I brought my husband to the UK, hustled for him and he still left me for my bestfriend | Lynn Ngugi
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- Lydia Tett Olet knows how it feels to have the man you love constantly cheat on you with multiple women and still take him back, but this mom of three also knows when it's the right time to walk away.
Today, she is one of the most Influential Kenyans in the UK having lived there for more than 26 years and her story from Kenya with nothing to becoming such an incredible self-made woman is about to inspire you. This is her story
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Thank you so much for watching:)
Lynn how can I reach you am in gulf please please I need to talk to you
Hello my dear Lynn I have trying to email you but email dnt go through.pls try to reach out to me pls thank you ..your are my inspirational
I wish I had a funny and positive friend like her...such an inspiration
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Lynn your shows are amazing, please make your stories be available on Spotify, boom play etc
I am overjoyed when I see women laughing at their past tough times. You're a star, Lydia!
Thanks my name is Lydia lol
@@TropicxlLivesxxBut did they comment this on your video? No, they didn't. Did they mean it towards you just because you have the same name? No they didn't. This wasn't meant for you so you can kiss that little "Thanks" goodbye. 😂
@@barbaramartinez9721 i was joking but idk if ur being toxic or no- but meh
@@TropicxlLivesxx that wasn't funny, nobody replied to you and said "OMG THAT WAS SO FUNNY""LOOOL""LOL""HAHAHAHAHA" Did they now?
"Sometimes the person you would take a bullet for,is standing behind the trigger"
Taylor Swift
Yep
Lydia is a perfect story teller, sad story but hillariously narrated.
Kwanza PA Ds n Es😂😂😂
My name is Lydia lol
Lydia was a worshiper of God ( 16:14)
I met Lydia at a cultural event she had organized in the UK. She is so humble and friendly. Definitely understand why she is popular... Keep up the good work Tett. Barikiwa
@@daughterofenoch677 I think she's among the organizers of Kenyans in the Park (UK)
@@MburawaUK where? I live in UK and have for over 30yrs and never heard of it, but then again she is right, I try to stay away from East Africans (drama.) we really need to look out for each other.
@mkenya Finland Please connect me to also join you
I love what Lydia says about taking back your power. People, please take back your power-it’s your choice.
The pain of being betrayed by a loved one is unbearable😧
When you see such stories, aki you can bear it. Wa!
Very true,1st hand experience
Me too but who is God 🙏
My sister once told me it is akin to losing someone to death...
@@zipporahkibe7480 Aki so sad
I've learned something from this lady. She used to tell herself daily that she will go to the UK. Self daily affirmation... I like that
How hard is it to find love in this world? How hard is it to open your heart? The pain of being betrayed by the most trusted people in your life is unbearable. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Lydia's childhood is exactly the same as mine. Growing up with abusive dad is not easy,the trauma doesn't go away especially when it still continues even when you're older😭😭😭.but God is faithful. I believe I'm the chain breaker & I will change the situation at home.
😭😭😭😭God for us all. I always don't want to remember
I was never raised by abusive parents but faced abuse in childhood and in a relationship ,there are those people who will say heal,you must heal from the abuse.Healing is not something you just go and grab ,it is a process and might be a forever process, humans just learn to live and cope with the trauma.
AMEN! I agree with you Mutheu in JESUS NAME.
My case too
Yes , abusive dads wuuuii but we are re- raising ourselves!God you alone is faithful 😇
Thanks Lynn for hosting such an amazing woman - Lydia does a lot for the Kenyan community in the UK and in 254.
Lydia is so hilarious 😂. I really love that she laughs off even her struggles. This story was very uplifting. Again, Thank you Lynn. ❤
When a woman overcomes...... You can feel it with her..... Such a joy!!! may we all be resilence and victorious as God intended.
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Men out there talk about how they do so much for ladies and how ladies are golddiggers but in reality most women go out of their way to provide for these ungrateful and needy cheaters called men.Personally I think that women should spend their money and emotions working on themselves instead of building up a man who in the end will heartbreak you and use you because working on yourself will never lead to heartbreak and regrets.Have a great day😊
Thank you..let us work on ourselves.♥️♥️
Thank you
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@@christinekamau9122 tiganai na itheru.
