getting my sh*t together *adult mode activate*
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Oh boy, being an adult is hard work. Follow me around on my “get your sh*t together day,” in which I, as the title may suggest, attempt to get my sh*t together. In this vlog I try to do all the adulting things in one day, from catching up on emails to cooking dinner for myself to planning out the week ahead in my bullet journal to watering my houseplants to washing the dishes and cleaning my messy apartment and bathroom. Also get a little peek into my life as I try to figure out how to be a real adult living alone in LA post grad and working for myself.
OUTFIT
top: urban outfitters (bit.ly/2AcCPek)
shorts: abrand (similar: bit.ly/31glpJO, bit.ly/31q9kC1)
nike air force one jesters (bit.ly/2KOXrSe)
thin choker: mejuri (bit.ly/2QvwTV2)
pendent necklace: en route jewelry (bit.ly/32Du4Gp)
flower earrings: en route jewelry (bit.ly/2NY6BMe)
PLANNERS + NOTEBOOKS
my big monthly calendar ➭ bit.ly/2m5cET0
my bullet journal for planning ➭ bit.ly/2mdZCTz
my journal for journaling ➭ amzn.to/2Q2dLkV
small sticky notes ➭ amzn.to/2I2nNvW
big sticky notes ➭ amzn.to/2NW68d9
OTHER STUFF I MENTIONED
everlane danim jacket ➭ bit.ly/2Aa3J6u
my watering can ➭ amzn.to/2QlLHJN
matcha powder ➭ amzn.to/2QjdKJs
MUSIC
i get most of my music from epidemic sound! ➭ bit.ly/2VW00n4
song while i was cleaning ➭ HOAX - Grow - thmatc.co/?l=65510232
F A Q
what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 21 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5'5"
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
➭ 12-35mm lens (amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii (amzn.to/2DfL4cZ)
➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
"Suffering from a condition called I'm 21and I have no idea what I'm doing" amen sis omfg
lucymadalyn I’m suffering from a similar condition called ‘I’m 25 and still have no idea what I’m doing, meanwhile my friends are parents’
I busted out laughing 😂😂😂
Literally AMEN😭
@@emilyatkinson12 omggggg me af. I'm 24 and living at home and feeling lost af 😂😩
@Kaitlin Pages you got this!!! I just graduated with my Master's and couldn't afford to live in my own so I'm back home with my parents. It's hard to see everyone around me feeling confident and knowing what they're doing with their life while I'm just like 🥺😭 but that's okay! We'll figure it out!!!
Ashley honey. You DO NOT NEED to motivate yourself to work more. I beg you, please take a holiday. Periods every two weeks and pulling all nighters is the opposite of healthy. We will forgive you for no videos in 2 or three weeks. Please take care of yourself.
preach this comment
Agreed
TMI But like.....My period came every fifteen days is it bad?
Pannaporn Puttaraksa depends. Some people just have periods really often but majority of the time it is unhealthy. It may just be stress or your diet tbo
@@bestofFay might be your stress or diet, or because youre young. if youre a teen, its completely normal to have your period twice a month and then no periods for 2 months, for example. if youre worried, you can always go see a doctor to ask if anything is wrong and your doctor might say you could try birth control pills. Birth control pills do not only prevent pregnancy, but they also regulate your period so you get it once every four weeks :)
Ashley: “barely got through college”
Also Ashley: *graduated 2 years early*
I really want her to make a vidoe about her major and how did she graduate in two years .
Ola Saeed she did. It’s somewhere on her channel. I don’t remember what it’s called tho
Ola Saeed My 3 girls graduated in 3 years, one of them summa. One year of college credit was earned while in high school - dual credit (Texas high schools). Basically some of your high school classes count for both high school and college credit. This greatly helps with reducing the cost of college because dual credit classes are free. They could have easily have picked up another college semester in high school by taking other dual credit classes and testing out of others. If they did that and took summer classes while in college they could have graduated in 2 years. I don’t know how Ashley did it but dual credit, testing out of college courses and summer classes may have been part of it. It’s doable but requires advanced planning beginning in high school. Edit: All three of my kids graduated debt free due to free college credit from dual credit high school classes, testing out of courses, scholarships and savings. If more people knew about dual credit in high school the debt burden from student loans would be greatly reduced.
