In case you missed Part One, feel free to watch it here th-cam.com/video/3yKfdAGJY1k/w-d-xo.html You can reach Susan on, +254722734228 or skagwe36@gmail.com To share your story with us, kindly send a summary to Lynnngugi@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com Thank you so much for watching💛
Susan, u are really a strong woman and am Happy that u are Nolonger in Bondage. Ur ex was a weak man who wanted to exercise his "ego" on u. I salute u #TeamSingleMums 💝🙏🌻🎉
I’m so grateful for this story. The greatest lesson I took from Susan’s experience is that we must not ignore the signs. When someone shows you who they are even in dating, believe them.
Her story reminds me of Princess of Wales Lady D, and Charles! I bet there are many situations like this. Men taking advantage of vulnerable young women/single mothers, having kids with them, and then dumping them. Dear Susan, thank you! Thank you for your inspiring story, brought forth with so much courage. The humility and patience you have mama! God has brought you so forth, He is/will take you even further. You’re the best. Own it! May blessings upon blessings be yours. May divine protection and guidance be yours, and your children’s. Thank you Lynn. This is a great one! Much love to you both!!
She has excatly narrated what I went through aky it's the most painful thing to go through in the name of marriage and I must say she is lucky she had some money she could afford a house,I can relate to the curfews by 6 running home like a small baby to be in the house before he get home Waah wengine tulilala chini 3 months before tuweze kupata hata mattress but God is faithful that is past us.All Glory to God .Susan may God keep Gracing your Life💕💖❤️
That man was suffering from an inferiority complex and couldn't handle it. Thanks Susan for sharing this story. We all learn from it. Thanks Lynn this is divine 🙏
Never judge Single mums. By the time a woman is leaving her home, she has tried everything to no avail. To men, women are not reproductive machines to make you babies then discard them and pick someone else to enjoy life with while frustrating kids. It's painful! To Susan, you are so beautiful and neat. I couldn't help admiring you from head to toe. You look so Smart my namesake Waithira❤️
Well said I really feel her pain ..it ia strange for me to know that these things happen I thought that only I went through this stuff..my story is the same as she..The creator is so great
The fact that she didn't expose the guy despite the trauma she went through, shows how mature she is. She is calm, beautiful and has a good sense of humour. It hurts how the guy attacked the very things she can't change; her physical attributes, family, tribe, even her spirituality. He is evil through and through. Susan, you have enlightened many people. Thank you.
Well no matter how bad the man treated her, he is still the father of her children. So as an adult, you put your adult/ relationship issues aside and put the children first. Chances are those children will still want to know and bond their dad despite what happened between the parents.
@@faridahfaddy4215 how do kids bond with an abusive father though? He even forced them to call someone else mum. This, ''he is still the father of her children,'' does not fly!
The unfortunate thing is that people don't know who are narcissists what NPD is. Many abused people have had a narcissist partner. Let people get educated to be able to see the red flags early. May God bless you Waithera, God knows the truth and He will never leave you nor forsake you. You can't change narcissists, only God.
“What will people say?” “What will the neighbours say about us?” At times parents focus on what people think about them as opposed to what is good for their children. We are so blinded by maintaining social status and image, we would rather die that allow people to see us at our worst.
She is beautiful, as she said she had to share her story and not to keep silence with it,in proverbs 10:10 Someone who holds back the truth causes trouble, but one who openly criticizes works for peace,she is blessed.
Thank you Lynn for bringing Susan on the show. You have nailed it once again. She has made me realize that one has to remain positive & believe in one self even as one is passing through hell in a marriage set up. Susan really passed through hell in her marriage, it's good that she counseled herself & come out of the marriage a stronger person. Susan I love your relationship with God. Continue praying for your children. Take heart, God knows why he has allowed your children to be residing in two homes.
wow....this woman, I love her honesty. Sharing her pain, her truths, her experience. Sometimes family can fail you in the worst way but am glad she is coming out strong on the other side.
Children always suffer the most in a divorce, especially when co parenting is not done in a mature way or lacks mutual understanding. Take heart mama may the lord give you strength.
As I am keenly listening to you, what comes clear about this man is he never loved you,this doesn't mean that no one loves you, so many people love you and God loves you even more. For sharing this story anyone who is contemplating marriage will be advised on self love in a way that she will know when a man loves her for what she is.
Lyn thank you for sharing this, I thought I was cursed, my story is just like hers but the difference was that I am not a lawyer and he is. That guy tormented me I have never recovered, sometimes I feel like my body is numb I can't feel anything 😪. This has given me the courage to keep being strong for my girls. Someday I will be brave and come out to tell people about my life.
My dear ladies from the mountain ⛰ region, 98% marriage between people from western region and mountain region always end in tears, there are so many factors that jeopardize this kind of relationship especially culture and stereotypical myths. It might starts so well with love, queen-like treatment and everything. Bt its a time bomb 💣. Daughters of Kirinyaga mountain ⛰, marry from your GEMA communities. Am not saying it will be perfect but there's 80% chances of Good marriage from that kind of marriage. Haya mwenye ameguzwa mawe zikuje 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️.
Susan, we thank God for you. You were able to break free from an abusive marriage, you will be fine. God in his mercy, will watch over your children. Your life is getting better and it will be well. Your strength and refuge is God and he never disappoints. A few years from today you will by law, have reclaimed your children. God will take care of you. Your children will turn out well. God will turn this whole experience to your good. Just wait and see.
In South Africa, children are open about co parenting experiences to their peers and friends. I know it's difficult but I hope with time Kenyans ladies (from a global perception) will also accept co-parenting inconveniences so that the children will suffer less. I feel for you Susan, may the Lord uphold you and our children.
She has reminded me of when I made up my mind to leave my toxic job no one could stop me I was like a prisoner breaking free. So you hate your child for a man who has never given you a single coin. Our parents keep siding with pple who can never buy them even a coffin when they die.
