Powerful message intro - 01:01 How to know if he truly loves you 1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39 2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13 3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12 4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27 5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04 6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01
1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you. 2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient. 3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter. 4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare. 5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you. 6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.
Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah! Praise God!!!!
I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour
Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!
"I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."
Watched multiple times with smiles.Life is beautiful because of our individual differences.We are all unique in our different ways.1❤ papi,for putting smiles on millions of faces.Congrat on hitting 1M subscribers.
Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.
In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.
I dated a guy dat introduces me to his important mentors but we never ended up together n sec with him was always painful.. imagine if I had marry such a guy I will b regretting my sex life…
I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything... I'm grateful to God! He planned it!
Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌
Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.
Love .. If a man loves you .. Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action! And same for a woman ! If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!
So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.
I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration
Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?
True people will still fake some, but I'm sure they will lack in other areas Theses points are the bare minimum when someone loves you doesn't rule out there are counterfeit people
If a failure loves me. Does it matter. If he can be failing me. How can he be great to be the kind of man I admire. Please I don't care except its someone who inspires me. And doesn't fail . why will I want a failure to love me. God forbid.
Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.
Powerful message intro - 01:01
How to know if he truly loves you
1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39
2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13
3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12
4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27
5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04
6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01
Thanks for the summary ❤
Thank you
Thanks
What about the girls
Please how do I get the concluding part of this mesage
These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo
1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you.
2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient.
3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter.
4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare.
5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you.
6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.
So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️
I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent
You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏
Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏
Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah!
Praise God!!!!
Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,
There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries
What!?? Hmm abeg abeg
Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions
I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour
😂😂😂 I swear
As in ehn!
I don laugh tire😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂Still laughing
😊😊😊😊❤❤
Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!
"I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."
Amen in Jesus name.
God bless u papa don't stop what u are doing for as🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@adaofcharles1217 Amen.
@@evaarloo5452 Amen.
What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir
Thank you Pastor K for this teaching
Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving
l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.
The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.
Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!
“They go dey call you our wife, they all know that you’re not the one”… “those boys are wicked” 😂😂🙌🏽
😂😂😂
Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!!
Thank you, Pastor K
As soon as the red flag is seen runn
True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided
Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir
Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship....
God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together
You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K
Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.
Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.
Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir
This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.
Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌
Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜
The best relationship coach ever...
Watched multiple times with smiles.Life is beautiful because of our individual differences.We are all unique in our different ways.1❤ papi,for putting smiles on millions of faces.Congrat on hitting 1M subscribers.
You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot
Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.
Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.
Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.
I love how we laugh while learning over here!😂😂👏🏽🔥
Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor
Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you
Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.
In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.
I dated a guy dat introduces me to his important mentors but we never ended up together n sec with him was always painful.. imagine if I had marry such a guy I will b regretting my sex life…
May God strengthen you Pst K.
Well done PK, more grace 🙏
Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.
Finally am here ,I thank God
Be blessed man of God
All this is true.Thank you pastor
This is a powerful message of wisdom
Beautiful points
Thank you Pst K
I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything...
I'm grateful to God! He planned it!
I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!
Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊
I celebrate you Pst Kingsley
Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺
Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯
Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.
Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you
Great speech, thank you so much sir.
❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏
Thanks you so much sir
This is really helpful
Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir
Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.
Superb!!!!!!!!
I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤
Thank you Sir eye opening message.
What a message. 🙏🏼
Thanks so much daddy...
Thank You So Much Sir..
God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌
God bless you sir🙏🙏
I’m always blessed by your words ......
Very educative. This video was reposted
Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾
Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️
Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌
Priceless!
"The food burn" 😂😂😂
If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌
Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.
Powerful
Wonderful message
Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉
But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣
Love ..
If a man loves you ..
Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action!
And same for a woman !
If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!
Wow!!! Thank you sir
Thank you, Pastor
So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.
I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity
A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration
Very helpful thank you
Can't wait for that of the famales
Thank you for all you do sir
God continue to bless you
Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌
Thank you so much sir
Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!
Correct 💯💯
My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣
Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys
"She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness
😂😂😂😂😂
Loved this 😂😂
Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?
He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities
What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it
Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩
This so true
Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭
Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬
Nice but I don't agree with the 5th point some guys will still fake include you in their future but it's all scam
True people will still fake some, but I'm sure they will lack in other areas
Theses points are the bare minimum when someone loves you doesn't rule out there are counterfeit people
The voice change to 😂😂
If a failure loves me. Does it matter. If he can be failing me. How can he be great to be the kind of man I admire. Please I don't care except its someone who inspires me. And doesn't fail . why will I want a failure to love me. God forbid.
it's like your hungry or bored
@@nnajichidiebere5749 Hahaha 😂
@@nnajichidiebere5749 I don't even understand what he is saying 🤷🤣. Hunger it is! 👌