The more she messes around, the more energy he invests in her. How do so many men have it so backwards? Don't reward disrespectful behavior with more attention. And for the love of god, end this relationship. You think a healthy dynamic is salvageable after this mess? Take the lessons, move forward, and apply them with a higher quality woman.
I agree with Coach. This chick has to be sent to the streets. I had an ex-wife (long ago now) and a recent ex-girlfriend text other men. They had thought grass was greener and the excitement it brought. They had checked out. I know it’s difficult for the dude in the email but his chick needs to go. Otherwise her behaviour will mess with his head and cause him so much stress. Send her to the streets mate and find someone who’s into you and who is loyal and trustworthy
She was the same person all along regardless of how he treated her, she just defaulted to who she really was. Walk away and keep her on rotation she’s not wife material.
The quickest way to get her attention is stop giving her yours. The biggest problem is they live together. I suggest this guy hop on a couple dating apps and let her know it (don’t hide it). Tell her, “you’re communicating with a bunch of male orbiters so decided it’s tome for me to get back on the saddle”. She will start trying to win you over because you know the material and those other guys don’t know shit. STOP trying to fix it and pleasing her. Hang out, have fun and hook up here and there. Don’t talk about relationship labels. Let her come to you. You just keep focusing on yourself. If you don’t work out get to the gym 3 days a week for 45 minutes each session (you can make time for that) and lift hard and focused. She’s not gone for good, do as I say and you’ll win. Don’t text her much, let her text you and give her short direct replies. The next point, this sexting crap would make me be done. She’s low value and character by doing this. So you may not want to reconsider your desire to win her over. Do as I said above and you’ll have options and one of them will be her. I’m not big on dating apps as I prefer to meet the ladies in everyday life..pumping gas, grocery store, a self improvement class (attend a few yoga sessions, you’ll see), meditation group, hiking Meet Up, just start talking to women everywhere you are. Stop trying to convince her, you sound like a weak beta male. She’s for the streets but you can move along while enjoying her here and there.
Women are emotional. Telling her will illicit a bad reaction. Better for him to just do it and not say anything, however still being transparent if she asks.
"Should I stay or should I go? If I stay there might be trouble, if I go there might be double. So darling you have got to let me know, should I stay or should I go?"
This guy will be with this girl as long as she'll have him. He's DEFINITELY not going to enforce any boundaries. It'll be the same with the next girl, and the next girl.
I've had multiple girlfriends and I have a hard time when women create drama and get demanding. I'm not one of those morons who hates on women, but gfs get to be too much of a pain after a while
Navigating situations like this was something I struggled with in the past but since reading the book 10+ times and the videos , the breakdowns and narration are so important for truthful analysis , thank you for all that you do.
Been together for 3 years. The last few months i needed to focus on myself and my career, asked her to be patient and asked for a bit of space. Yes, i admit i didn't pamper her too much, but the companionship and friendship were stronger than ever. Well, for her it wasn't the same, she didn't give a shit about companionship and having a strong bond...she needed attention. So, what she did? She downloaded dating apps beyond my back, found a dude with whom she had compatibility with, met with him a couple of times and then broke up with me. Now she's lovebombing and idealizing him as she did with me when we met...she's bound to repeat the cycle. As soon as the honeymoon phase is gone and the dude starts to focus on himself again, she will monkeybranch to another man. She indeed belongs to the streets.
