Once the mask comes off you realize your gut was right all along. So you're free to start trusting yourself and your instincts again. This is something to be truly grateful for...and don't blame yourself for not waking up sooner, that's pointless. It stops you from moving forward. Thank you for this video, Andrew ❤🙏🌿
Wow, I just said this to myself a couple days ago, I officially see that I can be trusted and my instincts are very real and correct. I have been manipulated and gaslighted for so long that I was left super confused until I wasn’t. It was then that this realization came to me. I’m very grateful!
The mask can fall many times, until you finally see. We, as empaths, have such huge hearts and forgive over and over, until we can no longer. Once we truly open our eyes and Know, we can never unsee again. That's when healing really begins. 💕and ✨️
Yes I saw that mask slip ,several times from previous narc women friends,they thought I did not see them, look at me with disdain,anger ,even in speaking on the phone something as me having an address,imagine gaslighting me about an address that was sent to me by text ,making me believe there was no address, to that person,I texted her back I DON'T PRACTICE LIES,,AND the text from the person she triangulated against me.a person who was my friend before.Who gave me the address in the first place ,imagine,!!! Never apologized for her accusation..
@MattyNelson-rs3ik they are great at accusing you of what they themselves are doing. I still have a friend/acquaintance from high school who is a friend of my ex narc friend, and I just got such a Eerie feeling or vibe from her. I'm sure he did the smear campaign about me, and it makes me feel very uneasy, although we're only friends on SM. I probably should block her too. They love to use friends or family against you, and play the poor me victim card. Master manipulators is there best game. Stay strong my friend. ❤️🙌✨️
I lost 16 years of my life because of covert narcissistic abuse and coercive control via a sociopathic narcissist. 16 years, not 16 days. I would be remarried with 2 adopted kids if not for isolation and financial ruination tactics, plus scaring off at least one serious stud of a boyfriend. (I guess he wasn't the stud I need).
It's amazing how Andrew seems to see right into my heart and soul so I can endure just one more day. This TH-cam channel is literally a lifeline for me. I am so grateful! Such a blessing!
Yes, we are so Very Blessed to have Andrew here to help us on the Journey of regaining our Best Life & building up our personal tool box so we don't fall into the pit again. What a beautiful community here at NarcDaily. Stay Strong Peeps ! Thank you Andrew ! 🙏🙏
I met a work guy a few weeks ago...seemed friendly thanks to the education. I now know he's a narcissist, and now I'm going to grey rock, and nc these narcissists are everywhere
You are so right. They cannot BELIEVE you are falling for their bs. Their life is just one long demented chess game. The only way to win when you come to the realization you are dealing with a narcissist is to take YOURSELF off their game board. CHECK MATE!!!
Oh yeah, I've seen narcissistic masks fall time and time again. Makes me very cautious about anyone who comes off as "too good to be true". In cases like that, I'll be paying very close attention to the words they use, the stories they tell, and how this might betray their underlying character.
@@Intelligencetaskforce exactly, they go beyond friendly to acting like they've known you since childhood and are practically looking for any inroad into your life.
It's so funny my xnarc friend coworker, thinks I have no seen the mask fall,strange when I told her to continue on the job so she will become vested for retirement. Later she would say to me another worker had already told her before me,and what is stranger, I've been grayrocking her,so we ended up at a function together, at the table, she said oh I told her about the retirement, and being vested,I said nothing.I just kinda looked away..She never gave me credit for that in the past..
Don't put 33 years of your precious life into their abuse . Learn about Self-Love, and stay safe a little loneliness is far better than neverending neglect and evil. Stay strong, tribe!❣️
The black beach ball eyes hit home for me. Her eyes turned jet black just for few seconds the first time I called her out on her blatant obvious in my face cheating. It was chilling, demonic like some horror movie.
I experienced exactly the same thing with My ex Wife, same way , as You described it. During My last final attempt to save the relationship, She Used the act of Intimacy to try to utterly emasculate and humiliate Me. I cannot describe actions, it's too sickening, but to say that once I realised a few things, it took about 15 minutes of Me trying to love her, I got up off Her disgusted, told her it was finished, and never touched her romantically again. That was six Years ago.
The ultimate measure of a person's moral character is who they are behind closed doors...and that is where the mask fell off on to the floor...We became the victims of horrible abuse. Criticized, insulted and judged by someone who wasn't even close to having their shit together.. We could not change the beginning.. but now we can change the ending...
The mask slipped so briefly and was so shocking that is those few seconds, the entire scam became so clear. No contact and no do overs. You are fantastic, Andrew.
My daughters narc dad came back into their lives as they are young adults now. He poisoned their minds and now the mother and daughter relationship we had is gone! The youngest has narcissist traits Iv noticed. Smh Sad 😢
They find your weaknesses and what is important to you and use these as weapons to batter you with. I never want to be treated like this again and wish I had learned about narcissism earlier in life, but I know now, so I can avoid these toxic relationships. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅the narc needs to do some major spring cleaning of their closeted skeletons. The difference between narcissists and empathetic people is that narcs don't work toward improving themselves, and empathetic people desire to become better and make a difference in the world however they can. 😊
Oh yeah, and everything about me that he "loved", went completely away as the years grew into decades. Oh well,...now someone else can love those things about me without his interference. Happy times! 😊❤
Thank you Andrew for exposing this evil GENERATIONAL CURSE. You are a beautiful BRIGHT SHINING LIGHT and helping victims to see how these abusers/bullies destroy innocent lives. I pray this year there will NEVER be anymore victims of this evil and the curse of narcissism will SINK LIKE THE TITANIC FOREVER!!!
I thought of an idea yesterday to help see memories one might be stuck thinking about in a different light. Whenever you feel sad after remembering holding the ex-narc, kissing with them, holding their hand, and any other acts of affection/ intimacy/ love… Or even memories of dinners, romantic walks, etc. Just imagine them grinning in a malevolent way the whole time whilst you’re thinking about it. Imagining them with their mask off, revealing their real evil nature when replaying any memory you might have of them, shows how it was in reality. Thats them in their true form, hidden by the sweet and lovely mask they wore to catch you.
