The 9 Sexiest Things Men Wear According To Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 พ.ค. 2024
- I asked women what the sexiest things a man can wear are and they did not disappoint! Of course, you should absolutely wear what you like but since I’m your TH-cam stylist offering a woman’s perspective, I thought this was fitting.
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As someone who wears everything on this list aside from a chain, I can confirm that these will not get a woman to like you if she does not already like you. I think it’s important to dress this way because I myself like the way I look. Do not have any delusions that this will get you more looks or attention from women.
@@blackrack2008 ehm, they will. As we like a girl who dresses well the same is for women, obviously if she does NOT like u the way u act it wont lead u to no shit
Oh yeah, dressing well is only soothing for the eyes, it isn't as attention-grabbing as a masculine frame, and even a masculine presence.
Looks and wealth will only get you so far while people skills and mental strength are what keep women around and keep them coming back. Game&frame they call it. Personality is what caffeinates the hamster, and drives her into coming back for more. Attraction by looks will get a conversation started but think to the Grown Ups 2 movie with that Canadian bodybuilder with the child voice 🤣🤣 and if wealth is what gets their attention, you drew in the wrooooooong kind of woman.
Level up, refine your style and keep clean, man up and get comfortable talking to anyone and everyone. Women like civil men capable of lethality, as well as they love to laugh. It's all about the experience, mixed with the eye appeal
@@drip369 very well said, brother
You are correct. This video was created simply for content. She keeps repeating the same themes over and over again. I rarely watch any of them now.
Finally someone with common sense.
I'm going to wear all of these simultaneously for the ultimate look.
A white crew neck T-shirt layered under an unbuttoned linen shirt layered under a suit with a chain, a watch, white sneakers, and boxer briefs layered over the suit so the ladies know I'm rocking it.
😂🙌
Ultimate Pimp! 😂
then a guy wearing a hoodie with basketball shorts walks in and steals all the thunder lmao.
White sneaker and brown shoe 🤦🏻♂️👍
boxer briefs? yeah maybe if you are 12 - grow up mate.
Number 10. If you have money and are physically attractive you can wear a garbage bag and you'll be good.
🤣🤣
Wtf😂😂
True that
Wahahahahaha you speak of TRUTH men, I agree with you 100 percent lol
😂😂😂
I'm a 70 year old man who wears old joggers, a frayed T Shirt, and old trainers, and the ladies still look at me. 💘
Well since men die sooner, the pickings are getting slim by 70. Could also be you are just above the average looks wise.
10. If you have lots of money, 1 thru 9 don't matter.
A 70 year-old man is a broke ATM spitting out hundreds to these ladies! 😂 ... old joggers and stains be damned.
Keep crushin' it, my man. You are on the right track. Vintage ALWAYS gets ALL the 🐱.
Ah yes, boxer briefs, sometimes I go on a walk with nothing but boxer briefs and I definitely get a lot of looks. Definitely would recommend!
O ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS TAKE A MAN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY WALK AROUND IN BOXER SHORTS.LOTS OF LUCK DUDE YOU'LL NEED IT WITH THE MODERN WOMEN OF TODAY!!!!!LOL
Here in Hermosa Beach a Japanese guy would walk the Strand in nothing but their style of "diapers", like a Sumo wrestler or something. Myself, flipflops, shorts and a T-shirt. Girls seem to like me.
@@Nana-tj2mm too funny!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
1). A Suit 1:01
2). Button Downs & Linen Shirts 1:39
3). White T-Shirt 2:26
4). Fragrance 3:19
5). A Good Watch 4:17
6). A Chain 4:58
7). Strong Shoe Game 5:41
8). Layers 7:20
9). Your Underwear 8:14
1) Nope.
2) Nope.
Thanks!
Thx mate..🤘⚡
It’s all Chad wear. Let’s all look the same 🙄No room for personality. Never wearing a chain, or a watch.
@@lockyp204 "Chad" doesn't wear a suit, they wear a blazer and slacks.
When I was chasing the woman who is now my wife, and who is very stylish and attractive, she gave me a lot of good advice. Most of her suggestions agree with yours, but I would add that the proper use of colors in casual wear is important. In my case my skin and hair color works best with warm, earth tones such as tans. I always take her along when buying clothes and I let her pick things out, which invariably are very attractive things that I would never think of buying myself. So that's another piece of advice I would give to men - ask your lady's opinion!
