7 Marital Thresholds Every Single Should Develop | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @HereWithBrooke
    @HereWithBrooke 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    1. Selflessness
    2. Flexible
    3. Commitment
    4. Forgiveness
    5. Tolerance
    6. Service
    7. Patience

  • @LifeInsightswithDrMercy
    @LifeInsightswithDrMercy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Every time I listen to Pastor Kingsley's messages they really resonate with the reality of marital experiences. I wish every Christian single can listen to him. I will continue to share his messages with the teens and young adults I work with.

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I learned a lot from this sermon. May Jesus Christ continue to bless and keep the Okonkwo family. 🙏🏽👍🏽💯🇯🇲❤😁

  • @beltv1874
    @beltv1874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just can't stop listening n watching u n yr wife . The zeal to make marriages work God bless you.

  • @gwyyq5477
    @gwyyq5477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    To God be glory. I listen to this msg until end which is not my normal way. Sincere I must thank you pastor. You av rectify me through my thoughts..Bf July end which is my month of birth God power gonna work on me.

  • @damiflexsolutions
    @damiflexsolutions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The Reasons for Studying Books on Marriage. - 01:50
    ---- God's understanding about marriage - 04:45
    ---- Lists of recommended books - 08:13
    (Snippets - Marriage)
    What are your perspectives about marriage? - 08:40
    ---- Difference between attraction and keeping a man. - 11:55
    ---- Understanding the mind of a man and a woman. - 15:00
    ---- The 4 D's in communicating with a woman in marriage. - 21:40
    (Snippets - Singles)
    ---- Who should I marry?. 23:55
    ---- Seven (7) Qualities wise men want. - 28:56
    ---- Seven (7) Questions wise women ask. - 35:16
    Marital Thresholds for Singles
    (1). Selflessness. - 41:30
    (2). Flexible. - 43:58
    (3). Commitment. - 59:24
    (4). Forgiveness. - 1:02:45
    (5). Tolerance. - 1:05:45
    (6). Service. - 1:06:03
    (7). Patience. - 1:14:08

    • @antaihutee4070
      @antaihutee4070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

    • @lalasng8643
      @lalasng8643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you I was literally scrolling through the comments to find this. God bless you🤲🏾🙌🏾

    • @damiflexsolutions
      @damiflexsolutions 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lalasng8643 Amen. I am glad this helped.

    • @ellaiyeokan7360
      @ellaiyeokan7360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!

    • @oviemenablessing2197
      @oviemenablessing2197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I got lost at a point

  • @imeldasifisohonde5864
    @imeldasifisohonde5864 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a single lady praying for a Godly marriage, am learning a lot from your sermons Sir❤

  • @dominicbridget5927
    @dominicbridget5927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r always Inspiring

  • @heavenlyconsciousness6192
    @heavenlyconsciousness6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Am really bless listening to this awesome teaching,remain bless sir🙏🏾

  • @nnekaobijindu8570
    @nnekaobijindu8570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So insightful, I'm impacted. Thank you Pastor K.

  • @Mzkrian-13
    @Mzkrian-13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tank u pastor k,more knowledge and grace sir

  • @88niteowl88
    @88niteowl88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Read the HOLY BIBLE to feed your spirit. Tfs. To everyone reading this, Jesus loves you.

  • @millicentchinelo6077
    @millicentchinelo6077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you pst K, we love you sir 💞

  • @mercyokorodudu3209
    @mercyokorodudu3209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..."not placed an order yet" that word hit me.

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful Teaching!❤

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much for this message, sir. ✅️❤
    God bless you.

  • @blessingayasi8725
    @blessingayasi8725 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a sermon. Wow I was so so blessed and enlightened. God bless you Sir

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello, Pastor, Christopher, I bought your book the A to Z but still haven't received it over 2 months. Please help me I truly need this book.

