I was on a relationship going well, we speak daily and every night and then. We were distanced. 4 months into our proper relationship, I asked him a question - 'only him waka come, let me know your people?' . That night, I spoke to his family. Apparently they have been noticing the change and attention he gives on his phone and his nephew already snitches him to the rest of the family. Few months later, he told me his parents in Nigeria wants to meet me and all is history. We are happily married with 2 wonderful kids. Set standards - I didn't set standards in 2 past r/ships. I got home crying after seeing all the red flags and back into their arms. I turned to God and my husband located me miraculously and boom a true man with a heart of God and gold. I pray that yours locate you and that you enjoy your relationship and marriage in Jesus name 🙏
1. Have standards 6:50 2. You are a beautiful masterpiece 26:20 3. You are better off alone than in a bad relationship. Dead weight and baggage will hold you back from your destiny and purpose 33:13 4. Learn more about men just attracting them. Learn how to relate and how they think 39:00 5. You have to grow spiritually 57:36 6. Make your own money 1:07:51 7. Develop yourself. Invest in improving yourself. 1:25:00
After watching this video, I had to pray for you. You will do 60, 70,100 years on earth. You will live to fulfill your days sir. You are a John the Baptist of marriage. God is really using you for our generation and we pray he will keep you longer for us. Much love to you and your family.
As a single woman I was invested in the Godly way, followed all of these inspite of the mockery for being "stubborn" about this.....I thank God today that didn't discourage me. Today, married to a noble man who waited for me & with me. God honored His word & blessed me with the best man ever, as we work together to build the best marriage God has purposed for US. This video gets me emotional. Ladies, this is the Truth...don't change. City girl movement is not glamorous at all. idc what society tries to paint. Take the embarrassing jokes, reverse-psychology labels, name-calling or pressures with grace. Take it like a warrior because God is with you like Esther, like Joseph, like Daniel & like Jesus on the cross. If I perish I perish ruggedness. You will get the last laugh. Thank you Pst K.
I love nice bags and shoes having worked in the UK for over 30 years. I can't imagine asking my husband to give me money to buy that expensive bag. I have them in different colours and one day my husband said "You are still buying"? I said "Yes" l worked for it and it's time to enjoy. Please make your own MONEY 💰
Wow there's so much gems this guy was sharing about men, and women are still not listening! Lol this guy shared real secrets!! Some I already knew of cause I have brothers and male friends, and they keep it real with me 😂 but I still learnt more from this guy.
8:00 This is true! Men love to impress! I recently complimented one of my male colleague's looks last week. It's been two days in sharp suits and he now passes by my office every 2-3 hours just to say hi. This morning, he comes to my desk and asks, "How's my suit today?" Lol!
Ladies, if he is not teachable, if he does not enjoy conversation and communication either run or accept him... RUN. Nobody is perfect but everyone should be teachable and open to learning. I hope there are more lessons training men how to be good husbands. Otherwise divorce will continue to increase. Women learn and apply what they learn, however it takes the man to make effort as well for the union to hold.
I'm gonna have to agree. Most teachings are so focused on how women are to equip themselves to ensure that their men are pleased and happy. Would like to see more of such teachings directed to men so we don't have proud men that are not willing to compromise inorder to make their relationships/marriages work.
Men don't talk to you about a problem because they dont see you as a/the solution. I must say this, I have never seen a TH-cam clip for over an hour, if I did that means I skipped some scenes. Thank you PK for this teaching. God bless you
One thing that trills me about PK is his honesty, calling spade spade, and talking to humans unlike some pastors that talk as though they live in space. You quote the bible and bring it home with things we see daily, that way, stories of the bible has meaning to our daily lives. May Jehovah hold you strong to keep doing what you are called to do and heal our youth.
31.00 That is very correct. My husband is never attracted to a fair lady. Imagine if i had bleached my skin, maybe I wouldn't be enjoying the peace and bliss I have been enjoying for 8 years now. Maybe I would have ended up in wrong hands.
Halleluyah! Thank you so much brother for rightly dividing the word of truth. Having being married for almost 30 years l can satisfy that this is a true word of God. I married as a virgin and my husband waited for me for almost 8 years as he was ready but l was not ready. I love what l heard here today, if a man has self control now, it won't be an issue when you marry. Make your own MONEY 💰 Do not marry for money. We are called to be a Proverbs 31 woman. Halleluyah! For every woman reading this, pray that God should reveal his plans for your life to you... Women! Go back to school. Keep learning!