God bless you bith. True love is a beautiful thing.
@iamme25yago Take your time, follow your path. The universe will guide you. I have found ny love, we just need to tell each other. We communicate with body language since she is super shy. I just turned 30, so would live for something to happen. Other women have been after me, but they are only attracted to my land property and money😥 I wad smart and avoided them. This girl, she is different, the most unique specimen I have ever met. Patience and time will tell what happens.
Step 1. Find a woman.
As a single guy, I like to find a young female sales clerk to help me chose something. Try it, they love to help you look good!
Knowledgeable sales clerks in the better department stores can help too if you don't have a lady at the moment.
women love it when I wear nothing
I doubt it
Gives them a good laugh?
Props for the brave comment😂
@@EricBishardstop being a hater
😂😂
Dress well guys, show up for yourself, look good, smell good, feel good and be yourself. Be genuine
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Honestly, this is the truth. I always scoffed at this advice, but it really is such a tangible difference. You carry yourself and show up differently.
I'm not out here trying to impress ladies anymore, I'm stunting on myself
Do it for you basically, as my mother said to me before and take it from her, she gets men hitting on her from time to time and it was the weirdest thing aha like “who tf is this” I’m protective of my family but yeah she would say “be selfish with yourself”.
Super right.
This is great advice as it becomes routine for me whenever I go out. I will feel even better when I shed some weight.
You and your blue pilled $hit
So in the last six months my wardrobe has been over hauled. Better fitting t's/ polos, some linen shirts, two watches, a couple pairs of boots, a pair of white leather low tops and I went over the top and bought both a seude and a leather jacket. I also started getting in better shape. I was never chubby but I also never had any real muscle. In total I might have blown about $2,500. (Mostly the jackets/boots/watches)
I've quite literally received more compliments in the last six months than I had in the rest of my life. The difference in dating is night and day. When I meet new people I'm treated with far more respect and the energy is very different. Even the way family and friends treat me has totally changed. It's honestly wild. My only regret is not putting that effort into my appearance sooner. I never had low confidence or anything but these changes certainly have boosted it further.
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Respect. Got any specific item that you favor or got compliments the most?
Nice! But you didn’t “blow” money bro. You just invested in yourself!
Just getting started and I appreciate your comments on wearing what makes you feel good and perhaps someone will like it. I swear by that but I also think have fun with it, make it you, and it's just clothes. I always trip out on people who say "My clothes don't matter to me." What? You are choosing the cloths you put on, they are physically wrapped around your body, and most everyone who sees you sees you in these very clothes. And that's not important to you?
I like this host more and more because she really does seem to be trying to give good practical advice for well intentioned people looking for more success in their romantic lives. That's cool.
I did an experiment wearing a simple button down shirt roll up sleeves and silver watch and RayBan bronze polar you get noticed from women. Definitely light cologne too helps
I'm 56, married, and have moved way past trying to impress women, so I usually wear the standard "old man" uniform: khaki cargo shorts, t-shirt, white ankle socks, New Balance 608s. 🙂
how is life at 56? do you suggest marriage?
As you should. All the stuff the lady mentioned is sorta expensive so it's sorta a "spend alot of money or bust" kind of deal.
Good deal man, save your money for vacation with the wife- and you hobbies...
@@EternalFlameProductions If you can find the right woman, yes. That is tougher today than ever, from what I understand. Life at 56 is great! We are dual income, no kids, so plenty of disposable income. Just don't let yourself go as you get older. Eat healthy, hit the gym and do cardio. One of my aunts turned 100 yesterday. 🙂
Stop it.... you're turning me on.
For me the word “basic” comes along with the wrong connotation nowadays, it doesn’t mean you look average or basic; it means that these are absolute staples, you basically should have them!
Great video Courtney 👏🏼👏🏼
@@basilmagnanimous7011 I agree with the majority of what you’ve said but I haven’t a clue what it has to do with my comment…
Good point at the beginning about being yourself and having your own style.
i dont care what u say i wear what i want
Fragrance tip, go to the store and try it on, leave it for an hour without smelling it if you can. The smell can change drastically person to person. I love green Irish tweed by creed but when its on me I lose a lot of what I love about it. So for me it doesnt work. Love the channel, I learn a lot :)
After almost 3 years with a horrifically abusive narcissist and being used for a green card a lot of your videos have helped me avoid falling for the same things I did before and helped me walk away from what I know isnt good for me... somewhat, its progress.
