Before anyone comments, the thumbnail with Obama and Joe Biden is a widely used meme and should be treated as such. I know that Obama is not an INTJ and Biden is not an ENFJ. It's just a funny picture guys!
How come C.S. Joseph says INTJ and ENFJ can't work in a relationship? He actually worried me because I met a great ENFJ woman and all seems amazing so far. th-cam.com/video/j57jytOgr5E/w-d-xo.html That's the vid. Would love to hear your thoughts.
INTJ: Explains something, gives solution, no one cares. ENFJ: Repeats it and everyone listens, solutions implemented I appreciate all the enfjs that have helped me with that.
You know now that I read this again from notifications... I wonder if they were just doing it because they know it was important to me. I could see enfjs doing that.
ENFJ female here.❤ My beloved late husband was an INTJ. We were so compatible in every way. We adored each other intensely. He went to Heaven last year/2023. I am lost without him😢. We had a fairytale romance for over 4 decades/43 years, and I can't wait to see him again. 😢❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing this info. It is very accurate. God bless you❤❤ ❤
This is way too accurate! I'm an ENFJ happily non-married to an INTJ for 5 years, this is the most uncommon and deepest relationship I've ever had. The greatest and longer conversations have always been with my partner and I've noticed how much we've grown since we've first met. I've become a stronger and assertive person thanks to his honest insights, while he's learned patience and understanding with me (he still thinks the world is full of stupid people though, but we are working on that). INTJs are the most loyal, caring and smart people in the world once you have the chance to know them. They are more than the stereotypical "villains" in the movies, they are the heroes in the shadows. :)
"Happily non-married", you didn't have to say it that way ENFJ 😉. I love hearing about this pairing because I really do believe it's a strong pairing! Keep growing together and please take care of your INTJ 🙏
@justcallmejon22 hahaha oh, that's our statement to the world. I'm an ENFJ, but a 8w7, so I guess I share the tendency of not liking to be controlled or being traditional, as my INTJ :). Today, I went through most of your videos, looking for additional insights that will help me to understand and support my partner better. Even after all these years together, there's always room for improvement and understanding from both sides, especially for me, since I've found out that INTJs are a bit more complicated to "read" than many other personality types. Seriously, thank you for all the information, time, and effort you've placed on those videos. You have no idea how much you are helping everyone 😊.
Agreed! This pairing is only horrible if both parties are unhealthy. Once we're healthy and understand how the other person function, it's such a strong pairing 😀
I dont know if someone has already said this, but one of the main things I found that I contribute to ENFJs is teaching them to have boundaries. ENFJs have such a difficult time with this. And most of the time, it's like they wake up and realize, "Oh wait a second. This person is abusing me." They are so happy to help and care for others, its all they see, like tunnel vision. They don't recognize the patterns of other people's behaviors. They are so warm, we learn a lot from each other. I dont mind watching their back and protecting them of they need me.
That's a good call out! I didn't cross my mind while making the video but I absolutely agree that INTJs help ENFJs understand Fi and develop bounderies ✊
"Every time INTJ open his mouth, he is seen as rude" It's true ! 😢 And after parents, school, people... complained about why I didn't talk, or see us as shy. 3:42 This meme is so relatable, I like the picture.🤣 Thank ENFJ, for noticed me and made me feel included and not rejected, at sport and school. It's easier to socialize when ENFJ is here,
I consider ENFJ INTJ to be a golden pairing. So underrated, I (ENFJ) am able to have the deepest of philosophical conversation with another human being (INTJ) and fully flesh out ideas. They have endurance unlike INFP and INTP who peter out, whereas INTJ can take ideas to their limit. Amazing pairing as friends or significant others.
Finally I’ve been waiting for this video! as an ENFJ I find INTJ intriguing due to their analytical and logical approach to problem-solving, which in my opinion…can complement the ENFJ's warmth and empathy. And I am appreciated INTJ’s profound perspectives on everything and their help for leading me to be a healthier ENFJ😊 (Also thank you Jon! for letting us know how to attract an INTJ. That really helps a lot😆)
My coworker is an ENFJ he was able to climb his way to the top with his charisma alone in less than 3 months lol. He always asks my decisions and opinions on things. He said I give very honest and practical advice.
ENFJ-A Here: I've learned that introverts batteries get drained quickily if they are always being dragged out. When they are are quiet, I suggest a quiet place for them to be alone to recharge and I love seeing theirs light up. I leave them alone if they are very quiet as much as I want to ask whats up. I've learned the introverts like to figure things out on their own first before they can vocalize it. So I love giving them that space and know they will come to me when they are ready and recharged. Excellent video ❤
Thank you for taking the time to understand us! Trust me when I say that we want to be able to socialize to the same degree or length as extroverts but we're not just not wired the same way. I'll speak for all introverts and say that we appreciate the most the friends that allow us space to recharge 😁
Thank you and you nailed it!!✨🙌 I am an ENFJ and something I think is gravely under represented in so many MBTI videos is the fact that ENFJs highly value objective information that we might not necessarily agree with. Even though our “super power” is connecting with people, we CRAVE differing opinions because it is a literal source of growth for us and an opportunity to potentially help growth in others. You are so on point with how ENFJs use Fe with Ni for lessons. Our Fe supercharges our Ni!✨ ENFJ 🤜🤛 INTJ
I really do appreciate the ENFJ's ability to entertain a thought and not believe in it. You guys are really great to talk to because you're one of the only types that can follow the Ni-dom when we go full-on Ni-nerd mode. Keep protecting the world for us ENFJ 🙏
INTJ here and I agree. I love ENFJs (and yes, more than ESFJs). ENFJs just get me and I appreciate that SO MUCH! Also, those memes are hilarious by the way! LOL
I am a true, mature and balanced ENFJ, and I love INTJs! I have been blessed to have a couple of them in my life as close friends...So the feeling is mutual, you are the BEST! I ADMIRE YOU!😉
I’m too late to comment, but I only wanted to say that this analysis is super spot on. One of my best friends is an ENFJ and it’s very interesting to see our interactions since a lot of people don’t understand our sense of humor. She is one of the few people who can make me cry laughing while other people will just stand there confused. Apart from the sense of humor, we both enjoy analyzing EVERYTHING. She doesn’t really know anything about MBTI, but as soon as I started telling her about it, she was sitting there and asking “what else?”, “tell me more about my type”. I love her so much, and I can’t begin to explain how in sync INTJs and ENFJs tend to be in most of the times and how we compliment each other so well.