They are self serving individuals. Calculating. They do not want to evolve, its true. Very controlling because they are out of control. I was underestimated...viewed as niave and weak because Of my big heart. What they didn't expect was the boundaries, my resilience, strength and my unwavering faith ! 🙏
I am so glad I found your channel a little while ago. It has helped so much. I feel so relieved that I am not going crazy and that I was right in thinking that things weren't right. I couldn't put my finger on it until recently. I am now educating myself about narcissism and trusting my gut instinct. Thank you Andrew and to this lovely community of light. Namaste ❤🙏❣️
I didn't know about narcissism until it came up in a google search. I then looked it up on TH-cam and found Andrew, who was so authentic and I started watching his videos. If you can do one on one sessions with him you'll find yourself so understood. Highly recommend him. I'm glad you don't feel like you are crazy anymore. You're not.
You were never crazy. It's the relationships with narcissists that make one feel crazy. I'm glad you found this channel. And I love your beagle too. Sweet sweet
Thank you. It’s been a hard acceptance, this last year involving tears every day. I made more hard good choices in the last months and that is who I was before. He couldn’t do that. You’re right-he couldn’t change and he was getting much worse and ultimately it killed him.
My wife discarded me for second time 2 weeks before this recent Christmas. She found a new supply. It was a total shock and I had no idea. And now the mask is completely gone and she wants to destroy my life. The fact there are so many of these people running around is bizarre. Whats causing so many people to become these evil demons?
In too long now of course. Yet another Christmas and holiday season blown up. 💥 Look, let me add this. Even if you can make it between bread crumbs, jumping somehow from Hoover to Hoover. Even if you try to stay in like I did for my children... Make no mistake the fake good times will never feel good again.... When you can see through the facade, when you understand the strings are always attached, you will never enjoy those love bombing Hoovers again. Maybe that is a drawback of gaining the understanding but you will never enjoy even their so-called "good times" again... The mask no longer works.
They do like your bank account on zero. Then they know they have done their job in bankrupring you. And at their mercy. They do get worse. After 30 years it just got to a level I could not ignore anymore.
The moment the scales fell from our eyes... couldn't unsee we saw! We now open our hearts to like minded individuals. Those who build one another up and don't destroy others....are those that we will permit in our lves!❤
I never look at your videos with any hint of a "Gloom and Doom" impression. The topic of Narcissism is too serious for "too much" of a light touch approach. Sooo many have suffered damage and many are still in the throes of it. Every video is appreciated and it's obvious how much work and effort you put into it. 👍🙏👁
Exactly right, Andrew. They do not like it when you happen to have an imperfect moment, after 20 years together. They thought they married the quintessential trophy, not a human. Oops. Right again, narcissists take advantage of hard working people who are consistently doing the right thing. They actually take advantage of your Christian conviction, work ethic, and integrity as well.
I now know my mom was a narcissist. The pain is coming up and it's the journaling that helped me accept it. The damage she inflicted was awful. I always thought it was alcoholism. Thank you for this video. I hope you don't have a sore throat. Can't wait for the next session with you.
Lmao!! You just reminded me of something he had SUCH an issue with! He would get up in the morning, and if I were awake, it was gonna be a bad day for him! 😂😂 Thats what he would tell me, but his big thing was thursdays. If I mentioned anything that he didnt want to hear...even if it was about going somewhere or paying a bill, he would say, "oh yeah, it's thursday again...time for you to be a B----!" I used to laugh and laugh at that. Just an odd sidenote...I was born on a thursday. Funny how he chose that day out of the whole week. 😂😂
This video reminded me that I was married to an aging narc. Most of what you said came back to me so clearly! She was so aged by her anger and hated that I was gealthy an looking forward to life. I was so beat down that I felt guilty for feeling good. When I wanted to share that with her and hopefully help make her feel better, it was such astruggle. Have not thought about this part of the abuse I took for so long. Thank for the reminder, Andrew. You keep doing it all the time. !!!
They want a “redo” wow that hit a few reminders of just how these narcs want to sweep their stuff under the rug 🧹 and for us to just let it go over and over again. But making excuses for their bad behavior again isn’t helping anyone. It makes it worse. Recognizing I have my own flaws too has kept me from saying “no” in the past. But getting better at recognizing all the things you’ve been teaching us. From energy drainers to flying monkeys to full on narcs. Thank you 🙏 ❤ and my goodness that beautiful sunshine ☀️ and background is terrific!
We all have flaws and some in reaction during and sadly post Narc experience ( till you're on the healing path ). We have flaws alright, but nothing like the Mutha of All Flawed- the Narcs!
Hello Andrew , first time seeing your Channel , glad I took time to listen , I have an adult child who is a Narc , and a sister who is also everything you have said and more I heard on another chanel a person said , it's a parents fault , iam not saying that can't be true , but It made me feel like jumping off a bridge to even think I hurt my child in any way , iam a very loving person , a kind and generous person. I know iam an empath , it's sad that as young parents we have no clue about mental health , but I was smart enough to get my child help , started from first grade , I had her evaluated by a school Phycologist , I was told she needed a good spanking , latter I was told when in her teens she was rebellion , did not like the word no , her and my sister can't self reflect , always drama , nice to your face , and slander you behind your back , I have just went solo in the past 6months no contact , I heard a doctor say you can travel to the ends of the earth , and you can't get away from them , why?, Because your always playing out in your head the evil that was played against you what you would say if you were given the chance to defend yourself if giving the chance , that's where I am at , and I don't know how to shut it off, they do a smear campaign against you , so no one will speak to you , so that way their tracts are covered , and they continue in their evil path , I want to live out the rest of my days happy , I want my mental health back , I want to laugh and sing and have good company like I once did , my mistake was I set no boundaries , I was taken advantage of , my sister doesn't drive , I've taken her shopping for 15 yrs , when I was in the hospital , she must of for got my Number , never heard from her , never offered me a meal , iam so done , but I have to learn how to heal and not feel guilty for going no contact , thank you all who read this , while I went on a little rant , and good advice , I will be happy to listen , thank you , stay warm be safe ❄️⛄🙏🌈❤️
They take advantage of people who work hard and are responsible. That is so true. I now believe that the two siblings are the same little children they were at age five or six. They now are in old bodies. They both lost a lot of people during the Covid lock downs. Their phones became a part of their bodies. I remember now that as little kids, they worked together in mean ways. They really do get worse over the years. I've realized that I never gave them an apology for anything as they did not ever deserve one. I also never praised them. They were never nice people. My faults are that I always hoped for better out of them. I am past all of this emotionally.
