Yes, exactly what I’ve done. I was never this way before. Fighting my way back from near death criminal assault (trauma), permanent injuries that was said I could not survive, finally did all this work to rise above bedridden, only to be yanked around by a guy I’ve known and respected for 20+ years and who says I’m his dream girl and that he’s loved me since the day he laid eyes on me. I’ve been literally, physically broken for 15 years. Now I’m back and he keeps rebreaking me. His underlying issues are that he’s a widower, still somewhat new, but I don’t agree that going through horrific life events should make anyone feel entitled to unlimited free passes to hurt others. I must find a Dr. Alex video on widowers… hope to. 💔
I've done the same. He has cheated by going to erotic massages for years and now he wants a divorce because he is found out. I still love him so much and it really really hurts.
1. Stop talking to him and stop thinking he cares what you have to say/stop responding 2. Look at the situation, don't attack him personally 3. When he comes back and suggests doing something, say no, that you want something else (more effort) 4. Don't put him on a pedestal, make him fight and work for you - BE STRONG
@@katiakayWe can make ourselves unavailable though 😂 That’s how they learn and miss us anyway and they work out too late what they lost. They’re idiots
If a man finds a reason to not talk to you for two weeks and you really didn't do anything wrong, he's most likely found another woman to play with. Leave. Don't waste time on that immaturity.
Men are out for themselves. That's ALL we need to know. I've committed myself to avoiding men at all costs from now on. I won't allow ONE more man to ruin my self esteem and break my heart again after many years of being in a committed relationship.
Well news flash. In a gay relationship there is always a masculine and feminine personality. Your partner will still embody these toxic masculine traits if they have not worked on themselves. Be mindful of this before going gay 😂
The best way to punish a man is to move on with your life. Don't chase replace. Sometimes we just have to accept the situation for what it is. And we don't always get a apology. The best way to punish a man is to forgive them and move on. As a woman Forgiveness is not for him its for you. Know your worth. We have to Sometimes forget what we want and remember what we deserve. 💯
Go on with your life, don’t waste another day on a Man not showing you love and respect✌🏽 it’ll hurt at first but hang in there. Your peace and sanity are more important than a man.
That’s how I feel sis I feel so bad because he made me feel he wanted something he’s so hot and cold and he just started telling me “He don’t want a relationship, and I’m not his girl” 😢It hurts I just feel like he wants control but hopefully I get over it soon
I absolutely agree on this! The best thing is to take care of yourself and be happy. Don’t put yourself as number 2. Make yourself your own priority!! Very very true!!
If that man is a narcissist he will play the long game until you go crazy....start loving and appreciating yourself. Buy yourself flowers, take yourself out and love yourself enough to not care
Stop chasing men. I've been learning that for a while now. If he really wants to be with you, if he wants something real. He wouldn't be running. Cut him loose and move on to the next. Be true to yourself first and foremost. I've been watching this woman I work with for a several months now. She's had a few boyfriends, but when they start doing stupid stuff trying to play games. They are dropped like a hot potato and she moves on. Her last one she said he can spend the rest his life trying to figure out what went wrong. She was moving on, cut all ties. I admire her. She's happy and confident talking to everyone. It's not like she throws herself at men. More women need to go this route and show men we aren't putting up with their bad behaviours. Act right the first time, or there won't be a next time.
This is exactly what my long distance husband started doing to me the past couple of months. It’s made me SO anxious and depressed. I cry all the time. It’s so hard for me to say goodbye to a 10 year relationship and I’m still in love with him. 😞
Ladies don't waste your time trying to punish a man. What he can't do, there's someone out there willing to do it, 10 times over. Start by letting him know how you feel about the situation firmly and respectfully, without threatening him. If he doesn't step up his game, walk away!
Omg Alex. After 40 years of marriage I thought that I knew it all. You're a genius. Thanks for this video. Besides all that I love listening to your voice. Your accent is identical to my late French grandpa, Jules Henri Letard. He was a charming gentleman. Your advice is essential for any woman seeking answers from a male perspective. Thanks a million.
This is 100% exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I'm so hurt by the way he talked to me Friday evening that I haven't even cried yet. I'm angry and almost done so ignoring him is fine by me. Thank you so very much Alex.
LOOK how Beautiful You Are. That JERK doesn't Deserve you even thinking of him! Just Go Out by yourself - Buy Yourself Flowers, and take yourself to the movies, and museums. Take yourself Traveling & Learn A New Language.
