My Husband would say I was the ugliest woman he has ever seen, tried drowning me and left | LNS

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  • For the very first time, Njeri wa Migwi is letting the world in on her most kept secrets. Her marriage at a very young age, her most trying moments, faking a smile for the public, walking away, getting married again, walking away once again and deciding to finally put herself and her beautiful children first
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    Dear Team LN,
    I have to admit, having partnered with Njeri wa Migwi on several shows, I never knew she had gone through so much.
    How can a woman who rescues so many peolpe be so selfless knowing very much she was facing her own demons.
    To me Njeri has become a sister, a friend and someone whose work I truly admire.
    As we get to listen to her story, please see how best we can also support her initiative, Usikimye, a safe safe for victims of Sexual and Gender Based Violence through
    Paybill : 891300 Ac 52916
    Account Usikimye
    Mpesa Line: 0718158400 (Arleen Njeri)
    Help line : 0800000999
    Thank you so much for watching❤️

    • @mercyedith1383
      @mercyedith1383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi Lynn,how can someone reach Her for counselling?not for me,but for my son

    • @KuiWaKamau
      @KuiWaKamau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Njeri Wa Migwi's story is so incredibly sad 💔😥 I am glad that she was able to get out of that Toxic Marriage, strong enough to save so many victims through #Usikimye
      Let's come together & hold her up by supporting her initiative. God bless You Njeri Wa Migwi. Thank You Lynn for this show. 🙌💕🌻

    • @sarahnthenya9260
      @sarahnthenya9260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Njeri is so beautiful ..veeeeerry
      Physically and at heart

    • @tcuguh
      @tcuguh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lynn pia kuna their M-changa i use it often & its handy for diaspora ❤🎉

    • @janetwanga1242
      @janetwanga1242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey lynn nakupenda bure

  • @prisswangu4562
    @prisswangu4562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    I have looked at this lady the whole interview, her smile, her composure... Everything about her is absolutely beautiful. I wish she would smile at the mirror and see how beautiful it is. She's incredibly strong and am happy she's found her peace. 👏👏👏👏

    • @georgewanjohi70
      @georgewanjohi70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Honestly yes. Infact if Njeri is ugly, what does beautiful look like?

    • @carolynn8359
      @carolynn8359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Her eyes are cuuuute....her face in general is pretty 😍 she is gorgeous

    • @degrahomambia1599
      @degrahomambia1599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She is beutiful and lovely and amezing

    • @catherinewanjiku4754
      @catherinewanjiku4754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@degrahomambia1599 amazing and she is the best

    • @prayerlover7672
      @prayerlover7672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was thinking the same. She has a SMILE that lights up a room. She is just BEAUTIFUL

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Your dad is the best.. he never badmouthed your mother to you guys and, instead, focused on nurturing you the best way he could. Salute to him and other single fathers who make the difficult choices to be with their children

    • @fiyozablefaithmusic
      @fiyozablefaithmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      keyword "difficult choice" I honor such men too ❤️

    • @mollyakinyi2282
      @mollyakinyi2282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad was the best I really miss him much

  • @peninnahmwalili8518
    @peninnahmwalili8518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The dad wears the crown for me! He stood by the daughter through the biggest storm of her life. And happy the she finally be herself.

  • @winycynthia1094
    @winycynthia1094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    How can anyone not love this woman.... She is phenomenal and an entire powerhouse

    • @anneketu6860
      @anneketu6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God loves her most ✌️

    • @christinemuga9956
      @christinemuga9956 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True she is phenomena

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's exactly why....he could not handle her value

  • @bossb8989
    @bossb8989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    “Just because I come from brokenness doesn’t mean I can’t hold a home together.” Those words… only one who comes from a background of brokenness would know how true & loud they ring to the ear.

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But that brokenness is what has caused her to be victimized by abusers over and over. From husbands to cousins conning her.

    • @jobmary2140
      @jobmary2140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're right. At 48.... married once for about 2yrs. And I'm proud to be single.

    • @nyamburatheuri7739
      @nyamburatheuri7739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @rosemarymukwanyara7942
      @rosemarymukwanyara7942 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please l want to meet you or give your number.

    • @SusanWanjiku33
      @SusanWanjiku33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

  • @jacdez3520
    @jacdez3520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    The husband called her ugly because she was pretty. He’s a insecure abuser.

