@@Psych2go HOLY HOLY!!! I can proudly say that I have the two HOTTEST women on this planet as MY GIRLFRIENDS! I am the unprettiest TH-camr ever, but they love me for what's inside! Thanks for listening pdy
1. Buy a gift for your crush and for yourself 2. Ask them for a favor 3. Use the “triangle technique” for eye contact 4. Show your positive side 5. Make a good first impression And if I could a sixth it would be: be you :) To anyone reading this, your past doesn’t determine your future or make you who you are now, YOU do, with time it’ll all line up the way it’s meant to ❤️
@@RenWW6 it really is sad that society lives this way. I whole heartedly agree with your comment. I would have the ugliest girl in the world if she was the nicest. Looks do not matter to me. Love people for who they truly are :)
What I like about my crush: He acts normal when his friends are around He actually cares about me He likes hanging out with me We have the same sense of humor We sometimes say things at the same time He compliments my outfits He always want to stay longer when he’s hanging out with me Me makes me feel happier when I’m crying He makes me laugh ALOT Gosh, I just love him 😩
The bit about showing your positive side is really interesting to me. I personally have made people who were having a bad day smile just by smiling at them. In my experience, unflinching positivity is often reciprocated, and people will associate that reciprocation with you! Please do your best to take care of yourself. ❤️
I don't think that the other person is always smiling because their mood is higher. Sometimes if someone smiles at me when I'm in a bad mood, I'll just smile back for politeness, and the same usually goes for if you are having a bad time and you need to go to an event where you interact with people a lot. This isn't what's happening every time, but you should think about whether they are actually happier or just being polite.
I'm a negative bastard and I personally have made people who were having a good day cry just by telling them all the reasons why life is not worth living.
@@courageandcompassion2293 I was born slow and so that means that I won't ever amount to anything. So being the most negative bastard in the world is the only thing that I could ever be so good at.
I am often very positive at my job, which can be very stressful and exhausting. My manager told me he hired me because I'm capable and I have a good attitude. He, himself, is very grumpy as a person but around me, he gets goofy and playful. Others have said he acts differently with me than with others and that makes me happy. I really just like to spread positivity and hope around. Recently I have been feeling overwhelmed by work, and my boss saw that. He tried so hard to cheer me up, he really did. And it makes me happy thinking about it because he wasn't like that when I first met him. I'm hoping to continue to be a positive light during these dark times. I know this isn't directly related to the video, but even if they aren't your crush, it can be a good way to win friends.
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”* Love from a small TH-camr💙
0:48 - Buy a gift for your crush and for yourself 1:35 - Ask them for a favor 3:01 - Use the "Triangle Technique" to make eyes contact 3:48 - Show your positive side 4:30 - Make a good first impression
1. Giving gifts for them…and yourself ”You look up from your latest feed, and see them looking at you, with his big, dumb smile upon their face. It does make you nervous, but you like them, so you think it’s alright. You go back to watching your phone, eyes skimming over each pizel as of in a trance, before a soft ”hey.” Sounds from their side and you feel a gentle, small nudge against your arm. You look down and see a lovely little box, all of your favourite colors. They are so thoughtful, you think, as you open up the box, eyes starting to shine as you see the absolutely aforable little strawberry bracelet inside. Where did they even find this?! You lift your gaze up in thanks, and put it on, but another ”hey, lookie!” Interrupts you. You see that big dumb smile again, and as they pull their over-sized hoodie sleeve you have repeatedly pestered for them to get tailored correctly, your heart does strange little flips in your chest as a yellow little sunflower bracelet is revealed from their sleeve, the same as yours. You feel warm, and happy, in a way that makes a big, dumb smile start to peek from your face, which you hold back valiantly until they take your hand and you feel your bracelets press together. Your face bursts into a million sun-lit smiles and your cheeks get so warm you fear you might lose blood. ”For our companionship!” They giggle, and relax against your shoulder, glimpsing at your overjoyed face. ”You’re so cute, y’know?” They don’t give further explanation, but looking down and seeing your matching bracelets, contrasting perfectly to your artist’s eye gives you all the validation you could ever need.” 2. Ask them for a favor ”Uh, hey? I’m forgot my backpack at home, can we study together?” They fidget when you look at them, nervous and anxiety probably ripping through them. You huff, you’ve already known each other for three years, what’s there to even ask for. You put your phone down, invite them to sit next to you, and once that’s done, you pull out your math book from your backpack that you yourself almost left at home, and fell into an ease as they relaxed and thanked you. The teacher starts her lecturing, and you daydream avid watching them watch you make repeated mistakes onto the study book. They always come to you if they need something, you realize as they start sneakily correcting the results of five years of public education. Help with cooking, which they know you are both terrible at, missing pencils or phones, plugging in their charger if you’re at a sleepover and they’re too lazy to get up from the bed, and they ask you, with those puppy eyes that tell you they will gladly do the same for you, you don’t resist, even if you could. What’s the point when you can use this as leverage to banter with them into doing things for you? They might whine and cry to you about being mean, but you know it’s only on the way to do what you asked them to do. You don’t really…even mind doing things for them. Sharpening their pencils when they and their dumb self leave their sharpener at home gives with it the strange pleasant feeling of chattering and teasing. Menial tasks which they could do all by themselves, but no, they leave it to you, they trust you enough to get their lunch from the vending machine and not give them food poisoning by mixing in too much salt. You have threatened to do so many times, but they still give you their money without a second glance away from the mobile game they are trying to level up in. Class has ended. You start packing up your things, leaving the book for them to study for the last, before looking up at seeing their eyes looking at you. They smile, and your stomach’s butterflies take off all at once as they thank you, yet again. You nod stiffly, and then start ushering them into the next class, all too eager to study together and daydream all over again. 