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TIMECODES
1:00 what's been going on with me? + rediscovering myself after a breakup
3:56 making friends after college
5:03 female friends
5:57 i'm moving to new york?
6:43 girl talk + advice sesh
7:10 "i like you but i don't want commitment"
9:24 how do you start a conversation about what you like during sex?
10:38 wanting a relationship for validation
12:09 queefing
14:06 can you be friends with your ex?
15:40 my man won't go down on me / oral sex double standard
17:33 nudes
19:28 age gaps
21:17 crushing on a friend's ex
22:15 liking a guy with a girlfriend
23:29 i love my boyfriend but sometimes i miss being single
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lonely but okay by jef ( / lonely-but-okay )
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what’s your name? ashley
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POV: you and your cool friend have a girl talk in bed during a sleepover. it is cozy. life is good
Yeet Ashley likes it
I want that
Tiktok
And it's really sleepy and brutally honest
just a quick reminder, just because you have a privileged life does not mean you have to justify yourself whenever you feel sad!! hope you’re doing well
Luliamama !!! thank you.
Thank you for saying this!
yes!! everyone feels sad! it doesn’t matter who you are or how much you have! sad is human! otherwise you’d be a game show host !
Thank u so much for this comment :(
exaclty. i don't think privileged people should excuse themselves for being priviliged. they should use that privilege for something good like helping others or just not make a bad use of it and also remember they are humans, your emotions can't be controlled by what you have or you don't in life
She’s like the best most realist friend at a sleepover
i like ur username, we dirty armies lmao
BTS is my bias too
caeley callista don’t expose meeee😂😂
@@elliehollobon-baxter2911 dont worry ur "secret's" safe with me (and all the other dirty armies) 😭😂
caeley callista WHATS DIRTY ABOUT IT??
say it with my friends: If they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you
I think this is naive to believe. Labelling someone once a cheater always a cheater has its flaws. We've all lied before but would label ourselves a liar for the rest of our lives. If you do believe they will cheat on you, it is likely to happen because you have put that energy into your life
@@phiwokuhlemtana9684 if someone is a cheater, they are going to cheat. It doesn't matter if it is after a month or after 5 years, it will happen sooner or later.
@@mavel2038 if that's what you believe it will probably happen then
there are never set rules with anything, everyone is different, use your own brain and asses your own unique situation accordingly
Yep but everyone thinks they are fuckin special for some reason.
Having an objectively "privileged" life doesn't disqualify you from feeling sad or unhappy - your feelings are valid regardless of your life circumstances
and mental illnesses affect everyone regardless of class, gender, race, etc. It's an illness, it's not selective
@@ThinkingInProgress Feeling sad and having a mental illlness isn't the same thing if you feel sad or angry over minor things you should try to fix that
@@jaf4912 I understand that. I'm just pointing out that mental illnesses shouldn't be downplayed because you're "privileged". I have various mental illnesses and have been told for years that "you're the happiest person I know", even after my 4th suicidal attempt. People don't see what's going on inside. Your feelings are valid even when others say otherwise. I just thought I was sad and "I'll get over it, this is just what being teenager feels like" but turns out I needed to be on medication and therapy for the last 5 years in order for me not to be suicidal.
People really should stop assuming others are "priviliged"
yes yes yes
“It was a good relationship, it just wasn’t the right relationship.” I think too many people let their pride get in the way of acknowledging this.
That makes no sense... That's some bullshit the person thats doing the breakup would say.
Anthony Hutchins get a life instead of actively trying to tear down women who use this as a safe space :)
richelle belarmino PREACH
I felt this on another level
Anthony Hutchins lmao sounds like someone never had a relationship before
*well that was the best TED talk I’ve ever heard*
This comment has 725 likes and no comments, glad to be the first ;)
same
I’m an 18 yr old guy, who has never been in a relationship, never had his first kiss and watching this... why.
You gotta go for it bro...
I mean you're still young and it's never too late do something for the first time. Also sometimes people just find random ass videos interesting lol
Anthony Hutchins on god
I'm 20 man! SAME
Why not? She's so cool, transparent, genuine. Maybe you'll meet someone with energy like her someday and feel immediately comfortable?
Petition for Ashley to start a podcast
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YES PLEASE
YES PLEASE that would make my life better
Oh my god yeeesss
That would be awesome! Pleaseee
Less demonitization for ashley!
as much as i love ashley's lookbooks and thrift hauls, when she does a sit down video and talks about real life problems it hits DIFFERENT
Yes
i know right.