Of all the MBTI types, you ENFJs are probably the best in changing the mind of an INTJ. It might feel like you're talking to a brick wall but I promise you, we're listening, we just need time to process. Thank you for taking care of my fellow INTJs ❤
I really appreciate INTJ objectively saying what’s going on! Sometimes we ENFj’s are so absorbed with the vision of that final outcome that we overlook what is happening 😅
"This is why INTJs love x-types." The INTJ - such an all-encompassing type. Not exactly the stereotypical villain INTJ, eh? You surely are a mature INTJ! And as soon as the initial touch of jealousy subsides (you are not supposed to love them all! 😂😂), I feel so proud of you! Way to go!
As an Intj this is super facts. My twin brother is an Enfj and this is super facts, great video to most Enfj peeps I've encountered were the best in my experience.
I am a male INTJ and I've only dated or crushed on (female) ENFJs. They are good at everything I am not, they challenge my weaknesses like mass social settings with strangers, and offer a more empathetic POV on life when us INTJs can be more cold or overtly rational. It amazes me to watch ENFJs get everyone to love them immediately, but are also able to keep up with me 1-1 about deeper and complex topics with Ni going wild. To add onto growth, they challenge me to be more in tune with emotions as it is very easy to say something blunt and hurt their feelings unintentionally. ENFJs typically will not call it out and hold it in. In my opinion ENFJs challenge INTJs in the way we need it most but we can also understand and respect them for it.
I agree that the ENFJs challenge the INTJ and force us to grow. It's annoying when they are right but it's also amazing how much effort they put into improving our behavioral in a way that we're unaware was necessary 😅
Female enfj here, such a sweet and well explained opinion, I would like to ask you, ENFJ is not your golden pair, What is your opinion on your actually "perfect match" and golden pairs in generally?
One of my friends is an ENFJ. Bit of a goofball at times but he likes doing an Ni sparring session, especially fantasy sessions. He's the light in the room. But also is annoying in outside scenario settings, he seems to know almost every person in the region which disrupts our moving forwards in our day out.
This one was another one I was waiting for, and oh boy did you nail it! My ENFJ friend is probably one of the few people outside of my most inner circle of friends where I'm ever genuinely concerned about their opinion on a matter and hold any thoughts they share on a topic in high regard. Pretty much right up there with my ENTJ friend like you mentioned in the video. I remember when that first lighting of the loyalty torch took place between us. We were both learning a fight for the first time and he was one of our healers while I was playing a caster. Because I was playing a caster I naturally have one of the lowest health pools, and one of the things I typically experience when playing with a lot of other healers is they underestimate how much damage a move is going to do to me vs just about everyone else in the group with more health to spare. The boss does a move that specifically targeted dps role I take damage as expected, first mech clears. Then the boss starts charging up another raid wide move and I'm floating at about 55% health from the first hit. Based on past experience, I'm just expecting to die and start the mental count down to malding. And then as if the ENFJ read my mind I just hear him go over the mic, "Yeah... I don't trust that..." and he shoots me a heal before the move comes out to make sure I survive. It was such a simple action, but because there are so many people who just over-estimate themselves and under-estimate how hard the boss will hit I've died in that situation more than I really ever should, so to see someone who actually decided to not take that needless chance with my life just instantly raised the loyalty flag moving forward. If they ever asked for me to adjust something to make their load a little lighter, where most other people got some pushback if it didn't make sense, with the ENFJ I already trust the feedback and just make the adjustment because I trust they aren't going to ask me to do something that will put me in a bad spot. Once we know a fight well enough, we can usually short hand signals to each other and know what the other is asking for without a detailed explanation of why because we both NI'd the shit out of a situation and saw the same path to the fix. An example of this is usually if I can adjust to take a hit and avoid a wipe, even if I shouldn't have too, I will cause the clear is the goal. But that also means I'm going to take damage I shouldn't have to take. When things are about to pop-off, I'll almost unconsciously just sigh and go, "Dammit..." cause I'm already expecting to die, but then my ENFJ friend will follow that up immediately with, "I got you!" and we just make it work. The ENFJ is truly one of the few people that always has a spot on the VIP list when it comes to asking for assistance because I know they'll always pay it back down the way without even being asked. And because they inspire that level of loyalty, it's funny when they do try and get me out of my "known social bubble" to meet new people, cause when they make the invite, they always do so in this way that seems to say, "You may not want to... but I'll be disappointed if you don't." And I just never have it in me to actively want to disappoint them, so I'll always take up the invite. Probably because I know if the situation was reversed and I needed them to work with some people they didn't really know, they'd come along with no hesitation and fit the vibe to create that social harmony almost effortlessly.
I’m an ENFJ and my boyfriend is an INTJ. I really appreciate all of your videos because it allows me a lot of insight into his mind without interrogating him too much😂. Thank you for sharing the INTJ mind ❤ it will definitely improve my relationship.
Hi im an ENFJ and literally this video made my day❤ thank you so much for this idk why but people dont understand me well and i havent found an INTJ yet but i love how INTJs understand ENFJs so much and im happy to know a lot about u guys too so next time i meet an INTJ ill know what to do! (Also its very sweet of u to reply on each comment)
This was a great video. I’m definitely an ENFJ but I have grown the ability through personal development to focus on my own worth, goals and how to manage all of these traits. Even using more TI when called upon and then use extraverted feeling. I have a really good INTJ friend and I have noticed us growing closer through our interactions and appreciation for each other via our conversations.
Congrats on finding an INTJ! ENFJs are one of the only types that can influence the INTJ so take care of your buddy for me. Continue growing, my friend, don't forget to take care of yourself along the way 🙏
ENFJ here 😁 OMG, it's so true that when I go out with my friends there's no way I won't ask within a few minutes: how are you, really? Or try to start conversations about life XD I have some INTJ friends and in particular a dear friend from work and it took a few months before he felt confident enough to open up; but since he did, we can talk about anything in a deep and direct way (which for us ENFJs is great, since it's both a stimulating moment and where we can recharge, because we don't often get the chance to be direct). I have to say that I've really noticed that we often make the same observations (which has only happened to me with other ENFJ friends), so when we talk it doesn't take much for us to understand and immediately reason about the subject of the conversation. I've noticed that compared to me, who I would say tends to guide people more by talking as deeply as possible, he has a much more practical way of helping, which I find equally effective and inspiring. Unfortunately, very often what they say is misinterpreted or seen badly by people and probably this is also why they can have difficulty opening up and trusting others. I therefore hope to be able to give him space to be as much himself as possible in a serene way. At the same time, the comparison with him is very useful for me to see things from another perspective. Thanks for this video and for your observations 😊
Me as an INTJ... Sees fictional ENFJ. "Yes marry me Queen". Sees real life ENFJ: "Ugh, a virtue signalling fake friend, no thanks." I don't hold it against them though. Being an Fe Dom in the social media age must be a nightmare.
Fi users also have a difficult time with social media so I wouldn't say that it's because of Fe but I understand the logic that got you there. IMO, ENFJs are better in person that in fiction 😁
Today my bestfriend did the test and she found out she's ENFJ . I'd say she is the only one that i feel i can be myself. Sometimes she is too "E" but is ok. This description is very accurate .
