I think it also has to do with the "girl's weekend" with friends. Women get in each other's heads, and every woman is interested in the dynamics of their peers' relationships. They all offer their input and that contributes to change. Misery loves company. "You don't need that", "You don't need him", "you're better than that"... case in point.
This is part of the reason why the divorce rate is so high and will only get higher in the coming decade and beyond. They destroy each other’s happiness because as you said, misery loves company.
If a girl flirts with you and breaks up with her boyfriend right away for you. What makes you think she isn’t going to do that to you? Sounds like bad character to get involved with IMO. Don’t take these silly girls so seriously.
Modern women usually have a hard time learning from their mistakes so often that it eventually turns into decisions. This is why many of them keep "guy hopping" because they think the problem isnt them, but the guy. Reality is, its their fault 90% of the time.
Her :"i cheated on you because you never gave me attention " An hour later the same girl. Her :" why are you giving me all this attention, you are coming across as needy, clingy and insecure" Truly women DONT know what they want.
Point is don't go from 0-100 right away and expect it to work. Real change is slow, incremental and takes time. And no, nothing justifies being in a relationship with cheaters. In general they are extraordinary at lying too.
Amen to that! Corey is fantastic. His EQ is so well developed that he can say things that most people wouldn’t stand a chance of getting away with - all while having people listen and respond to his message receptively, because they know it’s coming from a position of wanting to help improve lives. Sometimes tough love is what’s needed to make change for the better.
When she says she wants to find herself, she’s trying to let you know she wants to ef other men. Corey won’t say it... he’s always looking at the bright side of things. But boys, mark my words.
Exactly sometimes Corey does say tho, this one seems like she wants to explore her options more likely because this guy is too focus on the relationship, she might even be considering the ex. Too fresh of a relationship. The guy didn't handle it properly from the beginning allowing her to be single but exclusive wth 🤔 lol. She really likes him but he's smothering her.
Seems like she just wanted to hookup and hangout but didn't say it directly, but her actions suggested that. She possibly wanted to make sure he wasn't doing that with anyone but her.
Dude you are saving me right now. Earlier today I didn’t succumb to meeting this girl half way between our cities, because initially she was supposed to come to mine this weekend. I responded after about a day, playing it calm and cool and saying it’s fine I’ll see you another time. She BLEW UPPP. She sent 8 consecutive texts and I haven’t responded. She immediately responded saying “I was just thinking of you”. Then her following texts seemed were calm as well with some slight bitterness. Then she said “we should probably just do ahead and cancel Halloween then”. Then she said “yeah I’m just going to go ahead and call it”. Then she said, and here’s the kicker “it’s ironic because I was actually just about to give in and come visit you anyway and was about to text you when you texted me” ok -- THEN WHY DIDNT SHE RESPOND WITH THAT INITIALLY!? I know that was not true and she is testing. Then she said “alas, it’s been fun” and lastly she said “let me know your address so I can send you your book back” LOL she is a ticking time bomb! All of that within the span of 32 minutes. I’ve been walking around listening to your book (again) all evening, trying to harvest some more wisdom - and it’s been keeping me level. THANK YOU. Do you have any advice for me?? I am thinking of just never responding… I mean, she sabotaged the whole thing in a convo with herself. Feels like I’m dodging a bullet.
@@alisherakhmetov628 well we have been dating for over 2 months. But she moved away from the city where we had met. This was the first time we were supposed to hang out since she moved last month. But she sabotaged everything
Thank you Corey for your hard work and dedication towards your craft, it has made a tremendous positive impact not only for myself but for many others. The healthy masculine men in the world owe you a debt of gratitude for your contributions to the world.
This is where your advice is so good. The walk away quickly aka fast to fire slow to hire on women. I recently had a 9/9.5 say she wanted to be able to see other people but didn’t want me to 🤔. I said sure, go for it baby.. and I will do the same. She then proceeded to try to lock me down
Sorry but there’s a fine line between taking someone’s shitty fickle disrespectful behaviour & being unreactive. And her ending things confirms it alone. She’s fickle. soon as you get people like that you should leave for real…I need to find myself? Please. Way she acted says everything…she’s not into you she’s an opportunist
Meanwhile I’ve been dealing with an ongoing saga. Had dinner about a month ago (first time one on one since last nov) when I tried to line something up again, she informed me she had to be out of town for training for work. Then suggested an event about a month out (a friend had already invited me but I didn’t say anything). Then last week I found out it wasn’t going to work because it lands on her family day (expected when I found out it landed on a Sunday - family day is a thing for her) when I asked what we had for an alternate thought, she was quiet for a couple of days, she finally said we wouldn’t be spending any more time together one on one as she had started dating someone and was intending to devote her limited time to prioritizing that but that she looked forward to catching up at social gatherings. I didn’t bother responding. Didn’t see a need to. Her message came across as not wanting to hear from me. First off, yeah, I need to work on following the book better. Second, I’ll probably lay low from functions for a bit. Third, I suspect I haven’t heard the end of her, yet again
Great content from a great life coach. Best dating advice. I have had success with girl of my dreams for 3 years now after reading the book and constantly brushing up with these videos. Thanks Corey Wayne!
