5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Join @mildred kingsley-okonkwo as she shares 5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship.
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  • @footprints9260
    @footprints9260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    1.foundation
    2.counselling
    3.mentorship
    4 commitment over feelings

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      5.Accountability

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Enter marriage 1.with jesus 2.with joy... partners are not mandated to bring joy.

  • @esthertwumwaaasante8663
    @esthertwumwaaasante8663 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "If you are good Christian, you'll have a good marriage. why? Because you will be led by the Spirit of God!"
    Thank you Ma❤️

  • @josephineamal9380
    @josephineamal9380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This lady is training me to be a potential wife! Am blessed ma♥️🙏

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This woman is EXCEPTIONAL!! I like the way she is so passionate about the Word of God!

  • @eleakoh
    @eleakoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Marriage is a covenant. You don’t do covenants by feelings but by commitments 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you Pastor M 💗

  • @gizzellemcleish1837
    @gizzellemcleish1837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    "If you are single and fornicating you are training yourself for adultery. You are an adultery trainee." Now that's wisdom.

  • @johnkiggundu2232
    @johnkiggundu2232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "Enter with Jesus in one hand and joy in the other." - what a powerful statement that is!

    • @chidimma180
      @chidimma180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊

  • @hopeifeyinwa9629
    @hopeifeyinwa9629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    If wisdom was a person! Pastor M, you inspire me so much.
    More wisdom to you ma

  • @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429
    @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Ever since i started listening to your teachings,my whole perspective about relationships love and marriage has changed. Thank you!!

    • @taytayl3866
      @taytayl3866 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same girl, same. We on a whole new level now. And thank God for that 🙏🏾

    • @jallusandra7079
      @jallusandra7079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have been set freed from your powerful messages.
      Good bless you mummy

    • @asombapromise9671
      @asombapromise9671 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @chidimma180
      @chidimma180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊

    • @andreahmwanza9184
      @andreahmwanza9184 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!! She is so amazing!

  • @peaced.ekemini1316
    @peaced.ekemini1316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The way PM says “Are you joking?” Your Brain can just reset 🤣 I love you Mama 💕

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu, Pastor M!
    Marriage isn't about feelings; it's about commitment. The same character you should have is what you should normally have as a Christian. True!

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka6624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We need women like you in Uganda🇺🇬, may God mightly continue using you, thanks for the msg mom

  • @chibuzoihentuge-eric73
    @chibuzoihentuge-eric73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    If Jesus is not done, we are not done. Wow. The family part too was also incredible

  • @germainekakah4905
    @germainekakah4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I just got to know about pastor mildred and to be honest i love her sincerity in expressing truth. At times when i speak these things some people tell me i am so hard , and others say i am too strict.However these truth have kept me all these years. I pray as many as listens to you put it in practise.

    • @germainekakah4905
      @germainekakah4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If any one puts this truth into practise, your heart and life will be intact but if not , you will leave or live with a broken heart or life.

    • @charitykawira1367
      @charitykawira1367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woow I thought I am alone..since I got these teachings pple say am hard to get..but am confident and choose the Godly way into marriage.i believe God will lead and connect me to the purposed man

  • @Es_Elle
    @Es_Elle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Every woman should hear this message and heed the imparted wisdom.

  • @carolinekuria8355
    @carolinekuria8355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Only a woman walking step by step with can give such a wonderful and great message honestly it has really opened my eyes and before getting in a relationship or marriage I should consider all this. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @fullizettembong4221
    @fullizettembong4221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I got here by accident but this teaching was definitely planned for me to get a different view in getting into a relationship. Thank you Jesus. God bless you Ma

    • @garenanighoro3722
      @garenanighoro3722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, you didn’t get here by accident.
      Your steps were ordered here.
      Just as mine was.

    • @KuddizaAmos
      @KuddizaAmos ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Holy Ghost works no coincidence

  • @impactmen
    @impactmen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A time to be alive to listen to this where ever you are. I am single and I am learning so much from her and her husband.

