As someone who wears everything on this list aside from a chain, I can confirm that these will not get a woman to like you if she does not already like you. I think it’s important to dress this way because I myself like the way I look. Do not have any delusions that this will get you more looks or attention from women.
@@blackrack2008 ehm, they will. As we like a girl who dresses well the same is for women, obviously if she does NOT like u the way u act it wont lead u to no shit
Oh yeah, dressing well is only soothing for the eyes, it isn't as attention-grabbing as a masculine frame, and even a masculine presence. Looks and wealth will only get you so far while people skills and mental strength are what keep women around and keep them coming back. Game&frame they call it. Personality is what caffeinates the hamster, and drives her into coming back for more. Attraction by looks will get a conversation started but think to the Grown Ups 2 movie with that Canadian bodybuilder with the child voice 🤣🤣 and if wealth is what gets their attention, you drew in the wrooooooong kind of woman. Level up, refine your style and keep clean, man up and get comfortable talking to anyone and everyone. Women like civil men capable of lethality, as well as they love to laugh. It's all about the experience, mixed with the eye appeal
I'm going to wear all of these simultaneously for the ultimate look. A white crew neck T-shirt layered under an unbuttoned linen shirt layered under a suit with a chain, a watch, white sneakers, and boxer briefs layered over the suit so the ladies know I'm rocking it.
O ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS TAKE A MAN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY WALK AROUND IN BOXER SHORTS.LOTS OF LUCK DUDE YOU'LL NEED IT WITH THE MODERN WOMEN OF TODAY!!!!!LOL
Here in Hermosa Beach a Japanese guy would walk the Strand in nothing but their style of "diapers", like a Sumo wrestler or something. Myself, flipflops, shorts and a T-shirt. Girls seem to like me.
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
Many years ago I was always well dressed. I was never schooled to understand women so had no idea if I was attracting anyone unless they made obvious by almost jumping on me which happened. On night leaving work, hotel in NYC, I made my way that night to a local subway I never go into. Well I had a nice watch on, gold chain, nice white lightweight designer hooded jacket. I obviously looked really good cause I attracted four guys who mugged me. I stopped wearing chains watches and took up carrying a knife.
Honestly, this is the truth. I always scoffed at this advice, but it really is such a tangible difference. You carry yourself and show up differently. I'm not out here trying to impress ladies anymore, I'm stunting on myself
Do it for you basically, as my mother said to me before and take it from her, she gets men hitting on her from time to time and it was the weirdest thing aha like “who tf is this” I’m protective of my family but yeah she would say “be selfish with yourself”. Super right.
1: Purple hat with a feather 2: Purple shirt 3: Purple pants 4: Purple fur-coat 5: Dark leather boots 6: wooden oak cane with gold handle 7: swaging walk
So in the last six months my wardrobe has been over hauled. Better fitting t's/ polos, some linen shirts, two watches, a couple pairs of boots, a pair of white leather low tops and I went over the top and bought both a seude and a leather jacket. I also started getting in better shape. I was never chubby but I also never had any real muscle. In total I might have blown about $2,500. (Mostly the jackets/boots/watches) I've quite literally received more compliments in the last six months than I had in the rest of my life. The difference in dating is night and day. When I meet new people I'm treated with far more respect and the energy is very different. Even the way family and friends treat me has totally changed. It's honestly wild. My only regret is not putting that effort into my appearance sooner. I never had low confidence or anything but these changes certainly have boosted it further.
Although I'm glad you have a new look and attitude, I cannot agree with that type of thinking. I am the same as you but have not gone down that path yet. I own multiple expensive watches some that cost as much as a car. I have owned every type of clothes, rare pieces. I drive all types of cars. I'm 6'2. I've been with over a hundred women by the age of 40. What I can tell you unfortunately is that the world has changed in a worse way. We as men no longer get the respect and treatment we deserve. You are seeing more attention and looks become we are literally living in a superficial narcissistic world now. A Instagram world where everyone wants to live their best life for the gram. And women want their cuties men to match their outfits. They no longer care about your true identity or character. They are picky and angry at men. It's their time to flip the tables on us, and men have allowed them to take the power. Look what has happened? Low birth rates and loneliness epidemic. Thanks women. I can't agree, I'm proud of you for stepping it up and I will have to do the same. But I can tell you first hand something is wrong out there in society. I cannot tell you the horror stories ive seen in the last 5 years. It's disturbing. Keep your identity men, don't let society or the world change you into what they think you should be!
When I was chasing the woman who is now my wife, and who is very stylish and attractive, she gave me a lot of good advice. Most of her suggestions agree with yours, but I would add that the proper use of colors in casual wear is important. In my case my skin and hair color works best with warm, earth tones such as tans. I always take her along when buying clothes and I let her pick things out, which invariably are very attractive things that I would never think of buying myself. So that's another piece of advice I would give to men - ask your lady's opinion!
@iamme25yago Take your time, follow your path. The universe will guide you. I have found ny love, we just need to tell each other. We communicate with body language since she is super shy. I just turned 30, so would live for something to happen. Other women have been after me, but they are only attracted to my land property and money😥 I wad smart and avoided them. This girl, she is different, the most unique specimen I have ever met. Patience and time will tell what happens.
Picky point here: "Button down" refers to the type of collar on a dress shirt. The collars with small buttons holding down the tips are button-down. Other dress shirts might have spread collars, band collars, wing collars, etc.