Thanks for sharing these insights and your experience!
I hear ya - UK Steve! And speaking of “Fragrances…”
I love the Dolce & Gabbana The One EDP… and the smell you get from the new EDP are of amber, tobacco and spicy sweetness.
And the smell appears to last which is good, because I don’t want to have to worry about reapplying it.
You could probably wear it at anytime of the day, or any occasion, but for me, I usually wear it when I go out at night - and women seem to really love it, which is definitely a plus!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
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Thank you for sharing this, I’m glad you’re here! Wishing you the best 🥰
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I think her comment was for "UK Steve", not you. 😅
true . using body spray is bad .Women can smell a man and tell if he is healthy or not.true odor body odour will attract a proper mate,yes,women are that sensitive . so Body spray is actually a negative thing .just eat healthy and take bath properly and keep yourself clean so you'll have good smell.
Well, I had no idea that your "Teddy" was Teddy Baldassarre who's got me addicted to his TH-cam Channel on watches. You two have added so much enjoyment and value to my life. Keep your objective, straight talk approach. It's refreshing. You have a lot of competition in your space. He has none! Keep it up and best wishes!
No. 1 tip to attract girls ; don't ignore them!
I started wearing some simple chains silver and black mostly I don’t really go for gold and then I use colognes from scent bird but these are good tips , I found my style over time , but it’s always good to get tips from a woman’s perspective
Thanks Courtney.
Re suits: a fitted suit is important, a badly fitted suit looks awful. Similarly, understanding whether your body type is suitable for an American cut-, a British cut-, or an Italian cut-suit is important (as is drop lengths, etc.). You don't have to go bespoke but getting your suit tailored is handy if needed. Fitted clothes apply to most any clothing piece to be fair.
Re colours: generally neutral colours work well as the girl will be thinking about how you'd look together. If you're outfit is colour neutral and uncomplicated it'll complement pretty much anything she might wear. Furthermore, you won't be distracting when paired up. A gentleman tends to have an understated power and strength.
Fragrance: pick something that complements your natural frame and persona. If you're not a big muscly extraverted guy you probably shouldn't make a heavy musky fragrance your day-to-day option.
Re shoes: if you have the option or occasion, remember to wear appropriate shoes. E.g., Oxfords are generally very formal (wedding, interview, etc.), Derby's less so but smart.
Your thoughts Courtney? Thanks again.
Appreciated hearing your insights!
How do you know whether your body is suited for an American cut, British cut, or Italian cut suit? :)
@@zombieslayer7759 An American cut is a more relaxed British cut. It rarely looks as good as a British cut. An Italian cut is sharper and more flamboyant than a British cut. It's also meant for a warmer climate, meaning it can also pivot to being more casual if you're wearing something single breasted.
@@zombieslayer7759 There are some written guides on the different styles but general rule is Italian works best on slim (where it works really well) to average builds, American on larger people, and British works on everyone. Italian is also able to look more casual and relaxed due to less padding while British will look the most. American really saw its use in work suits that were designed to make people blend in instead of stand out but you tend to see it mixed with British cues these days so it's quite different than even a few decades ago.
@@zombieslayer7759 looks like Keith and Simon have already answered (thanks).
Hope that helps, its something that is understood better visually so if you do a web or YT search you should find what you need.
Hey Courtney, love your videos! Your videos/tips help me out a lot, so keep up the good work ❤️
Happy to hear it! Thanks for being here 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan: Remember the Jay-Z lyric, saying: "I dipped in my stash and splurged on a chain"? Best way to describe me in a word "insane."
She only wants to make money off your views.
@@Zachw2007 who
Standard setup is cotton shirt (can be rolled up in heat and normal for smart) white t’s and dark blue t’s. Black washes out quickly and turn yellow’ish after a few washes.
Where was this type of content 10 years ago?! You are a valuable asset for men.
I've been following your dress tips for a year or two and the response I'm getting is incredible. Two weeks ago I had a couple of girls basically cat call me as I walked past them wearing a black tucked button-down shirt, with rolled up sleeves and beige chinos, and black dress shoes. I used to wear sneakers jeans, and t shirts and never even turned an eye. Thanks Courtney your tips are life changing. You rock!
Bruv fuck clothes you should be stocking up on food and preparing spiritually.
