Coach always says women help you when they like you. So, giving her space will help her feelings towards you and if they don't get stronger than she was just using you for whatever reason. Been through it myself. 💪🏾👍🏾
Yep mine was for the streets hurt bad tootk her back like a beta finally stood up to her called her out on all red flags texting different dudes that led to me catching her in affair ...she still tried to contact me from diff# 25 days ago that I blocked....she call from diff # or thru third party mutual friend pls pls talk to me no she cheated then continue to be difficult....more red flags and don't fall for the hoover!! Day 25 ignored outsilence and 5 months since seen.. it's hard and painful but got to have self respect.
Is it always a surefire way that this will get her reaction?mine just went radio silence for 1 week....i'm kinda tired at this point to do anything, but i kinda don't wanna let go
Dude I love your channel. You don't over complicate things like the red pill guys. Instead you focus on channeling your ebb and flow energy. It's so simple yet powerful and effective. Thank you!
As a woman, I will affirm that Corey is 💯. The red pill guys make the mistake of being bitter and resentful and dwelling on the negative. Huge turn-off.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore I think bitterness is okay at first if you got hurt and burnt but it should be a quick stage to learn from and better yourself instead of staying there.
@@meyou-gi8xq Red Pill starts with the assumption that women are hypergamous and want the most masculine man they can get. Hot women ride the cock carousel and don't consider nice guys until they've lost their sexual market value. The way to be hyper-masculine is treat her like crap and expect her to treat you like a king.
She doesn't sound that interested in him. That's why he's mad. Why match and mirror her when her feelings aren't going to change. It's best just to end it.
Exactly. And the more mad he gets, the less chance he'll have of ever being with her in the future. No high value woman wants to be with an emotionally volatile manchild who finds unwarranted offense at every opportunity.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore women who are feminist thinkers tend to test men more off handedly but flaunting their other guys to see in what order she can place this guy. How you react says a lot about how conservative or liberal you are to her test. And she will not give up her guys in her sleeping around stage. If anything she will pump it up and go for more. These women aren’t ready to settle down. They see settling down as something a parent would tell her to do. They aren’t looking for a daddy except a sugar daddy
had an ex wife who was cold and went hours without texting or calling , when she was home no sex just like a roomate i left months ago her mom keeps chasing me down because the whole family loved me but my ex acted like a straight up masculine damaged women im so happy to be free 😊
WoW I'm living that same life today, she blames it on menopause 🤣 I said you must be 1 in a million, because I have asked other women going through menopause, they said your wife is full of shit
I divorced mine too. I have a child with her, and she hates me for leaving her mom. Your happiness is worth more than anything. If you’ve ever pulled up to your place after a long day, and just stared at the outside of the house for 20 minutes before going in, you know what I’m talking about.
@@croatiancroissant28776 exactly! im glad you had balls to leave! most guys stick it out and get old and women take them to the dry cleaners and leave them with nothing and end up with someone new . Just look at jeff bezos and bill gates ! there the richest men on earth and even they couldnt please there women 😂🤣
Man when I heard this guy's story it reminded me of my days before I was married. I've made so many mistakes. Even though I'm not single now I use some of this advice to keep the balance of power proper in my marriage. Great content as always
After watching enough of Corey's videos I have understood that, its actually a lot easy to just do nothing and get women than to do or act on the urge to get them lol. Just talk and show your intent, create an attraction, the rest of the work they'll do.
Just want to say you give the best dating advice. It's far from PUA, blackpill, redpill, and you just speak facts. You can say it's utilitarian which is perfect. You helped me out a lot and dating has been getting easier and more fun for me now. Thank you!
I just went through the title. Did most of everything discussed here for 2 years. I DIDN'T LISTEN to her in the beginning and she was telling me that. I wound up walking away, didn't say a word. Just doing the no contact thing and started my LLC a few weeks ago.
I've learned Coach I mirror exactly what my ex shows me if she texts back 2 hours later then that's exactly how I treat her back nomore ganes I think she's starting to realize I give her what she shows me the same treatment!
Me too I always go weak for her thinking that was the way to go if I just poured out my feelings too her. free getting my heart broken & busted up I had to rewire myself. I know now she has to desire you more than she desires you.
Most women don't care about most men to begin with when they have 1000s of options online. Always men more attractive with higher incomes to replace you .
Yeah he needs to match and mirror her effort. I hope he moves on and finds someone better. More importantly, I hope he becomes a stronger, centered man so he doesn’t deal with the same problems.
No value in a woman that acts that way to begin with move on! Women like that it's always what's best for her situationships won't ever be a relationship or much anything more.
Jesus… Now that I am listening to this, its basically me in my last maybe still ongoing situationship😂. She’s been pretty disrespectful and I kinda knew part of that is on my insecure behavior. Love hearing coach breaking it down 👍
See my previous comment for progress.. This video newsletter saved my life. Unfortunately and fortunately lol I am only interested in women like described in this video. I fell victim just like this guy and have been listening to this video plus others for a month and a half daily, sometimes multiple times. I made an entire playlist. It has significantly helped. My mother is a strong, high value woman and my stepdad also makes great money, but he’s kind of beta. I saw their relationship my entire life. Of course, I grew up to be attracted only to strong high value women but wasn’t able to keep them. Stepstep-by-step I’m getting there and by the end of this year should have it completely locked in. Thanks coach much love MY BRO. As I start to learn how these women move I increase my internal feeling of worthiness of her (and other things) and realizing that I am a catch. I have been on my 3% journey since 2017 and have read the book well over 10 times. I have been steadily making improvements over the years, and not to mention already saw great results, but now wanting to only be with my dream women. I am currently looking to focus on dating and being with only my dream women versus the 5 to 8 other women I’m just smashing on the regular lol. Eventually I will be with one. I am 38
@@soppa112 actually I was planning to delete myself when I met her. She was my glimmer of hope when I had none. My emotions got the better of me. I was numb for too long and got attached to how she made me feel. I messed it up got rejected and walked away. Actually I did everything wrong. My only issue with her was I gave her plenty of times to say no. I left feeling used, but I do care about her.
