Why Handsome Men Are Intimidating

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    • @stevowildboy9731
      @stevowildboy9731 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes u are!!

    • @myalt.yt.shorts.account
      @myalt.yt.shorts.account ปีที่แล้ว

      300+ languages and you decided to speak nonsense

    • @DisturbingButTrue
      @DisturbingButTrue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is the first video I saw from you lol, I can't believe I've been watching all your content and still not subscribed 😀😃 I'm subscribing now 😇. keep up man!

  • @darkking9836
    @darkking9836 ปีที่แล้ว +12228

    Damn I must be attractive as hell then

    • @dowmatthias
      @dowmatthias ปีที่แล้ว +619

      u probably are king👑

    • @jayg1989
      @jayg1989 ปีที่แล้ว +608

      @@dowmatthias he wants to be a king, but he ends up at burger king

    • @dowmatthias
      @dowmatthias ปีที่แล้ว +109

      @@jayg1989 lmao 🤣 😂

    • @childbanks3665
      @childbanks3665 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      ​@@jayg1989 lmfao 🤣

    • @FamousBeasten
      @FamousBeasten ปีที่แล้ว +28

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @David-pf4hr
    @David-pf4hr ปีที่แล้ว +3317

    Them: “what’s your super power?”
    Me: “I make people so uncomfortable with my beauty I become invisible”

    • @rockysalvatore435
      @rockysalvatore435 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Lmao, this dudes ego isn't letting him accept the truth bc his entire stan base kept calling him a tyrone, like that even means anything lol

    • @bandmantv3
      @bandmantv3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rockysalvatore435what’s the truth?

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude, you're eating a Zarg Nut...

    • @AZ-gm2md
      @AZ-gm2md ปีที่แล้ว +29

      There's a difference between plainly ignoring your existence and barely noticing you, and trying to ignore you on purpose. The first one is most likely due to lack of interest, while the second one is generally a sign of attraction.

    • @renegade595
      @renegade595 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@Rocky Salvatore yet if this would be a womans page talking about her beauty, you would be the first to whiteknight her only fans.

  • @1ntuthukozwane
    @1ntuthukozwane ปีที่แล้ว +2149

    Some girls act tougher on you when you are handsome because they believe you are a player. It is the weirdest thing ever, to be told you are a player when you don't think you are one.

    • @lefty577
      @lefty577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its strange. They try to make you feel guilty about being attractive. They are projecting insecurity. You dont have to prove yourself to them.

    • @yungj851
      @yungj851 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Fax💯 , & I be taking that sh*t to heart too

    • @1ntuthukozwane
      @1ntuthukozwane ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@yungj851 So, I ended up dating certain girls who were readily available. Well, now, I just need attention from one woman and I am happy with that.

    • @pickledpancakes
      @pickledpancakes ปีที่แล้ว +106

      I’ve heard that from girls and my body count is incredibly low

    • @1ntuthukozwane
      @1ntuthukozwane ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@pickledpancakes Sometimes the devil makes women go crazy over guys. You sit there thinking, girl, I am not what you say I am. They think sunshine comes out of your behind and that you are all that and a bag of chips, basically a sort of fantasy. That is also not desirable. It is healthy for a relationship for a woman to feel they really lucked out with you and that it would be difficult to replace you but being at 360m/h while you are 20m/h is not ideal either. I have a high body count because I did some stupid things and I wanted acceptance from other guys. I hung around people who played the game - both girls and boys. I even almost wiped out a whole squad of really gorgeous girls over a 19 year period. Now, I don't have girl friends because time normally destroys that. Only God helped me as I have repented from having no backbone to say no.
      Have any of you ever done a pity shag because a girl is going so hard or seems to be in distress over "googly love" for you. I am not a Chad by any means, I just have an image and reputation of a good looking guy - don't know how to explain it. I even know my type (the ones who go crazy over me) = above average, say 6-7,5 who like brainy, handsome guys and who wear only slighy make-up, are career-driven, have high standards and are lonely. They be the ones who really go for me.

  • @quathetruth8314
    @quathetruth8314 ปีที่แล้ว +2101

    This happened to me recently in Target. He actually stopped me and said “You are so beautiful” I smiled and said thank you. But I kept walking because he had no follow up. So I said aww he was probably nervous so I circled the isle like I forgot something and gave eye contact. He then approached me. Been talking since.

    • @sp3g56
      @sp3g56 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Aw yay!

    • @shae.the.gymini
      @shae.the.gymini ปีที่แล้ว +178

      How fucking cute 🥰🥳 I hope it works out for you two ❤

    • @efiaahimah3713
      @efiaahimah3713 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      This is so wholesome 🤷🏻👏👏👏🥰

    • @ndaulinendaulina5715
      @ndaulinendaulina5715 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Does 'talking' mean 'dating?'

    • @earlem9771
      @earlem9771 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      @@ndaulinendaulina5715 it means smashing with no real intentions of being serious

  • @miab.1916
    @miab.1916 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    He’s absolutely right. Women will notice by peripheral eye and not even make eye contact. But their minds are saying dayuuuum he is handsome af. Been in groups of women to witness this. They will not approach nor shoot a smile with eye contact which is all they need to do to signal that man that they are interested and if he is he’ll make the move. Perhaps👀

    • @wilperkins3
      @wilperkins3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly in many cases when women cheat the dude they are cheat with be ugly lmao

    • @kixinmaddick7424
      @kixinmaddick7424 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And that kills me because I’m like “damn, a smile would let me know you’re interested too”
      But I guess they feel if they give attention, they might get a guy who doesn’t like them like that

    • @adsupermusone8875
      @adsupermusone8875 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Gotta step up, make moves

    • @Only1KD
      @Only1KD ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Soooo accurate I go home still thinking about that man like damn I blocked my own blessing 😅

    • @suziebee4240
      @suziebee4240 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think looks are not of high value to me. Its something of a bare minimum, prerequisite. I need to like how you look so I wanna see you all the time. But beyond a certain point, being immensely handsome isnt giving more interest points. I need knowledge of his other characteristics to be able to think I like the person.
      I dont think I can be like "oh you're so gorgeous!". "Ew, I dont like your personality". I need to know all, before I express interest in YOU. Maybe Im sapiosexual.