I'm 56, married, and have moved way past trying to impress women, so I usually wear the standard "old man" uniform: khaki cargo shorts, t-shirt, white ankle socks, New Balance 608s. 🙂
@@EternalFlameProductions If you can find the right woman, yes. That is tougher today than ever, from what I understand. Life at 56 is great! We are dual income, no kids, so plenty of disposable income. Just don't let yourself go as you get older. Eat healthy, hit the gym and do cardio. One of my aunts turned 100 yesterday. 🙂
Fragrance tip, go to the store and try it on, leave it for an hour without smelling it if you can. The smell can change drastically person to person. I love green Irish tweed by creed but when its on me I lose a lot of what I love about it. So for me it doesnt work. Love the channel, I learn a lot :) After almost 3 years with a horrifically abusive narcissist and being used for a green card a lot of your videos have helped me avoid falling for the same things I did before and helped me walk away from what I know isnt good for me... somewhat, its progress.
I hear ya - UK Steve! And speaking of “Fragrances…” I love the Dolce & Gabbana The One EDP… and the smell you get from the new EDP are of amber, tobacco and spicy sweetness. And the smell appears to last which is good, because I don’t want to have to worry about reapplying it. You could probably wear it at anytime of the day, or any occasion, but for me, I usually wear it when I go out at night - and women seem to really love it, which is definitely a plus! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
true . using body spray is bad .Women can smell a man and tell if he is healthy or not.true odor body odour will attract a proper mate,yes,women are that sensitive . so Body spray is actually a negative thing .just eat healthy and take bath properly and keep yourself clean so you'll have good smell.
Sounds very American to me to be honest. I always get the feeling American women are mostly interested in money and their first question always is about what job you have. I dated French girls and I think only after months the topic of a job came up. With American girls it always feels like they have a checklist: is he rich enough? does he have good job? what are his career opportunities? etc. So it makes a lot of sense that for example, a suit would be at the top of their list as a criteria.
All women seek security which comes from money , job , status. Women don't want to date or marry a broke dude who can't support them or their children if they decide to have kids. Seems pretty reasonable to me ...
My last girlfriend is American and you are right. Also, they like any a man who looks after himself and doesn't spend too much money on hobbies, or maybe that's just her.
I've been following your dress tips for a year or two and the response I'm getting is incredible. Two weeks ago I had a couple of girls basically cat call me as I walked past them wearing a black tucked button-down shirt, with rolled up sleeves and beige chinos, and black dress shoes. I used to wear sneakers jeans, and t shirts and never even turned an eye. Thanks Courtney your tips are life changing. You rock!
@@FabzP96 'lmao' when your ass is starving in a few months because you focused on the superficial. I said preparing spiritually, how does that pertain to money? Nice sidestep though.
A few years back I decided I didn't want to dress like a young person anymore, but rather adopt a more mature style. On my own I started to pick things that I saw successful people wear, or things that I liked that looked more mature. Apparently I picked the correct stuff as I got every single thing you listed except for the chain. I get a ton of compliments on a regular basis and feel a lot more confident. Even young women who I thought liked the young style, have given me more attention in my more mature clothes.
It is a matter of consistency not a clothes only. If you look like 35 years old guy, put some wearing suitable for it. Bill Gates would looks crazy in a heavy metal singer suit. Hope You catch it.
Attractive people rarely get compliments. If you get many compliments it means people are trying to give you encouragement for a reason. They probably think u need it
You my friend are right. I just turned 30, I found my cologne that matches me, and I wear a watch now, plus I am more confident. This woman, whom I really love, she has made me appreciate life more, and she gave me the confidence. It is funny how I never wore cologne, wore white, wore watches, and didn't have enough confidence. Her perfume is literally the best scent I have ever smelt, and she has a really nice watch. She has influenced me, and true love does that. One problem, we have feelings for each other, but she is extremely shy, but we communicate through body language, and we feel safe around each other.
This is true too. I did the same thing. A strongly masculine look, that looks like you intentionally coordinated - goes miles. I have full sleeves of tattoos, etc - so the contrast is striking.
Thanks Courtney. Re suits: a fitted suit is important, a badly fitted suit looks awful. Similarly, understanding whether your body type is suitable for an American cut-, a British cut-, or an Italian cut-suit is important (as is drop lengths, etc.). You don't have to go bespoke but getting your suit tailored is handy if needed. Fitted clothes apply to most any clothing piece to be fair. Re colours: generally neutral colours work well as the girl will be thinking about how you'd look together. If you're outfit is colour neutral and uncomplicated it'll complement pretty much anything she might wear. Furthermore, you won't be distracting when paired up. A gentleman tends to have an understated power and strength. Fragrance: pick something that complements your natural frame and persona. If you're not a big muscly extraverted guy you probably shouldn't make a heavy musky fragrance your day-to-day option. Re shoes: if you have the option or occasion, remember to wear appropriate shoes. E.g., Oxfords are generally very formal (wedding, interview, etc.), Derby's less so but smart. Your thoughts Courtney? Thanks again.
@@zombieslayer7759 An American cut is a more relaxed British cut. It rarely looks as good as a British cut. An Italian cut is sharper and more flamboyant than a British cut. It's also meant for a warmer climate, meaning it can also pivot to being more casual if you're wearing something single breasted.
@@zombieslayer7759 There are some written guides on the different styles but general rule is Italian works best on slim (where it works really well) to average builds, American on larger people, and British works on everyone. Italian is also able to look more casual and relaxed due to less padding while British will look the most. American really saw its use in work suits that were designed to make people blend in instead of stand out but you tend to see it mixed with British cues these days so it's quite different than even a few decades ago.
@@zombieslayer7759 looks like Keith and Simon have already answered (thanks). Hope that helps, its something that is understood better visually so if you do a web or YT search you should find what you need.