3. Use the triangle eye contact method ”You stare at them awkwardly, unsure of how to proceed. This is like, maybe your fifth or sixth meeting. They seem to be quite invested, chattering small talk as you sit on a park bench close together. You look at them, and when they look at you, you feel a strange comfort in how they don’t stare as so many others do. Instead, you feel as though they are giving you attention without overly exaggerating it. You don’t know why, but you feel like talking to them would be nice. ”Your…vest is nice..” you say quietly, looking at them as they beam up, smiling and showing a gap in their teeth. They are still looking at you, but they seem so confident and not creepy. ”Really? Thanks! I love your hair!” They smile at you, and you soon find a topic to start conversing about, cat fur and the types of it, feeling relaxed as they seem to be happy to lead, all the while listening to you and looking at you in a way that makes you feel more comfortable and steady. It feels cliche, but you think you might have found the perfect conversation partner. They have a way of paying attention to you that makes you feel really listened to and seen. You think that you’ll probably seek them out again, not only because they make you feel listened to, but because their jokes are *really* funny.” 4. Show your positive side. ”You have had a horrible day today. Your mom got into an argument with her boyfriend and you just ahted it, it ruined your day entirely to see how sad she was. You get onto the bus, next to your very best friend, and watch them just light up like a christmas tree. Smiling so wide it should already have broken their face multiple times, they launch into a random observation about the sunrise seen in the bus window, giggling at their own joke and smiling at you. ”You seem down, friend? Let me cheer you up!” They giggled, and pulled the silliest face you have ever seen them pull. Despite the heaviness in your heart, you snort, and it just makes them so much happier to see you happy. Being with them feels like rays of sunshine punching your face until it smiles, and it lets your forget how tearful your mom was when she bid you goodbye for the school. But just thinking that sinks your mood right back down, and your friend notices, they dumb empath that they are. ”You know what food there is in the cafeteria today?” They whisper to you, ultra secretively, side glancing this way and that. You ask what, and they burst into this evil genius sort of grin. ”I hear they’re ordering Taco Bell for the entire school!” They burst from excitement and your jaw drops. You love Taco Bell! You adore it! You launch right back into action, conspiring on how to steal more for ”take-out” and giggling with them when they decide to go vegan for the day and confuse the staff. You feel…alright. How in the everloving God could anybody stay sad when they’re with someone this cheery? Your mind is taken over by excitement and fun, and when you go back home, all smiles and happiness, your mother cracks a small one of her own. 5. Make a good first impression. ”Hello!” You hear a happy squeak and look up from your desk to see a sparkling smile. You look up and down, this must be the new employee. You sigh and get up from your chair, walking around it and to them, staring hard into their soft eyes. ”You must be the manager i’ve heard about here! I really admire you, and am happy to be under your tutelage!” They announce in a voice that’s bright but not blinding, and you soften. You watch as they dig around tehir pockets and then present you a little keychain, purple in color and with a blueberry pie at the end. ”I tried to find something that you could use. The pie can be used as a mini pigbank.” They tap at a hole on top of the pie, and you find yourself smiling. A gift? This early in the morning? ”Aren’t you sycophant? Now then, shall we go tour the place?” They respond with an animated yes, and sprint into action, careful not to fall. It’s always lovely to meet such energetic people, you think, looking at them from behind and smiling. You think that your days will become much brighter with such a person around.”
WHAT THE BEAUTIFUL?! Now I’m expecting all future psych2go advice comments to have wholesome stories attached 😫 Plz keep commenting like this on future videos (if you can)! You’re so awesome! 💛💛
I was with a girl at our county fair and she bought us matching rings. No one's ever really done something like that that I can think of. I don't know were the relationship might go but she's very precious to me and I never want to lose her. My feelings for her are complicated but I know that whatever may happen I will always love her, romantic or not
A reminder that these techniques can also be used for making platonic friends! I’ve been using them a lot as a person who isn’t very gifted at making friends, and they’ve helped a lot! :)
I leave a lasting impression on everyone. Thus having many friends. Thank you for making me realize what I've been doing right. This entire time I've come to question why in the world someone like me has as many friends as I do.
This happened this year during Valentines Day, after he gave me something, I gave a customized bracelet to him, he suggested to get me one, so I did! One time he lost it, and did all the troubles to get it back! I know we have mutual love feelings, ❤ for each other!
@@Psych2go Hello!! One is a guilt-ridden king who’s in seclusion, and the other is the head housemaid of one of his dilapidated castles :D Thank you for being interested!
@@Psych2go Hey Psych2Go 😊 Can you please make a video on how to not feel burnt out from this world or why do I feel like my life a daydream idk why I feel like this 😅😊
Hey! I just watched this and I love ur vids! My crush yesterday came back from his holiday and bought us both shark tooth necklaces. I got us both tickets to a football game in return, your videos have got me over a lot like my old toxic relationship with my ex boyfriend and how to open up to my new crush ( as mentioned above) who is the total opposite of Me. We are now going out!!!!!
*5 things to quit right now:* *1. Overthinking* *2. Trying to make everyone happy* *3. Living in the past* *4. Worrying* *5. Doubting yourself…* Love from a small channel💙
There's 1 more good working method... *Share your food with them. Feed them!* I swear to God it works. They will think you're nice and start gaining trust to you! It always works for me.
@@TH-camUzername Look, I'm trying to be nice and sometimes I share food with people. People respect kindness and they start to trust me. Do I really look like a maniac trying to buy people's trust with food? I'm sorry I thought we were sharing powerful attraction secrets... I wanted to help (´-﹏-`;)
Weeks before coming across this video, I made my crush a ring that was identical to one that I had made for myself and wear every day, and I pointed that out to them. They were very thankful, happy and reciprocative when I gave it to them. I hope that did something good for our chemistry :)
Also the other good thing about giving someone a gift that you buy for yourself or that you already have. It shows you're not just giving them something you don't want anymore, but something that you find valuable still, it shows that you value them.
I had used all these things without knowing that they did this....Now I'm waiting for him to get back from basic training so we can further talk about our relationship. Crazy.