  • @sandramarie9019
    @sandramarie9019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you pastor for the wake up call 🙏🙏🙏

  • @titilayoobakinolaitan4965
    @titilayoobakinolaitan4965 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessed 🙏🏽

  • @christianaibeh994
    @christianaibeh994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless You Pastor

  • @fancyrolex5882
    @fancyrolex5882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful

  • @hauwaahmed6244
    @hauwaahmed6244 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you sir

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for this rich teachings. I'm truly gaining a lot.🙌🏽

  • @Sir.b.o
    @Sir.b.o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually God first gave Adam authority before marriage. Nice teaching…

  • @SenaTreasureDaily
    @SenaTreasureDaily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I desperately need these books in ghana, is there anywhere i can get them?

  • @preciousdebbie6775
    @preciousdebbie6775 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Sir.
    More Grace.

  • @tracyeghosa861
    @tracyeghosa861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was a nice topic I enjoyed it

  • @youdeservetolaugh1992
    @youdeservetolaugh1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’d love to join the live church service.....can anyone pls share me the church location

    • @user-ur7km9fx2c
      @user-ur7km9fx2c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you're in Lagos, the name of pastor K church is DCC (DAVID CHRISTIAN CENTRE) It's on the island and mainland. You can Google the church.
      And you're welcome too seyi 😁😃

  • @rahabdoji3791
    @rahabdoji3791 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are a gift to the younger generation sir, may God reward bountifully. People are blind to these things that is why the devil is taking advantage of marriage and homes but now that God is using you to open our eyes, hmmmm devil is in big trouble. Thank you sir.

  • @Adomba37
    @Adomba37 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful message, God bless you pastor, but can your books be download on any app since I can't get it from you directly please?

  • @abechivictoria7006
    @abechivictoria7006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor please I want to understand this part, what if the unbeliever already leaves and still want to come back, is it right for the partner to take he/she back?

  • @deegirl7946
    @deegirl7946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the evening sermon 😩

  • @graceomakada5082
    @graceomakada5082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can your books be obtained on amazon?

  • @camilities
    @camilities 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG. I don laff tire 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Madam 01 on jersey 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @beatricechandasampa5759
    @beatricechandasampa5759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    13:15 I don laff tire 😂😂😂

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buy a football ⚽️ TSHIRT and write MADAME 101 on the back 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 lolllll

  • @oloridestiny3251
    @oloridestiny3251 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m engaged to be married and this is really helping me 🤍🤍

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most marriages fail before the marriage not in the marriage.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
    Thanks for this beautiful message.
    God bless, Pst. k.

    • @onajiogbene7699
      @onajiogbene7699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful one....it's actually practical...thank you for explaining divorce and selflessness...God bless you!

  • @prazzy-g
    @prazzy-g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am always blessed, as you are a blessing to the world sir... God pls help my husband in the future 🔮 where ever he is to come encounter with pastor k messages with understanding in Jesus name ..amen ❤.

  • @generationalwealthcreators74
    @generationalwealthcreators74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Compliment of the season Pastor K. I live in Lagos. Please where can I get your books here in Lagos. God bless you and Pastor Mildred for the great works you are doing in the area of relationship.

  • @joetorres4366
    @joetorres4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I just discovered your sermons online and it is really blessing me with my singleness

  • @estherminayo9352
    @estherminayo9352 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How Selflessness you are?
    How flexible you are?
    How committed are you
    Which extend can you forgive ??
    How far can you tolerate??
    How patient are you??
    Are you ready to serve without expecting returns??

  • @dibsahava9805
    @dibsahava9805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Your teachings are helping me Pastor in my singleness to work on my character as I am waiting for God to bless me with a godly partner. Thank you so very much Sir

  • @nkirukaannabel8427
    @nkirukaannabel8427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can to know your page through my father in the Lord Pastor Anderson Godwin
    And I begin search everywhere
    Thank GOD I found you
    God bless you richly Amen
    I've been a blessing to thus generation
    More grace Sir

  • @soneka-tv
    @soneka-tv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was really blessed with ur teaching that day. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏

  • @aduwamenegbe6327
    @aduwamenegbe6327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was so blessed. Thank you Pastor K😭😭😭

  • @JAYHOPEMINISTRIES
    @JAYHOPEMINISTRIES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Who you marry is one of the best gifts God can give you. If you marry wrong satan will not disturb you again

  • @nadjeremy6635
    @nadjeremy6635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "the problem is that we marry the raw material thinking is the final product..."