  • @SpiritusFrumenti
    @SpiritusFrumenti ปีที่แล้ว +2736

    I am the hottest man alive. No girl has approached me in 40 years

    • @F_Dot_
      @F_Dot_ ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Teach me your ways! 😂😂

    • @donbuyshousescash4765
      @donbuyshousescash4765 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      There not supposed to approach you. You are the man.. They may smile at you..

    • @SpiritusFrumenti
      @SpiritusFrumenti ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@donbuyshousescash4765 ah well...sounds like I missed out

    • @jbrealestate7155
      @jbrealestate7155 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nah bro, I'M the hottest man alive! Or at least in most women's top 10 lol

    • @acct4600
      @acct4600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@donbuyshousescash4765 buy a dog, die alone. we in a new era now. with metoo & all that garbage women pushed, men of value are no longer approaching. women who think they are too good to approach will be left with the table scraps when it comes to the quality of men they will get.

  • @jaydog9329
    @jaydog9329 ปีที่แล้ว +661

    Guys also do this to females who are extremely attractive out of fear of rejection, but also because we don't want to be seen as creeps.

    • @ivysweet4467
      @ivysweet4467 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You're right. I do it to males because I am extremely shy.

    • @kobe2curry4rose1
      @kobe2curry4rose1 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Being a creep is more about the energy you give off. I always check out women that I find attractive, blatantly at that. But it's more like "Damn, look at this one, she's hot" then I move on and go about my business

    • @KingGogh
      @KingGogh ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​​@@ivysweet4467 don't be! If you just make eye contact, you wouldn't pass up on so many potentials!

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You checking a woman out isn't weird or creepy . The only thing is creepy is your vibe or energy !!

    • @TB-mj7gt
      @TB-mj7gt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some of us just dgaf too tho

  • @jdsloley
    @jdsloley ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I've learned that a simple uninvested smile and "hello" bypasses all of this. Used to get called arrogant when in reality I was super shy tryna hold it together. Both sexes do this to each other for various reasons that add up to us not wanting to look stupid. We all know it's rough out here. I promise you eye contact, a smile and a basic "hello" will melt the ice. It doesn't mean you're going to be calling that person's phone later. It just creates a more comfortable environment for ppl to communicate, including body language. Even if they turn you down or you turn away someone else, if there was a smile and a hello involved everyone will feel ok about it, probly even be motivated to try again(with someone else lol)

    • @anthonymurry6176
      @anthonymurry6176 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep all the time

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hard to do if they don't hold eye contact, look away.

  • @TheInfiniteMindOf
    @TheInfiniteMindOf ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I was discussing this yesterday. Women would openly speak to the people in front of me in line at the store, but when it's my turn, they turn super dry like they're trying to downplay my presence. It's Hella rude. I used to feel bad about it until a beautiful lady explained the nature of women 2 me. If you are really handsome as a man, very attractive women will give you strong eye contact and vibes 2 let you know they're interested, because they think you are on the same level as them to a degree. It's the ones who are not as confident that downplay your qualities so that you don't feel superior or so they don't feel inferior. But if you break the ice or kiss up 2 them a lil bit, they soften up too. I prefer confident women with a balanced self esteem. No need to put me down so that we can be on the same level.

    • @Largo3point0
      @Largo3point0 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I know that friendly cashier who suddenly turns dry all too well. I used to think “What am I doing to these people…??” Now, I get it. (And I’m not even super fine. Heh.)

    • @Kush333
      @Kush333 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Facts. They don't even want to acknowledge you, even after you try to strike up a conversation. They just keep it short. Well, I don't say nothing back, and I'm on to the next one. I don't have time to butter up a female whose too afraid to talk to me.

    • @brudderstyles3479
      @brudderstyles3479 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes i just think its because im black 😂 when i go to restaurants i want to tip but its like they give me bad service on purpose, when i leave i bet they say " blacks never tip"😂

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kush333 facts

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kush333 hiust happened to me 30 min ago I was buying cologne energy don't lie she gave me a weird look and acted dry ASF 💀 with her mask on smh

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So true. We're taught not to be very expressive around attractive men. It makes us appear desperate.

  • @toni90000
    @toni90000 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    I personally believe the reason they do that is to not give validation and gas you up

    • @mtlmenace3107
      @mtlmenace3107 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      thats part of it women dont like that shit but love when men does it looll

    • @tiger68rafa
      @tiger68rafa ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I do the same shit to them

    • @aart2100
      @aart2100 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      That is also true. It’s definitely a spectrum though…
      They don’t look at you because of any of these reasons :
      1) you’re not attractive to them
      2) you’re cute and they are shy/ intimidated as he said
      3) you’re hot as hell and they know they won’t quality so they don’t want to gas you up.
      So it’s hard to gauge 😂

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As if they don’t be gassed out of their heads all the time 😹😹😹

    • @jackcable1028
      @jackcable1028 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tiger68rafa if u keep eye contact long enough they'll smile and avoid your eyes

  • @jackwilson9572
    @jackwilson9572 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Give an approachable impression, make yourself look more open. That's what I tend to do, and it works. Men and women have an easier time to talk to me.

    • @Model_Roe
      @Model_Roe ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This dude has no idea what he's talking about and he's not even all that hot if women are walking by him like that they're obviously not interested when women see men they find physically attractive they do the exact opposite they make eye contact flirt make conversation etc I had to assume this dude was trolling

    • @elliott7630
      @elliott7630 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Model_Roe Depends on the cultural norms of the women or the setting you're in, for example clubs and parties. Sounds like you don't speak from experience, because that definitely doesn't happen much in public on an average day-to-day setting i. e getting approached, flirted with, strong eye contact

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Model_Roe Not all women will look down of course. But the intimidated ones.