Was looking for this comment. Susan's parents failed her from the very first, when she had to go back to school with the kid. They failed to let her know of her worth. I thank God that she is recovering.
@@wanjiruciru6237 exactly, was expecting after amepata mtoto kaachwe home with a nanny. Bt unfortunately they were already ashamed of her and that's why they were forcing her to stay in a marriage even if she was abused.
This was so me I tried all I could to my marriage but waaa..I came to make peace with me and tell myself you know what 'marriage is not for me..'since then I'm OK on my own
Post the judge's name! We need to know who did this! We need to know the judge who did this! You need a new judge! Petition to get a new judge! Maybe he paid the judge off.
I thought so too, maybe he paid or was receiving a payment monthly, Or hes also another man like her Ex husband. May God guide his daughters from such men in marriages to come
I have enjoyed your story my sister. Your sister from Uganda here. I know how sensitive making life decisions in our 20s is like and I fully understand your quagmires - you were very young and suddenly had to make life changing decisions at a less experienced age. We think we are old in our early 20s but we have hardly left our sheltered upbringing before we must face reality in the face. We are very lucky if we do it right at that age. You were very advanced in your spiritual life at that time to have gotten to the point of being a praise and worship leader. Do you know that that is the end of our journey with God? Or the highest goal of our spiritual journey?! To arrive at a point of 'worshipping the Lord in Spirit and in truth?' Because it is also our biggest spiritual weapon and cover from the old age enemy of our souls? Therefore, to allow a bully, in the name of a husband take that away from you was the first mistake you made. Because if he takes that away from you, he will possess you. That is where he made you fall. Had you kept just that one thing, it would have turned everything around for you. Because, a man should never be allowed to remove your corner stone from you. Plus bullies are really cowards. Had you stood your ground firmly on that one, he would have given up - just like your push and pull over the children was - he finally gives up. If he says relinquish your praise and worship session, which God has elevated you to and you agree, he will take anything else he wants and will bring you down to dancing with poles. And then you will realize: Eh, how far have I fallen?' The lesson that young gal in her 20s had to learn to value was that her relationship with God was not negotiable. That is the strength of a woman who is married to a non-believer. And I call your husband a non- believer because if he was a believer, he would know that you cannot put asunder what God has put together, period. The only way he is allowed to divorce you is if you committed sexual immorality with another man. Shirt of that, now he is guilty of making you commit adultery should you remarry, and even the man who would marry you now would be committing adultery.
Wow, I'm speechless. Thanks for sharing your story so openly and honestly Susan. May God keep blessing you. Your past may be dark, but your future is bright.
a narcissist, an abuser gets closer to your inner circle, so they can kick you out also, they will also make your children hate you. Susan I love you! you're not alone. You're our hero!!! ( in that matter)
finally part two,i could listen to her talk all day,pole for the abuse ,i hope that man is regretting and sorry for what he did to you and your children
I have watched this late,years down but I am very much encouraged.Her names are exactly like my bestie, I passed something almost similar & having represented myself in court and got a fairer judgement and I am always lamenting on a few clauses & hiccups raising the child.I am more than shocked beyond words that a lawyer got worse orders.May God heal all the souls affected.
Susan you are God's vessel why because God made you to go through all that so that you can serve others better.and understand them more.your career was well planned by HIM you are serving God through your job.you will go far keep moving
I have been into this situation from.2014!my husband took the children!I tried children courts without any help!l have no money no legal advice no nothing!am broken!depressed!plz help
😭😭😭i thought mine was worse then i came to learn this from Susan marriage......thanks mum for coming out to shame those kind of men even though we have some head harded women out there.Imagine a whole advocate going through this, what about us tuko chini ???sometimes some judgements are leaving kids traumatized
Sue, sorry for what you went through. Our cultures have failed to catch up with the changing world dynamics. We are in that point in our generation where marriage should be for two people who love and accommodates each other’s faults. We need to be prepared for such eventualities even in marriage and our day to day life.
I respect you Mama alot for that strength....and the moment she walk in her beauty captured me I love the way she looks personally ....she is so beautiful woman very...from her talk she seems more beautiful inside...what a lovely woman
Amazing hair, amazing dress, amazing shoes, beautiful face 😍 . Madam Susan, you are very beautiful 😍 ❤ very very nice and beautiful voice as well. Wapi likes the beautiful susan?
Thank for bring part one and two I really learned how to value a women and how are they being affected by rejection, toxic relationship and married to a wrong partner
Wale wa heri kulia Kwa range rover u still there? I know some woman who got everything even bodyguards but after bearing two kids, he has never seen the man, never had sex since she is always guarded by three bodyguards and now is 5 years counting, everything is provided for, only women friends are allowed to visit her. What kind of life is that? Let's be careful of choices we make. May God help those suffering in silence and just know there is always light at end of tunnel
I hope she knows how beautiful she is.. And what a lovely personality she has.. It doesn't help she resembles my mum like spot on😊But from the dust you will rise Wakili.. Thank you Lynn for bringing these stories to us young adults we learn so much every day ❤️
Weee kumbe sorry ufanana! hata watoto wangu ni age moja na wako nimepitia the same thing kitu tofauti ni wewe ulikua na job.. we are strong women mama May Almighty God help us
Thank you Susan for sharing your story! Your inner beauty shines throughout the ENTIRE story! Lynn, I can’t thank you enough for these impactful stories!
Hapa kwa watoi I feel that she is telling my story where a man was never in my life during pregnancy and the sickness that came with it never showed up when my son was born and became sick the next day and was in hospital for two months he refused to give his sir name to my son only to come back and took my baby when he was 10months when I was on business trip and I have not see my son for one year and I will not see him or his photos for some time until maybe I go children's court , I have cried for my kid but I believe God will see me through this it not easy.