@@Pragnantweggyboard If you're good with money, then you can do all of those things? Overall, this is a pretty bad comment lmao
😭❤️ this made my day! Thanks for being here, I’m glad it helps!!
@@GilgaMax305 'lmao' when your ass is starving in a few months because you focused on the superficial.
I said preparing spiritually, how does that pertain to money? Nice sidestep though.
Then later on they will see a better guy around the corner and dump ya.
I've been wearing Kouros by Yves Saint Laurent for over 35 years. Still love it! Thank God they still make it! It's the GenX version of Old Spice. LOL!
Hi Courtney. I know that I'm taking a shot in the dark here. But could you tell me who makes those cordavan-colored, double monk strap loafers in the middle shown at 6:29 mins of the video? They are very cool looking and I can't seem to find them anywhere. Much appreciated!
Just be you...
Don't wear anything you don't feel comfortable wearing...
Have a great day everyone 👍
A few years back I decided I didn't want to dress like a young person anymore, but rather adopt a more mature style. On my own I started to pick things that I saw successful people wear, or things that I liked that looked more mature. Apparently I picked the correct stuff as I got every single thing you listed except for the chain. I get a ton of compliments on a regular basis and feel a lot more confident. Even young women who I thought liked the young style, have given me more attention in my more mature clothes.
It is a matter of consistency not a clothes only. If you look like 35 years old guy, put some wearing suitable for it. Bill Gates would looks crazy in a heavy metal singer suit. Hope You catch it.
Attractive people rarely get compliments. If you get many compliments it means people are trying to give you encouragement for a reason. They probably think u need it
@@hyemuhyemu8221 Its not that deep if a girls says you look good it means you look good
You my friend are right. I just turned 30, I found my cologne that matches me, and I wear a watch now, plus I am more confident. This woman, whom I really love, she has made me appreciate life more, and she gave me the confidence. It is funny how I never wore cologne, wore white, wore watches, and didn't have enough confidence. Her perfume is literally the best scent I have ever smelt, and she has a really nice watch. She has influenced me, and true love does that. One problem, we have feelings for each other, but she is extremely shy, but we communicate through body language, and we feel safe around each other.
This is true too. I did the same thing.
A strongly masculine look, that looks like you intentionally coordinated - goes miles.
I have full sleeves of tattoos, etc - so the contrast is striking.
I have spent my entire life (I'm 58) avoiding making any fashion statement. I've worn a suit once in the past five years. For the most part I have only ever worn what's comfortable and these days mostly wear Indian or Thai pants and t-shirts of loose sleeveless shirts. Never had a problem finding great women and am married to a gorgeous woman 24 years younger than I am. What this lady is saying may actually reflect what a lot of women think, but frankly I would forget all about it, wear what you like and spend your time pursuing your deepest passions and hit the gym every single day of your life. I've never deliberately tried to attract women but from my life experience this is a formula that does. You can practically be wearing a clown outfit and women will still come to you if you're 100% on purpose and in great physical and emotional shape. The more important issue is, do you want them?
Great advise, thank you!
Wait American women like Indian and Thai pants??
you were doing sooooooo well till you mentioned the M word. Legal marriage is a scam .Men are always on the losing end on this one.
@@altheboss5722 Well my wife is Romanian and traditional in the deepest sense of the word. I hardly feel scammed.
@@alexa.9446 As a Romanian myself i think you should reconsider your life choices.
I'm joking, obviously 😄
I loved all your tips because they are so true. I subscribed to your channel.
I discovered Joop after going through a dozen colognes. I've never looked back. I wear it sparingly, only on date night or if I'm in a suit, but the compliments over the years have made me realize it is a favorite. Whatever my body chemistry, it is enhanced by that particular fragrance.
I wore Joop when I was a young buck definitely was a winner!
Your videos have come on a really long well and you pruduce some of the best content in this genre. Please keep it up and will be at a million in no time
#1 - I have a few suits which I only wear on formal occasions.
#2 - You cannot go wrong with a good button-down shirt. Even better is a linen button-down one.
#3 - Basics never out of style.
#4 - As far as fragrances go, subtle works for both genders.
#5 - A good watch is always welcome. It does not have to be a $40 000 Rolex. For a few hundred you can buy a really smart watch.