Amen God Blessed you!This happened to me I was dating this man whom we are now married after 16yrs of of knowing eachother.We both had gotten out bad relationship.We stayed in touch through out the years and stayed really good friends.We dated for a short time but decided at time wasn’t the right time.We are now together and stronger than ever.When I left my unhealthy relationship I asked god to send me the right man in my life .I ask god to allow my heart to heal from my past and forgive and move on so I can love again.I am with the man that when I first seen I told my family and friends that’s my husband.Now after 16yrs we are together 🙏🏿🙌🏾❤️God definitely heard my prayers I couldn’t be more happy with anyone else.God fearing ,family man and loves me and my boys unconditionally.Allow god to guide your footsteps and he will give the man you need not what you want!Stay blessed my friend god bless you and your marriage 🙏🏿🙌🏾❤️
You are on this platform and the message is touching you please don't ignore ,there is a grace that comes with timely message as opposed to I wish I learnt this before I made that choice ,this is the Lord showing you his salvation ............
I'm only 37 mins into this video, and I'm wondering what I've been doing with my life these few years... Glad, I can still incorporate this beautiful teachings. God bless you sir
Great teaching. I've shared with my younger sisters this invaluable information. There are so many things which I will be reinforcing or putting into practice. Pastor K ,keep on teaching and encouraging women everywhere.
I am just 19mins into this video , and I am already seeing all my mistakes Here I was thinking this guy isn’t into me when I refused to set the standards Within me I didn’t even ask where’s this going to and I was walking away already without saying what I want !!
"Am convinced that a woman cannot have a successful marriage without having this kind of knowledge. That is why Jesus said, my children perish due to lack of knowledge." From Zambia.
@@esthermwila7830 Am proud of you Ms Mwila Esther to listen to pastor Kingsley Okonkwo teachings from Nigeria while we are living in Zambia. Which part of Zambia are you from?
@@ernestmulenga3890 I live in Lusaka, Kabanana Site and Service. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is my mentor in the area of relationships. My best friend and I listen to him alot
I'm wowed! I have been married for 21 years now and I have learnt a lot here and how l wished I knew Soo much about men before, but now l have nuggets for any young woman l meet to counsel them to have standards.
Holy spirit, direct me, lead me and take me to my better half, help me to be miss right to Mr right help me to be the place he calls home, help me lord , help me 😥😭
Pastor K, I no gree oh! Men can be cagey about their intentions and manipulative. I really like that you encourage women to be proactive about what they want. A lot about culture tells women to do the opposite. It's refreshing to hear a pastor advise women to invest in their own calling. Sometimes people make submission seem like self erasure because of marriage.
I'm blessed with this teachings. You just can't go into any form of relationship with men either business or marital without this Great knowledge.. more anointing sir.
It's my opinion about it too, ladies, make your own money to pay for what you want to have, both need to work today, cause it is so expensive to have a decent life together 👍👌🤗
This was soooooo good and relatable. God bless you Pastor K. More anointing. This will saves lives and destinies for those that have ears. You spoke facts. All facts. Women build yourselves up even the quality of men you'll attract will be different when you build yourself up. Men can be destiny distractions especially the wrong man. Discernment is a MUST. Every good and perfect thing comes from God. Seek God He's the best gift giver, He will route the right man to you. Marriage is ministry not for selfish reasons or self aggrandisement.
Thank you so much, Pastor Mildred for being an example and a standard for we young girls to follow. You made the teaching easy for Dad as he was using you as a practical example and reference, making the principles easier for us to believe and to want to run with. God bless you, ma.
If you leave a man to his own devices, he has a high chance of self-destruction and as a woman, you are his regulator if not the family goes down and you are included. Somebody tell me, where is the lie in this matter? We have learned the hard way.
Cy, In fact the Bible in Proverbs refers to wisdom as "she." No accident. Women were made in the image of God, not just men, and whereas men can be great warriors and leaders, women have wisdom and the fruit of the Spirit - love, joy, kindness, patience, etc - and we care for, raise, and love on the children. We are the women referred in the expression ("behind every good man is a good woman."
A man I work with said he used to date worldly women. His mother told kept urging him to meet a woman of substance. He listened. He met a good woman at his former job. He said he can't imagine his life without her. They travel, have a nice house, a baby...he said she made him a better man!
Pastor,more anointing upon your life and ministry, l must come to your church or your seminars anytime l am in Nigeria, am watching 👀 this talk over ^over again,lve been married for 30years& am still learning from all your messages and your wife is out of this world oo, you are both excellent in your God given mandate, Agape love Mrs Abimbola Taiwo Leeds UK
Pastor K you are such a big blessing to this generation, more power and grace as you do His purpose while on earth. Greatly appreciate your selfless sharing!