Ngl I’ve been fucking up. I banged my co worker a few times, then she started becoming kinda cold. She admitted on numerous occasions she has feelings for me, but she’s been less affectionate than before. Some of this email resonates with me, most of my frustration is coming from not exactly understanding what’s going wrong. I think some of my behavior in the past has turned her off in a way, such as trying to arrange get together outside of work and so forth, or maybe even things I’ve said. Today she was mad at me all day for something at work, refused to talk and was kinda cold. Just gonna leave and let her come to me, or not. I’m starting to get why seeing co workers can be a bad idea, spending so much time and not even in an evening sense can be difficult. It started out strong and has been downhill since. Funny how when I didn’t care about anything it was working out, and now that I’ve admittedly ‘caught some feelings’, it’s going to shit.
@@streetlifetv13 xD i know for a fact that ain’t it, in reality I turned her off by not being the way I was before I got it (several times), infact I’m sure part of the reason she was so scorned was because she enjoyed our time together so much. I dropped the ball pretty bad and it’s a slap in the face of what I know, but ultimately I’ve been able to move on because I know I’ll be just fine ;)
That shit happened to me a few weeks ago, it ended the same way it started.. Very fast. Realized she was fucked up and everything was premeditated from the start. She came after me out of nowhere, escape route, distraction, bad communicator, messy life.. I basically mirrored her actions and let her know that I can read between the lines. Don't think you fucked up..
I gave this girl $1,000.00. She cheated on me with boss. I haven't heard from her. I feel 😪. She smokes, drinks, and goes from guy to guy. Watch out. I haven't read your book. I listen to your video's. Divorced once. Two kids. License Suspended due to child support. Women don't want a homeless, jobless man. Just what I can provide for them. Broke now. Got license unsuspended. 10 days drug-free. Looking for work. Homeless vet. Thankfully Mom is around. Peace ✌️.
He could've salvaged that! He just blew it!!! For a lot of guys, it's just being overly emotional!! Corey nailed it when he said, "You've got to get your emotions in check!" He MUST learn the skill of being outcome independent!
So the right thing to do would've been to wait for her to contact him and if she never did just move on? In a similar situation RN, she flaked I told her I just wish she would've told me sooner (it was 1 hour before we were supposed to hangout) and she came up with excuses, I told her no worries and haven't heard from her in 2 weeks, so feel like I'm doing the right thing
@@heae90 yes. As Corey says, "The strongest negotiating position is being willing to walk away, and mean it." But, as Corey also teaches, we have to be driving the fun bus. If they want to go along, that's great! But. No drama allowed! That, especially includes drama from us! That's where we have to have our emotions in check! To be the emotional rock! To be outcome independent! It takes working on yourself to get that part down! This girl obviously had attraction but he over pursued and made the fun bus not so fun.
People also need to read the book by David Deida called "The Way of the Superior Man." I wouldn't recommend another book on Corey's post but he recommends the book, too. It's also a great book! This girl can't feel like she is THAT important. She has to feel like you want her in your life, but not that you NEED her in your life. An overly emotional man is a real turn off to women! Men MUST be congruent in their words and their actions!
@@timnichols7760 Yeah I had been weak with this girl in the past, and then there'd be times where I'd go no contact and then she'd message me saying "I don't want to keep trying because I feel like you don't care". I can see why she would think that, but at the same time she isn't taking in account how her actions/lack of interest can have consequences
@@heae90 it's not that she doesn't see the consequences of her actions. It's just that, now, she's to the point that she doesn't care about the consequences of her actions. Plus, her actions are a direct result of your actions. We guide the relationship! You over pursued because, for one reason or another, you feel unworthy. Deep down, you wouldn't over pursue if you didn't. You've got to get that in check if you EVER want to have a successful relationship. Otherwise, it will always be more of the same. You'll be insecure, jealous, and it will cause you to be emotionally weak! Work on yourself! Date a LOT!! Continue to read Corey's book, David Deida's book, study stoicism, and other books on masculinity. IF she reaches back out DON'T try to fix things!!! Just follow Corey's rule of hang out, have fun, and hook up! Let her worry about the relationship! If you follow the rule of the 3 H's she'll bring up the relationship! Also, ALWAYS remember the cat analogy!! That's crucial! She MUST feel free to come and go without you getting upset! Emotions show weaknesses, and women HATE weakness!
Lol no it's because she's not putting in any effort even though she says those things. Like Corey said she clearly doesn't miss him so all the stuff about cheating about sex doesn't mean much she's leading him on.
All this is great advice. For dating. Maybe even marriage. Married with kids? I’d like some help with that. My wife’s current behavior (lost 90lbs super hot) I wouldn’t tolerate. But our young boys are affected by it. Constantly going out with her girlfriends. I’ve fucked up, got emotional & really over reacted 3 times in the past 3 months. However, some of that hurt came from them. I’m here typing this on the Eve , well now it’s early morning, of our youngest’s birthday. Before he went to bed he said “ is mom really not gonna be here on my birthday?” It hurts man. Kids are innocent. She’s talked down to me. Told me she wasn’t “in love with me”, even talked to an attorney about a possible separation in house. When her attorney said it wasn’t possible she didn’t go through with it and told her she’d follow up by the end of January. I realize if she really, 100% wanted it over it would’ve happened. I’ve done well lately of not texting or calling first and not answering right away when she does. I took a job that gave me a 35k pay increase (she still makes more, I should’ve never let that happen) and it seemed to spark some additional interest. She comes to me, if I play coy and go upstairs. We’ve had some pretty intense sex as well. Some emotional connections feel very earnest while others seem a bit forced or fake. She thinks I’m “turning the kids against her” but it isn’t me. It’s her actions and she refuses to hold herself accountable. The one power she holds, man it’s a big one, she knows I want walk away from my kids and the family they want. My kids live in fear, everyday that their family is going to end. Regardless of the dynamic. They know if it ends there are higher odds that the system will give them more time with the parent that ignores them than the parent that’s here while she gets shit faced. Any advice anyone has would be appreciated.