If a girl said that to me I’ll be like ok. I’ll tell my friends that too but behind the scenes I’ll be dating other girls until she decides to make it official to everyone. She’ll slowly start to feel the energy that I have options which I do in fact & she’ll come running back to make it official to everyone. This girl is playing games. She wants to have her cake & eat it too, it’s clear. & this dude is catching feelings way too quick.
I don't know how one dude can stay so calm all the time and joke around whenever a women is testing you. With all the stress in the world, and there's days where you feel like shit can't tolerate nonsense forma woman. Cant be perfect all the time.
@@AD-cm5so yeah I got that test yesterday 🥲 the last thing she has said, she asked for my address to send my book back (she just moved 4 hours away, and was supposed to come here this weekend then changed it to meeting half way, I stood my ground that she can come here since that’s what we planned and I wouldn’t meet her half way. Then she exploded.) I have not responded back
@@Micoolaw Good man, these women these days have no respect for men. Women have so many guys trying to get laid and tolerate women to treat them like trash. Women than think all men will put up with that behavior.
Corey Wayne is the man but one thing it has made me realise how dramatic and complicated they can be and come to the decision to stay single life is to short to put all your energy into a woman Corey has taught me to enjoy life and carry on no matter alone or in a relationship be happy with yourself first before you commit yolo
This girl I've been seeing (and hooking up with ofc) all of a sudden "forgot" a date last week, 2 days after setting the actual date.... Haven't spoken to her since... Come on man...
Hang in there man, you should hold her accountable for it, if she contacts you, if it's the first time, you can brush it off like it didn't matter but if it happens again she's definitely testing you to see how you would react. 1st time react cool like it's no big deal and reschedule if it happens again, hold her accountable and let her do everything.
You have to always be looking at shit from a third persons perspective . Also having bad experiences with women in the past that will keep you alert is also a plus . Just comes with time man . After being with enough women you start to realize they are all very similar and none are really special .
It's happened to me. Damn it. I didn't wanna sleep with her if she was sleeping with someone else. Told myself if im not her number 1 then the zero gets zero. That's 100. But I was her number 1 until I started simping and catching feelings! 😕😖🤐
You realize you're a human being who HAS feelings, don't you? To be involved with someone and have no feelings is impossible, and inhuman. You care about a woman you're dating and you should. Having this bravado idea that you're made of teflon and heartless is wrong - you see that right? Don't you realize the men who have successful, long-lasting relationships with women are fully functional humans whose feelings, thoughts and actions are integrated, and who are able to communicate with that woman as a realistic adult? Sounds like this guy's teachings are way off for you. Do you really see yourself at age 68 acting this way? Most men that age aren't looked at twice and have little chance of a woman being interested in and committed to him. So at some point between now and age 68 you're wise to change your approach, accept your feelings, and realize they're normal and one part of being a healthy human being.
@@lorrainelamour7224 In interacting with the "modern woman" mindset catching feelings is a curse. I've heard some of the same things a 25 yo would say said by a 53 yo woman, when it comes to feelings. So the agenda and mindset is spread across them.
I've read most of your book and have had coaching to learn to deal with women who are difficult when they're out of sorts. I guess my confusion is whether to continue developing the "skills" to deal with them or or just try to find a woman who doesn't act like this. What happens if, when she says, "I want to be single and exclusive.", you just say, "Sorry, it doesn't work. You can try that but not with me."
Thanks coach , i’ve been seeing a girl who had problems in her past relationships,so i took things very slowly and i’ve never talked about realtionship or something,totally free.When it became kinda long distance she suddenly changed and started pulling back when i saw her again there was nothing i can feel about her.I think she met another guy in the meantime but there was no problem together and when i was asking her she told me the pathetic “it’s not you it’s me” and i am really lost
just trust the modern-day woman to be who they are. once you understand that, you'll be better off. stay on your purpose, a woman should complement your life, not be the focus.