OMG GOD I HAVE SUCH A GREAT INTUITION!!! me and cursh are both slytherin so i bought 2 overall coats/capes to match with him! hope i can see him soon to give it to him ☺️
Haha yeah same, mostly because im too shy and very scared of rejection. Never actually tried pursuing a person i actually really liked or maybe even love secretly. I usually get to shy and awkward.. So i let them come after me oe have it be an in the moment sorta thing so i cant back out. Or just approach someone who I'm not as shy around. Really, if im super shy around you, it usually means i really like you alot secretly either friend or crush or you make me uncomfortable, or they're new. This made me chuckle.
I gave my crush my Airpods the day i bought the new ones…i never found someone like him before because he cares about me he takes me out and we got good chemistry and he is so caring and concerned about me on any situation…I’m glad i found him I’ve been so happy lately and which was the thing that I’ve been praying for for years
I can speak confidently that these all are EXTREMELY helpful, they won't land you the guy/gal necessarily, but they DO go a LONG way. With my current crush, I semi-frequently give her SUPER affordable gifts, and try to save the slightly bigger ones for holidays, and so far she's been very receptive of it. She tries to play cool with it, but one time when she was high as a kite she got EXTREMELY giddy over a gift I got her. Just be careful that you don't spend more than what you've got, and even if you can afford a ton, try to keep things simple. If it's something that's only a buck or so, then that's fine, just don't buy a bunch of $20-something dollar gifts (or more) if you two aren't dating yet. Keep it short and sweet, and save the bigger stuff for when it feels more appropriate. In my case, since we work alongside each other, there's a ton of wiggle room to ask for favors, try not to overdo this, but do it sparingly and it can go a long way, the other person will feel good about themselves (provided you aren't overdoing it, that would make them think you're lazy, this one is an in moderation point as well). The "triangle technique" is basically a way to make constant eye contact without necessarily turning things into a staring competition. While that may be lighthearted, cheeky fun upon a request, it's honestly not a bad idea to try out the triangle technique. I've caught myself staring at her eyes for a brief moment sometimes, though it's hard to do it for long periods of time in a work setting admittedly. I might do this on accident, but I'll try to be ever so slightly more mindful of it Showing your positive side not only works with relationships, but also friendships (I know the word pursue can apply to more than just a relationship, but let's face it. A ton of the people watching this are either extremely shy, or probably have a hard time pursuing their own crush, and this is a video that can really help out with that). Now it's important to remember that not every single day is going to be a happy, positive, go lucky attitude kind of day. But if you can try to be in a positive, uplifting attitude, even if you're not necessarily in the best of mood let's say at least 80% of the time, then that'll go a long way. I've learned it's done wonders for my situation Make a good first impression. Now let's face it, it's not going to be everything, but it will matter immensely early on. The only time it really has a chance to wear off is if you manage to talk to this person for well over a year, and even then sometimes that won't help. Good impressions last a LONG time, not necessarily forever, but a good good while depending on the person. My first impression in my case was kind of ass, but eventually once she got to know the "real" me (for the most part anyways), she started to open up a bit more. So be a bit careful with these, but not so much to the point where it causes paranoia
What i like about my crush: His humor His kind eyes His big, warm hands How he makes me feel like I'm not invisible, like I'm REAL and WhOLE How he tries to mess me up when I'm writing How he corrects me when i can't spell for shit How he holds my hand How he tries to teach me som of his favorite games How he softly moves my hands sometimes His soft hair Somehow i like that he is younger than me I love staring into his eyes I try not to cuss anymore because of him How he is making me a better person I love how when we hold hands he doesn't let go when someone else is there He is always there for me He tells me good morning first And i can not describe the feelings i have for him! 😵😖😫
Oh dang, I heard of that Franklin story. Absolutely top tier reference. I forgot this lesson actually. He looks like his face is upside down when reading, in a cute way though. I also find it cute how this went from maybe friend advice into implying that the viewer is hoping to love someone.
That’s interesting, the Triangle Technique let’s you also observe emotions in the other person‘s face very actively. Maybe that is why the other person is wired to like it. Also it lets you better respond to those observed emotions.
Hey Psych2go! Thank you for thes videos. I have a crush on an actor that’s my age, and there’s a huge chance he’s going to be in a TV show I making. And I was hoping that I could be his friend but I had no idea how to get someone to like me. Luckily I stumbled across your channel and have been watching your videos for a while now. I now know how to get someone to notice me. Step 1. Eye contact. Step 2. Open body language. Step 3. Smile. Step 4 tell a joke. Step 5. Good hygiene.
@@Psych2go It’s my pleasure! I found point 1 to be most helpful, it made me realized what I did before was not too much hehe… I like point 3 as well, just still trying to get into it, it’s quite difficult for me
It sure does help a lot, I liked this, but also another interesting thing, to the narrator of this video what’s your AR rank and current team in Genshin? Lol
So this girl I have two classes with, the earlier class a normal class and she sat near me. The later class I have her is in lifetime fitness and she's the only girl. Do you think I should appraoch by saying "Hi what's your name" and then says my name for a short talk? It's only the first two couple of days so it's not to late
nah u should ask when class ends and then start asking shit like that its weird if a random dude comes up to u and asks ur name (to me it is idk abt everyone else)
Just smile n help her with her stuff of something then u can start a talk.....or just tell ur name first and ask about that days lesson or something...... It's easy to talk when u guys have a common class
Hey MultiCreativeArtist, did you try talking to her yet? If so, how did it go? You can try asking her about an upcoming assignment/test, or what @Napola LOVE recommended! Wishing you the best!