I think a big number of people who grew in the 70's,80's,90's went through and witnessed alot of domestic violence and childhood trauma.
She is right about people projecting their fears on you!!!
Tuzlinw min nyiri ,that really true I don't know what the problem with that people grew in 70to90😢
You're right. At home war then at school more war.
The notion of spare the rod and spoil the child was badly misconcepted. Just look at how we are all affected, it resulted to alot of narcissism, alcoholism and more diverse mental problems 😭.
@@salomewanjiku5971 Too much physical beating,society expectations,kids and women's opinions were not regarded that much. Men were burdened with family responsibility at an early age,by the time it was frustrating them they couldn't get out it so they beat the kids and wives to vent.
@kayla cherish Am so sorry, our African men ,especially the adults now,from those generations need alot healing,but first self acceptance.
I am also an artist as well....i wasted 7years in the so called campus just to pursue 'papers' that my mum wanted. It took me been rebellious and disowned for a period of time for my mum to actually accept that art is within me and its what i want to pursue. Right now, the theatre is my second home. I am a spoken word poet, a stage manager, set designer and an upcoming playwright
Wow. I'm a poet too. Can we link up
May God bless you miss Nina
I see you Nina 🎭
I also a times feel,I wasted 4 years in campus
Congratulations ❤
I was raised in the struggle which made me a hustler but something I've come to realize is hustling is not everyone's default. So I don't take the superman role with everyone because some people should be left alone with their dysfunction.
We are learning a lot from this channel about what life is and how some people can affect your life. You're also creating an awareness 🙏
'I CAN DO' this words got me.
Indeed, God is there, we have only to believe in HIM 🙏🏻🙏🏻
What a story!!!!!!! Guys never ever give up. Thanks Lydia for sharing your story with us.. thanks Lynn for hosting such amazing people
Been a victim of domestic and emotional abuse for 3 years,I've walked out 3times and going back but the fourth time I walked away for good now in gulf for the past 2 years. I have a kid 5years now my ex has been beging me to go back promising he has changed. I was almost falling for that but after watching this episode meeen I say no.TAKE YOUR POWER BACK NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO MISTEAT YOU..I love Lydia's spirit 💪
Don't step back...keep going.
Lydia you're STRONG. I now believe that what doesn't kill you surely makes you stronger.
She is such a strong woman. So honored to have her on LNS:)
Much blessings ladies, l really enjoyed the show. Lydia great parting shot. Thanks again Lynn.
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i am so inspired Lynn... this lady is powerful. We need someone to encourage us to start our own businesses
Wow, 😲 Lydia s story is a bitter sweet one, really an eye opener and a breather after all the sad story's we've been watching, what came to my mind though after watching is how I wish Lydia would be given an opportunity to take Maureen (Mama daviy) to the UK together with her son and husband,when they're through with therapy,that gal is hardworking and a go getter like Lydia,the two would make a good collabo,"business wise". Plus Maureen need a completely fresh start far away from what happened here. In Kenya. I wish Lydia well.
I love how open and straight she is...anyway there is nothing impossible under the sun...as long as your with GOD
Been smiling throughout the story because she's so hilarious and a good storyteller., Lydia has really healed forgiven herself and the ex husband that's why she's very peaceful. Thank you Lynn for sharing this platform with LN team it teaches alot in our life ♥️♥️♥️♥️
lydia wow wow as a 25yrs old female this is so motivating thank you
This lady has a very beautiful voice
very true, she has
She should do radio she has the voice for it
I have interacted with Lydia in the UK and she is amazing, she says it as it is. Wow! You are so inspiring, what you have gone through, some people would have given up but you kept on, such a hilarious story teller even about some hard situations 😀love your resilience. Very strong woman!💪💪
Lydia's story is uplifting and she is so hilarious 🤣. I love how she smiles throughout the show even while sharing her struggles.💪👏💃
That was owesome ! Lydia ,I came to kenyans in the park from Paris with a friend and it was so overwhelming . Can’t wait to come again. Keep on doing the good work … and to you Lynn , you are just amazing ! Keep it up
Wow wow I can't get enough of this ati the"kaboyfriend"lydia you are such an amazing and inspirational, hardworking lady who never gives up your story narration makes the episode sweet and motivational is acquired,,, thank Lyn and the team for bringing us this episode life educational is gained
Am so much in love with this lady.Good English,giving details in detail and she's so opmistic😍😍😍😍😍 she's going far👍👍
Lynn you inspire me so much . Keep at it . We love you 😍 You are impacting this generation.