    • @MeMyself-p5z
      @MeMyself-p5z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I open my legs on the subway, that's enough.

  • @JaeAR20
    @JaeAR20 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Actual gem that took me till my 30s to realize. The confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to. Attractive woman mostly only give you a sign when there intoxicated because there actually more prone to being insecure than average girls when sober.

    • @patrickbello8130
      @patrickbello8130 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      “ the confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to”. Happens to me a lot

    • @vincaso
      @vincaso ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Cuz the confident girls have nothing to lose lol.. literally pretty girls be way more insecure than the average looking ones. Such a coincidence

    • @skinnytimmy1
      @skinnytimmy1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only time I've been approached by attractive ones was in places where we knew we would most likely never see each other again

  • @keemybrzee8442
    @keemybrzee8442 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    had to deal with this heavy in high school, i used to think i was invisable, till i had teachers tell me how much students talked about me behind my back 24/7

    • @hyemuhyemu8221
      @hyemuhyemu8221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah, but you should also break necks and get stares. The talking behind your back also validates you. I had a girl and guy behind me say 'Maybe he's a model'

  • @camillacatt3486
    @camillacatt3486 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s all about the confidence of that person. If you’re truly confident you’ll feel like you can approach anyone.

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!! Handsome or not, it's not even up to her.

    • @Mileswayv
      @Mileswayv ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How many dudes have you approached?

    • @rkelly3309
      @rkelly3309 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grindhard4312 🤨🤨🤨🤨

  • @Nobodys_safe
    @Nobodys_safe ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Spot on! I can say it has happened to me 2 times. Girl walked by me and pretended to not acknowledge me, however, I met her a week later thru a friend. That’s when she told me that she remembered me from when she walked by me and was intimidated by how attracted she was to me.

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some women are too intimidated the give you body language signs that their interested AKA choosing signs because a woman showing choosing signals is a form of a man cold approaching so she gives you choosing signals and you don't approach she takes it as a rejection !!
      Women's ego is soo ridiculous goddamn !!

    • @Nobodys_safe
      @Nobodys_safe ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ben256MB I applaud your comment brother 👏

  • @priscillakagaga2222
    @priscillakagaga2222 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That's exactly what I do.. the more handsome, attractive the more I'll pretend not to notice. Yes its intimidating.

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's also extremely extremely rude and energy off putting

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. ปีที่แล้ว +15

      But you'll watch him from a distance... I know these

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Avareee.BINGO!

  • @raees2473
    @raees2473 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    It's the same like when we as guys were 12 y/o and we were scared to even look at our crush up close😂 But we learn to overcome it

    • @kingdavidpsalm1448
      @kingdavidpsalm1448 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not me being in a house hold with my dad and mom and full of sisters I was never afraid girls and my sisters was way older than me and I had crush on her friend they use to laugh

    • @CarbonGod666
      @CarbonGod666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Raees no

    • @trey5653
      @trey5653 ปีที่แล้ว

      who’s we? i shit myself upon female interaction

    • @jackcable1028
      @jackcable1028 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@kingdavidpsalm1448 lmfao same I had crushes on my sisters' friends a lot and I'm only 2 years younger than one of my sister

    • @mehiwegi
      @mehiwegi ปีที่แล้ว

      It like you wait when she approaches you but in reality they would never ask you because they are either waiting when you ask her out or she doesn’t like you .

  • @husslerzambition
    @husslerzambition ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Type of dude to get rejected by a woman and tell himself it was because he's too handsome. Crazy

  • @marcofemto9417
    @marcofemto9417 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I've learned this the hard way. Not saying I'm super handsome but I met a girl at a grocery store who is a cashier and she would not even make eye contact or keep the Convo flowing when attending me. After she left her replacement told me how she had a huge crush on me and I never made a move

    • @antonymartins8310
      @antonymartins8310 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      that’s so stupid on her part

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@antonymartins8310 bro I had a cashier in sheer shakes bro I'm like staring asking a simple question she was shaking crazy story and she be flicking her hair hard asf

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@antonymartins8310girls are weird man

  • @MarcusJII
    @MarcusJII ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I don’t want no woman that gives me 0 energy from the get go.

    • @KingGogh
      @KingGogh ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Absolutely!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts

    • @NoName-hi7qo
      @NoName-hi7qo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      B an asset
      👏👏👏
      Not a liability

    • @chacinco9052
      @chacinco9052 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Healthy energy!

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      How u get energy if u don't smile or approach like a man..
      U expect her to read ur mind...

  • @kymaniredfern4837
    @kymaniredfern4837 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    He definitely speaking 🗣️ facts ☝️🤌💯

  • @edithk2997
    @edithk2997 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so so true guys 😁 I get shy when I see someone I like or very attractive

  • @Bgreen-nn2ly
    @Bgreen-nn2ly ปีที่แล้ว +340

    When you are attractive and humble people will approach you….. but if you are attractive and give off an arrogant vibe…. Most people just dodge the bullet….. lol

    • @Kite166
      @Kite166 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      But sometimes people judge you wrongly

    • @Bgreen-nn2ly
      @Bgreen-nn2ly ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Kite166 sometimes…. I have experienced that but it’s also all about the energy you give off…..

    • @aliatianna888
      @aliatianna888 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      FACTS!!!!

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 ปีที่แล้ว

      But if you’re arrogant and humble you’re Dwayne Johnson. You can have bitches humbly on your D. Smooth Operator like Sade said.

    • @Bgreen-nn2ly
      @Bgreen-nn2ly ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@johnwise4341 Dwayne is not arrogant and humble…. He is Humble and Comical…. And bro have some respect for women and not call them out of their names…. That’s what I mean by dodging the bullet….what woman would want to be with a man that don’t or won’t respect her just because ….. he……. Thinks he looks good….?