I have spent my entire life (I'm 58) avoiding making any fashion statement. I've worn a suit once in the past five years. For the most part I have only ever worn what's comfortable and these days mostly wear Indian or Thai pants and t-shirts of loose sleeveless shirts. Never had a problem finding great women and am married to a gorgeous woman 24 years younger than I am. What this lady is saying may actually reflect what a lot of women think, but frankly I would forget all about it, wear what you like and spend your time pursuing your deepest passions and hit the gym every single day of your life. I've never deliberately tried to attract women but from my life experience this is a formula that does. You can practically be wearing a clown outfit and women will still come to you if you're 100% on purpose and in great physical and emotional shape. The more important issue is, do you want them?
I'm standing up for the V-neck: It's more interesting when worn alone or with an open overshirt/jacket, it's less visible when layering under a button-down or sweater, and the larger opening makes it easier to squeeze my big head through them! Which is less likely to mess up my hair and avoid stretching the collar as quickly over time.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
I agree about a well fitting suit. A pink shirt, preferably by Thomas Pink on Jermyn Street, shows confidence and power. I get lots of positive comments. In a more relaxed setting, crisp jeans, western boots, a crisp, white oxford cloth button down shirt, a barn coat and a Stetson. Save a horse, ride a cowboy. However, my number one is to wear a tartan kilt (best if you have a connection to the tartan - can be regional), with an argyle jacket and matching vest, ghillie brogues, kilt hose, sporran and sgian dubh. Many men are jealous because this takes a lot of confidence. Some women are shy but far more are intrigued and want to have a conversation that can lead on from there.
#1 - I have a few suits which I only wear on formal occasions. #2 - You cannot go wrong with a good button-down shirt. Even better is a linen button-down one. #3 - Basics never out of style. #4 - As far as fragrances go, subtle works for both genders. #5 - A good watch is always welcome. It does not have to be a $40 000 Rolex. For a few hundred you can buy a really smart watch. #6 - I like to wear a chain. Also a wrist band on my right wrist. On my left one I of course wear a cool watch ;-) #7- Loafers are OK, but I need these ankle socks with them, lest they chafe me. #8 - Layering is good in cooler weather. #9 - I only wear boxer-briefs. They are the best of both worlds. June is Wedding Season! Are you going to any? No doubt you are! 😘
Boxers over time in your mid to senior years makes your scrotum sag due to lack of support. Younger boys and men in their growing years should wear Boxers to have room to grow. If you restrict a plant in a jar it gets stunted.
For me the word “basic” comes along with the wrong connotation nowadays, it doesn’t mean you look average or basic; it means that these are absolute staples, you basically should have them! Great video Courtney 👏🏼👏🏼
Hi Courtney, love your videos, to me, as a man, when it comes to wearing a chain, it should NEVER be worn outside, I also believe the Cuban link is the sexiest design out there, the Fígaro I think it’s too loud and less formal and more of a screaming for attention of a design regardless of ocasión, season or time of day, and if worn outside, I get the sense it makes me look like a mess or de organized person, but then again, that’s just me. I also advise to avoid those outrageously thick chains. Wouldn’t go thicker than a 1cm or 3/8 of an inch wide Cuban link. What’s your opinion Courtney?
As someone that only use a chain and nothing else mentioned in this list, i can confirm that its not as important as you might think. For example usually people tell me that I have a pretty unique style(girls and friends), so if you dont fell sure about what you wear, just remember that sometimes being off the standarts is also good. Ofc you need to know how to dress yourself and how to combine colors, etc but just be yourself and wear what you think represents you :).
I have everything on the list aside from a chain. Under 40s I think it fits, but now entering 40s doesn’t quite feel right. Maybe it depends on the vibe I want to give off, but I prefer put together and established over trying to look young again. Great video as always!
The chain I've got is a family heirloom and just the right weight, length, and thickness to be timelessly classy. It's always tucked under my shirt anyway but it's incredibly comfortable all the same. They really knew how to make jewellery back in the 50s. Now admittedly I'm 24 but I can see this necklace still being on my neck when I'm 40, just as how my grandfather did.
I've been wearing Kouros by Yves Saint Laurent for over 35 years. Still love it! Thank God they still make it! It's the GenX version of Old Spice. LOL!
The time & place dictate what to wear…Past this the cut & quality have a big influence…Past this the blend of colors & fit…Have at least a couple bespoke blazers & suits…I do not wear a watch these days but when it works I wear very nice cufflinks…Past this I view quality shoes along with serious belt-buckle as way to accessorize …And a great hat (NEVER BASEBALL CAP) is often a cherry on top…In the summer a quality straw hat is great…Key point is dress for the occasion …
Hey courtney, why do you say not to go for a v neck? As a bigger guy, Ive been told vnecks are better because crews exaggerate how round the face is. Thanks for the vid!
You are correct… I have a thicker neck and my wife hates crew necks on me. A good option is a Henley… best of both worlds. You do get the stretched v-neck that goes too low… those suck.
@@CourtneyRyan Honestly Ive heard both perspectives with some on youtube saying the v points to your belly while others say it structures the face better. Its confusing lol but I like vnecks personally. Maybe you can make a style video for larger men? Love your channel 🙏
I didn't wear v necks until I got a beautiful full throat tattoo. The combination really does something for my slightly weaker chin and I get compliments nonstop since
Here is an interesting experiment. Ask your women followers to name the things that men wear that are a turn off or not sexy. Take the top 9, put them on a male fashion model, photograph them with a professional fashion photographer, then post the photos, asking women to rate the outfits on a scale of 0 to 10. If the outfits are really a turn off for women, the photos will all get a low rating. If they don't, then it proves that it doesn't matter what you wear if you're already good looking. BTW, I've been told by a number of women that wearing cologne is a turn off because either they, or someone they know, is/are allergic to cologne. It happened so often that I just stopped wearing any scent. Full disclosure, I don't look like a male fashion model.
