How To Know If He Really Loves You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.

  • @damiflexsolutions
    @damiflexsolutions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Powerful message intro - 01:01
    How to know if he truly loves you
    1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39
    2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13
    3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12
    4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27
    5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04
    6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01

  • @PrettySarah31
    @PrettySarah31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo

  • @oziiluv
    @oziiluv ปีที่แล้ว +22

    1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you.
    2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient.
    3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter.
    4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare.
    5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you.
    6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.

  • @ezinnepaul2999
    @ezinnepaul2999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️

  • @phoebeappiah1245
    @phoebeappiah1245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent

  • @milikamalata7650
    @milikamalata7650 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏

  • @ruthandrew3945
    @ruthandrew3945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏

  • @vimilchar
    @vimilchar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah!
    Praise God!!!!

    • @speranzakiragu3491
      @speranzakiragu3491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,

    • @NurseAfenomi
      @NurseAfenomi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries
      What!?? Hmm abeg abeg

    • @moureenmachanwe8986
      @moureenmachanwe8986 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions

  • @abbagoziemsylvia6568
    @abbagoziemsylvia6568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour

  • @zonywest4262
    @zonywest4262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga3890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."

    • @adaofcharles1217
      @adaofcharles1217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen in Jesus name.

    • @evaarloo5452
      @evaarloo5452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless u papa don't stop what u are doing for as🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @ernestmulenga3890
      @ernestmulenga3890 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adaofcharles1217 Amen.

    • @ernestmulenga3890
      @ernestmulenga3890 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@evaarloo5452 Amen.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir

  • @Marie_Doresse
    @Marie_Doresse 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Pastor K for this teaching

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving

  • @nyaramakurumidze9352
    @nyaramakurumidze9352 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.

  • @PhilipsOliveth-m1q
    @PhilipsOliveth-m1q 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “They go dey call you our wife, they all know that you’re not the one”… “those boys are wicked” 😂😂🙌🏽

    • @Kekewest2020
      @Kekewest2020 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @wana4592
    @wana4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!!
    Thank you, Pastor K

  • @daramolaayomide2859
    @daramolaayomide2859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As soon as the red flag is seen runn
    True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided

  • @abigailojieh
    @abigailojieh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir

  • @mirriamm.3277
    @mirriamm.3277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship....
    God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together

  • @sampsonhope8215
    @sampsonhope8215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.

  • @faithethomas2823
    @faithethomas2823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.

  • @tinaluyo98
    @tinaluyo98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir

  • @rhulanipoetryfactory7623
    @rhulanipoetryfactory7623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.

  • @anitaboima2582
    @anitaboima2582 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌

  • @rianangaemaluta
    @rianangaemaluta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜
    The best relationship coach ever...

  • @PRINCEOZOMBA
    @PRINCEOZOMBA 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Watched multiple times with smiles.Life is beautiful because of our individual differences.We are all unique in our different ways.1❤ papi,for putting smiles on millions of faces.Congrat on hitting 1M subscribers.

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot

  • @bueze4016
    @bueze4016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.

  • @OUKEmpower
    @OUKEmpower ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how we laugh while learning over here!😂😂👏🏽🔥

  • @comfortattah3623
    @comfortattah3623 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you

  • @happybutterfly7124
    @happybutterfly7124 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.

    • @Justagirl.6-j1p
      @Justagirl.6-j1p ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.

    • @edifonene5970
      @edifonene5970 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dated a guy dat introduces me to his important mentors but we never ended up together n sec with him was always painful.. imagine if I had marry such a guy I will b regretting my sex life…

  • @zoefrancis4417
    @zoefrancis4417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May God strengthen you Pst K.

  • @ritakane2010
    @ritakane2010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done PK, more grace 🙏

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.

  • @faithiris9614
    @faithiris9614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally am here ,I thank God

  • @maggiemkawuda5870
    @maggiemkawuda5870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Be blessed man of God

  • @joycepatrick6862
    @joycepatrick6862 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All this is true.Thank you pastor

  • @MaryOsabutey-b9g
    @MaryOsabutey-b9g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a powerful message of wisdom

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful points
    Thank you Pst K

  • @victoriachidinma2019
    @victoriachidinma2019 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything...
    I'm grateful to God! He planned it!