I see no one wanted to touch this one, and I'm no expert but it seems like you're turning her off with your feminine energy, she doesn't respect you, therefore she's not in love with you right now. Feminine energy is chaos while masculine energy is stoic and grounded, getting mad at a woman for her emotions is like getting mad at the weather. Look up Stoicism and stop being so emotional in front of your woman. It seems like she's trying to hurt you through the court system and getting her revenge for you not being the man she fell in love with. You must control your emotions when it comes to women, just be indifferent to her actions and she'll respond appropriately, just treat her like a low commitment girlfriend. You must be her rock if you even want her anymore. Also, read the book 10-15 times!
mistake i made was telling a girl i love her after 4 weeks, never the same after now she is back with her ex and we do not talk...i really miss her though, i did start moaning at her also because she would not text back all day and said she was really busy but always had time for tiktok posts instagram etc, i think when a girl has more time for everything and everyone over you its blatenly obvious she just dont want you, i tried my best at 1st but as time went by it just got worse, i called her out on everything and she said i have too much time on my hands etc..i realise now i should of done things different but it was not all my fault...she just didnt want me and just played me and my emotions
Ya dude women are cold 🥶 I'm going through same thing, it hurts when you care and they don't give a fk, it's hard to act like you don't care when you do, I understand 💯
One thing I half disagree with Corey Wayne on, is if they are 'going out of town' for a week/weekends time and not communicating with you much at all...yes, you don't need to get mad, but that's just not a great recipe for success imo. That will haunt anyone unless you already know and trust this person, or they were pretty open about their need for space or a trip. Not saying they need to text you constantly, but if they are out for a week, they could simply be playing you like a fiddle. Different area codes isn't cheating to some folks ;) edit: watched more of the video. Yeah, accepting "they aren't that into you, let it be" is right.
I’m an older gentleman and what a lot of young men don’t realize is that women are number us 4 to 5 to one if not more and there’s no reason a man can’t go through and date 12 to 24 women and a lifetime and one of those to be your dedicated over so don’t change yourself
@@fruitloops3718 assuming he followed the rules. Courted her properly as coach explains to, then yes, I would say it's her. Coach explains that with a normal, high interest, feminine girl, she should be in love after 2 months
She has to desire you more than you desire her. Make your feelings unclear about her. I always put the woman I liked on Pedestals. Bad Mistake. Never put her on pedestals. You have to level it.
Show it with your actions, don’t say it. By giving her attention, hanging out, being intimate, treating her well, you show it. Matters a lot more than saying it.
This is bad advice. Out of context. Just read the book 10-15 times. If your girlfriend says “I love you” and you actually love her. Then you should say “I love you too” I guarantee you’ll never maintain a relationship with that attitude. Women want your attention and love. If you don’t want to give it, then she’ll find it elsewhere.
At the end of the day I just can’t wait for the bladerunner type gf. Literally put the cat in my pocket and I will take her out when I please. Like a SIGMA hahah
She goes out of town and doesn’t even call him when she’s coming back. She is definitely not interested and has another love interest. But it’s not masculine energy to constantly give a girl what she wants. It’s not masculine energy to refuse to be the leader and call her out for bad behavior. Corey really needs to get past the seventh grade level of relationships.
Hey guys, I have a question and need some advice. I've met a girl. We dated two weeks ago. It was fun and we had sex. But I fucked up by losing my masculine center and became too lovey-dovey. This pushed her away. I ignored her for a while and now she started texting again (being it very cold... I think her attraction level is around a 5). When I asked her when she is available to set a new date, she replied to one of my other (only two) messages and didn't answer the question about when she is available to meet. So.... What to do now? I'm stuck... This is the gist of the convo: Her: How was your weekend? Me: Very fun! Went out with some buddy's I hadn't see in a long time Me: When are you available to meet up again? Her: O great! You havent been out in a while! How was it? I just want to respond with: "It was awesome! Met some fun and interesting people" and leave it at that.
"Great to hear from you but I gotta run. Shoot me a text when you're available to get together " Leave it at that. You asked her, she didn't answer so the ball is in her court. Don't initiate contact anymore.
You're in the sweepers zone, she fucked you and now she's regretting it, I would just leave it at that- you were just a one night stand. Her attraction level dropped to a 4 which is mostly platonic, I would do nothing and if she reaches out just be funny and flirty like you're unbothered by her absence. Your conversation was very friendly and boring, always remember there are tons of dudes in her dms trying to bang her, but if you read the book you'll stand out and she'll have tons of dudes reassuring her that you're the real catch as they all keep fucking up. Personally, I would just move on and start fresh with a new girl *after you've read the book 10-15 times*!
Coreys right... but its funny you have to be okay with whatever vvomen do.. and not say anything?.. he even says vvomen are like children or cats.. so call out THEIR disrespect or not? its all contradictory.. but yea jus show no interest, match and mirror.. focus on yourself fellas.. who cares.. she’ll be available to you jus shows the power dynamic... its all how she feels and itll change in 10 mins.. you wouldnt be here on this video if you were good with vvomen.. what can someone give you, you cant give yourself? she doesn't matter.. do it ALL for you.. she’ll be unhappy either way
Why, when you don't care for a woman, is seen as strength? Like if you care for a woman and appreciate her.. she may see it as weakness, but if you truly don't care for her, she takes it as strength... but you are still the same guy. You aren't stronger or weaker.. This is not about mens strength or weakness of the mens character, in my opinion.. It is, however, something that women like or dislike. When you don't care, you are free from outcome, and your behavior is more authentic, funny, and chill, and that's what women like about it, but I don't see this as strength..
Problem is none of these women sound like they'd ever be wifey material! If you think they have little interest, they have zero interest. Just ignore and move on.
What does that mean to only do 20 to 30% of the pursuing or contacting? So if you get a text you just ignore it until she text you a few more times? Or if she contacts you, you ignore her until she contacts you a few more times? I mean if you're in a conversation it goes back and forth so isn't that 50/50? Don't quite get what you mean by 20 30%
It means to play games with women and not be your authentic self. A high value healthy woman will think you are not interested and move on to the next guy probably the Alfa that is texting her good morning and goodnight. Don’t play games be yourself and text the girl.
Nah you never ignore. Always keep it light and fun. He's talking about the person who initiates the contact. After you've been seeing the same girl for a few weeks, you want her to be reaching out to you first most of the time. If you're hitting her up first everytime, she will get turned off.
