Hey team! 1) Make sure to click the "I" in the righthand corner to do the poll. 2) in the info box you can find the link to do the workbook featured in this video yourself. 3) After you get The Game of Desire on Audible please, please use the "Share this book" feature to send it to a friend for free to spread the word oxo
Spent all night doing your workbook. Thanks lovely! Shame I was an eidgit and didn't save all the answers along the way although I did start. Learned loads anyway. Thanks for being awesome as always. Sharing your knowledge is a beautiful thing. I love the idea to 'die empty' meaning share everything you have to offer the world ♡ I am going to try harder to bring my sexual energy into my relationship and use what I have confirmed through this workbook as my main skills to kick the ass of self doubt.
Shan- please do these experiments again and choose me. I would give my arm to learn from you! Long hard past has led to stream of long hard relationships. Help would be so appreciated. Oh and yes I did the workbook, read the book, and I think somewhere in the past 10 years, I dropped a piece of myself that I cannot find. One more thing, thank you for all the teachings thus far. Really. Xo
They seemed compatible in many ways but the difference in relationship structure preferences raised a flag for me. Maybe stay friends unless they can reach a compromise on boundaries 💞
Shan BOODY It’s def up to the person, but on a first date for me probably not, since I view the first date more as building a rapport and figuring out if I can even see them in that context.. but by the second date I think it’s fair so we’re not wasting our time! Lol
They didn’t bounce off of each other’s answers organically, it was more like they were just sharing their answers without really connecting or relating to the what the other person just said
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This is the most interactive book I've ever read because I recognized some of the people such as Winnie and Ari and now that I'm seeing Pricilla!! Ooooh this is such a satisfying feeling! I'm on a journey and I can literally put faces to women who have gone through this transformation. Thank you so so much Shan for putting this together. I recommend this book to E V E R Y O N E!!
Every man Finna come on these dates and claim they a zero in the kinsey scale. Where are your male 1's and 2's Shan? Also they get along, but no chemistry.
Well done! They should be friends she is interested in building a long term monogamous relationship. She is a single mother and (me being one)she does not have the time or energy to entertain multiple men when she has a clear relationship purpose or goal. They are both lovely folks...I wish them the best!
Friends for sure he wants an open relationship and she is into monogamy plus there's no chemistry there whatsoever body language on "You cool but next "
I Think FRIENDS!! I'm in a similar space with someone and pre Game of Desire and the self summary workbook. I would have pushed my situation to become something because of the chemistry. But in the long run I don't think either will be getting the relationship they want.
I don’t think they are compatible. Rome seems like he’s been a player and still is. She seems like the type to want complete focus and adoration from a man. Now he’s that way too, but he gets so bored of women, but needs a women to be able to captivate him enough to have his main partner. But obviously he’s a free spirited person, but highly manipulative. I really like her a lot and think she’s the modern day traditionalist. She is in touch with herself and has as she said, done the work. I think she’s going to need a man who is intelligent and manly, someone who she could respect but have fun together with.
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I guess from the relationship structure they each prefer, it would be sensible for them to try out a friendship- although 2/3 of their love languages will allow room for growth in a potential relationship but I'd rather stick with friendship between them❤. Thanks Mrs. Brady! I have a more constructive idea on things to look out for in my future potential relationship 😉
There is definitely room for them to grow on each other. Being open and vulnerable on camera adds a level of awareness that normally doesn't exist behind the scenes.
I love that I'm seeing Pricilla! I connected with her the most in the book because I am also a young mother and had the same reservations she had about dating. just look at her radiant and flourishing. I've learned so much from her. okay brb while I go to amazon and write my TGOD review.
I say friends because they’re styles of attachment and commitment are completely different, and while they may be able to get along, it wouldn’t work long term.
Based on the body language of her / she is guarding herself a lot with her hands , chemistry seems off, and he appears more free spirit , relaxed relationship , low stress person
I can see them smashing but not in a romantic relationship maybe friends with benefits because their different views on relationships but their interest seems to peak when the sexual questions came up
After knowing Rome came inside a champagne cup and a woman drank it during a one time stand, he needs somebody to match his wildness. This one appears just friends. She’s too laid back for him. I don’t see him ever compromising his personality or interests for anybody. He’s a freaky and spontaneous gentleman. Rome is very open and honest so just because he is like that with her doesn’t mean they have chemistry. It’s just his nature.