  • @missgiftyjael802
    @missgiftyjael802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God bless you for this educative and exciting package

  • @tamaratarerobert4018
    @tamaratarerobert4018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me... I was just seeing myself when he was talking about the brain components of a woman. I laughed and laughed. Thank you Jesus. So I'm just being a woman after all 🥰

  • @onyekastanislausokwundu7334
    @onyekastanislausokwundu7334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm blessed 😇
    Thank you pastor

  • @courageousgentle
    @courageousgentle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i must listen to all pastor k sermons, my turn to marry is drawing very close... need al the knowledge i can possibly get, before i make one mumu mistake

    • @patiencedonko1862
      @patiencedonko1862 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂that not your portion

    • @chinwenduobiakpolam4551
      @chinwenduobiakpolam4551 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you married now?😊

    • @courageousgentle
      @courageousgentle 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@chinwenduobiakpolam4551 .Am not yet married .

    • @courageousgentle
      @courageousgentle 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@patiencedonko1862 Amen

    • @courageousgentle
      @courageousgentle 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@chinwenduobiakpolam4551 no, am not married yet

  • @queenestherakwaabasi1425
    @queenestherakwaabasi1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I listen a lot to you and Pst Mildred messages but I found out that most of the things men like or easily enjoy doing are the things I like and I'm a woman which in a way affect relationship with men, what can I do?

    • @lalasng8643
      @lalasng8643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please do not worry about that or try to change yourself to suit a man's preference. God will provide for you a Man that likes a woman that shares such interest.
      You are fearfully and wonderfully made my sister

    • @queenestherakwaabasi1425
      @queenestherakwaabasi1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lalasng8643 Thanks so much

    • @kanyanadebby9357
      @kanyanadebby9357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Lala🙏🙏be blessed dear one🙏

  • @aceyshari
    @aceyshari 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “Your shape can attract him but it takes being sharp to keep him”😅

  • @idowuadewunmiogunyemi7824
    @idowuadewunmiogunyemi7824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish I can like this video more than 10 times 😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @chezghilaine9778
    @chezghilaine9778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I came here after watching a bit part of it on actor Fredrick Leonard IG,and I can say ,it wealth all the time in the world, thank you pastor on opening our eyes even if we are in marriage already...how can we find those books here in Kenya?

  • @amyg6182
    @amyg6182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm really blessed by your teachings, thank you Pastor K. Please, how do I get your books?

  • @sarahokyere5298
    @sarahokyere5298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🇬🇭🇳🇬🇬🇭🇳🇬❤️

  • @lolank4853
    @lolank4853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahhhh pastor how do you know all this things.... waooo you are so righttttttttt. may God keep blessing you your family and your ministry. you are such a blessing to me. how are wish i had meet you wayback b4 i got married.

  • @gracenamara7229
    @gracenamara7229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What an exceptional message this is! God increase you more sir.

  • @armellengaba5557
    @armellengaba5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once again i've been tremendously blessed by your teachings sir. God bless you for me!🙏🏼❤️

  • @ochematthew8949
    @ochematthew8949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is LOADED. Again i say, THIS IS LOADED!!!

  • @marykinuthia954
    @marykinuthia954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Pastor K
    Am trusting God

  • @missrd395
    @missrd395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am preparingggg!! currently reading Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas.📚🙌And watching you and past Mildred teachings!

    • @missrd395
      @missrd395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very very good teaching, praise the Lord. And i had a good laugh too😆! Thank you!

    • @hrhlight
      @hrhlight 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you send me this book pls?

  • @chizinduamadi1009
    @chizinduamadi1009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing Message! Hard Truth!!

  • @returningtoperfection
    @returningtoperfection ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praise the Lord, we are getting high quality marriage wisdom from Jesus for free thru Pastor K and his wife.

  • @aerliekalonga8831
    @aerliekalonga8831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Pastors do the work parents didn't do"

  • @davidsonoriokpa2037
    @davidsonoriokpa2037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you pastor Kingsley for this msg!

  • @adebowalefaith939
    @adebowalefaith939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Value gotten. We love you, sir.