That’s so true I was in a relationship and me and my girlfriend had a disagreement and she left accusing me of being controlling when I was just trying to set boundaries that will kill your trust in a person and when your trust is gone don’t go back take the time to heal first so you can make the proper judgement
My ex and I had a long distance relationship near the end because she just couldn’t find a stable place to live and went from being 15 minutes away to an hour away to live with her friend. Their friendship began to deteriorate and she had to stay in a shelter that I couldn’t visit her at (Covid times) and then moved in with her Aunt. This long distance and lack of seeing each other as often killed things for me. She ended the relationship (though it was sort of mutual) saying she needs to focus on herself and her kids and getting a place of her own and didn’t want me waiting around for her to figure it all out and that I deserve to do what I want and need. So I started seeing another Woman briefly two weeks later and she got mad at me claiming she thought it was too soon and that I obviously never cared all that much about her (which was a lie). Caught her on Tinder not long after and in her bio it said she was hoping to find a guy she briefly met somewhere. So I confronted her and she said that this dude bought her drinks and she thought about getting his number but didn’t cause she didn’t want to do it out of spite against me (yeah I don’t know about that) and then things between us further devolved into arguing and we stopped talking. Now, one year after the break up I find out that her reasonings for breaking up were true, however clearly not entirely as she has a new “boyfriend or whatever” and her life hasn’t improved really at all (lives with her Mom an hour and a half away) so clearly this wasn’t all about getting a place of her own and focusing on herself and the kids. After finding this out, (I reached out from time to time cause I still cared about her and the kids and just wanted to check in) I essentially told her “thank you for making it clear where we stand and that your reasoning for ending our relationship was mostly a lie”. She got all angry and defensive saying she doesn’t owe me an explanation or anything and that it’s my fault cause I couldn’t move her into my place (I tried many times but I share a house and it wasn’t solely up to me) and that I “didn’t try hard enough”. I tried for weeks to get her to give us another chance, tried many times to reason with the people I share my place with to let her and the kids move in and tried to get her to not to give up just because life is complicated right now to no avail, all go find out she has a new guy in her life a year later and that she either lied about the reason for the break up or is only trying to blame me as a means of projection and avoiding responsibility. All of which I told her she was doing as well as alluding to the fact that she “belongs to the streets”. Glad I can move forward knowing I did all I could and now that she is with another dude, I have absolutely zero desire to be with her again and have no respect for her.
Don't know how old you are but don't be too hard on yourself or her. You guys just need more life experience. We all look back on these times with regret. Guess it's part of the learning process...
Also divorce. a few months i had a friendly divorced and she’s getting worse and worse when it comes to me spending time with my kids. So far everything is good but im preparing myself to lawyer up and take her to court
Sounds like my ex Corey I started u book 33 perc awesome....oh and I left her.... And she continued to lie in a long-distance relationship keep me blocked on social media and almost tricked me into moving closer to her she's been blocked for three and a half months and I haven't seen her in 8 months almost. I was devastated but I'm getting better.
How could she trust his masculine core because by the way he enables her ratchet behavior, he doesn't have one at this moment. He shouldn't be looking to turn the relationship around. He needs to drop her ASAP & turn himself around
Another awesome video: Unknowingly I have acted & lived a Red Pilled life, but I screwed up the good by acting stupid "Blue Pilled" & mistakenly fully trusting my wife & thinking I needed her to be happy. The truth was I was far happier without her, I had way more sex & friends before bringing her into my life full time.
Great video! Little constructive criticism Corey: your videos look too dark with the gray backdrop! The other background was more upbeat& personal! It takes away from the message! Just my opinion.
I was clean and sober(3 years) and I had a slip(short relapse) that lasted a weekend. My girlfriend at the time called me a fucking loser and ignored me for 2 weeks. Now we're talking again and i'm back on my sobriety path.... Honestly I don't know if she's really the right woman for me. But she's allowed to not be happy with what I did right...
25:22 “we can be friends with benefits, we can be sex playmates, and oh by the way you need to move out of my house, but ….” The way you do casually say that cracks me up 😂
She’s not right for what she did but he absolutely did not live up to his obligation as a partner. I’d have sympathy if he was doing things right but we need to learn too. Having said that - they have up split. Respect and trust are gone.
Things got tough when the wife spent $300,000 we couldn't afford. Her response to my displeasure was to jump in bed with a coworker. Turns out she did the same thing to her 1st husband.
I gotta disagree with u on the part of her wanting to be "called out". Fellas, they expect u to just know as a man, but they have to be told not to do what they know they shouldnt do. Not a good assessment imo
This guy is hard on himself. Seems like she would just rather let him dump her... But she doesn't want to be with him. I'm not sure he could have kept her by being better.
Any man or woman that cheats in a marriage or in a committed relationship. Is a selfish person with no integrity. If your going to hook up with someone you have to end the marriage or the relationship.
OKI hear this all the time and almost every video did not make her feel heard did not pick make her feel Make her feel hurt and understood how do you do that how do you properly court your wife this is a big queshit what do you do Or court your girlfriend how do you do that what does that mean
Isn't it funny how this happens...all the time...🤔...how many men have this exact situation happen...over and over again...i know you trash the RP constantly...but i see right through you dude...i mean you have a product to sell 😏...10-15 times right 😏...but all the same... you're helping men who need it...the game is to be sold not told... i got you 👌
He says read the book 15 times, because if you only read it once or twice, you will forget it the next day. Sometimes human have memory like gold fish. But the point of studying is to remember the information
Dumbo , he is not saying to buy the book for 15 times .. the book is for free you just need to read it for 15 times. So there are actually dumbos like you in this world...