INTJ here, married to an ENFJ. Best adventures ever... once we stop arguing. Then again,we know couples that rarelly argue that pick on our argumentative nature, but guess who is still toghether? HA! Anyhow, as an older INTJ , I realize now how much ENFJs doubtvtheir own Ti, and how much comfort it brings them to bounce ideas against an INTJ no-nonsense approach.
I don't think I'd enjoy a relationship where there isn't a bit of bickering. It makes it easier to have tough discussions because you both learned how to approach such topics. I'm hoping the best for you two! ✊
Tenho um amigo INTJ e estamos quase tendo alguma coisa kkkk tentando entender mais ainda sobre ele com vídeos de MBTI, visto que ele se sente que não o compreendem, então farei o possível para acompanha-lo! Acho muito real isso de perguntar como ele está kkkk eu pergunto e ele responde com 1 ou 2 palavras, geralmente "estável" ou "normal" e eu faço de tudo para arrancar mais que isso, mas ele não sabe o que mais responder kkk ele é tãooo fofo! Muito respeitador e inteligente, o melhor é que as vezes 3 da manhã ele vem com uma pergunta filosófica ou sobre princípios e objetivos e mesmo que os nossos sejam opostos, conseguimos entender cada um e chegar a boas conclusões ou pelo menos terminar de forma respeitosa! Isso é algo que ele inclusive admira, pois ele diz que não faz esforço em ser delicado quando está falando algo que ele considera como verdade, e por causa disso muitas pessoas não tem paciência ou se afastam dele, mas eu sempre tento entender kkkk enfim, o sol e a lua. Eu amo minha luazinha :)
"Let talk about your dreams." YES! What are your goals? Do you have plans to achieve them? No but seriously , now that you've done your video and explained how you feel... HOW DO REALLY FEEL MAN? ARE YOU OKAY!? We all love you! don't forget it. :) ;)
Yay!!!! a JustcallmeJon video. I don't know if this is an INFJ thing or a me thing, but I take notes on what you say. And as I'm writing a book not about MBTI,, but is many short stories and I want to use MBTI in some of those stories. So after taking notes, my writing is just like a physicians and so I type up the notes. I have ADD, yea at my fricken age, lol. So you only get me for 20 minutes at a time and 30 if I'm into the subject. And my memory is that of well too much weed. By physically writing and then typing, I retain it better.
Will agree with you on appreciating people who challenge us as INTJs, and preferring that. It's one of the hardest things with Fe users that they don't voice disagreement when it would actually be helpful to the group to hash out the problems now so that we could move forward in the zombie apocalypse. It's sort of a value of harmony over clarity, but as things become less clear, they also become less harmonious. Anyway, I like the pick of Obama and Biden, even though I don't think those are their actual types. But Obama liked to hang back and is definitely a thinker, and no one who has heard Biden speak wouldn't recognize he's a Feeler and an Extrovert. And the two of them seem to have complemented each others strengths and weaknesses when they were in office together. Someone reading this might not like their politics, but this isn't about that. It's just about them being an effective team.
I really do appreciate any type that's willing to challenge us but also willing to listen. So often are people so inclined to challenge but refuse to hear the other person. ENFJs do both and that's one of the reason why they have my respect 😁
INTJ might be actually really good for us, you guys sound like really nice people ❤ I dont know if I ever met one in real life, how can I spot one of you if I dont know your personality type?
I want to add that you changed the way I see INTJs, I had a lot of stereotypes (like that they don't empathize with others, or that they are rude or cruel) and the truth is that I see them differently, I feel you kind and warm , and if I'm honest that was a good compliment (got me blushing). You are very interesting people and it must be nice to have you around, thank you very much for the work you do on this channel
It's difficult to type an INTJ because of all the masks that we wear unless you have a deep conversation with us. We tend to steer away from emotions and our Ni will lead every aspect of the conversation. This pairing is honestly one of the best pairing because the ENFJs will focus on everyone's emotional needs and the INTJ will work in the background to make sure the sensory needs are met. You guys really are one of the most powerful types that I know ✊
Kool Jon. I'm learning a lot from your videos. As you can tell I new to this but love learning what I can about it. The telling of your enfj dude/dudettes reminds me of my best friend, that seems to have the same traits. I could really rely on him and he on me it's like this unspoken knowing. Haha I'm freaking myself out! Thanks for your video! CYA!!!😂
@@justcallmejon22 I wish I was enfp. That sounds a lot like my cousin. He was always so happy, kid around and always included me in stuff, looked out for me. His happiness must have rubbed off on me I guess. 🤣 So now and again I am away with da fairies. Haha.😂😂 I guess that's why my sense of humour is whacky...or is it?🤣🤣🤣 I tested infj but wouldn't commit until I did 3 different test that all ended with the same results. Then went searching TH-cam and it freaked me out with some of the stuff about the type. I began understanding why i always felt like a weirdo, because it's what I had experienced growing up. The similarities threw me and most of it was pretty accurate, it scared me. And it started to make a lot of sense. There is such a lot of stuff to learn, but I'll learn it. It might take a while but I'm confident I will be able to get a handle on it. I'm just starting on cognitive functions and then will look into the shadows. But ur videos does help me identify the structure of the functions easier. I don't know much about other types, too busy trying to learn my own. Well, that's me. CYA!!!!😂
I must say I'm jealous of ENFJ's emotional intelligence, it must be really easy to read other people and get to know them without unknowingly offending them like we sometimes do.-- INTJ
Im an intj girl and i have an enfj crush but i dont know if he feels the same(we did not even talk with each other) lol thats a fail love story..but he is my type aaaaa🎉.. we just made a short eye contact one time and it was weirdd
A person can't be more than one personality (unless that person have Mulitple Personality Disorder). Learn about the cognitive functions, everything will become more clear because an INTJ doesn't use Fe and an ENFJ doesn't use Te. Good luck on your journey ✊
I love intjs and entjs and intps. I agree with everything you’re saying. I watched a video by…. C. S. Joseph that said that Intj and enfj lack the sexual chemistry and would feel awkward. I wholeheartedly didn’t see that in my experiences. I have felt very drawn to intjs and entjs ALOT!
So I took the test 2.5 years ago and was a protagonist . I took it again and I got Commander - is that possible I can be a mix of both ??? What’s interesting is recently started working on starting up a business and have bad to become less emotional and disciplined . I wonder if that changed me into a different person ? Thoughts ?
Read about cognitive functions and figure out which ones you relate to and which ones you don't. ENFJs have different functions to INTJs and it's really easy to tell which type you are once you understand the differences. Enjoy your journey of self discovery!