For most of the interaction I felt they had both chemistry and compatibility. I felt that there was potential for a romantic relationship. However, once the relationship structure question came up it became clear that the two of them were on different pages as far as the type of relationship they were looking for. From that point I felt the would be better off as friends despite the clear chemistry. Dope video.
The Chemistry was crazy!!!! Ima have to say Lovers and Friends I know I have to pick one, but there is no write or wrong answer right. If the physical relationship dont work for some reason,( Im banking that it do!!) They are able to have a dope friendship and kick it.
Nope, she's a monogamist. Her ultimate dream is probably to be wifed-up and become the monogamist couple goals like the couple pics she likes on social media. If the sex AND the friendship is good, she will definitely catch feelings and get hurt. His natural free-spiritedness will erode all of the work she's done on herself to be less insecure in relationships and feel worthy of being a quality guys number 1 choice. A friends with benefit relationship will probably be routine for him and and detrimental to the woman she's trying to evolve into. If he would only conform to her relationship structure, he would be perfect. That's how you create a dangerous toxic addiction. For her sake, platonic friends only.
Shan you’re KILLING it!!!! So happy I got to listen to your book for free this summer & that you’re continuing to build on everything we learned through more videos and knowledge. You’ve contributed to soo much of my growth over the past few years and I just want to say THANK YOU for being an educator and making your information and expertise accessible always 💗 MY DIAGNOSIS: they seem romantically compatible and they vibed a lotttt, however they would need to talk about the relationship structure further and figure out if there is room for compromise and what boundaries are needed. If they don’t reach something that both of them are comfortable with, friends it is 🥰
I think they are better off as friends. I spent the whole day yesterday trying to get the book in China's online store, and here you are just giving the audio book for free QUEEN👑
I think they might be better as friends due to relationship preferences. I think chemistry is super important, but depending on what is most important to the individuals as compatibility does affect things if it's on their list of necessities. Loved your book! I feel way more confident talking to guys now. I stupidly signed up for a ton of workshops and classes that don't have any straight men in them, but I'm doing better when I do meet people.
Friends friends friends. It was lovely to watch and they were wonderfully open. Yet, they both seem to be looking for different thing in relationship (having said that, his interpretation of freedom can be fluid). I also did not feel much sexual tension? But that's not something I can nor should r judge, camera et all.
Even though the topics are intimate, she seems a lil more quiet and chill (not a judgment statement like its not good or bad) and while he's a lil bit more energetic but also chill (again not a judgement statement). I don't know if that's due to shyness or her personality, and I don't know if that's just his personality or the dynamic created when they talk. If they got closer I think she may come alive more, I get the sense that she needs to get to know someone to let her wilder, funner side show (and that's totally fine), whereas with him I don't get that. If she's okay with him flirting while he's out they may work romantically. If he's more extroverted from the jump, and that might be something that would be hard for him to bottle up, and something he clearly accepts and likes about himself. If she understands that, it's fine. I think as long as he gave her what she needs to curb her going back to anxious attachment, and she could communicate what she needs, it would be cool. For the ethics, they could disagree like he may take more risks, but if she knows this about him and they can communicate about the way they evaluate big decisions and courses of action, it definitely would work. The banter about controversial topics could be interesting, if they are openminded and enjoy the difference. The chemistry seems good, like they are toning down for the camera almost LOL. Also they are both very self aware and mature, so that is wicked. Interested to know what comes of this. Imagine we could all start dating with these types of questions, would be a game changer!
I think compatibility , because once the moment is gone it is gone but if you're compatible I think they won't be a moment there will always be that attraction and you'll always have that person you'll always have something in common
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Im INFPPPP-T!!! She really doesnt seem like an INFP more like an ISXX or a XXTJ note: Ive been studying mbti jungain this for a year( we INFP don't like for traditionalist relationship but we more constant reassurance) but we are REALLY OPEN MINDED AND ONE OF THE LEAST JUDGMENTAL of all the types we are not traditionalist!!! I REAPEAT!! whoever is anTRUE INFP knows this and & can spot an infp a 1000 miles away SHANNIN PLEASE PLEASE GO DEEPER ON THIS YOU KNOW THIS CHANGES LIFE and how do date looking for compatibility!!!