Wow, Holy Ghost! Thank you for your counsel and for Pastors who care so much to share such HELPFUL ADVICE!!! He's right there are women like that out there who build their life on their husband instead of the Lord and then they are stuck not knowing what to do because their husband has now passed away suddenly and they feel lost. I talked to one such lady on the phone that was a client and she was crying because she didn't even know how to turn off her alarm. She said she depended on her husband for everything. With all due respect to her, don't be like that lady!!!! Don't expect your husband to be fighting for you in prayer and you don't learn how to be a prayer Warrior yourself. Have your own money and make sure your name is not tied up in his debt. Make sure your name is on the house too and have discussions with your husband to move in the direction of independence because tomorrow is not guaranteed. This is not fear tactics... it is wisdom! Better late than never! Also never call your husband your everything... only God is your everything!!
This man big head is full of wisdom. You are born differently to be unique and make differences in people's life. I always listen to different speakers, but yours is distinct. You are a blessing to this generation
Wow i loved this. Just listened to it all the way from Zimbabwe. I wouldnt mind my dsughter to listen to this so that she takes the correct route. Thank you pastor kingsley. God bless you
I just can't listen to this without commenting, this is a master piece, very difficult to see a minister of God who is very honest in his teachings, you teach the truth without fear and favour, please keep it up, permit me to say you remind of Apostle Joshua Selma. God bless you real good.
This message... I needed it. I thought i was now in a relationship with a wall. But now i have better understand of who he is. I was about to walk away from him after being with him for 4 years.
I am so blessed to hear this teaching, I would love to say I wish I had this teaching earlier in my life, but I’m aware nothing happens before the time and I’m grateful God saw fit for me to have this teaching at this moment knowing His timing is Perfect. Thank you Pastor K, you and your wife is a blessing to so many and I pray God’s continued blessings over your lives and ministry.
I’m not one for long videos however I thank God that I took the time to watch this. I learnt that I’m on the right track which is something I needed to hear in a world where people around you will call you ‘too holy’. Thank you, Pastor.
Pastor K, God bless you for this wonderful teaching. You are SUPER GIFTED. When I listen to your teaching, for a minute it's like I'm listening to your wife, and vice-versa. I can't bless God enough for the union. More grace. May God be glorified in Jesus name
I was confused that i had the wrong mentality about this whole thing until i watched this. That you very much sir. Now i am more confident and no one can make me believe otherwise. I am tired of this new generation nonsense.
Good morning, Thank u for advising us. God bless u. Men are not to be alone. But Men think we are pressuring them to settle down. Too many men are stubborn, suffering alone, scared, disappointed, past issues. Then they miss the Great Loving n Caring God fearing Woman. A woman who knows what she deserves. Relationships are not a waste.
1. Men aren't meant to be alone Woman came out of Man they also desire to be with someone the right one 2. The men you are describing are not the type of men you should be dating but Glad you avoided because they would have wasted your time . 3. Do not pursue a man no matter what . 4. If a man doesn't have a vision he can't expect him to lead you right
May God continue to bless you , give you more wisdom , more insight for all the contributions you are putting in to this very important institution of the body of Christ . Thank you so much sir/ Pastor K 👏🙏👍😍
I have been listening to you since I was 16 and I must confess, my relationship is so so great, we just need God's financial blessings and we believe it's not fear anymore, because I didn't just learn about relationships with man, I learnt to have a relationship with God from you... By the grace of God we will have to worship with you physically one day, that is my dream. God bless you sir...
Sir this is PURE GOLD! I pray that me and ALL the other women that hear this message really take your words serious. You literally gave all the secrets of a man. Even the vulnerable parts of a man. Even life advice for a woman.
God help us oh, seems been a good girl is very difficult, but we still holding on nd praying for God grace...thanks for the word sir.....we will still keep holding on
I stumbled upon this tonight.. it was amazing! 👏 I can so relate..I wish I had access to this before I married the wrong man. Moving forward to find the right partner, I will reflect back on the list. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo you are blessed and God have used you to open up the eyes of women. I've been blessed listening to this! 🙏🙌
Pst Kay keeps reminding the audience to clap. Pastor sir, what you're doing here is giving insights to life's issues. People are too lost listening and relating to everything you're saying that clapping is the last thing on their minds. This is not a regular sermon sir. May God replenish you!!!
Such wisdom. A treasured message. A love letter from God. Thank you Pastor for this offering. 🥹 I’m not even half way through and I’m greatly blessed already. May the Lord bless your ministry. With love from South Africa 🇿🇦
Pastor Kingsley, I can't get tired of listening to your teachings. You are on top of what you do, you are indeed a God sent. I wish I met you earlier much earlier in life. God bless and keep you sir.