I'm so happy to have found you Alex. I'm a Dutch woman ( single) in France...and don't understand how french men function. Honestly I feel many of them are desperate! How to punish, I need this for an Arab man who I have given way too much, he says he is serious about me, but it's only words....thank you for your very sain and sensitive way!
You want a arab man to be serious? Sis, you're in France, one of the best places to flirt and date and you stick with ppl that have little considération for women?
Not only arabs, anyone who needs legal status might plays uou! I went through it with an Asian guy! I thought he loved me.! He was selfish! And plainly manipulative!
There are no coincidences in this world.. Yesterday happened a situation with a guy I was talking with. He was taking me for grante and I just stopped answering his messages. Thank you for reassuring me and for your wise advices. I needed to watch this video so much 🙏🙏 Liking and subscribing your Channel right away.
Alex I have no words to add on what you are teaching us here,am just shocked coz everything you have said here is what am going through I now have the solution ,you really knows how a man think,i appreciate
THANKS ,starting from now my boyfriend will start to treat me like the way I deserve.,because I'll teach him a lesson he'll never forget. Thanks for this powerful tips Coach Alex. I really appreciate it. May God bless you with wisdom and strength so that you can Coach us until we are perfect. I feel much better now. ❤
Walk away to where...that's being an amateur in relationship...you will walk away to another and he will do you the same things...these things are taught...these are men they know very little or nothing about women...they need to learn ...you got teach them...punish a man...why are you running away when you can just punish him....temporary problems don't need permanent solutions.... You are quick to reward them...then why is it difficult when you have to punish them... Punishing feels great to me...!! You feel ownership and respected as you deserve 😂❤ It's so funny I never knew someone will ever highlight these issues....this man is organic...I mean Alex..!!
Honestly Alex, I love yr page. I wish I had known u earlier . He treat me with so much disrespect , he just think he's doing me a favor by being in a relationship with me. Thank u so much
Haha I’m early but going thru alot rn. He’s taking me for granted. And even if I text a little and be distant, I won’t hear from him all day. And it makes me sad. But this vid helped alot ty sir
What you talking about it's true last Thursday I found him talking to other gal and run after her n it hurt me deep but i calm myself down and he spent 3days without talking n guess what he text i didn't text back for three days and boom he apologised 🙏 thank you so much for the motivation🙏💯‼️
Walk away, silence and best of all. Make yourself better, looks, health, clothes, job. So he lives to regret it…😂🎉. Focus on your wants & needs. Only you know what will make you feel great. Do it.😊
I guess you have to learn and play their games. They probably think we are one of the sports that they enjoy watching. Usually, i just walk away but im going to use these methods. Thanks Alex
He broke up with me. I begged him cried over phone . but he said no cant give u any chance. Now he called me yesterday and he's talking to other girl now. He said she is good but u are better . And said she said she will do as he wants . besides he has call blocked me but left me unblocked on Whatsap. I m in war with myself. What should I do ? I want to be in his life.
I just stumbled on your channel and am so grateful. Am married, my husband n i are in separate towns. I visited every weekend,i have been in this other town for almost 2 yrs he has never visited. When i see or notice something negative n chip in my thinking, he goes gaga n goes for months without talking to me. I regret marrying him and am used to this and now i basically can stay for a yr plus without talking or seeing him cuz he doesn't show me one intch of ❤. I don't need that no more
Thank you for your comment :) I'm sorry to hear about the challenging situation you're experiencing in your marriage. I would be delighted to assist you, but I would need to know a little more about what you are going through in order to offer you the appropriate support. I strongly recommend booking a coaching call with me using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I've gone through being treated badly after I was there for him. I've let him go and wish him well and am moving on. Not all men are bad. We just need to choose more wisely and be more discerning. I'm keeping my heart open and not shutting it down with bitterness and resentment. Having that kind of attitude doesn't help me or anyone else and just robs me of being the best person I could be. I just keep living my life to its fullest, working on myself and getting better at spotting men who are carrying baggage and have not healed their emotional wounds. Only they can do that work for themselves. But ladies, don't give up on men, just do you for now until the right one comes along. We were meant to share our lives with someone.
Mr Alex I just watched your tips on relationships. Thanks for letting us know how to go about certain things with those of us that are yet to enter into a relationship and those that are already in it. God richly bless you
I'm not sure how a person would be able to challenge the situation and not the behaviour if the situation is caused by the man's behaviour. I think I would try to use some I statements here and talk about how I felt.
I don't have any energy to raise those guys whom I gave to challenge or punish him or teach him. It's 2024 And there is not much time to make a fuss about life.
