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- Want someone to notice you? What are some things you can be doing to show them what a great person you are so they fall for you in no time? Well, if you look to psychology, the obvious and not so obvious tips, here are a few psychological tricks that can make anyone fall for you.
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Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Grace Cárdenas Cano
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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my crush watches this channel so if this goes public this is kind of like my confession to her lmaoo anyways swag video
I mean, I also watch this channel…does this mean your confessing to me too?
Good vibes dude, your in the right place.
Why does the comment says it was posted 3 months ago.. or is it just me?(the video was posted a few minutes ago)
@@sinoka7851 maybe patreon idk
Let’s get this to the highlighted comment.
Just be yourself and let the right people get drawn to you.. 🙂
Hey there, that's good advice I reckon. At least then the person will like who you are, not who you pretend to be. What good is that? Nothin'.
Not to be a contrarian, but try looking outside of people like you...you'd be surprised who's out there. Edit: I think I put this under the wrong comment.
@@pirupami9746 Sorry, no idea but I looked them up. Why?
Exactly
If I did that I would still be a virgin
"Wear red"
My crush: **is colorblind**
Ah yes, I'm sure that'll get them
oh no（︶^︶）
Then wear any color!
Wear green...green and red are the same frequency
I don't know what to say to that
Hahahahha this in a nutshell
1. Mirror your partner 0:49
2. Actually spend time with your partner 1:32
3. Show you are capable and intelligent, but still human 2:36
4. Show your positive side 3:41
5. Wear red 4:22
6. Make a good first impression 5:14
Hope this helps☺️
Thanks time traveller
Hello time traveler, thanks!
How..... I'm confused...... this vid literally has been posted 4 min ago
Time Traveller, do they fall for me?
TH-cam is drunk.. the comment was posted 3 months ago and this video was uploaded just a few minutes ago
The most attractive quality is the how well polished are your internal beliefs. Do you feel good enough and do you truly love and are happy with your life? ¿ Or do you feel like you are not worth and will not attract the type of person you deserve? Your beliefs will define your behaviour, actions, do yourself a favor and start telling yourself and believing your are whole and complete *accompanied with actions that make you grow * and be grateful every second, that will change your internal beliefs over time, autosuggestion hypnotization BABY! What you tell yourself will either make you attractive or repel people. Tell yourself you are amazing everyday and watch how your behaviour changes and how you begin to attract a higher caliber of people into your life.
I admire intelligence, the ability to laugh at oneself, kindness, honesty, and the desire to learn and continue to grow
I have several deal breakers, but if I were to be out on a first date with a man and I learned he was a hunter, it would never work
@Nurse God put animals on earth for us to eat lmao, as a hunter he’s doing gods will if he kills it with respect.
This is BS lol
Thank you for this. 👏🏻 I am currently undergoing a personal confidence project and this is something I can use as reflection! :D
What if I'm not amazing and have done bad things in my life? I can't lie to myself.
It’s important to remember that these signs can all be exploited. Certain people unfortunately haven’t learned to/don’t want to commit to any deep love but still know exactly how to push anyone’s buttons to make them fall in love. Thus, it’s super important to look out for signs of incompatibility, flakiness, two-timing with multiple people and other player behavior if it’s commitment you’re looking for. Even the most sensible and intelligent people can be fooled so always look out for signs it’s too good to be true.
You mean being a sleazy player? Yeah that's not a fun life to live. Plus it can leave you feeling like shit when you go home alone single and childless.
Thank you u said it smh ppl so gullible
Salesmen have mastered the mirroring one.
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
Number 3 is important, some people even fall for someone else's clumsiness. It's in the human nature that we want to be as close to perfect as possible, but it's impossible. Very interesting video, thanks! ❤️🙌
@@pirupami9746 what ab it?
the first time i saw my crush was when he tripped himself on the stairs hahahhahah
This was the most intimidating tip to me and probably the most revealing. I used to be 350 lbs and I lost 115. I now have a "Chad body" I've been told but I'm still a nerd. It's been insanely hard for me to connect to anyone for years. I don't know if this is an "aha" moment or if I'm just wrong and that's not the reason I can't connect with people 😔
@@evantaylorwashington4910 don’t contend, instead learn how to yield. Without humility you will not succeed in connecting with others. With self praise you won’t shine. With complaints, the complaints won’t end.