My son is involved with a narcissist diagnosed with BPD. She's been pushing marriage from the beginning and he keeps telling her he's not ready because of the endless cycle of normal behavior one day and crazy-making behavior the next day. She's not even married to him yet and I've already been on the receiving end of her disrespectful and abusive behavior. I'm done with her. She's his problem, not mine. He's on the cutting edge of leaving her. I share/send your videos to him because you're a straight talker and because you take the time to provide specific red flag behaviors he can relate to.
You are so humorous without even trying Mr Andrew! I screamed when you said "they leave you a shell of yourself crumpled up like a tissue on the freeway"😭the truth hurts so bad sometimes but that brought a laugh I didn't expect.
Thanks for the videos man, helped a lot in my darkest times. Hope all people who go through this have come out of it stronger, its a hard thing to take.
I remember when my husband talked about his new supply in a disgusting devaluating way I thought thats not the man I was married to for 14 years. I had ended our marriage bc I felt he didnt love not me nor our children, but I didn't know his rotten mind indeed up to that very moment. Got used to very quickly during divorce though. The moment I saw his black soul I will never forget. It was devastating.
I went on a couple of dates with this guy I met on a dating site, the second date he cooked me dinner! There was something I couldn’t figure out, but then I saw right through him! Another narcissist! I know Andrew you said not to go on those dating sites but Im very lonely at least this relationship only lasted 2 weeks
Yes, I thought I could explain or reason with the narcissist to get them to understand that the behavior is not acceptable. I eventually realized that the narcissist was not going to change & had no plans to change. This caused me to put up more boundaries. The discard came 2-3 years later. I agree that the mask works until it doesn't. There was a hoover ~ 2yrs after the discard. At the hoover it was very evident that the mask was not working. It had completely came off at the discard. At the hoover I was able to pick up on the manipulation tactics & lying. There was a play on my heartstrings. But, I was able to see the tactics & I didn't accept the hoover. I thank God for that. I have also seen another narcissist mask come completely off. It's vile & evil. It's their words & tone & facial expression. Vile & evil. When the mask comes completely off, there is no question of who you are dealing with. They most definitely know what they are doing. This is a really good video Andrew. I love your background 💙🌿🌿. Have a good night🙂 God bless☀️☀️☀️🐦 Thank you for the work that you do
so grateful to have been spared, was with the narc for almost 6 years engaged to be married. started truly seeing how miserable this person was...that mask truly slipped... Andrew, all of what you are saying in this video is exactly what i experienced...
Hope everyone has a good weekend much love from freezing 🥶 Florida. Yes Florida it's not always hot down here around this time it gets very cold it's gonna drop down to the low 20's tonight. But take care of yourselves and be good to yourselves! You are stronger than you know. 💪🏾❤️
O’ yes, for the first 18 months he was the personification of calm and charm, then as we were booking into an hotel in Sri Lanka over Christmas. He started screaming at the front desk clerk, ‘ I’m a doctor’ he isn’t…‘I answer to better people than you’ ..he was unemployed so also no he didn’t….really opened my eyes and put me on my guard. His mask not only slipped he tore it to shreds right in front of my eyes. Never trusted him after that.
Yes, good early red flag warning- How they treat others, when they "think" the others are "beneath them." I remember clearly, the Narc in her righteous indignation mode, when asked to hand over a scissors from her hand carry, before boarding a plane. I don't tolerate that kind of "Holier than thou" kind of arrogance anymore.
So glad two years in I saw who he was. My health did take a knock but I’m starting to get myself back on track. Thanks for what you are sharing 😊mine was covert so hard to detect x
So accurate. When we talked, he took notes - had I known none of this, you'd think, aww, cute, he wants to remember every detail! Now I know why...😫 Luckily I saved them, as there's likely a lawsuit I'm going to file, definitely a breach of contract (Domestic partnership agreement I insisted upon to keep the house, as I'd sold a home and was about to be caregiver again, with no real security otherwise. That was the smartest thing I've done to date my entire life. I protected myself. When I realized he can be kicked out bc I didn't mess up, I kicked him out in a day.
Problem is. When you talk to anyone about them trying to take you down/ out for the count/ destroy etc they look at you as crazy paranoid and over the top. Also weak and like you must be defunct/ deficient etc. …it’s a NO WIN….
Just remember; the discard is relief from the toxic relationship. We are so much better off when the narcissist leaves our lives no matter how it happens.
I left a fife long friend over the summer. I said no to something....Well, that didn't come off well. Saying No got me the silent treatment...dunken calls at night asking why and telling me...She has put up with me for 30 years and a fu. OK....Then a hoover 2 months later..I made an oops and answered the text. Then I got the silent treatment again for like 2 weeks so..... LOL...I texted her and said...I know who you are and don't Ever call or text me again! Plus....I called her out on 2 things and then gave her the FU. LOL...now 2 weeks ago, she drove by my new home spying. Never am I going back!
A series on your narcissistic relationship from start to finish without names of course would be interesting to show a real life example of the glossary of terms.
they beg for money saying you owe this or that.... tell you the truth andrew ive got to get outta get out of here i feel like they are closing in on me... im no longer putting being a dad or anything im supposed to do with these people above my self again... i dont even wanna be a dad anymore... i dont even wanna be me i just wanna run away.. please pray for me
Andrew you are so right about this video, I have been watching your videos daily with my husband since March 2020. This was after the realisation from constant abuse and rage which went up levels after my son got married to a covert narcissist who is in a complete narcissistic family. Like a cult. Since my son was 15 he slowly changed into an awful toxic man (now 36), who used to be a bright happy person. We could not live our lives with them anymore, even after our beautiful grandson was born. After learning exactly what was going on through you Andrew and others we had to go no contact and move away. So very sad but thanks to you we are on the healing path. I wish every single person on this channel/community a healthy, happy journey in their new lives away from narcissistic abuse. Thank you again ❤🙏
Thanks Andrew for your words, ,your videos, they help me to keep me on my path. The first time I read about narcissism I was shocked and same time thankful. There was the explanation for all I felt but did not want to see. It is tough to learn, to see, all the abuse I went threw and which I did not want to see. Its so hard to understand that everything was a fake, there was no love, only lies and fraud. When his mask slipped of, I saw the face which I have "felt" the whole time before. Believe me it was not a nice thing to see. When I left him, there was no emotion at his side. He was shocked and needed to find out how he should react. After a while some crocodile tears ran over his face - his mask of "emotion". I have never seen this before. 3 weeks later he had his new supply! Its 1,5 years now, and I am healing.