For me personally, I find ENFJs fun to be around socially and it can be really nice to have them cheer up everyone in the friend group. But what I find annoying about ENFJs is their petty censorship and how they constantly HAVE to be in a relationship, and how everyone in the friend group is pressured behave and self-censor in a way that doesn't displease their girlfriend (talking about male ENFJs). I don't like how they always suck up and try to please everyone while silencing you behind the screens. But yes, I did notice that on average ENFJs tend to he habitually in relationships and can't live without one. I was once told by an ENFJ to please not imitate an Indian accent because it might be offensive to Indians... (being offended in their stead.) I find they tend to be pretty disloyal and that a lot of times they choose to please their girlfriend over their close friends, for short lasting relationships. But in group projects ENFJs can be very good to work with and they keep up group morale. I have had pretty mixed experiences (both good and bad) with ENFJs, but if they're the bad types, oh boy can they grind my gears! Thanks for you videos and keep it up John!
Thank you for commenting your insights! I wouldn't say that I have the same experience with the ENFJs in my life but I can imagine ENFJs being that way. The relationship becomes easier once both parties drops our egos and trust the other person's strength. I trust and listen to my ENFJ when they provide Fe comments because I'm also part of their tribe so their Fe is also looking out for myself and not just everyone else. In return, my ENFJs trust and listens to my Ni. Once ya'll arrive to that level, the partnership is easy ✊
Sucks to hear that you had a negative experiences with an ENFJ. I wouldn't discount an entire type due to a single incident though and I hope that you meet a healthy ENFJ one day. They really do help the INTJ grow tremendously ✊
The TLDR is that your golden pair is a type that has the opposite I/E of your first function. If you're an Ni-dom, then Ne. If you're an Fi-dom then Fe, etc. That's how I read it but I might be wrong 😂
@@NugrahaNedi yeah my plan is to do answer the questions for them without them knowing. By analyzing /observing them and then entering the results of my Research No talking no wierd looks and no saying no. You could also do the same Thing with your bro / sis just dont ask them the questions directly so they dont suspect anything.
Not trying to be rude to all ENFJs But... I hate them, I'm still open to this day to meet any ENFJ who isn't annoying or straight up an asshole to me and everyone else in the group. I probably just met shitty people? Yes, that's what I'm saying, but if anyone says to me that they are ENFJ I'll instantly get defensively. My experience with this type is 100%, until now, all bad.
If I recall it right, you do not analyse your friends to know which MBTI types they are, right? You make them take the test. I wish I knew which types my friends are. So much must become clearer once you know their types.
Most of my friends have taken the 16P test before but most of them are mistyped. I don't actively type them but I understand cognitive functions enough now that I just know their types 🙃
I love both types! Even made a video about THIS. INTJs & ENFJ relationship compatibility. Thanks, for talking it through, you're interesting! Two of the most INTUITIVE personality types 🎉😍🪷.
Im 17 right now and about 4 years ago I got ENFJ on the MBTI but a couple weeks ago I did it again and got INTJ I've always loved ENFJs never knew I could become the villain though 😂
FYI, all of the online type tests are flawed. Especially 16P. It's really a Big 5 test. It switching you from Fe 1st to polr really illustrates that. If you really want to get your type you have to figure out your cognitive functions. I'd recommend getting typed by someone like Eric from Talking with Famous People, Spacy, or Aimee Y.
Before anyone comments, the thumbnail with Obama and Joe Biden is a widely used meme and should be treated as such. I know that Obama is not an INTJ and Biden is not an ENFJ. It's just a funny picture guys!
American politics seem to be wild since you have to comment this to makr sure you dont recive dumb comments.
People say Barack Obama is an ENFJ actually
Obama is actually an ENFJ ❤
How come C.S. Joseph says INTJ and ENFJ can't work in a relationship? He actually worried me because I met a great ENFJ woman and all seems amazing so far.
th-cam.com/video/j57jytOgr5E/w-d-xo.html That's the vid. Would love to hear your thoughts.
But the Obama couple is just perfect as an example here.
INTJ: Explains something, gives solution, no one cares.
ENFJ: Repeats it and everyone listens, solutions implemented
I appreciate all the enfjs that have helped me with that.
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You know now that I read this again from notifications... I wonder if they were just doing it because they know it was important to me. I could see enfjs doing that.
Amen to that 😂
Amen to that. My best manager is ENFJ, we're doing fantastic job as a team.
ENFJ female here.❤ My beloved late husband was an INTJ. We were so compatible in every way. We adored each other intensely. He went to Heaven last year/2023. I am lost without him😢. We had a fairytale romance for over 4 decades/43 years, and I can't wait to see him again. 😢❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this info. It is very accurate. God bless you❤❤ ❤
I'm sorry for your loss and it sounds like he was a great person ❤
I’m an ENFJ and my husband is an INTJ and we were laughing about how accurate this was 🤩
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Same intj my husband is enfj❤
Yes!!
I'm intj and I like an enfj and I think he as well, but not sure I'm also happy enough with our friendship
This is way too accurate! I'm an ENFJ happily non-married to an INTJ for 5 years, this is the most uncommon and deepest relationship I've ever had. The greatest and longer conversations have always been with my partner and I've noticed how much we've grown since we've first met. I've become a stronger and assertive person thanks to his honest insights, while he's learned patience and understanding with me (he still thinks the world is full of stupid people though, but we are working on that). INTJs are the most loyal, caring and smart people in the world once you have the chance to know them. They are more than the stereotypical "villains" in the movies, they are the heroes in the shadows. :)
"Happily non-married", you didn't have to say it that way ENFJ 😉. I love hearing about this pairing because I really do believe it's a strong pairing! Keep growing together and please take care of your INTJ 🙏
@justcallmejon22 hahaha oh, that's our statement to the world. I'm an ENFJ, but a 8w7, so I guess I share the tendency of not liking to be controlled or being traditional, as my INTJ :). Today, I went through most of your videos, looking for additional insights that will help me to understand and support my partner better. Even after all these years together, there's always room for improvement and understanding from both sides, especially for me, since I've found out that INTJs are a bit more complicated to "read" than many other personality types. Seriously, thank you for all the information, time, and effort you've placed on those videos. You have no idea how much you are helping everyone 😊.
@lalaguill So true❤❤❤
That’s so sweet
INTJ-ENFJ is an underrate pairing. I experienced a great deal of personal growth because of an ENFJ's love; her strengths complimented my weaknesses.
Agreed! This pairing is only horrible if both parties are unhealthy. Once we're healthy and understand how the other person function, it's such a strong pairing 😀
I dont know if someone has already said this, but one of the main things I found that I contribute to ENFJs is teaching them to have boundaries. ENFJs have such a difficult time with this. And most of the time, it's like they wake up and realize, "Oh wait a second. This person is abusing me." They are so happy to help and care for others, its all they see, like tunnel vision. They don't recognize the patterns of other people's behaviors. They are so warm, we learn a lot from each other. I dont mind watching their back and protecting them of they need me.