Have you followed through? I'm at 4 weeks today. He has attempted to call twice; I ignored both. Mine is my ex husband, whom I share 3 young children with. He's been stringing me along for 3 yrs, but treats me well. But won't commit, just keeps me thinking there's a chance, so his needs keep being met. Not anymore. I reached my end 4 weeks ago. I know he adores me, so I believe he will break.
If anyone you're in a relationship with falls off the radar for 2 weeks without any explanation or discussion. I don't suggest that you punish him, I strongly suggest that YOU LET HIM GO.
First time coming across your TH-cam channel. Topic is very relevant for me. My husband whom i trusted and depended on abandoned me after 21 years of marital life. It's been 7 year's living alone. Though he's moved on with his life to another state in our country iam still stuck in the same house with old memories. Still in contact with him because of our daughter!
Saw marriage is such a hell bondage where a man can make choices not having regret but woman remains struck because of having child with him it's very bad
You're the best guy I have listened to on such a subject... I wonder why women run away from men... they break their homes for nothing Men should just be punished... and that's it... And he mentioned all the ways.... You just need to know something he cares for....something he only gets from you...something he cannot do for himself...that one thing in particular and cut it off...take it for a weapon...I love this guy...!! It's so simple...women shouldn't be in the victim mindset when they have a lot of power when it comes to these issues...women should know better ❤❤😂😂
Thanks for these tips I started applying last week... And I think he's really feeling it while me on the other end I just enjoying my life being happy and stress free👍👍👍👍I feel it's the way forward to making him think
It's great to hear that you've been implementing some helpful tips and that you're feeling happy and stress-free as a result! Maintaining your own happiness and well-being is definitely important in any relationship. I wish you continued happiness and fulfillment!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I went to work yesterday Sunday and he saw that the time was running so fast and there wasn't a fone call at all from me.. He was so worried that he went to the bus station waiting for me from 2pm til I arrived at 6pm. When he saw me getting off the bus he walked straight to me hugged me so tight that I couldn't move my body then hi gave me a kiss and his eyes full off tears as if i was away for awhile or something....but then I knew straight away that he is afraid of loosing me to someone else. He asked me to go and take a nap while he prepairs dinner... Thanks for the additional tips👍👍💪💪
I blocked him in my phone. Because he told all my friends he is done with me. And a day later he phoned me but I already blocked him. Now he upset that I blocked him. This is good punishment! I did notice he tried to call me but I didn't unblocked him. Why because I know he is yahoo one day wants to marry one time he is not sure. I need to know what do . Can I trust him thus time?? Like your advice K
Your statement itself has the answer for your question. "One day he wants to marry one time he is not sure..." Take a break from him. You will get a clarity. During this break observe how much importance and priority he gives for you. You don't make any move towards him. Quietly observe his behavior for some days. You will come to know the reality
I am going to apply all of these techniques and see the results. For now, I’m just gonna ghost him and just stop being too nice, too giving and most importantly stop thinking of him all the time!
I think if a man disrespects U once that's the end. Nobody should treat another person badly. If that's his nature then get away from him. He's a jerk & needs to act his age, not his shoe size.
Please be very careful i was married to a Palestinian 12 yrs i tried my best we been divorced 9 yrs this year his words u cant make me love you he wouldn't even try counselor so i asked for a divorce very cruel see me cry tell my son dont look at that damage my sons mind i should have left sooner i was so stupid i didn't want to be divorced but like he said u cant make no one love u no matter how kind or loving u are goodbye ❤❤
*The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.*
I fuxking love this 🎉
Honestly it's the most painful thing
Does it have to be that way? I’ve never managed to love someone a little.
Yes, exactly what I’ve done. I was never this way before. Fighting my way back from near death criminal assault (trauma), permanent injuries that was said I could not survive, finally did all this work to rise above bedridden, only to be yanked around by a guy I’ve known and respected for 20+ years and who says I’m his dream girl and that he’s loved me since the day he laid eyes on me. I’ve been literally, physically broken for 15 years. Now I’m back and he keeps rebreaking me. His underlying issues are that he’s a widower, still somewhat new, but I don’t agree that going through horrific life events should make anyone feel entitled to unlimited free passes to hurt others. I must find a Dr. Alex video on widowers… hope to. 💔
I've done the same. He has cheated by going to erotic massages for years and now he wants a divorce because he is found out. I still love him so much and it really really hurts.