Thank you Andrew. I just left, got a new job and home I rent. I fell in love with someone who wasn’t his real self. I lost myself and started to turn into him .. he tried to drain my light and love. I’m sad but fighting. It just resonated to me the police shouldn’t be coming to my house. He weapon the police against me and all charges get dropped, etc. but that’s what they do they use the police. Oh my God you’re so right.
❤ So right on. They do not like it when you are bubble wrapped by the love ofGod. When you keep smiling and that you know who they are and you are counting the days to when your loved ones wake up. That you have are ready every day to be happy and completely unaffected by their toddler behavior
Wow wow wow X another superb video X this reinforced yet again everything I know about narcissists X thank you Andrew x I am at the pinnacle of indifference now and help other victims of narc abuse X saving lives X please believe me out there in the community that this abuse is a silent KILLER X run for the hills if you come across one X trust your instincts X your life is far too valuable to tolerate such poor behaviour X I cannot thank you Andrew enough for your educational videos x I have listened every day for years since you first started X my day is not complete until I have heard your words of wisdom X this reminds me of how far I have come and how galvanised I am X I can spot a narc within a few seconds x they are everywhere BUT they don't stand close to me any longer X god bless you Andrew x 💖😊
Truth! It hurts so much, my oldest son until he lives with her Girl friend, he will No contact to me, because his girl is kompletly toxid and he also is, he say in the past that he feels like his narcicisst father feel, i pray but i think that i lost my own son😢
I never understood why she never kept her words, her actions is way off the logic scale. I used to think i was protecting her from herself, from her abusing strangers. Now i know the pain of the abuse was actually directed at me seemingly to protect her and the 3rd party. Coming in between was actually to take the abuse of both parties started by the narcissist. It took me 40 years to realise this. It was the most perfect game. After which you will be blamed whichever way the result goes.
If I had infinite lives to live here on earth then I would give one of them to the narcissist because of course I still love him and always will. Unfortunately we all only get one trip here on earth and I can't waste mine with someone who hates me.
Andrew. For the last 7 months I’ve been following you and 2 others closely, learning, healing etc. Close to the finish line if not there. But what I want to communicate to you tonight is your teachings enabled me to point out the red flags to my daughter. Can’t say more than that as this is a new TH-cam channel I needed to create. It’s boils down to true reciprocation, I didn’t get it for 30 years (narc abuse) and it was like you speaking through me, the knowledge I’ve gained, as she’s only 4 months in her relationship. That means she may save herself from 29 years and 8 months of crap. Mahalo brother. Thank u thank u thank u A relationship is a co-bond, not a one above and one below. 😎
Oh my am so lost I grew up amongst these creatures may god have mercy on me. But believe the universe will always have your back.Good always win there are no winners amongst thieves.Ah a true warrior knows it's better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles.Pray that karma comes soon to save the day
At least 20% of the population are narcs / psychopaths ...If youre genuine and sensitive then it's a minefield ...You have to keep strong boundaries and love yourself and discern who you let into your life ....its a hard road
Your video explained all of the narcissists around me including the ones whom I have found out recently😂 I am very grateful for your helpful education and wisdom you have provided me. I couldn’t have come this far without your sincere help…I have much much more that I want to express how I feel …but it IS difficult for me☺️Thank you, Andrew ❤️
yep, the confusion is real and so challenging, but… there is light at the end of the tunnel. Hang on in there and self care is your best friend at this time ❤
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Once the mask comes off you realize your gut was right all along.
So you're free to start trusting yourself and your instincts again.
This is something to be truly grateful for...and don't blame yourself for not waking up sooner, that's pointless.
It stops you from moving forward.
Thank you for this video, Andrew
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Wow, I just said this to myself a couple days ago, I officially see that I can be trusted and my instincts are very real and correct. I have been manipulated and gaslighted for so long that I was left super confused until I wasn’t. It was then that this realization came to me. I’m very grateful!
Parental alienation is the ultimate weapon
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Narcissists can change. They get older and more miserable.
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Yes stay with us narc free
I'm glad he's at assisted living really 😂 miserable and just getting worse wow...
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“The narcissist has so many skeletons in the closet, they can’t even shut the door” 🎯😂
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The mask can fall many times, until you finally see. We, as empaths, have such huge hearts and forgive over and over, until we can no longer. Once we truly open our eyes and Know, we can never unsee again. That's when healing really begins. 💕and ✨️
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Yes I saw that mask slip ,several times from previous narc women friends,they thought I did not see them, look at me with disdain,anger ,even in speaking on the phone something as me having an address,imagine gaslighting me about an address that was sent to me by text ,making me believe there was no address, to that person,I texted her back I DON'T PRACTICE LIES,,AND the text from the person she triangulated against me.a person who was my friend before.Who gave me the address in the first place ,imagine,!!! Never apologized for her accusation..
@MattyNelson-rs3ik they are great at accusing you of what they themselves are doing. I still have a friend/acquaintance from high school who is a friend of my ex narc friend, and I just got such a Eerie feeling or vibe from her. I'm sure he did the smear campaign about me, and it makes me feel very uneasy, although we're only friends on SM. I probably should block her too. They love to use friends or family against you, and play the poor me victim card. Master manipulators is there best game. Stay strong my friend. ❤️🙌✨️
People are waking up to their abuse. Huge game changer.
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Unfortunately, the last to wake up are the Flying Monkeys and the Narcs will never want to wake.
The rest of the saner world- Hooray!
💯 Game Over!
I lost 16 years of my life because of covert narcissistic abuse and coercive control via a sociopathic narcissist. 16 years, not 16 days. I would be remarried with 2 adopted kids if not for isolation and financial ruination tactics, plus scaring off at least one serious stud of a boyfriend. (I guess he wasn't the stud I need).
💗💃 Those of you who are involved with a narcissist, brace yourself for when that mask slip. It will be the most shocking thing you ever witness.