Thank you for this message Pastor. Every young woman like myself needs to hear it. I've personally encountered things in my life where your teachings are very relevant and had I listened I would've avoided some glitches along the way. But lesson learned, God has been good to me and He wanted me to hear this message as it plays a part towards my healing and achieving of self-actualization, not only for myself or my children but for He who knew what gifts and talents He invested in me for His purpose. I hope all of us learn the beauty of this one day. We are more than what the world tells us
Thank you Soo much sir for this wonderful teaching. Now I know better. Dear lord forgive me for anyone I have looked down on but the truth remains that I don't love some of them so I quietly dismiss them I don't know if it means looking down. Father Lord on this word I commit unto you my Future husband that you give me a man that fears you, discipline and caring Amen.
One very truth padtor is saying now that break me to tears is wo.an are born lover and man can be selfish.a womans orayer id strong bc they pray with innermost selfless love.this is very really truth..i struggled in my marriage for 15 yrs.my childhoods. Love who later became very very rich in oil company.bc of too much money he had so many girlfriends and lookdown on me. Am not someone of low class,.am very beaut and well presented but he didnt see me any more This message really touch me.pastor you are true.continue showing love to your wife..this is beautiful
God bless you tremendously Sir! This is soooo hot & loaded! A must listen for every woman! I love you Pastor K! Thank you for yielding to the Holy Spirit!
With appreciation from Zimbabwe -This is heavenly am blessed and empowered i will stick to my standards and it is not about a man with money but a man who respects me. WOW Wow Salute Pastor Kingsley keep kinging
pastor K never disappoints. this is not only things you wanna tell women oh,some of us men badly need this too cus sometimes we don't even know better .
I was on a relationship going well, we speak daily and every night and then. We were distanced. 4 months into our proper relationship, I asked him a question - 'only him waka come, let me know your people?' . That night, I spoke to his family. Apparently they have been noticing the change and attention he gives on his phone and his nephew already snitches him to the rest of the family. Few months later, he told me his parents in Nigeria wants to meet me and all is history. We are happily married with 2 wonderful kids. Set standards - I didn't set standards in 2 past r/ships. I got home crying after seeing all the red flags and back into their arms. I turned to God and my husband located me miraculously and boom a true man with a heart of God and gold. I pray that yours locate you and that you enjoy your relationship and marriage in Jesus name 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen🙏
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1. Have standards 6:50
2. You are a beautiful masterpiece 26:20
3. You are better off alone than in a bad relationship. Dead weight and baggage will hold you back from your destiny and purpose 33:13
4. Learn more about men just attracting them. Learn how to relate and how they think 39:00
5. You have to grow spiritually 57:36
6. Make your own money 1:07:51
7. Develop yourself. Invest in improving yourself. 1:25:00
You are God-sent
I could have known you earlier than this time, your message is noting but the truth thanks.
Thank you for titling the time stamps !! 🙏🏾
Thank you❤️
Waw I am blessed with this message. But is there no solutions for some of us who missed it? I mean some of us that didn't hear dis message on time.
After watching this video, I had to pray for you. You will do 60, 70,100 years on earth. You will live to fulfill your days sir. You are a John the Baptist of marriage. God is really using you for our generation and we pray he will keep you longer for us. Much love to you and your family.
Amen...and God will continually keep their marriage. Amen!
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen 💝
Amen
I almost ruined my marriage, untill I came across pastor K and Pastor M message. I'm grateful to God for making me locate this amazing couple.
As a single woman I was invested in the Godly way, followed all of these inspite of the mockery for being "stubborn" about this.....I thank God today that didn't discourage me. Today, married to a noble man who waited for me & with me. God honored His word & blessed me with the best man ever, as we work together to build the best marriage God has purposed for US. This video gets me emotional. Ladies, this is the Truth...don't change. City girl movement is not glamorous at all. idc what society tries to paint.
Take the embarrassing jokes, reverse-psychology labels, name-calling or pressures with grace. Take it like a warrior because God is with you like Esther, like Joseph, like Daniel & like Jesus on the cross. If I perish I perish ruggedness. You will get the last laugh. Thank you Pst K.
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I agree with what you’re saying but what does what he’s teaching I’ve to do with zodiac signs ?
I need your counseling regarding my marriage decision am confused about it i need your help lady am from india
Amen! Thank you for sharing your testimony. 🙏
I love nice bags and shoes having worked in the UK for over 30 years. I can't imagine asking my husband to give me money to buy that expensive bag. I have them in different colours and one day my husband said "You are still buying"? I said "Yes" l worked for it and it's time to enjoy. Please make your own MONEY 💰
Don't marry a man with television but a man with a vision, because the vision will put you on television 🤗😍
True story
Yeah...or under it 😒
Wow there's so much gems this guy was sharing about men, and women are still not listening! Lol this guy shared real secrets!! Some I already knew of cause I have brothers and male friends, and they keep it real with me 😂 but I still learnt more from this guy.