    • @sheilamarangu
      @sheilamarangu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You boosted ur husband ego by not leaving. That's what narcissists feed on

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely

    • @sinikiwengindi7677
      @sinikiwengindi7677 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      because SHE IS PRETTY

  • @janetkumwenda7996
    @janetkumwenda7996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I think Njeri's first husband should be sued for attempted murder and abuse. He deserves to face the law. Njeri is also entitled to 50% of the wealth they acquired together. I don't know about the law in Kenya but this story is very upsetting that he got away with everything. Well done Njeri your future is in the hands of God. God loves you. Keep up the good work.

    • @dottynight
      @dottynight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kenyan courts are very very slow and corrupt . Assuming she gets her day in court- which is a very expensive process, her ex will claim he provided solely for the children. Since the law in Kenya needs both parents to provide, it will be assumed that he covered her part. Therefore he owes her nothing. It's sad. But I tell every woman in Kenya, to ask and know the legal aspects of marriage and divorce BEFORE the marriage

    • @BRiGHT-CHilD
      @BRiGHT-CHilD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It might seem he has gotten away with everything but I assure you, he will pay for everything. Vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dottynight Thanks for the update. I am writing from South Africa and did not know the law is different in Kenya. Very sad indeed. The system needs to be revised. The story leaves those who aspire to get married worried about the future.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BRiGHT-CHilD Yes, I have seen it happen over and over again. Indeed vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @lucyinglis7463
      @lucyinglis7463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes the beautiful woman he got married to...is most likely the one who will send him to his grave. He keep thinking all women will be dominated like his first wife, but he will be very wrong.
      Or God might make him eat grass like the king in the Holy Bible.

  • @caroakosa9221
    @caroakosa9221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It's sad am watching this a week after we buried a 33 year old in our village who committed suicide coz she was tired of her husband's emotional/ verbal abuse. She kept telling her friends, NIMECHOKA NA MATUSI.
    She didn't have to die. If it's not working, PLEASE LEAVE.

  • @nancykimani8427
    @nancykimani8427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    I know Njeri personally, we met in our 20s in church and had no idea she's gone through so much. Only knew about her baby girl's premature birth and miracle healing. I'm glad that you've come out strong and are still bubbly and have not lost your sense of humour. My dear Njeri, you're beautiful inside and out. Thank you for speaking out and for what you are doing to help others. Kudos 👍👏👏👏

    • @mugishad9669
      @mugishad9669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      L

    • @Sylvia-sd4mf
      @Sylvia-sd4mf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So who s this husband? Lets c his name

    • @damarisgakuru7213
      @damarisgakuru7213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this lady she's just fantastic , she has a big heart too with lovely eyes

  • @martynkalasya9749
    @martynkalasya9749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I hv nvr come across a woman praising her dad 4 bringing her up single handedly like this woman, thats a plus + 4me.kudos

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Most men don’t do that but I am sure those brought up by single dads appreciate that more than ever because it’s not the norm in our African society

    • @judykihuria6075
      @judykihuria6075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      There is a time my mum left for 2 years and dad ( may his soul rest in peace) took good care of us. Had the best dad in the world.

    • @bettya4601
      @bettya4601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I always do! Always and may he rest in perfect peace

    • @blaquecinderella3560
      @blaquecinderella3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Canadianlove they do it just that they don't mehemehe about it like women. You will be surprised

    • @phyllisplays3811
      @phyllisplays3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me and my other siblings were brought up by my dad after my mum die for 10years before he remarried,so there are wonderful men doing great job out there..

  • @winniem8115
    @winniem8115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    ' Let me stay for my kids. '.....This statement is the downfall of many mothers in abusive marriages. So sad

    • @elizabethwangari9644
      @elizabethwangari9644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

    • @JacklynJuma-lr7jr
      @JacklynJuma-lr7jr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very much so

    • @lonitenten
      @lonitenten 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pretty Woman sympath. Your ex. was sick. This is the reason why we African Woman should not depend on Men. Learn a Job be independend.

    • @isobelndoro
      @isobelndoro หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes 😢

  • @paulineobianuko3390
    @paulineobianuko3390 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One of the greatest lessons to teach a girl child is to have selfworth and not leive by other people's opinions

  • @angellakoki8954
    @angellakoki8954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I wish one day I'll get the strength to tell my story because seeing this takes me back to it (same script different casts) so many women are six feet under because they didn't walk away and I almost became part of that statistic...I hope women love themselves enough to walk away from abuse.