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You are so right. I have seen behind the mask and it is truly awful.
It's amazing how Andrew seems to see right into my heart and soul so I can endure just one more day. This TH-cam channel is literally a lifeline for me. I am so grateful! Such a blessing!
Thank you..💯😌🙏🙌
Yes, we are so Very Blessed to have Andrew here to help us on the Journey of regaining our Best Life & building up our personal tool box so we don't fall into the pit again. What a beautiful community here at NarcDaily. Stay Strong Peeps ! Thank you Andrew ! 🙏🙏
I met a work guy a few weeks ago...seemed friendly thanks to the education. I now know he's a narcissist, and now I'm going to grey rock, and nc these narcissists are everywhere
You are so right. They cannot BELIEVE you are falling for their bs. Their life is just one long demented chess game. The only way to win when you come to the realization you are dealing with a narcissist is to take YOURSELF off their game board. CHECK MATE!!!
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I think I'll file that statement in my head-- "Their life is just one long demented chess game."👍
Oh yeah, I've seen narcissistic masks fall time and time again. Makes me very cautious about anyone who comes off as "too good to be true". In cases like that, I'll be paying very close attention to the words they use, the stories they tell, and how this might betray their underlying character.
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A narcissist will want to be your best friend immediately after meeting us. They all seem to have the same personality. It's so weird....
@@Intelligencetaskforce exactly, they go beyond friendly to acting like they've known you since childhood and are practically looking for any inroad into your life.
@@Intelligencetaskforce it is so weird.
It's so funny my xnarc friend coworker, thinks I have no seen the mask fall,strange when I told her to continue on the job so she will become vested for retirement. Later she would say to me another worker had already told her before me,and what is stranger, I've been grayrocking her,so we ended up at a function together, at the table, she said oh I told her about the retirement, and being vested,I said nothing.I just kinda looked away..She never gave me credit for that in the past..
Once you take off your blinders and see behind the mask. You can never unsee it.
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Took me half of my adult life to see this... now the healing
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Don't put 33 years of your precious life into their abuse . Learn about Self-Love, and stay safe a little loneliness is far better than neverending neglect and evil. Stay strong, tribe!❣️
The black beach ball eyes hit home for me. Her eyes turned jet black just for few seconds the first time I called her out on her blatant obvious in my face cheating. It was chilling, demonic like some horror movie.
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It is absolutely demonic in nature. I am totally convinced.
I experienced exactly the same thing with My ex Wife, same way , as You described it. During My last final attempt to save the relationship, She Used the act of Intimacy to try to utterly emasculate and humiliate Me. I cannot describe actions, it's too sickening, but to say that once I realised a few things, it took about 15 minutes of Me trying to love her, I got up off Her disgusted, told her it was finished, and never touched her romantically again. That was six Years ago.
I have seen my narc mother's eyes turn black. It is horrific.
My ex's little child was very clearly there,his tyrannical side was like another person .Schizoid and splitting me.Terrorising.
The ultimate measure of a person's moral character is who they are behind closed doors...and that is where the mask fell off on to the floor...We became the victims of horrible abuse. Criticized, insulted and judged by someone who wasn't even close to having their shit together..
We could not change the beginning..
but now we can change the ending...
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Exactly!
Couldn’t have described it any better.... the narc isnt able to handle his own life properly... but he sees other people as puppets to manipulate
OUR story…is just beginning…this is the year of US!
The mask slipped so briefly and was so shocking that is those few seconds, the entire scam became so clear. No contact and no do overs. You are fantastic, Andrew.
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The healing path must not be broken. Stay on the journey of self discovery. Forgive ourselves. Get a good nights sleep. We ride at dawn.
My daughters narc dad came back into their lives as they are young adults now. He poisoned their minds and now the mother and daughter relationship we had is gone! The youngest has narcissist traits Iv noticed. Smh Sad 😢
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They find your weaknesses and what is important to you and use these as weapons to batter you with. I never want to be treated like this again and wish I had learned about narcissism earlier in life, but I know now, so I can avoid these toxic relationships.
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅the narc needs to do some major spring cleaning of their closeted skeletons.
The difference between narcissists and empathetic people is that narcs don't work toward improving themselves, and empathetic people desire to become better and make a difference in the world however they can. 😊
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Oh yeah, and everything about me that he "loved", went completely away as the years grew into decades. Oh well,...now someone else can love those things about me without his interference. Happy times! 😊❤
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Thank you Andrew for exposing this evil GENERATIONAL CURSE. You are a beautiful BRIGHT SHINING LIGHT and helping victims to see how these abusers/bullies destroy innocent lives. I pray this year there will NEVER be anymore victims of this evil and the curse of narcissism will SINK LIKE THE TITANIC FOREVER!!!
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I thought of an idea yesterday to help see memories one might be stuck thinking about in a different light.
Whenever you feel sad after remembering holding the ex-narc, kissing with them, holding their hand, and any other acts of affection/ intimacy/ love… Or even memories of dinners, romantic walks, etc. Just imagine them grinning in a malevolent way the whole time whilst you’re thinking about it.
Imagining them with their mask off, revealing their real evil nature when replaying any memory you might have of them, shows how it was in reality.
Thats them in their true form, hidden by the sweet and lovely mask they wore to catch you.
They are self serving individuals. Calculating. They do not want to evolve, its true. Very controlling because they are out of control. I was underestimated...viewed as niave and weak because Of my big heart. What they didn't expect was the boundaries, my resilience, strength and my unwavering faith ! 🙏
My son's wife doesn't allow me to see my grandsons. I saw them when they were little but not now. Those 2 boys don't even know who I am.
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I am so glad I found your channel a little while ago. It has helped so much. I feel so relieved that I am not going crazy and that I was right in thinking that things weren't right. I couldn't put my finger on it until recently. I am now educating myself about narcissism and trusting my gut instinct. Thank you Andrew and to this lovely community of light. Namaste ❤🙏❣️
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I didn't know about narcissism until it came up in a google search. I then looked it up on TH-cam and found Andrew, who was so authentic and I started watching his videos. If you can do one on one sessions with him you'll find yourself so understood. Highly recommend him. I'm glad you don't feel like you are crazy anymore. You're not.