#6 - I like to wear a chain. Also a wrist band on my right wrist. On my left one I of course wear a cool watch ;-)
#7- Loafers are OK, but I need these ankle socks with them, lest they chafe me.
#8 - Layering is good in cooler weather.
#9 - I only wear boxer-briefs. They are the best of both worlds.
June is Wedding Season! Are you going to any? No doubt you are! 😘
thank the Lord I live in Africa , you people live such dull and uninteresting lives
Boxers over time in your mid to senior years makes your scrotum sag due to lack of support. Younger boys and men in their growing years should wear Boxers to have room to grow. If you restrict a plant in a jar it gets stunted.
The right guy could wear a paper bag just as long as his HYGIENE IS ON POINT!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Apparently there's a study about guys armpit hair is what woman look for a male. Idk it was awhile back but exercises seem to give off the smell more.
Uh it does happen absolutely have met someone who said something about fragrance and gave up the box quickly
I have everything on the list aside from a chain. Under 40s I think it fits, but now entering 40s doesn’t quite feel right. Maybe it depends on the vibe I want to give off, but I prefer put together and established over trying to look young again.
Great video as always!
The chain I've got is a family heirloom and just the right weight, length, and thickness to be timelessly classy. It's always tucked under my shirt anyway but it's incredibly comfortable all the same.
They really knew how to make jewellery back in the 50s.
Now admittedly I'm 24 but I can see this necklace still being on my neck when I'm 40, just as how my grandfather did.
As long as you don't dress from the young men's catalogue and wear Skechers.
Yeah I think a chain is for guys under the age of 30. Only rappers can get away with jewelry outside of a watch or wedding band past that age.
Thanks Courtney for creating this video and keeping wardrobe tips easy and affordable. What are your thoughts on 'smart watches' as an accessory? - Ron
The only thing you are going to get with this advice if you are already good looking is superficial women. They look at your face, wallet and car nothing else matters to them.
A smart watch is functional, but there are absolutely no formal occasions where a smart watch is appropriate.
Thank you for this. As a more “mature” guy, I kind of struggle with some of the new fashion trends and I am much more comfortable dressing in the manner you suggest. Glad I am on the right track!
how bout a security guard uniform? You know you like it.
Turtleneck….it’s always been an eye catcher for me….(winter of course). I’m 6’3 and 200, so I can pull it off. Maybe not for everyone
She forget to say thick walled :)
Confidence without arrogance..kindness , clothes that fit right and not wearing more than 3 colours ....imho.Cheers Courtney !!
Thank you Courtney, good 411. When you got to footwear I was hoping to hear a comment on leather sandals. I'm a homegrown older Florida boy.. While, like anyone, I want to raise an eyebrow or subtle smile of approval. On the other hand, as you said what we wear says alot about ourselves. I decided long ago, given the tropical climate, 'what's cool is cool'. In fact, I believe in my heart, sandals are the "state shoe" right next to the State tree, the sabal palm. If I'm wrong, I hope to be loved anyway.
My nose barely works. How to choose a fragrance that is flattering on me?
Finally someone mentions the idea of finding your fragrance and scent based on the person. The watch is also key, as I am biased as well. Super good!
I'm standing up for the V-neck: It's more interesting when worn alone or with an open overshirt/jacket, it's less visible when layering under a button-down or sweater, and the larger opening makes it easier to squeeze my big head through them! Which is less likely to mess up my hair and avoid stretching the collar as quickly over time.
Agreed. I've been switching over to V-necks recently and I think they look better. Shows more skin too.
V necks are it, let the fools wear crew neck
It also creates visual illusion to make your shoulders appear broader 😁
@@svetlio37 Lengthens my stubby neck and round face so my short ass looks taller, heh.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
I find the premise of this video odd: sexiness related to things. If the question was posed to me, the answer I would give would include: kindness, inner calm, intellectual curiosity, and culture without poshiness. Accessories and clothes are meaningless other than being clean and appropriate for the place and time. The answers given in this video remind me of the characteristics a divorce psychologist used to describe my ex-wife: superficial, self absorbed, and pretentious. (What can I say, I worked 90 hours a week at the time and was often sleep deprived so, at the time, I had deminished insight and made poor decisions.)
Hey Courtney! I've been interested in mens fashion off and on ever since my older sister gave me a copy of the book Clothes and the Man by Alan Flusser for a graduation gift (you probably know of this guy). I want to say that you did an exceptional job with this compilation, and clearly you have some street cred on the subject.