    • @jobmary2140
      @jobmary2140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Men go through the same too. I know a lot with similar story.

    • @NjeriMariiyu
      @NjeriMariiyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      May God give you the grace and strength 💓.

    • @bettyndungu5187
      @bettyndungu5187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What an incredible human being🤭🙄
      Njeri,you are beautiful inside out.Push forward and never never go back to abusers.
      Make yourself comfortable with yourself and your children🙏🏿

    • @Afr1canQueen
      @Afr1canQueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You got out and that was a brave move. One needs more than strength to do what you did.

    • @nyamburanjengah5797
      @nyamburanjengah5797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jobmary2140 get a forum and share the story too. No one shud suffer in silence

  • @tubtarax7757
    @tubtarax7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thank you Njeri, from today I’ll try my best not to hurt any woman. It’s so sad that some people develop trauma bonding, instead of leaving the abuser.

    • @aokookello5564
      @aokookello5564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Try or purpose in your heart?

    • @mariawanjiru1275
      @mariawanjiru1275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is beautiful I can tell

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you and pray to God to help you

  • @lynekyampire7843
    @lynekyampire7843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This reminds me of how my mother in-law said am small and short thus i can't fit to be his sons wife...she made sure i can't move on with his son yet i was already pregnant for his son ,,his son woke up one day and told me leave i no longer need you in my life ..
    5 years now of being a single mother ,,but that statement still tortures my mind ,,i have never believed am beautiful no matter how ppl tell me that am more beautiful ...it still hurts me

    • @mercymumbi958
      @mercymumbi958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray for your healing in Jesus Name Lyne. You are beautiful. Please say to yourself how beautiful you are every day. Words have power. You are beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️

    • @lynekyampire7843
      @lynekyampire7843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mercymumbi958 thank you so much Mercy

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Find out what your creator says about you, dear, not what some random evil woman said about you. Find your identity in Christ.

  • @rebeccawandia6240
    @rebeccawandia6240 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The fact that this incredible woman can narrate all this with a lot of confidence and smiling means a lot.She has healed,she is over it,,you are blessed mama

  • @Stwairimu
    @Stwairimu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Lynn, this lady Arlene, that's what I call her...took me in with my 3 kids when I was struggling in ministry. She took very good care of us. feeding us, clothing us. I remember there's a term she paid my kids fees. She loved us through that difficult time. She went out of her way by helping me get my own house. Njeri has a very big heart, all this she did for me while struggling with the abuse of her x husband. Am so happy for you Arlene. That you can now talk about it, means you are finally free to reach out to many more Njeris. May God continue lifting and using you..Shine on gal👏👏👏💪💪💪

  • @HardlyTalk
    @HardlyTalk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Can we appreciate Mr. Migwi for his consistency as a parent, solid as a rock. This story is so powerful and am glad she told it. She is light despite experiencing darkness. More power to you Njeri Migwi

  • @Huntressgaming498
    @Huntressgaming498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Omg this woman, i saw her at some poetry event.and i loved her!!her personality, confidence wow.cant believe a man tried breaking her confidence and she still came out on top

    • @cynthiaherah7510
      @cynthiaherah7510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excellent interview ..she's beautiful indeed. My thing is if you are not allowed to speak up for yourself in a marriage...then run

  • @janealala1332
    @janealala1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Why did that man tell Njeri wa Migwi that she is ugly? She is beautiful. I loved every minute of this show. What an amazing lady, mother and mother of 4 cats. Initially I got to know her because of our love for cats, then I discovered her organization and the great work that she does. Amazing woman she is.

    • @simplicityseeu
      @simplicityseeu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because he is a monster and was insecure. That’s what controlling abusers do. They try to lower your self esteem and then they isolate you from friends and family.

    • @lucygikonyo2437
      @lucygikonyo2437 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True she's beautiful

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna9653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    There is always pain behind 99% of smiles.The rejection she faced while young is her greatest undoing

  • @angelinambithe7302
    @angelinambithe7302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    That part "mummy where is the rest of the house?" Killed me 😃
    Wah aky life

    • @vantbakdesigns1496
      @vantbakdesigns1496 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is he a goat? The mirraa driver🤣

    • @Alba-Shi
      @Alba-Shi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And ..."is he a goat 🐐??🤣🤣🤣

    • @joycenamakula2176
      @joycenamakula2176 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂 me too

  • @emmaculatemenzeiwa
    @emmaculatemenzeiwa หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    OH MY GOD, SHE WAS MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST. THANK GOD SHE IS FREE

    • @joycenamakula2176
      @joycenamakula2176 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      True, the guy was a narcissist!😢

  • @anenaevaline9761
    @anenaevaline9761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This woman is super beautiful. I can't believe someone would say she's ugly. Her smile is breathtaking.