Well, I had no idea that your "Teddy" was Teddy Baldassarre who's got me addicted to his TH-cam Channel on watches. You two have added so much enjoyment and value to my life. Keep your objective, straight talk approach. It's refreshing. You have a lot of competition in your space. He has none! Keep it up and best wishes!
At 70 years old, you should be guarding your money. The ladies arent looking at you for your mesmerising beauty, but are encircling you like vultures on a dying animal.
The thing about fragrances getting a guy laid reminds me of a guy who sued the company that makes Axe shampoo and deodorant because he wasn't getting laid when using those products.
Most important rule: Be attractive! If you don't have the looks then expensive fragrances, jewelry or fancy outfits won't make you look better. It'll actually seem a little bit weird on you.
She is absolutely right. I own a dealership and I walk around wearing flip flops and torn shirt and I wonder why I can’t get a date. You want to change your life? Change your wardrobe!!! Thank you Courtney 🌹
Confidence and being in the moment is probably the best expression. Wearing the right clothing puts me in that mode. My only issue is white T-shirts. I love the look and feel but at least for me I can not keep them looking new. I may not be the neatest person but even the slightest discoloration shows on white shirts. To really look good I find I only get three wears/washes before white t shirts don’t look clean. Bleach helps. I buy white T shirts in bulk and generally don’t pay big bucks for them for this reason. When in doubt go with classics and dress up 1/2 notch for the occasion. Overdressing is a thing and looking out of place is not a good look. Getting hair cuts on a regular basis and keeping facial hair clean should also be on the list.
I think the most important thing is just to approach as many women as possible because a lot of women aren't gonna like you because you're just not their type, so you kind of have to get past all the women that aren't your type so you can find a women quickly that is attractive to and you are her type as well. It's a numbers game.
I’ve found women seem to really love guys in blazers and sports jackets as I get way more compliments from women about what I am wearing when I wear a blazer/sports jacket. The 2nd most complimented thing would be my dark brown leather dress shoes or boots.
One of the few times I was ever cat called was when I wore a V neck. This wasn’t mentioned either but for some strange reason my baseball shirt made my ex crazy. I will say I could bench more in those days and body fat % was 7-8% as opposed to like 11-13% now.
I think it really depends on the region your in too. The suit and loafers and button down linen shirt works in big cities. I do like a chain to go along with my gold nugget wedding ring but since I’m always working (welder and mechanic) and I feel a man should always be ready to work, I pretty much wear the same thing a 100% of the time, even when I go out. Dark blue dickies work pants (not the cargo pocket ones) leather work boots and a tank wife beater tank top (I hate collars around my neck) I don’t wear a fragrance but I do use deodorant so I guess I have a fragrance. I think no matter what, if your clean and confident, you’ll be set. One time me and my wife were invited to a dinner right after I got off work so I had to go straight there. My wife thought it was so funny that I was a little late but my main concern was to clean my nails with my knife before I went in.
Totally surprised that suspenders didn't show up. I think your list is a list that says safe more than standing out and it seems that's what you are going for. I started wearing suspenders occasionally for comfort, they are infinitely more comfortable than belts. After a medical incident that a belt exacerbated I'm now wearing suspenders almost exclusively. Since, I get many compliments from women on them, some say they keep trying to get their boyfriend/husband to wear them.
Yeah, I've been wearing suspenders religiously since I was a teen, all my trousers are high waisted and cut tapered, my suit trousers, casual trousers, hell I've been complimented wearing the corduroy trousers with canvas patches over the knees, the older 20th century style does draw attention.
Brutha there ain't nothing wrong with the jungle boots 😂. I wear bellvilles and wellcos and I still get plenty of compliments. It's a good idea to keep 1 really clean pair though and I find women like the clean desert tan more lol
@@1badombre82 Hell yea man, I still wear my jump boots with my suits in the winter. And IDK if people are F'ing with me or not but I get lots of compliments.
@@darkgardener9577 honestly by far I get the most compliments on my marines RAT boots. The brown and tan ones that have shark skin toe and heel. And when I dress in a suit I just wear my black square toe biker boots. They just look like slightly aggressive dress boots
great content but on boxers, what type, funny, black, grey does it matter. Needless to say most people wear pants (for the US crowd - boxer briefs) but what type is my question. Thanks
Did you ever see the Big Bang episode were Howard says, "And don't spritz em with that spray that's supposed to make women crazy. It doesn't work, no matter how much you put on."
This is pretty accurate and makes sense and part of ny wardrobe as Im a fashion lover. BUT ULTIMATELY, if a woman finds you attractive it literally dont matter what you wear taha
Thanks Courtney for creating this video and keeping wardrobe tips easy and affordable. What are your thoughts on 'smart watches' as an accessory? - Ron
The only thing you are going to get with this advice if you are already good looking is superficial women. They look at your face, wallet and car nothing else matters to them.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
Add a Number 10 to the list: A well-fitting waistcoat(best combined with a dress shirt & tie, suit optional). I wear them occasionally when I want to dress up a notch or two(I wear button up shirts a lot as part of my semi-preppy style) but things to be less bulky, I'd change a suit blazer to a waistcoat, and almost always wear a tie to complement it, then match it with jeans/chinos/dress pants and dress shoes. I just feel amazing in this combo, plus lots of women love it when I wear this combo(see my avatar on the left)!