@@nubbyrose87 wow. Very informative. Thanks. I'll look into it.
Pantho Chowdhury A few other tips to graduate in 3 years - my kids didn’t change majors nor did they change colleges, they didn’t do a study abroad and to save money they didn’t have a car in college. My daughter who graduated summa did a summer internship. Also, research the limits on transferred credit including dual credit and credit from testing out. To get a head start on graduating timely, take classes at a community college before you start your first fall semester. Edit: They also didn’t drop classes and only took the classes required for their major and to graduate. I told them once they graduated and got a job they could save their money if they wanted to study for another career or for a graduate degree. But I wanted them to graduate without debt and without me going broke or taking on debt.
Everyone: Ashley is so pretty and smart how is she single?!
Ashley: I will literally frame my husband for murder.
😅🤣
Hahhaha
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@@kldottie6524 aw thanks I’ve been thinking about trying to be a actual art TH-camr
What a queen
being a feminist is not only being equal to men, but also being able to do what you want as a woman, which means the housewife thing is totally valid so dw
Absolutely!
Feminism has never been about choice but about liberation from male domination though. Till we achieve that there’s no way to know that women who choose to be housewives are doing it out of their own informed and free will. Also just because they’re choices mades by women doesn’t mean they’re free from criticism. Feminism is about being able to think critically about every aspect of society, not just saying “*~everything a woman does is valid uwu!! ~~
@@louetke so your saying, that a woman cannot possibly be capable of making decisions that best suits her in a "male dominated" world, because she is too weak and stupid? She is not capable and needs outside help? She needs to be told what societies views are on certain topics in order to make a "more informed" decision, because she is not capable of actively weighing pros and cons from information she actively sought out? She is not capable of informing herself in the first place and needs a whole movement behind her back to push her forward?!
I believe women are more than capable doing all those things on their own, with their own abilities. And yes, feminism and equality IS about choice! What kind of misogynist are you, perluding to women not knowing what they want, so they must be told, and that the ability to have a choice is second place. Smh.
Yea. Also, men should take part in the housekeeping thing as well, especially if they live alone
And also being ok with a guy wanting the same :) Like staying at home with children when a wife is working etc. It's not just about women rights now. All people should be equal and have the same opportunities without being shamed in my opinion :)
No one:
Ashley: pulls out a potato for scale
This is why we love her
Most people: the inner pocket is for hiding and protecting your phone, wallet or passport from pickpockets
Ashley: iTs fOr HiDiNg sNaCkS aNd sEcReTs
She's so wholesome!❤
It’s for hiding mysterious majestic looking old keys 🗝
Nah, I had the exact same thought as her 😅
wheres the lie tho 😂
@cbubble07 really? why?
I honestly miss her videos so much. I remember watching this when I was a teenager and now I'm 21 and she still inspires me just as much as she did back then
same here i go back to her vids for my sanity
I love that her comment section is so thoughtful and intuitive instead of the usual: tUrN tHIs BLuE IF yOu loVE AsHLeY
i didnt realise this until you pointed it out but you're so right! That's awesome
I didn't realize this till now but that is so true
Only intellectuals watch ashley🙃
I hate idol-cults.
the fact that ashley can keep all those plants alive,,, someone give this girl an award asap
my mum left me to take care of her plants while she was away and i killed them all
no thats literally normal. i dont get why pretty much no americans are able to just understand plants needs🤦♀️
different plants need different amts of sunlight and water etc. so her plants might fall in the category where it does not need much sunlight or water
The key is research! Knowing your plant's needs will make it much harder to kill them!
AnnaDaA wtf
"Get in my depression hole." should be your tinder bio.