@@evantaylorwashington4910 the more you try to “come of as intelligent” the less intelligent you’ll come of as. Yield.
hey, you...was today rough? take a moment to rest...you don't have to push yourself too hard...
go easy on yourself. be gentle to yourself... forgive your past mistakes...after all,you are the
only person you will live with until the end...in case no one has said it to you today -
I am proud of you, and i'll continue cheering for you, wherever you are from 🙏💖💖💖
Thank you 🥺
Thank you😊❤️
"A good Video On the Theory of Moving Emotions. Something As Complex as you You th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html
Thank you
Thank uu
I haven’t had a crush in years, but I’m here anyway because I love this channel so much
1. Mirror your partner
2. Actually spend time with your partner
3. Show you are capable and intelligent. but still human
4. Show your positive side
5. Wear red!
6. Make a good first impression
Time traveler¿¿¿¿
3 months????
Thank you
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
No wonder I'm attracted to my crush
She's always happy, making jokes, and just a fun person to be around
If its meant to be its meant to be. Sometimes we dont even know why we fall for the people we fall for but it just happens and there's no set formula or way to make someone like you. At most these tips might help you make more friends or make you seem more charming but won't always make someone like you romantically.
the editing for these videos are getting so much better and it makes me so happy bc it actually keeps me like FOCUSED on it and it helps me visualize it
I can’t express how thankful I am for your videos - they definitely help me understand myself better and get through the daily life. Thanks, you are a blessing 🙏🏼
I'm like you.....I love truth and wisdom and intelligent conversations, but I find chickens around me who iether can't, won't or are agreviated by any conversations about in-depth things..
I wish we could meet all together ,I mean us victims
same here
@@pirupami9746 no mate but I'll check it out now.
Go get your crush
yep me too
Love the Jujitsu Kaisen clip. 😂🤣😂🤣 I also love how the DSMP is referenced in the animations so much. I'm a long time subscriber, and these videos have helped me understand myself and my trauma so much. Thank you guys for the support on my road to recovery! 💕💕💕
Gojo is simply the perfect example 😎
Timestamp?
@@rotten9505 2:25
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
i was just watching then i was wait a second was that gojo and had to go back i was not expecting that
I’d like to argue that number 4 slightly contradicts number 3. If you’re always happy, that’s not realistic and you might come off as being “perfect”. Which as a result might lower your attractiveness.
It just imply that being mostly happy is better
Giving off good energy and happy vibe is important but showing that your life is not perfect, you are not perfect is great cause people start to make nonhuman expectations which you can't blame them for..
Always being nice is just showing emotional maturity unless you see a threat, then, dont be nice but know how to do it right or you'll look like a loose cannon.
VIBE CHECK!!!
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
How many teens here?
Guilty😂
Wow! This makes more sense now. In a society where too many are seeking perfection, why not seek progression? I've had girls who didn't see me in the best light at first, but were immensely blown away that I turned everything around. I just had to warm up!
Great video!!
Girls have unlimited options especially if they're hot. They look for pros and cons not just looks. We typically go for straight looks first because...well...that's just how we are. Girls cycle emotions faster than men but they also dont see long term outcomes the same as us.
Just an observation 🤷♂️
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
this video just told me to be more confident to be more likeable so i guess me being energetic and being me all around is enough
I'm curious about the red dress study. Did they make the two women swap dresses at any point and do an equal amount of meetings? What if the girl in red was just more attractive or seemed more inviting? That could cause the data to skew towards the red dress. Also, how big was the sample size?
I ask because find myself less attracted to red. So I wonder if I'm an outlier or it the study has some flaws in data collection.
I wonder if something else was going on there too. Just because the men wanted to spend time with the red dress ladies and sit close to them doesn’t necessarily mean that they were falling for them, right? I think that the colour red gets associated with sex and sexy ladies, so there were potentially other motives going on there? 🧐
that's so interesting that you're not attracted to red, our mind is fascinating!
also, they linked the source for that study in the description, you can read it for free
Haha girl in red get it because funny reference
@@miss_B_ oof
I didn't even notice. ty
"The elements in a relationship which seem impossible to share, the secretly disturbing, dissatisfying elements, are the most rewarding to share. This is a hard, risky, frightening thing to learn, and it needs to be re-learned over and over." - Carl Rogers
Amazing tips as always! I've found the leg sweep very effective in making others fall for me, but I think I'll be using these tips in the near future.
