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Good morning sir, I need a responsible man. I am in my early 40s. I am a Nigerian.

​@JonathonAslay can you please tell me that video with guest (man)which you talk about yourself regard your divorce and and lost your job also how you start your career??

Men, you guys harass me all the time! I hate it because I'm a married woman. So, what keeps me faithful to my baby: 1) Saw mom be faithful to my biological father (dad of whom I did not approve of) 2) My husband uses actions to make me feel wanted and very much cared about 3) Regard all other men as brothers and brother-in-laws 4) See infidelity the same as harmful thing for all people, no double standard 5) Knowing that cheating ends up being found out and cheating keeps a person suspicious about their partner/spouse Harassment sucks for a single woman because of different reasons. One is lack of intentionality. The "wife material" or "play toy" is not a mutual game. Women RUN AWAY from that kind of crazy! Or, we counter-harrass you and both end up losing face.

Bigger isn't always better. I'm jealous. Guys get 12 minute videos and we ladies get 1 hour videos. The grass is always greener on the other side. Shorter videos are easier to reference.

I noticed this male channel has no comments,after one day where as the female version has many. I think this says alot. If males could share on here atleast of us females have an idea how to communicate with you guys.

Thank you for starting this channel for men!!! We need more family/father figure role models to combat this broken society!

I so understand the alcoholic mother and became a people pleaser as well.

Kindness Communication Consistency Committment Character Safety

That one woman dismissing a good man for being "too nerdy" reminds me of the old Seinfeld show where they all found nitpicky reasons to constantly rule out the people they were dating. It was comedy gold at the time.

Slay Aslay, you rock! Men need this education!

Yay a channel for men 🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏

Hey Jonathan, I'm one of your female followers. A man has been trying to pursue me, but he has really unhealthy habits. (I'm not perfect, but I actively work on healthy goals, daily.) So, I gently made a suggestion to him to check out your men's channel. This would up his attraction quoitent really well, it's all he needs. Meanwhile, I'll keep my options open to someone whom is at least aware, and ready to tackle stuff a little at a time.

Thank you for educatibg men to be the best version of themselves.

Thank you for helping men be better men.

Great video! Rock it!

Thanks for addressing some of the ridiculous black pill nonsense that’s out there

Jonathon, thank you so much for doing these podcasts for men!. I send them out. Great message. ❤️

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Well said big brother.❤️ Radical honesty is essential to build trust.

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It's really interesting to see what seems to be "normal" men that appear to have their shit together who are actually on-line behind their screens who like the "let's get sexy"game...after you reveal yourself truthfully and honestly...it's so disappointing..I've been at this awhile and think single is for me .

Finally! Maybe there’s a chance men will be less clueless and start the work

Those thumbnails!!! Whaaat?

I take it you are expanding your audience to men? Do you already have male subscribers?

Insightful and acurate message ❤️

Oh yes, the fizzle out. I have been fizzled out and it was by my current boyfriend of a year and a half. We dated 25 years ago as teenagers during the summer (he lived in the vacation town my family stayed in) Didn't talk for 25 years and the Internet brought us back together. The first 6 months before we start dating we started to get to know each other again. We were both going through divorces and traumatic experiences. We were there for each other to talk too. Mine you even at that time we had not seen each other yet and he moved back to the town I vacationed at in the summer. He came back from another state to take care of his Mom that is ill w/ dementia (24/7) and I only live 45 minutes from there now. After 6 months we decided to see where this could go. The first few weeks were great and then he did the fizzle. I would send him a quick text x2 a week, to let him know I was thinking of him and genuinely concerned, even if there was rarely a response. I knew/know he had a lot on his plate as so did I. After 6 weeks I took it apon myself to go over to see him. We sat outside and had a great conversation about what we both needed. I told him I am here for him and respect what he is going through. He stated he didn't think I was ready for a commitment or situation like the one he is still currently in with his Mom. The thing is I am a Caregiver. It is literally my career(Over 20+ years) He was concerned I wouldn't want to deal with it. I told him I will always be here for him and that I know it isn't an easy road but it could be easier knowing you don't have to go it alone. Communication is so key at anytime in a relationship. Sometimes the words may be hard to say or explain but at our age now, 46, we shouldn't be dilly dallying. Now after a year and a half strong we have been through hard times and have gone in hand in hand. Growing into a beautiful relationship I wish I/we could of had years ago but knowing now what I waited for makes it so much sweeter❤❤❤

Always on point, Jonathon. ♥️ I will only commit to someone that is all in and committed to me. I will not settle for mediocrity or a just okay relationship. A man that understands me, speaks to the queen in me. To be seen heard and understood. Conflict resolution skills are essential. We need to treat all people as buman beings.