The fact that I did these things already without even watching this video to my crush and now ik my crush likes me back but hes just prentending to me is just 🤯🤯🤯🤯
I'm attracted to my crush because at first when I met her I thought she was smart and I had respect for her but the more I was around her and she opened up a little bit more I began to really think about her more and more and realized when I was driving home from work I had a massive crush on her. I'm going to use some of these that I can remember thanks 👉😎👉
@@Psych2go I guess life has taught me to try to be as independent as I could be, and maybe that's my predicament. Besides that, in regards to some type of big favors, I hate using people, and also to be used. But overall, I do see your logic and makes perfect sense. I was just thinking out loud lol
omg I did all of these to my previous crush already (but they still didn't like me like that :,) but don't let me uninspire you from doing this!! these are actually rlly good tips :)
idk if he likes me but no matter what he will always be special to be because he's been more of a man to me than any past relationships or friendships i've had and now my expectations are higher. I love this video too and it makes me feel good :p lowk already done a couple of these w/o knowing it was a thing
Great, awesome, wonderful. Now all I need to do is work up the courage to just tell her that I think she's groovy. She's so sweet to me, I'm sure she likes me, and may be trying to initiate something, but I'm afraid I'll just embarrass myself and alienate her, but at the same time, what if she's that one in a million and I lose her because I just couldn't say anything? Fear sucks.
Are you feeling powerful yet? :D
Yes I am 😎
Yes!
Yes very! I haven’t even started watching and I am
I ❤️ you
Not fully yet, but since I want the power to help people I hope to be growing stronger each day.
"If someone won't lift a finger to call you, see you, and spend time with you. It's time for you to lift 5 fingers and wave goodbye" - Bugs Bunny
Bye bye. :D
@@Psych2go HOLY HOLY!!! I can proudly say that I have the two HOTTEST women on this planet as MY GIRLFRIENDS! I am the unprettiest TH-camr ever, but they love me for what's inside! Thanks for listening pdy
@@AxxLAfriku 2? Not something to be proud of
@@theoutherplanes7928 I mean they could be poly :v
@@airplane.conversations look at his channel dog that's some sus stuff right there
Imagine someone uses one of these tips and their crush suddenly says: oh u watch Psych2go too?..
That would be a #shorts skit idea!
Lmaoo
@@Maito89 I'd say choose the worse case scenario its better
I would be like: what? Phsyc2 what? I dont knows anything about that what are you talking about
The crush would respond: "Hey Psych2goer!"
1. Buy a gift for your crush and for yourself
2. Ask them for a favor
3. Use the “triangle technique” for eye contact
4. Show your positive side
5. Make a good first impression
And if I could a sixth it would be: be you :)
To anyone reading this, your past doesn’t determine your future or make you who you are now, YOU do, with time it’ll all line up the way it’s meant to ❤️
Or just be born naturally charismatic and handsome
Thanks man 👍🏻
@@KENDRICKREVIEWZ That is not an excuse though 😅
@Skylor Bullard y'all just giving up on life huh?
Nice
Remember this: it’s ok if some people don’t like you. Not everyone has good taste ❤️🚀🌙
Don't care if they don't like me haha
“You could be the most beautiful apple on the tree, but some people just don’t like apples.”
@@AlejandroW90 I like this one 🙏🍻
@@RenWW6 it really is sad that society lives this way. I whole heartedly agree with your comment. I would have the ugliest girl in the world if she was the nicest. Looks do not matter to me. Love people for who they truly are :)
@@keiron.4612 sad life
Powerful secret 1: Having an impressive Minecraft Mansion
YESSS
Lmfaoooo
Most powerful out of all
the illagers must be getting all the cake ;)
Ill just ask my rich mom for a rolls royce and i think im all set to go😌
This type of animation is my favourite...those eyes are just the cutest🥺🥰
Glad you like it! Tris has one of the best animation on our team.
@@Psych2go you guys are doing a great job✌🏻✌🏻
What I like about my crush:
He acts normal when his friends are around
He actually cares about me
He likes hanging out with me
We have the same sense of humor
We sometimes say things at the same time
He compliments my outfits
He always want to stay longer when he’s hanging out with me
Me makes me feel happier when I’m crying
He makes me laugh ALOT
Gosh, I just love him 😩
To me it sounds like he likes you too :³
but.... the true question if he is your soul mate....
DOES HE LIKE AMONG US??@???!+??!
Yeah it sounds like he likes you too
He sounds perfect.
@@logitchy DING DING DING DING DING DING DINGDINGDING
The bit about showing your positive side is really interesting to me. I personally have made people who were having a bad day smile just by smiling at them. In my experience, unflinching positivity is often reciprocated, and people will associate that reciprocation with you! Please do your best to take care of yourself. ❤️
I don't think that the other person is always smiling because their mood is higher. Sometimes if someone smiles at me when I'm in a bad mood, I'll just smile back for politeness, and the same usually goes for if you are having a bad time and you need to go to an event where you interact with people a lot. This isn't what's happening every time, but you should think about whether they are actually happier or just being polite.
I'm a negative bastard and I personally have made people who were having a good day cry just by telling them all the reasons why life is not worth living.
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 I simply must ask. Why?
@@courageandcompassion2293 I was born slow and so that means that I won't ever amount to anything. So being the most negative bastard in the world is the only thing that I could ever be so good at.
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 Born slow? How do you mean?
It's hilarious how Bakugo is the one that's shown when talking about positivity 😂
I love it
SAMEEEE
I am often very positive at my job, which can be very stressful and exhausting. My manager told me he hired me because I'm capable and I have a good attitude. He, himself, is very grumpy as a person but around me, he gets goofy and playful. Others have said he acts differently with me than with others and that makes me happy. I really just like to spread positivity and hope around. Recently I have been feeling overwhelmed by work, and my boss saw that. He tried so hard to cheer me up, he really did. And it makes me happy thinking about it because he wasn't like that when I first met him. I'm hoping to continue to be a positive light during these dark times.
I know this isn't directly related to the video, but even if they aren't your crush, it can be a good way to win friends.
Hey craze jen, that's great! And don't worry about it not being directly related to the video! Thanks for the positivity! :D Keep it up and take care!
Wow
I just love the thumbnails, they are so adorable
Glad you like the art!
Omg Same 🔥❤️
Not only the thumbnail even the video itself
The reference to Katsuki Bakugo
Why is no one talking about it-
Yeah that was pretty neat:)✨
I was looking for this comment lol
Ikr
That one did really throw me off. Is he ever in a good mood?
