How to Use Reverse Psychology w/ a Man NOTES: 1) Don't put a man on a pedestal. Say he is in love w/ me. He's attracted to me. 2) The explanation system: Ex. I would like to do that w/ you because I like your energy. I would like to do karaoke w/ you because I know you can't sing. The trick is to challenge him. Men like challenge.
Christine Carlos Question - if men like a challenge why do most sleep with easy women? They seem to like the women who are open to sex right away. It doesn’t seem they want to work at all.
@@misshouda1740 men DON'T like easy women. well if it's for a one-night stand yeah sure, but for a long-term relationship hell no, men like what they have to work for because they/we appreciate and cherish it more.
I’m doing this now 😀 When I think of him I turn it around to me, why am I chasing when I’m the catch.... I doubt I will ever see him again but instead of thinking of him I think about ME now.
I do say that with guys “ I would LOVE to go with you” but They STILL don’t want a relationship with me. I’ve done everything. I came to the conclusion that men just WANT to be single.
HI ALEX.IM KARRON AND IM NOT FRENCH! LOVE YOUR ADVICE AND ACCENT. YOU SOUND ALOT LIKE MY OVER PROTECTIVE BROTHER!I HAVE COME TO REALIZE THE RIGHT GUY EXISTS SOMEWHERE BUT IN THE MEANTIME IM TAKEING MY SINGLENESS TO GET TO KNOW MY AUTHENTIC SELF.BUT LOVE TO HEAR ABOUT A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE LOVE YOU MUCH KEEP IT UP
So true. I doubt this man I communicate now will "turn back" (damage is already done) but for future situations it will be a great guide. I started to use some advices at my work (because I was to available and they took me for granted) So, it is aplicable for more life areas. Thank you 🤗
Girl, you might have a narcissistic, one on your hands.But they do that so that you feel like your relationship isn't safe and you're having to compete with these other women. It's a way to lower your confidence to suit him. Run
This is nice, great tactics, but psychological tricks can help get someone on board for sometime but never to sustain them in long run, best thing is to work on oneself that magnetises the right kind of person.
Hello Alex I've been viewing your advise for some time and been able to apply your advise and seem to work thank you for sharing, by the way I love your. French accent !!!❤️
I put all my eggs in the basket right off the bat 😔, I care way to much. It also feels I attract men that are broken 😔in one way or another. Like I fix them in what they needed the love and attention on and they leave me 😔
Hi Your technique will only work when we are talking to that specific person but if that person is not even talking to us and did not want to talk even then
Thank you so much for what you do. and your guidance this journey of love is a tough one but you help with bringing love into Union and avoiding all of the hurt and heartache once again thank you for that many blessings to you👼💑
Awesome tips! I'm already using some but will definitely apply more, especially the humor side of challenging him to an activity.. I think that would be fun! Hahaha 😂 Thank you Alex! :)
Hello Alex, I am new to the whole dating site thingy and I came across this one and let me just say, woww! Love your advice, accent is Adorable too! Okay so, my issue currently is that I can attract a guy, and I am talking to someone now, but it's super new and I Never know what to do, say and I over do everything because I get scared and nervous whenever I know that they (he) likes me back. What's the best way to handle this? Thank you for your time and I look forward to your reply... If you have time to.
My x became distant, faded me out over weeks. I left I did no contact. 2 weeks. He text he wanted to talk meet up etc... He arranged day etc I couldn’t I had a doo that day. He sent the I need, want, make love to you messages. I told him what you say and what you do are two different things.... He began to flirt... I messed up I replied you make me laugh, I’m smiling. He went on ‘ I like your smile, I’m smiling too’ Then he apologised for those messages 😳 Now I’m gutted....🙁
@@myrahouse2368 if he is a narcissist he can mess up with you longer than a month, even years. Just be careful, if this guy is so inconsistent I would try to move on, cause if you just become a game to him, he might keep trying harder and when you open up to him again he will drift apart again.
I like about u Alex (against others chouchs that give advices) that u tell everything on simple way and streight to heart that goes ❤️ and u seems like a man that cares as u mantion here in uor video : that u do it cause u want others (womans) to be happy. And thx u that u egzist in this World. And u help me with uor advices to understand better whats healthy between man and woman in relationship and whats toxic and play what noone really like to be in. Thx u once again to open my eyes and to really hear what u are saying about this theme. Just do what u doing cause u help a lot. ❤️Greatings from Croatia ❤️
Hi beautiful Alex ... Before I request I'd like to comment that I've watched so many of your clips here on TH-cam and I respect your advice . Would it be relevant to touch on advice about sociopaths as sometimes others words can be cheap . Always watch their actions and patterns. Thank you :)
I did some research and I hope this can help everyone else. Unfortunately, these "tactics" don't last long term. In fact, this fosters toxic relationships. What does work is staying in our feminine energy.