1. Stop talking to him and stop thinking he cares what you have to say/stop responding
2. Look at the situation, don't attack him personally
3. When he comes back and suggests doing something, say no, that you want something else (more effort)
4. Don't put him on a pedestal, make him fight and work for you - BE STRONG
Sadly they dont care, women are too available
Stop fantasising and look at his real actions!
@@katiakayWe can make ourselves unavailable though 😂 That’s how they learn and miss us anyway and they work out too late what they lost. They’re idiots
@@katiakayif he wants a good quality woman hopefully he will be willing to work for it!! If not….. she can do better! ;)
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If a man finds a reason to not talk to you for two weeks and you really didn't do anything wrong, he's most likely found another woman to play with. Leave. Don't waste time on that immaturity.
Exactly! So true!
Other thing to do if you are married and dont want ti divorce, is to use him and treat him the same way he does
I do this ifmy man will never talk to me longer. I give everything but im not his priority. Its enought and i will accept to be single forever.
Whow!!!
Not necessarily - especially if he’s older 60+ . Then they are okay having sex once weekly so it’s easy to ignore others.
Men are out for themselves. That's ALL we need to know. I've committed myself to avoiding men at all costs from now on. I won't allow ONE more man to ruin my self esteem and break my heart again after many years of being in a committed relationship.
Me either. I’m down
Preach. I'm going for women now.
@@DiamondsRexpensive I have been considering this too.I want to go for women.
Well news flash. In a gay relationship there is always a masculine and feminine personality. Your partner will still embody these toxic masculine traits if they have not worked on themselves. Be mindful of this before going gay 😂
I feel exactly the same way and I'm so sick and tired of the games they play. Honestly I've had it for now.
The best way to punish a man is to move on with your life. Don't chase replace. Sometimes we just have to accept the situation for what it is. And we don't always get a apology. The best way to punish a man is to forgive them and move on. As a woman Forgiveness is not for him its for you. Know your worth. We have to Sometimes forget what we want and remember what we deserve. 💯
The best comment..Soo well put.Thankyou for this.
@@zznbnuru8510 Your very welcome many blessings 🙏💜
Wish everyone could do that😊
I agree. Forgive but don't forget. Move on.
Also true for toxic women
Go on with your life, don’t waste another day on a Man not showing you love and respect✌🏽 it’ll hurt at first but hang in there. Your peace and sanity are more important than a man.
That’s how I feel sis I feel so bad because he made me feel he wanted something he’s so hot and cold and he just started telling me “He don’t want a relationship, and I’m not his girl” 😢It hurts I just feel like he wants control but hopefully I get over it soon
YES ✨💪🏾
@@alexismclean7667 You will be fine, don't let him to comeback to hurt you again.
Very true, i have been through this...im much happier now😊
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1. Stop responding to him
2. Attack the situation not him
3. Challenge him
4. Have a new mindset
Don't forget make sure you get an apology
Women respond alot...I don't know why they can't ignore situation 😂❤
@@redrum4139......a verbal one is had to get....but an indirect one is feasible ❤😂
What if he lied so much
Wow thank you 💕
I absolutely agree on this! The best thing is to take care of yourself and be happy. Don’t put yourself as number 2. Make yourself your own priority!! Very very true!!
Sooo true ! Agree with u absolutely..As a lady we must be strong ! 👍
Absolutely true !
True that, m happily married that's how I won it, don't take any nonsense.
He has to work for you period!
Thanks for watching!
That's true!
I'm done with men, but enjoyed the video. I'm not going to punish a man who is manipulative and truly doesn't care. I'd rather walk away.
Sometimes hes the father of your only child and you walking way would hurt your child in many ways, life would be a chaos for the little soul.
@TheLungWhisperer You’re amazing! How can any man treat you badly?
Best advice EVER! I did this exactly a yr ago, in October '22.....And he is still begging me to take him back! Unfortunately, I'm over him now!
Good girl
I wish I have this courage 😢
Well done ✅
smart woman😂😂
Yes yes🎉 stand for your pride and dignity.
If that man is a narcissist he will play the long game until you go crazy....start loving and appreciating yourself. Buy yourself flowers, take yourself out and love yourself enough to not care
Yes😊
Exactly.
Or just dump him and move on
I'm already violent! I've suppressed too much anger that I get violent against him whenever he refuses to let me check his phone!
Stop chasing men. I've been learning that for a while now. If he really wants to be with you, if he wants something real. He wouldn't be running. Cut him loose and move on to the next. Be true to yourself first and foremost.