@@shanboodyomg JARED thats why he's CREATIVE with music, DEEP in thoughts( you can see in your videos he always adds some depth on to his explanations) can see how your FWB ending up in a perfect marriage(define by you gusy not society Standards) with meaning And a purpose... Xplains why hes so chill NOT jealous when you collaborate with male. A perfectionist-idealist.. you can see that in his curls tutorial😂... You Shan in your past videos being so emotional and vulnerable with us *your friends and lovers* ( wich seems like u have a high level of Emotional intelligence) + jared who Are naturally EMPATHIC and good comunication. ❤ 🤔 I feel you might be part of the intuitive XNFX might be wrong but hey something I know is your amazing.
The reflection of jared in the window was distracting to me. 😂 Maybe having what u would hope would be a private conversation with a live audience had an effect on their vibe... but i'd say friends.
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I would say friends due to the relationship structure. They have so much in common that being friends would be awesome and work our incredibly well but him wanting more openness and her wanting more exclusivity would just cause distrust down the road whereas friends they don’t have to worry about that
I don't really see much actual chemistry between them to be honest. The relationship structure differences are a HUGE compatibility issue that should make pursuing anything between them a massive no. I don't see how you could really compromise on those and have both partners be happy in the relationship.
Definitely lovers. They have such good and open communication that I would imagine they can sit down and set their egos aside to resolve any conflicts.
Diagnosis: Friends. (I could be wrong) I don't get connection from them but I do get a comforting aspect. I'll be honest, their interaction was not for me.
Yes they should go on a second date! She’s “Modern Monogamists” but she is secure ! I don’t think she would make him follow a rule book! They have alt in common when it comes to love! I think thing would come easy for them! LOVERS
I've been watching you for a while and I wanted to say LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU! Happy for your continued progress and growth. I am not sure if this is relevent but the only thing is I wish is that you gave more dating advice. Like a coach. I see many male coaches giving advice to thousands of woman on dating, but I have yet to find a female coach. Hope it's something you'll consider, although I know your main focus is sex/intimacy but I think youd make a great dating coach!
Not sure if their relationship structure is worth a compromise on either side. It would be a battle of the polar opposites. Who would start to feel insecure or resentful first once they got closer? They definitely seem physically attracted, but their functional values about monogamy seemed to affect the chemistry for Pricilla. Her eyes 👀 got less dreamy after he stated his ideal relationship.
I feel like there might be some connection or chemistry because it looked like were actually enojying the time since they did laugh. But I'm not too sure if its a complete match, maybe they need more time
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First, CONGRATS on the book!!!!!! Second, I've watched and subscribed to you for sometime. Is there a male figure that you would recommend for men, young men, etc. to watch who has similar content that you provide?
It seems like they might be friends only of any. She is more reserved than he is. Nothing wrong with that but it might build resentment later. Might work for casual but she might not be for it
Oof as a fellow INFP who has been living actively polyamorously for 2 years, I made the decision a few days ago to switch to being monogamish with the most high value, compatible partner I've met in my life. Relationship styles can be compromised but both partners have to be willing to look at the relationship and themselves honestly. These two seem lovely, and I think their relationship could go either way, depending on how tightly they each hold to their established principles.
They are not compatible. I would love to do this whole checklist myself from her website to get to know myself better. Just not sure I’m willing to take the TIME. Does anyone know how long it takes ? I’ve read the book but I don’t remember the time she mentioned.
There’s clearly undeniable chemistry there, however I would say they are not compatible based on some of their answers. Specifically when it came down to the type of relationship that they both see themself in its differs and I think that could be a issue if they were to persuade a romantic relationship. So I say they should stay friends, but there is definitely chemistry!!
I feel like they should be friends because they have a difference in relationship structure. Their similarities could allow them to be great friends as long as they don't cross sexual boundaries. It could lead to friction and ruin a great friendship given their traits.
I know this is an older video, but now I'm curious. There wasn't a strong spark there. Some of his answers turned her off a little. I wouldn't say they should jump into a relationship right after that conversation, but the intuitive in me sees future potential.
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Hey team! 1) Make sure to click the "I" in the righthand corner to do the poll. 2) in the info box you can find the link to do the workbook featured in this video yourself. 3) After you get The Game of Desire on Audible please, please use the "Share this book" feature to send it to a friend for free to spread the word oxo
Shan BOODY I have never really watched your vids but I’ve always said there is a difference between chemistry and compatibility
Spent all night doing your workbook. Thanks lovely! Shame I was an eidgit and didn't save all the answers along the way although I did start. Learned loads anyway. Thanks for being awesome as always. Sharing your knowledge is a beautiful thing. I love the idea to 'die empty' meaning share everything you have to offer the world ♡ I am going to try harder to bring my sexual energy into my relationship and use what I have confirmed through this workbook as my main skills to kick the ass of self doubt.
