Bizarre Way Men Over 40 Use Women; Don't Get Fooled
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"8 out of 10 men you meet will waste your time" 😂 sounds about right
I wasted an entire year with a user who kept dangling the idea of a relationship over my head. When I woke up and told him he was wasting time, he cussed me out. I was his therapist (apparently not a good one, lol). I can't waste any more time going forward.
Also… thanks for being so transparent and humble with us. We need to hear this!
I’m 48 but look younger, I dated men from 38 to 52 and played the therapist listening to them talking about the ex who was controlling, had bad temper or cheated on them!
Do these men understand what qualified therapists make per hour?
Most likely no...
My last relationship was in 2016 with a boy child who recently lost his Dad who he was in business with. He lost the business, gained an inheritance he didn't know what to do with and love bombed me. During the course of our 1 year relationship he constantly reminisced about how things were years ago, had frequent panic attacks and was a closet racist. I called it off and so glad I did. After watching your video it all makes sense he was not ready for any relationship with a woman. All divorced women need to see this video. Thank you.
I won’t be fooled again by users and spenders! Amen!
But Jonathon, where is the line between radical honesty, being authentic, sharing about our pasts VERSUS oversharing, men talking too much about their exes and traumas?
It’s not that simple!
If they act wounded... that's the line.
Agree omg I spend so much time on the phone like for 5 months and only went out like 2 times 😢 what a waste . He only spoke about his ex and baby momma drama . 😅
Be aware of narc personalities. Know they have the ability to suck in a compassionate person. Let them seek professional counselling. Dont get sucked into their negative vibes.
This hit me hard. I have been alone forever and loneliness got me. Went on dating site after dating site. Fake after fake and slowly my self esteem dived. Then i recently met a man 400 miles away. Video chatted daily and talked and talked. I fell hard and went to see him. I thought I hit the jackpot and then boom he was married. I am so broken and can’t stop crying I logically know what I should do but hurt so bad I am in depression and an abyss. I have no clue what to do next. I don’t know how to fix this one it’s bad. Thank you for sharing and being open. I can so relate. God Bless you
Commit your love life to Christ. I'm sorry you've been hurt. It's devastating. Times have changed and evil is on the rise. Nurture your relationship with Jesus and I believe He'll answer your prayer. You must guard your heart and be wise. The devil is real.
🙏🏻 I feel the same with a man that’s local. Waiting a year for a commitment. I can’t seem to detach from him
Ive been told off 2 ex men i was with, i was good to talk to, meaning listening to their problems, then of course they moved on without me. Never again will i do that.
i have been used as a therapist. one also was looking for a nurse. not me!!!
Love when you get real. Please keep it!
Will do...
This is much needed - Long distance and this seems to be exactly what I am dealing with. Thank you for being candid here, this is so helpful. I am not a man’s therapist!
Been down the dark alley enough to finally learn how to prioritize the relationship with myself.. respect and have my own self.. in this way, approaching the idea of a relationship with a man without a bunch of unmet needs hoping he will meet them..
My practice is to meet my own needs and then being open to the way a relationship with a man who can be his whole self, meeting his own needs, can be whole people who enhance our lives in relationship together.
I personally don't do online dating.
I respect your honesty and struggle.
I'm deeply committed to seeing what is actually there rather than the made-up stories of potential.. what is real versus what is imagined.
❤
You're right on the money about healing childhood wounds ❤
Sending us all courage to heal. ❤
The distinction of proximity is really helpful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Bro,I just got this book today.The Hoffman Process.
Hope it helps you 🙏
Its a rough road when your emotions are out of control...you can't have committed relationship when your struggling..it takes 4 years to get back on your feet...alot of folks jump into a rebounding relationship and then go into therapy
No one's ever treated me like a therapist- except one ex when we remained friends did a bit, but i thought it was just friendship talking.
Maybe it's because I'm more the chat and have fun type not the listener type.
I have been cheated on in the past and used for money. Now I'm in a better place then i was a while ago. I normally only date younger women that i see as potential wife material. What i can say is don't do to others want you don't want done to you. I'm currently dating a girl who just turn 20 and i think she is the one i will put a ring on. She is a sweet Caring girl who is good with children and has a good relationship with her parents especially her father. I'm 27 years so yeah don't give up and if it is a spouse you look for don't give up and keep searching.
I can definitely relate to this.
Amen! Holy Moly you are right on!! Thank you.
You are so welcome
Say thanks to the experience
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Amen!
My problem is that i am nursing home CNA, naturally i am kind and the best listener, i just had a 3 months of dating a guy that needed me as a therapist, Thanks so much for opening my eyes.
Happy to hear
Oh my god I can relate that my husband flirting with diff. Regardless of what they looks like. Old or younger girls
Men over 40 know the true nature of women.
How so?
I spent sometime, unaware of myself, being a spender to a woman. I wasn't ready at all, thinking and talking like I was. To be quite fair though, she was a wreck also and wasn't the woman I would marry, anyhow. I had/have my issues, but it made it all clear to me that we find out own level. She was blind to her own faults as I was to mine. Remember that we both have our parts to play and you attracted this person because you are who you are; fix your faults, don't let yourself take all the blame, just that which is yours to bear.
Thanks for sharing
Amen! I have/had (I ended the relationship two days ago) a very unique situation where my man gave a load to the relationship and was great with my son who has additional needs. It was an LDR and for two years he loyally made sure I was his priority and always made time for me. The problem was, after two years he bought a flat in his home city instead of moving closer to me, he was emotionally unavailable and never talked about the future or anything about his hopes, dreams or wishes. Despite all his good traits, those two things became too much and magnified over time despite me asking him to change. Would this fall under the ‘spender’, ‘user’, or ‘grower builder’? Thanks in advance, I love your channel. ❤
Thanks for sharing...
I would think spender. He was spending time with you and “playing relationship”, and he was giving obvious signals he did not want to fully commit by 1) not discussing your future 2) not making a move to be closer to you after 2 years (that’s a long time). This is enough concrete evidence to justify your need to end the “relationship” and start to move on. I wish you the best in your h journey to find a partner more aligned to your desire for commitment.
We chat, if they don't want to meet within 2 weeks, I don't need a pen pal or phone sex or something to ease their egos. Most men haven't healed, and I don't have it anymore to be bothered with such foolishness.
Exactly!!!
Jonathan, what is the woman for you is listening to your videos. She may even be in your Facebook group just thinking out loud..
Can you elaborate?
Thought you broke up with Marie - are you back together ?
Think it's an old video.
These videos are clips from older videos