You were never crazy. It's the relationships with narcissists that make one feel crazy. I'm glad you found this channel. And I love your beagle too. Sweet sweet
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Thank you. It’s been a hard acceptance, this last year involving tears every day. I made more hard good choices in the last months and that is who I was before. He couldn’t do that. You’re right-he couldn’t change and he was getting much worse and ultimately it killed him.
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I was just so very badly discarded by my narcissistic husband. Thank you for this channel, Andrew. bless your heart.
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My wife discarded me for second time 2 weeks before this recent Christmas. She found a new supply. It was a total shock and I had no idea. And now the mask is completely gone and she wants to destroy my life. The fact there are so many of these people running around is bizarre. Whats causing so many people to become these evil demons?
Social media is one reason
it is a virtual candy land for these creeps 24/7
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This is so true...frightening
In too long now of course. Yet another Christmas and holiday season blown up. 💥
Look, let me add this. Even if you can make it between bread crumbs, jumping somehow from Hoover to Hoover. Even if you try to stay in like I did for my children... Make no mistake the fake good times will never feel good again.... When you can see through the facade, when you understand the strings are always attached, you will never enjoy those love bombing Hoovers again.
Maybe that is a drawback of gaining the understanding but you will never enjoy even their so-called "good times" again... The mask no longer works.
They do like your bank account on zero. Then they know they have done their job in bankrupring you. And at their mercy. They do get worse. After 30 years it just got to a level I could not ignore anymore.
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The moment the scales fell from our eyes... couldn't unsee we saw!
We now open our hearts to like minded individuals.
Those who build one another up and don't destroy others....are those that we will permit in our lves!❤
I never look at your videos with any hint of a "Gloom and Doom" impression. The topic of Narcissism is too serious for "too much" of a light touch approach. Sooo many have suffered damage and many are still in the throes of it. Every video is appreciated and it's obvious how much work and effort you put into it. 👍🙏👁
Exactly right, Andrew. They do not like it when you happen to have an imperfect moment, after 20 years together. They thought they married the quintessential trophy, not a human. Oops.
Right again, narcissists take advantage of hard working people who are consistently doing the right thing.
They actually take advantage of your Christian conviction, work ethic, and integrity as well.
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I now know my mom was a narcissist. The pain is coming up and it's the journaling that helped me accept it. The damage she inflicted was awful. I always thought it was alcoholism. Thank you for this video. I hope you don't have a sore throat. Can't wait for the next session with you.
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Same.
Who wants to compete with someone all the time?
I'm assuming this is why I asked where is the woman I fell in love with?
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More than likely the woman you fell in love with never existed
Lmao!! You just reminded me of something he had SUCH an issue with! He would get up in the morning, and if I were awake, it was gonna be a bad day for him! 😂😂 Thats what he would tell me, but his big thing was thursdays. If I mentioned anything that he didnt want to hear...even if it was about going somewhere or paying a bill, he would say, "oh yeah, it's thursday again...time for you to be a B----!"
I used to laugh and laugh at that. Just an odd sidenote...I was born on a thursday. Funny how he chose that day out of the whole week. 😂😂
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Just not hearing a man like that anymore, would be a "Vacation in Paradise!" Crude Dude!
@@jhavajoe3792 yep. Before long I was reminding him it was Thursday! 🤣 Go away!!! Yeah, I'm so glad I have peace now!
This video reminded me that I was married to an aging narc. Most of what you said came back to me so clearly! She was so aged by her anger and hated that I was gealthy an looking forward to life. I was so beat down that I felt guilty for feeling good. When I wanted to share that with her and hopefully help make her feel better, it was such astruggle. Have not thought about this part of the abuse I took for so long. Thank for the reminder, Andrew. You keep doing it all the time. !!!
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They want a “redo” wow that hit a few reminders of just how these narcs want to sweep their stuff under the rug 🧹 and for us to just let it go over and over again. But making excuses for their bad behavior again isn’t helping anyone. It makes it worse. Recognizing I have my own flaws too has kept me from saying “no” in the past. But getting better at recognizing all the things you’ve been teaching us. From energy drainers to flying monkeys to full on narcs. Thank you 🙏 ❤ and my goodness that beautiful sunshine ☀️ and background is terrific!
We all have flaws and some in reaction during and sadly post Narc experience ( till you're on the healing path ).
We have flaws alright, but nothing like the Mutha of All Flawed- the Narcs!
Hello Andrew , first time seeing your Channel , glad I took time to listen , I have an adult child who is a Narc , and a sister who is also everything you have said and more I heard on another chanel a person said , it's a parents fault , iam not saying that can't be true , but It made me feel like jumping off a bridge to even think I hurt my child in any way , iam a very loving person , a kind and generous person. I know iam an empath , it's sad that as young parents we have no clue about mental health , but I was smart enough to get my child help , started from first grade , I had her evaluated by a school Phycologist , I was told she needed a good spanking , latter I was told when in her teens she was rebellion , did not like the word no , her and my sister can't self reflect , always drama , nice to your face , and slander you behind your back , I have just went solo in the past 6months no contact , I heard a doctor say you can travel to the ends of the earth , and you can't get away from them , why?, Because your always playing out in your head the evil that was played against you what you would say if you were given the chance to defend yourself if giving the chance , that's where I am at , and I don't know how to shut it off, they do a smear campaign against you , so no one will speak to you , so that way their tracts are covered , and they continue in their evil path , I want to live out the rest of my days happy , I want my mental health back , I want to laugh and sing and have good company like I once did , my mistake was I set no boundaries , I was taken advantage of , my sister doesn't drive , I've taken her shopping for 15 yrs , when I was in the hospital , she must of for got my Number , never heard from her , never offered me a meal , iam so done , but I have to learn how to heal and not feel guilty for going no contact , thank you all who read this , while I went on a little rant , and good advice , I will be happy to listen , thank you , stay warm be safe ❄️⛄🙏🌈❤️
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@@lindaclifford7902 🙏 the no contact was so good for your soul.
Hes almost 70 and gets truly angry if anyone calls him old. "Im a young man." He says with his grey beard and cane, not one tooth in his mouth.😂
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They take advantage of people who work hard and are responsible. That is so true. I now believe that the two siblings are the same little children they were at age five or six. They now are in old bodies. They both lost a lot of people during the Covid lock downs. Their phones became a part of their bodies. I remember now that as little kids, they worked together in mean ways. They really do get worse over the years. I've realized that I never gave them an apology for anything as they did not ever deserve one. I also never praised them. They were never nice people. My faults are that I always hoped for better out of them. I am past all of this emotionally.