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    If you're out there watching this video & going through similar situations, you deserve better. I pray you get out safely🙏🙏🙏

  • @patricianabende7674
    @patricianabende7674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I remember this lady. She was so bubbly and told me the story of her daughter and that story stayed with me. This story has really touched me. Your dad is an angel

  • @nettiemafunga9400
    @nettiemafunga9400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I agree 100% that if a man is abusing his wife he tries by all means to be good to her relatives so that they will have difficulty believing the woman who is being abused. Wicked thing to do.

  • @bcaiqs
    @bcaiqs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “Leave tables where love is not served“ powerful words !!!
    Njeri you are beautiful inside and out !! God bless you and continue to direct your path . 🙏🏿

  • @AmayaRue2360
    @AmayaRue2360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Reminds me of my ex. He would describe my ugly nose, pimples etc especially when l was pregnant. 😤 I am so happy to be free of that emotional abuser

    • @life-tech-talks
      @life-tech-talks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hugs

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Narcissist are worst creatures if someone hasn't met one ..they know nothing of different abuse.let me salute myself I rescued myself from one who keeps coming back to me.

    • @jacklinekabali9623
      @jacklinekabali9623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Even me the father of my first born used to abuse that he helped me to marry me but am not his class,am very urgly with big chics

    • @barbaraolesi1079
      @barbaraolesi1079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so sorry that you had to go through that and I pray that you have since healed.

    • @AmayaRue2360
      @AmayaRue2360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jacklinekabali9623 hugs sis 🫂

  • @rebeccahmbote2135
    @rebeccahmbote2135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Who feels that the lady's name should be JOVIAL.she is such a darling 💕

  • @lethiwevinjwa7247
    @lethiwevinjwa7247 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love how this woman narrates her story.. Her composure is empaccable

  • @nyamburaadventures_ke
    @nyamburaadventures_ke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is soo touching.A clear evidence that material possessions do not really equate to a good life in some circumstances.

  • @nomkhosizondo5548
    @nomkhosizondo5548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This woman is beautiful the man she got married to had his own insecurities...toxic people can infect you with negativity

  • @danydanie1098
    @danydanie1098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I’m not even Kenyan…so I couldn’t understand Swahili. I finished the whole video…I laughed, cried and I learned. She’s deeply courageous and she’s a true gem 👏👏👏👏👏.Njeri you are beautiful❤️👏👏👏👏👏.

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought this is in English except for only a few phrases here and there

    • @danydanie1098
      @danydanie1098 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ladysafari01 oh yes. It's English...I should've been specific of course in my comment. Also I think I was also thinking about the other videos I watched that same day that had a lil more Swahili in it. But anyone can understand the progression of the story when they switch back to English later on. I understood and enjoyed them all at the end. And I noticed some also have translations so it helps. Have a good day.

  • @JENNIFERAOKECH
    @JENNIFERAOKECH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "LEAVE TABLES WHERE LOVE IS NO LONGER BEING SERVED." Thank you again Njeri, for sharing your story and reaching out to those struggling with effects of GBV. You are a great person, you deserve the best, beautiful, brilliant lady.

  • @theprayingcitizen7441
    @theprayingcitizen7441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This has taught me to respect ,treat kindly,pray quietly for even people I do not know what hell they are going through in life.

  • @maphuthakhosa3510
    @maphuthakhosa3510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Your dad is an ANGEL! A destiny Helper, encourager, protector, etc. This love is too oooo much.

  • @pollynjonge2087
    @pollynjonge2087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It may take years to walk out of marriage. It is the hardest thing to do.But that feeling of peace means everything.

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    First of all this woman has a sense of humour. She's also a good story teller. It's a pity but so many women have gone through it and very many still going through it. Thanks for sharing.