Narcissistics are pretenders if Susan and she's a lawyer goes through all this without justice, now I understand the pain Virginia kamotho goes through about sex and how he get close to in law after separation 😥 kids suffer but all in all God faithful
What a wonderful woman I'm really sorry for all that heartache you went through...there say anything which doesn't kill you makes you strong..May the Almighty God continue blessing you and your children..
Think about this my sisters: Princess Diana went through heartbreak, shame, emotional abuse ect ect when she stood up and began living life as she chose they murdered her. We, women must ask the Lord for WISDOM.
Iam so sadned by your story you left me in tears this beyond human capacity may the good Lord give you strength to heal from all the evil he did to you thanks for believing in Yourself and trusting in God 🙏 your are a very great lady keep on praying you will surely see the better days ahead of you and your children
Aki this is my case, my boys are with the dad n the new wife simply cz he's financially stable than I am, they kol her mum.... I personally talk to her when I want to talk to them cz she more approachable than the dad n I thank God cz tumebakisha 3 yrs wamalize shule wote... It has not been easy n the grace has been sufficient....... You will overcome Susan, keep praying mama
Susan, you are a woman of great strength and enduring personality. I thank God that there are people like you. I learned a lot in these two interviews. I doubt that your children will like their father when they're grown up. I personally would not even visit him if I were in their situation. To forgive a monster does not mean living with it.
This story reminds me of Virginia. God is good that she was given her kids in one year. God bless you Susan for sharing your story. You are very strong and God fearing woman. May God fulfill your heart desires
Sorry Susan that you had to go through such a marriage, I am happy to see that you are a strong in your faith for to know God & to believe in Him is great empowerment. Sadly I also live with a covert narcissist but he isn't as extreme as your ex, gosh yours was terrible!! its like the evil boils from deep inside their souls & are so empty & hopeless but once they step outside the house they pretend to be the 'saint' ! So generous out there with his time & money, so caring & concerned...I mean is like an angel...how then can anyone believe me if I start sharing what I go through behind closed doors😢...but there's God in heaven who sees & knows it all & am sure He will come through for me & reveal the way forward in my life🙏.
One thing I know is that karma never fails, lets keep our fingers cross soon all shall be revealed and His name shall be glorified. No man can eat his cake and have it cause God is no respecter of anybody whether you are a lawyer or judge. He's the Supreme Judge and his judgments are final! Sending you ma'am love and warm hugs from Nigeria.
I can identified Ina mother way with her but God has healed my heart am a strong woman in God and so He still have the best partner for me I life all my life for The Lord.
Wababa! Majibaba! Libaba!Gulibaba! Kujibaba!!! If you can't stay with someone's daughter please allow them to take the peaceful gates, my hugs Susan. Thank God one of my in-laws is used to pack his bag & go he don't do fights.
Wow, we serve a God of recompense may He vindicate you. As a fellow family advocate am sure it pains when you know you had an appellable case but rules of procedure on timelines are against you and you cannot review the orders either. And she is right it's very absurd for a magistrate to order her not to breastfeed her child. I applaud you counsel I know it is not easy to even share this story. God heal you mama and your children
You were married to a narc...He knew you were strong and hence wanted to break you...Him becoming close to your people is a case of him recruiting flying monkeys...Been there n last year (2021) at some point i felt so alone, my friends gone n taking sides,my family n for a moment i missed my late dad as i felt he is the only person who would have understood me...Since covid happened to last year,i have been chased 4 times during curfew times...the last time i got late as i had gone to make my nails n yet i had left after i had cooked dinner n told him i was going to make nails since i was traveling the following day n the gal who makes my nails was busy the whole day...when i came back i was told to go back to where i had come n he started calling me names telling me i am from sleeping with men...called people n told them i am from sleeping outside like really? Anyway,i am so glad you finally got yourself together n on a path of healing.Thank you for being brave enough to share your story..May the Lord continue elevating you n your sons..
Sue is my personal friend and former schoolmate. She’s a strong strong lady and this whole story is just a tip of the iceberg!!! She’s been through so so much more than she can narrate on the show. celebrate you sue and God will take you to great heights
This is my former boss..Such a great woman and mentor!. hearing your story has made me cry ..I now understand why you passionate about family matters. You are a great lawyer. You are strong and Destined for greatness.. my take away is Know God . God bless you.
This came right from the beginning when she frist did the marriage preparation by her own and later buying almost the entire house hold items. This made her ex to become jealous with hate as a result
To Susan, you deserve to be celebrated, if you went through all that and yet you have the courage to come up and share, you have slot of grace over your life. You're such a beautiful lady. Even your smile tell how beautiful your heart is. That abuser needed his eyes checked. Only a blind person can say otherwise about your beautiful. Also Incase God gives you the desire to marry again, you're still young and your Adam is still searching for you. God will cause him to locate you. Keep up with your faith in God.
I'll say this again: the number 1 duty of parents is to protect their child. This woman's parents let her down. No two ways about it. No justification for bonding with their daughter's abuser, while at the same time discarding their own daughter. Let's not sugar coat the toxicity of the parents in "they were worried about society's perception after the marriage breakdown". End of.
You can say that again! Her parents let her down big time. However, being an artoney, I dont understand how and why she couldnt go against her parents decision and just walk away.
The day we stop socialising girls and women to view marriage as an achievement and status in the society is the day our girls and women will break free!what an inspiring story and kudos to Lynn for the platform 💞💞💞💞
What do you mean achievement? Marriage is to get children and keep as your husband and father to your kids. Parents needs to train children in good manners. Enslaved men that it his parents issues in that man now make it his wife suffer! Parents stop abusive children cause once the grow up their will abusive everyone , friends to wife's
Yes we need to gets children and we need husband as father. If your husband has mental issues cause he was abusive traumatic from his childhood. Stop abuse children so we can have good wife and husband. We need marriage.everywoman needs own man
If they were real punishment for those abusive they would suffer own childhoods traumatic inside and cannot do anything in life jobless,loss things in life. because no punishment to abusive traumatic man..NOW HE MAKE OTHER ONE TO SUFFER IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE OR IN THE NAME OF FATHERHOOD. Please stop abusive child...once they become adult s they will harm the countries people
Susan you are a very strong woman. You are helping so many women with your testimony. You were good enough. And let me tell you. Prayers are the Answer. This forum will save many . Lyn this is good.