8:00 This is true! Men love to impress! I recently complimented one of my male colleague's looks last week. It's been two days in sharp suits and he now passes by my office every 2-3 hours just to say hi. This morning, he comes to my desk and asks, "How's my suit today?" Lol!
Hahaha!!😂, Best example 😅
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Ladies, if he is not teachable, if he does not enjoy conversation and communication either run or accept him... RUN. Nobody is perfect but everyone should be teachable and open to learning. I hope there are more lessons training men how to be good husbands. Otherwise divorce will continue to increase. Women learn and apply what they learn, however it takes the man to make effort as well for the union to hold.
I'm gonna have to agree. Most teachings are so focused on how women are to equip themselves to ensure that their men are pleased and happy. Would like to see more of such teachings directed to men so we don't have proud men that are not willing to compromise inorder to make their relationships/marriages work.
@@pulechamah3759 same. It's like they prepare women for marriage but men
@@pulechamah3759 Entitled men... and it starts from cradle👌🏽
Sadly, so true 😔
I just discovered this man of God yesterday, and I’ve been marathon listening since!
Me too just discovered him this week
It's hard not to binge watch this content. It's a very timely message.
Hearing some of this point so late. Mistakes has been made already and I’m trying not to dwell on my mistakes. God help me.
Men don't talk to you about a problem because they dont see you as a/the solution.
I must say this, I have never seen a TH-cam clip for over an hour, if I did that means I skipped some scenes.
Thank you PK for this teaching. God bless you
One thing that trills me about PK is his honesty, calling spade spade, and talking to humans unlike some pastors that talk as though they live in space. You quote the bible and bring it home with things we see daily, that way, stories of the bible has meaning to our daily lives.
May Jehovah hold you strong to keep doing what you are called to do and heal our youth.
31.00 That is very correct. My husband is never attracted to a fair lady. Imagine if i had bleached my skin, maybe I wouldn't be enjoying the peace and bliss I have been enjoying for 8 years now. Maybe I would have ended up in wrong hands.
Some men will leave when you have standards. Sometimes you will have to walk away when you have standards. It's a good loss.
Love this!!
Both of you weren't in it
@@loudit101 that's not even it.
My ex for example 😅😅😅
He said am too good for him and too perfect 😅😅
Halleluyah! Thank you so much brother for rightly dividing the word of truth. Having being married for almost 30 years l can satisfy that this is a true word of God. I married as a virgin and my husband waited for me for almost 8 years as he was ready but l was not ready. I love what l heard here today, if a man has self control now, it won't be an issue when you marry. Make your own MONEY 💰 Do not marry for money. We are called to be a Proverbs 31 woman. Halleluyah! For every woman reading this, pray that God should reveal his plans for your life to you... Women! Go back to school. Keep learning!
God bless you abundantly
Amen God Blessed you!This happened to me I was dating this man whom we are now married after 16yrs of of knowing eachother.We both had gotten out bad relationship.We stayed in touch through out the years and stayed really good friends.We dated for a short time but decided at time wasn’t the right time.We are now together and stronger than ever.When I left my unhealthy relationship I asked god to send me the right man in my life .I ask god to allow my heart to heal from my past and forgive and move on so I can love again.I am with the man that when I first seen I told my family and friends that’s my husband.Now after 16yrs we are together 🙏🏿🙌🏾❤️God definitely heard my prayers I couldn’t be more happy with anyone else.God fearing ,family man and loves me and my boys unconditionally.Allow god to guide your footsteps and he will give the man you need not what you want!Stay blessed my friend god bless you and your marriage 🙏🏿🙌🏾❤️
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
You are on this platform and the message is touching you please don't ignore ,there is a grace that comes with timely message as opposed to I wish I learnt this before I made that choice ,this is the Lord showing you his salvation ............
I'm only 37 mins into this video, and I'm wondering what I've been doing with my life these few years...
Glad, I can still incorporate this beautiful teachings.
God bless you sir
Great teaching. I've shared with my younger sisters this invaluable information. There are so many things which I will be reinforcing or putting into practice. Pastor K ,keep on teaching and encouraging women everywhere.
I am just 19mins into this video , and I am already seeing all my mistakes
Here I was thinking this guy isn’t into me when I refused to set the standards
Within me I didn’t even ask where’s this going to and I was walking away already without saying what I want !!
God bless you Teacher
And the Lord bless the woman God gave you
"Am convinced that a woman cannot have a successful marriage without having this kind of knowledge. That is why Jesus said, my children perish due to lack of knowledge." From Zambia.
true. Its nice to see a number of people like me following from Zambia.
@@namysparkle Thank you.
Us the Zambians
@@esthermwila7830 Am proud of you Ms Mwila Esther to listen to pastor Kingsley Okonkwo teachings from Nigeria while we are living in Zambia. Which part of Zambia are you from?