00:05🤵 A suit is a must-have for men, often equated to a woman's little black dress, exuding success and sophistication. 01:43👔 Button-downs and linen shirts are highly favored, especially with rolled-up sleeves, for a relaxed yet stylish look. 02:30👕 A simple white t-shirt is a versatile and universally attractive choice for men, both in white and black. 03:22🍃 Fragrance adds a final touch to a well-groomed appearance, enhancing overall appeal subtly. 04:21⌚ A good watch is a timeless accessory that adds maturity and elegance without being overly flashy. 05:01📿 Chains are a simple yet impactful accessory that can complement a laid-back, stylish look. 05:42👟 White sneakers, loafers, and boots are favored for their versatility and ability to elevate casual outfits. 07:21🧥 Layers such as jackets or coats showcase good taste and can transform an outfit for different seasons. 08:15🩲 Boxer briefs are highlighted as the preferred underwear choice among women for both comfort and aesthetic appeal.
@@cienciasatuariais4954 I drive budget built v8 mini truck and I feel it tells everyone all they need to know about me because it shows that I actually know how to turn a wrench and create something beautiful and powerful. Yeah what we drive says something about us. Yours says you can buy something pretty and powerful that somone else designed. Mine says I can design and build something pretty and powerful
I discovered Joop after going through a dozen colognes. I've never looked back. I wear it sparingly, only on date night or if I'm in a suit, but the compliments over the years have made me realize it is a favorite. Whatever my body chemistry, it is enhanced by that particular fragrance.
Not Guna lie. The top three I have always naturally worn because I was asked to; and because I felt out of the normal did so to feel at ease. One example was crisp clean blue dress shirt with sleeves rolled up bc I'm not a dressy guy. I was told many times that blue eyes paired well, and women had a hard time taking their eye off. (especially ones I thought were out of my league lol) Im in my mid-thirties now with dark hair and it still works for me as slight salt and pepper. Thats my two cents.
Having a girl friend with good taste help with clothing and accessories goes a long way. I did this 35 years ago and was well dressed the night I met my wife.
I too find that having a girlfriend with good taste goes a long way lol. When I'm dating a pretty girl I always get way more girls coming up to me trying to steal me from her ahahaha
I can confirm the layers and the necklace does get alot of attention. I am always getting compliments about my beads on my neck. Also, the layering give a sort of confidence.
Great tips! And speaking of Fragrances… I love Fragrances - and there are actually some great “Benefits” for wearing them… -it makes your dating life more exciting, and more fun when you smell great! -it actually makes you feel more confident - and you should know how women feel about confident men! -it separates you from other guys - and makes you stand out, trust me! Women do notice! -And finally, it just makes you more attractive - and who doesn’t want to feel, and look more attractive!? So now that you know some of the benefits of wearing fragrances, here are some you could try… Tom Ford Noir, Penhaligon's Juniper Sling, Jo Malone London, Dior Sauvage, and Paco Rabanne 1 Million! Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Wearing a suit indicates you have money. This will attract a certain type of woman who is after a luxurious lifestyle, diamonds, expensive vacations and other monetary BS. Men just wear what you love to wear and the right woman FOR YOU will find you and love you for it.
I dress like a punk or a biker 95 percent of the time but once in a while I will put on 1 hell of a suit and the women go bonkers for it. Generally the women who already know how I normally dress. Shows confidence, class and taste. It has to be an outfit that is super well fitted though.
My Royal Navy uniform was a real winner in the fifties and the sixties.especially the many,many times girls and ladies of all ages came up to me, and said "can I feel your collar for luck" Wonderful.❤
@@vonarg 1) It's a split second vs a good 2 seconds to know what time it is (jeans ain't tight, but pockets sure are), and 2) It's a little thing that adds alot
i wonder if it is a bot or actually Courtney who replies back A live stream soon next month and a ten minute video from Courtney about the USA abortion ruling would be interesting as a women I know this is a Fashion and dating channel more, it would be a good video topic. Happy Friday too!
All of these are pretty surface level fits to have and I love that! Doesn’t have to be super expensive or crazy but just the basics are usually pretty effective!
Courtney Ryan a great video, but I have to ask what is an F-Boy? I heard you mention this term when you were talking about chains. Several things came to mind but I'd like confirmation I completely got your drift. Thank you, much appreciated if you reply.
No joke, i took courtney’s advice on facial hair (ive never let it grow on my face). And i definitely notice a difference…. More like women are actually flirty now wtf
If anyone else besides me has issues with polyester and you want no show socks, take a peek in the women's section. I've done it and I made it out just fine
I actually think rolled up sleeves look pretty inelegant and immature compared to being worn down with the cuffs around the wrists where they're designed to be at. Bundling it up not only looks messy, but it counterintuitively restricts air flow making you even warmer. When it's too hot for long sleeves, I'd recommend wearing short sleeve shirts.
Nice to see Grandpa making a cameo putting on his jacket.
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First of all, thank for your videos. About fragrances, I discern, I’m sorry, I love good parfumerie and I don’t use it thinking about I’ll get something in return for it, each parfum I own I’m just wear it because I love it and that is all. Happy Thanksgiving 😊
Courtney, Thanks for using the older gentleman putting on a sport coat, he is about my age. I know your main audience is younger men but nice to see you throw in some of us old guys. BTW I have 2 suits, 6 sport coats about 12 button-down oxfords that I wear with and without ties, and about 6 pairs of Allen Edmonds shoes not counting my western boots and chukkas.