Your husband didn't hate you, he hated the light that shines through you, the light that has strengthened and guided you through this journey as it wattles the demons operating in him but his time is up. He is about to vanish in the redsea like Pharaoh and his chariots! You are beautiful, You are strong and the apple of ABBA YAH'S Eye! 🙏🏾
In the first video of Suzan's story at exactly 15minutes 34 and 35seconds, THE HOLY SPIRIT Reveals HIMSELF out of no where flies above her head. She was saying she couldn't imagine Her son with out a father, How? And at that point WHITE DOVE flew HALLELUYAH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
As a Kenyan, that name FIDA, sends chills up my skin. I will one day speak about mine. Lynn, you should have a writing segment then you can reach a wider audience. I will one day speak.
In case you missed Part One, feel free to watch it here th-cam.com/video/3yKfdAGJY1k/w-d-xo.html
You can reach Susan on, +254722734228 or skagwe36@gmail.com
To share your story with us, kindly send a summary to Lynnngugi@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com
Thank you so much for watching💛
I was really waiting for the part two aki
Susan is a strong woman....God bless you Lynn for bringing us this amazing episode with many lessons to learn
Madam Lynn !! you both looks gorgeous , Susan’s dress is classy , Lynn dress is fabulous too . Bright colors brighten the story ❤️❤️!
Susan, u are really a strong woman and am Happy that u are Nolonger in Bondage. Ur ex was a weak man who wanted to exercise his "ego" on u. I salute u #TeamSingleMums 💝🙏🌻🎉
@@audiadarliance8329 wow kumbe sio Virginia Wangari kamotho peke yake alinyimwa watoto wow may God have mercy upon women it's so sad
Her parents contributed to her problems. They abandoned her when she needed them.
Chituru Oji-- Tell me about it you are dead right 100%
Like she narrated, the man befriended the family. They could not read the truth
True
But your child comes first before others. How could those parents trust the guy more than their daughter?????
@@julietkutegeka1513because they are agents of darkness too. He comes to kill , steal and destroy and he uses people close to you.
I’m so grateful for this story. The greatest lesson I took from Susan’s experience is that we must not ignore the signs. When someone shows you who they are even in dating, believe them.
Exactly.
True
Loving someone who doesn't love you back...is like hugging a cuctus..the more you hold on to, the more it hurts!!!!!
Perfect analogy! 👍🏽💯
Its hilarious but true.Its like hugging a cactus.
Hiyo analogy imeweza. Well said.
@@paulakavita6347 he was not in love with her.according to the story
Apo Kwa kudance 🤣🤣🤣🤣msee akados🤣🤣
Her story reminds me of Princess of Wales Lady D, and Charles!
I bet there are many situations like this. Men taking advantage of vulnerable young women/single mothers, having kids with them, and then dumping them.
Dear Susan, thank you! Thank you for your inspiring story, brought forth with so much courage. The humility and patience you have mama! God has brought you so forth, He is/will take you even further. You’re the best. Own it!
May blessings upon blessings be yours. May divine protection and guidance be yours, and your children’s.
Thank you Lynn. This is a great one!
Much love to you both!!
She has excatly narrated what I went through aky it's the most painful thing to go through in the name of marriage and I must say she is lucky she had some money she could afford a house,I can relate to the curfews by 6 running home like a small baby to be in the house before he get home Waah wengine tulilala chini 3 months before tuweze kupata hata mattress but God is faithful that is past us.All Glory to God .Susan may God keep Gracing your Life💕💖❤️
Pole mum
Hugs mum
Hugs Mum❤
Am privileged to know her in person, she is an amazing human being, down to earth,may God keep blessing you
I wish I could meet this woman or even get an opportunity to work with her
Thanks for being her friend all through!
Watching this today after 2 weeks of leaving my marriage. I dint know peace with this narcissist... I am free, I am peaceful ✌ 😌 ☺
I'm happy for you...choose yourself everyday...May you hve the strength to keep keeping on 💪
It is well
Never look back, forgive and give moving for a better future. There may be dark days but than comes the morning, a new day.
And you are a warrior
That man was suffering from an inferiority complex and couldn't handle it. Thanks Susan for sharing this story. We all learn from it. Thanks Lynn this is divine 🙏
Never judge Single mums. By the time a woman is leaving her home, she has tried everything to no avail. To men, women are not reproductive machines to make you babies then discard them and pick someone else to enjoy life with while frustrating kids. It's painful! To Susan, you are so beautiful and neat. I couldn't help admiring you from head to toe. You look so Smart my namesake Waithira❤️
Well said I really feel her pain ..it ia strange for me to know that these things happen I thought that only I went through this stuff..my story is the same as she..The creator is so great
May God continue to heal her Ameen..this story hits so close to home for me..
Never judge.
Imagine wakili msomi going pole dance lesson to pls his man na bado haikusaidia take heart Suzy your boys are yours forever he is the one who loose
Very disturbing judgment of stopping a mum from breast feeding a baby!! Just so that the father can spend time with the baby!!! Strange!
The fact that she didn't expose the guy despite the trauma she went through, shows how mature she is. She is calm, beautiful and has a good sense of humour.
It hurts how the guy attacked the very things she can't change; her physical attributes, family, tribe, even her spirituality. He is evil through and through.
Susan, you have enlightened many people. Thank you.