That's a good call out! I didn't cross my mind while making the video but I absolutely agree that INTJs help ENFJs understand Fi and develop bounderies ✊
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"Every time INTJ open his mouth, he is seen as rude" It's true ! 😢 And after parents, school, people... complained about why I didn't talk, or see us as shy.
3:42 This meme is so relatable, I like the picture.🤣
Thank ENFJ, for noticed me and made me feel included and not rejected, at sport and school. It's easier to socialize when ENFJ is here,
ENFJs truly are one of the best people out there 🙂
I consider ENFJ INTJ to be a golden pairing. So underrated, I (ENFJ) am able to have the deepest of philosophical conversation with another human being (INTJ) and fully flesh out ideas. They have endurance unlike INFP and INTP who peter out, whereas INTJ can take ideas to their limit. Amazing pairing as friends or significant others.
Sounds like someone is happy in their ENFJ/INTJ relationship 😉
I’m an INTJ My wife is a ENFJ … we are great together… 5 years married ! Your vid’s are on point!
#Powercouple
I'm an INTJ female with an ENFJ boyfriend. I find it annoying when he's trying to "cheer me up" when I'm completely fine and just trying to recharge.
And they take it personal when they can't. I understand INTJ, I swear I go through this once a year with my ENFJs 😂
Sorry, INTJs. I'm glad you like us anyway. XD
Finally I’ve been waiting for this video! as an ENFJ I find INTJ intriguing due to their analytical and logical approach to problem-solving, which in my opinion…can complement the ENFJ's warmth and empathy. And I am appreciated INTJ’s profound perspectives on everything and their help for leading me to be a healthier ENFJ😊
(Also thank you Jon! for letting us know how to attract an INTJ. That really helps a lot😆)
The feeling is mutual ENFJ 🙂
Been married to my ENFJ wife for 23 years. Best relationship I have ever had, and that includes my loving and attentive parents.
Congrats on finding an ENFJ! It sounds like a great marriage and I aspire to be in your position one day 🙂
My coworker is an ENFJ he was able to climb his way to the top with his charisma alone in less than 3 months lol. He always asks my decisions and opinions on things. He said I give very honest and practical advice.
ENFJs are a force to be reckoned with when they're disciplined. It's amazing to watch their growth.
ENFJ-A Here: I've learned that introverts batteries get drained quickily if they are always being dragged out. When they are are quiet, I suggest a quiet place for them to be alone to recharge and I love seeing theirs light up. I leave them alone if they are very quiet as much as I want to ask whats up. I've learned the introverts like to figure things out on their own first before they can vocalize it. So I love giving them that space and know they will come to me when they are ready and recharged.
Excellent video ❤
Thank you for taking the time to understand us! Trust me when I say that we want to be able to socialize to the same degree or length as extroverts but we're not just not wired the same way. I'll speak for all introverts and say that we appreciate the most the friends that allow us space to recharge 😁
Thank you and you nailed it!!✨🙌
I am an ENFJ and something I think is gravely under represented in so many MBTI videos is the fact that ENFJs highly value objective information that we might not necessarily agree with.
Even though our “super power” is connecting with people, we CRAVE differing opinions because it is a literal source of growth for us and an opportunity to potentially help growth in others.
You are so on point with how ENFJs use Fe with Ni for lessons. Our Fe supercharges our Ni!✨
ENFJ 🤜🤛 INTJ
I really do appreciate the ENFJ's ability to entertain a thought and not believe in it. You guys are really great to talk to because you're one of the only types that can follow the Ni-dom when we go full-on Ni-nerd mode. Keep protecting the world for us ENFJ 🙏
THIS!!!! Thank you!!
INTJ here and I agree. I love ENFJs (and yes, more than ESFJs). ENFJs just get me and I appreciate that SO MUCH! Also, those memes are hilarious by the way! LOL
Healthy ENFJs are really great 🙂
I am a true, mature and balanced ENFJ, and I love INTJs! I have been blessed to have a couple of them in my life as close friends...So the feeling is mutual, you are the BEST! I ADMIRE YOU!😉
Thank you ENFJ, you guys are great as well 😁
I’m too late to comment, but I only wanted to say that this analysis is super spot on.
One of my best friends is an ENFJ and it’s very interesting to see our interactions since a lot of people don’t understand our sense of humor. She is one of the few people who can make me cry laughing while other people will just stand there confused. Apart from the sense of humor, we both enjoy analyzing EVERYTHING. She doesn’t really know anything about MBTI, but as soon as I started telling her about it, she was sitting there and asking “what else?”, “tell me more about my type”. I love her so much, and I can’t begin to explain how in sync INTJs and ENFJs tend to be in most of the times and how we compliment each other so well.
It's never to late to leave a comment! I'm happy to hear that you found an ENFJ that appreciates you, we really aren't for everyone 😅
I’m an ENFJ and my husband is an INTJ and we feel so seen from this entire video! Accurate 🎯
That's awesome and congrats on finding an INTJ! Make sure to let him have some space and please continue taking care of him for me 😀
Hey man thank you for this. I’m an ENFJ 1w2 guy and the most influential people that have made me a better person have been INTjs.
The feeling is mutual! ENFJs have helped me become a better person than I 'd like to admit 😅
I found your channel in search of helping an INTJ as an ENFJ therapist… this video is very encouraging, thank you!
Of all the MBTI types, you ENFJs are probably the best in changing the mind of an INTJ. It might feel like you're talking to a brick wall but I promise you, we're listening, we just need time to process. Thank you for taking care of my fellow INTJs ❤
I really appreciate INTJ objectively saying what’s going on! Sometimes we ENFj’s are so absorbed with the vision of that final outcome that we overlook what is happening 😅
We appreciate ENFJs caring so much ❤
"This is why INTJs love x-types." The INTJ - such an all-encompassing type. Not exactly the stereotypical villain INTJ, eh? You surely are a mature INTJ! And as soon as the initial touch of jealousy subsides (you are not supposed to love them all! 😂😂), I feel so proud of you! Way to go!
I despise the INTJ Villian stereotype 🙃
As an ENFJ I found your video so insightful. Thank You & INTJ's are awesome too 🫶
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As an Intj this is super facts. My twin brother is an Enfj and this is super facts, great video to most Enfj peeps I've encountered were the best in my experience.
Huge learning curve to co-exist but always worth it ✊🏼
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I am a male INTJ and I've only dated or crushed on (female) ENFJs. They are good at everything I am not, they challenge my weaknesses like mass social settings with strangers, and offer a more empathetic POV on life when us INTJs can be more cold or overtly rational. It amazes me to watch ENFJs get everyone to love them immediately, but are also able to keep up with me 1-1 about deeper and complex topics with Ni going wild.