  • @redpillenespanol33
    @redpillenespanol33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for adressing this, holly, everybody says yeah get in shape, tall, attractive, goodlooking, still as a man nobody approaches you, you still have to do all the job it is kinda bad

  • @Dreadpoolz3977
    @Dreadpoolz3977 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    They look at you first then look down when you notice them, I get that at least once everyday when I go out in public others will continue to look at you with direct eye contact telling you to approach them but I never do, not because I'm shy but because I'm not looking to court or have sex with anyone I'm focused on me right now. Also most women are taught to not approach men so they rarely do mostly because they can't handle rejection well, but if women is really in to you she will definitely let you know, it's just up to you to notice the subtle signs I didn't for years I was hilariously oblivious a girl couldn't stripped in front of me and I would've tried to put her clothes back on as if it were an accident.

    • @FBi_.
      @FBi_. ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts i read in a pick up book years ago when she looks down she like if she looks up she’s not into you

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FBi_. It's not 100 accurate unless you approach her !!

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh stop bullshiting yourself !! You can date and work on yourself at the same time .

    • @Dreadpoolz3977
      @Dreadpoolz3977 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ben256MB you missed the point, I couldn't careless about the percentage of accuracy.

    • @Dreadpoolz3977
      @Dreadpoolz3977 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ierrymills5250 she wouldn't be looking in the first place if she didn't have interest. Women aren't morons they know what they're looking for, literally. Now you may do or say something to make her quickly lose interest because most women are fickle like that but if she wasn't interested she wouldn't give your direction the time of day because she knows she doesn't have to. Anything extra is literally to garner attention from you she'll just give you a look of disgust, roll her eyes, or bluntly tell you "I have a boyfriend" or "not interested"

  • @observelearn2345
    @observelearn2345 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yep. They almost act as if they don't like you

  • @hazelthompson435
    @hazelthompson435 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    SOME MEN AND WOMEN WILL THINK THAT SOMEONE GOOD LOOKING IS OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE.😏

    • @artzbeltras5379
      @artzbeltras5379 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most women are narcissist and they don't even realize it just join an online chatroom and you'll see what I mean their user names will usually be something along the lines of Diva,Queen,Beautiful,Goddess,Top-notch,Sexy and they will talk about how they won't date a man that's prettier than them while at the same time talking about how there's no good looking men in the chatroom

    • @Kingpaladin94
      @Kingpaladin94 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      ain’t no leagues bruh, who tf are people to tell me what I can and can’t get

    • @jaquaveonandress649
      @jaquaveonandress649 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moneymakinmitch8130I need this confidence, real talk 💯😭

    • @KingGogh
      @KingGogh ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ​@@moneymakinmitch8130 💯 you're either someone's type, or you're not

  • @Rose-nw9mg
    @Rose-nw9mg ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes, that’s very true. We come off cold or look away when we find a man attractive. It’s intimidating for us too. 🤭

  • @sirreginaldlee3576
    @sirreginaldlee3576 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Im still not approaching..I risk not getting anything just to keep my dignity. If a woman looks away I take that as her being shy or disinterested..women go for what they want if truly interested..ive seen it and experienced it..and shy women are just childish..I dont like ppl that can't communicate and behave like an adult

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your scared of rejection !! Lol bro ..

    • @fxfundedfxf8776
      @fxfundedfxf8776 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      facts bro them looking certainly is not enough. too validating

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @darklink9570
      @darklink9570 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You won’t know unless you try bro 😎

  • @eyasuabere1345
    @eyasuabere1345 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Suffering from success. Wow you're very wise.

  • @damolaakeula3201
    @damolaakeula3201 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It’s all about how carry yourself bro. Just have good energy and people will gravitate towards you.

    • @travionlee13
      @travionlee13 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Factz

    • @manofaction5305
      @manofaction5305 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that's cap as hell

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manofaction5305 very 🧢

    • @Superhero-i4w
      @Superhero-i4w ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manofaction5305 i Hope u Have a fun life with that ignorance

    • @manofaction5305
      @manofaction5305 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Superhero-i4w sure!...let's just say other people have tried that road and it doesn't work

  • @tren6893
    @tren6893 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I usually don’t talk to very attractive men because they usually have a type of female that they like and some are very arrogant.

    • @earlem9771
      @earlem9771 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      In other words, you don’t believe you can compete

    • @zoes4645
      @zoes4645 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ​@@earlem9771 basically
      However, she is sorted correct. I have very attractive males friends, and they wouldn't dare entertain females outside of their 'type'

    • @sweetie539
      @sweetie539 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I don’t entertain (pretty boy type) attractive men because most don’t have that charm and manly wisdom. I love the rough rugged men like my husband. We used to be like bestfriends then he went back to his country and just decided I was his girlfriend. Then he told his parents that he is getting married and brought them to my parents. I am still not sure when I became his girlfriend or fiance but atleast I remember us agreeing to have our daughter. This man is smooth, sweet and so peaceful.

    • @xclusively_meh6631
      @xclusively_meh6631 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@earlem9771 You made it to this big age thinking that mature women would like competition, that says enough. Not every woman compares to compete, not every woman gets jealous, not every woman cares to be involved in the drama of emotionally immature females being aggressive or disrespectful over his options as if she doesn’t have more peaceful options as well. Keep that drama with you…. There are some females that’ll allow that, but not one that is emotionally mature and over childish drama.

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Attractive men are very picky too.