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You made it look so easy here to obey and walk in love . You are are wealth of wisdom . The day you said yes to pastor Kingsley , you stayed in the will of God . No doubt God is the foundation of your marriage . Keep fulfilling your divine mandate . More anointing to you madam . I love your ministry and what you stand for . Your authentic and transparency was so catchy . You was speaking under the Holy Spirit and not under flesh . God bless .

  • @damikuteyi
    @damikuteyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Big Lessons - Marriage will never be about how I feel. My partner was not created to make me happy. Jesus is my primary motivation in marriage. I come in with my own joy/happiness.

    • @damikuteyi
      @damikuteyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marriage is commitment, not feelings

  • @eunicemagaji7619
    @eunicemagaji7619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "Until God gets what he wants we're not not done, we're not going anywhere". Amazing... Thank God for the gift of your marriage in my life ❤️

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have found my wife... I didn't know that I would have fallen in love with her. Honestly. Because she's slim. I don't really like slim woman. But I went to that church had a connection with her. Pray about it fast about it she did the same... We both got confirmation from God!!!! We just got married two weeks now God is very very awesome. I love love Jesus

  • @victoriaosunkwo1095
    @victoriaosunkwo1095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is only TH-cam that knows how much of your videos I have downloaded. I'm not even thinking of going into ministry unless God says so, but when you preach I see myself, cos you preach most of the things I would say normally if I were to be talking to anyone . You have been a blessing to me for over 2yrs now, I'm not married yet, I'm in my mid 20's. Thank you so much PM! God bless you♥️

  • @melodygamiros9425
    @melodygamiros9425 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would say that if marriage doesn't work for me I would just quit. But after hearing this message I get the clearest picture.
    1. Marriage is not based on emotions.
    2. Covenant is not done based on emotions but commitment.
    3.The good foundation of anything we do or decide to commit to is God!

  • @Handiesafrica
    @Handiesafrica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just love Pastor M! God will keep keeping you Ma. The devil will fail in any gimmicks of his to bring you down. May you never lose relevance Ma. Pastor Mildred, you will never ever lose you flavor. In Jesus mighty name🙏

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Mama you are looking so beautiful and your hair style is fine I love it, more Grace to you ma, your teaching always makes a meaningful in my life and it makes me to understand things in relationship which I don't know before.. Thanks ma

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pst M, it's not easy oo. Someone you have loved and been with. Kai, the will of God honestly, can be painful at times. But I am sold out to his will, I know he will see me through it.

  • @SniderBrilly
    @SniderBrilly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm from kenya currently working in Saudia Arabia. I'm telling you since I started listening to you hve learned alot thank you so much pastor Mildred God bless you

  • @theladyfaith_
    @theladyfaith_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you pastor M🥰
    if you tell pastor funmi you are going to that boys house to collect textbook,she calls steadily to make sure that’s all you went there for,she is fulfilling her accountability part. Seeing her call will reset your brain

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    9th/1/2023.
    God thank you for everything
    I feel blessed to here this when am still single 🌟🍃💕

  • @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx
    @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Isaiah 30:15❤❤❤❤

  • @cynthiadiama5072
    @cynthiadiama5072 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the REALNESS OF LIVING LIFE, THAT IS WITHIN YOU....TRUTH ...I LOVE THIS !

  • @BirunjiFaithWAYESU
    @BirunjiFaithWAYESU 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am really blessed, its my first to watch this as a single person 2024❤thank u so much 🇺🇬

  • @RACQUEL830
    @RACQUEL830 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Feelings have got nothing to do with marriage. Your emotions will not always be there! Well Noted. I love you pastor Mildred for statements on point.

  • @princessohemaa8168
    @princessohemaa8168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You are a blessing to my life and Marriage pastor Mildred.

  • @nicolewashe9005
    @nicolewashe9005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When God says no, carry your bag and run

  • @okwaramercy5921
    @okwaramercy5921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Listening to you anytime is always a blessing. The fact that you're "raw" and straight with the truth.
    God bless you richly Ma!