The definition of a strong strooooong woman,I'm young and I have been inspired,,,thank you Lynn ❤
So glad to come across this story. Lydia is the epitome of a focused, determined, loving, and all the good virtues. Story well articulated.
Thank you Lydia for this inspiration talk. I have taken back my power after 16 years
I'm emotional because Lydia's childhood is just like mine exactly😭😭. But I pray to God so hard to break this chain completely.
Thank you so much Lynn for this show
But hope you are doing well now... actually my dad has never laid hand on me ,but he has never showed concern for me
I love her personality...she is wonderful strong woman
I love how she's speaking too. Especially the British accent in her English words. So sorry she went through all that.
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There is no one l know of, who brought a boyfriend from Kenya, and they stayed together. The man always leaves for another lady.
Have heard many of such stories
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Just two days since I started following this show and am really greatful to the show, like it's touching lives out here. People go through alot in life and their stories need to be listened to, to change people who maybe are in the same situation. Thanks Ann for this show
Welcome you're here to be inspired and to learn a lot, I've been here for a while and I'm greatful
@@winniewangui9661 thanks alot
Welcome.. just two days,you have loads of content to catch up with.welcome to this addiction.❤️❤️
I love how Lydia explains her story, she went through so much and she’s not afraid to share it❤ #drop#delete#moveon. 👍
Love Lydias energy, A true definition of a resilient Woman . Love her
Her story is inspirational
Everything I touch prospers... That is the spirit
For sure Lynn is very energetic and she's always a heroine in our generation.thanks for impacting our souls mammy
Lynn indeed you are more than a sister to many...I keep on tuning each day.. for real I get motivated..your stories make many to be left motivated and encouraged.. thanks for standing with us for free..then my siz 👊 big up...never give up in life...
Marriage has never stopped men from sleeping around, its the fear of God in a man that stops him. A real man doesn't have time to cheat because that man is too busy providing all of which a good woman deserves
Well said
hapo kwa kuleta boyfriend uk Lyn ebu tu sanitize kwanza then tu continue 😁
I just love how Lynn introduce her guest i can't stop smiling...MUCH LOVE MY MENTOR
Lydia you are such an inspiration..you have touched my life in a way you can never know.
Taking a cheating partner back is like giving someone an extra bullet because the first one missed you 😢.
In diaspora we should embrace and love each other✊we are here to hustle & win not unnecessary jealousy
I like that
true
It's like EATING YOUR OWN VOMIT FOR DINNER.
Sadly we are the only race that see each other with a bad eye(evil eye)
Shiru uko where
Inspired for me feels underated now.
Words can't just say how much you have just impacted on me Lynn and Lydia.
Thank you so much.
The Es and Us 😂😂.. Girl you are doing well with them👏👏👏. Thank you Lynn for bringing Lydia. There are a million lessons to learn from her story..
When you understand that poverty cycle can be broken don't stay stagnant involve God and then work towards making it 💕💕💖💖its a blessing to hear from Lydia 💕💖 mind shifts guides ❤️Lyn much 💕
I personally know Lydia, our ex-husbands were brothers, I also went through just what she went through...that family Lydia and I got married to, was not a good family at all ..they all seem to not get married, and those of them that marry, don't know how to stay true to marriage....am glad I left...now we'll settled in the USA for the last 22 years, visiting Kenya, also a philanthropist
Woow so both of you failed in picking the right man but also picked from the same bad batch?
Doris si wewe uliuwa mtoto wa huyo bwanako kwa sababu ulikuwa umepanga kuhepa kwenda ulaya, hata ukaiba maiti ya mtoto ukazika langata bila family kujua.