So, I started a woman 2 weeks after she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. 2 months later, everything was going well until today she told me, that something that I said at our last date turned her off and only wanted to come out for valentine's day as friends and moving forward be only friends. Needless to say I told her "I don't want to be friends and call me if she changes her mind" .... I knew damn well I shouldn't have gotten into a situationship with this girl,but still did. I hope I learned my lesson for the future because even though I did most of it right, she was never foinf to stay 😂😢😅
How can I lead the way as a man? I have already moved into HER house, to HER town. Where I know no one. I feel I’ve set up the whole relationship in a feminine way
That's why one has to leave them eventually due to all that drama, insecurity and damage already done by them and her friends. It's inevitable. Its bound to happened. No one is ready for this. No-one accepts it to..... Drop it.
I've learnt the hard way that showing too interested puts women off. Indifference makes the difference alright but if you can't show you like someone is it worth it?
Show them once they've earned it, and do it gradually over time I'm not an expert on Corey's material but he dors say she should like you a bit more than you like her, so i think that's a good rule of thumb to follow - you can show her you are interested, as long as she is MORE interested
What if she's pissed like few weeks in row and doesn't wanna talk about it (asked many many times) but wants to hang out? (calling and wanting to see me) It's so f.. depressing and weird that i just cant handle it anymore. Should i use "go away and come back when you wanna talk" or just dump her? what would you say/do?
ok so i have a question, and i hope someone might have some objective insight to it. (and yes I know read the damn book 10 to 15 times. I'm on it XD). So I took this girl out for our 2nd date two days ago and we had a nice date. First, we went to minigolf had good laughs there and then we went to have dinner and talked and laughed for like 3 hours. When we left from there and were walking to the car she was walking really close to me so that our shoulders were literally touching all the time, and in the car, I told her that this autumn weather is making my lips real damn dry and these chapsticks don't do shit so I think she should give me a kiss to relieve the dryness which she was happy to do. Then we parted ways and she left home and I haven't heard from her since. Like not a beeb. I sent her a message yesterday telling that I had a great time with her, just cause I felt that way and wanted her to know it but she hasn't even opened the message yet. And I'm confused as hell that what's going on, cause the date went damn well (made her laugh, she got close to me etc...). But I'm starting to doubt myself that did I do something wrong like with the kissing or something cause she usually responds to my messages fairly quickly. Never the least the last message I sent her is the only one I will send cause I won't chase. But yeah that the story, i appreciate any constructive feedback from the community!
Well you fucked up sending her that message where you told her you had a great time, that’s what girls do. Should’ve just waited a week and texted her to set a date, that’s it. It’s also possible and probable that you did some things wrong throughout the date but, had you waited a week to call her, those mistakes would’ve lost some importance. By you calling her what you did was confirm any doubt about you that she had. Maybe it’s not over and she might answer but try meeting other girls and please if she does reply back don’t act all butthurt cause then you definitely won’t get another text from her
Women are never single. Just keep it moving and focus on self improvement. If she reaches out just remember you were plan b and keep it cool. Don't be all butt hurt but remember not to put her on a pedestal. A woman with high attraction would've have already asked to meet up for a second date and seek out your validation. Don't over complicate it. Actions speak louder then words.
@@bikemike1118 Definitely, but maybe she didn't receive the message who knows... her interest isn't going to drop just because you called her once after 2 days. And if she ghosts him, it's probably because she's not interested anymore (for whatever reason)... At that point no amount of waiting it out will really resolve anything. What do you think?
So i dated this girl for 2 months.. introduced me to her friends..let me stay at her place when she was gone. Invited me over 2x week. Then one night after a party she was drunk and said..your my rebound guy!! WTF. Lol.. she raised me up..said im a keeper blah blah blah i know all the good stuff.. then BOOOM ..NOTHING.. oh she was in counseling from last relationship. Soooo??