Bro, I just got out of a situation like this. The question what is the source of why we act like that? I grew up with a strong mother in a single parent home mostly. Even to this day if I pick up the phone my Mom is right there, no matter what. I feel like I acted like this a little with my girl because I feel like I’m used to getting my way, used to being the center of someone’s attention that I am connected to or close to. I’m kinda spoiled lol Welp, time to break this behavior because I want to be able to maintain and sustain the high attraction of the girl of my dreams 💪🏽😎💪🏽 and live happy and even more successfully
Same here dog. I really think boys being raised by single mothers affects them a lot. We need to learn everything about being a man the hard way. It's not even their fault though, I don't blame my mom.
Right after you asked "why we act like this", you mentioned you were raised by a single mom. There's your answer there. No amount of strength is going to help her raise you into the masculine strength you need as a man. The path to manhood is forged, not a matter of puberty. You're on your own path now and you'll inevitably have bumps in the road since there wasn't a strong masculine father-figure in your life during your formative years. Keep going you got this bro.
READ TILL THE END! The problem with this philosophy is, it doesn’t work when you’re married, because married women have children to fulfill their love and emotional needs. However, men have sexual needs and the desire to be loved & respected by our queen/woman/romantic partner. Well we apparently can’t turn to kids for those needs, nor can we turn to another woman, because then we compromise our integrity, and they know this. So they exploit their position of power. Marriage is a horrible contract and I don’t recommend it. This philosophy doesn’t work because they can just wait it out and are just fine with your needs not being met, because theirs are, and women are selfish little children. Moral of the story is, don’t get married because you lose your ability to counter with these tactics, that do in fact work. **Coach, I’m not saying your teachings are wrong. They definitely do work. I’m just saying unfortunately, they aren’t universal and don’t necessarily work in marriage, with the vast majority of western women. Thanks for helping clueless men, like how I used to be. Cheers!
@@eddiemartinez1337 hahaha, you must be going for 6s and 7s. Beautiful women have so many male orbiters that they feel like they are cheating themselves if they settle down and pick one guy… once women hit mid 30s this goes away. Then they start to rush to find a perfect guy so they can have children before they can’t. Instagram and Tik Tok has created the anti-commitment culture.
If you sill believe this, you literally have no confidence in yourself. Work on that and you’ll see you just have the wrong mentality. Take it from someone that was like you but decided to better themselves instead of crying about it.
@@hectorgutierrez5240 who said I’m crying about it? Lol. I have 3 businesses at 26 and focus on myself and my mission everyday. What I’m saying is there is A LOT of women that even if you follow Corey’s book they don’t play the game.
Coach...I am in a situation with my ex baby mama I just keep on wanting a relationship with her.and she continues disrespecting me how can I move on without her
Coach always says women help you when they like you. So, giving her space will help her feelings towards you and if they don't get stronger than she was just using you for whatever reason. Been through it myself. 💪🏾👍🏾
This is so true
Yep mine was for the streets hurt bad tootk her back like a beta finally stood up to her called her out on all red flags texting different dudes that led to me catching her in affair ...she still tried to contact me from diff# 25 days ago that I blocked....she call from diff # or thru third party mutual friend pls pls talk to me no she cheated then continue to be difficult....more red flags and don't fall for the hoover!! Day 25 ignored outsilence and 5 months since seen.. it's hard and painful but got to have self respect.
Is it always a surefire way that this will get her reaction?mine just went radio silence for 1 week....i'm kinda tired at this point to do anything, but i kinda don't wanna let go
Currently going through it!
Dude I love your channel. You don't over complicate things like the red pill guys. Instead you focus on channeling your ebb and flow energy.
It's so simple yet powerful and effective.
Thank you!
As a woman, I will affirm that Corey is 💯. The red pill guys make the mistake of being bitter and resentful and dwelling on the negative. Huge turn-off.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore I think bitterness is okay at first if you got hurt and burnt but it should be a quick stage to learn from and better yourself instead of staying there.
I'm new to this. Keep hearing about the 'red pill'. For the benefit of others and myself, can someone explain what it is? Thanks.
@@meyou-gi8xq Red Pill starts with the assumption that women are hypergamous and want the most masculine man they can get. Hot women ride the cock carousel and don't consider nice guys until they've lost their sexual market value. The way to be hyper-masculine is treat her like crap and expect her to treat you like a king.
“You got lucky, babe, when I found you.” -Tom Petty.
Great way to think.
She doesn't sound that interested in him. That's why he's mad. Why match and mirror her when her feelings aren't going to change. It's best just to end it.
That’s where you have to show you lost interest.
Give them the gift of missing you. If they never reach out then there is your answer. Never understood why people want someone who doesn't want them.
Exactly. And the more mad he gets, the less chance he'll have of ever being with her in the future. No high value woman wants to be with an emotionally volatile manchild who finds unwarranted offense at every opportunity.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore Like how you said no [High value woman] wants a man who isn't in control of his emotions
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore women who are feminist thinkers tend to test men more off handedly but flaunting their other guys to see in what order she can place this guy. How you react says a lot about how conservative or liberal you are to her test. And she will not give up her guys in her sleeping around stage. If anything she will pump it up and go for more. These women aren’t ready to settle down. They see settling down as something a parent would tell her to do. They aren’t looking for a daddy except a sugar daddy
The most double edge sword word you can say to a woman is "I Love you"😅😅😅
Good Point ☝️
These videos pop up in the algorithm all the time. If your here, move on. Relationships should be 95 percent smooth.
Man I am glad that we all have each other to learn from. Become better men. Some of these videos have helped me as well as the comments below.
had an ex wife who was cold and went hours without texting or calling , when she was home no sex just like a roomate i left months ago her mom keeps chasing me down because the whole family loved me but my ex acted like a straight up masculine damaged women im so happy to be free 😊
WoW I'm living that same life today, she blames it on menopause 🤣 I said you must be 1 in a million, because I have asked other women going through menopause, they said your wife is full of shit
@@diningroomfish5470 exactly man😂 women are difficult ! and want to be disrespectful and you just tolerate the disrespect 😂😂 women be crazy!
@@bradley5973 today's world as let them think they are the man, social media has ruined the relationship as we knew it
I divorced mine too. I have a child with her, and she hates me for leaving her mom. Your happiness is worth more than anything. If you’ve ever pulled up to your place after a long day, and just stared at the outside of the house for 20 minutes before going in, you know what I’m talking about.