Yesss
i'm watching all of your "girl talk" videos again during quarantine because i literally just need a person and your videos always seem like youre actually my friend lol. kinda sad but ily
me too girl 😔✌
Omg so true. She's the realest friend I have 😭❤
@@shaina4891 aww i feel for you girl!!!
@@laurendavis1595 me tooooo heheh ❤❤
I'm literally watching this rn and crying , but i feel so much better
"it feels odd to build friendships from scratch when you're an adult" damn I felt that!!!!
Facts... It's so strange
i love how openly ashley talks.., really makes me feel like she's the older sister i never had
+
I never had a sister and that’s all I’ve ever wanted :,)
Same! I only have brothers
Kara Mahoney same here!
I saw someone comment on a recent video that "youtubers are pressured to open up" or that they "normalize personal matters" as if ashley and other normal people weren't casually open about such things on or off camera..
I forgot the point of this comment but ye
she's the mother i never had. she's the sister everybody would want. she is the friend that everybody deserves. i don't know a better person
Maria Clara Oprah quote?
Maria Clara sis me either 😭
I love her, she is so perfect.
and she’s the boyfriend that- ok
Yeah, she is. Definitely.
i feel like i’m the only girl who grew up with a mom who openly talked about how she supports my sex life and how she believes sex isn’t something to be ashamed of, it’s something to be proud of and something that is completely normal and healthy
man you sound like a lucky girl :) everyone wishes they had that mom
same
I mean yeah but it's still a private thing for some people...
ok my mom definitely isn’t like that but my step mom is, sometimes she gets a little to personal but it happens to the best of us
Anthony Hutchins who hurt you
I used to watch Ashley’s videos when I was 19, and now I’m 23, and i really love and miss her videos, it’s like listening to a dear friend💗
Same I’m going back to her videos for nostalgia and it’s so strange seeing all the comments from four or three years ago
“They say the heart is like a muscle”
It....
.....
*It is*
Kylie Creates 😂😂😂😂😂
IT IIIIISSS
technically its a organ but its largely made up of muscle so i guess you're not wrong
Heart is literally the hardest working muscle it always keeps beating until it doesn't so...
@@marg532 another Jeno stan!
Who else wants a Pillow Talk Podcast right now???
Woozi’s Guitar YESSSS
Woozi’s Guitar yeeeeeees
Yesssss
j u l i a YES YES YES A MILLLLLLION TIMES YES 💙💙💙
🙋🏻♀️💛💛
am i a virgin yes have i never kissed anyone yes have i never had a bf yes am i watching this yes
ive literally never been in love and im watching lol
same ✌🏻
sis. same here
same
Samesies!
when you uploaded this, i didn't really watch it because i was still with my boyfriend. but now after breaking up our long term rs this is the first video i came to. thank you ashley for always being so open with us, i feel less alone thanks to you.
stay strong sis
same here i hope you’ve been better! 💕
same lol
Girl same omg. I'm so glad that we all gathered here.
you talk so fast without any mistakes while i become so nervous and make like 46 mistakes in a sentence
moon child. Editing magic?
I don’t remember which video it’s in but there was this one like “behind the scenes” yt vid for us where she shows us how she makes her videos etc and there was a really adorable segment where Ashley would fumble over her words or repeat like one sentence multiple times until she got the right “sound” for her I guess😂
She cuts them out haha
Army
moon child. oh shit same!!
"getting out of college without a group of friends" punched me in the stomach so hard.
Ken Ramos seriously though. what can people do about that if no one in your city is interested in making new friendships as an adult??
Edit: this is the most likes I've ever gotten on a post. kinda sad though hahaha
@@ThinkingInProgress well you guys both want friends so there's probably people like you in every city. Try joining a exercise or art class where you can meet people. Even invite coworkers out and stuff. If the loneliness prevails, get a dog. Dogs are hella loyal and great friends.
I feel you dude, I live In New York,, I haven't made one friend in the 3 years i've been in college. I see all these cliques and people having fun and i just watch on thinking to myself "hmm, must be nice"
Adulting is so hard :'c
@@ThinkingInProgressIt is helpful to join a student club. I found most of my friends there. I'm from Germany so I don't know if students clubs have the same vibe in the USA.
omg on the topic of being awkward in sex, one time i legit said "are you feeling it now Mr Krabs?" when my bf started moaning
XD omg thats great
Aisha Payne HBJGBFSDFBHSGSBGDBS LMAOAOOAAOOO
OH MY GOD
NOOOOOOOO
i’m using this thank u
This might seem like a weird thing to say but you’d be such a good therapist.
petition for ashley to make *Pillowtalk* a series and bless us with actual episodes of her just ranting and talking abt random stuffs and showering our ears with smart and emotional conversations!!