Well no matter how bad the man treated her, he is still the father of her children. So as an adult, you put your adult/ relationship issues aside and put the children first. Chances are those children will still want to know and bond their dad despite what happened between the parents.
@@faridahfaddy4215 how do kids bond with an abusive father though? He even forced them to call someone else mum. This, ''he is still the father of her children,'' does not fly!
Ì pray for you Suzie God connect you to a right person in Jesus name.
We have almost the same stroy
Her ex-husband is a malignant narcissist. He is also very psychotic. Daddy Jesus, give Your daughters eyes of discernment. Amen. 🙏🏽
You can imagine how this man is handling cases that come before him ,the heart is dark but appears holy outwardly.
A story has 3 sides
The unfortunate thing is that people don't know who are narcissists what NPD is. Many abused people have had a narcissist partner. Let people get educated to be able to see the red flags early. May God bless you Waithera, God knows the truth and He will never leave you nor forsake you. You can't change narcissists, only God.
I cannot understand how someone could hate you to that extent..lets teach our girls to love themselves and know their worth.
@@matovuabu5215 what's your side of story?
“What will people say?” “What will the neighbours say about us?” At times parents focus on what people think about them as opposed to what is good for their children. We are so blinded by maintaining social status and image, we would rather die that allow people to see us at our worst.
She is beautiful, as she said she had to share her story and not to keep silence with it,in proverbs 10:10
Someone who holds back the truth causes trouble, but one who openly criticizes works for peace,she is blessed.
She is such a beautiful and brave woman. Narcissists are so poisonous
Tell me about it! My perspective exactly. Was a victim myself, now I can smell a Narcissist from miles away!
@@timnakemunto2046 we are learning. Arent we?
Toxic
Thank you Lynn for bringing Susan on the show. You have nailed it once again. She has made me realize that one has to remain positive & believe in one self even as one is passing through hell in a marriage set up. Susan really passed through hell in her marriage, it's good that she counseled herself & come out of the marriage a stronger person. Susan I love your relationship with God. Continue praying for your children. Take heart, God knows why he has allowed your children to be residing in two homes.
wow....this woman, I love her honesty. Sharing her pain, her truths, her experience. Sometimes family can fail you in the worst way but am glad she is coming out strong on the other side.
Greatness is always fought left, right and centre.. Your sons are hugely blessed! Susan you are a testimony!
Children always suffer the most in a divorce, especially when co parenting is not done in a mature way or lacks mutual understanding. Take heart mama may the lord give you strength.
As I am keenly listening to you, what comes clear about this man is he never loved you,this doesn't mean that no one loves you, so many people love you and God loves you even more. For sharing this story anyone who is contemplating marriage will be advised on self love in a way that she will know when a man loves her for what she is.
Lyn thank you for sharing this, I thought I was cursed, my story is just like hers but the difference was that I am not a lawyer and he is. That guy tormented me I have never recovered, sometimes I feel like my body is numb I can't feel anything 😪. This has given me the courage to keep being strong for my girls. Someday I will be brave and come out to tell people about my life.
Hugs dear
Pole mum
May The Lord restore to you what the evil one stole. The years, the courage and life.
Be strong dear
pole mum...hugs
It's wonderful how she remained strong for her kids....thanks for part 2 Lynn 👌
She is such a beautiful person, amazing voice,radiant personality! He was afraid of all the amazing things he knew you'd be.
Her voice is beautiful,her face is beautiful.He was just trying to demean and make her have self esteem but she came out strong
My exact sentiments the man wanted to destroy everything good left in her.
The man must be a narcissist
Awesome mama beautiful inside and out
My dear ladies from the mountain ⛰ region, 98% marriage between people from western region and mountain region always end in tears, there are so many factors that jeopardize this kind of relationship especially culture and stereotypical myths. It might starts so well with love, queen-like treatment and everything. Bt its a time bomb 💣. Daughters of Kirinyaga mountain ⛰, marry from your GEMA communities. Am not saying it will be perfect but there's 80% chances of Good marriage from that kind of marriage. Haya mwenye ameguzwa mawe zikuje 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️.
Susan, we thank God for you. You were able to break free from an abusive marriage, you will be fine. God in his mercy, will watch over your children. Your life is getting better and it will be well. Your strength and refuge is God and he never disappoints. A few years from today you will by law, have reclaimed your children. God will take care of you. Your children will turn out well. God will turn this whole experience to your good. Just wait and see.
In South Africa, children are open about co parenting experiences to their peers and friends.
I know it's difficult but I hope with time Kenyans ladies (from a global perception) will also accept co-parenting inconveniences so that the children will suffer less. I feel for you Susan, may the Lord uphold you and our children.
She has reminded me of when I made up my mind to leave my toxic job no one could stop me I was like a prisoner breaking free. So you hate your child for a man who has never given you a single coin. Our parents keep siding with pple who can never buy them even a coffin when they die.
Was looking for this comment. Susan's parents failed her from the very first, when she had to go back to school with the kid. They failed to let her know of her worth. I thank God that she is recovering.
@@annnyururu4670 and to think they are well off.They failed their daughter and grandkids.
@@annnyururu4670 sometimes parents discourage us
@@wanjiruciru6237 exactly, was expecting after amepata mtoto kaachwe home with a nanny. Bt unfortunately they were already ashamed of her and that's why they were forcing her to stay in a marriage even if she was abused.
This was so me I tried all I could to my marriage but waaa..I came to make peace with me and tell myself you know what 'marriage is not for me..'since then I'm OK on my own
At least you "swept the House" 😂 😂 that man was WICKED!
Sweeping that house made me feel a bit better too phewwww!!🤣🤣🤣 Such a beautiful inside out woman. Bless your heart Susan ❤
Lynn, I hope you never stop doing this.Susan is a beauty,I wish her the best
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Lynn you are such a blessing to the heart-broken. May God bless you abundantly and keep rewarding you with such amazing interview skills.
