself. Do I want to be in a team with that other person? A relationship is a team.
Great advice