I'm an older *woman* (53) who watches Courtney, and I agree (5 sons)! I was so impressed by that. I'd agree with everything but the chain. Lol. But perhaps that's a generational thing. I LOVE suits, sport coats, button down oxfords, white/black tees, layering jacket over tee, top-siders, and dress shoes. Fragrance is an absolute bonus. IF it's good. Oh, and boxers. ;) Great list.
Hello my name is Rose, and I must say, your content really caught my attention. There's something important I'd like to share with you. Can we have a chat? I'm looking forward to it! 😊
i love casual wears, i love putting on a black light jacket,with white tee shirt, dark blue jean and white sneakers with stylish blue, i get thumbs up by ladies, especially with black hat on, i love it simple and stylish.
As someone who wears everything on this list aside from a chain, I can confirm that these will not get a woman to like you if she does not already like you. I think it’s important to dress this way because I myself like the way I look. Do not have any delusions that this will get you more looks or attention from women.
@@blackrack2008 ehm, they will. As we like a girl who dresses well the same is for women, obviously if she does NOT like u the way u act it wont lead u to no shit
Oh yeah, dressing well is only soothing for the eyes, it isn't as attention-grabbing as a masculine frame, and even a masculine presence.
Looks and wealth will only get you so far while people skills and mental strength are what keep women around and keep them coming back. Game&frame they call it. Personality is what caffeinates the hamster, and drives her into coming back for more. Attraction by looks will get a conversation started but think to the Grown Ups 2 movie with that Canadian bodybuilder with the child voice 🤣🤣 and if wealth is what gets their attention, you drew in the wrooooooong kind of woman.
Level up, refine your style and keep clean, man up and get comfortable talking to anyone and everyone. Women like civil men capable of lethality, as well as they love to laugh. It's all about the experience, mixed with the eye appeal
@@LatimusChadimus very well said, brother
You are correct. This video was created simply for content. She keeps repeating the same themes over and over again. I rarely watch any of them now.
Finally someone with common sense.
1). A Suit 1:01
2). Button Downs & Linen Shirts 1:39
3). White T-Shirt 2:26
4). Fragrance 3:19
5). A Good Watch 4:17
6). A Chain 4:58
7). Strong Shoe Game 5:41
8). Layers 7:20
9). Your Underwear 8:14
1) Nope.
2) Nope.
Thanks!
Thx mate..🤘⚡
It’s all Chad wear. Let’s all look the same 🙄No room for personality. Never wearing a chain, or a watch.
@@lockyp204 "Chad" doesn't wear a suit, they wear a blazer and slacks.
1) Bank Account.
2) Investments.
3) Expensive Car
4) Expensive Watch.
5) Suitable Hairstyle.
6) Fitted Clothes.
1-4 are for the "How to style a Douchebag" video.
I got none of those accept fitted clothes and I get plenty of 😺.
Right without your not getting laid
Now you can be confident she loves you for you 😄😆🤣
Is this video for gold digger women's expectations? The only person like this is 007 James Bond, a fictional character.
I'm going to wear all of these simultaneously for the ultimate look.
A white crew neck T-shirt layered under an unbuttoned linen shirt layered under a suit with a chain, a watch, white sneakers, and boxer briefs layered over the suit so the ladies know I'm rocking it.
😂🙌
Ultimate Pimp! 😂
then a guy wearing a hoodie with basketball shorts walks in and steals all the thunder lmao.
White sneaker and brown shoe 🤦🏻♂️👍
boxer briefs? yeah maybe if you are 12 - grow up mate.
Ah yes, boxer briefs, sometimes I go on a walk with nothing but boxer briefs and I definitely get a lot of looks. Definitely would recommend!
O ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS TAKE A MAN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY WALK AROUND IN BOXER SHORTS.LOTS OF LUCK DUDE YOU'LL NEED IT WITH THE MODERN WOMEN OF TODAY!!!!!LOL
Here in Hermosa Beach a Japanese guy would walk the Strand in nothing but their style of "diapers", like a Sumo wrestler or something. Myself, flipflops, shorts and a T-shirt. Girls seem to like me.
@@Nana-tj2mm too funny!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
Many years ago I was always well dressed. I was never schooled to understand women so had no idea if I was attracting anyone unless they made obvious by almost jumping on me which happened. On night leaving work, hotel in NYC, I made my way that night to a local subway I never go into. Well I had a nice watch on, gold chain, nice white lightweight designer hooded jacket. I obviously looked really good cause I attracted four guys who mugged me. I stopped wearing chains watches and took up carrying a knife.
hahahahaha.
well said, thanks
You have to wear when going on the subway a nice 9 mm Glock pistol.
what color was their skin?
😂😂😂
Dress well guys, show up for yourself, look good, smell good, feel good and be yourself. Be genuine
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Honestly, this is the truth. I always scoffed at this advice, but it really is such a tangible difference. You carry yourself and show up differently.
I'm not out here trying to impress ladies anymore, I'm stunting on myself
Do it for you basically, as my mother said to me before and take it from her, she gets men hitting on her from time to time and it was the weirdest thing aha like “who tf is this” I’m protective of my family but yeah she would say “be selfish with yourself”.
Super right.
This is great advice as it becomes routine for me whenever I go out. I will feel even better when I shed some weight.
You and your blue pilled $hit
1: Purple hat with a feather
2: Purple shirt
3: Purple pants
4: Purple fur-coat
5: Dark leather boots
6: wooden oak cane with gold handle
7: swaging walk
Monacole
that would make you a pimp in 1970s San Francisco
@@charlesturcotte4448 Yeah, that get up sounds like how the character Huggy Bear from the "Starsky and Hutch" TV show used to dress!
women repeller spotted xd
You described Kramer on a Seinfeld episode! Sweeeeeeeettt😂
1. Pyjamas
2. Cravat
3. Top hat
4. Cardigan
5. Bow tie
6. Wife's underwear
7. Waistcoat
8. Silk shirt
9. Pink dress
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Are you a Conservative MP?