Whatever a girl says or does to you, just double down on it right back to them. I had a girl friendzone me and I said “you’re right this is much better. Let’s get only friends and get rid of any romantic energy” and now she’s chasing me constantly and begging me take her to dinner. Funny part is. I lost interest and am dating other women now 😂
This guy made two big mistakes. First, he is way to relationship focused, because of a lack of options. Secondly, he should"ve walked away from her, when she tried to change the terms of the relationship. Corey Wayne is great, but AMS, Mindful Attraction, and others of the like, teach men NOT to fixate on ONE woman, and FOCUS on self improvement, so that they have more options. Having options will cure oneitis. Also, preselection, which comes from having options, makes a man more attractive to woman.
i have been through kind of a similar situation, i fucked up the whole thing. chick that was sweet and loving became cold, distant, bitchy. only for my case i didn't know she had been seeing somebody, found out myself. that was all before i landed on your material, it happened last year. thanks. didnt know the formula; hang out, have fun, hook up.
I think it also has to do with the "girl's weekend" with friends. Women get in each other's heads, and every woman is interested in the dynamics of their peers' relationships. They all offer their input and that contributes to change. Misery loves company. "You don't need that", "You don't need him", "you're better than that"... case in point.
hence why women hate each other
Read the book 10 to 15 times.
This is part of the reason why the divorce rate is so high and will only get higher in the coming decade and beyond. They destroy each other’s happiness because as you said, misery loves company.
Kind of true
This happened to my ex. Her friends were young and wanted to party, she changing who she was just to be around her younger friends
"A woman's heart changes like
the Autumn sky..." -- Japanese proverb
Facts
If a girl flirts with you and breaks up with her boyfriend right away for you. What makes you think she isn’t going to do that to you? Sounds like bad character to get involved with IMO. Don’t take these silly girls so seriously.
I was in the same situation. A red flag you should never ignore as I learned
@@petronipov morals and values are the foundation of the earth. It’s the grounding of it that gets overlooked.
Take some time in the sheets then kick to the streets
Modern women usually have a hard time learning from their mistakes so often that it eventually turns into decisions. This is why many of them keep "guy hopping" because they think the problem isnt them, but the guy. Reality is, its their fault 90% of the time.
But it worked in Titanic 😂😂😂
Her :"i cheated on you because you never gave me attention "
An hour later the same girl.
Her :" why are you giving me all this attention, you are coming across as needy, clingy and insecure"
Truly women DONT know what they want.
Point is don't go from 0-100 right away and expect it to work. Real change is slow, incremental and takes time.
And no, nothing justifies being in a relationship with cheaters. In general they are extraordinary at lying too.
Corey Wayne says women don’t understand their own love mechanisms
There would be no hour later after the “I cheated on you…”
The mountain stands tall and firm, no matter the storms that form around it. Be her mountain.
Facts.
Great point.
You should be the mountain not for her because it's in your nature to do it for ones self.
“Be The Mountain” is literally a sticky note 📝 on my wall. A constant reminder
Be the mountain for yourself first and then you will be the mountain for her as a by-product of that
I love this guy! I love the fact he actually says how things are without a filter! It's what the world needs right now!
No
No
@@colinesquire2480 yes
@@Ken-wf8fo yes
Amen to that! Corey is fantastic. His EQ is so well developed that he can say things that most people wouldn’t stand a chance of getting away with - all while having people listen and respond to his message receptively, because they know it’s coming from a position of wanting to help improve lives. Sometimes tough love is what’s needed to make change for the better.
Standing your ground no matter what.
"I need time to find myself". It's hard to lose yourself, you're attached to your body
Come on man, she broke up with her boyfriend to be with you. That's a huge red flag. When her attraction is low she will do the same to you.
Hello do you need a help
@@aishausman8930 looks like you do learning English.
Her: “I need to find myself”
Me: “Back to the streets you go” ✌🏾
🤣
And In the Streets She'll Remain
So... you couldn't find any woman not on the streets who wanted to date you? You must not have much to offer.
@@ShieldandBucklerMusic 💯😂😂
@@lorrainelamour7224 Were talking about women who play ridiculous games with men. Yes, they're for the streets
When she says she wants to find herself, she’s trying to let you know she wants to ef other men. Corey won’t say it... he’s always looking at the bright side of things. But boys, mark my words.
Exactly sometimes Corey does say tho, this one seems like she wants to explore her options more likely because this guy is too focus on the relationship, she might even be considering the ex. Too fresh of a relationship. The guy didn't handle it properly from the beginning allowing her to be single but exclusive wth 🤔 lol. She really likes him but he's smothering her.
She’s for the streets better said lol
Seems like she just wanted to hookup and hangout but didn't say it directly, but her actions suggested that. She possibly wanted to make sure he wasn't doing that with anyone but her.
Great hypothesis.
Corey actually got very funny😂
A lot more entertaining and enjoyable to watch.
Love your work man.