    • @Agu-042
      @Agu-042 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!

  • @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770
    @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊

  • @TaiwoPeterOdeh
    @TaiwoPeterOdeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I celebrate you Pst Kingsley

  • @mihlalimirandambasane8340
    @mihlalimirandambasane8340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯

  • @japhettonbrapade4112
    @japhettonbrapade4112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.

  • @ohonbazillah4547
    @ohonbazillah4547 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great speech, thank you so much sir.

  • @serahmyls6208
    @serahmyls6208 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏

  • @oluwadarasimi852
    @oluwadarasimi852 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you so much sir
    This is really helpful

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir

  • @chidinmaokeke9909
    @chidinmaokeke9909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Superb!!!!!!!!

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤

  • @evahhonour5008
    @evahhonour5008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir eye opening message.

  • @nyagowalavender4455
    @nyagowalavender4455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a message. 🙏🏼

  • @ebunlomooreoluwa
    @ebunlomooreoluwa ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much daddy...

  • @chinenyehappinesschidi5167
    @chinenyehappinesschidi5167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You So Much Sir..
    God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌

  • @edehchioma2561
    @edehchioma2561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you sir🙏🙏
    I’m always blessed by your words ......

  • @anazodoifunanyac
    @anazodoifunanyac 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very educative. This video was reposted

  • @chimchimo.5050
    @chimchimo.5050 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾

  • @ifeomadibiagwu9528
    @ifeomadibiagwu9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️

  • @ElizabethBimela
    @ElizabethBimela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌

  • @helendelailomaloma6249
    @helendelailomaloma6249 ปีที่แล้ว

    Priceless!

  • @citygirl237
    @citygirl237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "The food burn" 😂😂😂

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.

  • @akinwaleOgunleye-vq7qw
    @akinwaleOgunleye-vq7qw หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful

  • @Nikky707
    @Nikky707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful message

  • @angelknight6626
    @angelknight6626 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉

  • @lExN34
    @lExN34 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love ..
    If a man loves you ..
    Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action!
    And same for a woman !
    If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!

  • @mercyn5422
    @mercyn5422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!!! Thank you sir

  • @deborahakindeko2040
    @deborahakindeko2040 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Pastor

  • @ufink
    @ufink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity
      A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration

  • @prissyedem
    @prissyedem 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful thank you

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait for that of the famales

  • @goodnessogbonna9851
    @goodnessogbonna9851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for all you do sir
    God continue to bless you

  • @shedrachameachi8183
    @shedrachameachi8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌

  • @proxpee8984
    @proxpee8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!

  • @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461
    @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣

  • @ambassadoremmanuel1553
    @ambassadoremmanuel1553 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness

    • @RandibelAkam
      @RandibelAkam 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this 😂😂

  • @brendandong9344
    @brendandong9344 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities

    • @laraiyammah9467
      @laraiyammah9467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it

  • @successokoro5959
    @successokoro5959 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩

  • @favourewere
    @favourewere ปีที่แล้ว

    This so true

  • @aregbesolazainab9267
    @aregbesolazainab9267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬

  • @derbyjames9550
    @derbyjames9550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice but I don't agree with the 5th point some guys will still fake include you in their future but it's all scam

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 ปีที่แล้ว

      True people will still fake some, but I'm sure they will lack in other areas
      Theses points are the bare minimum when someone loves you doesn't rule out there are counterfeit people

  • @neroonose4585
    @neroonose4585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The voice change to 😂😂

  • @kelechiprogressejike1622
    @kelechiprogressejike1622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If a failure loves me. Does it matter. If he can be failing me. How can he be great to be the kind of man I admire. Please I don't care except its someone who inspires me. And doesn't fail . why will I want a failure to love me. God forbid.

    • @nnajichidiebere5749
      @nnajichidiebere5749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's like your hungry or bored

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nnajichidiebere5749 Hahaha 😂

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nnajichidiebere5749 I don't even understand what he is saying 🤷🤣. Hunger it is! 👌