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My son is involved with a narcissist diagnosed with BPD. She's been pushing marriage from the beginning and he keeps telling her he's not ready because of the endless cycle of normal behavior one day and crazy-making behavior the next day. She's not even married to him yet and I've already been on the receiving end of her disrespectful and abusive behavior. I'm done with her. She's his problem, not mine. He's on the cutting edge of leaving her. I share/send your videos to him because you're a straight talker and because you take the time to provide specific red flag behaviors he can relate to.
It's really sad and pitiful, how the narcissist can't keep anything good for themselves and thus, has to try to ruin it for everyone else too.
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That's what I gave him for nickname "ruiner"
No im not aging for that creep!
Yeah just like that. They all threw grandma away😩❤️🩹😊🌺
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You are so humorous without even trying Mr Andrew! I screamed when you said "they leave you a shell of yourself crumpled up like a tissue on the freeway"😭the truth hurts so bad sometimes but that brought a laugh I didn't expect.
Thanks for the videos man, helped a lot in my darkest times. Hope all people who go through this have come out of it stronger, its a hard thing to take.
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I remember when my husband talked about his new supply in a disgusting devaluating way I thought thats not the man I was married to for 14 years. I had ended our marriage bc I felt he didnt love not me nor our children, but I didn't know his rotten mind indeed up to that very moment. Got used to very quickly during divorce though. The moment I saw his black soul I will never forget. It was devastating.
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Wish me luck for Monday 😊I'm going to bring my crafts to a store and see if I can sell some 😊
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you Andrew 😊
Sweet! Good luck! 🍀
@mss80308 thank you dear friend ☺️
Thanks Andrew, and have a good Day 😉👍
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I went on a couple of dates with this guy I met on a dating site, the second date he cooked me dinner! There was something I couldn’t figure out, but then I saw right through him! Another narcissist! I know Andrew you said not to go on those dating sites but Im very lonely at least this relationship only lasted 2 weeks
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Listen,feel,appreciate that gut feeling.
all of it.. true
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Yes, I thought I could explain or reason with the narcissist to get them to understand that the behavior is not acceptable. I eventually realized that the narcissist was not going to change & had no plans to change. This caused me to put up more boundaries. The discard came 2-3 years later. I agree that the mask works until it doesn't. There was a hoover ~ 2yrs after the discard. At the hoover it was very evident that the mask was not working. It had completely came off at the discard. At the hoover I was able to pick up on the manipulation tactics & lying. There was a play on my heartstrings. But, I was able to see the tactics & I didn't accept the hoover. I thank God for that. I have also seen another narcissist mask come completely off. It's vile & evil. It's their words & tone & facial expression. Vile & evil. When the mask comes completely off, there is no question of who you are dealing with. They most definitely know what they are doing. This is a really good video Andrew. I love your background 💙🌿🌿. Have a good night🙂 God bless☀️☀️☀️🐦 Thank you for the work that you do
so grateful to have been spared, was with the narc for almost 6 years engaged to be married.
started truly seeing how miserable this person was...that mask truly slipped...
Andrew, all of what you are saying in this video is exactly what i experienced...
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I feel like Charles Bronson…. Survival movie mode😂🤠💪🐑
Hope everyone has a good weekend much love from freezing 🥶 Florida. Yes Florida it's not always hot down here around this time it gets very cold it's gonna drop down to the low 20's tonight. But take care of yourselves and be good to yourselves! You are stronger than you know. 💪🏾❤️
Raining big time in sunny ,SoCal..
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O’ yes, for the first 18 months he was the personification of calm and charm, then as we were booking into an hotel in Sri Lanka over Christmas. He started screaming at the front desk clerk, ‘ I’m a doctor’ he isn’t…‘I answer to better people than you’ ..he was unemployed so also no he didn’t….really opened my eyes and put me on my guard. His mask not only slipped he tore it to shreds right in front of my eyes. Never trusted him after that.
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Yes, good early red flag warning- How they treat others, when they "think" the others are "beneath them." I remember clearly, the Narc in her
righteous indignation mode, when asked to hand over a scissors from her hand carry, before boarding a plane. I don't tolerate that kind of
"Holier than thou" kind of arrogance anymore.
So glad two years in I saw who he was. My health did take a knock but I’m starting to get myself back on track. Thanks for what you are sharing 😊mine was covert so hard to detect x
Just thinking ,,where's Andrew,and our tribe,🦋🕯️❤️🌺🙏
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So accurate. When we talked, he took notes - had I known none of this, you'd think, aww, cute, he wants to remember every detail! Now I know why...😫 Luckily I saved them, as there's likely a lawsuit I'm going to file, definitely a breach of contract (Domestic partnership agreement I insisted upon to keep the house, as I'd sold a home and was about to be caregiver again, with no real security otherwise. That was the smartest thing I've done to date my entire life. I protected myself. When I realized he can be kicked out bc I didn't mess up, I kicked him out in a day.
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Problem is. When you talk to anyone about them trying to take you down/ out for the count/ destroy etc they look at you as crazy paranoid and over the top. Also weak and like you must be defunct/ deficient etc. …it’s a NO WIN….
wearing clothes of the past - yes - still dressing like they’re in their 20’s, not 50’s. not cool
sounds exactly like a politician lol
😂yes unfortunately
Just remember; the discard is relief from the toxic relationship. We are so much better off when the narcissist leaves our lives no matter how it happens.
100 Andrew!~
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Once HIS cover WAS blown, he Is/WAS DONE.
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Thank you Andrew ! love and enjoy hearing great words.
I left a fife long friend over the summer. I said no to something....Well, that didn't come off well. Saying No got me the silent treatment...dunken calls at night asking why and telling me...She has put up with me for 30 years and a fu. OK....Then a hoover 2 months later..I made an oops and answered the text. Then I got the silent treatment again for like 2 weeks so.....
LOL...I texted her and said...I know who you are and don't Ever call or text me again! Plus....I called her out on 2 things and then gave her the FU. LOL...now 2 weeks ago, she drove by my new home spying. Never am I going back!