I've been watching this woman I work with for a several months now. She's had a few boyfriends, but when they start doing stupid stuff trying to play games. They are dropped like a hot potato and she moves on. Her last one she said he can spend the rest his life trying to figure out what went wrong. She was moving on, cut all ties. I admire her. She's happy and confident talking to everyone. It's not like she throws herself at men.
More women need to go this route and show men we aren't putting up with their bad behaviours. Act right the first time, or there won't be a next time.
Never take a man for his word, like him apologizing. Men always apologize but don't mean it. Always watch his actions.
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment!
Perfect timing for this video coming out. I was crying and sad waiting for him to call. He said hold on and he didn’t care he just went to bed.
This is exactly what my long distance husband started doing to me the past couple of months. It’s made me SO anxious and depressed. I cry all the time. It’s so hard for me to say goodbye to a 10 year relationship and I’m still in love with him. 😞
@@irinaivanovic9792I’m so sorry I hope ur doing okay. Men suck
@@irinaivanovic9792Get a hold of yourself lady, that's not love.
@irinaivanovic9792 take all of your power back and put yourself first. Seems like he's no longer committed.
@@irinaivanovic9792I hope you’re doing well
Ladies don't waste your time trying to punish a man. What he can't do, there's someone out there willing to do it, 10 times over. Start by letting him know how you feel about the situation firmly and respectfully, without threatening him. If he doesn't step up his game, walk away!
I'm going to take your educative advice 😊
goes other way around as well if you don't treat him right lol
Omg Alex. After 40 years of marriage I thought that I knew it all. You're a genius. Thanks for this video. Besides all that I love listening to your voice. Your accent is identical to my late French grandpa, Jules Henri Letard. He was a charming gentleman. Your advice is essential for any woman seeking answers from a male perspective. Thanks a million.
This is 100% exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I'm so hurt by the way he talked to me Friday evening that I haven't even cried yet. I'm angry and almost done so ignoring him is fine by me. Thank you so very much Alex.
LOOK how Beautiful You Are. That JERK doesn't Deserve you even thinking of him! Just Go Out by yourself - Buy Yourself Flowers, and take yourself to the movies, and museums. Take yourself Traveling & Learn A New Language.
This is really,I love it
Agree %
Still he tries to get you back ?
😂😂😂He ignored me thinking he's making me suffer.. But he has no idea that I plan on never letting him do this again by keeping my mouth shut
Exactly
Sis more dangerous ⛔️ 😂
True😊
What he doesn’t know is that I can be ghostier 😂
Best advice ever………..👍 except now I don’t even want him…….. thank u
I'm so happy to have found you Alex. I'm a Dutch woman ( single) in France...and don't understand how french men function. Honestly I feel many of them are desperate!
How to punish, I need this for an Arab man who I have given way too much, he says he is serious about me, but it's only words....thank you for your very sain and sensitive way!
You want a arab man to be serious? Sis, you're in France, one of the best places to flirt and date and you stick with ppl that have little considération for women?
By any means DO NOT TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY THINKING HE REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU HE DOESN'T !! They're opportunists. I'm speaking from experience.
@@apsv85😂👏👏sooo true sis❤
...they need a visa ...and citizenship ...that's it ....not you....
Not only arabs, anyone who needs legal status might plays uou! I went through it with an Asian guy! I thought he loved me.! He was selfish! And plainly manipulative!
He came back many times after a fight that he put in place, but NEVER NEVER with an apology.
You let him back. And you also trained him that his behavior is acceptable. Don't complain now
@@user_abcxyzzyeah, I forgot to train him like a dog.
Man never change n if they continue this behaviour they will ruin their own life .
Some men do change!
Only the real and sensible ones change @@FrenchRelationshipExpert
There are no coincidences in this world.. Yesterday happened a situation with a guy I was talking with. He was taking me for grante and I just stopped answering his messages. Thank you for reassuring me and for your wise advices. I needed to watch this video so much 🙏🙏 Liking and subscribing your Channel right away.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm happy this video was able to help you!
Alex I have no words to add on what you are teaching us here,am just shocked coz everything you have said here is what am going through I now have the solution ,you really knows how a man think,i appreciate
I love as a man you do this, like a favorite Uncle looking out for us❤
Thank you so much for watching!
This works like a magic I did to my hubby and he asked forgiveness thank you Alex❤️
Thank you so much fro watching! I'm glad this video was able to help you!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Alex, what should I do to make you love me?! ❤
thanks that's where we are,true when we give too much attention they take us for granted,thanks man
Some people don't care that we ignore them they feel free and happy without us
You are right
True for the most part also if he won't respond to such treatment ( you being silent) at all probably he doesn't even care
Yeah but give it some patience ladies … he’ll get mighty curious in due time .. that’s when it gets interesting 😉
This applies to all avoidants .