I-
My god 😂💀
lmao
Not working and enjoying soap operas does not make anyone a bad feminist. The whole point of feminism to the power of choice. To be able to make our own decisions instead of letting society as a whole (yes both men and women) make our decisions for us. You can be a stay at home mother or like being in a relationship and still be a feminist. You can be traditional or modern and be a feminist. As long as you support women and support the idea of women being free of control then you are a feminist.
loved your explanation ❤❤
I think she was saying that viewing being a housewife as 'retirement' and an easy life..makes her a bad feminist. She was calling herself out lol
No, this whole choice feminism is extremely reductionist and does not take into consideration white supremacy, capitalism, colonialism or basically any opressive structure... It really works only for cishet middle class white women.
@@emme2538 So women shouldn’t have a choice? Um…
@@springlady8337 No, I'm saying that while white upper middle class women is making choice whether to become a ceo or a housewife, black trans women doesn't have accesible medical care and is at high risk of homelesness.
ashley: has her hand RIGHT THERE
also ashley: “here’s a potato for scale”
Hahaha! I was thinking the same :P
Love her😂😂
At first I thought they had sent a potato in pr along with those candy
@@ifc1628 me too lmao 😂😂
“And one of the pockets is on the inside for hiding snacks and secrets” now if that isn’t the most adorable wholesome sentence I’ve ever heard-
It’s actually so nice to see a youtuber showing themselves cleaning ACTUAL dirty stuff in their house. There’s something so weird about watching people clean their already spotless bathtubs and sinks
Yeaa😂
Honestly I never thought twice about youtubers cleaning already clean stuff cause SAME. My house is never dirty tbh.
Lol maybe they are on top of their cleaning that they don’t let it get that dirty
nah see you all misunderstand. i mean that it’s boring as shit to watch youtubers clean their already clean houses because what’s the point of it. where’s the satisfaction. the before and after. the intrigue. like razor commercials where they’re shaving a hairless leg. but congratulations on all your very clean houses
honestly i dont even know how it got that dirty, i love ashley but that shower and sink are disgusting! like water runs in it every day how is it so crusty and gunky? it gives me the creeps ahaha
Its been 3 years, im 20 now and im feeling shitty and yet this video still makes me feel safe :)
still second that statement im recovering from horrible wisdom teeth surgery and Ashley's still gold
I’m here every 2 months. Same.
ur not alone
me rn im currently 20 :)
“And one of the pockets is on the inside for hiding snacks and secrets” now if that isn’t the most adorable wholesome sentence I’ve ever heard-
For one second I was like: Did I comment already??😂 hey army
Biggest crossover in the history of crossovers-
@@yourdadsof1325 fr 😂
Ohh hayy hayyy Army 😂💜
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I give her credit for showing her dirty bathtub, I'd be too embarrassed lol
Daphne R she said she went to the beach and that’s just lots of sand on the bathtub 😂
@@erinsantosa the brand is method
the whole "i would like a rich husband but that kinda makes me a bad feminist" thing is a dilemma that i have in my mind the w h o l e time. It's nice that someone else also thinks about it, hehe
feminism is about being free to choose, either you want to work, run a business or stay at home and take care of children is all your choice!! you are not inferior if you decide to do any of that stuff!! :)
Yeah, my two moods are independent woman and a baby that needs a husband to pay for her stuff
@@hvislysettaross. sammeee😩
Im in high school and idk what to do when I graduate, like idk what to do with my life so honestly this isn’t such a bad option
An exo-l who thinks along the same lines XD
"all I have are these 3 shaky iPhone clips of bell peppers" why is this sending me lmaoo
This is the type of life i aspire to lead.
- dancing around all the time
-have like 50 frickin plants scattered around
-cooking my own food.
- 4 hours of sleep?
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That sounds amazing honestly
tbh being an adult is just accepting that you'll always be tired
Nope that's not true I am a teen and I am always tired. But again as I say this to everyone that I've a heart of a 8 year old and a soul of a 80 year old who is stuck in a 15 year old body.
@@palakjain406 it really be like that sometimes 😂
I’m 14 but I guess I’m an adult then
Cursed Vibes with why are you tired? are you doing more responsibilities than school?
Save your starbursts for Halloween and hand them out to kids since you’re an adult now !!
And she can send the rest to me!