@@croatiancroissant28776 exactly! im glad you had balls to leave! most guys stick it out and get old and women take them to the dry cleaners and leave them with nothing and end up with someone new . Just look at jeff bezos and bill gates ! there the richest men on earth and even they couldnt please there women 😂🤣
You don't need to talk to her when she doesn't reply. You already know the answer.
Exactly. No response IS a response.
I tell women straight up that my feelings for them are VERY uncertain.
If you feel the need to tell her then she won't believe you.
Just did this, I'm ashamed of myself! Never again!
Well you're right to be angry. If she uses you...
This video literally came at the perfect time for me! Thanks for always keeping it real!
Go get em tiger.. actually I'll rephrase that , allow em to come to you..
They always do lol
Man when I heard this guy's story it reminded me of my days before I was married. I've made so many mistakes. Even though I'm not single now I use some of this advice to keep the balance of power proper in my marriage. Great content as always
After watching enough of Corey's videos I have understood that, its actually a lot easy to just do nothing and get women than to do or act on the urge to get them lol. Just talk and show your intent, create an attraction, the rest of the work they'll do.
Just want to say you give the best dating advice. It's far from PUA, blackpill, redpill, and you just speak facts. You can say it's utilitarian which is perfect. You helped me out a lot and dating has been getting easier and more fun for me now. Thank you!
I just went through the title. Did most of everything discussed here for 2 years. I DIDN'T LISTEN to her in the beginning and she was telling me that. I wound up walking away, didn't say a word. Just doing the no contact thing and started my LLC a few weeks ago.
I absolutely love Corey's girly voice impersonations. Makes my day every time 😂
🤣🤣🤣
You’re looking younger every day coach
I've learned Coach I mirror exactly what my ex shows me if she texts back 2 hours later then that's exactly how I treat her back nomore ganes I think she's starting to realize I give her what she shows me the same treatment!
I used to be like this 3 years ago. After 3 years of rewiring my mind, i can see the shit ive done back then and pick it out immediately
Me too my brother. After looking back it's all too clear now. But hey, those mistakes were necessary to grow
Goddammit i did it again this time around...
You can thank that woman for trying to get you to be the masculine man you were meant to be
Me too I always go weak for her thinking that was the way to go if I just poured out my feelings too her. free getting my heart broken & busted up I had to rewire myself. I know now she has to desire you more than she desires you.
Your videos are an eye opener coach,all the mistakes that I’ve been making are now clear.
Most women don't care about most men to begin with when they have 1000s of options online. Always men more attractive with higher incomes to replace you .
I have gone through this. It is difficult to move on, but the truth is she doesn't care about you.
Hello Corey! Best wishes to you from Germany. Wish I had found your work before 2018. But I am learning, thanks to your videos.
You the man, coach.
Thanks DJ 🙏🏽
i definitely needed to hear this right now.
Give as much as u get is the key😐
Once u start giving more, that's when they take u for granted.
@@fuadahmed6060 and discard u nonchalantly
@@fantasiazplatkami Exactly
Yeah he needs to match and mirror her effort. I hope he moves on and finds someone better. More importantly, I hope he becomes a stronger, centered man so he doesn’t deal with the same problems.
You’re the man coach! I want to be like you when I grow up 🤟🏽
No value in a woman that acts that way to begin with move on! Women like that it's always what's best for her situationships won't ever be a relationship or much anything more.
I just busted out laughing in front of random people at work when you said "you dont love me i want my mommy" lol
Jesus… Now that I am listening to this, its basically me in my last maybe still ongoing situationship😂.
She’s been pretty disrespectful and I kinda knew part of that is on my insecure behavior.
Love hearing coach breaking it down 👍
See my previous comment for progress..
This video newsletter saved my life. Unfortunately and fortunately lol I am only interested in women like described in this video. I fell victim just like this guy and have been listening to this video plus others for a month and a half daily, sometimes multiple times. I made an entire playlist. It has significantly helped. My mother is a strong, high value woman and my stepdad also makes great money, but he’s kind of beta. I saw their relationship my entire life. Of course, I grew up to be attracted only to strong high value women but wasn’t able to keep them. Stepstep-by-step I’m getting there and by the end of this year should have it completely locked in. Thanks coach much love MY BRO.
As I start to learn how these women move I increase my internal feeling of worthiness of her (and other things) and realizing that I am a catch. I have been on my 3% journey since 2017 and have read the book well over 10 times. I have been steadily making improvements over the years, and not to mention already saw great results, but now wanting to only be with my dream women.
I am currently looking to focus on dating and being with only my dream women versus the 5 to 8 other women I’m just smashing on the regular lol. Eventually I will be with one. I am 38
I wasn't as bad as this guy, I did over pursue but didn't get butt hurt over it. She was just a friend I really cared about.
so did something happen at all. tell us the whole story
@@soppa112 actually I was planning to delete myself when I met her. She was my glimmer of hope when I had none. My emotions got the better of me. I was numb for too long and got attached to how she made me feel. I messed it up got rejected and walked away. Actually I did everything wrong. My only issue with her was I gave her plenty of times to say no. I left feeling used, but I do care about her.
I was worse than this guy and now i understand why she left I wish I knew about Corey 7 years ago....
I've been doing things so wrong I get needy all that texting upset not read your book YET but thank you great advice.
Read the book 10-15 times, undo the years of brainwashing
Thanks CW, you are doing the lords work.
Gosh, Coach Corey roasted the crap out of this dude. Love the directness!
Listen to the coach focus on you everything else will come.
The Monkey in the Zoo analogy- Damn. What a visual, Coach can paint such pictures sometimes.
Man, I really needed this vid today. Thanks Coach
I remember when I acted like this in the past and lost some good girls.
When women get flaky it's often better to back off. Very effective.
Thank you so much for all your advice 👍🏻
Great video coach!
Ngl I’ve been fucking up. I banged my co worker a few times, then she started becoming kinda cold. She admitted on numerous occasions she has feelings for me, but she’s been less affectionate than before. Some of this email resonates with me, most of my frustration is coming from not exactly understanding what’s going wrong. I think some of my behavior in the past has turned her off in a way, such as trying to arrange get together outside of work and so forth, or maybe even things I’ve said.