The accent is everything :D my favorite vlog on youtube! Thank you for sharing this with women. Can u do a vlog about exciting activities that ladies can do with guys that will be good for the relationship? I get that men don't like shopping and just a diner gets boring and feels like a routine after a while. We visited almost all museums. I need to get the spark back :) Thank you. Eva from Belgium
What to do when my husband blames me for everything that goes wrong in our marriage? He says hurtful things, and I want to act like I don’t care, but I can’t 😭
I wonder if reverse psychology would work on my boss. One time, my new coworker showed me the coffee she accidentally made watery. She apologized and I _almost_ said "I'm fine with it, but [our boss] doesn't approve of honest mistakes." She came in when I merely said, "It's cool." Whoo! I got lucky. Imagine if she heard my near-slip. Of course, I think I'm right about her not approving of honest mistakes. My boss once questioned me for putting black linens on the tables for the wedding reception instead of white, the correct/usual color (but in my defense, we *usually* put on black linens for *any* event, and I don't even generally set the reception linens). Oh, and she was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. I'll admit, I am much better with a helping hand and guide, but come on, that's no excuse for being insensitive. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up for a one-person shift. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. I regretfully didn't stand up for myself because I was too intimidated. Where am I going with this? Suppose I had replied to my coworker, "It's cool, [our boss] is very patient and understanding" when she walked in. I wonder if that would've made her think, "Wow, John really thinks I'm those two things? I've never acted understanding when he made mistakes or got things mixed or jumbled up. I've always expressed my condemnation and given him a piece of my mind."
My boyfriend lost his job and decided to go to India for three months (he's Indian ) he's coming back to the USA in three months but said he doesn't know if he's coming back to Boston he lived in California for twenty years he had only been in Boston ten months when he lost his job so he may wind up living anywhere in USA he said he'll move to whatever state he finds a job in so should I just give up
Do not wait around for him to decide what he wants. He isn't the only one in the relationship. You matter also, he is thinking about what he wants to do he isn't taking into consideration what you want. So live your life and do not inconvenience yourself for him because he isn't basing his decision off of you.
sarah jenkins give him a silent treatment. Live your life and ignore him for a while, he will fear losing you. Things will work in your favour for sure. Good luck
I went into no contact for four days and he messaged me three times in one day saying he's coming back in a month instead of three and has four interviews scheduled in Boston and wants to see me when he's back so I guess it's a good sign
Alex, je devais regarder cette vidéo avec un sourire et je cherchais cette vidéo spéciale. je vais bientôt rencontrer mon ex et j'espère pouvoir le lui dire car il a effectivement une bonne énergie .. mercy!! Beaucoup ❤❤❤🍷
I'm new in your chanel. Your advise and information its great:) Please make video how to be cold with boyfriend and how to text him in cold way. Make video what happened with men's brain when he take her for granted.
Hy Alex please could you help me with some tips. How can I make a guy express his feelings? And why do is some men don't express their feelings for a lady. ? When a man tells you he is jealous of you sometimes but has never admitted he has feelings for you. Am confused alex
How to Use Reverse Psychology w/ a Man
NOTES:
1) Don't put a man on a pedestal.
Say he is in love w/ me. He's attracted to me.
2) The explanation system:
Ex. I would like to do that w/ you because I like your energy. I would like to do karaoke w/ you because I know you can't sing.
The trick is to challenge him. Men like challenge.
Thank you for your comment!
Christine Carlos Question - if men like a challenge why do most sleep with easy women? They seem to like the women who are open to sex right away. It doesn’t seem they want to work at all.
@@LG-bx3wl men like easy women but they fall in love with féminine unavailable women
@@misshouda1740 men DON'T like easy women. well if it's for a one-night stand yeah sure, but for a long-term relationship hell no, men like what they have to work for because they/we appreciate and cherish it more.
@@majestycrush there's a difference between like and falling in love .friend
I’m doing this now 😀
When I think of him I turn it around to me, why am I chasing when I’m the catch....
I doubt I will ever see him again but instead of thinking of him I think about ME now.
Myra House Im trying to do the same but he’s asking about me through his daughter.
Same here honey...
Same!!!!
Yepppp!!!
I always come to ur you tube channel to get positivity and confidence.....thank you
This helps give me more self love. I have always put men I chase on a pedestal. And then they cast me aside. Thanks it helped me ❤
This video helped me get my current boyfriend. Thank you!