Such a good idea to support both Ash and the kidz!
mmm, but a lot of kids would probably just throw them out, since they aren’t in a “wrapper” (like the 2 pack ones, as the singles can be tampered with easily)
I was gonna say the sameee ayeee
Lps Red does that seriously happen? People tampering with halloween candy? Never heard of that in Germany lol
This girl is so endearing! The way she shares herself with us is just so refreshing and it’s nice to see someone online expressing themselves with such a rich medley of vulnerability and grace
you graduated two years early, and maintained a highly demanding digital career whilst being pretty transparent about a lot of your personal life and emotional health. give yourself MORE CREDIT! I LOV U!
HOW CAN PEOPLE’S BRAINS WORK FAST ENOUGH TO COME UP WITH COOL COMMENTS WITHIN 10 SECONDS
Bobbita it’s called editing
@@wunderpuffel7364 they probably mean actual comments on the video and those update the time to when they were edited
Well… now you‘re one of these people
haha
You're one of em now ☻
Adulthood is a myth. But what is comforting is that all us 20-something year olds are stumbling around equally clueless. It never gets easier, your coping mechanisms just get better imo.
sahralenny totally agree speaking as a 30ish adult. You will keep figuring stuff out. We just do what we can and can’t put pressure on ourselves.
i've come around to the idea that adulthood is basically "adults" still as children with a big ass facade to cover up the fact that everything is under control when it isn't like u said
A person becomes an adult at the point they realise that adulthood isn’t a grand change on the horizon but... more of the same, until death... with every passing day granting more understanding of ourselves and others and the world around us which allows us to make better decisions (or worse, I’m not discriminating, some of us make progressively worse decisions...).
well that's encouraging
Im living for this comment and the replies
This feels like the last week of school when you've already taken your finals and know that you've passed everything and you just spend the afternoon in your little summer outfit bc the weather is good again after the whole winter. I have found such a sense of confort in this video that I watch it every time that im stressed.
I'm just rewatching all Ashley's videos cuz I really miss her :c
Period every two weeks? That happened to me once! Turns out it was just STRESS AND ANXIETY! please take care of yourself and your health! Also watch out for iron deficiency, since it can also cause depression and fatigue!
I was so stressed out when she said she got it every two weeks. take care of yourself girl! what that fuck!!
Same for me just recently, and then I would overwork myself from that! Meditation, yoga, exercise and trying to keep organised always helps me. Best wishes xxx
that happened to me but I'm in my last semester of uni so I just went on birth control and nuked it
This happened to me too!
it's opposite for me, when I'm stressed I don't have periods lol
*EVERY jacket should have a secret snack pocket !!*
very important.
You could put the starbursts in it!
when the climate change apocalypse hits everybody’s gonna want to live with ashley and her shelter of oxygen makers (🌱)
Ashley, you haven’t posted for over a year, but your videos are still my ” comfort food “
Thank you Ashley for always being my inspiration to romanticize my life, but also stays critical and open to ideas. You're one of the very few I'd say, internet public figure that actually shows they're in search of that certain feeling of contentment in life, which is exactly what I'm into too. You also always subliminally remind me to appreciate little happiness in life and that it's totally okay to be just okay in life.
And the cherry on top is that we're the same age, so I feel like there's a figure with a similar goal in life with me and we're in this life journey together. Thanks for everything, Ashley!
same, you put this so well. i’ll be 21 in january & ashley is just ??? wow love her.
"i'm 21 and overwhelmed" is the new "i'm 19 and i'm on fire"
LORDE
@@bruisecruise4621 perfect places ahhhhh
"no one warned be about how much entropy there is in real adult life" is the most relatable sentence I've ever heard in my life.
i always come back to this video whenever i feel overwhelmed with the reality that i am growing up and everytime i do, i feel somewhat relaxed that i can relate to someone
Fun fact, using a spoon to peel ginger is way better than a knife for some reason. Weird, but true.
Can confirm, spoons are better than knives for ginger
I grate ginger with a cheese grater!
when she said she was working on a big project coming out soon and was tapping next to her ears... clever
I dont get it...