Today she was mad at me all day for something at work, refused to talk and was kinda cold. Just gonna leave and let her come to me, or not. I’m starting to get why seeing co workers can be a bad idea, spending so much time and not even in an evening sense can be difficult. It started out strong and has been downhill since. Funny how when I didn’t care about anything it was working out, and now that I’ve admittedly ‘caught some feelings’, it’s going to shit.
@@streetlifetv13 xD i know for a fact that ain’t it, in reality I turned her off by not being the way I was before I got it (several times), infact I’m sure part of the reason she was so scorned was because she enjoyed our time together so much. I dropped the ball pretty bad and it’s a slap in the face of what I know, but ultimately I’ve been able to move on because I know I’ll be just fine ;)
That shit happened to me a few weeks ago, it ended the same way it started.. Very fast. Realized she was fucked up and everything was premeditated from the start. She came after me out of nowhere, escape route, distraction, bad communicator, messy life.. I basically mirrored her actions and let her know that I can read between the lines. Don't think you fucked up..
I gave this girl $1,000.00. She cheated on me with boss. I haven't heard from her. I feel 😪. She smokes, drinks, and goes from guy to guy. Watch out. I haven't read your book. I listen to your video's. Divorced once. Two kids. License Suspended due to child support. Women don't want a homeless, jobless man. Just what I can provide for them. Broke now. Got license unsuspended. 10 days drug-free. Looking for work. Homeless vet. Thankfully Mom is around. Peace ✌️.
If you love someone , and you’re not receiving love in return, set them free , as hard as that is , just do it and never look back .
He could've salvaged that! He just blew it!!! For a lot of guys, it's just being overly emotional!! Corey nailed it when he said, "You've got to get your emotions in check!" He MUST learn the skill of being outcome independent!
So the right thing to do would've been to wait for her to contact him and if she never did just move on? In a similar situation RN, she flaked I told her I just wish she would've told me sooner (it was 1 hour before we were supposed to hangout) and she came up with excuses, I told her no worries and haven't heard from her in 2 weeks, so feel like I'm doing the right thing
@@heae90 yes. As Corey says, "The strongest negotiating position is being willing to walk away, and mean it." But, as Corey also teaches, we have to be driving the fun bus. If they want to go along, that's great! But. No drama allowed! That, especially includes drama from us! That's where we have to have our emotions in check! To be the emotional rock! To be outcome independent! It takes working on yourself to get that part down! This girl obviously had attraction but he over pursued and made the fun bus not so fun.
People also need to read the book by David Deida called "The Way of the Superior Man." I wouldn't recommend another book on Corey's post but he recommends the book, too. It's also a great book!
This girl can't feel like she is THAT important. She has to feel like you want her in your life, but not that you NEED her in your life. An overly emotional man is a real turn off to women! Men MUST be congruent in their words and their actions!
@@timnichols7760 Yeah I had been weak with this girl in the past, and then there'd be times where I'd go no contact and then she'd message me saying "I don't want to keep trying because I feel like you don't care". I can see why she would think that, but at the same time she isn't taking in account how her actions/lack of interest can have consequences
@@heae90 it's not that she doesn't see the consequences of her actions. It's just that, now, she's to the point that she doesn't care about the consequences of her actions. Plus, her actions are a direct result of your actions. We guide the relationship!
You over pursued because, for one reason or another, you feel unworthy. Deep down, you wouldn't over pursue if you didn't. You've got to get that in check if you EVER want to have a successful relationship. Otherwise, it will always be more of the same. You'll be insecure, jealous, and it will cause you to be emotionally weak!
Work on yourself! Date a LOT!! Continue to read Corey's book, David Deida's book, study stoicism, and other books on masculinity.
IF she reaches back out DON'T try to fix things!!! Just follow Corey's rule of hang out, have fun, and hook up! Let her worry about the relationship! If you follow the rule of the 3 H's she'll bring up the relationship! Also, ALWAYS remember the cat analogy!! That's crucial! She MUST feel free to come and go without you getting upset! Emotions show weaknesses, and women HATE weakness!
She's a narcissist because she doesn't tolerate cheating and only sleeps with men she sees a future with? This guy is clueless.
Lol no it's because she's not putting in any effort even though she says those things. Like Corey said she clearly doesn't miss him so all the stuff about cheating about sex doesn't mean much she's leading him on.
Love it! If you treat her like celebrity 😅
Sometimes they don’t message back right away because they are talking to other men “worms”
All this is great advice. For dating. Maybe even marriage. Married with kids? I’d like some help with that. My wife’s current behavior (lost 90lbs super hot) I wouldn’t tolerate. But our young boys are affected by it. Constantly going out with her girlfriends. I’ve fucked up, got emotional & really over reacted 3 times in the past 3 months. However, some of that hurt came from them.
I’m here typing this on the Eve , well now it’s early morning, of our youngest’s birthday. Before he went to bed he said “ is mom really not gonna be here on my birthday?” It hurts man. Kids are innocent. She’s talked down to me. Told me she wasn’t “in love with me”, even talked to an attorney about a possible separation in house. When her attorney said it wasn’t possible she didn’t go through with it and told her she’d follow up by the end of January.
I realize if she really, 100% wanted it over it would’ve happened. I’ve done well lately of not texting or calling first and not answering right away when she does. I took a job that gave me a 35k pay increase (she still makes more, I should’ve never let that happen) and it seemed to spark some additional interest. She comes to me, if I play coy and go upstairs. We’ve had some pretty intense sex as well. Some emotional connections feel very earnest while others seem a bit forced or fake. She thinks I’m “turning the kids against her” but it isn’t me. It’s her actions and she refuses to hold herself accountable.
The one power she holds, man it’s a big one, she knows I want walk away from my kids and the family they want. My kids live in fear, everyday that their family is going to end. Regardless of the dynamic. They know if it ends there are higher odds that the system will give them more time with the parent that ignores them than the parent that’s here while she gets shit faced.
Any advice anyone has would be appreciated.