  • @DaVinciXw
    @DaVinciXw ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Women tell me im handsome all the time if we actually end up talking. But they always say I look mean or intimidating so they were scared to talk to approach me. So this is definitely true. RBF is real. Sometimes I hate having to fake smile at people but it's better than everybody just ignoring you all the time

  • @delima5146
    @delima5146 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I remember trying to get some girls and not being able to do it and i was like, wtf is wrong with me man? I consider myself good looking, i do my clothes right, i m clean, smell good, i m doing everything to my best but still i cant get girls, wtf is going on here... But here it comes the funny story, when i went out for a beer with my buddy after work, looking absolutely normal, most the time i was at least talking to a girl. Sometimes i could even sleep with girls. My friend said the same happened to him and we found it weird. How come we come out looking the best we can but get no bootie but when we looking completely normal we can do it with no effort? That was when we realized going out looking your very best sometimes isnt helping you. Another day i went out at my best, a girl approached me asking where i was from and stuff. She then say, its no surprise girls dont approach you, you are extremely attractive. After that, i got it all. Its like a man that finds a girl extremely attractive but thinks he has no chance so he doesnt come up to the girl to talk to her. And yes, i approach girls, course

    • @greencam8572
      @greencam8572 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lol just one example when I sit in the cafeteria of the university almost no girls would sit at my table lol but when I do sit at random tables of girls they'll be shocked in a way

  • @zoomermcboomer4771
    @zoomermcboomer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Damn I must be super attractive cuz everyone sprints away when they see me.

    • @Kender591
      @Kender591 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      sprint away😆

    • @Softman264
      @Softman264 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha

    • @ignaciokay
      @ignaciokay ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro you're not😂😂

    • @shae.the.gymini
      @shae.the.gymini ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂 not sprint

    • @MeT38692
      @MeT38692 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ignaciokayThat’s the joke. You’re probably 12

  • @damolaakeula3201
    @damolaakeula3201 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    You can’t have this mindset bro. If she walk past you, she ain’t interested bro.😂 Not every women is going to find you attractive even if your good looking. Being good looking can sometimes be subjective. Just keep being you and right people will come into your life.💯

    • @rockysalvatore435
      @rockysalvatore435 ปีที่แล้ว

      Based African man. This is why we'd rather have y'all in the states than these boys LMAO

    • @oliver-pk3xj
      @oliver-pk3xj ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Hes aware of this, but this hapoens even with girls who find you attractive

    • @LuisRodriguez-xg1sh
      @LuisRodriguez-xg1sh ปีที่แล้ว +143

      @@oliver-pk3xj yup this even happens from fucking guys hating on you for no reason i guess they see you as a threat

    • @levelofcomic2120
      @levelofcomic2120 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Facts 🚶🏻‍♀️ trying to understand female brain is like trying to understand why the Scrat never gets the Acorn in Ice Age 🔁

    • @yungactivist
      @yungactivist ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Both are right

  • @monozone9696
    @monozone9696 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    25 years and women don't even acknowledge my existence. They even ignore me in DM, requests and dating app. I must be the hottest man in existence.

    • @user-ix2uv9er1v
      @user-ix2uv9er1v ปีที่แล้ว

      Get some game

    • @monozone9696
      @monozone9696 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ix2uv9er1v the games only start if they accept my req. I am not gonna do game with randoass women. That's creepy.

  • @browngirl603
    @browngirl603 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    A handsome man ain’t never intimidated me, it’s more about his confidence, aura and stature

    • @Model_Roe
      @Model_Roe ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly 💯 I have no idea what this dude is on about and he's not even that hot he's attractive but he's no nineties Tyson Beckford 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 most women are not into looks as men are women value status stability security than looks this dude has no idea what he's talking about

    • @Ashariallen
      @Ashariallen ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Model_Roe I say they clearly want a masculine woman …bc why the hell do we need to be approaching a man in the first place

    • @biz1boom
      @biz1boom ปีที่แล้ว +41

      ​@@Model_Roe Stop the cap. Lol Why does he have to look like Tyson Beckford? He looks like himself and he's confident in that. Yall women think the world revolves around you when most of you are dusties looking for a come up. 🤣 I guarantee this man has bagged women that would leave you at the end of the roster.

    • @Kite166
      @Kite166 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@biz1boom yea bro is very attractive...I don't know what they're talking about LOL

    • @IndefiniChronicles
      @IndefiniChronicles ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Model_Roe he’s actually very attractive. And there is some truth to what he is saying. It’s not going to apply to everyone, and that’s okay.

  • @seanwilliams6417
    @seanwilliams6417 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is real shit, so glad he mentioned this. Handsome men suffer from being hated on by dudes because getting ladies is natural while other work harder for basic chicks. It’s also hard as fuck to have a real relationship because your women start to do to much overthinking and ruin vibes. Rinse and repeat, I thought it was just me!

  • @khalilsstories
    @khalilsstories ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Shawty one time said she think i’m good lookin but she thinks i’ll cheat so she ain’t take me seriously 🤦🏾‍♂️😔

    • @tacos420.7
      @tacos420.7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nigga I think ima cheat by the way I look, I once had a bitch say she like me cus she think I get hella bitches😂

    • @rkelly3309
      @rkelly3309 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dwahada explain what you mean?

  • @jamarcussimmons3044
    @jamarcussimmons3044 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So true… my female coworker had to school me on this

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't even think I was attractive (I didn't think I was ugly tho) until a new girl at the job could sense it. She read me like a book. She bluntly said "you know you cute right?"
      I would've never thought it. I thank her for that cause chicks do not want a man to know he's attractive it seems.

  • @Jc444
    @Jc444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He’s absolutely right. I am attractive but I remember I went through a time when I didn’t think I was because I felt like women were intimidated. It wasn’t until I had a few girls who finally broke the ice and said I’m very good looking and I’m extremely confident with how I walk and talk. They said it’s a good trait but it makes them think I’m not approachable until they get to know me. Interesting but important. Also better to come off confident than insecure. Just need a balance

    • @greencam8572
      @greencam8572 ปีที่แล้ว

      We have the cheat code💀

  • @CreatorGenesis-qu7cf
    @CreatorGenesis-qu7cf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That is very true 😢 bro I walk in got everyone looking at me then after that everybody just don't

  • @mrbritisher9748
    @mrbritisher9748 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is why waiting for choosing signals isn't all it's hyped up to be as some girls will give you very little, you can still sense if a girl likes you but don't be waiting for warm/open responses all the time.

  • @6feet5inflorida36
    @6feet5inflorida36 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve heard it ALL of my life, “I KNOW you have a LOT of women!”