¿ she came out with a jewelry collection with en route jewelry but i don’t think it was released when this video came out
@@sarahy870 oh ok thanks
and the earrings she was wearing were from en route!
*when you just realize that’s what she’s talking about rn*
Aw missing this Ashley, currently on a rewatch binge
"I'm like half way through a mental breakdown"
-me, 95% of the time
you’re actually the only youtuber that i don’t get bored of when they make talking videos lol. and this my friends is why i don’t make talking videos.
just watched 3 minutes of ads for you, you are welcome
I FEEL THE SAME! hahaha! To be honest, sometimes I even get bored watching own! LMAO!
dawn for life in Switzerland literally me too
Yes
she is just the bestttttt and so relatable too
When Ashley is only one year older than you are, but you see her as a mother
When ashley is the same age as you but you still see her as an older sister
When Ashley is one year younger than you, but you see her as the cool aunt you never had.
when ashley is only 20 years younger than you are, but you see her as a grandson
same! ashley is my older sister I've never had
this is too real
Gals remember that being a housewife is just harshly judged because patriarchy has made it crap in the past , but it is our mission to make it our kind of empowering experience if we choose to !
I miss her 😭😭😭
when will she hit us with that beef and broccoli recipe though
i just want to know how she makes the beef yummy :(
sameeee
Yes pleaseee, I need that recipe
Chloe Ly for fucking real
Yes!! Please put the recipe in the description box Ashley :)
why is no one talking about how good she looks in this video!!
Ikr she looks so good
Because she always looks good. Nothing new.
Because it's unimportant to the topic
skinny LEGEND
army forever ppp pop
I still watch her video religiously by this time I have memorized so many of them because I have to keep watching the old ones. someone bring her back.
Ashley: *claims she can’t cook*
Me: *mentally begging for that beef and broccoli recipe because it looks ah-mazing*
😍😍
I'm in the comments looking for the recipe 😂
I was looking for the recipe too
Did you guys find the recipe because I really want it lol
Nope, we never got it!
I did some googling, and I found what appears to be her recipe: www.justataste.com/easy-beef-and-broccoli-recipe/
It uses all the ingredients that she did, with the addition of showing how to make the sauce as well :)
Halloween is coming up, give away the candy (:
lmao
Holy crap! That's actually genius!
Or like, if Ashly doesn't get Trick-or-Treaters, donate it to a children's home.
My mom wouldn't allow me and my sibling to get candy that where single pieces or not wrapped .she would say they where not safe. she had hear about someone that put something in the candy to hurt childs .so you mit want to keep that in mind.
Sabrina Vega I mean she could, but since they don’t come in packs most people won’t get it because you never know if there’s something in the candy that’s harmful..
“Here’s a potato for scale”
-Ashley
Love this so much
i'm kinda that silent lurker type who just loves to appreciate content, so i don't really know how these comment things work and if i'm doing it right... but, incase you do read all your comments, i really do love your girl talk videos more than your fashion videos. i just discovered your channel during quarantine through some of your room makeover videos and now i'm going through all your videos just to hear what you have to say and your tangents. Honestly, i think your feminist takes on sexuality, work life balance, and honestly anything are super insightful and very relevant, especially as we start to come out of this current COVID climate. please keep doing what you're amazing at!
I definitely agree with this! I know my favorite stuff from bestdressed is when... well, when she’s Ashley, not bestdressed. I think it’s so adorable when she talks and mentions actual life versus just clothing and makeup. It’s refreshing! And don’t worry, you’re doing the comment thing right! Even if not everyone notices your comment, it helped me relate, which is equally important, right?
I can’t believe I was watching this when I was a teenager and now I’m 21 it feels weird to know I’m now Ashley’s age from this video
Ashley, you are like a big sister that I've never had and I hate seeing you so stressed out. please take a break bc you deserve one. You don't have to put a video out every week fo us. We care more about your physical and mental health than having a video every week. Please take a holiday or just a few months to live your life and savour it. Don't let us (your fans) determine how you dictate your life. We love you and we want you to take care of yourself.