  • @landrybalbin560
    @landrybalbin560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow 😭, this has blessed me exponentially. Thank you for this 🙌🏾.

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you and God bless P.M for this message!🙌

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    May God continue giving me wisdom and knowledge💛love your teachings

  • @chrystabelotu5328
    @chrystabelotu5328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pure Wisdom!God bless you ma❤️

  • @mandiptabot230
    @mandiptabot230 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ma for the teachings. May God continue to use you...

  • @jejeprofit3595
    @jejeprofit3595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pure unadulterated wisdom 💕 thank you WoG

  • @eniolaenioluwabo7784
    @eniolaenioluwabo7784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She comes with pure fire!! Pastor M on the rollllll....

  • @sandraigbinoghene1650
    @sandraigbinoghene1650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I somuch love listening to you and Pastor K's teaching, because ye both says it as it is, more grace and upliftment to you ma

  • @senooobaayaajuliana9214
    @senooobaayaajuliana9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ps.Mildred this is super amazing, am so blessed, have learnt a lot; thank you so much and God richly bless you.

  • @privkatema6147
    @privkatema6147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom Pastor Mildred. God bless and keep you for us

  • @davidkondo7248
    @davidkondo7248 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im very blessed by this message today, i cannot thank you enough for this tremendous mind openning as im exactly in the midst of getting married may GOD keeps on using and blessing you. THank you Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, all the way from the Democratic Republic of the CONGO. GOD bless

  • @glorychristina1738
    @glorychristina1738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Pastor Mildred for this. God should continue blessing you to speak his truth, I love your teachings so much

  • @sophiaewuramamensah505
    @sophiaewuramamensah505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am really blessed with your teachings woman of God, my perspectives have changed totally. God bless you

  • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
    @everydaylifebyrozy6174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen. Watched live and from Nairobi , Kenya and can't get enough of it .I'm watching again.

  • @kyerewaahdapaah3531
    @kyerewaahdapaah3531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I always get to draw from your wise counselling. Thank you Maa

  • @ndidintekpere3613
    @ndidintekpere3613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amazing and down to earth message.
    Love every minute of it 💝

  • @babasolaogunyimika3589
    @babasolaogunyimika3589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU PASTOR, I AM BLESSED THIS EVENING.

  • @florencekayiti4721
    @florencekayiti4721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Lord i know that you are the one with my true future husband 💍🙏🙏🙏🙏 👑 let me trust in your timing lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @favourcyril1172
    @favourcyril1172 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow 😳! I just started listening to pastor Mildred but I must confess, I was indeed blessed by this wisdom. More grace ma

  • @victoriadarko4383
    @victoriadarko4383 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is good. May God bless you richly. Lady Pastor

  • @munroetv6389
    @munroetv6389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much wisdom 🥺 thank you Pastor M💕

  • @jonathanquartey6705
    @jonathanquartey6705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God Bless you woman of God, You are a gift from God

  • @misslydia45
    @misslydia45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God will continue to bless my far away mentor Pastor Mildred ❤️❤️

  • @elly8588
    @elly8588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This so stood out to me. There is a difference between fruit and gift kaiiish

  • @oketchfrancis7445
    @oketchfrancis7445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mama milidred am really blessed with that word of knowledge may God bless you

  • @jesusistheway783
    @jesusistheway783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May the Lod Bless you abundantly Women of God ! you have engligthen me in a whole other level so glad i have found yo here on TH-cam

  • @mulengamwelwa3817
    @mulengamwelwa3817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    More wisdom Zambia is listening we are blessed

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so helpful. Thanks Pastor M

  • @ychatsala
    @ychatsala 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always come back to this teaching.