@Doris Damaris,don’t you think that it’s unfair generalizing your failed marriages on the entire family,for your info some of them are happily married.you were married to an individual may his soul Rest In Peace but not the entire family.
Doris killed her own dota because she had unfair with another man who had promised her to take to uk. You murdered the child burried her in langata cemetery and eloped with a man to uk. Unaanika watu na siri yako haijifuchi ata kwa mwenyezi mungu. May the father and the dota rip. Idiot
@Doris Damaris, you killed your own dota in that marriage because you were cheating on him with another who promised to take you to the US. You even stole the body of the baby and went burried in langata without family members, despite family arrangements to burry her in her fathers home. Unaanika watu na siri yako haijifichi ata kwa mwenyezi mungu.
This story has had me going through so many emotions i don't know what to feel.Just glad it ended up well
A real representative of A STRENGHTH OF A WOMAN!!
KEEP SOARING PRETTY SOUL
I love the energy she has. She has gone through alot but she is still strong, focused and very inspiring. I have learnt alot from her story. May God bless her so much. God bless you too Lynn.
I had similar experience when i 1st came to South Africa. Kenyan's here in RSA really hate each other. They tried to bring me down. I had the worst experience they took my stuff when i was away They left me homeless. My Kenyan friends i came with them here. But i thank God he lifted me up. Im better than i was, and yes i dont mingle with Kenyan here anymore. I interact with South Africans and Lesotho people. Kenyans here are very negative and toxic. Life far from home isn't easy though
Not just Kenyans my sister Congolese people are worse 😒 it's really sad
not just only there I think this is everywhere
Elsa majimbo alisema the same thing watu wakaanza kumbash...aki that's so bad as Kenyans roho za kutu za nini sasa.
Kenyans hate each other in diaspora. What's is even worst we are tribal even in the diaspora.
I understand what you are saying well ..Kenyans are the worst in diaspora in terms of supporting their own
I went through hell in hands of Kenyans in Germany 😢
I can feel her, after all the sufferings together.
Am so glad that someone else is sharing my story through hers, I also grew up with a very abusive dad, especially towards my mum,am now a grown and am having problems with relationships, but I believe in God ,he will break every chain in Jesus name 🙏
Lydia Tett Olet!!!!!!
Please have Lydia again amalize story LOL
So much truth about majuu!
I think sometimes when you face challenges and struggles you create a room for greatness. watching LNS from Abudhabi
I love the recilience in this lady.She's such a vibe and so funny😀u cud listen to her all day
I love love this episode, take home ~ " don't give out your power" thanks Lydiah and thanks Lynn for hosting her...awwww ,my prayer today ,"Please God make me the best version of how you created me to be"
Drop,delete and move on.!.
Such an inspiring story Lydia. Never knew you went through all that but have always known that you are a strong and ambitious woman. May God's favour and blessings be upon you.
God bless you ladies for sharing great insight from your experiences.
Just because you've a history with someone doesn't mean you have a future with that person.
Love love love this saying:)
@@LynnNgugi 🙏🙏🙏
Truer words have never been spoken.
Aki ebu say that again📣📣📣
Exactly
Lydias Childhood is exactly like mine, I saw beatings and my father would lock us outside at night, pour food outside we sleep hungry as the dogs ate it etc I told myself with the trauma I still have now that I will never allow my children to go through this abuse again and fair enough I have waited long enough to have children 😔 and to give them a better life than the one I had... trauma still affects me but I thank God I can identify with the triggers
I m glad I have seen this Kenya and friends in the Park grow from scratch.Well done guys
Hi Lydia. It’s great to see you on Lynn Ngugi show. Congratulations my sister!❤️
Lyn is truly an amazing person. The way she promotes Edwin just shows her good heart and her respect for her team. Kenya, we are lucky to have her!
Wauuu ! Watching from Qatar.Lyn thank you for bringing Lydia on the show, she's made me remember where I came from.
I love this woman.....the courage she has and determination is on another level
Awesome.... thanks Lynn for hosting Lydia. Blessed to have such hidden jewels in our lives.