I commented it. Lol
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
Love from a small TH-camr💙
💙💙
who's gonna tell me that my life gets better then? Not like they can tell the future
@@kirbotastic Create your own positive future
0:48 - Buy a gift for your crush and for yourself
1:35 - Ask them for a favor
3:01 - Use the "Triangle Technique" to make eyes contact
3:48 - Show your positive side
4:30 - Make a good first impression
Thank you 😊
1. Giving gifts for them…and yourself
”You look up from your latest feed, and see them looking at you, with his big, dumb smile upon their face. It does make you nervous, but you like them, so you think it’s alright. You go back to watching your phone, eyes skimming over each pizel as of in a trance, before a soft ”hey.” Sounds from their side and you feel a gentle, small nudge against your arm. You look down and see a lovely little box, all of your favourite colors. They are so thoughtful, you think, as you open up the box, eyes starting to shine as you see the absolutely aforable little strawberry bracelet inside. Where did they even find this?! You lift your gaze up in thanks, and put it on, but another ”hey, lookie!” Interrupts you.
You see that big dumb smile again, and as they pull their over-sized hoodie sleeve you have repeatedly pestered for them to get tailored correctly, your heart does strange little flips in your chest as a yellow little sunflower bracelet is revealed from their sleeve, the same as yours. You feel warm, and happy, in a way that makes a big, dumb smile start to peek from your face, which you hold back valiantly until they take your hand and you feel your bracelets press together. Your face bursts into a million sun-lit smiles and your cheeks get so warm you fear you might lose blood.
”For our companionship!” They giggle, and relax against your shoulder, glimpsing at your overjoyed face. ”You’re so cute, y’know?” They don’t give further explanation, but looking down and seeing your matching bracelets, contrasting perfectly to your artist’s eye gives you all the validation you could ever need.”
2. Ask them for a favor
”Uh, hey? I’m forgot my backpack at home, can we study together?” They fidget when you look at them, nervous and anxiety probably ripping through them. You huff, you’ve already known each other for three years, what’s there to even ask for. You put your phone down, invite them to sit next to you, and once that’s done, you pull out your math book from your backpack that you yourself almost left at home, and fell into an ease as they relaxed and thanked you. The teacher starts her lecturing, and you daydream avid watching them watch you make repeated mistakes onto the study book.
They always come to you if they need something, you realize as they start sneakily correcting the results of five years of public education. Help with cooking, which they know you are both terrible at, missing pencils or phones, plugging in their charger if you’re at a sleepover and they’re too lazy to get up from the bed, and they ask you, with those puppy eyes that tell you they will gladly do the same for you, you don’t resist, even if you could. What’s the point when you can use this as leverage to banter with them into doing things for you? They might whine and cry to you about being mean, but you know it’s only on the way to do what you asked them to do.
You don’t really…even mind doing things for them. Sharpening their pencils when they and their dumb self leave their sharpener at home gives with it the strange pleasant feeling of chattering and teasing. Menial tasks which they could do all by themselves, but no, they leave it to you, they trust you enough to get their lunch from the vending machine and not give them food poisoning by mixing in too much salt. You have threatened to do so many times, but they still give you their money without a second glance away from the mobile game they are trying to level up in.
Class has ended. You start packing up your things, leaving the book for them to study for the last, before looking up at seeing their eyes looking at you. They smile, and your stomach’s butterflies take off all at once as they thank you, yet again. You nod stiffly, and then start ushering them into the next class, all too eager to study together and daydream all over again.
3. Use the triangle eye contact method
”You stare at them awkwardly, unsure of how to proceed. This is like, maybe your fifth or sixth meeting. They seem to be quite invested, chattering small talk as you sit on a park bench close together. You look at them, and when they look at you, you feel a strange comfort in how they don’t stare as so many others do. Instead, you feel as though they are giving you attention without overly exaggerating it. You don’t know why, but you feel like talking to them would be nice. ”Your…vest is nice..” you say quietly, looking at them as they beam up, smiling and showing a gap in their teeth. They are still looking at you, but they seem so confident and not creepy. ”Really? Thanks! I love your hair!” They smile at you, and you soon find a topic to start conversing about, cat fur and the types of it, feeling relaxed as they seem to be happy to lead, all the while listening to you and looking at you in a way that makes you feel more comfortable and steady.
It feels cliche, but you think you might have found the perfect conversation partner. They have a way of paying attention to you that makes you feel really listened to and seen. You think that you’ll probably seek them out again, not only because they make you feel listened to, but because their jokes are *really* funny.”
4. Show your positive side.
”You have had a horrible day today. Your mom got into an argument with her boyfriend and you just ahted it, it ruined your day entirely to see how sad she was. You get onto the bus, next to your very best friend, and watch them just light up like a christmas tree. Smiling so wide it should already have broken their face multiple times, they launch into a random observation about the sunrise seen in the bus window, giggling at their own joke and smiling at you. ”You seem down, friend? Let me cheer you up!” They giggled, and pulled the silliest face you have ever seen them pull. Despite the heaviness in your heart, you snort, and it just makes them so much happier to see you happy. Being with them feels like rays of sunshine punching your face until it smiles, and it lets your forget how tearful your mom was when she bid you goodbye for the school. But just thinking that sinks your mood right back down, and your friend notices, they dumb empath that they are. ”You know what food there is in the cafeteria today?” They whisper to you, ultra secretively, side glancing this way and that. You ask what, and they burst into this evil genius sort of grin. ”I hear they’re ordering Taco Bell for the entire school!” They burst from excitement and your jaw drops. You love Taco Bell! You adore it! You launch right back into action, conspiring on how to steal more for ”take-out” and giggling with them when they decide to go vegan for the day and confuse the staff.
You feel…alright. How in the everloving God could anybody stay sad when they’re with someone this cheery? Your mind is taken over by excitement and fun, and when you go back home, all smiles and happiness, your mother cracks a small one of her own.