Post the judge's name! We need to know who did this! We need to know the judge who did this! You need a new judge! Petition to get a new judge! Maybe he paid the judge off.
I thought so too, maybe he paid or was receiving a payment monthly, Or hes also another man like her Ex husband. May God guide his daughters from such men in marriages to come
Akuna mahali mtu anaweza kustaki judge kama uyo?????just asking......
Yessss the idiot judge was clearly bribed 🥺🥺🥺
I agree
I have enjoyed your story my sister. Your sister from Uganda here. I know how sensitive making life decisions in our 20s is like and I fully understand your quagmires - you were very young and suddenly had to make life changing decisions at a less experienced age. We think we are old in our early 20s but we have hardly left our sheltered upbringing before we must face reality in the face. We are very lucky if we do it right at that age.
You were very advanced in your spiritual life at that time to have gotten to the point of being a praise and worship leader. Do you know that that is the end of our journey with God? Or the highest goal of our spiritual journey?! To arrive at a point of 'worshipping the Lord in Spirit and in truth?' Because it is also our biggest spiritual weapon and cover from the old age enemy of our souls? Therefore, to allow a bully, in the name of a husband take that away from you was the first mistake you made. Because if he takes that away from you, he will possess you. That is where he made you fall. Had you kept just that one thing, it would have turned everything around for you. Because, a man should never be allowed to remove your corner stone from you.
Plus bullies are really cowards. Had you stood your ground firmly on that one, he would have given up - just like your push and pull over the children was - he finally gives up. If he says relinquish your praise and worship session, which God has elevated you to and you agree, he will take anything else he wants and will bring you down to dancing with poles. And then you will realize: Eh, how far have I fallen?'
The lesson that young gal in her 20s had to learn to value was that her relationship with God was not negotiable. That is the strength of a woman who is married to a non-believer. And I call your husband a non- believer because if he was a believer, he would know that you cannot put asunder what God has put together, period. The only way he is allowed to divorce you is if you committed sexual immorality with another man. Shirt of that, now he is guilty of making you commit adultery should you remarry, and even the man who would marry you now would be committing adultery.
Wow, I'm speechless. Thanks for sharing your story so openly and honestly Susan. May God keep blessing you. Your past may be dark, but your future is bright.
a narcissist, an abuser gets closer to your inner circle, so they can kick you out also, they will also make your children hate you. Susan I love you! you're not alone. You're our hero!!! ( in that matter)
finally part two,i could listen to her talk all day,pole for the abuse ,i hope that man is regretting and sorry for what he did to you and your children
He is not regretting it because he is a malignant narcissist. He enjoys hurting her all these years because he is a sick entity. Smh
Karma never forgets. He is busy sharpening the knife. That man will one day get his match.
Sadly the narcissist don't get to regret of their actions. They always think they are right in everything they do.
He’s regretting only loosing such a perfect narcissistic supply
As I always say whenever you see a single mother give respect.
I have watched this late,years down but I am very much encouraged.Her names are exactly like my bestie, I passed something almost similar & having represented myself in court and got a fairer judgement and I am always lamenting on a few clauses & hiccups raising the child.I am more than shocked beyond words that a lawyer got worse orders.May God heal all the souls affected.
You're a strong woman God continue giving you the strength to overcome the pain much love 💞 💞 💞
Susan you are God's vessel why because God made you to go through all that so that you can serve others better.and understand them more.your career was well planned by HIM you are serving God through your job.you will go far keep moving
Well said .Your ministry lies in the place of your greatest trials.
I have been into this situation from.2014!my husband took the children!I tried children courts without any help!l have no money no legal advice no nothing!am broken!depressed!plz help
Dear Susan, God made you pass through fire n He never left you to be consumed. You are such an inspiration
😭😭😭i thought mine was worse then i came to learn this from Susan marriage......thanks mum for coming out to shame those kind of men even though we have some head harded women out there.Imagine a whole advocate going through this, what about us tuko chini ???sometimes some judgements are leaving kids traumatized
Lyn this advocate is amazing.... shes real and very very sharp...
I hope a judge hears this and rescues her children in time...
Sue, sorry for what you went through. Our cultures have failed to catch up with the changing world dynamics. We are in that point in our generation where marriage should be for two people who love and accommodates each other’s faults. We need to be prepared for such eventualities even in marriage and our day to day life.
I respect you Mama alot for that strength....and the moment she walk in her beauty captured me I love the way she looks personally ....she is so beautiful woman very...from her talk she seems more beautiful inside...what a lovely woman
A beautiful soul in the wrong hands. She did not deserve what I am hearing.
Amazing hair, amazing dress, amazing shoes, beautiful face 😍 . Madam Susan, you are very beautiful 😍 ❤ very very nice and beautiful voice as well. Wapi likes the beautiful susan?
I have never understood why people cut ties with you when a relationship break. Family and friends abandon you.
Thank for bring part one and two I really learned how to value a women and how are they being affected by rejection, toxic relationship and married to a wrong partner
This is a big lesson to all women,take courage Pretty lady 🙏🙏🙏
I am grateful that I got a chance to watch this episode. Thank you Susan for sharing your story. May God continue blessing you❤
Wale wa heri kulia Kwa range rover u still there? I know some woman who got everything even bodyguards but after bearing two kids, he has never seen the man, never had sex since she is always guarded by three bodyguards and now is 5 years counting, everything is provided for, only women friends are allowed to visit her. What kind of life is that? Let's be careful of choices we make. May God help those suffering in silence and just know there is always light at end of tunnel
What???