There’s nothing to see through dude. If you can’t see an authentic person that has helped thousands with excellent content and experience, then keep being spoon fed the RP crap and being frustrated
Women that monkey branch, being affectionate to another man while being in a r/s are low-value women, they arent loyal. Just move on and remember to date and court your woman properly even being in a r/s don't be complacent.
this sounds so obvious but when you’re in it your emotions clouds your logic
The more she messes around, the more energy he invests in her. How do so many men have it so backwards? Don't reward disrespectful behavior with more attention. And for the love of god, end this relationship. You think a healthy dynamic is salvageable after this mess? Take the lessons, move forward, and apply them with a higher quality woman.
In the USA there is an epidemic of weak men. Example: There are 1000 Simps for every married woman that wants to cheat on her husband.
Expecting someone to change so you can be happy is an unrealistic expectation.
I agree with Coach. This chick has to be sent to the streets. I had an ex-wife (long ago now) and a recent ex-girlfriend text other men. They had thought grass was greener and the excitement it brought. They had checked out. I know it’s difficult for the dude in the email but his chick needs to go. Otherwise her behaviour will mess with his head and cause him so much stress. Send her to the streets mate and find someone who’s into you and who is loyal and trustworthy
Everyone slips up even me. Spoken like a true g
She was the same person all along regardless of how he treated her, she just defaulted to who she really was. Walk away and keep her on rotation she’s not wife material.
If roles are reversed does it matter because im a man
@@elijahdizzle1 man or woman don’t matter shit people are shit people
I wouldn’t even bother keeping her on rotation
Typical strategy of the cock carousel….
Very true!
The quickest way to get her attention is stop giving her yours. The biggest problem is they live together. I suggest this guy hop on a couple dating apps and let her know it (don’t hide it). Tell her, “you’re communicating with a bunch of male orbiters so decided it’s tome for me to get back on the saddle”. She will start trying to win you over because you know the material and those other guys don’t know shit. STOP trying to fix it and pleasing her. Hang out, have fun and hook up here and there. Don’t talk about relationship labels. Let her come to you. You just keep focusing on yourself. If you don’t work out get to the gym 3 days a week for 45 minutes each session (you can make time for that) and lift hard and focused. She’s not gone for good, do as I say and you’ll win. Don’t text her much, let her text you and give her short direct replies.
The next point, this sexting crap would make me be done. She’s low value and character by doing this. So you may not want to reconsider your desire to win her over. Do as I said above and you’ll have options and one of them will be her. I’m not big on dating apps as I prefer to meet the ladies in everyday life..pumping gas, grocery store, a self improvement class (attend a few yoga sessions, you’ll see), meditation group, hiking Meet Up, just start talking to women everywhere you are. Stop trying to convince her, you sound like a weak beta male. She’s for the streets but you can move along while enjoying her here and there.
Women are emotional. Telling her will illicit a bad reaction. Better for him to just do it and not say anything, however still being transparent if she asks.
Sounds like you've read the book a few times, hell yeah
🤣 can't believe this comment where someone is telling men to sleep with more than one woman! Fkn NASTY!
"Should I stay or should I go? If I stay there might be trouble, if I go there might be double. So darling you have got to let me know, should I stay or should I go?"
This guy will be with this girl as long as she'll have him. He's DEFINITELY not going to enforce any boundaries. It'll be the same with the next girl, and the next girl.
I've had multiple girlfriends and I have a hard time when women create drama and get demanding. I'm not one of those morons who hates on women, but gfs get to be too much of a pain after a while
like coach said, people tend to hide their true selfs in the first 3 months
Amen to that shit. If she’s making a tough part of a relationship even tougher, walk away and don’t look back.
I’ve found. If you say “ok, cool” after she breaks up with you, it will totally shift the polarity of things. Haha
Thank you for all your content Corey. You're the man.
“She started sexting another guy”.
I don’t see why the video hasn’t just ended there.
Men have zero self respect.
its amazing.
absolute simps
true though, this man right here must have a great Altruism to put up with that shit
yes I've just made the same point. Why would you even want to attract her back ?
Fuckin A kick her to the streets, it's where she belongs...
What's up coach corey nice to see you killing it out here!
Navigating situations like this was something I struggled with in the past but since reading the book 10+ times and the videos , the breakdowns and narration are so important for truthful analysis , thank you for all that you do.