To add onto growth, they challenge me to be more in tune with emotions as it is very easy to say something blunt and hurt their feelings unintentionally. ENFJs typically will not call it out and hold it in. In my opinion ENFJs challenge INTJs in the way we need it most but we can also understand and respect them for it.
I agree that the ENFJs challenge the INTJ and force us to grow. It's annoying when they are right but it's also amazing how much effort they put into improving our behavioral in a way that we're unaware was necessary 😅
Female enfj here, such a sweet and well explained opinion, I would like to ask you, ENFJ is not your golden pair, What is your opinion on your actually "perfect match" and golden pairs in generally?
One of my friends is an ENFJ. Bit of a goofball at times but he likes doing an Ni sparring session, especially fantasy sessions. He's the light in the room. But also is annoying in outside scenario settings, he seems to know almost every person in the region which disrupts our moving forwards in our day out.
That video is great! I am an ENFJ and I am dating an INTJ- your explanation totally gets our interaction. Thank you!
Don't forget to let your INTJ breathe sometimes ENFJ and congrats on finding your own INTJ 😂
As an ENFJ i appreciated these words of affirmation lol thank you
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This one was another one I was waiting for, and oh boy did you nail it! My ENFJ friend is probably one of the few people outside of my most inner circle of friends where I'm ever genuinely concerned about their opinion on a matter and hold any thoughts they share on a topic in high regard. Pretty much right up there with my ENTJ friend like you mentioned in the video.
I remember when that first lighting of the loyalty torch took place between us. We were both learning a fight for the first time and he was one of our healers while I was playing a caster. Because I was playing a caster I naturally have one of the lowest health pools, and one of the things I typically experience when playing with a lot of other healers is they underestimate how much damage a move is going to do to me vs just about everyone else in the group with more health to spare. The boss does a move that specifically targeted dps role I take damage as expected, first mech clears. Then the boss starts charging up another raid wide move and I'm floating at about 55% health from the first hit. Based on past experience, I'm just expecting to die and start the mental count down to malding. And then as if the ENFJ read my mind I just hear him go over the mic, "Yeah... I don't trust that..." and he shoots me a heal before the move comes out to make sure I survive. It was such a simple action, but because there are so many people who just over-estimate themselves and under-estimate how hard the boss will hit I've died in that situation more than I really ever should, so to see someone who actually decided to not take that needless chance with my life just instantly raised the loyalty flag moving forward.
If they ever asked for me to adjust something to make their load a little lighter, where most other people got some pushback if it didn't make sense, with the ENFJ I already trust the feedback and just make the adjustment because I trust they aren't going to ask me to do something that will put me in a bad spot. Once we know a fight well enough, we can usually short hand signals to each other and know what the other is asking for without a detailed explanation of why because we both NI'd the shit out of a situation and saw the same path to the fix. An example of this is usually if I can adjust to take a hit and avoid a wipe, even if I shouldn't have too, I will cause the clear is the goal. But that also means I'm going to take damage I shouldn't have to take. When things are about to pop-off, I'll almost unconsciously just sigh and go, "Dammit..." cause I'm already expecting to die, but then my ENFJ friend will follow that up immediately with, "I got you!" and we just make it work.
The ENFJ is truly one of the few people that always has a spot on the VIP list when it comes to asking for assistance because I know they'll always pay it back down the way without even being asked. And because they inspire that level of loyalty, it's funny when they do try and get me out of my "known social bubble" to meet new people, cause when they make the invite, they always do so in this way that seems to say, "You may not want to... but I'll be disappointed if you don't." And I just never have it in me to actively want to disappoint them, so I'll always take up the invite. Probably because I know if the situation was reversed and I needed them to work with some people they didn't really know, they'd come along with no hesitation and fit the vibe to create that social harmony almost effortlessly.
ENFJs are great at Ni and it really is easy to work with them. I trust my ENFJ when we game as well ✊
I’m an ENFJ and my boyfriend is an INTJ. I really appreciate all of your videos because it allows me a lot of insight into his mind without interrogating him too much😂. Thank you for sharing the INTJ mind ❤ it will definitely improve my relationship.
Thank you for seeking to understand him better and please take care of him for us ❤
Hi im an ENFJ and literally this video made my day❤ thank you so much for this idk why but people dont understand me well and i havent found an INTJ yet but i love how INTJs understand ENFJs so much and im happy to know a lot about u guys too so next time i meet an INTJ ill know what to do! (Also its very sweet of u to reply on each comment)
Please take care of the INTJ you find 😃
I will make sure to👍thanks for the reminder@@justcallmejon22
@@justcallmejon22 will do sir😂😂
This was a great video. I’m definitely an ENFJ but I have grown the ability through personal development to focus on my own worth, goals and how to manage all of these traits. Even using more TI when called upon and then use extraverted feeling. I have a really good INTJ friend and I have noticed us growing closer through our interactions and appreciation for each other via our conversations.
Congrats on finding an INTJ! ENFJs are one of the only types that can influence the INTJ so take care of your buddy for me. Continue growing, my friend, don't forget to take care of yourself along the way 🙏
ENFJ here 😁 OMG, it's so true that when I go out with my friends there's no way I won't ask within a few minutes: how are you, really? Or try to start conversations about life XD
I have some INTJ friends and in particular a dear friend from work and it took a few months before he felt confident enough to open up; but since he did, we can talk about anything in a deep and direct way (which for us ENFJs is great, since it's both a stimulating moment and where we can recharge, because we don't often get the chance to be direct).
I have to say that I've really noticed that we often make the same observations (which has only happened to me with other ENFJ friends), so when we talk it doesn't take much for us to understand and immediately reason about the subject of the conversation. I've noticed that compared to me, who I would say tends to guide people more by talking as deeply as possible, he has a much more practical way of helping, which I find equally effective and inspiring.
Unfortunately, very often what they say is misinterpreted or seen badly by people and probably this is also why they can have difficulty opening up and trusting others. I therefore hope to be able to give him space to be as much himself as possible in a serene way. At the same time, the comparison with him is very useful for me to see things from another perspective. Thanks for this video and for your observations 😊
Thank you for the taking your time to learn more about your INTJ ❤
So accurate. My closest friend is an INTJ and he isn’t afraid to tell me how it is.
It gets us into more trouble than we'd like to admit but being truthful is worth it 🙂
I’m a enfj, longtime tech sales. the cto and our top engineers are definitely intj. this is so correct!
Me as an INTJ... Sees fictional ENFJ. "Yes marry me Queen". Sees real life ENFJ: "Ugh, a virtue signalling fake friend, no thanks." I don't hold it against them though. Being an Fe Dom in the social media age must be a nightmare.
