Avoidant Attachment vs. Avoidant Personality Disorder
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- Avoidant Attachment vs. Avoidant Personality Disorder
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Avoidant Attachment and Avoidant Personality Disorder may both have the word avoidant in them, but they're not the same thing. For starters, one is a disorder while the other is not.
People with Avoidant Personality Disorder always feel criticized and have low self-esteem. While people with Avoidant Attachment tend to be uncomfortable in intimate relationships. They're similar but there are differences between them.
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You've answered my telepathic prayer... I've been wondering about this question for a long time. Thanks so much!
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The avoidant attachment style is far more devastating to a relationship. My wife and I have broken up time and time and time again because of her attachment style. Sadly, she is in denial that her attachment style causes our relationship major issues with intimacy. Her attachment style has changed me from Secure to anxious because she keeps pushing me away. I just want to be loved and I have tried to always reach out to her and support her but you can’t do anything if she isn’t willing to seek any help. As such, our marriage is over and it has broken my heart.
Thanks for this clarification, I relate to both
I talked with my counsellor about this recently. She thinks I have an avoidant personality but more of a disorganised attachment style (I am unsure whether to feel safe or anxious when in a relationship).
Ryan thank you, first explanation I come across regarding this simple but way overdue distinction. And wow...how comes that attachment styles are not part of DSM-5 ? Many insecure attachment styles are due to childhood traumas, fear of abandonment and enmeshing, therefore have lots in commune with personality disorders. Indeed need for a secure attachment possibly is of primary importance for all of us, in other to grow up mentally healthy and don't develop personality disorders, hence attachment styles should be first priority for a DMS-5 and for the world of psychiatrist. Is it maybe that anything that involves a sexual relationship these days is taken for granted or not important? Total madness and total denial from the world of psychiatrist......
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Thanks for sharing. Im working on Trying to understand because im confused after my own multiple diagnosis not sure what to believe so trying to learn more.
Though those two were the same thing but it looks like I have an dismissive avoidant attachment style and it's like when I get close to someone or spend too much time with them I just kinda get really tired, kinda feel unpleasant and my stomach is kinda squished (idk if that makes sense) it's really irrational and uncomfortable and idk what to do with it coz like it's not like I want a close relationship but I can't get it. I'm better without it but I have doubts if that's healthy and if I should leave it the way it is or do smth like I don't wanna force myself but maybe I should I have basically no idea what do do with this one thing is sure I'm not gonna admit it even if I decide do do smth it's gonna be a secret
I'm not sure if I have the attachment style or the disorder. I can talk to people fine and I've never felt like my life was being hindered by my feelings, however I haven't had a real friend since I was 8 years old, that can't be normal. I've had people reach out to me, but I always push them away. I just feel like I don't want anything to progress past the acquaintance stage with others. Thoughts?
avoidant attachment in Japan is categorized as a disorder.
Hi Ryan can you feel both an attachment disorder and the personality disorder at the same time? Take care and thanks!
Well attachment styles aren't disorders. (We could argue that there are childhood attachment disorders - Reactive Attachment Disorder and Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder - but these are not meant for adults.) But you can absolutely have an insecure attachment style and a personality disorder at the same time. Although I don't have any stats right now to back it up, I'd guess that it's actually more common for someone with a personality disorder to also have an insecure attachment style.
Obviously it's confusing -- but I think it's the same thing. Both can change. Everything can change.