The thing about fragrances getting a guy laid reminds me of a guy who sued the company that makes Axe shampoo and deodorant because he wasn't getting laid when using those products.
HAHAHAHA
I mean, they DID advertise that on TV 😂
You are my favorite boss on the Mega Man X series
Sueing is such an American thing to do, LOL! xD
His smelling good certainly helps, but there is more to getting laid than just that.
@@jaysibiri If it is on TV, then it must be true 😂.
As someone that only use a chain and nothing else mentioned in this list, i can confirm that its not as important as you might think. For example usually people tell me that I have a pretty unique style(girls and friends), so if you dont fell sure about what you wear, just remember that sometimes being off the standarts is also good. Ofc you need to know how to dress yourself and how to combine colors, etc but just be yourself and wear what you think represents you :).
Having a girl friend with good taste help with clothing and accessories goes a long way. I did this 35 years ago and was well dressed the night I met my wife.
I can confirm the layers and the necklace does get alot of attention. I am always getting compliments about my beads on my neck. Also, the layering give a sort of confidence.
Fascinating that women notice the little details in accessories. Nice insight Courtney. Will take some of these on board.
your accessory is a chain, mine is a lamborghini. Who wins? ME, 100%
Very beautifully explained and I'm sure this is very helpful to have a gentleman look for every guy. As they say first impression is the best and last impression. you don't really have to spend so much on branded clothes, but spend little and still look good is a possible thing you can have. Very well explained . Thank you and God bless this channel :)
men don't care what y'all think. We wear what we want.
Hi
Agree on all but the chain. Thanks for the tips!
Same!
Genuinely helpful. Well done, Court.
One of the few times I was ever cat called was when I wore a V neck. This wasn’t mentioned either but for some strange reason my baseball shirt made my ex crazy. I will say I could bench more in those days and body fat % was 7-8% as opposed to like 11-13% now.
I think the key is to really know how to dress for your body type, which is something I find men struggle a bit more with.
Also dress for your skin tone and eye color etc. Knowing what colors fit u well.
The best fragrance is a custom essential oil blend without any synthetics or alcohol.
I wear DM's Jadons with the platform sole and I'm already 6'2 without them and yep, it does get me attention. Looks like I've managed to get things right regarding this video as I already do all things listed and it's been a major game changer. Just to get a glance from a woman and then a smile absolutely makes my day.
She is absolutely right. I own a dealership and I walk around wearing flip flops and torn shirt and I wonder why I can’t get a date. You want to change your life? Change your wardrobe!!!
Thank you Courtney 🌹
I'd never buy a car from a guy in flip flops. Yuk.
I do have/use all these, besides the chain, and can attest to their validity as making you being perceived more favorably as a man. Also, I could add (leather) boots to complement the shoe game, these are quite unusual, specially the dressier types, and women do take notice of them. Also some increase your height quite well which we all know can be a plus for shorter guys.
Back in the day when I went out to bars, I had a "uniform". I would wear a white button up dress shirt, Levi's 501's and Deck shoes. for some reason, this outfit was a babe magnet. My sleeves were rolled up just enough to show about half my forearms.
Courtney Ryan a great video, but I have to ask what is an F-Boy? I heard you mention this term when you were talking about chains. Several things came to mind but I'd like confirmation I completely got your drift. Thank you, much appreciated if you reply.
If you take reasonably good care of yourself and groom fairly well, you can wear just about anything.
Thanks for your video. As a divorce coach for men, I do quite a bit of Men's consulting and you inspired me to do my first reaction video on this one. Feel free to take a look.
The best way to look good as a man is to get in shape period. You’ll look great regardless of what you’re wearing and you’ll get women who are attracted to you and not the idea of you in your suit lmao
@@georgepoly4842 There's no denying the benefits of fitness on pretty much every angle and if you'd like to have a hand wrestling competition then while I may be a formidable opponent I think I'll pass. As a divorce coach for men, I use all their available resources to them to help them become their best version and that does include fitness but to leave it alone with fitness is not the end all be all. They need to become more self aware so they don't repeat their mistakes, they need to know their strengths so that they can find their superpower, they need to meditate to learn how to control their emotions, etc etc. Bro, I'm proud of my body (it's badass) but I'm also proud that I can dress myself and even dress my GF to a point that she'll admit has improved her style but I'm proudest of helping build other men to the best way I can and know how. Appreciate your comment.