Couldn't agree more! Loovve you and you're content Ashley! But no one is gonna scream at you if you just take a lil time to switch off and relax :) I know someone who's veerryy much a workaholic and honestly the thing I'd say most to anyone with that kinda mindset is like enjoy your youth and take time off to be at peace with your mind, and get to know yourself, don't succumb to the pressure of being ' The Perfect Women™ '. (I know we all do sometimes). We're all just young and figuring life out, and you don't have to have all the answers yet
I need a bestdressed podcast so that I can just listen to ashley talk about anything and everything under the sun. Because damn Ashley is such a mood.
(edit) But yes I know you are too busy and I just simply wanted you to know you are doing great and that my heart is just happy and contented with the videos that you post. Don't exhaust yourself, you deserve some rest. Don't worry we're not going anywhere, we're always here to support you 💖
Yep waiting for her podcast! I can listen to her voice all day!
agreed
Danielle Mae Tolibao yesss
YES!
YAS PLS ASHLEY
wait i love this, i have been struggling to figure out how the hell to get motivated and you are SO MOTIVATED i needed this
When you started dancing to the sirens I felt that so much.
is anyone else like... in love with her??
lmao yes
meeeee i'm all just *heart eyes* throughout all of her videos
ME! both in love with her and wanna be her.
If she's lesbian
I would freaking marry herr
This makes me so happy- honestly, I feel like you’re one of the most “real” youtubers. You don’t lie about having perfect mental health or a perfect life, but it seems like you’re really trying your hardest and working your hardest to live a really full and fulfilling life. I aspire to live like you- not necessarily the same career and all that, but with your mentality and drive to work. Thanks for making great videos!
These videos honestly inspire me. They help me get motivated to get MY shit together and start to organize. They are also super chill, funny, and entertaining. You go girl! Much love :)
I watch this video whenever I get a depressive episode and I swear it lifts up my mood. Thanks Ashley 💕
@@harmonizing8627 we are perfectly imperfect and doing the best we can. One step at a time. Sending you lots of love 💗
Petition for Ashley to do *MORE* of these videos!
Krystalline yes!!
16:00 The video about beauty standards was amazing, you’re incredibly well spoken and I feel like everything you said in that video was really true, it literally made me cry because I wasn’t feeling that good about myself that day and you truly put things into perspective. Even if it got fewer views than you usually get, I’m sure everyone who watched it really appreciated it. (Or at least i did) Ly Ashley :)
Truly. I loved it, too. It's a better quality to me than those generic videos even though I believe Ashley is really talented in what she's doing (not a lot of people I can say that about). It was refreshing and felt... real.
Yeah, I agree 100%. Like when she showed us her shower before she cleaned it. It is something so small, but makes her seem more humane rather than other influencers who shield every 'real' aspect of life and put up this facade of sorts.
Her willingness to be vulnerable is amazing, keeps bringing me back to her videos because there is comfort in the things that people are too scared to say that we all experience
I'm actually your age and i feel like a potato when i see you, i mean you have a job, a career, you take care of yourself and your're really talented and i'm- i just- i don't know what to do with my life i don't know what i'm doing right now, like, i'm in collage but don't really like my career but it doesn't matter bc i no have another option, i don't have other thing that i'd like to do...
Valeria Villa gurl it’s okay. I know it sounds cheesy but really just try to find what makes you happy. It doesn’t have to be your career or have anything to do with a career. If all you want from a job is to make money that’s totally okay. Just try to find the little joys in life that bring happiness to your soul and if that’s watching these videos or whatever else you like you to do, it’s okay :)
please don't compare yourself, and just know that everyone is on a different and unique journey and you have a BIG life ahead of you, you have no idea what the next 5 years will bring you as long as you trust that you will figure it out when it's time to. Let the thoughts of it go and I mean that, you will recieve once you do. Meditate on it
exactly my scenario...ditto..
NBC
No
Always remember... You can do anything you put your mind to :)
Please talk more about film! Put that film degree to use girl!
what course are u taking?
follow her other channel bestmess :)
@@minjadeye663 I'm actually studying film rn! But in college in England (which is 16-18).