I see no one wanted to touch this one, and I'm no expert but it seems like you're turning her off with your feminine energy, she doesn't respect you, therefore she's not in love with you right now. Feminine energy is chaos while masculine energy is stoic and grounded, getting mad at a woman for her emotions is like getting mad at the weather. Look up Stoicism and stop being so emotional in front of your woman. It seems like she's trying to hurt you through the court system and getting her revenge for you not being the man she fell in love with. You must control your emotions when it comes to women, just be indifferent to her actions and she'll respond appropriately, just treat her like a low commitment girlfriend. You must be her rock if you even want her anymore. Also, read the book 10-15 times!
"He acts like a bitch" hahaha... this one got me. Corey I hope to get to your level one day.
mistake i made was telling a girl i love her after 4 weeks, never the same after now she is back with her ex and we do not talk...i really miss her though, i did start moaning at her also because she would not text back all day and said she was really busy but always had time for tiktok posts instagram etc, i think when a girl has more time for everything and everyone over you its blatenly obvious she just dont want you, i tried my best at 1st but as time went by it just got worse, i called her out on everything and she said i have too much time on my hands etc..i realise now i should of done things different but it was not all my fault...she just didnt want me and just played me and my emotions
Ya dude women are cold 🥶 I'm going through same thing, it hurts when you care and they don't give a fk, it's hard to act like you don't care when you do, I understand 💯
@DINING ROOM FISH 🐟 stay strong brother!!! Never text her again !!!
@IN TUNE WITH CARS you would think they would want to here you love them, who knew it was a turn off🤣
You sound very feminine 😂😂
One thing I half disagree with Corey Wayne on, is if they are 'going out of town' for a week/weekends time and not communicating with you much at all...yes, you don't need to get mad, but that's just not a great recipe for success imo. That will haunt anyone unless you already know and trust this person, or they were pretty open about their need for space or a trip. Not saying they need to text you constantly, but if they are out for a week, they could simply be playing you like a fiddle. Different area codes isn't cheating to some folks ;)
edit: watched more of the video. Yeah, accepting "they aren't that into you, let it be" is right.
Find something else to do and be scarce. If you're just dating date someone else.
How is this man not aging 😂
He actually looks better than before imo
I love you coach😭
Amazing simplicity in this video! Coach Corey Wayne you're going to have to change your name to Master Corey Wayne.
I don’t get mad I move to the next one.
I’m an older gentleman and what a lot of young men don’t realize is that women are number us 4 to 5 to one if not more and there’s no reason a man can’t go through and date 12 to 24 women and a lifetime and one of those to be your dedicated over so don’t change yourself
Bro! so glad you got rid of the music in the beginning 😏😂
Oh and stay out of your feelings guys!... Don't get soft on me!
A 9 month situationship sounds horrible. If the girl didn't want exclusivity by then, she is messed up in the head
Are you sure it was her?
@@fruitloops3718 assuming he followed the rules. Courted her properly as coach explains to, then yes, I would say it's her. Coach explains that with a normal, high interest, feminine girl, she should be in love after 2 months
He didnt follow what he said. 9months. And if women dont want to be in a relationship around 4month marker he fucked up
@@nicechock or he did everything right and she's messed up in the head and he's just putting up with it.
Holy shit I literally wrote you an email about a situationship I'm in. Thank God it wasn't my email lol
Does it cost money?
@@jhondalton130 I wanna know too
She's probably thinking "wow I sure dodged a bullet with this guy"!
She doesn’t care about you. Stop trying to figure it out
Thank you Corey
She has to desire you more than you desire her. Make your feelings unclear about her. I always put the woman I liked on Pedestals. Bad Mistake. Never put her on pedestals. You have to level it.
Your a legend
it happened to me, i gave her all of me and she fallen for a guy who gave nothing,
That's what makes you so mad, makes no sense
Never ever tell a woman how much you really like or love her.
Show it with your actions, don’t say it. By giving her attention, hanging out, being intimate, treating her well, you show it. Matters a lot more than saying it.
i did say it than get distant she loved it 😂
This is bad advice. Out of context. Just read the book 10-15 times.
If your girlfriend says “I love you” and you actually love her. Then you should say “I love you too”
I guarantee you’ll never maintain a relationship with that attitude. Women want your attention and love. If you don’t want to give it, then she’ll find it elsewhere.
Nah, say it, but don't be needy. Men are the romantic ones...we write songs about this all the time. It's our job.
*Never tell her *first*, once she admits it then you can reciprocate or just tell her you're not interested.
my dude is a drama queen, coming from a place of insecurity, lack of self respect and lack of confidence.
and ego!
I was worse than him in the past for overpersuing 100%.
People sometimes need help others need it constantly they can fool themselves saying their smart this and that but they can't with out me
How about this: Everyone should have respect no matter wether he acts feminine
Should and reality are 2 different things
@@nicechock True
Respect is not the same as desire
Not how nature works buddy, want a woman's respect gotta act like a man. It's harsh but that's life and you can't fight it.
If you act feminine around the boys, they're gonna roast your ass, women are no different.
Well if she ''disappears'' for a WEEK AT A TIME and not reach out, then i bet shes got someone else
On to the next one...
Such a great video you are so wise I like when he’s like he’s acting like a chick
Your voice impersonations always make me laugh 🤣
Can I get a link for ur book please
At the end of the day I just can’t wait for the bladerunner type gf. Literally put the cat in my pocket and I will take her out when I please. Like a SIGMA hahah
Was seeing this girl on n off, but shes playing hot n cold, told her what i want but shes not ready, now she keeps trying to grab my attention back
Thanks coach...
Just out of curiosity: what if she becomes distant and you mirror her behaviour, but then she gets mad at you for not pursuing?
Assume she wants to see you and make a date. You been busy, no big deal.
Tell her you been busy with your stuff in life don’t give her any idea you been thinking about her only never!
It's OK for them to get mad and treat you like shit, but you can't do it to them
She goes out of town and doesn’t even call him when she’s coming back. She is definitely not interested and has another love interest. But it’s not masculine energy to constantly give a girl what she wants. It’s not masculine energy to refuse to be the leader and call her out for bad behavior. Corey really needs to get past the seventh grade level of relationships.
Hey guys, I have a question and need some advice. I've met a girl. We dated two weeks ago. It was fun and we had sex. But I fucked up by losing my masculine center and became too lovey-dovey. This pushed her away. I ignored her for a while and now she started texting again (being it very cold... I think her attraction level is around a 5). When I asked her when she is available to set a new date, she replied to one of my other (only two) messages and didn't answer the question about when she is available to meet. So.... What to do now? I'm stuck...