No Susan, he is not enjoying his life, he is a prisoner and one day karma will come to haunt your ex
I hope she knows how beautiful she is.. And what a lovely personality she has.. It doesn't help she resembles my mum like spot on😊But from the dust you will rise Wakili.. Thank you Lynn for bringing these stories to us young adults we learn so much every day ❤️
Susan you are an inspiration you are beautiful God knows why he took you through that ,nation will heal thru you, you are a great woman
Thank you Lynn, I believe God has a better plan for me that is why He allowed me to watch this interview. Hallelujah. Amen and Amen.
Susan is a beautiful lady both inside and out with wisdom from God.
Susan is a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul ❤her voice is so sweet. Her story is a real life reflection to many. God bless her 🙏
What an inspiring story as well as educative and she's strong Lynn big up for bringing us this
Weee kumbe sorry ufanana! hata watoto wangu ni age moja na wako nimepitia the same thing kitu tofauti ni wewe ulikua na job.. we are strong women mama May Almighty God help us
Wow wow Suzan you're a conqueror, a fighter, a believer, a winner, beautifully made in God's image. I love you Suzan, your story is uplifting. Thanks
Thank you Susan for sharing your story! Your inner beauty shines throughout the ENTIRE story!
Lynn, I can’t thank you enough for these impactful stories!
Hapa kwa watoi I feel that she is telling my story where a man was never in my life during pregnancy and the sickness that came with it never showed up when my son was born and became sick the next day and was in hospital for two months he refused to give his sir name to my son only to come back and took my baby when he was 10months when I was on business trip and I have not see my son for one year and I will not see him or his photos for some time until maybe I go children's court , I have cried for my kid but I believe God will see me through this it not easy.
Narcissistics are pretenders if Susan and she's a lawyer goes through all this without justice, now I understand the pain Virginia kamotho goes through about sex and how he get close to in law after separation 😥 kids suffer but all in all God faithful
When we separated, we agreed school time with mum and holiday with his dad. this plan has worked with us.
What a wonderful woman I'm really sorry for all that heartache you went through...there say anything which doesn't kill you makes you strong..May the Almighty God continue blessing you and your children..
And to you Lynn I can't thank you enough for the lessons you give me personally God bless you
Thank you Susan for the courage to let go.
Thank you Lynn, these shows are just so helpful.
I love your outfits Lynn.
The real help was from God is so profound ! So inspiring story from Susan . God's blessings
I genuinely love this woman
Think about this my sisters: Princess Diana went through heartbreak, shame, emotional abuse ect ect when she stood up and began living life as she chose they murdered her. We, women must ask the Lord for WISDOM.
Iam so sadned by your story you left me in tears this beyond human capacity may the good Lord give you strength to heal from all the evil he did to you thanks for believing in Yourself and trusting in God 🙏 your are a very great lady keep on praying you will surely see the better days ahead of you and your children
When I undergone abusive marriage,that's when I realized the importance of gal power.Imgn your rlsp breaking n you have nowhere to start.
Aki this is my case, my boys are with the dad n the new wife simply cz he's financially stable than I am, they kol her mum.... I personally talk to her when I want to talk to them cz she more approachable than the dad n I thank God cz tumebakisha 3 yrs wamalize shule wote... It has not been easy n the grace has been sufficient....... You will overcome Susan, keep praying mama
Susan, you are a woman of great strength and enduring personality. I thank God that there are people like you. I learned a lot in these two interviews. I doubt that your children will like their father when they're grown up. I personally would not even visit him if I were in their situation. To forgive a monster does not mean living with it.
I felt her on the part of trying to spice up the marriage. I'm divorce also and I tried to make it work myself but he left me anyway.
This story reminds me of Virginia. God is good that she was given her kids in one year. God bless you Susan for sharing your story. You are very strong and God fearing woman. May God fulfill your heart desires
Lynn, you are such an amazing person. You're doing a great 👍 job. Keep it up girl.
Sorry Susan that you had to go through such a marriage, I am happy to see that you are a strong in your faith for to know God & to believe in Him is great empowerment. Sadly I also live with a covert narcissist but he isn't as extreme as your ex, gosh yours was terrible!! its like the evil boils from deep inside their souls & are so empty & hopeless but once they step outside the house they pretend to be the 'saint' ! So generous out there with his time & money, so caring & concerned...I mean is like an angel...how then can anyone believe me if I start sharing what I go through behind closed doors😢...but there's God in heaven who sees & knows it all & am sure He will come through for me & reveal the way forward in my life🙏.
Let me applaud you for ur courage ,strenght n resilience susan .u r an hero for coming out to share your story.
One thing I know is that karma never fails, lets keep our fingers cross soon all shall be revealed and His name shall be glorified. No man can eat his cake and have it cause God is no respecter of anybody whether you are a lawyer or judge. He's the Supreme Judge and his judgments are final! Sending you ma'am love and warm hugs from Nigeria.
I can identified Ina mother way with her but God has healed my heart am a strong woman in God and so He still have the best partner for me I life all my life for The Lord.
She has a very good voice.
Strong woman.
God rescued her from the devil himself.
I wish her all the best that life has to offer
Jesus, never on this earth May God give you strength to carry on. Women empowerment. Amaandla
Wababa! Majibaba! Libaba!Gulibaba! Kujibaba!!! If you can't stay with someone's daughter please allow them to take the peaceful gates, my hugs Susan.
Thank God one of my in-laws is used to pack his bag & go he don't do fights.
This man is spiteful and wicked. He is also manipulative. He has a heart of stone. It will come back to haunt him.