Absence creates distance and disconnection.. It doesn't make the heart grow fonder.

Wow great advice from your guest

You are the first person to clearly explained what it means to be protected emotionally. Thank you

Maybe it's important to be "touchy" as a habit and initiated by a woman in an elegant way Touchy not in a sexual way but holding a hand and looking in the eyes of a man in a way "I understand your feelings at this moment just look in my eyes at tell me what bothers you at work." (I dont mean in serious situations but daily normal situations) Is this "touchy" emotional intimacy is ok...where the elegant woman is initiating some connection, with looking in eyes, in humble ways. Then. also, the sexual area is ok. mental sexual spiritual. It's simple. Did you notice that some people use such body language, that when you are going to tell them something, .....something obviously meaningless, or forgettable, but their body language is instantly very caring, almost like they look into your eyes with great care and almost like touching your arm I think some women with mother instincts do it with everybody partner daughter, and cousin or even a colleague. I dont know whether they are empaths or something. But maybe this kind of attitude is healthy in relationships of men and women, that they are not like "roommates" but couple. Man can easily forget a woman who is pretty but gives him "Go f.ck yourself look"....even though she may have many exciting hobbies or intelligence. I dont think a man would forget easily such type of a touchy emphatic woman who has a simple attitude.

Thank you for this valuable male perspective. What you just said describes my last relationship, which I am glad has ended. But this information and experience will definitely be very useful in my dating life!

Thank you Jonathon and Dr Tatkin! ♥️ I agree with asking deep questions.and having them answered.

So, does this mean we are attracting the correct person for us, familiar, but we just need to learn better how to be in the relationship?

Good morning ☕️! ☮️❤️😊 and other highest forms of abundance all 🙌! TY beautiful soul Johnathan and Stan, I appreciate 🙏 you and the work that you do ✨️🙏😇

Thanks

What an incredible journey and inspiration to share this . Jonathon you were a great interviewer allowing her to speak and kept her aligned with her beautiful details. Truly an honest heart endearing life story. I will pray for her health and healing for a complete recovery restoration .

I’m so glad you did this VT I was in a situation with this type of guy. When I had surgery he didn’t come and see me for about 4 days and then he was only interested in intimacy saying he hadn’t seen me for a few days. What a sicko

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Be careful of the man who futurizes but never provides specifics for this plan. They can say they want to be exclusive, tell you they want to “end up with you,” live out their years… but there is no plan to do any of that. It’s always in the distance.

Well done! Excellent teaching!

Just great🎉 i am thankful... He does Not want to speak in the phone😊

Golden! An exact defination. ♥️ This reminds me of the comment this fellow made. " Many men just want to be saved" and refused to explain what he meant when I asked. Poor communication.

If he didnt drive an extra 35km each way because i wanted my novelty lamp back?

We come from broken homes jono lots of invalidating fatherless. And chaotic households

Jonathon, your content is amazing!

Thank you, Jonathon, for your valuable videos. I have no problem befriending people who are still healing their issues. But I am not interested if their issues involve lying (to self and to others), lying by omission, hiding, lack of transparency, not being principled, not having boundaries, poor/weak ethics, compartmentalizing themselves/their lives ("what happens in 'Vegas'--or work or where ever--stays in 'Vegas'", i.e. partner doesn't need to know or be considered in decisions), denial, lack of self-awareness, disinterest in learning and growing, superficiality, detached/avoidant/dissociative, too busy or preoccupied for significant time together with partner, not wanting to deeply know partner or partner to deeply know them, obsession about/infatuation with others, maladaptive daydreaming. I haven't been in the dating world for a long time. But I have tried to meet a potential close friend (who maybe could also turn into a partner, but just a close friend works). So far, no luck in finding someone who isn't dissociative / avoidant -- if the avoidant is laid-back and interesting enough to hang around, we're acquaintances. But certainly not close and certainly not invested in each other much at all. Although, if someone has one or some the above issues and has voluntarily recognized the issue and authentically requests input and help for healing it, I would certainly consider them as an acquaintance-type friend. And if they healed the issue, it could lead to a closer relationship. But I'd proceed with caution and stay at acquaintance level until that person showed ongoing positive changes. (I have to say, I think this scenario would be highly unlikely.) I think knowing what are our deal-breakers would make dating pretty simple. Probably could tell in the matter of minutes what a person is about. No?

The last sign about not wanting conversations about a permanent relationship and exclusivity is right on point.