5. Make a good first impression.
”Hello!” You hear a happy squeak and look up from your desk to see a sparkling smile. You look up and down, this must be the new employee. You sigh and get up from your chair, walking around it and to them, staring hard into their soft eyes. ”You must be the manager i’ve heard about here! I really admire you, and am happy to be under your tutelage!” They announce in a voice that’s bright but not blinding, and you soften. You watch as they dig around tehir pockets and then present you a little keychain, purple in color and with a blueberry pie at the end. ”I tried to find something that you could use. The pie can be used as a mini pigbank.” They tap at a hole on top of the pie, and you find yourself smiling. A gift? This early in the morning? ”Aren’t you sycophant? Now then, shall we go tour the place?” They respond with an animated yes, and sprint into action, careful not to fall. It’s always lovely to meet such energetic people, you think, looking at them from behind and smiling.
You think that your days will become much brighter with such a person around.”
Thank you for the explanation and the dedication
this comment deserves way more recognition
This was awesome
WHAT THE BEAUTIFUL?! Now I’m expecting all future psych2go advice comments to have wholesome stories attached 😫 Plz keep commenting like this on future videos (if you can)! You’re so awesome! 💛💛
@@NeziesStories thank you! I just finished on the types of people you shouldn’t be friends with ^ ^
I was with a girl at our county fair and she bought us matching rings. No one's ever really done something like that that I can think of. I don't know were the relationship might go but she's very precious to me and I never want to lose her. My feelings for her are complicated but I know that whatever may happen I will always love her, romantic or not
Quick update. I confessed to her and we're dating now. I never even in the slightest would have imagined this
@@THESuperFalcox I'm happy for you
@@angelbautista162 Thank you!!!
How sweet. 💗 how is the relationship going? 💕
@@XGoldenPhoenixX We broke up over a month ago. I learned she had been cheating on me with a LOT of guys for a LOT of money
A reminder that these techniques can also be used for making platonic friends! I’ve been using them a lot as a person who isn’t very gifted at making friends, and they’ve helped a lot! :)
1: make sure they’re a cop
2: commit a felony
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@@Jasmineandleo They have to peruse you if you commit a felony. You can do it, I believe in you! Lol
I leave a lasting impression on everyone. Thus having many friends. Thank you for making me realize what I've been doing right. This entire time I've come to question why in the world someone like me has as many friends as I do.
This happened this year during Valentines Day, after he gave me something, I gave a customized bracelet to him, he suggested to get me one, so I did! One time he lost it, and did all the troubles to get it back! I know we have mutual love feelings, ❤ for each other!
I'm not actually watching this video for love, I'm watching this because I need valuable tips on how to write a better love story between two people 👀
👀 oh who? Sounds interesting!
@@Psych2go Hello!! One is a guilt-ridden king who’s in seclusion, and the other is the head housemaid of one of his dilapidated castles :D Thank you for being interested!
I love how calm and soothing the voice over's voice is🤗❤
Thank you guys🥰
Glad you enjoy Danny. Are you subscribed to Amanda?
@@Psych2go Hey Psych2Go 😊
Can you please make a video on how to not feel burnt out from this world or why do I feel like my life a daydream idk why I feel like this 😅😊
@@nirmitimore590 they have a video in that already
@@energeticstunts993 ok thanks 😊
@@nirmitimore590 also I'm asking my crush out today, wish me luck XD
The narrator of all these videos has such a cute and soothing voice. I could listen to her speak all day.
Thanks! Her name is Amanda! :D
Hey! I just watched this and I love ur vids! My crush yesterday came back from his holiday and bought us both shark tooth necklaces. I got us both tickets to a football game in return, your videos have got me over a lot like my old toxic relationship with my ex boyfriend and how to open up to my new crush ( as mentioned above) who is the total opposite of Me.
We are now going out!!!!!
Aww yay! That's awesome! :D
@@Psych2go cheers to 7 Mil too 🍻 🎉
*5 things to quit right now:*
*1. Overthinking*
*2. Trying to make everyone happy*
*3. Living in the past*
*4. Worrying*
*5. Doubting yourself…*
Love from a small channel💙
Like it's that easy 🤨🙄....
It is kind of hard to be positive when you know they are actively loosing interest in you, which is my situation
There's 1 more good working method...
*Share your food with them. Feed them!*
I swear to God it works. They will think you're nice and start gaining trust to you! It always works for me.
Always? You do this pretty often? Are you a player?
I learned this in sales training- when you share food with someone it creates a bond.
@@TH-camUzername Look, I'm trying to be nice and sometimes I share food with people. People respect kindness and they start to trust me. Do I really look like a maniac trying to buy people's trust with food? I'm sorry I thought we were sharing powerful attraction secrets... I wanted to help (´-﹏-`;)
@@user-ce2fx8dp2v thanks for helping, I will be sure to try this out.
The way to a man's heart is through it's stomach 🤣
I just watch videos about this channel and became absolutely in love with this :D keep up the great work!
Thank you!
Weeks before coming across this video, I made my crush a ring that was identical to one that I had made for myself and wear every day, and I pointed that out to them. They were very thankful, happy and reciprocative when I gave it to them. I hope that did something good for our chemistry :)
4:28 emit the positive energy… but not the most positive character lol It was adorable tho
Just seeing her face is soothing, and seeing her smile makes me smile too, regardless of how I'm feeling..
4:23 Never thought I'd ever see a cute and happy Bakugo, but there he is. Looks like Psych2go can bring out anyone's positive side 😊
i love how you use Bakugo as a positive energy bhahaha i love it im a MHA/BNHA fan too
Really happy to know I have five out of four of these!
Also the other good thing about giving someone a gift that you buy for yourself or that you already have. It shows you're not just giving them something you don't want anymore, but something that you find valuable still, it shows that you value them.
When im sad I watch you your voice is so relaxing I watch you everyday
I had used all these things without knowing that they did this....Now I'm waiting for him to get back from basic training so we can further talk about our relationship. Crazy.
OMG GOD I HAVE SUCH A GREAT INTUITION!!! me and cursh are both slytherin so i bought 2 overall coats/capes to match with him! hope i can see him soon to give it to him ☺️
100 points for Slytherin!
with these videos
all will fall in love with me!!!