Just laughed out loud there . Nutter !
@@lervish1966 ... 😂
So in the last six months my wardrobe has been over hauled. Better fitting t's/ polos, some linen shirts, two watches, a couple pairs of boots, a pair of white leather low tops and I went over the top and bought both a seude and a leather jacket. I also started getting in better shape. I was never chubby but I also never had any real muscle. In total I might have blown about $2,500. (Mostly the jackets/boots/watches)
I've quite literally received more compliments in the last six months than I had in the rest of my life. The difference in dating is night and day. When I meet new people I'm treated with far more respect and the energy is very different. Even the way family and friends treat me has totally changed. It's honestly wild. My only regret is not putting that effort into my appearance sooner. I never had low confidence or anything but these changes certainly have boosted it further.
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Respect. Got any specific item that you favor or got compliments the most?
Nice! But you didn’t “blow” money bro. You just invested in yourself!
Although I'm glad you have a new look and attitude, I cannot agree with that type of thinking. I am the same as you but have not gone down that path yet. I own multiple expensive watches some that cost as much as a car. I have owned every type of clothes, rare pieces. I drive all types of cars. I'm 6'2. I've been with over a hundred women by the age of 40. What I can tell you unfortunately is that the world has changed in a worse way. We as men no longer get the respect and treatment we deserve. You are seeing more attention and looks become we are literally living in a superficial narcissistic world now. A Instagram world where everyone wants to live their best life for the gram. And women want their cuties men to match their outfits. They no longer care about your true identity or character. They are picky and angry at men. It's their time to flip the tables on us, and men have allowed them to take the power. Look what has happened? Low birth rates and loneliness epidemic. Thanks women. I can't agree, I'm proud of you for stepping it up and I will have to do the same. But I can tell you first hand something is wrong out there in society. I cannot tell you the horror stories ive seen in the last 5 years. It's disturbing. Keep your identity men, don't let society or the world change you into what they think you should be!
That's because you're feeling beyyer thus you have a positive aura about you. Don't be fooled lad
When I was chasing the woman who is now my wife, and who is very stylish and attractive, she gave me a lot of good advice. Most of her suggestions agree with yours, but I would add that the proper use of colors in casual wear is important. In my case my skin and hair color works best with warm, earth tones such as tans. I always take her along when buying clothes and I let her pick things out, which invariably are very attractive things that I would never think of buying myself. So that's another piece of advice I would give to men - ask your lady's opinion!
God bless you bith. True love is a beautiful thing.
@iamme25yago Take your time, follow your path. The universe will guide you. I have found ny love, we just need to tell each other. We communicate with body language since she is super shy. I just turned 30, so would live for something to happen. Other women have been after me, but they are only attracted to my land property and money😥 I wad smart and avoided them. This girl, she is different, the most unique specimen I have ever met. Patience and time will tell what happens.
Step 1. Find a woman.
As a single guy, I like to find a young female sales clerk to help me chose something. Try it, they love to help you look good!
Knowledgeable sales clerks in the better department stores can help too if you don't have a lady at the moment.
Picky point here: "Button down" refers to the type of collar on a dress shirt. The collars with small buttons holding down the tips are button-down. Other dress shirts might have spread collars, band collars, wing collars, etc.
I'm 56, married, and have moved way past trying to impress women, so I usually wear the standard "old man" uniform: khaki cargo shorts, t-shirt, white ankle socks, New Balance 608s. 🙂
how is life at 56? do you suggest marriage?
As you should. All the stuff the lady mentioned is sorta expensive so it's sorta a "spend alot of money or bust" kind of deal.
Good deal man, save your money for vacation with the wife- and you hobbies...
@@EternalFlameProductions If you can find the right woman, yes. That is tougher today than ever, from what I understand. Life at 56 is great! We are dual income, no kids, so plenty of disposable income. Just don't let yourself go as you get older. Eat healthy, hit the gym and do cardio. One of my aunts turned 100 yesterday. 🙂
Stop it.... you're turning me on.
Fragrance tip, go to the store and try it on, leave it for an hour without smelling it if you can. The smell can change drastically person to person. I love green Irish tweed by creed but when its on me I lose a lot of what I love about it. So for me it doesnt work. Love the channel, I learn a lot :)
After almost 3 years with a horrifically abusive narcissist and being used for a green card a lot of your videos have helped me avoid falling for the same things I did before and helped me walk away from what I know isnt good for me... somewhat, its progress.
Thanks for sharing these insights and your experience!
I hear ya - UK Steve! And speaking of “Fragrances…”
I love the Dolce & Gabbana The One EDP… and the smell you get from the new EDP are of amber, tobacco and spicy sweetness.
And the smell appears to last which is good, because I don’t want to have to worry about reapplying it.
You could probably wear it at anytime of the day, or any occasion, but for me, I usually wear it when I go out at night - and women seem to really love it, which is definitely a plus!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thank you for sharing this, I’m glad you’re here! Wishing you the best 🥰
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I think her comment was for "UK Steve", not you. 😅
true . using body spray is bad .Women can smell a man and tell if he is healthy or not.true odor body odour will attract a proper mate,yes,women are that sensitive . so Body spray is actually a negative thing .just eat healthy and take bath properly and keep yourself clean so you'll have good smell.