I want to b in d relationship where there r no such mind games...exhausted..😐
It's not game. These are altering our mindset.
I do say that with guys “ I would LOVE to go with you” but They STILL don’t want a relationship with me. I’ve done everything. I came to the conclusion that men just WANT to be single.
its how you apply yourself-never let them know you are interested. if they asked you out tell them you are busy. You can give them a rain check.
How can I use reverse psychology on you?
😂damn
😂😂😂
Lol
Swish! 🏀🏀🏀
😲🤣
I love this video about using reverse Psychology with a man, great tips thank's
This guy is so hot. 💗
Accent helps in that too.
😁
He's evil, he wants your money.
@@thygreek8076 Omg! Lmao 🤣😂 nooo I think he is hot too 😍 but that comment really made me laugh out loud haha!
The entire package is fantastic!
HI ALEX.IM KARRON AND IM NOT FRENCH! LOVE YOUR ADVICE AND ACCENT. YOU SOUND ALOT LIKE MY OVER PROTECTIVE BROTHER!I HAVE COME TO REALIZE THE RIGHT GUY EXISTS SOMEWHERE BUT IN THE MEANTIME IM TAKEING MY SINGLENESS TO GET TO KNOW MY AUTHENTIC SELF.BUT LOVE TO HEAR ABOUT A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE LOVE YOU MUCH KEEP IT UP
So true. I doubt this man I communicate now will "turn back" (damage is already done) but for future situations it will be a great guide. I started to use some advices at my work (because I was to available and they took me for granted) So, it is aplicable for more life areas. Thank you 🤗
You are so welcome
REWATCHING and taking notes👀✍... Why does he feel the need to continuously tell me how confident he and how attractive other women find him?
Girl, you might have a narcissistic, one on your hands.But they do that so that you feel like your relationship isn't safe and you're having to compete with these other women. It's a way to lower your confidence to suit him. Run
This is nice, great tactics, but psychological tricks can help get someone on board for sometime but never to sustain them in long run, best thing is to work on oneself that magnetises the right kind of person.
Alex How your girl is gonna make you hers if you understand the whole game.. 😂
you on board
If a guy is attracted to a girl, he will still play it, because they have a same goal :D
😂😂😂😂😂 I was having the same question
Then Alex will said.
Hey you r player.. that's good.
But I am the coach.😂😂😂
Alex is already married.
Alex you are Amazing ..this is a art of living you give us women.thank you♥️
You are so welcome!
Hello Alex I've been viewing your advise for some time and been able to apply your advise and seem to work thank you for sharing, by the way I love your. French accent !!!❤️
OMG! Alex, you’re a smart person! And, you will help me to win this guy. 💪🏻
You are so nice and generous Alex! Thank you soooo much 👍🏼
My pleasure!!
A guy I’ve been friends with is hot and cold after he told me he likes me. This is great advice! ❤️
So glad you found this helpful.
I’ve watched almost all your videos, they are amazing!
Really great tips... Best amongst youtubers who give advices
Thank you for all these awesome videos
Hi Alex ...
You are so nice .. and explain very well..
I like your talking style .
I am from INDIA ...!
NAMASTE 🙏 Alex ....
I hit the Like button without seeing ur full vdo....ur the bst
Hi I'm a new fan here :)
Alex I love him so much but I think he's taking me for granted
😂
I think this is your best video! Thank you💕
This guy you are soooo on point. A big tomb up for you.
Thank you for being here.
I put all my eggs in the basket right off the bat 😔, I care way to much. It also feels I attract men that are broken 😔in one way or another. Like I fix them in what they needed the love and attention on and they leave me 😔
Lilian Martinez I found that when I was broken myself I attracted the same energy, work on loving yourself first it will change the dynamic 🙏
You are amazing. I love the way you speak. I am very new to you channel but you are best.
Thank you for being here!
Grateful to you sir I regard u as a guardian thankx
Thanks and welcome
I m in love with French accent...😍
It’s got as hell but tell him he has to improve it so you get his attention 😂😂😂
Alex, I would love to spend time with you because, I love your energy. Lol😅 How did I do? ❤
Alex is married.
Hi Alex and Im from Spore and i hv been following you lately...awesome...
Thank you for your support!
Thankyou..so much.
U tell things so nicely..its very easy to understand..
So nice of you
Thank you alex I like your energy the way u talk and full of confidence
Thank you for your support!
Hi
Your technique will only work when we are talking to that specific person but if that person is not even talking to us and did not want to talk even then
ALEX CORMONT AND COACH ANDRES FOREVER!!!🥰😍🌹🌹🌹
I wanna use his technique on him 😍
Thank you so much for what you do. and your guidance this journey of love is a tough one but you help with bringing love into Union and avoiding all of the hurt and heartache once again thank you for that many blessings to you👼💑
Thanks alot Alex.