*inside pocket that is blatantly made for phone and money*
Ashley: “pocket which is made for snacks and secrets”
I’ve watched this vlog like 100x because it’s so aesthetic and calming.
So happy I found your videos. Watching you is so refreshing. You're so genuine
Your 21? I thought you were American
@@praptigiriH wow uncultured.. It's from a vine
@@praptigiriH 😎😎
prapti giri American is a nationality not a race
@@praptigiriH god can't you understand it was a joke? It was a meme
ealo r/woooosh
seeing your “gross” tub makes me feel better about the fact that life happens and sometimes showers get gross
I love how you've grown so much, Ashley!!!!! All my support for your happiness!!!
I just love that section when you were watering your plants 🌱☺️ it was so calming
SAVE THE STARBURST FOR HALLOWEEN!! Place the bowl outside and let the kids do the rest 🖤🖤
Viola Fernezlian that’s a really good idea actually!
Yasssss
bold to assume a teen wont dump the entire thing into their bag
@@gemmybunny It's me, _I'm the teen._
Yesssss!
"take it easy on me i'm like halfway through a mental breakdown" is me talking to my professors
seeing your videos like these makes me feel so much better. I'm only in high school, but I feel this great pressure to be some perfect human who knows where she's going in life, who's super organized, and who never makes mistakes. I feel shitty about having a dirty room or bathtub or waiting until the last minute to do all my work, but seeing someone like you, someone so talented, outwardly successful, and hardworking, struggle with some of the same things I struggle with, it just makes me feel a lot better and reminds me that I can't be perfect. thanks for being so open with parts of you that most public figures try to hide
I swear I play this video everytime I need motivation to get out of a slump and clean up my room and do stuff and it always works
ashley: im an adult now
also ashley: scales her giant bin of starbursts with a potato
Isn't that how Americans scale everything bc they don't have the metric system?
Lisa Sowa nah you’re just thinking of how the Irish measure everything
Nicevdp
That's the best way to scale stuff
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Ashley, I also just graduated university but I’m feeling so good about my life right now because I took time off to focus on my future and mourn my past. We both went through huge life changes and it seems like you aren’t doing so good because you have allowed yourself no time to readjust. Take a vacation. If you don’t take a break soon you will get sucked into the business of every day and you start to lose months to head down, nose to the grind stone mentality. Also, you just went from an imposed schedule to being completely self-scheduled and that isn’t necessarily what is best for you. Consider making yourself a daily cleaning schedule, a set dinner time or signing up for a sport rec league. Anything so that rushing to meet work deadlines isn’t the only thing that dictates your day. If work is the only “important” thing that you have to do every day than any minute not doing it will seem wasted. We are both still sooo young , with probably 70 years of living left to do. Please don’t rush headlong into constant busyness and forget to savour your life.
I really appreciated the time you took to write this out. I'm in the same boat of being a bit aimless as a post-grad. As young people we are going through a lot of important stressful life phases very quickly. It's hard to stop rushing to meet deadlines/"working hard" (at the expense of your health/wellness) in order to gauge success.
The phrase "focus on my future and mourn my past" was very beautiful to me. I hope we can all take a pause for a moment and take it easier on our selves as we shift into new phases of our lives.
Ashley needs to read this comment. Very thoughtful and helpful
This was really encouraging to me as someone who often finds herself so invested in one task that I let the rest of my life sort of fall apart for a short period of time. Glad to know I’m not the only one who plans certain days for just catching up on basic human tasks!
This video always brings me so much comfort
when Ashley makes talking videos i just make a fort in my bed and cocoon myself in there because i know these vids are intense, one moment you're so sad with her and then the next second she already inserted a dirty joke. it's a rollercoaster feeling with these talking videos with her, and i think we all can agree to that.
so basically youre a chronic procrastinator but like...a productive one
Mckenzie Shoaf i wish i was productive
if this ain’t me
Love love love these kinds of videos!! Really made me appreciate how much work you do behind the scenes and how much of yourself you put into your videos, so thank you!!💗💗
I watch this video every time I need motivation to be productive/get my life together.. so like at least once a week
me cleaning my room and taking care of my skin and getting all my work done FOR ONCE.