Fi users also have a difficult time with social media so I wouldn't say that it's because of Fe but I understand the logic that got you there. IMO, ENFJs are better in person that in fiction 😁
Today my bestfriend did the test and she found out she's ENFJ . I'd say she is the only one that i feel i can be myself. Sometimes she is too "E" but is ok. This description is very accurate .
Congrats on finding an ENFJ! Take care of her, she's going to forget doing that sometimes when she tries to take care of everyone else 😅
INTJ here, married to an ENFJ. Best adventures ever... once we stop arguing. Then again,we know couples that rarelly argue that pick on our argumentative nature, but guess who is still toghether? HA!
Anyhow, as an older INTJ , I realize now how much ENFJs doubtvtheir own Ti, and how much comfort it brings them to bounce ideas against an INTJ no-nonsense approach.
I don't think I'd enjoy a relationship where there isn't a bit of bickering. It makes it easier to have tough discussions because you both learned how to approach such topics. I'm hoping the best for you two! ✊
Tenho um amigo INTJ e estamos quase tendo alguma coisa kkkk tentando entender mais ainda sobre ele com vídeos de MBTI, visto que ele se sente que não o compreendem, então farei o possível para acompanha-lo! Acho muito real isso de perguntar como ele está kkkk eu pergunto e ele responde com 1 ou 2 palavras, geralmente "estável" ou "normal" e eu faço de tudo para arrancar mais que isso, mas ele não sabe o que mais responder kkk ele é tãooo fofo! Muito respeitador e inteligente, o melhor é que as vezes 3 da manhã ele vem com uma pergunta filosófica ou sobre princípios e objetivos e mesmo que os nossos sejam opostos, conseguimos entender cada um e chegar a boas conclusões ou pelo menos terminar de forma respeitosa! Isso é algo que ele inclusive admira, pois ele diz que não faz esforço em ser delicado quando está falando algo que ele considera como verdade, e por causa disso muitas pessoas não tem paciência ou se afastam dele, mas eu sempre tento entender kkkk enfim, o sol e a lua. Eu amo minha luazinha :)
Parece que vocês dois têm um ótimo relacionamento. Por favor, cuide dele para mim 🙏
@@justcallmejon22 Simmm! Vou cuidar bem do meu anti-social favorito haha! Amei o seu vídeo, moço!!
"Let talk about your dreams." YES! What are your goals? Do you have plans to achieve them? No but seriously , now that you've done your video and explained how you feel... HOW DO REALLY FEEL MAN? ARE YOU OKAY!? We all love you! don't forget it. :) ;)
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I'm sending this to my ENFJ friend cause we just had a big fight, I'll keep you posted on how it goes ahahahah
I'm sure you two will come out of this with a stronger bond ❤
Aww!! Thank you!!! 🥰🥰🫠
No problem 😊
Yay!!!! a JustcallmeJon video. I don't know if this is an INFJ thing or a me thing, but I take notes on what you say. And as I'm writing a book not about MBTI,, but is many short stories and I want to use MBTI in some of those stories. So after taking notes, my writing is just like a physicians and so I type up the notes. I have ADD, yea at my fricken age, lol. So you only get me for 20 minutes at a time and 30 if I'm into the subject. And my memory is that of well too much weed. By physically writing and then typing, I retain it better.
MBTI or Character Archetypes are excellent ways to write characters! One of the video that I'm working on is how to write an INTJ 🙃
Will agree with you on appreciating people who challenge us as INTJs, and preferring that. It's one of the hardest things with Fe users that they don't voice disagreement when it would actually be helpful to the group to hash out the problems now so that we could move forward in the zombie apocalypse.
It's sort of a value of harmony over clarity, but as things become less clear, they also become less harmonious.
Anyway, I like the pick of Obama and Biden, even though I don't think those are their actual types. But Obama liked to hang back and is definitely a thinker, and no one who has heard Biden speak wouldn't recognize he's a Feeler and an Extrovert. And the two of them seem to have complemented each others strengths and weaknesses when they were in office together.
Someone reading this might not like their politics, but this isn't about that. It's just about them being an effective team.
I really do appreciate any type that's willing to challenge us but also willing to listen. So often are people so inclined to challenge but refuse to hear the other person. ENFJs do both and that's one of the reason why they have my respect 😁
@@justcallmejon22 Agreed.
Thanks for following us in the middle of the Zombi apocalypse ❤😅
You guys lead, I'll make sure we're alive 😀
INTJ might be actually really good for us, you guys sound like really nice people ❤ I dont know if I ever met one in real life, how can I spot one of you if I dont know your personality type?
I want to add that you changed the way I see INTJs, I had a lot of stereotypes (like that they don't empathize with others, or that they are rude or cruel) and the truth is that I see them differently, I feel you kind and warm , and if I'm honest that was a good compliment (got me blushing). You are very interesting people and it must be nice to have you around, thank you very much for the work you do on this channel
It's difficult to type an INTJ because of all the masks that we wear unless you have a deep conversation with us. We tend to steer away from emotions and our Ni will lead every aspect of the conversation. This pairing is honestly one of the best pairing because the ENFJs will focus on everyone's emotional needs and the INTJ will work in the background to make sure the sensory needs are met. You guys really are one of the most powerful types that I know ✊
@@justcallmejon22 Thank you so much, Merry Christmas for you 🩷
Kool Jon. I'm learning a lot from your videos. As you can tell I new to this but love learning what I can about it. The telling of your enfj dude/dudettes reminds me of my best friend, that seems to have the same traits. I could really rely on him and he on me it's like this unspoken knowing. Haha I'm freaking myself out! Thanks for your video! CYA!!!😂
If I recall correctly you're an ENFP right? Either way, ENFJs are great people 😁
@@justcallmejon22 I wish I was enfp. That sounds a lot like my cousin. He was always so happy, kid around and always included me in stuff, looked out for me. His happiness must have rubbed off on me I guess. 🤣 So now and again I am away with da fairies. Haha.😂😂 I guess that's why my sense of humour is whacky...or is it?🤣🤣🤣
I tested infj but wouldn't commit until I did 3 different test that all ended with the same results. Then went searching TH-cam and it freaked me out with some of the stuff about the type. I began understanding why i always felt like a weirdo, because it's what I had experienced growing up. The similarities threw me and most of it was pretty accurate, it scared me. And it started to make a lot of sense.
There is such a lot of stuff to learn, but I'll learn it. It might take a while but I'm confident I will be able to get a handle on it. I'm just starting on cognitive functions and then will look into the shadows. But ur videos does help me identify the structure of the functions easier. I don't know much about other types, too busy trying to learn my own. Well, that's me. CYA!!!!😂
ENFJ🚺 - A Nurse or Flight Attendant with Unstoppable force
INTJ🚹 - An Immovable Physical Therapist or Engineer
This is so accurate! INTJ OT student working in Physical Therapy and Rehab here😅.