  • @sheila1391
    @sheila1391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This woman right here is force to reckon with. We are inspired by all you do to help those who haven't mastered their courage yet ❤️❤️❤️

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Njeri wa Migwi is an amazing woman! Your husband was insecure about himself & that's why the belittling 💔God put a great ministry in you and we stan you Queen❤️👑

  • @murugithecook
    @murugithecook 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    I just want an hour with these two amazing ladies. To cry uninterrupted, tap from their wisdom, refocus and get my life back together. Until you're abused this never makes sense. I mean this gives me chills down the spine. I wasn't physically abused but all the emotional abuse, mental abuse reflects on your body.. how ended up on anxiety pills till now will remain a story.

    • @bilhacherop2315
      @bilhacherop2315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hopefully your wish will be granted🙏

    • @kawira444
      @kawira444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      njere your very beautiful🎉,God bless you for all that your doing

    • @bethruga2556
      @bethruga2556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lynn Ngugi, Njeri Wa Migwi

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hello Murugi,
      Kindly send me an email, lynnngugi4@gmail.com

    • @gracenyaboke8483
      @gracenyaboke8483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hugs Murugi

  • @josephinewanjiku7406
    @josephinewanjiku7406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are incredibly amazing Njeri. I love that you haven't wasted your pain but by the grace of God have turned it into a mission for saving others in related circumstances. Working with women in addressing ACES and trauma has taught me that, trauma bond is the real glue that sticks a victim to the abuser and it's the hardest to break in domes abuse and violence. I wish you the best as you continue to heal. I can totally relate. I am walking on this path too for self and with fellow women. Keep at it as long as it takes. I thank God every time I see someone get to rise above their story!❤️. Keep up the good work
    Thanks Lynn for having Njeri. Keep up the good work too.

  • @joycekarimi2787
    @joycekarimi2787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Her smile is beautiful....it's easy to believe something when it's constantly said to you even when it's not true and one thing she believed is that she's not beautiful and that for sure is a lie. She's one beautiful woman both physically and heart wise. Am so glad she finally decided to let all the hiden pain out...speaking up to all that she's carried all this time was a goo dc decision...Am proud of her

  • @sheerow371
    @sheerow371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Those people out there calling single mothers names without even knowing how difficult it is to walk out of their marriage should now relate to this story. Before a woman walks out of her marriage she has seen it all, think twice before you call that single mother names..

    • @dancynancy8854
      @dancynancy8854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Break up is not an easy thing but my dear happiness is a choice....if you are in a relationship to pliz the other one and in your side you are not happy it's good you quit....

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly.Most people insult and abuse single mothers not knowing exactly what these women go through.I wish people would learn to be kind to single mothers instead of being abusive

    • @sheerow371
      @sheerow371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dancynancy8854 my point is single mothers should be respected not call them names, they have already gone through a lot , they leave to look for peace..

    • @Jojo-pv3uf
      @Jojo-pv3uf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In her case, she was a single mother from the start. She never legally married the man. She ran away from home and stayed there, even parents didn’t bless this marriage (from her own admissions). Once again; when you do things out of the will of God, bad things happen. When you disobey your parents like she did, bad things happen. If she had taken her time to grow up, she won’t have chosen this man. But the choice was hers and she made it, and it led to some horrible consequences.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Jojo-pv3uf you’re so silly

  • @franciscaotieno429
    @franciscaotieno429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an inspiration Lynn,this lady is amazing and for sure those who cling to abusive relationships to learn from this.LONG LIVE MIGWI.God bless you

  • @unclesamthepreacher
    @unclesamthepreacher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Njeri we were inn the same church. You really supported my wedding and your daughter coloured the Day. And all along never knew you going through all that. I am convinced you are destined for greatness. Hold your Head up high. You transforming lives and I celebrate you

  • @Karol_Lynne
    @Karol_Lynne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A woman i admire so much for the incredible work she does..I always wondered where she got her strength from but never imagined that she went through hell herself

  • @yvonnemungai4463
    @yvonnemungai4463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    She was destined for greatness.... and i have noticed when you are great the devil brings a crazy spouse with soul ties,bondages...

  • @seerajovitah247
    @seerajovitah247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder this woman is beautiful to me I love her eyes

  • @laniaquaccoo1214
    @laniaquaccoo1214 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am honestly looking at this woman and said what a beautiful smile…. How in this world anyone can call her ugly…

  • @gracemugare2936
    @gracemugare2936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    We used to be together at JCC and listening to you now I understand you. I thought you were a snob. I came to see your child at Marter hospital. You served God diligently. Nice to see you Njeri

  • @liliannyapolo8850
    @liliannyapolo8850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Everyone has a story that we don't know; let's be kind to one another!