Best advice for what to do after he disrespects her. Thank you, Alex!
THANKS ,starting from now my boyfriend will start to treat me like the way I deserve.,because I'll teach him a lesson he'll never forget. Thanks for this powerful tips Coach Alex. I really appreciate it. May God bless you with wisdom and strength so that you can Coach us until we are perfect. I feel much better now. ❤
Thank you so much for watching! I deeply appreciate this!
Never punish a man. He is not a child! Love yourself and walk away. It's really that simple!
Unfortunately there is REAL Men and Boys.......
I still waiting for a REAL Man 😅
Yea. You can't really punish someone who doesn't care.
They act like children. Many of them are actually. Haven’t grown beyond age 5
Walk away to where...that's being an amateur in relationship...you will walk away to another and he will do you the same things...these things are taught...these are men they know very little or nothing about women...they need to learn ...you got teach them...punish a man...why are you running away when you can just punish him....temporary problems don't need permanent solutions....
You are quick to reward them...then why is it difficult when you have to punish them...
Punishing feels great to me...!! You feel ownership and respected as you deserve 😂❤
It's so funny I never knew someone will ever highlight these issues....this man is organic...I mean Alex..!!
@@ChristabellaH....you punish them till they care...
TRUE..i learned not to bother myself nor my time when it comes to him and i think I have done more than enough...i have limit when I'm done 'Im done.
Honestly Alex, I love yr page.
I wish I had known u earlier .
He treat me with so much disrespect , he just think he's doing me a favor by being in a relationship with me.
Thank u so much
Thank you so much for watching!
Haha I’m early but going thru alot rn. He’s taking me for granted. And even if I text a little and be distant, I won’t hear from him all day. And it makes me sad. But this vid helped alot ty sir
What you talking about it's true last Thursday I found him talking to other gal and run after her n it hurt me deep but i calm myself down and he spent 3days without talking n guess what he text i didn't text back for three days and boom he apologised 🙏 thank you so much for the motivation🙏💯‼️
This is amazing but be careful to not let him think he can take you for granted!
Alex , vous êtes si gentil et vous conseillez avec si honor ! Vraiment je pense que vous soyez le mieux de tous les "Relationship Coaches".❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Walk away, silence and best of all. Make yourself better, looks, health, clothes, job. So he lives to regret it…😂🎉. Focus on your wants & needs. Only you know what will make you feel great. Do it.😊
Good advice. I’m doing it
@@jillrouse7022 🧘🏼♀️💃💃💃🙌☀️🥳
Thank you Alex! NO WOMAN should take a man back UNLESS he truly confesses himself and ASKS FOR FORGIVENESS. You need to train them.
Thanks for watching!
Sadly, they won’t ever apologize. They just try to work their way around it
All u saying is right Alex because I feel what he's done is good enough for me to live my life.
Correct; it's An Eye Opener!!! Women need to Start having Female-Women CLUBS.
So true❤ because of my kindness people always took advantage of me.
I know you can change it now :-)
I need your strength Alex I'm going to watch ur video ev time u upload ty 🙏 I'm ready to punish him
I guess you have to learn and play their games. They probably think we are one of the sports that they enjoy watching. Usually, i just walk away but im going to use these methods. Thanks Alex
Thank you Alex for giving un solutions to keep being the price in love. ❤
I swear to you, you're doing really good Alex. I got this at the right time.
This has helped me Alot.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm always happy to help!
Exactly 100%! No reply? I disap! I have a life too. Stop chasing. Value starts with SILENCE!
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He broke up with me. I begged him cried over phone . but he said no cant give u any chance. Now he called me yesterday and he's talking to other girl now. He said she is good but u are better . And said she said she will do as he wants . besides he has call blocked me but left me unblocked on Whatsap. I m in war with myself. What should I do ? I want to be in his life.
Super thumbs up. Thanks so much for sharing this video. God bless you.
Thank you so much for watching!
Thank you Alex for these wonderful solution
Thank you so much for watching!
Thank u it's exactly my situation but i will act on it
I hope this video is able to help you!
You’re making so much sense Alex . ❤❤❤
I just stumbled on your channel and am so grateful.
Am married, my husband n i are in separate towns. I visited every weekend,i have been in this other town for almost 2 yrs he has never visited.