Lydia, you're an amazing woman. You have narrated a very painful 17-year-old ordeal in the most truthful, graceful, and yet hilarious way. Thank you for being real and demonstrating great self-accountability. It's very important to review the input that landed us in dysfunctional situations/relationships - it's a learning curve on what to avoid next time! Nimejipata hapo na macho ikafunguka when my tears finished 👀wueeh, I have 2 girls now, they are my graduation certificate so wacha maisha iendelee!
I like your story my dear🇺🇸🇹🇿
Inspirational story ... thanks you so much lynn am always happy to receive notifications from LNN .... I always want to go to the UK and i know for sure one day my dream will come true.
Thank you again Lynn I take it in the name of Jesus "Lord I want you to make me the bettervision of what you created me to be" thank sis Lydia
I need this courage...I love it when I see you ladies showing us the best ways to take...." By choice"💪.No giving this men our power wooow
My darling Lydia Olet, Kemunto here, watching, all the way from Scotland.
I love you and respect you a lot.
Just this discovered this channel and I am from South Africa 🇿🇦. loving it .thou I get lost sometimes because of language I will stay here😍
Welcome 😊
Lynn when going to UK, don't leave me behind.. what a great inspiring story..
Fellow Kenyans; Lydia was in UK without tasting alcohol and she doesn't tweng'
And she's been there for 26 years 😂😂😂
I like her subtle British accent
@@marionlumbi7003 who bewitched us?
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Seems the ancestors aren't happy😂😂😂
I am addicted to Lynn's work all the way from🇹🇿🇹🇿
🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿 in the house
Mimi ndio niko uku kila siku, nice to meet you guys!
@@vanessalaizer4363 nice to meet you Vanessa karibuni Nairobi
Me too
Kumbe tuko wengi
I can attest this channel as brought alot of impact unto my life..God bless you Mama
Sometimes I listen to these shows and I just breathe deep and relax. Kumbe it's not me alone who has been through tough life. There is always a reason to listen to LN shows.
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@@findingian001 I've subscribed hope alot of stuff is loading
This is really inspiring,so much lesson to learnt
I really enjoyed this story😂 despite everything she is such a good storyteller ❤️
The message I have for Lydia, gaaaalllll you inspire me to no end!! Now I see where all the energy comes from! I see the impact that you have in the society you are in, in the UK non other! A Kenyan Friend to All! So so so proud of you and Happy always to attend Kenya and Friends in the Park. Your support and genuine friendship is a blessing!!! See you in June!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😀
Thank you Lynn for hosting Lydia Tett Olet. Awesome and powerful ideas from Lydia
Organisation woman yes i met her in swiss Basel. She is more than diamond. Thanks lynn. Kenyans one love🇰🇪.
I like the way how she’s addressing baby dad ka-boyfriend 😂😂😂🤣
Don’t give your power away and don’t allow nay sayers! So are we expecting Lynn in the UK for kenya in the park ama? Love you both, Lydia such a powerful woman and Lynn as usual well done 👏
wow!! ❤️ you are such a brave and strong woman, I like it when you said that we have to put work for all to be well. its not by words but by action 👏👏
The way this great lady is saying kaboyfriend is reminding me alot of things at this young age.
I know aki nacheka everytime anasema kaboyfriend 😂😂
Lynn thank you so much for this platform.As a 21 year old I’m getting to learn a lot from this channel.Thank you and May God bless you.❤️🙏🏽
I adore Wen children remember the sacrifices and pain their moms went through.alot of women stick to marriages for the sake of their children.am so humbled for giving her momma happiness and recognizing her efforts
Two phenomenal women who appreciate the effort of each other. Lydia your humble and a good story teller. Lynn lovely show, keep the fire burning. ❤️🔥
So inspiring especially to us women. One thing I have learnt is never lose your focus. Drop delete and move on I love it.
Lydia is such a go getter 💪
When people talk with pain and finish positive we are encouraged. Congratulations
The starting speech for Lynn ooooowh my ..... GOD ..VERY ..NICE. IT'S MAKES YOU TO KEEP WATCHING 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖💖💖💖