    • @opulencecreators9362
      @opulencecreators9362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, would have loved to hear the man's story,...

    • @marynyambura7477
      @marynyambura7477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True dea

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@opulencecreators9362 he’s story is that he’s abusive end of story

    • @stargate356
      @stargate356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mweusimrembo890 😂😂

    • @life-tech-talks
      @life-tech-talks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opulencecreators9362 lol

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lynn asking her “you are working towards what?” As a survivor of horrendous domestic abuse… It is very hard to think of self love or being beautiful…. Particularly when you have been told you are ugly & no one will ever love you.
    Unless you have walked in those painful DV shoes, you can never truly understand…
    What an amazing, resilient woman Njeri is! God bless her & her children.

  • @karenmutune1178
    @karenmutune1178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Leave tables where love is nolonger served.... I'm leaving tomorrow
    Thank you Njeri
    ❤️

  • @janendungu1663
    @janendungu1663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Nothing hurts a person's more than verbal and emotional abuse. It lowers one self esteem and value on oneself. Thanks Njeri for standing in the gap for all those going through any form of abuse.
    Your story has triggered so many emotions but one day I shall live to tell my story.

    • @lilianmoraa9621
      @lilianmoraa9621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This one breaks you like shiet

    • @debratyrell9616
      @debratyrell9616 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you..it almost sent me crazy

    • @estherwangui9164
      @estherwangui9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can testify,I contemplated suicide so many times,I hated myself,I hated life 😔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.I thank God for the grace of courage to leave 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      The journey to healing is not easy,a day at a time

    • @keziahosuala8372
      @keziahosuala8372 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @mjimgaamwingine1672
      @mjimgaamwingine1672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Money buy everything

  • @mwendevibes
    @mwendevibes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love what Njeri is doing, she deserves everything good in this life.

  • @wakiomwangi5462
    @wakiomwangi5462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    But she is so beautiful...her smile ,her eyes...she is amazing with a heart bigger than any one else I have met

  • @alicenjoroge4021
    @alicenjoroge4021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She's beautiful inside-out and I was privileged to be in the audience to listen to this story ❤️

  • @giftytengey2066
    @giftytengey2066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I am really encouraged by the role her dad played in her life. He knew she wasn't in a good place and so did everything to support her to go back to school. Even to the extent of taking care of her young son. I APPLAUD YOU DAD 👏 . An example to every parent to support their children no matter their stubbornness. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @patriciachakawatah2787
    @patriciachakawatah2787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Congratulations Lynn Ngungi on your first live show ... You're the next Oprah Winfrey 👏👏👏

    • @nightallen4704
      @nightallen4704 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She doesn't need to be Oprah! She's better

  • @cholhoknaam1539
    @cholhoknaam1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would buy her book. 🙂😊💞 Such a powerful story of resilience. Those who are strong also need to be cared for.

  • @lynnetgathoni2940
    @lynnetgathoni2940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sometimes is better to be poor and be in a happy relationship that being rich and be in a domestic relationship 😔..win win Njeri migwi 🥳

  • @Prisca.W
    @Prisca.W 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Just here to remind y’all that whenever a person tells you you’re not beautiful/handsome, the authority belongs to you,you only get to decide that.I love these two phenomenal ladies so much.

  • @violetkwamboka1195
    @violetkwamboka1195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    lynn she is so beautiful let her know that . she does not need anyone's opinion to tell her beautiful

    • @donahchemtai4158
      @donahchemtai4158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For sure she is pretty

    • @Kaswity2000
      @Kaswity2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly she's so beautiful n a beautiful heart also❤️❤️💃

    • @violetkwamboka1195
      @violetkwamboka1195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kaswity2000 very much i love her

    • @thandiwemseteka3963
      @thandiwemseteka3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Njeri you are indeed very beautiful. Your first husband must have been too blind to see your beauty.

  • @lilacjoseph9509
    @lilacjoseph9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman is the most beautiful human being have ever seen.......inside and outside she is beautiful

  • @annnjoki5868
    @annnjoki5868 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Coming from a broken family too as a child, acceptance and trying to prove that it can work out is something you struggle with..