This is the gist of the convo:
Her: How was your weekend?
Me: Very fun! Went out with some buddy's I hadn't see in a long time
Me: When are you available to meet up again?
Her: O great! You havent been out in a while! How was it?
I just want to respond with: "It was awesome! Met some fun and interesting people" and leave it at that.
"Great to hear from you but I gotta run. Shoot me a text when you're available to get together "
Leave it at that. You asked her, she didn't answer so the ball is in her court. Don't initiate contact anymore.
Refer back to the question she didnt answer if she doesnt repond tell her when she answers it to give u a call haha
You're in the sweepers zone, she fucked you and now she's regretting it, I would just leave it at that- you were just a one night stand. Her attraction level dropped to a 4 which is mostly platonic, I would do nothing and if she reaches out just be funny and flirty like you're unbothered by her absence. Your conversation was very friendly and boring, always remember there are tons of dudes in her dms trying to bang her, but if you read the book you'll stand out and she'll have tons of dudes reassuring her that you're the real catch as they all keep fucking up. Personally, I would just move on and start fresh with a new girl *after you've read the book 10-15 times*!
COME ON MAN!
If she aint feeling it whats the point?
Coreys right... but its funny you have to be okay with whatever vvomen do.. and not say anything?.. he even says vvomen are like children or cats.. so call out THEIR disrespect or not? its all contradictory.. but yea jus show no interest, match and mirror.. focus on yourself fellas.. who cares.. she’ll be available to you jus shows the power dynamic... its all how she feels and itll change in 10 mins.. you wouldnt be here on this video if you were good with vvomen.. what can someone give you, you cant give yourself? she doesn't matter.. do it ALL for you.. she’ll be unhappy either way
you gotta set and enforce healthy boundaries, bruh.
Why, when you don't care for a woman, is seen as strength? Like if you care for a woman and appreciate her.. she may see it as weakness, but if you truly don't care for her, she takes it as strength... but you are still the same guy. You aren't stronger or weaker.. This is not about mens strength or weakness of the mens character, in my opinion.. It is, however, something that women like or dislike. When you don't care, you are free from outcome, and your behavior is more authentic, funny, and chill, and that's what women like about it, but I don't see this as strength..
Problem is none of these women sound like they'd ever be wifey material! If you think they have little interest, they have zero interest. Just ignore and move on.
What does that mean to only do 20 to 30% of the pursuing or contacting? So if you get a text you just ignore it until she text you a few more times? Or if she contacts you, you ignore her until she contacts you a few more times? I mean if you're in a conversation it goes back and forth so isn't that 50/50? Don't quite get what you mean by 20 30%
It means to play games with women and not be your authentic self. A high value healthy woman will think you are not interested and move on to the next guy probably the Alfa that is texting her good morning and goodnight. Don’t play games be yourself and text the girl.
Nah you never ignore. Always keep it light and fun. He's talking about the person who initiates the contact. After you've been seeing the same girl for a few weeks, you want her to be reaching out to you first most of the time. If you're hitting her up first everytime, she will get turned off.
Bro, I just got out of a situation like this. The question what is the source of why we act like that?
I grew up with a strong mother in a single parent home mostly. Even to this day if I pick up the phone my Mom is right there, no matter what.
I feel like I acted like this a little with my girl because I feel like I’m used to getting my way, used to being the center of someone’s attention that I am connected to or close to. I’m kinda spoiled lol
Welp, time to break this behavior because I want to be able to maintain and sustain the high attraction of the girl of my dreams 💪🏽😎💪🏽 and live happy and even more successfully
Same here dog. I really think boys being raised by single mothers affects them a lot. We need to learn everything about being a man the hard way. It's not even their fault though, I don't blame my mom.
Right after you asked "why we act like this", you mentioned you were raised by a single mom. There's your answer there. No amount of strength is going to help her raise you into the masculine strength you need as a man. The path to manhood is forged, not a matter of puberty. You're on your own path now and you'll inevitably have bumps in the road since there wasn't a strong masculine father-figure in your life during your formative years. Keep going you got this bro.
I'm in a long relationship now and it's so damn lonely
Oh god this guy was ridiculous ngl
READ TILL THE END! The problem with this philosophy is, it doesn’t work when you’re married, because married women have children to fulfill their love and emotional needs. However, men have sexual needs and the desire to be loved & respected by our queen/woman/romantic partner. Well we apparently can’t turn to kids for those needs, nor can we turn to another woman, because then we compromise our integrity, and they know this. So they exploit their position of power. Marriage is a horrible contract and I don’t recommend it. This philosophy doesn’t work because they can just wait it out and are just fine with your needs not being met, because theirs are, and women are selfish little children. Moral of the story is, don’t get married because you lose your ability to counter with these tactics, that do in fact work. **Coach, I’m not saying your teachings are wrong. They definitely do work. I’m just saying unfortunately, they aren’t universal and don’t necessarily work in marriage, with the vast majority of western women. Thanks for helping clueless men, like how I used to be. Cheers!
Dating is like tennis, except the woman won’t play unless you have a blue checkmark or daddy’s money lol
At least you identified the lie you tell yourself
@@eddiemartinez1337 hahaha, you must be going for 6s and 7s. Beautiful women have so many male orbiters that they feel like they are cheating themselves if they settle down and pick one guy… once women hit mid 30s this goes away. Then they start to rush to find a perfect guy so they can have children before they can’t. Instagram and Tik Tok has created the anti-commitment culture.
If you sill believe this, you literally have no confidence in yourself. Work on that and you’ll see you just have the wrong mentality. Take it from someone that was like you but decided to better themselves instead of crying about it.
@@hectorgutierrez5240 who said I’m crying about it? Lol. I have 3 businesses at 26 and focus on myself and my mission everyday. What I’m saying is there is A LOT of women that even if you follow Corey’s book they don’t play the game.
bullshit, I have dated women who are way richer than me
I pursued 21% , a little toomuch
I need so much help…
😂😂😂😂 love this guy 😭😭😭
Coach...I am in a situation with my ex baby mama I just keep on wanting a relationship with her.and she continues disrespecting me how can I move on without her