@@georgepoly4842 it's the face. The best way to look good in anything is your face. The reason you think it's fitness is because you went from not lean to lean which had a massive result on how the bone structure of your face shows through. Imagine someone with michael cera's face but he's ripped, if you can convince yourself that he "looks good in anything now" you're nothing short of delusional.
I'm glad you added the chain but I will take it one step further. A chain under the clothes with a religious/scared/sentimental piece on it will always be classic.
I am also thrilled you make a stand for footwear. I recently purchased a pair of Kilties for my work boots. I installed them and then today I realized I have one side up and one side down. I thought I would try to put this off as a fashion statement but I put them both right side up.
Why wear the religious piece if it doesn't represent your beliefs?
Also be careful of such things......
When it comes to shoes, what is the stance on wing tips? (Whether as a shoe or a boot)?
I think it really depends on the region your in too. The suit and loafers and button down linen shirt works in big cities. I do like a chain to go along with my gold nugget wedding ring but since I’m always working (welder and mechanic) and I feel a man should always be ready to work, I pretty much wear the same thing a 100% of the time, even when I go out. Dark blue dickies work pants (not the cargo pocket ones) leather work boots and a tank wife beater tank top (I hate collars around my neck) I don’t wear a fragrance but I do use deodorant so I guess I have a fragrance. I think no matter what, if your clean and confident, you’ll be set. One time me and my wife were invited to a dinner right after I got off work so I had to go straight there. My wife thought it was so funny that I was a little late but my main concern was to clean my nails with my knife before I went in.
I never leave home without my belt knife
Totally surprised that suspenders didn't show up. I think your list is a list that says safe more than standing out and it seems that's what you are going for. I started wearing suspenders occasionally for comfort, they are infinitely more comfortable than belts. After a medical incident that a belt exacerbated I'm now wearing suspenders almost exclusively. Since, I get many compliments from women on them, some say they keep trying to get their boyfriend/husband to wear them.
Yeah, I've been wearing suspenders religiously since I was a teen, all my trousers are high waisted and cut tapered, my suit trousers, casual trousers, hell I've been complimented wearing the corduroy trousers with canvas patches over the knees, the older 20th century style does draw attention.
Don`t tell English girls you`re wearing Suspenders unless you want her to think you`re a secret transvestite 😄😁😆 We call them Braces.
1. Pyjamas
2. Cravat
3. Top hat
4. Cardigan
5. Bow tie
6. Wife's underwear
7. Waistcoat
8. Silk shirt
9. Pink dress
All of these are pretty surface level fits to have and I love that! Doesn’t have to be super expensive or crazy but just the basics are usually pretty effective!
"Fboy I will ruin your life" lol lots of success with that mode for me. Just being honest.
Thanks for the coaching and content! Improving as always.
Haven’t watched the video yet but I already know it’s a banger because it’s Courtney! You never miss🔥😂
You rock! Thanks for being here 🤍
Simp! Simp! Simp!
I noticed my OD green/black Altama ripple sole jungle boots didn't make the list...... that's unfortunate.
Many years ago I was always well dressed. I was never schooled to understand women so had no idea if I was attracting anyone unless they made obvious by almost jumping on me which happened. On night leaving work, hotel in NYC, I made my way that night to a local subway I never go into. Well I had a nice watch on, gold chain, nice white lightweight designer hooded jacket. I obviously looked really good cause I attracted four guys who mugged me. I stopped wearing chains watches and took up carrying a knife.
I think the most important thing is just to approach as many women as possible because a lot of women aren't gonna like you because you're just not their type, so you kind of have to get past all the women that aren't your type so you can find a women quickly that is attractive to and you are her type as well. It's a numbers game.
you're statistically correct!
Add a Number 10 to the list: A well-fitting waistcoat(best combined with a dress shirt & tie, suit optional). I wear them occasionally when I want to dress up a notch or two(I wear button up shirts a lot as part of my semi-preppy style) but things to be less bulky, I'd change a suit blazer to a waistcoat, and almost always wear a tie to complement it, then match it with jeans/chinos/dress pants and dress shoes. I just feel amazing in this combo, plus lots of women love it when I wear this combo(see my avatar on the left)!