  • @MmasomNdefo
    @MmasomNdefo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a message for our generation. Thanks Pastor M

  • @prophetictribe44
    @prophetictribe44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good! Thank you ma🙏🏾❤️🔥

  • @tanyinana7013
    @tanyinana7013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My journey just started today 🔥🔥🔥thank you pastor M🙏

  • @wana4592
    @wana4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your teachings are so timely ma💯🙏

  • @dupebrown3815
    @dupebrown3815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a powerful message. Thank you ma 🙏🙏🙏

  • @andreahmwanza9184
    @andreahmwanza9184 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!! You have really changed my perspective about marriage.
    Every teaching I listen to by you makes me a better person and I'm so glad that I learn from you❤️

  • @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc
    @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc วันที่ผ่านมา

    This message has changed my view of relationship, Thank you so much ma, God bless you

  • @alukwejoy808
    @alukwejoy808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am blessed..reality is what you say..thank you for opening my eyes

  • @inothsindini7610
    @inothsindini7610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Pastor Mildred
    Thanks for your teaching they helps me a lot

  • @Jesssuuusss_.
    @Jesssuuusss_. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, Pastor M❤️💐
    God richly bless you for saving your generation 🙏

  • @user-oz5fn2gz3l
    @user-oz5fn2gz3l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am always blessed on your teaching ma God bless you so much n may He continue to use u dear👏

  • @margaretikona5382
    @margaretikona5382 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you pastor M for the word u Give ....I love and adore you so much ma

  • @mabel.e.kgalley9710
    @mabel.e.kgalley9710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The information in the message is so powerful and practical I couldn't wait for it to finish before sharing. Woman of God, keep letting out the truth, God bless you for speaking it. Thanks a lot.

  • @MondesThreads
    @MondesThreads ปีที่แล้ว

    So so so good. I really wish I had know all of this before I got married. Never too late to learn

  • @johndorcas9657
    @johndorcas9657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love u mummy, and you are speaking to me ..God bless me and you Amen.

  • @ashantiakoffi5595
    @ashantiakoffi5595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Ma and God you bless your ministry. I am proud to Subscribers

  • @jacquelineadadeobour4942
    @jacquelineadadeobour4942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In fact!... Wisdom is indeed a woman, God bless you Pastor M.

  • @chidinmamercy
    @chidinmamercy ปีที่แล้ว

    Am really blessed by this message, thank you ma

  • @oluwadarasimigrace
    @oluwadarasimigrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u mummy 💓
    This is so powerful🙏🙏🙏
    God bless u ma🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Si-cb6il
    @Si-cb6il 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you pastor Mildred for this powerful message✨ love you ma💐

  • @dorothyowusuaa595
    @dorothyowusuaa595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really blessed. God bless you Ma more grace for greater works

  • @favouremmanuelimaobong5646
    @favouremmanuelimaobong5646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ma, pray to learn more about God's word and letting go of unforgiven ess

  • @akellopriscillablessing6869
    @akellopriscillablessing6869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you... Wisdom is speaking

  • @estherkangwa5788
    @estherkangwa5788 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy your teachings..may God reachly bless you

  • @iyanu_de_real_estate_buddy
    @iyanu_de_real_estate_buddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a blessing to this generation ma. God bless you the more in Jesus name ma.

  • @celestineasumah4511
    @celestineasumah4511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Wisdom Ma'am!! Truth...

  • @ajaoiyanuoluwa6172
    @ajaoiyanuoluwa6172 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you pastor Mildred. God bless you

  • @sycostiirene7439
    @sycostiirene7439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have impacted my so far . Much love from Kenya

  • @deborahbenjamin1340
    @deborahbenjamin1340 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this powerful ministration ma. God bless and increase you ma❤️

  • @oluwatobilobaomotolani678
    @oluwatobilobaomotolani678 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this powerful ministration.

  • @amarachiezekiel9691
    @amarachiezekiel9691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.
    Thank you so much Ma'am.
    May God bless you for us o

  • @d_kings_princess
    @d_kings_princess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This pastor and wisdom...Chai 🙌🙌🙌

  • @Abba_praise
    @Abba_praise 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you mama,I pray for such grace

  • @deraglory6517
    @deraglory6517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you ma for this,
    The best part of this message for me is the foundation on which I am building whatever I am building which should be the word of God and oh that first scripture with message translation, kaiii, Matthew 7 vs 26- 27