When i see or notice something negative n chip in my thinking, he goes gaga n goes for months without talking to me.
I regret marrying him and am used to this and now i basically can stay for a yr plus without talking or seeing him cuz he doesn't show me one intch of ❤.
I don't need that no more
Thank you for your comment :) I'm sorry to hear about the challenging situation you're experiencing in your marriage. I would be delighted to assist you, but I would need to know a little more about what you are going through in order to offer you the appropriate support. I strongly recommend booking a coaching call with me using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I've gone through being treated badly after I was there for him. I've let him go and wish him well and am moving on. Not all men are bad. We just need to choose more wisely and be more discerning. I'm keeping my heart open and not shutting it down with bitterness and resentment. Having that kind of attitude doesn't help me or anyone else and just robs me of being the best person I could be. I just keep living my life to its fullest, working on myself and getting better at spotting men who are carrying baggage and have not healed their emotional wounds. Only they can do that work for themselves. But ladies, don't give up on men, just do you for now until the right one comes along. We were meant to share our lives with someone.
I so agree with you!
Mr Alex I just watched your tips on relationships. Thanks for letting us know how to go about certain things with those of us that are yet to enter into a relationship and those that are already in it.
God richly bless you
Thank you so much for watching! It's always my pleasure to help you😊
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert pls what if I have personal questions to ask you should I still ask on this platform or where
Alex you are such a blessing and really this video is so useful for me ,you are Soo sooo right ! Thank you ❤
Am Esther and this is my first time here but have enjoyed and learn a lot thank you Mr Alex
Thank you so much for watching! I really appreciate this!
I'm not sure how a person would be able to challenge the situation and not the behaviour if the situation is caused by the man's behaviour. I think I would try to use some I statements here and talk about how I felt.
Exactly!
I don't have any energy to raise those guys whom I gave to challenge or punish him or teach him.
It's 2024
And there is not much time to make a fuss about life.
Exactly
I agree with you
Stop responding to him
Attack the situation not him
Challenge him
These ☝️ 3 points stood out for me
For me too :-) Thanks for the support!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertdo we use all 3 to punish him or do we use just one of them?
What if they don't apologize ? I'll see how this goes tonight's my first night starting the punishment 🤭☺️🙏❤️
Have you followed through? I'm at 4 weeks today. He has attempted to call twice; I ignored both. Mine is my ex husband, whom I share 3 young children with. He's been stringing me along for 3 yrs, but treats me well. But won't commit, just keeps me thinking there's a chance, so his needs keep being met. Not anymore. I reached my end 4 weeks ago. I know he adores me, so I believe he will break.
@@gingygirl4638Any update?
@@gingygirl4638 did he appear at ur doorstep with flowers?😊
they Always come bk, its do funny. wait it out n see
Alex your couches is very excellence well said thank you. God bless. Watching from Papua New guinea 🇵🇬 girl
Thanks for watching! I appreciate you!
If anyone you're in a relationship with falls off the radar for 2 weeks without any explanation or discussion. I don't suggest that you punish him, I strongly suggest that YOU LET HIM GO.
But when it's not easy for you, punishing him is the mindset to be able to LET HIM GO :-)
This is an opener words from you, it really help me how to respond an abusive relationship .thank you Alex.its such a great help ❤
God bless
I'm so glad this video was able to help you! Thank you!
Thank you 🙏u r real friend ..may god bless u
Thank you. I have made that decision a few days now.
You're welcome! I hope that decision brings you peace and clarity.
Good advice, i don't chase i attract. You chsse you only feeding his big ego.
Thank you so much for watching!
THANK YOU SO MUCH SIR ALEX FOR FOR THE INFORMATION AND REMINDERS,,GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Thank you so much for watching! I truly appreciate this!
Men are Good as Dads, brothers, and friends. Not at all as a partner. Because unconditional love is taken for granted.
Yeah well newsflash women aren't perfect and innocent either there are bad women out there as well it's not just men
This comment section is regain my motivation..thank you guys ❤
First time coming across your TH-cam channel. Topic is very relevant for me. My husband whom i trusted and depended on abandoned me after 21 years of marital life. It's been 7 year's living alone. Though he's moved on with his life to another state in our country iam still stuck in the same house with old memories. Still in contact with him because of our daughter!
Saw marriage is such a hell bondage where a man can make choices not having regret but woman remains struck because of having child with him it's very bad
You are a wonderful teacher. Thank you much for this video.
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
This is exactly what I needed to hear today!