*PS. ASHLEY 21K PEOPLE ARE AGREEING WITH ME! LOL*
Lizzy Grant yes please!!!!!!
yes PLEASE
PODCAST! 🥰
yes !!! she should make a podcast !!!
Signed, sealed and delivered
The only person with a 25 minute video I'd listen to talk without skipping any of it
sherry berry i didnt even notice i finished the video wtf
clara sis same,,, she has the best content i love her
so true!
lol same
I'm korean and watching this video just made me realize how conservative korea is....
woow
@@user-jn4el8gf5j 그것은 놀라운 의미입니다
I am sorry i am not good at korean , i just used korean translator, very sorry if im disrespecting or anything :)
ㅋㅋ 저두여
@@rachel8127 꺄항 한국인이당
same in China but I think with the new generation (esp those who born after 90s), situation is getting better
I remember my first time with my boyfriend was kinda funny cuz the entire time we were asking each other how it feels not to be a virgin anymore
It’s kind of an inside joke now haha
Ollie M I aspire to be like you haha
Your name reminds me of Ollie MN (a.k.a the best artist ever)
@@pedroborges5323 dude I freaking love his music so much
“Exes are like time capsules in your life. In that they knew you intensely at a particular phase of your life. So talking to them is like being able to reconnect with the past version of yourself almost.”
I literally paused the video and “wow” to myself at this incredible speech I just heard. And then rewinded it to listen to it again.
Fr I've never thought about any person in my past like that before
I did the same thing such a metaphoric yet real meaning *____*
when i heard that it clicked in my head that ashley is my favorite youtuber ever she's so wise and not even that word does her justice
Ashley gives us proverbs for modern life lol
yes.
Are boys more mature in college?
Me: softly shakes head no
Ikr! Why are they like this 🤦🏽♀️😂
Kat P WHAT! Ive been holding back and waiting till university because high school boys act like theyre 10!
They are not more mature in postgrad either 😂
They’re never mature no matter what age
I can agree I'm immature as fuck
this format is so oldschool: the light and talking position and topics. I feel like Im back in 2010 youtube.
le thnx
man i miss her((( i kinda grew up with her video through my teen years and i can't be more thankful that her channel was there for me
me too :(( i started watching her when i was 15 and now i’m almost 18 :,)
Sameeeee 😩😩😩😩
@@mirandachen8189 same😢
Therapy: expensive
Ashley uploading a video: free
1k like 😄
👏🏻YES👏🏻
Hotel:Trivago
i'm older than Ashley, but honestly, she's just given me big sister advice i never knew i needed
same
Same
Sanne Tukker mood
Same ☝🏻
Fucking same
it doesn’t matter you’re “privileged” you’re allowed to be sad for any reason, we’re always here rooting for you
i saw this on another comment section but.. fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely :)
the mood of her room and the idea of this whole video plus the topics screams all of the songs of *The 1975*
Especially iliwys
@@swalllowtail YAS
yesss soo true omg
Omg yes iliwysss
Lol not people tho
Please make "PILLOW TALK" a series!
Yes please!! I need this so much. I honestly feel like I can watch her videos when I'm sad and everything will be ok. Cause I relate to her thoughts so much. Am I the only one who thinks this?
Omg yess!!!!!
Yes please!!! We all need some advice!!!
999 im gonna make it 1000
Tshuchurutchutchut tshuchurutrutrutut
when she talked about not having a close group of friends or girlfriends, i felt that
no one:
ashley:
ashley’s feet: 👁 👄 👁 hey
I just noticed 😂
Everybody gangsta till Ashley has real talk 🥺
Ellohmia she makes me feel things ahh
except we all still gangsta
Thank you for telling people about the under 18 nudes thing. No one ever warns young girls
um i wouldn’t ever send nudes. ew. people can still leak them when your over 18 🤔
Omg yes it’s so important. I was at this “party” (just an after school girl hangout thing at the end of the year) and a girl added random boys and asked for nudes. The boy sent them but she didn’t. It was disgusting.