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's your vibe and so presence which makes women believe that .

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ben256MBman said everything except for his looks lol

  • @dannysilva3210
    @dannysilva3210 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Damn we all fucken gorgeous then 😂

  • @stoloking
    @stoloking ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are absolutely right ,but for me it's kinda worse ,they just get in their feelings and they just stand up and leave when they see me passing by, image..just passing by.......hard to believe but true...I just shake my head and move on.

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro just happened to me i espected it tho it was a lady we got out car same time she was pacing fast caught her looking at me she went head down to the door as a gentleman I was intended to open it for her but nah she beat me to it lol held the door open without looking at me and I said thanks she's ignored lol

  • @jamierichards9926
    @jamierichards9926 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I must be attractive af cause I mean they passing me by everyday… 😂😂😂😂

    • @Kush333
      @Kush333 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe it's because you look MEAN. lol... women have to learn how to be down to Earth, learn how to talk, and know how to handle men in conversations.

  • @robinm1664
    @robinm1664 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Unfortunately everybodys so extra these days so when you have a certain look its a turn off. I see guys doing it too. They kind of ignore attractive women that look too high maintenance. In Chicago you go to some parties and all the guys are on one side and the women are on another and they're not interacting...its weird. The internet is affecting everything.

  • @ricardooconnor2362
    @ricardooconnor2362 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Walked past you? Bro! I had one lady literally slammed on her car brake just to stop to ask me if I had a girl and when I told her I do she replied damn you’re fine. If women thinks your handsome, good looking, fine, whatever, they’ll let you know. They probably wont necessarily want to be with you or anything like that but they’ll let you know you’re good looking, handsome etc,. Rarely you’ll find women walked past an handsome good looking guy and not have a reaction. Either they’ll look at you with a gazed steer or say something, or come up to you. Or slip you their number. The things women do when they find you attractive is mind blowing bro. Trust me I’ve been there.

    • @robertpitts8161
      @robertpitts8161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is not true at all. What he saying is more true and I have had the same experiences as you many times lol. Women do not approach men like that because they afraid of rejection most of the time, because a lot of them do it to men all the time.

    • @vincaso
      @vincaso ปีที่แล้ว

      Your comment is true cause I’ve experienced similar but GENERALLY the opposite is more the case

  • @KingKromah
    @KingKromah ปีที่แล้ว +6

    especially if you dress very well they are even scared to speak, it’s too intimidating they don’t want to give the wrong look or say the wrong thing. it’s the same when we see a very pretty lady you want to be looking your best

  • @Ben256MB
    @Ben256MB ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's true !! I have approached a lot of women who didn't believe i was attracted to them because they found me to be intimidating .
    Being good looking can hurt you with some women who are too insecure to deal with you . Sometimes women make it challenge for you to get at them .

  • @danielsreal5426
    @danielsreal5426 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big up austin, cos uno that's whats going ON alot in these streets,

  • @peewee3030
    @peewee3030 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is exactly y chicks never get the guy they want. a closed mouth don't get fed

    • @KingGogh
      @KingGogh ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They wait until another woman has him and THEN, they attack lol

    • @peewee3030
      @peewee3030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KingGogh how backwards is that? Plus that just lets u know how nasty women are. They don't care about sloppy seconds. They prefer that someone test out the product 1st. What kinda ish is that?👀👀😳😳🤦🤔😐

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A closed mouth is a closed destiny

  • @theerealatm
    @theerealatm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I totally agree. As I've hit the gym. Grown my hair. Grown my beard. I get tons of looks from afar but up close... Chicks don't really have the confidence they think they do.

    • @infiniteheis
      @infiniteheis ปีที่แล้ว +5

      At all brother. At all. It’s all fake

    • @alonzofrazier1560
      @alonzofrazier1560 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Make up, waist trainers, BBLs, hell naw women ain’t confident lol I’m short and lowkey ugly but confidence has gotten me far

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. ปีที่แล้ว

      100%

  • @KingJosh-u5t
    @KingJosh-u5t ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only thing this man has said in a while that actually holds some water 🌊

  • @KenziVlogz369
    @KenziVlogz369 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve definitely had this happen and caught offense because I hate when someone doesn’t speak or at least speak back but I can feel the eyes and energy headed my way

  • @blah7918
    @blah7918 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Both a curse and a blessing. But we really handsome guys do our best to get through it

  • @benergy100k2
    @benergy100k2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    *This is true. I get this all the time. Oh God these hot looks you gave me come with a lot of responsibility to always make the first move!* 🤔😂😂😂

  • @GinaSesay1
    @GinaSesay1 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love you handsome men. Keep being handsome out there fearlessly. I love you ugly men too. Y’all be dope asf and people sleep on the eyes. Everyone deserves to have someone hit on them at least once or twice in life.

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 ปีที่แล้ว

      I may not be as handsome as Jungkook from BTS but i go to the gym consistently to improve my physique and muscle definition

    • @Zrohh
      @Zrohh ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting mindset

  • @laviniaasofiei9054
    @laviniaasofiei9054 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is not about the act, is about the perception of the act 💎

  • @lillyfahey1921
    @lillyfahey1921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am glad someone addresses this. “Hot ppl problems”. I can confirm. I met my dream guy. He was Handsome, Super Masculine, A Boss, Basically Everything A Girl Could Want In A Guy. Problem Was People Treated Him As Superior So It Got To His Head. He Would Trigger Ppl Just By Existing And Many Would Get Insecure Around Him. Also His Arrogance, Kiss My Butt Attitude Didn’t Help. He Was Totally Unapproachable. He Was Absolutely “The Man” But He Was So Cold And Unfriendly. I Didn’t Feel Safe Around His Attitude. I Thought For Sure He Would Use Me At Best, Reject Me At Worst. So I Did Not Give Him Any Satisfaction. If He Would Have Been Warm, Kind, And Welcoming I Would Have Felt Safe, But Yeah. Super Masculine Hot Guys Cannot Afford To Be Egotistical And Mean, It Just Scares Everybody Away. They Are Not For The Weak. Everyone Assumes He Is Just Going To Have Fun With You And Then Discard You, Or ReJect You Because You Are Not Hot Enough. So Insecure Girls Don’t Even Try, Because Their Self Esteem Would Shatter If They Got Rejected By Their Ideal Guy.