Been together for 3 years. The last few months i needed to focus on myself and my career, asked her to be patient and asked for a bit of space. Yes, i admit i didn't pamper her too much, but the companionship and friendship were stronger than ever.
Well, for her it wasn't the same, she didn't give a shit about companionship and having a strong bond...she needed attention.
So, what she did? She downloaded dating apps beyond my back, found a dude with whom she had compatibility with, met with him a couple of times and then broke up with me.
Now she's lovebombing and idealizing him as she did with me when we met...she's bound to repeat the cycle. As soon as the honeymoon phase is gone and the dude starts to focus on himself again, she will monkeybranch to another man.
She indeed belongs to the streets.
Did ye see eachother everyday during them 3 years
Same here. Kids marry baby ilysm!!! Month later branched off.
Sound like Borderline
to me a good woman will sleep it off and work things out when there's a disagreement not leave or line up a replacement
That’s so true I was in a relationship and me and my girlfriend had a disagreement and she left accusing me of being controlling when I was just trying to set boundaries that will kill your trust in a person and when your trust is gone don’t go back take the time to heal first so you can make the proper judgement
Good stuff Corey, very raw, but needed
My ex and I had a long distance relationship near the end because she just couldn’t find a stable place to live and went from being 15 minutes away to an hour away to live with her friend.
Their friendship began to deteriorate and she had to stay in a shelter that I couldn’t visit her at (Covid times) and then moved in with her Aunt.
This long distance and lack of seeing each other as often killed things for me. She ended the relationship (though it was sort of mutual) saying she needs to focus on herself and her kids and getting a place of her own and didn’t want me waiting around for her to figure it all out and that I deserve to do what I want and need.
So I started seeing another Woman briefly two weeks later and she got mad at me claiming she thought it was too soon and that I obviously never cared all that much about her (which was a lie).
Caught her on Tinder not long after and in her bio it said she was hoping to find a guy she briefly met somewhere. So I confronted her and she said that this dude bought her drinks and she thought about getting his number but didn’t cause she didn’t want to do it out of spite against me (yeah I don’t know about that) and then things between us further devolved into arguing and we stopped talking.
Now, one year after the break up I find out that her reasonings for breaking up were true, however clearly not entirely as she has a new “boyfriend or whatever” and her life hasn’t improved really at all (lives with her Mom an hour and a half away) so clearly this wasn’t all about getting a place of her own and focusing on herself and the kids.
After finding this out, (I reached out from time to time cause I still cared about her and the kids and just wanted to check in) I essentially told her “thank you for making it clear where we stand and that your reasoning for ending our relationship was mostly a lie”. She got all angry and defensive saying she doesn’t owe me an explanation or anything and that it’s my fault cause I couldn’t move her into my place (I tried many times but I share a house and it wasn’t solely up to me) and that I “didn’t try hard enough”.
I tried for weeks to get her to give us another chance, tried many times to reason with the people I share my place with to let her and the kids move in and tried to get her to not to give up just because life is complicated right now to no avail, all go find out she has a new guy in her life a year later and that she either lied about the reason for the break up or is only trying to blame me as a means of projection and avoiding responsibility. All of which I told her she was doing as well as alluding to the fact that she “belongs to the streets”.
Glad I can move forward knowing I did all I could and now that she is with another dude, I have absolutely zero desire to be with her again and have no respect for her.
Don't know how old you are but don't be too hard on yourself or her. You guys just need more life experience. We all look back on these times with regret. Guess it's part of the learning process...
Also divorce. a few months i had a friendly divorced and she’s getting worse and worse when it comes to me spending time with my kids. So far everything is good but im preparing myself to lawyer up and take her to court
Girl broke up with me two days after I got surgery, now has a work crush. Hella common. Not worth doing it again. Shitty situation.
If it’s just a girlfriend and no kids definitely get out without a second thought or demote her to plate.
Thanks coach
Great as usual from Corey
Sounds like my ex Corey I started u book 33 perc awesome....oh and I left her.... And she continued to lie in a long-distance relationship keep me blocked on social media and almost tricked me into moving closer to her she's been blocked for three and a half months and I haven't seen her in 8 months almost. I was devastated but I'm getting better.
"She belongs to the streets..."
My advice, move on dude. Once she goes that direction she has shown she can’t be loyal.
Take it from someone who wasted 5 years with a girl that that!
How could she trust his masculine core because by the way he enables her ratchet behavior, he doesn't have one at this moment.