Vielche personally, I agree with you, I would never take any either. I think this comment was just referring to underage people taking them because that’s illegal, especially if people distribute them.
it's also illegal especially for minors-
I sometimes wish I had a yt channel just so I could talk about things that are deeply personal and reveal things that I don’t have the chance to to my friends because I don’t want to sound dramatic and whiny or it just doesn’t come up. Kind of like a personal journal that is being taped. Damn... I should actually do that. Without posting them, tho.
Do it girl!! If it makes you happy, do it. I'll watch. :D
Abdullah Tariq That’s sweet but I don’t think I could handle any audience at all. It’s terrifying and I have other plans for my future that I would prefer focusing on, but thank you still. :))
Girl you're a big fat mood
Try podcasting :)
Blog?
I don't think she is reading those comments anymore. I just wanted to thank the old Ashley for this and all her other videos. They were and still are my comfort place, and I feel at home listening to them. Without them, I probably would have had a really hard time growing up. I just wish her all the best in life and am inspired by how much she improved so many lives just with this TH-cam channel. All my gratitude and love, thank you.
1. The light and ambiance in this video is everything.
2. We don't deserve such a wise and authentic queen.
3. I am proud to say I'm 23 years old and look up to you.
Sabrina Silva same gurl! 25 🙋🏽♀️
23 and still learning how to adult here 😄
I'm 65 and look up to her. I wish I had someone this wise when I was growing up. It would have made my life so much easier.
25 and I wanna be like ashley when I grow up 😂
25 here and I could not agree more !
“Hey guys you’re listening to Pillow Talk ft. too many feelings” pls make a podcast.
Yes
Ooh I would loveee that, But She already works sooo much And I dont want here to get a burn-out
Listening to her talk before bed has been my quarantine routine
the ex time capsule thing just solved my recent feelings about an ex having a girlfriend
thank you
here are some timecodes for my lovely busy ladies who don't have 25 minutes to kill (or anyone who wants to skip around)!
1:00 what's been going on with me? + rediscovering myself after a breakup
3:56 making friends after college
5:03 female friends
5:57 i'm moving to new york?
6:43 girl talk + advice sesh
7:10 "i like you but i don't want commitment"
9:24 how do you start a conversation about what you like during sex?
10:38 wanting a relationship for validation
12:09 queefing
14:06 can you be friends with your ex?
15:40 my man won't go down on me / oral sex double standard
17:33 nudes
19:28 age gaps
21:17 crushing on a friend's ex
22:15 liking a guy with a girlfriend
23:29 i love my boyfriend but sometimes i miss being single
love you ashley, thank you for being so genuine with us.
bestdressed we love ashley helping us out. what a queen
I literally didn't even realise that it was too long. You are a sister that i never had but always wanted. Thanks sissy😘😘
I hope you are alright.
💕💕
bestdressed you didn’t have to but you even think about our experience interacting with your video!! ❤️❤️
Me: enjoying this content
Me: also realising why her parents don't know about her youtube channel 😂
that painting metaphor is so relatable, it’s crazy when you realize There’s so much you don’t realize like wow there’s a world around me, high school shit having no obligations not no more
As a trans woman who started transition at 25ish, I sorta missed out on sleepovers as a child, so I really, really appreciate this video.
bloke in a dress
this is sweet. hope you know you can still have sleepovers at 25
@@stimpyfeelinit are we playing i spy and are you in a circus mirror room or something
dont let age get in the way of fun!!! you can still have sleepovers :))) make up for it now that you can😤
as a trans woman as well i would love to have a sleepover with you
why am I watching this? I'm a virgin who's never had a boyfriend.
R. P. Neh same 😭
just preparin i guess XD
Yahh
Sheeeet. Same 😅
Samee girlsss
It's like chatting with your girl friend but she does all the talking 😂
it’s so weird that i unconsciously nod while listening to her bc i absorb the information she’s telling me so much i thought she’s talking to me lmaoooo. she’s such a great speaker!!
p.s i wanna be her friend and it’s weird lmaoooo
can we all just agree that ashley is going to be the best mom like....
ever?
u have such fun older-sis-that-i-never-had vibes and i’m so here for it
Exactly!! I love these videos so much
ELLE same!
carat???
this makes me want to have an older sister :(
We all are 😔🤘
Girl.... I'm in my thirties and have been with my husband for 10 years and for you being 21, you are blowing my mind on how knowledgeable you are on these types of subjects! I'm so glad that these younger girls/boys have you to look up to.
im in my 30s, single and i had the same thoughts about her!!!