“ *getting my shit together* “
weirdo since birth same!!!!
Same🙋♀️
Basically
Honestly you are such an inspiration because at 21 you've already achieved so much so don't put yourself down because you are doing great! ☺
this is my comfort video
I’ve been loving your “real talk” videos recently. You have no idea of how much they help some of us. Plus you’re hilarious.
So glad I’m not the only one who gets “period horny” xD Thanks for once again being super #relatable
Is was searching so long for this comment haha. How isn't this more relatable?
hahaha same
Saaaame hahaha We get you, Ashley :)
😂
OMG THE HINT AT 2:09 NO WONDER SHE LOOKED SO HAPPY
Ps. Love you and your jewelry ashley❤️
I have one of these entropy-fighting days like every week to a week and a half and jeez it feels so nice to just go into a cleaning brain mode and slip into a flow state since there is a natural step order to organizing/cleaning and everything you do shows immediate and constant progress and I can feel my mental space getting tidier as my physical surroundings get tidier - it's definitely an important part of self-care for me.
You should think about WHY you’re making the videos. Quality over quantity. Your video on body image might not have got a lot of views, but I’m sure it hit way deeper with the people who did watch it. (I know this because it really hit me!) I almost never share videos, but the things you were saying was almost the exact feeling and conversation I had with my girlfriend a few weeks ago and I was able to share it with her to continue that conversation. Having those types of ‘deep’ chats makes our relationship stronger and I know your audience connects with you more during those type of videos - regardless of how ‘the numbers’ compare with everything else. Think about value in more ways that numbers. It doesn’t matter how many millions you get if you’re not making a significant and positive impact on the people who are watching. 💖
Ps. I’m 28 and still have no idea wtf I’m doing so, look forward to basically always feeling lost 😅🤣
I didn’t even know Starburst Sent PR packages out... wild
Your whole personality is just a big mood
ASHLEYY!! Girl I love your videos so much I haven’t been subbed for very long but I love your personality and perkiness, and just the energy that you let off is so sweet and so kind and so fun! Keep it up! And I agree, making something meaningful even if you have a tiny audience is so much more worth your time then making something super plain and popular for a billion views. ❤️
You should hand out the starbursts for Halloween! And take off ginger skin with a spoon!
That's a great idea!
using a spoon is the best!! we do that at the Japanese restaurant i work at too.
@@kayla6917 it's so much easier!
@@ForeverMelanie MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!!
Also, instead of chopping the ginger just grate it with a fine grater or zester.
PRO TIP: use a teaspoon to peel ginger !! Trust me it’s a game changer 😎
Like so Ashley sees this comment !!
Rupin Lamistoufle yes!! The back of the spoon trick is a lifesaver! Also you can use a fine cheese grater to mince too so you don’t have to use a knife ☺️
Omg thanks for this tip!!
@@missmatch9058 You're welcome !
your content keeps me really grounded and calm. I watch your videos when I'm relaxing or when I'm doing stuff around my house. I re-watch your videos a lot too. you're doing amazing 💖
I’m 21 now, and I feel a similar level of awkwardness and anxiety from the vibes in this video
It’s funny cuz I also have learned to “embrace” my loser self thru geeky jokes n mannerisms, but I often also experience the perfectionism n self-induced pressure parts of it
I’ve been subscribed to u for many yrs n seeing how you’ve grown n changed as a person has honestly helped give me that introspection into how I should probably enjoy the problems I’ve got going on now. They’re hard, but they’re definitely going to be necessary for what I’ve got coming next:)
Could you do a outfit ideas video for job interviews or jobs with strict rules; like only wearing black, white, grey and browns and dressing smart. Would love to see your ideas, maybe 50 outfits x
jenny mustard and also dearly bethany on youtube would be good inspo 💓
Lindsey rem and Eve Cornwell have also just uploaded videos like this and they both have great style! Might help xx
50 outfits? You're not looking for much sis lol
this is asking too much.... ashley doesn't even work an office job so she has hardly any clothes of this sort... check out some other youtubers mentioned in the thread
and no jeans ughhh