@@ernestmulenga3890 I live in Lusaka, Kabanana Site and Service. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is my mentor in the area of relationships. My best friend and I listen to him alot
I'm wowed! I have been married for 21 years now and I have learnt a lot here and how l wished I knew Soo much about men before, but now l have nuggets for any young woman l meet to counsel them to have standards.
"A man chases a woman until she catches him". My father was a brilliant powerful but gentle man!
Once I start listening to pastor Kingsley.I cant stop till i reach the end . His teachings are just so pure and inspiring. I thank God for this💖
Pastor K I knew about you so late. I have made a blunder of my life because I wasn't empowered with the right knowledge. God bless you sir.
Once you talk to WOMEN, you have simultaneously talked to we MEN ❤️
Sure
Would The Husband Help With The Children And Taking Care Of The House Work ????
You didn't Encourage That !!!!!
Holy spirit, direct me, lead me and take me to my better half, help me to be miss right to Mr right help me to be the place he calls home, help me lord , help me 😥😭
Can't count how many times I paused this video to ponder.. I learnt alot from here ☺️😊
Pastor K, I no gree oh! Men can be cagey about their intentions and manipulative. I really like that you encourage women to be proactive about what they want. A lot about culture tells women to do the opposite.
It's refreshing to hear a pastor advise women to invest in their own calling. Sometimes people make submission seem like self erasure because of marriage.
You're so right, but thank God you and I will not settle for those kind cagey ones
@@maidenhackman7100 yes. By their fruits they are found out 🤣🤣🤣
@@KiRetteCouture yes o
I'm blessed with this teachings. You just can't go into any form of relationship with men either business or marital without this Great knowledge.. more anointing sir.
I've been listening to most of your wife's sermons which are really great. You are both wise. May God continue to use you both
If I didn't say pastor K and M have not been a blessing to me, am lying. GOD bless you sir
It's my opinion about it too, ladies, make your own money to pay for what you want to have, both need to work today, cause it is so expensive to have a decent life together 👍👌🤗
I really feel bad for all the mistakes I've made but thank God this message suits me right
This was soooooo good and relatable. God bless you Pastor K. More anointing. This will saves lives and destinies for those that have ears.
You spoke facts. All facts.
Women build yourselves up even the quality of men you'll attract will be different when you build yourself up.
Men can be destiny distractions especially the wrong man.
Discernment is a MUST. Every good and perfect thing comes from God. Seek God He's the best gift giver, He will route the right man to you.
Marriage is ministry not for selfish reasons or self aggrandisement.
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True 💯✊🏽
Could you please elaborate on your last sentence. Thank you.
@@phillipwilliams7679 marriage is not for selfish people, it's where you go to serve one another. That's why I say it's a ministry.
Chaiiiiii this Pastor is full of Wisdom, the evidence is clear
Thank you so much, Pastor Mildred for being an example and a standard for we young girls to follow. You made the teaching easy for Dad as he was using you as a practical example and reference, making the principles easier for us to believe and to want to run with. God bless you, ma.
I get so enraptured with PK and PM. I love you both beyond measure. Truth is truth and not but the truth, this is the word.
If you leave a man to his own devices, he has a high chance of self-destruction and as a woman, you are his regulator if not the family goes down and you are included.
Somebody tell me, where is the lie in this matter? We have learned the hard way.
Cy, In fact the Bible in Proverbs refers to wisdom as "she." No accident. Women were made in the image of God, not just men, and whereas men can be great warriors and leaders, women have wisdom and the fruit of the Spirit - love, joy, kindness, patience, etc - and we care for, raise, and love on the children. We are the women referred in the expression ("behind every good man is a good woman."
A man I work with said he used to date worldly women. His mother told kept urging him to meet a woman of substance. He listened. He met a good woman at his former job. He said he can't imagine his life without her. They travel, have a nice house, a baby...he said she made him a better man!
Who is here in 2024
Trusting God to be married this year so I'm getting ready for it .
Listening to marriage coach and I'm learning alot
We are in this together 😢😅
I have learned so much from this teaching. Pastor Kingsley, you have earned yourself a new follower from Zambia. May you live long sir!!
Who is here in 2024??
1. Please have high standards
Be clear about what you want.
Be clear about your standards.
Give the guy guidelines.
Pastor,more anointing upon your life and ministry, l must come to your church or your seminars anytime l am in Nigeria, am watching 👀 this talk over ^over again,lve been married for 30years& am still learning from all your messages and your wife is out of this world oo, you are both excellent in your God given mandate, Agape love Mrs Abimbola Taiwo Leeds UK
Married 14 years he is 💯 % right ✅️
Am repeating this sermon and still hit me deep may God help us
God help me to love you, not because of what I want from you. Help me fulfil my destiny and purpose with or without marriage, Amen 🙏
YES SIR!!! NO RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BAD RELATIONSHIP.