PREPARE YOURSELF WORLD
4:02 That 'Air' animated reference is adorable
Matching gifts is very thoughtful and definitely works
Ok but this animation is just adorable.
Aww, thanks!! Would you like to see more?
wow! actual eye contact advice beyond "don't stare too hard" !?? I honestly thought that didin't exist!
Now this is a really impressive list of knowledge that ill never be able to use but still wow.
Haha yeah same, mostly because im too shy and very scared of rejection. Never actually tried pursuing a person i actually really liked or maybe even love secretly. I usually get to shy and awkward.. So i let them come after me oe have it be an in the moment sorta thing so i cant back out. Or just approach someone who I'm not as shy around. Really, if im super shy around you, it usually means i really like you alot secretly either friend or crush or you make me uncomfortable, or they're new. This made me chuckle.
No worries - try using it to make friends/connections!
This channel helped me so much throughout my troubles, I’m very grateful
Aww you're welcome :) glad we could help you!
Ah yes. The most practical use of psychology. Flirting. 🤣 (Great video!)
This is what I call TRUE PSYCHOLOGY, unlike random TikTokers giving fake/false psychology facts
I've been watching all your content since pandemic! You guys are awesome 📺❤️
Hey CC, thanks! You're awesome too!
Why is the animation so adorable???? And when can we get plush toys of the characters to cuddle with when we have a bad day?
Oh God, your voice is so calm!
I gave my crush my Airpods the day i bought the new ones…i never found someone like him before because he cares about me he takes me out and we got good chemistry and he is so caring and concerned about me on any situation…I’m glad i found him I’ve been so happy lately and which was the thing that I’ve been praying for for years
I love your voice, it’s even more enjoyable listening to it while learning some psychology
Thank you! Amanda is one of our talented VO's!
I can speak confidently that these all are EXTREMELY helpful, they won't land you the guy/gal necessarily, but they DO go a LONG way.
With my current crush, I semi-frequently give her SUPER affordable gifts, and try to save the slightly bigger ones for holidays, and so far she's been very receptive of it. She tries to play cool with it, but one time when she was high as a kite she got EXTREMELY giddy over a gift I got her. Just be careful that you don't spend more than what you've got, and even if you can afford a ton, try to keep things simple. If it's something that's only a buck or so, then that's fine, just don't buy a bunch of $20-something dollar gifts (or more) if you two aren't dating yet. Keep it short and sweet, and save the bigger stuff for when it feels more appropriate.
In my case, since we work alongside each other, there's a ton of wiggle room to ask for favors, try not to overdo this, but do it sparingly and it can go a long way, the other person will feel good about themselves (provided you aren't overdoing it, that would make them think you're lazy, this one is an in moderation point as well).
The "triangle technique" is basically a way to make constant eye contact without necessarily turning things into a staring competition. While that may be lighthearted, cheeky fun upon a request, it's honestly not a bad idea to try out the triangle technique. I've caught myself staring at her eyes for a brief moment sometimes, though it's hard to do it for long periods of time in a work setting admittedly. I might do this on accident, but I'll try to be ever so slightly more mindful of it
Showing your positive side not only works with relationships, but also friendships (I know the word pursue can apply to more than just a relationship, but let's face it. A ton of the people watching this are either extremely shy, or probably have a hard time pursuing their own crush, and this is a video that can really help out with that). Now it's important to remember that not every single day is going to be a happy, positive, go lucky attitude kind of day. But if you can try to be in a positive, uplifting attitude, even if you're not necessarily in the best of mood let's say at least 80% of the time, then that'll go a long way. I've learned it's done wonders for my situation
Make a good first impression. Now let's face it, it's not going to be everything, but it will matter immensely early on. The only time it really has a chance to wear off is if you manage to talk to this person for well over a year, and even then sometimes that won't help. Good impressions last a LONG time, not necessarily forever, but a good good while depending on the person. My first impression in my case was kind of ass, but eventually once she got to know the "real" me (for the most part anyways), she started to open up a bit more. So be a bit careful with these, but not so much to the point where it causes paranoia
What i like about my crush:
His humor
His kind eyes
His big, warm hands
How he makes me feel like I'm not invisible, like I'm REAL and WhOLE
How he tries to mess me up when I'm writing
How he corrects me when i can't spell for shit
How he holds my hand
How he tries to teach me som of his favorite games
How he softly moves my hands sometimes
His soft hair
Somehow i like that he is younger than me
I love staring into his eyes
I try not to cuss anymore because of him
How he is making me a better person
I love how when we hold hands he doesn't let go when someone else is there
He is always there for me
He tells me good morning first
And i can not describe the feelings i have for him! 😵😖😫
Yeah..I like his presence of mind and very kind nature...☺️☺️ here's something I want to tell that he is amazingly genius ❤️😍
Psych2go's videos are lifesavers to be honest.
Thank you! Which topic/video do you like to watch?
@@Psych2go videos of introverts honestly.
@@Psych2go how to regain reputation
Thanks for the tips!
Now, step one for me, get a crush
I love these types of videos! The more psychology, the better! And also useful ;)
Oh dang, I heard of that Franklin story. Absolutely top tier reference. I forgot this lesson actually. He looks like his face is upside down when reading, in a cute way though. I also find it cute how this went from maybe friend advice into implying that the viewer is hoping to love someone.
THE ANIMATIONS GOT EVEN CUTER! LIKE I LITERALLY CAN-NOT (emphasis on CAN-NOT!)
Thank you so much :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
YES! ☺️ I mean all of them are beautiful!! but these are like tooooo cute!
That’s interesting, the Triangle Technique let’s you also observe emotions in the other person‘s face very actively. Maybe that is why the other person is wired to like it. Also it lets you better respond to those observed emotions.
I love love love this channel. Beautiful, insightful, helpful and a fun way to learn new things everyday. 💜🇧🇪
Thank you so much!! Which points do you find most helpful?
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Hey Psych2go! Thank you for thes videos. I have a crush on an actor that’s my age, and there’s a huge chance he’s going to be in a TV show I making.
