DON'T Date A WOMAN With KIDS?!

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  ปีที่แล้ว +5

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    • @JimmyGarcia-hh2og
      @JimmyGarcia-hh2og ปีที่แล้ว

      The " momma bear" dumb bitch!!!
      With the asshole son!!!, Be careful.

  • @darwincollado8993
    @darwincollado8993 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Her children will be first, her ex second
    You will be last
    The fact that you took her! Is a failed test

    • @musicgirl999
      @musicgirl999 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not always true. I have a friend who’s guy has a couple other kids from someone else and they also have two kids of their own together. He actually NEVER put her second or third or whatever. He made her just as much of a priority as his kids were!

    • @gregwarren54
      @gregwarren54 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@musicgirl999big difference between men and women

    • @darwincollado8993
      @darwincollado8993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Typical female answer ( I know a friend) always! I also know a friend that won the lotto! And because of that reason I (we) shall be millionaires! Females always come up with the most xtupit arguments

    • @Claara111
      @Claara111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True

    • @firstname2930
      @firstname2930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@musicgirl999I guarantee he was not, is not and will never be first in her life

  • @michaelzero5278
    @michaelzero5278 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Every man should have standard

  • @cptmuffy
    @cptmuffy ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This should be taught to boys in elementary school.

  • @counsela9240
    @counsela9240 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Dating women with children never made any logical sense to me. Couldn’t understand why men did it.

    • @donnieo4838
      @donnieo4838 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's coming from a place of scarcity. I know from previous experience.

    • @somebody2409
      @somebody2409 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Cause they dont have options.

    • @GuitarGangsterArmi
      @GuitarGangsterArmi ปีที่แล้ว

      Fuck them and that’s it

    • @DanielBaikoff
      @DanielBaikoff ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, only men who don't respect themself and feel they have no other better options choose a woman with kids

    • @Amfred
      @Amfred ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I've done that and it's because I didn't have other options. Options don't always come easy.

  • @jamartemple
    @jamartemple 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm dating a woman with four kids right now and it's terrible because she comes with so much baggage and she has so much emotional Trauma from her previous relationships she's constantly comparing me to her exes there's so many red flags I'm about to leave

    • @leestyles6687
      @leestyles6687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Extremely wise decision

    • @Lerck87
      @Lerck87 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Run buddy. Dated one with 3, exactly what you said, i went through it. Run.

    • @firstname2930
      @firstname2930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get the hell out now!!!

    • @louditalian1962
      @louditalian1962 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like she is just mentally unstable. Plenty of single moms have no baggage, but you seem to have your own baggage

    • @bloodomen2794
      @bloodomen2794 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yup girl compared me to her ex said how he was taking care of her n how i wasn’t offering like him n left, glad it happened tbh it was hella red flags i just wouldn’t ignore

  • @KenOnStrength
    @KenOnStrength ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Play ‘em
    Don’t Date ‘em

  • @heavenawaits8010
    @heavenawaits8010 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As a woman, I completely agree. What's hilarious is seeing a man who divorces his wife and children, then refuses to be with a single mom. Gets with a woman without children, turns his back on his own.

    • @Understandme44
      @Understandme44 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do women always spin it back on a man. He’s clearly talking about women here. And since u went there let’s dissect ur response. 70-80 percent of divorces r made by women. And men don’t turn their back on their kids, it’s usually always the baby momma terrorist that drags men into court and makes unreasonable demands. Strips him of his resources and the kids turn against him by default. Men want peace and quiet and most modern women invade that.

    • @DSILVAjeiy
      @DSILVAjeiy ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤔 I think men are supposed to spread their seeds. They were designed to procreate.
      This is why most women don't feel safe with most men and rather work for themselves.
      I watched my sister go thru this with her ex-husband, who abandoned his kids for another woman. They were married for 28 years, rip

    • @tegathemenace
      @tegathemenace ปีที่แล้ว

      Technically he's a single father if he doesn't have the kids.🥴
      The underlying issue is having two men parent one child.
      Men are very territorial and competitive it just won't stand.
      And all their pettiness would fall on the poor mother.
      There's also always a possibility of a fight breaking out, how would the woman handle it.
      Versus a man handling two women nagging.

    • @heavenawaits8010
      @heavenawaits8010 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tegathemenace You're assuming the biological father is in the picture.