    • @lillyfahey1921
      @lillyfahey1921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It Is Super Important For Super Masculine Hot Guys To Be Gentle With Girls And Show Kindness And Friendliness, Even The Hot Ones Might Have Low Self Esteem.

  • @beautyishername4392
    @beautyishername4392 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I agree I tend to treat guys like this, they just seem so unapproachable🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤎💋

  • @mr.grimms4645
    @mr.grimms4645 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Pro tip: if a girl looks past you like you ain't shit there's a really good chance she thought you were cute.

    • @mrsticky005
      @mrsticky005 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not really.
      If she's looking past me like I'm not shit then it's because I'm not shit and
      she wasn't thinking about me at all.
      Sometimes it's really that simple.

  • @Joshua-re3xw
    @Joshua-re3xw ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Literally what I’ve struggled with for so long!

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Happens all the time 😞

  • @Babygrinch650
    @Babygrinch650 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn true,when I was younger a older female relative said “I bet you make those girls nervous”I thought she was gassing me up but as I got older I noticed that shit at first I thought they were creeped out but she would start following me around and staring I was like damn, she is just nervous😆 just get that confidence up boys.

  • @krossk7704
    @krossk7704 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    For real tho I’ll walk through the mall see pretty women and we lock eyes we see each other but as the guy u gotta take your chance when she give you them eyes and approach her

    • @angel_-1890
      @angel_-1890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      some chick gave me the eyes more than 3 times and made it clear that she wanted me to approach then when I did I got rejected for a ego boost😂

    • @krossk7704
      @krossk7704 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angel_-1890 yeah I feel that some girls wanna do that but how many times do I approach women it’s a numbers game personally I’ve counted 50 women in a month I approach and got 4 dates but only had S33gs with 2 u got it king

    • @fxfundedfxf8776
      @fxfundedfxf8776 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angel_-1890 yup idiot girls thats why them just looking is not enough for me. Tooo validating

    • @rkelly3309
      @rkelly3309 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angel_-1890 your probably had some trash ass game brother

  • @amandabazil1753
    @amandabazil1753 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Def agree as a woman! When I’m all dolled up and dressed to the nines, dudes can’t even make eye contact with me when I smile. SMILE. I be like damn 🥲 what did I do?? Lol, but now I know it’s cause I probably intimidate them. Which also makes sense as to why I get approached less when Im all dressed up.

  • @classic4evr
    @classic4evr ปีที่แล้ว

    True. Make sure what you say to her is on point, it's all about delivery and not being nervous.

  • @BismillahBodega
    @BismillahBodega ปีที่แล้ว

    I've not updated my shoes in years. My grandpa told me woman look for good shoes in a man. Bought a new pair. And I've gotten compliments and smiles from woman so far... Jazakallah Khair Grandpa

  • @mahalabones6213
    @mahalabones6213 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sometimes women will look at you and look down because we don't wanna give you the impression that we're interested. Too much eye contact and here comes the flirting. Has nothing to do most times with intimidating us due to your good looks

    • @j.johnson6548
      @j.johnson6548 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a man I agree 100% .. a woman will give eye contact.. she’ll smile.. she might even say hello and start up a conversation if she finds a man attractive…. When she’s not interested she won’t even look in your direction while she’s walking pass you or walking away from you

    • @maximbanada9788
      @maximbanada9788 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said MIGHT. As in SOME. Women who are intimidated.
      You have done this before naturally to a guy out of your league.

    • @ProdJamesCultz
      @ProdJamesCultz ปีที่แล้ว

      Girls get caught staring at me all the time but I’m the one that avoids them so if we both doing the same thing nobody wins somebody gotta take the L women have too much pride and scared to get rejected even though they never have to ask anyone out you can make eye contact with a billionaire and you look down who wins at the end of the day ?

    • @mahalabones6213
      @mahalabones6213 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ProdJamesCultz it's not pride. They are being women. And there is nothing wrong with resting in your femininity as a woman and not go around throwing yourself at males just because a man looked at you . you stare too long you just look weird. Lol I think too many men today wanna be admired and approached like women are. Waiting on a stare to approach a woman is just silly

    • @ProdJamesCultz
      @ProdJamesCultz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mahalabones6213 I can understand that I 100% get where your coming from So what is the perfect scenario for u a quick glance then spark a conversation ?

  • @thedoghouse8900
    @thedoghouse8900 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Or guys will grab their girls hand and walk to the other side of the street. Anything to gtfo out of your presence! The male advantage is real (1st man)

    • @Danny-ns1ts
      @Danny-ns1ts ปีที่แล้ว +26

      LMAO THIS IS FACTS, Nigga will cuff her FAST. like bro your girl is a 5 chill out

    • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001
      @sfrealestatedealmaker6001 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Happens to me a lot bro 😂

    • @Danny-ns1ts
      @Danny-ns1ts ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mo a lol feel bad? why

    • @Danny-ns1ts
      @Danny-ns1ts ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mo a True lol it's a sad way to approach life

    • @nathanvaladares1079
      @nathanvaladares1079 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@Mo a I empathize more with the guys in that specific situation than I show interest to smash the girl. Cause I'm a guy too and this shows that any girl of mine can be eye flirting with dudes without me knowing.

  • @iheartyout0
    @iheartyout0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes they just don't look because someone so handsome might be taken

  • @briannam.9854
    @briannam.9854 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is true. I get nervous when I see a man I find attractive. Don't want to come off as weird. Won't even acknowledge him. It sucks.

  • @cosyncube9382
    @cosyncube9382 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't agree t everything you say but your spot on that one boss.