Did u use to work at walmart
No but that was a dream job in my high school
Shan- please do these experiments again and choose me. I would give my arm to learn from you! Long hard past has led to stream of long hard relationships. Help would be so appreciated. Oh and yes I did the workbook, read the book, and I think somewhere in the past 10 years, I dropped a piece of myself that I cannot find. One more thing, thank you for all the teachings thus far. Really. Xo
Seems like they should be friends based on the relationship structure they want
Do you think people can or should compromise on relationship structures?
Shan BOODY depends how fluid people can allow themselves to be without betraying themselves right?
@@shanboody No! Omg these two would crash and burn.
Shan BOODY I tried, and ended up realizing it wasn’t fair to either of us.
I'm pretty sure that if they stay " friends" one of them will give in.
They seemed compatible in many ways but the difference in relationship structure preferences raised a flag for me. Maybe stay friends unless they can reach a compromise on boundaries 💞
is this something you would be comfortable asking someone on a first date?
Shan BOODY It’s def up to the person, but on a first date for me probably not, since I view the first date more as building a rapport and figuring out if I can even see them in that context.. but by the second date I think it’s fair so we’re not wasting our time! Lol
They didn’t bounce off of each other’s answers organically, it was more like they were just sharing their answers without really connecting or relating to the what the other person just said
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Friends 😅 simply because Pricilla clearly needs a certain level of commitment
"Friends"
Friends for sure! I sensed more of a friendship chemistry than a romantic one.
Really? What makes you say that?
especially on Priscilla's side . It seems that she was a bit closed off whereas Rome was pretty open, making eye contact, very engaging ... hmmm
Rome looks like he gels with a lot of people.
I feel that for sure
@@shanboody I think he was making a Joke... LOL
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They did not seemed flirty with one another. They seemed like they bonded well as friends.
Did you think that from the beginning or did your opinion change at some point in the video?
@@thrilla72 Throughout the video they seemed like friendly, but not a lot of eye contact and or physical touch, barely flirting etc.
This is the most interactive book I've ever read because I recognized some of the people such as Winnie and Ari and now that I'm seeing Pricilla!! Ooooh this is such a satisfying feeling! I'm on a journey and I can literally put faces to women who have gone through this transformation. Thank you so so much Shan for putting this together. I recommend this book to E V E R Y O N E!!
Gaju you damn flirt I’m so in my feels oxo
He was obviously into freedom, openness, maybe even a freaky three way lolol
Every man Finna come on these dates and claim they a zero in the kinsey scale. Where are your male 1's and 2's Shan?
Also they get along, but no chemistry.
Oh shit you comment on videos. Got off the throne and mingle with the commoners
Well done! They should be friends she is interested in building a long term monogamous relationship. She is a single mother and (me being one)she does not have the time or energy to entertain multiple men when she has a clear relationship purpose or goal. They are both lovely folks...I wish them the best!
Friends for sure he wants an open relationship and she is into monogamy plus there's no chemistry there whatsoever body language on "You cool but next "
I Think FRIENDS!! I'm in a similar space with someone and pre Game of Desire and the self summary workbook. I would have pushed my situation to become something because of the chemistry. But in the long run I don't think either will be getting the relationship they want.
Oooh this is awesome
Shan always uploads when my battery is full I’m dead😂🧡
Lol yessss and hello first
First off I just want to say I love each of their vibes... I think they would be good as friends...
Why not lovers? Say more
I don’t think they are compatible. Rome seems like he’s been a player and still is. She seems like the type to want complete focus and adoration from a man. Now he’s that way too, but he gets so bored of women, but needs a women to be able to captivate him enough to have his main partner. But obviously he’s a free spirited person, but highly manipulative. I really like her a lot and think she’s the modern day traditionalist. She is in touch with herself and has as she said, done the work. I think she’s going to need a man who is intelligent and manly, someone who she could respect but have fun together with.
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I guess from the relationship structure they each prefer, it would be sensible for them to try out a friendship- although 2/3 of their love languages will allow room for growth in a potential relationship but I'd rather stick with friendship between them❤.
Thanks Mrs. Brady! I have a more constructive idea on things to look out for in my future potential relationship 😉
There is definitely room for them to grow on each other. Being open and vulnerable on camera adds a level of awareness that normally doesn't exist behind the scenes.