    • @heavenawaits8010
      @heavenawaits8010 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DSILVAjeiy It's no wonder women are not looking for marriage anymore. You give your whole life to a man, just to be abandoned. No thanks.

  • @anthonyw7789
    @anthonyw7789 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just got out of a relationship with a woman who has a kid and it was a waste of my time. Entitled, unappreciative disrespectful at times. I can see why her kids father avoids her and doesn’t see their child.

    • @TheCrispOne2024
      @TheCrispOne2024 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Booom!!! - 💥 - do women really believe they can lock down a quality man, if she has kids??
      Might have better luck winning the lotto lol 😂

    • @leocardoroger6270
      @leocardoroger6270 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah single mums are very disrespectful towards the new man they should be happy someone taking them seriously

  • @Raj-cl7he
    @Raj-cl7he 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I genuinely believe a women will not respect you even if she wanted you to commit to her and her child she would not see you as valuable .women are very smart creatures they can hold their own . If you submit to her baggage she will see you as stupid . I have had women like this although i treated them well i never committed and things were on my terms they always will be there

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I 💯 percent agree

  • @babak23237
    @babak23237 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This man is telling 💯 truth. I made rhat mistake with a single mom. The worst mistake if my life. There is absolutely no upside to it for the man.

  • @misaelrios7092
    @misaelrios7092 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Preach Brother! High Value Men should never lower their standards. Especially when they did everything right in their lives. I'm 35, I'm top G at my profession, I've climbed the latter, and now I have the opportunity to choose a Woman I want. I waited, didn't give in to being with someone I didn't want to be with, and now I have a 27 year old Beautiful Woman with no kids and a beautiful soul. God is Good!

    • @StephenKershaw1
      @StephenKershaw1 ปีที่แล้ว

      YOu sound like an inexperienced, naive beta ...you have no clue what high value men do or should do... YOU WILL NEVER BE ONE...sorry cupcake, we don't think like you.
      AND we also don't take advice from some goofy kid on youtube who has no credentials in human behavior or relationships.
      Seriously.... and here's the thing butterfly... YOU ARE THE ONE GETTING CHOSEN... you're not choosing

    • @tegathemenace
      @tegathemenace ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tate lite

    • @dragotadanielm3463
      @dragotadanielm3463 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Top G🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-yb9uv8wc8h
    @user-yb9uv8wc8h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a single mother. Did everything right until I met my abuser, ended up having a child with him. Now I’m here wondering if a decent man will ever want me

    • @ashmac4732
      @ashmac4732 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Met your abuser.. and had a child with him..
      How’s the weather in redflagistan?

    • @user-yb9uv8wc8h
      @user-yb9uv8wc8h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ashmac4732 If you knew anything about psychology you’d know these people target people who are most vulnerable. Some of us didn’t grow up in safe homes, so allowed to be treated poorly. Plus, his title says it.. abuse-r meaning he exploits the targeted person in ways too mind-bobbling for the victim to notice. Which sucks so idk

  • @icj5568
    @icj5568 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im a single childless woman and i agree i dont want to date someone with kids. Too much drama

  • @LordDante-oj7jo
    @LordDante-oj7jo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Women with kids are a no no for me, too problematic.

  • @GermanGuy007
    @GermanGuy007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It somewhat depends on your age. An age gap of more than 10 years can become problematic (my last girlfriend was 14 years younger), and from a certain age up females are either ugly, fat, insane or have kids.
    If they have kids already they are less likely to “forget” the pill and try to sneak you into marriage. This can save you a fortune. Also chances are that they haven’t been riding the carousel lately.
    I would always prefer a fantastic women with kids to any lunatic female that has no kids.

  • @LTtvCombatSports
    @LTtvCombatSports ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As someone who’s dealt with that once before I’ll never do it again it didn’t end well the physical aspect was there everything else it wasn’t you combine her having a kid plus the baby daddy issues and her being immature you could only imagine the shit I had to deal with

  • @pazzodi3
    @pazzodi3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't forget women use words to manipulate, they call their situation a package deal.. and it's not.. in any other situation a package deal means the buyer gets extra added benefits to their invested purchase. The woman's situation is not a packaged deal, it's a burden of obligation. A burden that the legitimate father did not want to undertake. That brings forth another concept women don't want to address, they produce men are the materials, if they run their production company by gathering inferior low quality materials, that's on them, they are the CEO of their company. We as man qualify women through their actions in life. If her life is a mess, she only qualifies for temporary gratification for us. It's like a seasonal employee.