God bless you 🙏🙏🗣
Awesome tips! I'm already using some but will definitely apply more, especially the humor side of challenging him to an activity.. I think that would be fun! Hahaha 😂
Thank you Alex! :)
So glad this video was helpful!
Excellent, bravo! Thank you for sharing 😊
Thank you! Cheers!
hi thank you alex for always sharing the advice from phillipines i like your advice so much mariah
Thank you for being here.
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert me too! I’m from Philippines and I’ve learned a lot from your channel. I’m a subscriber too. 🥰
Thank you for this video.. i learn a lot ...😄
Glad to hear that.
I have made that mistake and it has really bring me down
You are so different and encourage
That is great sir Alex ...what a challenge for him..
I like it and worth it for me..thanks so much for the intelligent advice. More power
Thank You Alex for sharing your Video
My pleasure!
Hello Alex, I am new to the whole dating site thingy and I came across this one and let me just say, woww! Love your advice, accent is Adorable too! Okay so, my issue currently is that I can attract a guy, and I am talking to someone now, but it's super new and I Never know what to do, say and I over do everything because I get scared and nervous whenever I know that they (he) likes me back. What's the best way to handle this? Thank you for your time and I look forward to your reply... If you have time to.
Just be yourself and in the conversation ask him questions so you can get to know him better.
Your tips are helpful and practical. Thanks dear!😊😊😍👍👍
This really helps Alex I really appreciate you and all you do I'm going to work on this with a doctor friend of mine
Thank you, You are also appreciated.
My x became distant, faded me out over weeks.
I left I did no contact. 2 weeks.
He text he wanted to talk meet up etc...
He arranged day etc
I couldn’t I had a doo that day.
He sent the I need, want, make love to you messages.
I told him what you say and what you do are two different things....
He began to flirt...
I messed up I replied you make me laugh, I’m smiling.
He went on ‘ I like your smile, I’m smiling too’
Then he apologised for those messages 😳
Now I’m gutted....🙁
Narcissist. Let him go
Lol a month on he’s still messing with me.
@@myrahouse2368 if he is a narcissist he can mess up with you longer than a month, even years. Just be careful, if this guy is so inconsistent I would try to move on, cause if you just become a game to him, he might keep trying harder and when you open up to him again he will drift apart again.
I Like watching your videos to excelerate self-confidence. Thank you for that.
You are so welcome!
I like about u Alex (against others chouchs that give advices) that u tell everything on simple way and streight to heart that goes ❤️ and u seems like a man that cares as u mantion here in uor video : that u do it cause u want others (womans) to be happy. And thx u that u egzist in this World. And u help me with uor advices to understand better whats healthy between man and woman in relationship and whats toxic and play what noone really like to be in. Thx u once again to open my eyes and to really hear what u are saying about this theme. Just do what u doing cause u help a lot. ❤️Greatings from Croatia ❤️
Thank you for your support.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert u welcome, happy to finde u on TH-cam ❤️😊 Have a nice day Alex.
Watching your videos makes me happy💕
I'm so glad!
love your sweet point of explain the issues 💖
Thanks so much!
I definitely could use your help Alex.
Here is my email address; frenchrelationshipexpert@gmail.com
Please sir do a video about guy's who is battling with mental damage and its signs please sir
I love it!! Law of attraction!
:)
you are great alex thank you for your videos
I appreciate that!
Hi beautiful Alex ...
Before I request I'd like to comment that I've watched so many of your clips here on TH-cam and I respect your advice .
Would it be relevant to touch on advice about sociopaths as sometimes others words can be cheap . Always watch their actions and patterns.
Thank you :)
Thank you for your support!
Excellent!
Can a long lasting marriage be sustained on these manipulations? At what point can the woman can relax ... or do you have to do hot and cold forever?
Follow your intuition!
That is only the initial phase to catch his attention and drive up his excitement.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert that didn't answer the question. Can you elaborate?
@@namaste348 actually it makes sense. Trust your intuition.
I did some research and I hope this can help everyone else. Unfortunately, these "tactics" don't last long term. In fact, this fosters toxic relationships. What does work is staying in our feminine energy.
The accent is everything :D my favorite vlog on youtube! Thank you for sharing this with women.
Can u do a vlog about exciting activities that ladies can do with guys that will be good for the relationship? I get that men don't like shopping and just a diner gets boring and feels like a routine after a while. We visited almost all museums. I need to get the spark back :)
Thank you.
Eva from Belgium
Thank you for your suggestion, I will consider doing a video on this topic.