He shouldn't be looking to turn the relationship around. He needs to drop her ASAP & turn himself around
Funny how they always try to jump ship with the quickness..
Another awesome video: Unknowingly I have acted & lived a Red Pilled life, but I screwed up the good by acting stupid "Blue Pilled" & mistakenly fully trusting my wife & thinking I needed her to be happy. The truth was I was far happier without her, I had way more sex & friends before bringing her into my life full time.
Good morning Coach👍👍
Great video! Little constructive criticism Corey: your videos look too dark with the gray backdrop! The other background was more upbeat& personal! It takes away from the message! Just my opinion.
"Like a Chump, HEYYYYYY, Like a Chump!!!" - limp bizkit
“I did it all for the Nookie “
Never chase that kind of girl !
I was clean and sober(3 years) and I had a slip(short relapse) that lasted a weekend. My girlfriend at the time called me a fucking loser and ignored me for 2 weeks. Now we're talking again and i'm back on my sobriety path.... Honestly I don't know if she's really the right woman for me. But she's allowed to not be happy with what I did right...
Stonewalled you after having a setback? Are y’all still together ?
Dude….she’s for the streets my brothah! If a girl ever does anything like that-she is gone-it’s good! Lots and lots of women and she is not special 😊
How to vet this? The old “ah shit I forgot my wallet” move. If she is understanding, green light. If she gets mad, run away.
25:22 “we can be friends with benefits, we can be sex playmates, and oh by the way you need to move out of my house, but ….”
The way you do casually say that cracks me up 😂
She’s not right for what she did but he absolutely did not live up to his obligation as a partner. I’d have sympathy if he was doing things right but we need to learn too. Having said that - they have up split. Respect and trust are gone.
Nope. It’s not a mans job to be your girl’s therapist nor deal with her toxic attention seeker behaviors 😂
It's amazing how delusional people are.
this is my biggest achilles heel in relationships
Just some ⛽⛽⛽ for the algorithm!
I'd end it. Simple.
Things got tough when the wife spent $300,000 we couldn't afford. Her response to my displeasure was to jump in bed with a coworker. Turns out she did the same thing to her 1st husband.
Great content. Looking fwd to you’re response to my email request. A hard maybe??!
It's painfully obvious that this guy has been severely gaslit.
What percentage of women are actually like this? Hard to come across a moral one from what I’ve seen
I gotta disagree with u on the part of her wanting to be "called out". Fellas, they expect u to just know as a man, but they have to be told not to do what they know they shouldnt do. Not a good assessment imo
In 3yrs, what else did he want?? Seriously
Amen
This guy is hard on himself. Seems like she would just rather let him dump her... But she doesn't want to be with him. I'm not sure he could have kept her by being better.
Any man or woman that cheats in a marriage or in a committed relationship. Is a selfish person with no integrity. If your going to hook up with someone you have to end the marriage or the relationship.
👀👀👀👀💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
“Ooops sorry baby” another man ends up inside her lol
OKI hear this all the time and almost every video did not make her feel heard did not pick make her feel Make her feel hurt and understood how do you do that how do you properly court your wife this is a big queshit what do you do Or court your girlfriend how do you do that what does that mean
Isn't it funny how this happens...all the time...🤔...how many men have this exact situation happen...over and over again...i know you trash the RP constantly...but i see right through you dude...i mean you have a product to sell 😏...10-15 times right 😏...but all the same... you're helping men who need it...the game is to be sold not told... i got you 👌
It's literally free. He makes most his money off idiots who don't bother to read it and so he should after all they're paying for their own mistakes.
He says read the book 15 times, because if you only read it once or twice, you will forget it the next day. Sometimes human have memory like gold fish. But the point of studying is to remember the information
Dumbo , he is not saying to buy the book for 15 times .. the book is for free you just need to read it for 15 times. So there are actually dumbos like you in this world...
How is offering your viewers a free e-book trying to make money? 2+2=5 🤔
There’s nothing to see through dude. If you can’t see an authentic person that has helped thousands with excellent content and experience, then keep being spoon fed the RP crap and being frustrated
If roles are reversed does it matter because im a man
Women that monkey branch, being affectionate to another man while being in a r/s are low-value women, they arent loyal.
Just move on and remember to date and court your woman properly even being in a r/s don't be complacent.
I hope this guy dumped this chick. She is not worth it and before too long would of cheated on him anyway.
She belongs to the streets!
Apparently he read the book😂