They should be friends , I don’t see a romantic relationship working .
I swear I see jared's reflection in the window lol...
if their ideal relationship sttructures matched, I'd say "perfect!" but for now, I think they're better off NOT being romantically involved.
I love that I'm seeing Pricilla! I connected with her the most in the book because I am also a young mother and had the same reservations she had about dating. just look at her radiant and flourishing. I've learned so much from her. okay brb while I go to amazon and write my TGOD review.
Ayyyyy
I say friends because they’re styles of attachment and commitment are completely different, and while they may be able to get along, it wouldn’t work long term.
Based on the body language of her / she is guarding herself a lot with her hands , chemistry seems off, and he appears more free spirit , relaxed relationship , low stress person
I can see them smashing but not in a romantic relationship maybe friends with benefits because their different views on relationships but their interest seems to peak when the sexual questions came up
I'm going with friends but keeping the door open to lovers.
As I young man I’m happy I found this channel. A lot of good info.
I can’t wait to read this book I already know imma be telling my friends about it, love this video set up!!
Yesss my girl thank you
Just got your book..halfway through it already..love it! And the workbook...wow... so thorough and insightful!
After knowing Rome came inside a champagne cup and a woman drank it during a one time stand, he needs somebody to match his wildness. This one appears just friends. She’s too laid back for him. I don’t see him ever compromising his personality or interests for anybody. He’s a freaky and spontaneous gentleman. Rome is very open and honest so just because he is like that with her doesn’t mean they have chemistry. It’s just his nature.
Good answer, I couldn't place it, but something was off for me
Friends for sure. Also, they both seem wonderful.
For most of the interaction I felt they had both chemistry and compatibility. I felt that there was potential for a romantic relationship. However, once the relationship structure question came up it became clear that the two of them were on different pages as far as the type of relationship they were looking for. From that point I felt the would be better off as friends despite the clear chemistry. Dope video.
I mean love who you love but be RESPECTFUL!!☝🏽
Dormtainment!!! What's good Rome?!?!?
Thank you! I was trying to figure out where I’ve seen him before!
The Chemistry was crazy!!!! Ima have to say Lovers and Friends I know I have to pick one, but there is no write or wrong answer right. If the physical relationship dont work for some reason,( Im banking that it do!!) They are able to have a dope friendship and kick it.
Nope, she's a monogamist. Her ultimate dream is probably to be wifed-up and become the monogamist couple goals like the couple pics she likes on social media. If the sex AND the friendship is good, she will definitely catch feelings and get hurt. His natural free-spiritedness will erode all of the work she's done on herself to be less insecure in relationships and feel worthy of being a quality guys number 1 choice. A friends with benefit relationship will probably be routine for him and and detrimental to the woman she's trying to evolve into. If he would only conform to her relationship structure, he would be perfect. That's how you create a dangerous toxic addiction. For her sake, platonic friends only.
Couldn't he just say he wants an open relationship? 😂
He wanted to make sound better
Awesome first date questions to not waste time!! I'm about to go ask my husband these questions...it might a little late tho lol
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Shan you’re KILLING it!!!! So happy I got to listen to your book for free this summer & that you’re continuing to build on everything we learned through more videos and knowledge. You’ve contributed to soo much of my growth over the past few years and I just want to say THANK YOU for being an educator and making your information and expertise accessible always 💗 MY DIAGNOSIS: they seem romantically compatible and they vibed a lotttt, however they would need to talk about the relationship structure further and figure out if there is room for compromise and what boundaries are needed. If they don’t reach something that both of them are comfortable with, friends it is 🥰
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I think they are better off as friends.
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I think they might be better as friends due to relationship preferences. I think chemistry is super important, but depending on what is most important to the individuals as compatibility does affect things if it's on their list of necessities.
Loved your book! I feel way more confident talking to guys now.
I stupidly signed up for a ton of workshops and classes that don't have any straight men in them, but I'm doing better when I do meet people.
Friends but I could see it progressing to lovers with time and continuing learning of each other.
Friends friends friends. It was lovely to watch and they were wonderfully open. Yet, they both seem to be looking for different thing in relationship (having said that, his interpretation of freedom can be fluid). I also did not feel much sexual tension? But that's not something I can nor should r judge, camera et all.
Friends. That relationship structure difference will get him cut. Literally.