Mr. Wayne. You are the goat. I know I am going to meet you someday when I go down to Florida. What you focus on tends to expand.
Dude you are saving me right now. Earlier today I didn’t succumb to meeting this girl half way between our cities, because initially she was supposed to come to mine this weekend. I responded after about a day, playing it calm and cool and saying it’s fine I’ll see you another time. She BLEW UPPP. She sent 8 consecutive texts and I haven’t responded. She immediately responded saying “I was just thinking of you”. Then her following texts seemed were calm as well with some slight bitterness. Then she said “we should probably just do ahead and cancel Halloween then”. Then she said “yeah I’m just going to go ahead and call it”. Then she said, and here’s the kicker “it’s ironic because I was actually just about to give in and come visit you anyway and was about to text you when you texted me” ok -- THEN WHY DIDNT SHE RESPOND WITH THAT INITIALLY!? I know that was not true and she is testing. Then she said “alas, it’s been fun” and lastly she said “let me know your address so I can send you your book back” LOL she is a ticking time bomb! All of that within the span of 32 minutes. I’ve been walking around listening to your book (again) all evening, trying to harvest some more wisdom - and it’s been keeping me level. THANK YOU. Do you have any advice for me?? I am thinking of just never responding… I mean, she sabotaged the whole thing in a convo with herself. Feels like I’m dodging a bullet.
Good call, if she is like this in the messages, how she will act on the date?
@@alisherakhmetov628 well we have been dating for over 2 months. But she moved away from the city where we had met. This was the first time we were supposed to hang out since she moved last month. But she sabotaged everything
@@Micoolaw avoid her, 100
@@Zoleeyiskickingass hahaha this was my decision, and I’m grateful for it. Did I mention she was a self proclaimed witch? 🤣
@@Micoolaw hahahhaha
“The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water” - Sophocles
Never a truer word was said.
I have doubts about the authenticity of this quote, but is truer than the sky being blue.
@@OrangePony75 google is your friend
I swear the right topics pop up right when I need them. You the goat Corey.💪🙏
This thing is always a part of your life if you have a girl in it :))
Thank you for what you do. All it takes is one of your videos to help snap me back into my center.
Thank you Corey for your hard work and dedication towards your craft, it has made a tremendous positive impact not only for myself but for many others. The healthy masculine men in the world owe you a debt of gratitude for your contributions to the world.
Thank you for your generous comment. Your contributions to the staff at Coach Wayne has made a tremendous impact.
This is where your advice is so good. The walk away quickly aka fast to fire slow to hire on women. I recently had a 9/9.5 say she wanted to be able to see other people but didn’t want me to 🤔. I said sure, go for it baby.. and I will do the same. She then proceeded to try to lock me down
Sorry but there’s a fine line between taking someone’s shitty fickle disrespectful behaviour & being unreactive. And her ending things confirms it alone. She’s fickle. soon as you get people like that you should leave for real…I need to find myself? Please. Way she acted says everything…she’s not into you she’s an opportunist
All I hear is facts 📠
I needed to hear this. Thank you Coach
I’ve just experienced this. I don’t know why women choose to do this when they have a boyfriend. Very frustrating
Meanwhile I’ve been dealing with an ongoing saga. Had dinner about a month ago (first time one on one since last nov) when I tried to line something up again, she informed me she had to be out of town for training for work. Then suggested an event about a month out (a friend had already invited me but I didn’t say anything). Then last week I found out it wasn’t going to work because it lands on her family day (expected when I found out it landed on a Sunday - family day is a thing for her) when I asked what we had for an alternate thought, she was quiet for a couple of days, she finally said we wouldn’t be spending any more time together one on one as she had started dating someone and was intending to devote her limited time to prioritizing that but that she looked forward to catching up at social gatherings. I didn’t bother responding. Didn’t see a need to. Her message came across as not wanting to hear from me.
First off, yeah, I need to work on following the book better. Second, I’ll probably lay low from functions for a bit. Third, I suspect I haven’t heard the end of her, yet again
@@redf113 holy crap. About died at defrost the freezer or vacuum the apt 🤣
Great content from a great life coach. Best dating advice. I have had success with girl of my dreams for 3 years now after reading the book and constantly brushing up with these videos. Thanks Corey Wayne!
If a girl said that to me I’ll be like ok. I’ll tell my friends that too but behind the scenes I’ll be dating other girls until she decides to make it official to everyone. She’ll slowly start to feel the energy that I have options which I do in fact & she’ll come running back to make it official to everyone. This girl is playing games. She wants to have her cake & eat it too, it’s clear. & this dude is catching feelings way too quick.