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I love love love Amanda's voice overs. Her voice is just so soft and clear. 🥰🥰🥰
You have to take into account that liking a person, like a well… person, is important too, you can use these “tricks” sort of but remember to be yourself and don’t try too hard, people aren’t games who you play, and if you grind hard enough you win, you have to be yourself and let them like you, these tricks are really cool but remember to be yourself too! Love you psych2go❤️
Hey Physch2Go I love you,please hear me out! I have problem now - I need these videos to stay okay because being Introvert with Insomnia completely destroying me every day. So while I'm alive,I watch the remaining fragile years of my life with good contents like you. Thank you for this,you changed my life everyday
Same here 🤝🏻 😂
:( GWS 🐻
@@rickrolled3666 Chung.
Holy shit. Why do you come off as suicidal 🤔
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Raise your hand if you secretly love someone ✋🥰
Thanks for putting the references in the description! I am going to actually read the studies thanks to that
This channel is honestly amazing
Your videos are a huge support especially since I’m crushing on somebody.
This was a really happy video and I loved it. Thank you.
thank you for uploading 🖤
i am a girl who haves a crush on another girl in the same class and she haves a boyfriend who’s also in our class. i just came here since school started and i have really bad social anxiety so i don’t get to talk a lot but in the past few weeks or months i got closer with my classmates, even the girl im very attracted to. idk if i’m her type or if she even likes girls (bcs she haves a boyfriend) we also sit next to each other every time there’s a seat free which is good i think! but i really have no clue if i even have a minimum chance to get her to fall in love with me and she really really loves her boyfriend. i’m planning to meet up with her soon (that’s also a huge step for my social anxiety)
Your voice fills me with positive energy and thoughts, thank you 😊
Thank you for welcoming me; I’ve felt so good after these videos! I love them. You help me sm and I love you guys sm you’ve helped me in life🥺💗
U being sarcastic?
my favorite channel on here. such a calming voice and pain reliever. amazing tips and brief
Ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get in this life..
“ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
_ Matthew 6: 32_33
everything in this life is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary..The only thing that will last for ever from this life is your soul.
So nothing in this life is worth your Eternal soul.
1. mirror your partner (0:50)
2. actually spend time with your partner (1:32)
3. show you are capable and intelligent, but still human (2:37)
4. show your positive side (3:43)
5. wear red (4:22)
6. make a good first impression (5:15)
I plan to tell my crush I like them on New Years… I’m worried but excited lol
Edit: having second thoughts because I know who she likes help-
Edit 2: I’m gonna do it and then tell her to go tell who she likes since I stuck up the courage to do it >:)
Edit 3: I’m sorry for so many edits LOL but idk if I’m gonna do it now cuz she’s with someone and I don’t want to be that person-
Good luck! My crush just left school and I never got to have a chance to talk to him, but he is looking to maybe do leading at my youth group next year so hopefully I see him there and I can get to know him.
@@flowerpot1300 thanks!! I hope you get to see them again :D
@@simi_wixvods thanks! I hope so too
oh good luck! i wish you the best!
Good luck! Hope he/she likes you back
GETTING CLOSER TO 10 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS!!! 🤩 keep it up 💪
Thanks for the video guys definitely will try to use these tips
Amazing vídeo! Thanks for this advices!
Extraordinary person reading this, you are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life! You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness and gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever! Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly ✨❤️ - Nat
Thank you very much for this! This is genuinely helpful for someone like me🤣
Amazing video!
I just want to say thank you, your voice always make me feel comfortable, make be better and calm, thank you so much.
OMG I YESS I LOVED THE GOJO 😂😂 GOOD JOB ANIMATOR :D
Thank you! 😆
To the *worthwhile person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. You are precious and the keys to a fulfilling life is in your hands. Find your power.
I like the third trick "Show you are capable and intelligent, but still human", you are right, people see the man who is perfect, hard to get him
you proved your point sooo well by showing gojo, i saw him and got so happy lmfao
I'm currently dating myself, it's about time I did something good for myself.
Yeah, you don't want to be left by yourself -- where would you be?
To all the people out there who want to find the love of there life...
All these tips and facts are important
But if you really want to find your true love, then just be yourself and act subtle and don't think like... " Oh I have to behave around this dude/girl"
You will fall in love deeper, much open with your love and secure your bond
Also love to those people who are reading this ♥️♥️♥️♥️
This video was really good
If you find someone your very in sync with you may feel at first as if it is uncanny as you know your own flaws.