Pastor K you are such a big blessing to this generation, more power and grace as you do His purpose while on earth. Greatly appreciate your selfless sharing!
Wow, Holy Ghost! Thank you for your counsel and for Pastors who care so much to share such HELPFUL ADVICE!!! He's right there are women like that out there who build their life on their husband instead of the Lord and then they are stuck not knowing what to do because their husband has now passed away suddenly and they feel lost. I talked to one such lady on the phone that was a client and she was crying because she didn't even know how to turn off her alarm. She said she depended on her husband for everything. With all due respect to her, don't be like that lady!!!! Don't expect your husband to be fighting for you in prayer and you don't learn how to be a prayer Warrior yourself. Have your own money and make sure your name is not tied up in his debt. Make sure your name is on the house too and have discussions with your husband to move in the direction of independence because tomorrow is not guaranteed. This is not fear tactics... it is wisdom! Better late than never! Also never call your husband your everything... only God is your everything!!
No relationship is better than a bad one. God bless you sir
This man big head is full of wisdom. You are born differently to be unique and make differences in people's life. I always listen to different speakers, but yours is distinct. You are a blessing to this generation
Wow i loved this. Just listened to it all the way from Zimbabwe. I wouldnt mind my dsughter to listen to this so that she takes the correct route. Thank you pastor kingsley. God bless you
Sisonke wena
Tiri tose wena
This revealed to me how unprepared I am for marriage. Chinke God I commit myself to wisdom dear Abba father. Help me Lord.
I just can't listen to this without commenting, this is a master piece, very difficult to see a minister of God who is very honest in his teachings, you teach the truth without fear and favour, please keep it up, permit me to say you remind of Apostle Joshua Selma. God bless you real good.
I don't know how I stumbled in this but one thing for sure I can't stop listening, am a new subscriber pap
If you take most of your time pleasing God, you'll attract the right man.
Thanks pastor K
No body teaches like this man of God
I have never heard such a powerful message like this. God bless you Pastor
1:13:11 I am fortunate to have this masterpiece whilst planning on our day of Marriage. Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Okonkwo.
This message... I needed it. I thought i was now in a relationship with a wall. But now i have better understand of who he is. I was about to walk away from him after being with him for 4 years.
God bless you sir. I can't begin to explain how grateful I am to have stumbled on your teachings and how much of an impact they've made in my life.
I am so blessed to hear this teaching, I would love to say I wish I had this teaching earlier in my life, but I’m aware nothing happens before the time and I’m grateful God saw fit for me to have this teaching at this moment knowing His timing is Perfect. Thank you Pastor K, you and your wife is a blessing to so many and I pray God’s continued blessings over your lives and ministry.
I’m not one for long videos however I thank God that I took the time to watch this. I learnt that I’m on the right track which is something I needed to hear in a world where people around you will call you ‘too holy’. Thank you, Pastor.
Lord help us to grow spiritually 🙏🏾
Pastor K, God bless you for this wonderful teaching. You are SUPER GIFTED. When I listen to your teaching, for a minute it's like I'm listening to your wife, and vice-versa. I can't bless God enough for the union. More grace. May God be glorified in Jesus name
I was confused that i had the wrong mentality about this whole thing until i watched this. That you very much sir. Now i am more confident and no one can make me believe otherwise. I am tired of this new generation nonsense.
Good morning,
Thank u for advising us. God bless u.
Men are not to be alone. But Men think we are pressuring them to settle down. Too many men are stubborn, suffering alone, scared, disappointed, past issues. Then they miss the Great Loving n Caring God fearing Woman.
A woman who knows what she deserves.
Relationships are not a waste.
1. Men aren't meant to be alone Woman came out of Man they also desire to be with someone the right one
2. The men you are describing are not the type of men you should be dating but Glad you avoided because they would have wasted your time .
3. Do not pursue a man no matter what .
4. If a man doesn't have a vision he can't expect him to lead you right
@@apologeticministry You are correct.
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@@apologeticministry was a typeo 😂.
Why didn't i come across any of your message in my 20/21, well I'm 23 now and I'm happy because I believe its not too late to set priorities.
May God continue to bless you , give you more wisdom , more insight for all the contributions you are putting in to this very important institution of the body of Christ . Thank you so much sir/ Pastor K 👏🙏👍😍
I have been listening to you since I was 16 and I must confess, my relationship is so so great, we just need God's financial blessings and we believe it's not fear anymore, because I didn't just learn about relationships with man, I learnt to have a relationship with God from you... By the grace of God we will have to worship with you physically one day, that is my dream. God bless you sir...