I love the time capsule metaphor! Every person we encountered knows a certain version of ourselves better than we do.
I watch this video every couple of months bc it’s literally like therapy for me
yall ever jus be sad that u and ashley will never be friends... yea me too
Yes! But since a lot of ppl feel the same way in this comment section, this means you have a higher probability of befriending a like-minded person on here or out there! Hope you find your IRL Ashley!
Nicole A that’s so sweet
@@elvi1796 it is indeed! 😊
Seeking my IRL Ashley FR
I had to read this sentence like 4 times.
Ashley: "the heart is like a muscle"
Ooh, I've got news for you, sis....
hahah
😂
😂
Javier Pan the heart IS a muscle
Javier Pan it’s because the heart is actually a muscle but she said it was “like” one.
when i was in an relationship i called it my "love story" and when it ends i call it a "chapter"
I bet she was the funniest and the most incredible girl in that sleepover night
Nah she was probably the awkward one , Ashley's a lil anxious in "social settings" lol
Would actually LOVE it if Ashley made a podcast! I really enjoy listening to her thoughts and opinions
Same!
yesss i love her voice its so calming
Fenris that's a great idea! Then she could not get demonetized for talking about relevant and awesome things
Yes!
fuck yes oh my god Please.
I would never understand why you don’t have a lot of friends tbh, with your attitude I think everyone would wanna hang out with you 😅
This is just my opinion, but sometimes (and most of the time) keeping many relationship as friends puts stress on you. You'd have to maintain conversations with them, your care, your memories with them...What if there's this long-time-no-see friend coming at you from a corner of the street, shake your hand and starts asking questions? You start getting confused when you don't recognize the person, and you have to search that mental library of memories again, within a matter of seconds, in order to not let the other person down for simply forgetting. It's draining. On top of that, doesn't mean you express yourself on the Internet openly means you can be so open in real life. It's a matter of priority and assessing self-worth as a person, because attitude just can't cover all of a person's personality, as well as their inner self. Many would approach you, want to make friends with you, but it's human's nature to love being remembered, one little disheartening moment of forget would crack something up inside.
This is my personal perspective as a high-functioning individual with Borderline Personality Disorder, I know it won't apply to you all but I hope I did this answer justice.
Yasumi Todaka ummmmm lmao
@@yasumitodaka1013 wowww
She said she didnt put in any effort to make friends and that's a huge deal. What you put into your friendships is what you get out tbh.
She said in previous videos that she is introverted and that she really enjoys spending time alone
i love to revisit her videos every year, or two years. when i live life and every year i take something diferent
i just got broken up with by my ex of almost 7 years and this video is so comforting. im going through a self discovery journey right now and its such a freeing thing, while still grieving at the same time. im hanging out with my friends more, being with myself more, etc. i know youre not really on youtube anymore but thank you so much for these videos ashley ❤️
"Exes are like time capsules in your life" WOAH I've never seen it that way
Fml i have been looking at it like that for a while now and that makes it soo much better
she'll probably never gonna tell her parents about the channel at this point lmao
They don't know? 😨
MayaKy yeah she mentioned a few times in previous videos that she has not told her parents yet. 😂
@all the replies: her parents know she edits/used to edit for the sorry girls for youtube and probably thinks she’s still doing that idk
@@viannccaa can people stop with the clown thing it's unnecessary and annoying, it's not cute and it's rude. this person wasn't saying anything mean to you, but you just go out of your way to call them names. and I also see both of your points, and they don't have a weird thinking process.
@@viannccaa i never wrote a paragraph? I just said that it was annoying and rude, and I see both points. I literally wrote 4 short sentences explaining that. I'm just trying to say that the whole "clown" thing isn't cute
Hi I’m 22, female, sitting in Copenhagen watching the sunset with a j alone and watching this 🙏🏼 best company thank girl! Watching all your vids but had apparently saved this for a moment like this 💖
4:25 One thing that I think a lot of people don't understand is that just because someone is "privileged" or seems like they should have the perfect-life, that is never the case. Everyone goes through shit, everyone has sad times, everyone suffers a little. Everyone.
No lie but I'd be down to invest in a bestdressed podcast.
Deerchan Llama PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST
YES
so keen!! with different guest stars and they can discuss really deep stuff like feminism, mental health and bojack horseman themes hahaha
SAMMEEEEE
That’s the best idea I’ve ever heard hands down
Use this button as a petition for Ashley to start a podcast!
(edit: holy jeez, thanks for the likes.)