You can imagine Susan went through all that as a lawyer. What about just an ordinary woman. May God take control
Wow, we serve a God of recompense may He vindicate you. As a fellow family advocate am sure it pains when you know you had an appellable case but rules of procedure on timelines are against you and you cannot review the orders either. And she is right it's very absurd for a magistrate to order her not to breastfeed her child. I applaud you counsel I know it is not easy to even share this story. God heal you mama and your children
That magistrate handling her case and the kids ,that bad husband must be paying the magistrate to frustrate her,its time she gets justice and the boys
was really waiting the part 2
Me too
You were married to a narc...He knew you were strong and hence wanted to break you...Him becoming close to your people is a case of him recruiting flying monkeys...Been there n last year (2021) at some point i felt so alone, my friends gone n taking sides,my family n for a moment i missed my late dad as i felt he is the only person who would have understood me...Since covid happened to last year,i have been chased 4 times during curfew times...the last time i got late as i had gone to make my nails n yet i had left after i had cooked dinner n told him i was going to make nails since i was traveling the following day n the gal who makes my nails was busy the whole day...when i came back i was told to go back to where i had come n he started calling me names telling me i am from sleeping with men...called people n told them i am from sleeping outside like really?
Anyway,i am so glad you finally got yourself together n on a path of healing.Thank you for being brave enough to share your story..May the Lord continue elevating you n your sons..
A God send wakili as a game changer to all women who are really suffering in the so called marriages!
Sue is my personal friend and former schoolmate. She’s a strong strong lady and this whole story is just a tip of the iceberg!!! She’s been through so so much more than she can narrate on the show. celebrate you sue and God will take you to great heights
Thank you for being there for her
So so sad she's so beautiful may God wipe all the tears she has cried. God has your back. Your life and future is bright
Continue being there for her. I already like her!
Hugs to her
She's a very strong lady, I salute her. God will give you beauty for ashes. The best is yet to come. God will wipe her tears.
This is my former boss..Such a great woman and mentor!. hearing your story has made me cry ..I now understand why you passionate about family matters. You are a great lawyer. You are strong and Destined for greatness.. my take away is Know God . God bless you.
You gonna get a husband who will look at you as the only thing in the world. God has a purpose for everything. You're beautiful mommy
Do you know the husband?
I remember we met the guy while working with her we never liked him even at the wedding the guy was just there more like a forced guest
Relating 100%
Strong woman of God. You are so beautiful!! in and out. God bless you
Thank you Susan. Your husband did not hate you, As someone has mentioned, he could not stand the light you brought in his home. You are an angel!
This came right from the beginning when she frist did the marriage preparation by her own and later buying almost the entire house hold items. This made her ex to become jealous with hate as a result
Well spoken
EXACTLY...!!!
Thank you
He was intimidated by her beauty and wisdom. Even coming from a wealthy family was a problem to him.
To Susan, you deserve to be celebrated, if you went through all that and yet you have the courage to come up and share, you have slot of grace over your life. You're such a beautiful lady. Even your smile tell how beautiful your heart is. That abuser needed his eyes checked. Only a blind person can say otherwise about your beautiful. Also Incase God gives you the desire to marry again, you're still young and your Adam is still searching for you. God will cause him to locate you. Keep up with your faith in God.
Perfectly said, his eyes have problem, This issue needs intervention for susan to get her kids
True
Amen you can say that again,she's a Beautiful woman.
Very very beautiful. And her voice is lovely too.
Say it loud! She’s very beautiful 😍
I'll say this again: the number 1 duty of parents is to protect their child. This woman's parents let her down. No two ways about it. No justification for bonding with their daughter's abuser, while at the same time discarding their own daughter. Let's not sugar coat the toxicity of the parents in "they were worried about society's perception after the marriage breakdown". End of.
Could agree more💯
Very sad.
You can say that again! Her parents let her down big time. However, being an artoney, I dont understand how and why she couldnt go against her parents decision and just walk away.
What is marriage again? To cause all this pain?
A very touching story God is at work to comfort you
The day we stop socialising girls and women to view marriage as an achievement and status in the society is the day our girls and women will break free!what an inspiring story and kudos to Lynn for the platform 💞💞💞💞
The society norms must change our sisters are suffering in the name of marriage.
His carma is on its way
What do you mean achievement? Marriage is to get children and keep as your husband and father to your kids. Parents needs to train children in good manners. Enslaved men that it his parents issues in that man now make it his wife suffer!
Parents stop abusive children cause once the grow up their will abusive everyone , friends to wife's
Yes we need to gets children and we need husband as father. If your husband has mental issues cause he was abusive traumatic from his childhood. Stop abuse children so we can have good wife and husband. We need marriage.everywoman needs own man
If they were real punishment for those abusive they would suffer own childhoods traumatic inside and cannot do anything in life jobless,loss things in life. because no punishment to abusive traumatic man..NOW HE MAKE OTHER ONE TO SUFFER IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE OR IN THE NAME OF FATHERHOOD. Please stop abusive child...once they become adult s they will harm the countries people
Susan just broke so many women out of so many spiritual prisons. Thank you, Lynn, for the FULL story!
Susan you are a very strong woman. You are helping so many women with your testimony. You were good enough. And let me tell you. Prayers are the Answer. This forum will save many . Lyn this is good.
Lord have mercy
Just a love prison
Your husband didn't hate you, he hated the light that shines through you, the light that has strengthened and guided you through this journey as it wattles the demons operating in him but his time is up. He is about to vanish in the redsea like Pharaoh and his chariots! You are beautiful, You are strong and the apple of ABBA YAH'S Eye! 🙏🏾
Hallelujah 🙌🙏
Oh yes, I wish she reads this comment.
i couldnt have said it better
Amen. Some men cannot stand strong women.
In the first video of Suzan's story at exactly 15minutes 34 and 35seconds, THE HOLY SPIRIT Reveals HIMSELF out of no where flies above her head. She was saying she couldn't imagine Her son with out a father, How? And at that point WHITE DOVE flew HALLELUYAH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
As a Kenyan, that name FIDA, sends chills up my skin. I will one day speak about mine. Lynn, you should have a writing segment then you can reach a wider audience. I will one day speak.
Advice young gals crazy to run to FIDA
I think I have to tell you mine first so that we can weigh 🤣