Thank you Alex❤️🙏🏽
one of the best videos ever wver 100% correct this is a true reality
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
I stopped responding after he disrespected me and all that ended up happening was him blocking me 😒
Move on he was never yours
He showed you who he is. Believe him and close that door forever. On to the next.
You dodged a bullet
Thank you Alex.
Thank you so much for watching!
This is the one. Enough is enough never letting a man take me for granted
That's right! You got this❤️
It will never work , ladies,if this guy just playing with you
You're the best guy I have listened to on such a subject... I wonder why women run away from men... they break their homes for nothing
Men should just be punished... and that's it...
And he mentioned all the ways....
You just need to know something he cares for....something he only gets from you...something he cannot do for himself...that one thing in particular and cut it off...take it for a weapon...I love this guy...!! It's so simple...women shouldn't be in the victim mindset when they have a lot of power when it comes to these issues...women should know better ❤❤😂😂
All shades suit this man🤩🔥
Thanks for these tips I started applying last week... And I think he's really feeling it while me on the other end I just enjoying my life being happy and stress free👍👍👍👍I feel it's the way forward to making him think
It's great to hear that you've been implementing some helpful tips and that you're feeling happy and stress-free as a result! Maintaining your own happiness and well-being is definitely important in any relationship. I wish you continued happiness and fulfillment!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I went to work yesterday Sunday and he saw that the time was running so fast and there wasn't a fone call at all from me.. He was so worried that he went to the bus station waiting for me from 2pm til I arrived at 6pm. When he saw me getting off the bus he walked straight to me hugged me so tight that I couldn't move my body then hi gave me a kiss and his eyes full off tears as if i was away for awhile or something....but then I knew straight away that he is afraid of loosing me to someone else. He asked me to go and take a nap while he prepairs dinner... Thanks for the additional tips👍👍💪💪
I blocked him in my phone. Because he told all my friends he is done with me. And a day later he phoned me but I already blocked him. Now he upset that I blocked him. This is good punishment!
I did notice he tried to call me but I didn't unblocked him. Why because I know he is yahoo one day wants to marry one time he is not sure. I need to know what do . Can I trust him thus time??
Like your advice K
Your statement itself has the answer for your question.
"One day he wants to marry one time he is not sure..."
Take a break from him. You will get a clarity. During this break observe how much importance and priority he gives for you. You don't make any move towards him. Quietly observe his behavior for some days.
You will come to know the reality
Dont go back
My situation now
But am going to learn how to walk away for good❤
Yes, you need to take control!
Thanks alex. Really helpful session
Thankz ...and amazing love advice ....more advice sir Alex Cormont !!!..
Thank you so much for your support! I really appreciate it!
This is very true and helpful. Thumbs up Alex
Thank you so much for commenting! I'm glad this video was helpful to you 😊
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertHi Alex
I am going to apply all of these techniques and see the results. For now, I’m just gonna ghost him and just stop being too nice, too giving and most importantly stop thinking of him all the time!
Leave him if he is anyway abusive. Let him show you he loves you...not tell you he loves you
Thank you Alex for your advice ❤
Thank you so much for watching ! I'm glad I could offer some helpful advice.
I think if a man disrespects U once that's the end. Nobody should treat another person badly. If that's his nature then get away from him. He's a jerk & needs to act his age, not his shoe size.
Thank you so much Alex, please more lessons
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex, does it apply with an ex who breadcrumbs and disappears for 4 months? We ignore until he apologises?
My guess is he'll still continue this behavior but in any case it's better to totally ignore him and move on with your life
I'm very happy for your advice
Thank you so much for watching!
This really resonates 😊
It's good to hear this coming from a Man himself,I bet your Woman is getting all the Love ❤she deserves 😊
Thank you so much for watching!🤗🤗
Men think on themselves and enjoy time…!!
Thank you mr Alex i have learned alot,my guy stopped talking to me for almost three weeks,
Thank you for your support. Stay strong!
I’m so tired! I’m focusing on myself
I have never heard “ ass hole sound so good. Thank you. You speak such sense
Thank you so much for watching!
Please be very careful i was married to a Palestinian 12 yrs i tried my best we been divorced 9 yrs this year his words u cant make me love you he wouldn't even try counselor so i asked for a divorce very cruel see me cry tell my son dont look at that damage my sons mind i should have left sooner i was so stupid i didn't want to be divorced but like he said u cant make no one love u no matter how kind or loving u are goodbye ❤❤
Good advice.! Thank you.
Thank you so much for watching !
I figure that if I have to Punish a Guy then its time to RUN😅