  • @fancylangat7994
    @fancylangat7994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This mama doesn't know how beautiful she is,inner and outer beauty. God bless you Njeri.

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ugly wapi. Girl toto is eye candy. camera friendly and above all, good heart exuding inner beauty

  • @annmimo37
    @annmimo37 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Isn't it beautiful to watch one shake off the dust of a past storm with such undefeated demeanor and a beautiful smile 😊?such an incredible inspiration ❤

  • @catherinequill7811
    @catherinequill7811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This lady is so nice and witty.... ugh people can be monsters..... thanx Lyn for sharing their stories.. I hope she heals and gets the love she deserves......

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Was eagerly waiting for this segment 😍If things don't work out my kids are always welcome home❤️Big up to her Dad

    • @shikowarui6390
      @shikowarui6390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally agree, her dad is truly the best 👌

    • @eunicechacha4052
      @eunicechacha4052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That's what dad told me,and came for me and my girl at the bus station..I am forever grateful to him

    • @nyamburam240
      @nyamburam240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @gladysmoraa4818
      @gladysmoraa4818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eunicechacha4052 thank your dad is very good man

    • @felistasnjeri2196
      @felistasnjeri2196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very very important

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This girl, even after her pain, she can still smile... Quite an encouragement

    • @mhunja
      @mhunja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You would never have known what she was going through. That smile was constant, she was always radiant. I know her as a strong and admirable person, always pushing forward.

  • @carolyneluttah1903
    @carolyneluttah1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I have had a nasty narcissistic experience this year and this is such an eye opener. It is super hard to leave an abusive person because of the bond. They hurt you with their words and only they can heal you with their words. It's messed up its hard to believe that such things happen. Sorry Njeri. Glad you can talk about it.

    • @mercyomolewa220
      @mercyomolewa220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      No. Only God can heal you with His word. You don't give those people that much power.

  • @bethmwasya1310
    @bethmwasya1310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have watched this more than 3 times I can't get enough of it she's such a beautiful soul be blessed Njeri

  • @joymaggy3295
    @joymaggy3295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    what a story ,she is a good orator not a dull moment listening to her story ,a beautiful and strong woman ,hugs Njeri.

  • @murungaruchris245
    @murungaruchris245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The only reason I had to watch the whole program is the fact the girl is still fighting at 16 and with all she has gone through she took home a B+😭😭😭 there's hope and I'll serve this God to my last breathe

  • @DineoC
    @DineoC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, not because of the struggles Njeri went through but because of the grace this woman carries. I wish I can give her a huge hug. Epitome of a real woman. Love from the U.S. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL SISTER!! Lyn you’re doing an amazing job, God bless you!

  • @wambuikarori
    @wambuikarori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A whole powerful. Ahhh, so proud of Njeri. Thank you Lynn for amplifying voices.

  • @Krizadh
    @Krizadh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I loved her narration: she is no longer bitter.. I can feel it in her voice

    • @eunicemogusu1906
      @eunicemogusu1906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She has healed. And that's victorious!!!

  • @anijaye503
    @anijaye503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    It is so sad when someone breaks down our self esteem. This lady is so beautiful, inside and out, and it is so hard to imagine that she believed the hurtful words that she was ugly.

    • @gladyskuira1004
      @gladyskuira1004 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would love to meet this strong woman.

  • @faithmwik6852
    @faithmwik6852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Happy for her to have found peace.. Being exposed to Gender Based violence while young together with my sister....it really had a toll on us but I'm always grateful to God my mom ran for her dear life together with us. God has been our anchor and He still is. So Usikimye .. thanks for the interview Lynn .... and yes ...Njeri you are Beautiful!

  • @pchab1966
    @pchab1966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stumbled upon this somehow. I was gripped from the start to finish. Wow, the human spirit can be indefatigable in some people. Thank you Njeri waMigwi for your phenomenal courage and perseverance and sharing your story. For me, your conclusions around the 1:07:00 - 1:08:00 mark are the most insightful. We in countries where oppressive governments foster a culture of abuse are turned into predators and timid prey. There is nothing healthy about that kind of human ecosystem. We are not beasts of the wild. We are humans created in the image of God who need to live in harmonious love and balance to create healthy civilizations. A civilization is civil, not a jungle of wild beasts and timid prey.