Awesome stuff
Thank you 🙏
I must say I'm jealous of ENFJ's emotional intelligence, it must be really easy to read other people and get to know them without unknowingly offending them like we sometimes do.-- INTJ
I agree, it's annoying going into conversations knowing that it's a coin flip if I'm going to accidently offend them 🙃
Im an intj girl and i have an enfj crush but i dont know if he feels the same(we did not even talk with each other) lol thats a fail love story..but he is my type aaaaa🎉.. we just made a short eye contact one time and it was weirdd
Go say hi 🙂
@@justcallmejon22 i just found out that he is engaged i feel kinda stupid i hope to escape
So accurate !
Hey Jon, thanks for sharing this video! Could you comment on what if one person has both INTJa and ENFJa personalities? Would that be wired?
A person can't be more than one personality (unless that person have Mulitple Personality Disorder). Learn about the cognitive functions, everything will become more clear because an INTJ doesn't use Fe and an ENFJ doesn't use Te. Good luck on your journey ✊
I love intjs and entjs and intps. I agree with everything you’re saying. I watched a video by…. C. S. Joseph that said that Intj and enfj lack the sexual chemistry and would feel awkward. I wholeheartedly didn’t see that in my experiences. I have felt very drawn to intjs and entjs ALOT!
What a funny video topic because MBTI doesn't determine physical attraction so I agree with your own personal experience 😁
Enfj here - I have a 5 year plan to become a millionaire and looking for INTJ husband to join me on the ride 😃
There are plenty of single INTJs so take your pick! 😅
So I took the test 2.5 years ago and was a protagonist . I took it again and I got Commander - is that possible I can be a mix of both ???
What’s interesting is recently started working on starting up a business and have bad to become less emotional and disciplined . I wonder if that changed me into a different person ?
Thoughts ?
Read about cognitive functions and figure out which ones you relate to and which ones you don't. ENFJs have different functions to INTJs and it's really easy to tell which type you are once you understand the differences. Enjoy your journey of self discovery!
My mom is enfj and i am intj and we always fight
My mom is an Fe dom as well so we clashed a lot when I was a child. I understand the pain ❤
For me personally, I find ENFJs fun to be around socially and it can be really nice to have them cheer up everyone in the friend group. But what I find annoying about ENFJs is their petty censorship and how they constantly HAVE to be in a relationship, and how everyone in the friend group is pressured behave and self-censor in a way that doesn't displease their girlfriend (talking about male ENFJs).
I don't like how they always suck up and try to please everyone while silencing you behind the screens. But yes, I did notice that on average ENFJs tend to he habitually in relationships and can't live without one.
I was once told by an ENFJ to please not imitate an Indian accent because it might be offensive to Indians... (being offended in their stead.)
I find they tend to be pretty disloyal and that a lot of times they choose to please their girlfriend over their close friends, for short lasting relationships.
But in group projects ENFJs can be very good to work with and they keep up group morale.
I have had pretty mixed experiences (both good and bad) with ENFJs, but if they're the bad types, oh boy can they grind my gears!
Thanks for you videos and keep it up John!
Thank you for commenting your insights! I wouldn't say that I have the same experience with the ENFJs in my life but I can imagine ENFJs being that way. The relationship becomes easier once both parties drops our egos and trust the other person's strength. I trust and listen to my ENFJ when they provide Fe comments because I'm also part of their tribe so their Fe is also looking out for myself and not just everyone else. In return, my ENFJs trust and listens to my Ni. Once ya'll arrive to that level, the partnership is easy ✊
I got manipulated the shit out of by an ENFJ, that was the first and last time I'd be bamboozled by someone...
Well hey it's a new experience.
Sucks to hear that you had a negative experiences with an ENFJ. I wouldn't discount an entire type due to a single incident though and I hope that you meet a healthy ENFJ one day. They really do help the INTJ grow tremendously ✊
@@justcallmejon22 Don't worry, I didn't discount the entire type, I have a pretty good friend of mine who is an ENFJ
As I mature, I need less and less words of affirmation, I would rather see action from the other people. -ENFJ
Welcome to the dark side 😈
I want to meet ENFJ's of every zodiac sign to see if there are differences. I'm a Scorpio ENFJ. And yes, I have a cold side and am straightforward 😉.
I'm sure there's a discord full of ENFJs for you to analyze 🙃
Weird question but who are ur golden pairs and also the worst pairs possible cuz chatgpt is confusing me😂😂
The TLDR is that your golden pair is a type that has the opposite I/E of your first function. If you're an Ni-dom, then Ne. If you're an Fi-dom then Fe, etc. That's how I read it but I might be wrong 😂
My mama enfj .
My papa estp
My 1 aunty estj
My granpa esfj
My granny isfj
Me intj 😁
How did you find out?
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Of course test them all .
@@NugrahaNedi you just asked them ?
Respekt i find it to uncomfortebal to Talk about .
@@beagrothus7916 fun it is .
But i fail ask my bro and sis .
They resist 😁
@@NugrahaNedi yeah my plan is to do answer the questions for them without them knowing. By analyzing /observing them and then entering the results of my
Research No talking no wierd looks and no saying no.
You could also do the same Thing with your bro / sis just dont ask them the questions directly so they dont suspect anything.
So do we love everyone lol 😅
I know I do 😅
Not trying to be rude to all ENFJs
But... I hate them, I'm still open to this day to meet any ENFJ who isn't annoying or straight up an asshole to me and everyone else in the group.
I probably just met shitty people? Yes, that's what I'm saying, but if anyone says to me that they are ENFJ I'll instantly get defensively.
My experience with this type is 100%, until now, all bad.
Sucks to hear that you have a negative experience with ENFJs. I hope you meet a healthy ENFJ one day because they truly are a blessing for INTJs ✊
If I recall it right, you do not analyse your friends to know which MBTI types they are, right? You make them take the test. I wish I knew which types my friends are. So much must become clearer once you know their types.
Most of my friends have taken the 16P test before but most of them are mistyped. I don't actively type them but I understand cognitive functions enough now that I just know their types 🙃
@@justcallmejon22 I really need to study cognitive functions more!
I love both types! Even made a video about THIS. INTJs & ENFJ relationship compatibility. Thanks, for talking it through, you're interesting! Two of the most INTUITIVE personality types 🎉😍🪷.
An easily compatible pair if both parties are healthy 😀
Im 17 right now and about 4 years ago I got ENFJ on the MBTI but a couple weeks ago I did it again and got INTJ I've always loved ENFJs never knew I could become the villain though 😂
FYI, all of the online type tests are flawed. Especially 16P. It's really a Big 5 test. It switching you from Fe 1st to polr really illustrates that. If you really want to get your type you have to figure out your cognitive functions. I'd recommend getting typed by someone like Eric from Talking with Famous People, Spacy, or Aimee Y.
Sad to hear that you automatically associated being an INTJ to being a villain 😞