I would just tell her playfully that I will do it when she does
I don't know how one dude can stay so calm all the time and joke around whenever a women is testing you. With all the stress in the world, and there's days where you feel like shit can't tolerate nonsense forma woman. Cant be perfect all the time.
True. It’s so overwhelming sometimes, especially when the tests are the “I’m ending it” type
@@Micoolaw Ive had that happen and failed the test big time.
@@AD-cm5so yeah I got that test yesterday 🥲 the last thing she has said, she asked for my address to send my book back (she just moved 4 hours away, and was supposed to come here this weekend then changed it to meeting half way, I stood my ground that she can come here since that’s what we planned and I wouldn’t meet her half way. Then she exploded.) I have not responded back
@@Micoolaw Good man, these women these days have no respect for men. Women have so many guys trying to get laid and tolerate women to treat them like trash. Women than think all men will put up with that behavior.
@@Micoolaw did you get her?
This same situation happened to me last year. It went on for months I got tired of all the BS. But I was also not centered so it is what it is.
The real gold is always in the comment section for these types of videos.
I probably watch this video more than any other video he has out. I constantly have to remind myself about this topic.
Great video coach! This video had me saying “cmon man” 😂
These videos always make me feel calm lol
Corey Wayne is the man but one thing it has made me realise how dramatic and complicated they can be and come to the decision to stay single life is to short to put all your energy into a woman Corey has taught me to enjoy life and carry on no matter alone or in a relationship be happy with yourself first before you commit yolo
This girl I've been seeing (and hooking up with ofc) all of a sudden "forgot" a date last week, 2 days after setting the actual date.... Haven't spoken to her since... Come on man...
Hang in there man, you should hold her accountable for it, if she contacts you, if it's the first time, you can brush it off like it didn't matter but if it happens again she's definitely testing you to see how you would react. 1st time react cool like it's no big deal and reschedule if it happens again, hold her accountable and let her do everything.
Chill. Dont do shit, no contact. In the meantime go meet other women.
Thanks guys, will do! And visit the book again!
I wouldn’t call her out on it… act like it never happened. If she asks, tell her you went and hung out with “someone” else. Be vague.
Great advice gents. Let women know they’re not the only one, you just like them a little bit more.
How do you not “catch feelings” :/ I wish I could be like that
You have to always be looking at shit from a third persons perspective . Also having bad experiences with women in the past that will keep you alert is also a plus . Just comes with time man . After being with enough women you start to realize they are all very similar and none are really special .
I just get rid of them once they act that way lol not dealing with that life is to sort to complicate it further
Haha, that guy... When a woman says "no kiss" or "no sex" means she definitely wants that. Or she would not even mention it at all.
@@blair5475 yup. Emotional support, tampon, whatever you wanna call it lol.
@@blair5475 if you don't understand it means "fuck me tonight", then maybe you're the beta male?
Loving the daily uploads. I be looking forward to it every morning. Thank you coach for your commitment.
Coach Corey saved my life
Amazing timing as always, Coach
It's happened to me. Damn it. I didn't wanna sleep with her if she was sleeping with someone else. Told myself if im not her number 1 then the zero gets zero. That's 100. But I was her number 1 until I started simping and catching feelings! 😕😖🤐
And I been following you since 2016! Read the book ten to 15 times. But haven't in almost 2 years
You realize you're a human being who HAS feelings, don't you? To be involved with someone and have no feelings is impossible, and inhuman. You care about a woman you're dating and you should. Having this bravado idea that you're made of teflon and heartless is wrong - you see that right? Don't you realize the men who have successful, long-lasting relationships with women are fully functional humans whose feelings, thoughts and actions are integrated, and who are able to communicate with that woman as a realistic adult?
Sounds like this guy's teachings are way off for you. Do you really see yourself at age 68 acting this way? Most men that age aren't looked at twice and have little chance of a woman being interested in and committed to him. So at some point between now and age 68 you're wise to change your approach, accept your feelings, and realize they're normal and one part of being a healthy human being.
@@lorrainelamour7224 In interacting with the "modern woman" mindset catching feelings is a curse. I've heard some of the same things a 25 yo would say said by a 53 yo woman, when it comes to feelings. So the agenda and mindset is spread across them.
unfortunatly women listen to their jelous toxic friends who's only objective is to keep them single like they are.