And I was hoping that I could be his friend but I had no idea how to get someone to like me. Luckily I stumbled across your channel and have been watching your videos for a while now. I now know how to get someone to notice me.
Step 1. Eye contact.
Step 2. Open body language.
Step 3. Smile.
Step 4 tell a joke.
Step 5. Good hygiene.
It’s just…
So informative yet…
Adorable
💕💕💕💕💕 Sending love to Psych2Go team!
Aww thank you!! Which points do you find most helpful?
@@Psych2go It’s my pleasure! I found point 1 to be most helpful, it made me realized what I did before was not too much hehe… I like point 3 as well, just still trying to get into it, it’s quite difficult for me
You brought back the marshmellow animation...
yes
It sure does help a lot, I liked this, but also another interesting thing, to the narrator of this video what’s your AR rank and current team in Genshin? Lol
Narrator and painter/animator are two different persons ;-)
🤣
@@igorthelight Yeah I’ve known this for a long time now
So this girl I have two classes with, the earlier class a normal class and she sat near me. The later class I have her is in lifetime fitness and she's the only girl. Do you think I should appraoch by saying "Hi what's your name" and then says my name for a short talk? It's only the first two couple of days so it's not to late
Just talk to her. Maybe you dont even like her that much after all, so dont overthink. Just talk.
nah u should ask when class ends and then start asking shit like that its weird if a random dude comes up to u and asks ur name (to me it is idk abt everyone else)
Just smile n help her with her stuff of something then u can start a talk.....or just tell ur name first and ask about that days lesson or something...... It's easy to talk when u guys have a common class
Okay, i'm a girl and my boyfriend just asked me a pen because he didn't have his pencil-case :) so try to ask her something
Hey MultiCreativeArtist, did you try talking to her yet? If so, how did it go? You can try asking her about an upcoming assignment/test, or what @Napola LOVE recommended! Wishing you the best!
The fact that I did these things already without even watching this video to my crush and now ik my crush likes me back but hes just prentending to me is just 🤯🤯🤯🤯
U really have a best case scenario bro.... congratulations 😂👍
@@druthibhargav910 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Sunflower-rc4uh 😂👍
Another great video, thank you guys💯❤️
I dont exactly have a crush but I will probably use some of these for people I havent met yet
Thanks for the video,psych2go :)
Hope you enjoy Tom!
This art and narration bring peace to me
I'm attracted to my crush because at first when I met her I thought she was smart and I had respect for her but the more I was around her and she opened up a little bit more I began to really think about her more and more and realized when I was driving home from work I had a massive crush on her. I'm going to use some of these that I can remember thanks
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Am I the only one who simply enjoys watching these cute animations and listen to this nice voice?
Maybe I'm weird, but I hate asking for favors, and also drag when people ask me one... I guess it depends on the type of favor being asked.
Ask for a small favor first and then ask for a bigger favor :)
@@Psych2go I guess life has taught me to try to be as independent as I could be, and maybe that's my predicament. Besides that, in regards to some type of big favors, I hate using people, and also to be used. But overall, I do see your logic and makes perfect sense. I was just thinking out loud lol
omg I did all of these to my previous crush already (but they still didn't like me like that :,)
but don't let me uninspire you from doing this!! these are actually rlly good tips :)
idea for new video: what your favorite song type says about you
Hey there! Check out more of that here:
th-cam.com/users/Psych2gosearch?query=music
idk if he likes me but no matter what he will always be special to be because he's been more of a man to me than any past relationships or friendships i've had and now my expectations are higher. I love this video too and it makes me feel good :p lowk already done a couple of these w/o knowing it was a thing
AHH THE GENSHIN SLIMES IN THE FIFTH ONES ARE SO CUTE-
whay is a genesis slime
gnwshin
Aww, as yes wishful thinking, this girl broke my heart, we were both toxic... But I still love her
"Get matching gifts for you and your crush"
Me, wringing my hands: "Um, oh gosh, Idk how to do that without being creepy." XD
Yes, I think you have to be pretty sure of their feelings or it could be very 'run for the nearest exit'
Buy them a cookie. You can both eat a cookie together. One of those big ones that are chewy
say you didn't realize that you bought two items, and since there's something left over they can keep one
@@lillekins good idea. It would be a good idea to find out if they have a food allergy first though.
That "psychology secrets" @0:45 made me so happy
The bakugo chibi was adorable
Ikr
@@danni1414 yessss
That thumbnail is so appealing, idk why
Ok but… BAKUGOOOOOOO
This is the best way to be attractive I promise!!!
Exist
Great, awesome, wonderful. Now all I need to do is work up the courage to just tell her that I think she's groovy. She's so sweet to me, I'm sure she likes me, and may be trying to initiate something, but I'm afraid I'll just embarrass myself and alienate her, but at the same time, what if she's that one in a million and I lose her because I just couldn't say anything? Fear sucks.
I so badly want him to like me, I'd honestly change my whole personality and looks for him. I know that's bad but I can't help it.
Positive chi being Kachan is very powerful indeed
BAKUGOU THEY HAVE CULTURE THANK YOUUUUU FOR THAT GOFT OF HIM IN YOUR STYLEE HES MY COMFORT CHARACTER 🥺🥺😭
ur voice is so soothing
Her voice is so soothing and comforting 😊
I dont have a crush because of my distaste and fear of being intimate but if i do crush on somebody i will remember this,
Can you make a video: ‚How to get a shy person to fall for you‘ ?
I would say - make him/her feel comfortable with you ;-)
Can we take a moment to appreciate the fact that she put backugo as a reference UvU👌👍
Love the triangle eye contact tip
I JUST GAVE THIS BOY A BRACELET YESTERDAY FOR HIS BIRTHDAY AND MADE MYSELF A MATCHING ONE
At around the 5min mark... thankyou for the sapphic representation, love it!!!
You're welcome! :D
omg I love your videos... I love your art, love your message and best of all: it's easy to understand your English even tough I'm not a native speaker
Thank you! 😊 We appreciate you too!