The smart choice if you are good friends is to understand the underlying friendship, you should ask them if they share the feeling, but also hold no shame in platonic love if you feel consummate love is not right even if the kick from your infatuation felt profound.
7: they dont and youre stuck in a padded room in an insane people asylum
or maybe they do im not very sociable
Thanks time traveller
I swear this channel uploads exactly the content I'm looking for always at the perfect time.
Right?!
The gojo animation in some of ur videos always catch my eye xD❤
Just because of you I opted psychology for my 11th grade and I am already lovin' it to extent:)
From personal experience, I noticed I attract them by being a good listener, attempt to find solutions to their issues or provide them with advice for their well being.
And quite frankly I do so genuinely. I truly enjoy helping people. I never expect anything in return from them which perhaps is attractive to them? Lol
Yikes
Good way to be.
Be careful, you start to take on other peoples problems and trauma and wonder why you feel off from your usual state. I’m similar but some start to feel whenever it’s your turn to tell your feelings you aren’t heard.
Am i the only one who saw gojo
No
Idk if this video works or not , but i am already fell in love with this female's voiceeee
Your voice is simply enthralling....so warm and kind....I could listen to you all day 🔥
I love this channel. It helps me to understand myself and my emotions better. I liked the earlier animation style a bit more but It is valuable and helpful anyway. I admire this work. ❤❤❤
"Can Music save Your Mortal Soul th-cam.com/video/-uexjy4sWu4/w-d-xo.html." A calming video
I loved that jujutsu kaisen reference. Anyway great video!
Guys, when have you gone 9+ millions? I just remember you when I subscribed to you a few months ago ad it was only 2.28 mlns???
You're growing so fast, I wish you will reach a 10M point before the end fo July. I love your channel!!
Your videos are so helpful🥰
i love your videos! i know you may not be looking for suggestions, but i noticed that you have many videos on dating an crush but nothing on what happens in-between (after you tell you crush/find out your crush likes you back) (i think) i am speaking for many people when they didnt know what to do in that phase. ( i may just be blind and cant find it but if not i would love it if you considered doing something like this.) -shadow
What is Gojo doing there
Lmaooo 😂😂 good question
I love your channel! Thank you :))
You literally just gotta start by becoming really good friends with them, I had a crush for a around 2 years, talked to her a little here and there but not much. I was friends with her brother and we ended up getting a group chat with my sister, her, her brother and sister. Anyway we all talked a lot on there and started talking more in person, once in a while i would sneak a way to start a convo in her DMs, eventually we got to the point where we would stay up super late talking, and eventually I slipped up a big hint to who my crush was (they would always try to guess who it was) and then i admitted to her. She said she started liking me when we were talking more and becoming better friends (her sister started liking me before her so the method seems to work). And another thing, i get you dont wanna get with someone who wants you just for your looks but obviously its still an important factor. Start working on bettering yourself, start lifting weights, try to get to a lower bodyfat %, take care of your skin and hair, simple stuff really. I had also found out she didnt really like skinny guys, she said she probabaly still would have liked me if i was skinny but think about it, if youre a guy just give it 1 year of lifting and that will separate you from most guys out there
Does anyone else have a slight fear of intimacy and watches these so they know maybe what not to do 😔🖐🏽
Good question. I think everyone fears intimacy for fear of being hurt. Sometimes you gotta take a chance or else failure will never toughin you up. Life is hard and it's only gonna get harder.
@@chase4562 Life doesn't only get harder, fortunately. And if you rush out and have experiences with people who turn out not to be good for you, life will be a lot harder.
4:50
And what about women? Would they find it attractive too if men wear red?
GOOD MORNING FAMILY/FRIENDS I HAD TO STOP BY TO SAY GOOD MORNING TO YOU ALL, AND TO LET YOU KNOW I LOVE ALL THE USEFUL VIDEO ,THAT YOU GUYS PUT OUT. TEE
Just be yourself!...let things flow naturally
..spark...chemistry and connection are important elements that unites two souls ❤ 🤲 ❤ together! When two people meet for the first time, they know within the first 30 seconds whether they want to pursue something further! A positive attitude & energy will give you a higher vibration and emit confidence!
Is it the best way to start a relationship ? Tricking someone into wanting you ?