I've read most of your book and have had coaching to learn to deal with women who are difficult when they're out of sorts. I guess my confusion is whether to continue developing the "skills" to deal with them or or just try to find a woman who doesn't act like this. What happens if, when she says, "I want to be single and exclusive.", you just say, "Sorry, it doesn't work. You can try that but not with me."
ALWAYS BE THE MOUNTAIN. SHE MUST BE THE WEATHER.
Jumping the gun with emotions....just seems to cause most early problems. Guard against!
Thanks coach , i’ve been seeing a girl who had problems in her past relationships,so i took things very slowly and i’ve never talked about realtionship or something,totally free.When it became kinda long distance she suddenly changed and started pulling back when i saw her again there was nothing i can feel about her.I think she met another guy in the meantime but there was no problem together and when i was asking her she told me the pathetic “it’s not you it’s me” and i am really lost
Cut contact and move on. You’ll probably hear from her down the road.
@@divyansh6574 thank you for your reply.No way i am not letting down the coach
@@gtcam723 i will man thank you
“She’s ready for the hot beef injection”
-Corey Wayne
just trust the modern-day woman to be who they are. once you understand that, you'll be better off. stay on your purpose, a woman should complement your life, not be the focus.
Ohhhh my god yes, keep up the savagery. I’m taking notes on these phrases 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great episode! Couldnt me more accurate and true! Dont give 2 shits and they will flock to you.
Omg just the title is life changing
Great video as usual Corey👍
So, I started a woman 2 weeks after she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. 2 months later, everything was going well until today she told me, that something that I said at our last date turned her off and only wanted to come out for valentine's day as friends and moving forward be only friends. Needless to say I told her "I don't want to be friends and call me if she changes her mind" .... I knew damn well I shouldn't have gotten into a situationship with this girl,but still did. I hope I learned my lesson for the future because even though I did most of it right, she was never foinf to stay 😂😢😅
Great video!! Love your color commentary. Taking notes. 😁🤣
Thanks coach.. from the heart.
"It's okay, babe. Read a self-help book over the weekend and call me on Monday", lol.
Thank you Corey!
Golden.
How can I lead the way as a man? I have already moved into HER house, to HER town. Where I know no one. I feel I’ve set up the whole relationship in a feminine way
find your purpose and be willing to walk away
Rip
You’re the woman in the relationship
Moving in with a woman is already a no-no, moving into her appartement is one of the worst thing u can do
That biggest mistake I had I fall into her emotional and rush me into a relationship smh
Corey, you are fucking hilarious! and I love your books!
Hi,we've been trying to reach you regarding your extended car insurance coverage
The redpill community has a lot of truths but I feel like Corey’s approach is the best.
The red pill community is a bit suspect. Something seems a little sideways with a lot of those guys
"You're going to be walking like a duck for the next week". Oh I am stealing that line.
That's why one has to leave them eventually due to all that drama, insecurity and damage already done by them and her friends. It's inevitable. Its bound to happened. No one is ready for this. No-one accepts it to..... Drop it.
Love you man!
I've learnt the hard way that showing too interested puts women off. Indifference makes the difference alright but if you can't show you like someone is it worth it?
Show them once they've earned it, and do it gradually over time
I'm not an expert on Corey's material but he dors say she should like you a bit more than you like her, so i think that's a good rule of thumb to follow - you can show her you are interested, as long as she is MORE interested
What if she's pissed like few weeks in row and doesn't wanna talk about it (asked many many times) but wants to hang out? (calling and wanting to see me)
It's so f.. depressing and weird that i just cant handle it anymore. Should i use "go away and come back when you wanna talk" or just dump her? what would you say/do?
Have some self-respect and drop the b1tch
@@HiddenHandMedia Hanging out is depressing, every word is "ok". You seriously think i should hang out with that?
Corey thank you
ok so i have a question, and i hope someone might have some objective insight to it. (and yes I know read the damn book 10 to 15 times. I'm on it XD). So I took this girl out for our 2nd date two days ago and we had a nice date. First, we went to minigolf had good laughs there and then we went to have dinner and talked and laughed for like 3 hours. When we left from there and were walking to the car she was walking really close to me so that our shoulders were literally touching all the time, and in the car, I told her that this autumn weather is making my lips real damn dry and these chapsticks don't do shit so I think she should give me a kiss to relieve the dryness which she was happy to do. Then we parted ways and she left home and I haven't heard from her since. Like not a beeb.