Love this type of interaction!! Put more stuff out like this luva
I’m glad you liked it I wasn’t sure if people would find it interesting. I love playing with y’all and trying new stuff
It's pronounced Yuung-ian lol
This was very sweet though. I think they could have a chance but they would each have to make some compromises!
Even though the topics are intimate, she seems a lil more quiet and chill (not a judgment statement like its not good or bad) and while he's a lil bit more energetic but also chill (again not a judgement statement). I don't know if that's due to shyness or her personality, and I don't know if that's just his personality or the dynamic created when they talk. If they got closer I think she may come alive more, I get the sense that she needs to get to know someone to let her wilder, funner side show (and that's totally fine), whereas with him I don't get that. If she's okay with him flirting while he's out they may work romantically. If he's more extroverted from the jump, and that might be something that would be hard for him to bottle up, and something he clearly accepts and likes about himself. If she understands that, it's fine. I think as long as he gave her what she needs to curb her going back to anxious attachment, and she could communicate what she needs, it would be cool. For the ethics, they could disagree like he may take more risks, but if she knows this about him and they can communicate about the way they evaluate big decisions and courses of action, it definitely would work. The banter about controversial topics could be interesting, if they are openminded and enjoy the difference. The chemistry seems good, like they are toning down for the camera almost LOL. Also they are both very self aware and mature, so that is wicked. Interested to know what comes of this. Imagine we could all start dating with these types of questions, would be a game changer!
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Ayyyy Phoenix
And for anyone thinking about it, it’s been so worth it! I love Shan’s voice and she does a great job narrating the book
I love the energy and encouragement that you are giving us viewers. Thanks!
I think compatibility , because once the moment is gone it is gone but if you're compatible I think they won't be a moment there will always be that attraction and you'll always have that person you'll always have something in common
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This is great promotion for you book! This is a legit way to first date but also now everybody want to do that assessment
This is the dude from "That Guy" web series...love him!
Friends, she was more interested in him than vice versa. Also they are not looking for the same things in a relationship..
Fantastic video per usual. Segway- Love that you use your husband's music at the end of each video! ^_^
Im INFPPPP-T!!! She really doesnt seem like an INFP more like an ISXX or a XXTJ note: Ive been studying mbti jungain this for a year( we INFP don't like for traditionalist relationship but we more constant reassurance) but we are REALLY OPEN MINDED AND ONE OF THE LEAST JUDGMENTAL of all the types we are not traditionalist!!! I REAPEAT!! whoever is anTRUE INFP knows this and & can spot an infp a 1000 miles away
SHANNIN PLEASE PLEASE GO DEEPER ON THIS YOU KNOW THIS CHANGES LIFE and how do date looking for compatibility!!!
Jared is also INFP-A
@@shanboodyomg JARED thats why he's CREATIVE with music, DEEP in thoughts( you can see in your videos he always adds some depth on to his explanations) can see how your FWB ending up in a perfect marriage(define by you gusy not society Standards) with meaning And a purpose...
Xplains why hes so chill NOT jealous when you collaborate with male. A perfectionist-idealist.. you can see that in his curls tutorial😂...
You Shan in your past videos being so emotional and vulnerable with us *your friends and lovers* ( wich seems like u have a high level of Emotional intelligence) + jared who Are naturally EMPATHIC and good comunication. ❤
🤔 I feel you might be part of the intuitive XNFX might be wrong but hey something I know is your amazing.
@@shanboody wowww !!!!infj-t the rarest personality type.... here and meli yes you right spot on
@@shanboody is this jungai test or explanation in the book??
@@melino9709 yes
The reflection of jared in the window was distracting to me. 😂 Maybe having what u would hope would be a private conversation with a live audience had an effect on their vibe... but i'd say friends.
Definitely friends. They have some things in common but they don't seem compatible to me nor is there chemistry on a romantic level.
Oh, okay, I ain’t know Rome was fine....
I love this so much!! I would totally be here for a reboot series of this now
I'm so happy for you with your amazing book! And even happier it's on audible haha
Yo this girl is just like me. We answered everything the same.
friends based on they seem to want different things
They both have really nice voices
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I would say friends due to the relationship structure. They have so much in common that being friends would be awesome and work our incredibly well but him wanting more openness and her wanting more exclusivity would just cause distrust down the road whereas friends they don’t have to worry about that
I don't really see much actual chemistry between them to be honest. The relationship structure differences are a HUGE compatibility issue that should make pursuing anything between them a massive no. I don't see how you could really compromise on those and have both partners be happy in the relationship.