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So this man calls her ugly but also sends people to watch her every move??kwani vitu ugly kuna mtu ako na haja nazo
    That was a sick man

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A pyscho

  • @alicethiary
    @alicethiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This lady has such a beautiful personality. Its unfortunate she landed into wrong hands. Such an enlightening story. May God restore to her her years.

  • @yourmajesty8742
    @yourmajesty8742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this lady 😻. You are gorgeous and perfect. You are winning. Edit .. Dad if you read this thank you for being a wonderful father to her.

  • @vivienbentley3540
    @vivienbentley3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is such a good thing to see a guy like Benjamin Zulu always warning and teaching pee 25s. This woman is so beautiful and strong, sending lots of love ❤❤her story is so inspiring

  • @rachealkinuthia4781
    @rachealkinuthia4781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    she's really gorgeous! 😊 I'm not even saying this to make her feel better. she's veryyyyy beautiful!!!!

    • @Shikustanley
      @Shikustanley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooh my God yes she isssss

    • @karwithacomfort6409
      @karwithacomfort6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      For sure she is

    • @annezmresh8116
      @annezmresh8116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No one will talk Abt how her English is nice ....I love njeri Lynn keep going

  • @stanleyKE
    @stanleyKE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm proud I got a chance to attend the live experience 2022 I took home soo many lessons looking forward to more of this thanks @Lynn and your team for the good job

  • @bettylorna6768
    @bettylorna6768 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a story,what a lesson,what a beautiful lady, Thankyou God for saving her and healing her.

  • @merciaomollo8667
    @merciaomollo8667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's an amazing woman,I love her and appreciate her so much..I've watched her from the beginning of the interview,and you can clearly see how strong willed she is...May God continue to bless you Njeri

  • @nekesamapesa
    @nekesamapesa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have been on a similar rough journey and sometimes I feel ashamed that I am 35 and have nothings to show for it but I trust that God will send me my destiny connector soon. Relationships can steal years from you but God is a restorer.

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your young and beatifull,God will bless u.

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sharleenjj8548 Amen

    • @furahahappiness110
      @furahahappiness110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your not alone sis I'm 35 with nothing living with my mom starting from scratch 😭

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@furahahappiness110 I have been living with my mom until just last week when I got a job and had to leave my daughter with mom. But you know what, God has a plan even in all these chaos. I believe there is a lesson in it. And now that I have gone through a terrible relationship I know better than to rush into another. 5 years single and my relationship with God has never been this good. He gives us trials so that we can get closer to him and depend on him completely. Trust in him and his plan.

    • @tumaamir2904
      @tumaamir2904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have also stared from scratch. I lost so many years in a bad relationship but i thank God he is a God of second chances.Returned back home my dad helped me start a business and its thriving. Let me be single till God feels its the right time.After healing and bonding with God

  • @taniatanita7470
    @taniatanita7470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    but she's beautiful naturally she need to accept that
    men who are abusive and sadistic can call you ugly if they want to kill you slowly....she better accept reality that she's indeed beautiful and step like she owns the world

  • @kellen.g1158
    @kellen.g1158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This woman is brave...so..beautiful...eyes n smile,

  • @christinejanet4051
    @christinejanet4051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's one Selfless and beautiful lady with a big heart. I can't see ugly from this mum. I am touched by her Honesty.
    Both Lynn and Njeri, may God keep you longer just to keep our community healed.

  • @diahannrosai6950
    @diahannrosai6950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    That cousin is yet another reminder for myself not to trust my own family members.
    🐍 🐍 🐍

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Only if all dads could be like Njeri's🙏 what a powerful and loving father he's.

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But I question his decision to raise her without her mother. That must have been really difficult for a girl. There are so many things that a girl can only share with a mother.

    • @rosemarykamau7074
      @rosemarykamau7074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blessedwachera7133 it depends how your relation with your dad is..

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rosemarykamau7074 You are right. I belong to an older generation, when we did’t interact too freely with our fathers. I can’t imagine telling him anything, except my school grades and the fees needed. 🤔

  • @lydianjeri295
    @lydianjeri295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have no word to say thank you to lynn for inspiring me and to allow me and for the many young youth to make good decisions in our lives...And for njeri she is so beautiful in and out...God bless her for coming up and sharing her story with us and to you lynn may God expand your teritories and give you strength to continue doing this great job

  • @Flavy_Mochami
    @Flavy_Mochami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is quite encouraging. Thank you for this show.