Sir this is PURE GOLD! I pray that me and ALL the other women that hear this message really take your words serious. You literally gave all the secrets of a man. Even the vulnerable parts of a man. Even life advice for a woman.
Know God..... That's my take above all else most of these men are not even worth it.... Thank you Pastor
Let's be calm, let's be humble and let's be kind. Awesome!!!!!!
God help us oh, seems been a good girl is very difficult, but we still holding on nd praying for God grace...thanks for the word sir.....we will still keep holding on
Blessed listening to this message even as a man. God bless you more Pastor. Amen
I can't tired of watching and listening to this. Thank you dadthy
Thank you Pastor. I wish and hope women/ladies access this vital information to build themselves. I learned a lot from this. Blessings
I stumbled upon this tonight.. it was amazing! 👏 I can so relate..I wish I had access to this before I married the wrong man. Moving forward to find the right partner, I will reflect back on the list. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo you are blessed and God have used you to open up the eyes of women. I've been blessed listening to this! 🙏🙌
A most excellent, enlightening, uplifting, positive, discerning, and relevant message. Thank you.
Man of God you are God sent. What a true talk, God bless you sir
Why am I just seeing this wonderful advice, thanks Pastor for this eye opener. Let God continue to bless you and your family in abundance. Amen
African will not clap for all the amazing nuggets. This powerful.
Pst Kay keeps reminding the audience to clap. Pastor sir, what you're doing here is giving insights to life's issues. People are too lost listening and relating to everything you're saying that clapping is the last thing on their minds. This is not a regular sermon sir.
May God replenish you!!!
You are obviously talking to me sir. From today, I will high my standard.
Such wisdom. A treasured message. A love letter from God. Thank you Pastor for this offering. 🥹 I’m not even half way through and I’m greatly blessed already. May the Lord bless your ministry. With love from South Africa 🇿🇦
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Pastor Kingsley, I can't get tired of listening to your teachings. You are on top of what you do, you are indeed a God sent. I wish I met you earlier much earlier in life. God bless and keep you sir.
Not all men are clear about what they want….. most have decided to lie instead
i hear this one sir.......chioma you are more sophisticated,more gifted than the average man
Show that what you got baby 😂😂😂😂😂I love this
I see alot of wisdom here. May God bless you Mr. Okonkwo and family.
Thank you for this message Pastor. Every young woman like myself needs to hear it. I've personally encountered things in my life where your teachings are very relevant and had I listened I would've avoided some glitches along the way. But lesson learned, God has been good to me and He wanted me to hear this message as it plays a part towards my healing and achieving of self-actualization, not only for myself or my children but for He who knew what gifts and talents He invested in me for His purpose. I hope all of us learn the beauty of this one day. We are more than what the world tells us
Preach Brother Kingsley!
I don’t even have words but oh my Pastor K!!! Thank you! I stumbled on this and it came right!
Thank you Soo much sir for this wonderful teaching. Now I know better.
Dear lord forgive me for anyone I have looked down on but the truth remains that I don't love some of them so I quietly dismiss them I don't know if it means looking down.
Father Lord on this word I commit unto you my Future husband that you give me a man that fears you, discipline and caring Amen.
I am beautiful. I am a Masterpiece ... Thank you sir, I really thank you for this ...
I will set my standards very high. May God bless you.
One very truth padtor is saying now that break me to tears is wo.an are born lover and man can be selfish.a womans orayer id strong bc they pray with innermost selfless love.this is very really truth..i struggled in my marriage for 15 yrs.my childhoods. Love who later became very very rich in oil company.bc of too much money he had so many girlfriends and lookdown on me.
Am not someone of low class,.am very beaut and well presented but he didnt see me any more
This message really touch me.pastor you are true.continue showing love to your wife..this is beautiful
God bless you tremendously Sir! This is soooo hot & loaded! A must listen for every woman! I love you Pastor K! Thank you for yielding to the Holy Spirit!
Feeding money, God bless u Pst. I know most men don't appreciate u cause u teach to protect women. God bless man of God.
With appreciation from Zimbabwe -This is heavenly am blessed and empowered i will stick to my standards and it is not about a man with money but a man who respects me. WOW Wow Salute Pastor Kingsley keep kinging
pastor K never disappoints.
this is not only things you wanna tell women oh,some of us men badly need this too cus sometimes we don't even know better .
Eish! Pastor your teachings ar too much I'm really blessed, much love ❤ from Zimbabwe.
EIIIEE HOW DO U ATTAIN ALL THESE WISDOM. ALL WHAT U ARE SAYING IS EXTREMELY PRACTICAL. WOOWWW
Nothing will make me stop listening to your preaching, it has been of a big favour to me, thanks for your teaching pastor Kingsley