  • @andreaspeters3773
    @andreaspeters3773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nobody has to.....
    But in 10, 15y you probably think about. There are also nice mom's out there who's first husband was a dork😂.. And in my world you don't have to commit, cause their kids are almost grown up and they simply want a nice man to spend time with..
    They are mostly financially stable and don't need a provider (europe)
    So you have two incomes for a nice living😎

  • @sharmilapersadboodoo9060
    @sharmilapersadboodoo9060 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If u don't want to date single moms then don't. But don't date her while waiting for "something better"

    • @flux9433
      @flux9433 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      why not

    • @sharmilapersadboodoo9060
      @sharmilapersadboodoo9060 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@flux9433 because u shouldn't use people.

    • @sharmilapersadboodoo9060
      @sharmilapersadboodoo9060 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Flux u must be a kid to even ask

    • @flux9433
      @flux9433 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sharmilapersadboodoo9060 I am not using nobody? and no am not kids am just asking why for example my last date was single mom i told her straight up am not for long run am for fun

    • @StephenKershaw1
      @StephenKershaw1 ปีที่แล้ว

      most, if not all of the guys on this casey zander crap are beta males and incels... they're not high value nor guys that have choices.... they talk a big game on a youtube channel where some inexperienced kid with no credentials in human behavior or relationships spews out nonsense to entice them to purchase his "pick up artist" product.... internet is full of them

  • @ShwetaRamkumar
    @ShwetaRamkumar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same reason why I’d never date a dad,also a minor detail, I’m childfree by choice

  • @kilikihula8864
    @kilikihula8864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    100%

  • @russellscala5930
    @russellscala5930 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree. ☝🏻

  • @Angrymobs62
    @Angrymobs62 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wouldn’t have stayed with, say, Michael J Fox either if I didn’t have to but some people aren’t shallow lol

  • @juwanwatson6671
    @juwanwatson6671 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯💯

  • @maninblack4158
    @maninblack4158 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Make them don't date them.

  • @evansdarien5125
    @evansdarien5125 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah I can’t do it

  • @KaylenApril
    @KaylenApril 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn...damned if u do damned if u dont. If u a single mom its a no. If u have no kids somethings wrong.😅makes no sense to me.

    • @Slim2xzIsland
      @Slim2xzIsland 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What’s your ig

  • @amandaburleson2035
    @amandaburleson2035 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ehh, sometimes man, the connection and chemistry is just too intense with the single mom. the sparks are flying. she is hot as hell. doesnt matter if there is another girl that is single. its hard to explain. and then sometimes the kid just really loves you. not only is it fun to start hanging out with the mom, but also its fun to start hanging out with the kid, you try not to get attached to the kid. but you do.

    • @donnieo4838
      @donnieo4838 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Imagine getting attached to the child but you guys break up. It's automatically double the heartbreak. To each their own though

    • @TalismanSarkozy9814
      @TalismanSarkozy9814 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thinking with the dick has led a lot of men astray

    • @amandaburleson2035
      @amandaburleson2035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@donnieo4838 that only happens to women... not men, for us men it is so easy to leave the mother and kid. i dont think twice. i can disapeaar easily. i just left, heartbreak only happens to losers who had an expectation. and were dissapointed on the outcome. so i have no expectations. no heatbreaks, maybe the mom cried. and the daughter asks what happened to me, but i dont feel heartbreak.

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm a divorced dad and I don't want another man's kids absolutely pathetic I will casual date a woman with kids but they are kept separate if she wants more I'm done my son life separate from my gun life

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fun life

  • @hling4e
    @hling4e ปีที่แล้ว

    It do make sense, the 2 types of woman you mention, they are not the same person… to start with, why did you fall for a woman with kids?
    Nobody has to « have to » , you stay because you want and care for… it works with both the childless or the one with a child.
    I guess you were lucky as me to have 2parents, they are some that have non also… you take the girl you want, pointing your personal interest in comparison to the woman that raise her kid alone, it’s not your call… neither why she decide to have/ raise her kids alone or not…
    Would you not agree with, that your opinion is personal?