I sent her a message yesterday telling that I had a great time with her, just cause I felt that way and wanted her to know it but she hasn't even opened the message yet. And I'm confused as hell that what's going on, cause the date went damn well (made her laugh, she got close to me etc...). But I'm starting to doubt myself that did I do something wrong like with the kissing or something cause she usually responds to my messages fairly quickly. Never the least the last message I sent her is the only one I will send cause I won't chase. But yeah that the story, i appreciate any constructive feedback from the community!
Try to call her and see if she answers... If she does, make a date and watch her response
Well you fucked up sending her that message where you told her you had a great time, that’s what girls do. Should’ve just waited a week and texted her to set a date, that’s it. It’s also possible and probable that you did some things wrong throughout the date but, had you waited a week to call her, those mistakes would’ve lost some importance. By you calling her what you did was confirm any doubt about you that she had.
Maybe it’s not over and she might answer but try meeting other girls and please if she does reply back don’t act all butthurt cause then you definitely won’t get another text from her
Women are never single. Just keep it moving and focus on self improvement. If she reaches out just remember you were plan b and keep it cool. Don't be all butt hurt but remember not to put her on a pedestal. A woman with high attraction would've have already asked to meet up for a second date and seek out your validation. Don't over complicate it. Actions speak louder then words.
@@bikemike1118 Definitely, but maybe she didn't receive the message who knows... her interest isn't going to drop just because you called her once after 2 days. And if she ghosts him, it's probably because she's not interested anymore (for whatever reason)... At that point no amount of waiting it out will really resolve anything. What do you think?
I think it was the chopstick speech that you made...a bit creepy. and you sort of made her kiss you. This kind of move should come from her, not you
" time to find herself?" Does she have a self? What is the self anyway?
"I have a quote that I wrote" nice rhyming.
Let me tell you Something,,,,you can't live with them and you can't live without them.......
How do I get 3% man Audio book I have the electronic one on kindle but I prefer listening rather than reading
Corey Wayne, the guy that never gets old….
Your funny Cory. Thank you.
Lol at Raging Bull impersonation
05:39 claasic CCW moment 😂
“Read a self help book and call me on Monday” I’m gone
Bitches be Crazy!!! ....".old Gangster proverb!"
So i dated this girl for 2 months.. introduced me to her friends..let me stay at her place when she was gone. Invited me over 2x week. Then one night after a party she was drunk and said..your my rebound guy!! WTF. Lol.. she raised me up..said im a keeper blah blah blah i know all the good stuff.. then BOOOM ..NOTHING.. oh she was in counseling from last relationship. Soooo??
Sounds like she has attraction to the previous guy still dialled up.
Whatever a girl says or does to you, just double down on it right back to them.
I had a girl friendzone me and I said “you’re right this is much better. Let’s get only friends and get rid of any romantic energy” and now she’s chasing me constantly and begging me take her to dinner.
Funny part is. I lost interest and am dating other women now 😂
This guy made two big mistakes. First, he is way to relationship focused, because of a lack of options. Secondly, he should"ve walked away from her, when she tried to change the terms of the relationship. Corey Wayne is great, but AMS, Mindful Attraction, and others of the like, teach men NOT to fixate on ONE woman, and FOCUS on self improvement, so that they have more options. Having options will cure oneitis. Also, preselection, which comes from having options, makes a man more attractive to woman.
First she seen a guy when she was out she liked.
i have been through kind of a similar situation, i fucked up the whole thing. chick that was sweet and loving became cold, distant, bitchy. only for my case i didn't know she had been seeing somebody, found out myself. that was all before i landed on your material, it happened last year. thanks. didnt know the formula; hang out, have fun, hook up.
Have a boyfriend and flirting with him. Bad woman 👩. She heard you well coach "hook up and have fun".
Good morning Coach 👍👍
Not once have I had a woman share her emotions, she usually says nothing. The only time they talk is in divorce court.
9:52 DEAD !!!
Good mornin!
I have strong feelings of orangutants here, hang out have fun hook up, but the principles are good:-)
Sounds like her friends were also trying to sabotage the relationship.
Coach is so cheesy 😂😂 but the advice is on point 🎯
Where do these chicks come up with these terminology, exclusive but single?
9:40
"Other girlfrands"
Left on RED not Reed
You’re the freakin man coach
This one is funny, please repeat 🤣
😝 Good ☝️
How can I apply this to my long distance ex that came back
Ignore her, let her chase you...
I find that women's words don't mean shit. Many time there words and actions don't match.