  • @anniemettle7142
    @anniemettle7142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo for the enlightenment.🙏🏻 I have learnt soo much from this. God bless you🙏🏻

  • @tegaatirene6275
    @tegaatirene6275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir ..powerful sermon...You are a destiny shaper..🙏🏾🙏🏾📌

  • @ladyboss2944
    @ladyboss2944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Didn't want it to end, we want the Part 2 pls .

  • @essienimaobong6740
    @essienimaobong6740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so blessed with the teaching. God bless you abundantly sir

  • @abechivictoria7006
    @abechivictoria7006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you really Good and your family expecially your parents

  • @justineekwulu7985
    @justineekwulu7985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PK always making the gospel fun🥳🥳😇

  • @enadaonoja
    @enadaonoja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @apaniseimoleracheal6982
    @apaniseimoleracheal6982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am blessed with this word God bless you sir

  • @glorysalami1792
    @glorysalami1792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where you invest is where you harvest

  • @Iamopepraiz
    @Iamopepraiz ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor K will just be dropping deep rhelmas jokingly. They are so deep mehn. Thank you Sir, your obedience has saved many homes and lives

  • @VanEssa-el7so
    @VanEssa-el7so 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    👏👏👏👏 wow 🤩 this sermon is more than powerful. Thank you pastor

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so true about it all what makes a woman look good, wigs, corsets, hold in their belly panties, eyelashes that look like awnings, not at all like their own eyelashes, hahaha.
    How Will it be the morning after they are married?
    She can't wear it all every day LoL 👍

  • @hughestemilayo4675
    @hughestemilayo4675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3.How ready are you for commitment ,it’s not inability but your unwillingness 4 How forgiven are you forgiveness is not a feeling it’s a decision 5 What’s your tolerance trench-old 6.What’s your service towards your spouse

  • @omordiajpat6395
    @omordiajpat6395 ปีที่แล้ว

    ÀMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN And AMEN

  • @rachelchika6924
    @rachelchika6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been listening to this channel for a while now and it's amazing.l have learnt alot.God bless your ministry and family Mr&Mrs Okonkwo.please how can I get your books

  • @realDAYA
    @realDAYA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessed! I laughed out well... Good job man of God

  • @catherinewaithera3413
    @catherinewaithera3413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waiting

  • @joyouscharity
    @joyouscharity 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chia P.k is so knowledge filled and funny 😂😂
    I learnt and laugh tire 😅😅

  • @MichealTg-lq9qk
    @MichealTg-lq9qk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo haand!😂😂 Can't stop laughing. I'm blessed to find these teachings

  • @karenmaina1508
    @karenmaina1508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I definitely enjoyed this, it was very interesting and informative. I humbly disagree with a few things such as having to do things to keep your partner, I think true love should be deeper than that However, I deeply enjoyed the thresholds very eye-opening. Blessings to you

    • @oluwaogundiran
      @oluwaogundiran ปีที่แล้ว

      You do know true love is not scriptural, right? We do not marry based on love, the basis of the institution of marriage was not founded on that and there's no place where we are told that.
      Husbands, love your wives as Christ loves the church and died for her.
      Wives, submit to your husbands.

  • @massankuh6263
    @massankuh6263 ปีที่แล้ว

    am really blessed with this sir...God bless you...
    please are your books downloaded online ?

  • @belloruqoyah2389
    @belloruqoyah2389 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much pastor k for sharing light in my relationship,God bless your home

  • @nyashamapira7666
    @nyashamapira7666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow very informative. Learning a lot. Thank you

  • @adewalejoshua9031
    @adewalejoshua9031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls sir, I salute your teaching sir, but I think I need one of your book,when would I know when to married

  • @abojecomfort5812
    @abojecomfort5812 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    More grace sir, your message has been a blessing to my life.
    May God bless you sir.

  • @victorlight2150
    @victorlight2150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was enlightened, and blessed watching this, God bless and keep you Dr

  • @kemorcuisine6109
    @kemorcuisine6109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir you are just too good o.... God’s wisdom is extremely abundant in you🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @montse6206
    @montse6206 ปีที่แล้ว

    How is plastic surgery not bad? Misleading

  • @thomasjemimah5371
    @thomasjemimah5371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Daddy thank you, your teaching has help and improve and change my mind set thank you sir