You’re on a roll girl!
A combination of both! For a romantic relationship, it cannot be purely based on compatibility or chemistry alone (at least for me)
I sense a third date. Emotional chemistry, but compatibility needs to be negotiated.
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How he gone talk about how he wants an open relationship then gone ask if she likes girls. 😂 bye
and Friends for sure!
Definitely lovers. They have such good and open communication that I would imagine they can sit down and set their egos aside to resolve any conflicts.
Agreed the honesty + clarity is clutch
Diagnosis: Friends. (I could be wrong)
I don't get connection from them but I do get a comforting aspect.
I'll be honest, their interaction was not for me.
Yes they should go on a second date! She’s “Modern Monogamists” but she is secure ! I don’t think she would make him follow a rule book! They have alt in common when it comes to love! I think thing would come easy for them!
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I've been watching you for a while and I wanted to say LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU! Happy for your continued progress and growth. I am not sure if this is relevent but the only thing is I wish is that you gave more dating advice. Like a coach. I see many male coaches giving advice to thousands of woman on dating, but I have yet to find a female coach. Hope it's something you'll consider, although I know your main focus is sex/intimacy but I think youd make a great dating coach!
I purchased your Audible book and loved it!
Nikki gracias!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not sure if their relationship structure is worth a compromise on either side. It would be a battle of the polar opposites. Who would start to feel insecure or resentful first once they got closer? They definitely seem physically attracted, but their functional values about monogamy seemed to affect the chemistry for Pricilla. Her eyes 👀 got less dreamy after he stated his ideal relationship.
I feel like there might be some connection or chemistry because it looked like were actually enojying the time since they did laugh. But I'm not too sure if its a complete match, maybe they need more time
She has a child, her priorities are different. Show me single women in the 20s
Love video. Loooooove lighting arrangement for this video.
Hey , Chilling . Thanks
That's Rome from dormtainment 😄
Definitely just friends shem.
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First, CONGRATS on the book!!!!!! Second, I've watched and subscribed to you for sometime. Is there a male figure that you would recommend for men, young men, etc. to watch who has similar content that you provide?
It seems like they might be friends only of any. She is more reserved than he is. Nothing wrong with that but it might build resentment later. Might work for casual but she might not be for it
His voice 😍😍😍😍😍
First things first! Is Rome a Capricorn?
I don’t think they should be friends OR date 🤷🏻♀️😊
Shan is glowing
Oof as a fellow INFP who has been living actively polyamorously for 2 years, I made the decision a few days ago to switch to being monogamish with the most high value, compatible partner I've met in my life. Relationship styles can be compromised but both partners have to be willing to look at the relationship and themselves honestly.
These two seem lovely, and I think their relationship could go either way, depending on how tightly they each hold to their established principles.
They are not compatible. I would love to do this whole checklist myself from her website to get to know myself better. Just not sure I’m willing to take the TIME. Does anyone know how long it takes ? I’ve read the book but I don’t remember the time she mentioned.
It takes roughly two hours but you don’t have to do it in one sitting. Thegameofdesire.com/workbook
Shan BOODY Thank you Shan for the reply! I didn’t expect you would 😳😳 haha thank you so much. I love you dearly ❤️. Will start the checklist now ✨✨
@@shanboody I spent about 7 hours on it total, but I'm pretty sure that's just a me thing!
More of these please ❤️
Haven't read your book yet but these two got a friend vibe. Very little spark overall. They don't seem to be all that attracted to eachother.
I'm getting that book.
They don’t have the same relationship structure. And it’s no budging for either so I definitely think it’s a friend situation
There’s clearly undeniable chemistry there, however I would say they are not compatible based on some of their answers. Specifically when it came down to the type of relationship that they both see themself in its differs and I think that could be a issue if they were to persuade a romantic relationship. So I say they should stay friends, but there is definitely chemistry!!
I'm definitely going to have to check you out. You are dope 👌
I feel like they should be friends because they have a difference in relationship structure. Their similarities could allow them to be great friends as long as they don't cross sexual boundaries. It could lead to friction and ruin a great friendship given their traits.
I know this is an older video, but now I'm curious. There wasn't a strong spark there. Some of his answers turned her off a little. I wouldn't say they should jump into a relationship right after that conversation, but the intuitive in me sees future potential.
Friends. Simply because he wants an open relationship and she doesn't.
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