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Hayley YES
Hayley this is such a good idea !!! Ashley please
been dying for one for AGES
PLEASSSSSSEEEEEE
i’d literally pay for a podcast fjsjsk
"it was a good relationship, it just wasn't the right relationship" oop-
Coming from having nudes leaked, and still dealing with the repercussions years later, I really like your sentiment on that part. And also would highly recommend to just NOT take them at all lmao
The lightning in this video screams EUPHORIA
Alisha Khan i was thinking the same thing haha
In a good ass way thought, this vibe is a whole blessing
Alisha Khan lighting*
@@hudalx5590 my bad haha literally typed this while making a cake
ashley is the only youtuber who shares real genuine thoughts and feelings and i hope she knows it is sooooo appreciated
go watch Melanie Murphy gurl
Like for real!
Idky but this is such a comfort video for me for some reason. Ashely talking just gives me so much comfort. I’m the oldest and only daughter so it kinda feels like she’s my big sister🥺
Ashley is just so good at thinking through things objectively and emotionally and learning from experiences! I strive to be this level, I love giving advice to people who struggled with similar struggles!
Unrelated but Ashley confirmed she's releasing an affordable jewelry line and I am already saving, can't wait!
OMGGG I CANT WAIT
the lighting and color pallete in this video are absolutely amazing
I'm the 1000th like 😎
i rly wanna die
Same omfg im living for it
@@time3553 why do you want to die? Please live :( please
@@isthatachicken that's the username of the original post
Yeah it feels like we’re in a sleepover with her
the light on this vid. I can't even. So beautiful
Ashley should really make like a podcast. I just really love to listen to her voice. She's so relatable, even if you have like a total different life ;)
Dear TH-cam,
Please, please, please don't demonetise videos like this. We love+need it.
Signed,
The best* fans
(*idk what our fandom name is)
Edit: omgosh tysm everyone for liking and commenting! This is super! (it's my first time getting so many likes, thankyouthankyou) ❤️✨
OUR NAME SHOULD BE ASHFANS!!!!!
dressed fans? 😂
Ashleynators? 😂
isn't it "bestdressedfam"?
Bestblessed!
“objectively too many feelings for my brain to handle”
okay but why is this me 24/7
mcdreamy’s babe ME TOOOOO
every now and then I return to this video and just cry. ashley I miss you so much😭
"being a woman is so fucking complicated."
truer words have never been spoken.
can i drop out of school and have ashley teach me about life instead
alison lee can I join you too?
Umm I fucking need that
Mama simplynailogical says stay in school
Yeah same that would be way more useful
@@steffka586 Aye you watch her too? 😁
can you please make a podcast?? I'd totally listen to you ramble for 25 minutes any day :))
I will third it!
I’ll fourth it!!
Then ill fifht it
I will 6th it
I will 443872487th it. pls ashley do it. i would pay for it.
even though i'm broke
Still coming back to this in 2024, i love and relate to this so much, thank you for being real.
wowowow the way you explained a relationship like art and you lose track of time and so much has changed and ur social life is different how i feel right now and none of my friends have been in a ltr and no one understands how i am feeling currently, it calms me to know there are people who feel the same x
Ashley: we’re taught to feel a lot of shame about sex
Me after violently reducing the volume because I read the question quick and don’t want people in the house to think that I’m watching a video about sex: *shocked pikachu meme *
Same
Same
Honestly there wasn’t even anyone home I just did it reflexively
I did the exact same thing too!!
The title includes 'blowjobs' 😂😂
Can we please make this a series? Love this.
PLEASE
yes!!!
YES
Yes!!!
I agree! This is really fun to watch and Ashley really enjoys making this. It seems more like a real you.
I miss her talks :( I’m rewatching her videos rn at 12am and I’m so sad that she hasn’t made videos like these
can you talk abt like social anxieties, being awkeard and just having low self-confidence. 😷
omg ashley plsss
Plz I need it
Watch Yes theory 💛
Yes
omg hoshiiii
The setting is so calming tho and the pink/purple light omg I feel so comfortable
karolina król shes took cinematography and it shows
Thank you so much for these kind of videos! As a trans woman I miss having girlfriends to talk with about stuff like this, so you really fill a need 🙂
"the heart is like a muscle..." Ashley...the heart IS a muscle 😂 love you though dork lol ❤️
Liv McDaniel Maybe a better phrasing would've been "like any other muscle on our body"
I really hope this video doesn’t get a huge amount of weird comments because I want this to become a series