Right on! They can't handle it when you go silent! 👍🙏🏻
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A series on your narcissistic relationship from start to finish without names of course would be interesting to show a real life example of the glossary of terms.
they beg for money saying you owe this or that.... tell you the truth andrew ive got to get outta get out of here i feel like they are closing in on me... im no longer putting being a dad or anything im supposed to do with these people above my self again... i dont even wanna be a dad anymore... i dont even wanna be me i just wanna run away.. please pray for me
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"The Police should not be coming to my house." WOW! 🙏🏼⚓🙏🏼
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Yeah they’ll use them for stalking as well
For those starting out on this journey: Andrew is spot on.
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Andrew you are so right about this video, I have been watching your videos daily with my husband since March 2020. This was after the realisation from constant abuse and rage which went up levels after my son got married to a covert narcissist who is in a complete narcissistic family. Like a cult. Since my son was 15 he slowly changed into an awful toxic man (now 36), who used to be a bright happy person. We could not live our lives with them anymore, even after our beautiful grandson was born. After learning exactly what was going on through you Andrew and others we had to go no contact and move away. So very sad but thanks to you we are on the healing path. I wish every single person on this channel/community a healthy, happy journey in their new lives away from narcissistic abuse. Thank you again ❤🙏
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Parental alienation. All my children that divorce was a doosie . . Life goes on . But now I'm educated thanks .😊
Thanks Andrew 🙏 I saw the mask slip. Very alarming realization but now i know
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Thanks Andrew for your words, ,your videos, they help me to keep me on my path. The first time I read about narcissism I was shocked and same time thankful. There was the explanation for all I felt but did not want to see. It is tough to learn, to see, all the abuse I went threw and which I did not want to see. Its so hard to understand that everything was a fake, there was no love, only lies and fraud. When his mask slipped of, I saw the face which I have "felt" the whole time before. Believe me it was not a nice thing to see. When I left him, there was no emotion at his side. He was shocked and needed to find out how he should react. After a while some crocodile tears ran over his face - his mask of "emotion". I have never seen this before. 3 weeks later he had his new supply! Its 1,5 years now, and I am healing.
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Awesome Andrew! As usual ! Bravo !! Thank you !
Thank you Andrew. I just left, got a new job and home I rent. I fell in love with someone who wasn’t his real self. I lost myself and started to turn into him .. he tried to drain my light and love. I’m sad but fighting. It just resonated to me the police shouldn’t be coming to my house. He weapon the police against me and all charges get dropped, etc. but that’s what they do they use the police. Oh my God you’re so right.
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❤ So right on. They do not like it when you are bubble wrapped by the love ofGod. When you keep smiling and that you know who they are and you are counting the days to when your loved ones wake up. That you have are ready every day to be happy and completely unaffected by their toddler behavior
Wow wow wow X another superb video X this reinforced yet again everything I know about narcissists X thank you Andrew x I am at the pinnacle of indifference now and help other victims of narc abuse X saving lives X please believe me out there in the community that this abuse is a silent KILLER X run for the hills if you come across one X trust your instincts X your life is far too valuable to tolerate such poor behaviour X I cannot thank you Andrew enough for your educational videos x I have listened every day for years since you first started X my day is not complete until I have heard your words of wisdom X this reminds me of how far I have come and how galvanised I am X I can spot a narc within a few seconds x they are everywhere BUT they don't stand close to me any longer X god bless you Andrew x 💖😊
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I needed this tonight Andrew.. just a few reminders. Thanks I was feeling a little down.
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Truth!
It hurts so much, my oldest son until he lives with her Girl friend, he will No contact to me, because his girl is kompletly toxid and he also is, he say in the past that he feels like his narcicisst father feel, i pray but i think that i lost my own son😢
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I never understood why she never kept her words, her actions is way off the logic scale. I used to think i was protecting her from herself, from her abusing strangers. Now i know the pain of the abuse was actually directed at me seemingly to protect her and the 3rd party. Coming in between was actually to take the abuse of both parties started by the narcissist. It took me 40 years to realise this. It was the most perfect game. After which you will be blamed whichever way the result goes.
If I had infinite lives to live here on earth then I would give one of them to the narcissist because of course I still love him and always will. Unfortunately we all only get one trip here on earth and I can't waste mine with someone who hates me.
That's correct,,key words,"hate you"
Andrew. For the last 7 months I’ve been following you and 2 others closely, learning, healing etc. Close to the finish line if not there.
But what I want to communicate to you tonight is your teachings enabled me to point out the red flags to my daughter. Can’t say more than that as this is a new TH-cam channel I needed to create.
It’s boils down to true reciprocation, I didn’t get it for 30 years (narc abuse) and it was like you speaking through me, the knowledge I’ve gained, as she’s only 4 months in her relationship.
That means she may save herself from 29 years and 8 months of crap. Mahalo brother. Thank u thank u thank u
A relationship is a co-bond, not a one above and one below. 😎
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Oh my am so lost I grew up amongst these creatures may god have mercy on me. But believe the universe will always have your back.Good always win there are no winners amongst thieves.Ah a true warrior knows it's better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles.Pray that karma comes soon to save the day
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At least 20% of the population are narcs / psychopaths ...If youre genuine and sensitive then it's a minefield ...You have to keep strong boundaries and love yourself and discern who you let into your life ....its a hard road
Boundary #1 Learn to say *NO.* Then *stand on it!*
Another Amazing video! Thank you!
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Your video explained all of the narcissists around me including the ones whom I have found out recently😂 I am very grateful for your helpful education and wisdom you have provided me. I couldn’t have come this far without your sincere help…I have much much more that I want to express how I feel …but it IS difficult for me☺️Thank you, Andrew ❤️
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YOU SAID IT! Then...IT DOESN'T!
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I go back and forth between: I miss him so much (crying my guts out) and... what an 4$$h073.
yep, the confusion is real and so challenging, but… there is light at the end of the tunnel. Hang on in there and self care is your best friend at this time ❤
Sounds about right! Please continue listening to Andrew & stay close to the community so that you can continue healing.
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You have the strength Lindsay. Battleships are safe in the dock, but that is not what they were built for x
Reinforce indeed. Thank you for the ongoing videos 🙏
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