    • @KingRyuMC
      @KingRyuMC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Disagree.. as a man, especially in this context young men who don’t have children, its a turn off…
      And speaking from experience, who was in love with a woman but then found she had kids. Just the image and the reality that she layed down with another man, had a child, proceeded to go and create these Life altering moments that comes with a child; Ultra sounds, Doctor Appointments, obviously a birth, she already experienced and I haven’t.
      Im not offering anything special since you’ve already been through it.
      My seed is the greatest gift I can give, and if someone already gave you that gift of experiencing a child then it robs me of that accomplishment and moment; on top of that, my first experience as a “Father figure” and my own family would be with another man’s seed, its just a turn off, and doesn’t make sense for a lot of men..

  • @Angrymobs62
    @Angrymobs62 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hahaha. Maybe the single mom is a helluva catch who has more knowledge and strength than any single woman with no kids and an abortion under her belt that you would probably think was ok.

    • @KingRyuMC
      @KingRyuMC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But for men the greatest gift we can give is our seed and making a Woman a mother..
      imma use a metaphor..
      if a woman’s favorite place in the world is Paris and she finally got to go, she seen the Eiffel tower and her face lit up ect..
      But I wasn’t the one that took her to paris, that ruins the moment for me.. cuz now when I decide one year we should go to Paris. But she already went, has memories, and the first feeling of seeing Paris with a Whole nother man.
      Its a turn off, and it robs men who dont have children of seeing that moment that I made this woman a Mother..
      On top of that you have the Baby Momma / baby Daddy Dynamic..
      you have the image and realization of this woman laying down with this man and loved him so much she had a child and created all these memories with someone else.
      I truly think single mothers should date single fathers .

  • @Peekarica
    @Peekarica ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't worry Casey. In my country The Netherlands its completely normal that a mother has so many kids from different fathers. 👀💀

  • @Castro-bl7ex
    @Castro-bl7ex 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t do it

  • @AseelAlibraheem-xt1mx
    @AseelAlibraheem-xt1mx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It doesn’t make sense to marry a single mother because of the absence of God in their lives so the way they see things is very limited therefore the miss the potential of bounties of God!!!

    • @StephenKershaw1
      @StephenKershaw1 ปีที่แล้ว

      what a stupid, idiotic comment.... no real man or high value man would ever date you with your immature, silly beliefs in santa claus and the easter bunny

    • @geoffreywright9856
      @geoffreywright9856 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What nonsense did you just state my friend

  • @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114
    @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also, there's about 3 billion, to 3 million, of women out there which is at least 49.58%, of them in the world but in 2023 there at least to 4 billion of them in 2023 which is about 49.5% of the population of them. You didn't date all kinds of women casy only small portion. But that's just math and logic.

    • @tegathemenace
      @tegathemenace ปีที่แล้ว

      He said he dated all kinds of women not all women.
      ie I ate all kinds of apples not all the apples in the world.
      Logic is also good for understanding language.

    • @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114
      @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Oghenetega omoh I don't think you heard me. There are at least 4 billion women on this plant, which is 49.5%. You saying he dated all kinds of those women out there even though there are about 4 billion of them, do you even hear yourself. Yeah, he didn't. Also, I know logic is good for understanding. I'm logical. I was just trying to prove he didn't date all kinds of women because there are more out there different from the ones he dated dude at least 4 billon of them pay the fuck attention dude. You would know if you carefully read anything, I told him.

    • @tegathemenace
      @tegathemenace ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrproblemsolvinggenius8114 I'm certain you don't understand English at this point.
      Kinds of women is a class of very broad and not too specific attributes.
      Fat women
      Slim women
      Extrovert women
      Quiet women etc
      They're not too many kinds and after you hookup with a lot of them, they just start repeating behaviors with slight variations.
      So technically he's seen all kinds of women.
      Not all women.
      Another analogy: I know all the types of triangles. Doesn't mean I'm saying I have seen all the triangles in the world.
      I only need to see one equilateral
      One scalene
      One right angle
      And even if they're 1trillion in the world, I've still seen 1 example or use case for all "kinds" of triangles(just 3).
      People like to think they're all unique, but the differences are so minute that you can easily lump them up into categories.
      There's also only 16 personalities on the Myers Briggs scale
      Crazy for a population of 8 billion.

    • @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114
      @mrproblemsolvinggenius8114 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Oghenetega omoh I'm certain I understand English very well. It's you that doesn't understand english. What I'm trying to tell you is that casy didn't date all kinds of women because there is more than one out there. Don't be idiot about it. Also, I wasn't talking about size. You ignorant American

  • @costo34ify
    @costo34ify 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Douchie mcdouche