  • @omorka5344
    @omorka5344 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is semi true. Girls fear rejection probably more than men do. I remember I rejected a girl that was into me and the following day she started telling all my friends that I was “ugly anyway”

  • @joelANJ
    @joelANJ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can relate, unfortunately my game is real bad ! 🤦‍♂️

    • @jovna5315
      @jovna5315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same lol.

  • @amytarie.
    @amytarie. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not one lie was told ... & I am a woman

  • @PhillipJ2
    @PhillipJ2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve experienced this but then I’ve had girls so bold walk up and hit on me. As a man you just have to stay aware and control the situation. If you see a woman you want to pursue do it. If you wanna keep it cordial say hey and acknowledge…or just keep it moving. Enjoy your life and carry yourself with high regards

  • @loveGtime
    @loveGtime ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What he's saying is true...I'm beautiful myself but really attractive guys did make me nervous as a young gal

    • @NoSurrender786
      @NoSurrender786 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol you're beautiful?

  • @sp3g56
    @sp3g56 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As someone who didn’t get the guy in school, I have a bad habit of automatically assuming that if I find a guy attractive, he must not find me attractive.

    • @_Chocolate_123
      @_Chocolate_123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @resinds.p4898
      @resinds.p4898 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its true because we most likely fall in love with the wrong people. Like a crush, you are really not in love with the person. You are only obsessed with her presens and looks

  • @alyshamorris6275
    @alyshamorris6275 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is actually true! Too handsome = heartbreak 😢

  • @KashyGhislaine
    @KashyGhislaine ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lol woman don't like rejection either. Men it's okay to make a move bc a truly feminine woman won't. If she's interested great if not it's ok too 🤷🏽‍♀️Its a masculine trait to make that initial pursuit. If you like a girl to approach that's fine, just know she is more in her masculine energy. Also understand sone men are more in their fem energy and that's ok! It's balance. Someone for everyone. All this other noise is just that.. Be secure in yourself & connect with what's for you🤍

  • @billtensus
    @billtensus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You! Finally someone talking about us handsome dudes.

  • @marquesmarques8611
    @marquesmarques8611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Makes sense. That's why some guy's that also don't know you be seeming like you pissed them off and don't know you.

  • @NOCDIB
    @NOCDIB ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Doesn't matter whether you are handsome or not, women fear rejection more than death. They always want the power to do the rejection so it's always on the man to make the approach. Women only throw themselves at men with fame.

    • @SI-nh1kw
      @SI-nh1kw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most accurate observation

  • @dontex7
    @dontex7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Facts no cap 🧢

  • @eddiefettii2485
    @eddiefettii2485 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looks gets you in the door, substances keeps you in her mind

  • @IamBatmanOg
    @IamBatmanOg ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She put a restraining order on you
    This guy: “Cos you’re TOO handsome!”

  • @rockosmith9874
    @rockosmith9874 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rejection is GODS Protection 🎩👑🧠🙏🤭💪💯🏆

  • @nickmauge7696
    @nickmauge7696 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I’m a handsome guy and tall (6’4) and I’ve been curved and dubbed multiple times for being to good looking or intimidating. They don’t tell me I’m intimidating but I can tell they’re by me. But I’m a real chill guy, but the way I look and carry myself I guess scares these girls 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @YungPhilosopher
      @YungPhilosopher ปีที่แล้ว +28

      6’4? You should be training for nba bruh

    • @AZ-gm2md
      @AZ-gm2md ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@YungPhilosopher 6'4 isn't really tall enough for NBA. That's 6'8+ you're talking about.

    • @hankscorpio6924
      @hankscorpio6924 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'm tall, buff and pretty chill.
      I'm at that stage now where Im financially secure, work crazy hours, eat, sleep or train in my spare time and drive a sports car to work.
      From what Iv observed in my 37 years of living is if a girl likes you she will make it easy.

    • @AZ-gm2md
      @AZ-gm2md ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hankscorpio6924 Depends, but ig so

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 ปีที่แล้ว

      The worst is when they think youre so good looking that they wont take you serious cos they think you’ll cheat. Then they give it a go. And *THEY* cheat or act disloyal anyways because of that self fullfilling prophecy they put on themselves. Girls are the most insecure, most unhappy, most mentally unbalanced beings on this planet. No lie. Thats why theyre all naked on instagram like theyre fatherless, begging for attention from strangers they dont even like or care about, just to feel validated.

  • @osaydasally2027
    @osaydasally2027 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The key here to be humble.

  • @triplea2443
    @triplea2443 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yall give us butterflies literally its an overwhelming feeling

  • @2deep2hard
    @2deep2hard ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Women really get shy the brave ones are usually 304s

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Women are the prize; no matter how “good looking “ a man is there is always someone better stronger and taller…sometimes women just don’t want to be bothered or catcalled
    Looks are only the surface
    Success ambition and confidence are the things women want too not just looks

    • @CheckedOut2024
      @CheckedOut2024 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sorry to deflate your belief that women are the "prize", they're not. Men are the prize, the catch. Women are a gift to and for men. What benefits does a woman bring to your life compared to the benefits you bring to hers?

    • @CheckedOut2024
      @CheckedOut2024 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wrong sir. Women are not the prize we are the the prize. Women are a gift to men. What are the benefits that she brings to your life, compared to the benefits you bring to hers.

    • @builder_for_life4490
      @builder_for_life4490 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women are Not the Prize bro, they're just nothing but a bunch of body count and DNA collectors!

    • @Taix-ok9wo
      @Taix-ok9wo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "women are the prize" sounds like something an elite Simp would say

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are not a prize if men are providing and protecting you.

  • @Menandwomenhealth
    @Menandwomenhealth ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah true😅
    Seen it too many times.
    They find it intimidating.
    Sometimes it's just about self improvement.
    Being handsome and also into self improvement hits them hard.
    Especially when you start hitting the gym and have a clean haircut.

  • @jihadbrown7584
    @jihadbrown7584 ปีที่แล้ว

    He spittin facts...I'm really chill af