I had to look up what a waistcoat is 😅My girl looooves when I wear one. I call it a vest
nah, keep it to 9 specially if this would be your suggestion 😂
Waistcoat meaning a vest?
(That's what we Yanks call what people in the UK would call a waistcoat, as you may know)
Hi Miss Courtney,
What do you think of a Boho shirt with slightly rolled up sleeves?
You forgot the sexiest thing of all: A wedding band.
Be yourself. Be your best. Be dignified. Never be something someone else expects.
Best advice here.
My best experience dating, was with a woman who dressed all the time like she would indoors. I don't really wear anything special - of course there are formalities which must be considered in certain situations, but in the end a person will love you for who you are and you them.
That last sentence has been forgotten, incredibly, over the past 10-15 years. The 90s were fantastic because we were interested in WHO you are, not how you look. We are now living in the Era of Narcissism.
I appreciate your effort. It depends where you are and the socioeconomic level of everyone involved. Here in small-town Indiana none of this matters AT ALL! NONE. OF. IT! As a man who embraces these suggestions it's frustrating. Men and women alike just look like crap most of the time; not only clothes but how they take care of themselves (they don't). They don't understand dressing well, don't have the stores to purchase nice things, and don't have the money. I was told one day that I looked "nice" when all I was wearing was work boots (sure they were from Barney's - LOL), dark jeans, and a sweater over a dress shirt. Trust me, it's dismal here. I have nice clothes from my career in the federal government, so I might as well use them. Anyway, regards from Indiana!
I really appreciate this video. It helped me with some confidence
The last one is very important; it took me years to realize I was wearing the wrong underwear on my head.
Great vid with a good perspective. Appreciate your videos!
I wear a kilt with either a classic military tunic or dress shirt with tie and waistcoat, aviator watch, embroidered kilt socks, wingtips or brogues, no chain, no class ring, no fragrance. I bathe.
Thank you so much Courtney. Great tips.
1)a suit
2) crisp dress shirt 👔
3) simple white t-shirt
4) fragrance
5) a good watch
6) a chain
7) a strong shoe 👞 game
8) layers
9) your underwear 🩲 (boxer briefs)
Great video Miss Ryan. I would love to see more videos about fragrances💚
I have a whole channel dedicated to it! 💗 it’s called Baldassarre fragrance
👎
Thanks Courtney , does this apply to older men ?
Half way through the intro, I went straight to the comments. Some of them are priceless!
Absolutely loving the video, keep up the good work.
So glad to hear it. Thank you! 🤍
@@CourtneyRyan your welcome and question, what about fedoras?
Hey courtney, why do you say not to go for a v neck? As a bigger guy, Ive been told vnecks are better because crews exaggerate how round the face is. Thanks for the vid!
You are correct… I have a thicker neck and my wife hates crew necks on me. A good option is a Henley… best of both worlds. You do get the stretched v-neck that goes too low… those suck.
You are correct! I should have specified and went into detail here!
@@CourtneyRyan Honestly Ive heard both perspectives with some on youtube saying the v points to your belly while others say it structures the face better. Its confusing lol but I like vnecks personally. Maybe you can make a style video for larger men? Love your channel 🙏
Hi Courtney, love your videos, to me, as a man, when it comes to wearing a chain, it should NEVER be worn outside, I also believe the Cuban link is the sexiest design out there, the Fígaro I think it’s too loud and less formal and more of a screaming for attention of a design regardless of ocasión, season or time of day, and if worn outside, I get the sense it makes me look like a mess or de organized person, but then again, that’s just me. I also advise to avoid those outrageously thick chains. Wouldn’t go thicker than a 1cm or 3/8 of an inch wide Cuban link.
What’s your opinion Courtney?
What u think about poket warch with casual clothes and rapper cap ? I like simple and old style
Wait. They lied to me?!? This cologne won’t get me a paternity suit?!?
This was a better video than what I expected. Thanks.
Did you ever see the Big Bang episode were Howard says, "And don't spritz em with that spray that's supposed to make women crazy. It doesn't work, no matter how much you put on."
I feel lost without wearing a watch time is just precious to me even if i have nothing planned !⌚️
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
What are the rules for wearing shirts and t-shirts tucked in or worn outside the trousers?
Picky point here: "Button down" refers to the type of collar on a dress shirt. The collars with small buttons holding down the tips are button-down. Other dress shirts might have spread collars, band collars, wing collars, etc.