You are charming! Greetings from Bruxelles
Thank you for being here! :)
I really love watching and hear your advices you are so positve 😊
Thank you so much!
What to do when my husband blames me for everything that goes wrong in our marriage? He says hurtful things, and I want to act like I don’t care, but I can’t 😭
Its efective...thank u.
Good tips, thanks but in our country it's not so easy for women to express such feelings
Thank you for being here!
Thank you Alex 😊you are awsot
It's my pleasure!
You are edible. Ur English is cute and ur accent is to die for ❤️
You look so much like my first love😂👌
I only watch yr videos just to hear your voice
Merci 💕I’m new subscriber, Thanks for the tips
You look gorgeous here in this video " .😎/ why do guys make plans and ghost you? He does it all the time.Makes plans to the T""and then dissapear""
You deserve someone that is available to you.
Nice, again so right! Thank you
You are so welcome!
You good Alex
Thank you!
Thank you, much needed advice! X
You are so welcome!
I wonder if reverse psychology would work on my boss. One time, my new coworker showed me the coffee she accidentally made watery. She apologized and I _almost_ said "I'm fine with it, but [our boss] doesn't approve of honest mistakes." She came in when I merely said, "It's cool." Whoo! I got lucky. Imagine if she heard my near-slip. Of course, I think I'm right about her not approving of honest mistakes. My boss once questioned me for putting black linens on the tables for the wedding reception instead of white, the correct/usual color (but in my defense, we *usually* put on black linens for *any* event, and I don't even generally set the reception linens). Oh, and she was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. I'll admit, I am much better with a helping hand and guide, but come on, that's no excuse for being insensitive. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up for a one-person shift. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. I regretfully didn't stand up for myself because I was too intimidated.
Where am I going with this? Suppose I had replied to my coworker, "It's cool, [our boss] is very patient and understanding" when she walked in. I wonder if that would've made her think, "Wow, John really thinks I'm those two things? I've never acted understanding when he made mistakes or got things mixed or jumbled up. I've always expressed my condemnation and given him a piece of my mind."
My boyfriend lost his job and decided to go to India for three months (he's Indian ) he's coming back to the USA in three months but said he doesn't know if he's coming back to Boston he lived in California for twenty years he had only been in Boston ten months when he lost his job so he may wind up living anywhere in USA he said he'll move to whatever state he finds a job in so should I just give up
Do not wait around for him to decide what he wants. He isn't the only one in the relationship. You matter also, he is thinking about what he wants to do he isn't taking into consideration what you want. So live your life and do not inconvenience yourself for him because he isn't basing his decision off of you.
You do what is right for you!
sarah jenkins give him a silent treatment. Live your life and ignore him for a while, he will fear losing you. Things will work in your favour for sure. Good luck
Be careful...Indian guys usually marry Indian girls only. And he obviously isn't factoring you into his equation.
I went into no contact for four days and he messaged me three times in one day saying he's coming back in a month instead of three and has four interviews scheduled in Boston and wants to see me when he's back so I guess it's a good sign
I love your videos and advice!!!
Thank you so much!!
Makes sense. Thank you
Exactly, Excellent 👏👏👏👏👍
If all men spoke with a french accent we might pay more attention 😛❤️
:-)
It's a good tip.thank u Alex
Really love Ur accent Alex... ♥️♥️
Alex u are one of a kinde, I want man like u,quality is so good
Alex, je devais regarder cette vidéo avec un sourire et je cherchais cette vidéo spéciale. je vais bientôt rencontrer mon ex et j'espère pouvoir le lui dire car il a effectivement une bonne énergie .. mercy!! Beaucoup ❤❤❤🍷
Good tips, I will try. Your accent makes me melt. 😄👍🏻
I'm new in your chanel. Your advise and information its great:)
Please make video how to be cold with boyfriend and how to text him in cold way.
Make video what happened with men's brain when he take her for granted.
Thank you for being here!
Hy Alex please could you help me with some tips. How can I make a guy express his feelings? And why do is some men don't express their feelings for a lady. ? When a man tells you he is jealous of you sometimes but has never admitted he has feelings for you. Am confused alex
I tried it. He asked me to unsubscribe Alex cormont youtube channel.
😂
😂 😂 😂
Wow.. interesting topic!😍
Any malayalizz???❤️❤️❤️
Thank you every so much Alex
You are so welcome!
How do you get passed the dating phase? How do you know if you should marry them?
Sorry Alex are you saying Invite him to do "cutting"
@Tawni Yaseen carting as in go-carting.
İ was wondering the same thing!!!
Thank you 😊😊
Merci beacoup¡🌸💖