No thank you ✨
Exactly what I was thinking
No it’s just trying to build your relationship with them not straight up tricking them
maybe its a modern love potion but😆 but if you are in a relationship maybe this will help to make a work if ever
Think of it as a jump start
Its just making the relationship more passionate thats all
For a normal person: hmm... This video looks cool 😊
*For a narcissist: this is why I looove your content... For a good reason...*
#notallnarcissists
Be careful that you aren't projecting freindo.
you're voice is such a melody ❤️
Thanks for The Tip
It did more than just make someone fall for me romantically. It also gives you good reputation towards a certain amount of people who benefit from people who know these tricks. Such as co-workers, friends, family members. . . something that helps improve your relationship with your associates.
Any tips for someone that has been with someone for the past year and then suddenly broke up with me because she found someone better? Someone that ain't depressed and anxious and full of hate for themselves?
What can someone like me do when all those feelings and old memories are crushing me everytime I find a happy place for a couple of minutes? I can't show happiness if I'm never happy. I was until I got betrayed at least, I know how it feels to love and get loved but there's no way I will ever be able to trust someone again without thinking they'll leave as soon as they're done with me like my ex did. All I want is a friend that can chat with me even if it's 3 AM like it's right now but there's no such human on this planet that actually enjoys spending time with me so I don't think it's gonna happen.
Be the type of person/people you want to attract. Work on improving yourself for the better. What's happened has happened and now you can move forward to make your happy.
My crush always seems happy at school and that made me happier
Ur channel is really helpful keep going 👍🙂
I am just 16 , but I seriously know most of such stuff on my own... I literally think and research on everything like this in my mind and figure out stuff which are actually useful and I can see that I am right by watching these videos.
THANK YOU FOR THIS. I really needed it. I'm pretty flawed when it comes to feelings and I really could work on my romantic things.
just be yourself and if you are meant to be they will love you for who you are :)
Physch to go.... Always love your videos such unique, terrific, knowledgeable content! Thanks
I personally like unique people who are being themselves without trying to mirror me. Cz it kinda gets annoying when there's someone similar to u. I don't like boys who try to be like me to impress me...
In general most of these tips are helpful😊
But keep in mind that sometimes there are different people in this world as well, so it differs from the person you are trying to impress:)
never teach a narcissist psychology tricks makes it a hell of a lot easier to manipulate people
Not unless the narcissist is tired of hurting others and themselves. It looks more like self reflection to us 🤷♂️
@@chase4562 true that is true if they are tired of hurting others i can be different i just know many narcissists who manipulate conversations and im very good at catching it but i almost never say anything so that i dont make myself a target
Seriously your voice is so beautiful
1:32 lol me and my crush are together in the class but we got on the wrong foot and we hated each other for 2 and maybe more years but now i somehow got crush on him idk but i assume he still hates me even tho i sometimes catch him staring at me, smiling and that stuff so we still don't talk and tbh i have nothing to talk to him???
Your voice is so peaceful and relaxing 😍
Sounds like you drifted so far off in the love things, that you now just grabbed onto a narrator voice for your love life 🤪
Have you ever considered asmr? Your voice is so soothing 🫠
The main reason I watch videos like this is to see who actually used the advice from these videos and want someone to fall for them
I made a really bad first impression, my crush totally didn't like me, know we're always chatting and making jokes.
I used most these things and still got rejected by my crush... It just shows how much of a loser I am...
it sometimes become so hard to be yourself when you grow around people who try to change you, you forget about yourself how you were sometimes it feels like you are still pretend on and off stage i wish there could be someone to guide me how i find my happiness
All the tips you shared are useful, but the most useful tips I would suggest are; be yourself, be honest and sincere. In this way, you won't be "acting" and therefore will be truly attractive to the right person or people.
In today's time it is better to not have someone fall in love with us. Love, inevitably ends in emotional pain, especially today. It is much better to stay away from others, completely. More than just emotional pain, you could lose financial stability, personal affects, even your positive view on things. I dress as bland as I can, never speak, and never show emotions. I can guarantee nobody would want anything to do with me, nor fall in love with me. Add the fact that I am rectally ugly, and I am safe from social predators that pretend to fall in love.
I cant even fall asleep lol
Okay totally unrelated your voice is soothing😍
i always watch these videos at the most random times
I had fought with my crush recently, and then when I said sorry to her, I just told her that I love her and that I have always consider her as my best friend and she said that I am lying to get an apology 😔