Sounds very American to me to be honest. I always get the feeling American women are mostly interested in money and their first question always is about what job you have. I dated French girls and I think only after months the topic of a job came up. With American girls it always feels like they have a checklist: is he rich enough? does he have good job? what are his career opportunities? etc. So it makes a lot of sense that for example, a suit would be at the top of their list as a criteria.
All women seek security which comes from money , job , status. Women don't want to date or marry a broke dude who can't support them or their children if they decide to have kids. Seems pretty reasonable to me ...
My last girlfriend is American and you are right. Also, they like any a man who looks after himself and doesn't spend too much money on hobbies, or maybe that's just her.
You're not wrong.
@@Houseoforangecarrots
Once you've found a partner/wife, you'll put this notice up soon:
Lost wife and dog.
Reward for dog if found .
I've been following your dress tips for a year or two and the response I'm getting is incredible. Two weeks ago I had a couple of girls basically cat call me as I walked past them wearing a black tucked button-down shirt, with rolled up sleeves and beige chinos, and black dress shoes. I used to wear sneakers jeans, and t shirts and never even turned an eye. Thanks Courtney your tips are life changing. You rock!
Bruv fuck clothes you should be stocking up on food and preparing spiritually.
@@Pragnantweggyboard If you're good with money, then you can do all of those things? Overall, this is a pretty bad comment lmao
😭❤️ this made my day! Thanks for being here, I’m glad it helps!!
@@FabzP96 'lmao' when your ass is starving in a few months because you focused on the superficial.
I said preparing spiritually, how does that pertain to money? Nice sidestep though.
Then later on they will see a better guy around the corner and dump ya.
Number 10. If you have money and are physically attractive you can wear a garbage bag and you'll be good.
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Wtf😂😂
True that
Wahahahahaha you speak of TRUTH men, I agree with you 100 percent lol
😂😂😂
women love it when I wear nothing
I doubt it
Gives them a good laugh?
Props for the brave comment😂
@@EricBishardstop being a hater
😂😂
A few years back I decided I didn't want to dress like a young person anymore, but rather adopt a more mature style. On my own I started to pick things that I saw successful people wear, or things that I liked that looked more mature. Apparently I picked the correct stuff as I got every single thing you listed except for the chain. I get a ton of compliments on a regular basis and feel a lot more confident. Even young women who I thought liked the young style, have given me more attention in my more mature clothes.
It is a matter of consistency not a clothes only. If you look like 35 years old guy, put some wearing suitable for it. Bill Gates would looks crazy in a heavy metal singer suit. Hope You catch it.
Attractive people rarely get compliments. If you get many compliments it means people are trying to give you encouragement for a reason. They probably think u need it
@@hyemuhyemu8221 Its not that deep if a girls says you look good it means you look good
You my friend are right. I just turned 30, I found my cologne that matches me, and I wear a watch now, plus I am more confident. This woman, whom I really love, she has made me appreciate life more, and she gave me the confidence. It is funny how I never wore cologne, wore white, wore watches, and didn't have enough confidence. Her perfume is literally the best scent I have ever smelt, and she has a really nice watch. She has influenced me, and true love does that. One problem, we have feelings for each other, but she is extremely shy, but we communicate through body language, and we feel safe around each other.
This is true too. I did the same thing.
A strongly masculine look, that looks like you intentionally coordinated - goes miles.
I have full sleeves of tattoos, etc - so the contrast is striking.
Thanks Courtney.
Re suits: a fitted suit is important, a badly fitted suit looks awful. Similarly, understanding whether your body type is suitable for an American cut-, a British cut-, or an Italian cut-suit is important (as is drop lengths, etc.). You don't have to go bespoke but getting your suit tailored is handy if needed. Fitted clothes apply to most any clothing piece to be fair.
Re colours: generally neutral colours work well as the girl will be thinking about how you'd look together. If you're outfit is colour neutral and uncomplicated it'll complement pretty much anything she might wear. Furthermore, you won't be distracting when paired up. A gentleman tends to have an understated power and strength.
Fragrance: pick something that complements your natural frame and persona. If you're not a big muscly extraverted guy you probably shouldn't make a heavy musky fragrance your day-to-day option.
Re shoes: if you have the option or occasion, remember to wear appropriate shoes. E.g., Oxfords are generally very formal (wedding, interview, etc.), Derby's less so but smart.
Your thoughts Courtney? Thanks again.
Appreciated hearing your insights!
How do you know whether your body is suited for an American cut, British cut, or Italian cut suit? :)
@@zombieslayer7759 An American cut is a more relaxed British cut. It rarely looks as good as a British cut. An Italian cut is sharper and more flamboyant than a British cut. It's also meant for a warmer climate, meaning it can also pivot to being more casual if you're wearing something single breasted.
@@zombieslayer7759 There are some written guides on the different styles but general rule is Italian works best on slim (where it works really well) to average builds, American on larger people, and British works on everyone. Italian is also able to look more casual and relaxed due to less padding while British will look the most. American really saw its use in work suits that were designed to make people blend in instead of stand out but you tend to see it mixed with British cues these days so it's quite different than even a few decades ago.
@@zombieslayer7759 looks like Keith and Simon have already answered (thanks).
Hope that helps, its something that is understood better visually so if you do a web or YT search you should find what you need.
Thanks!
I have spent my entire life (I'm 58) avoiding making any fashion statement. I've worn a suit once in the past five years. For the most part I have only ever worn what's comfortable and these days mostly wear Indian or Thai pants and t-shirts of loose sleeveless shirts. Never had a problem finding great women and am married to a gorgeous woman 24 years younger than I am. What this lady is saying may actually reflect what a lot of women think, but frankly I would forget all about it, wear what you like and spend your time pursuing your deepest passions and hit the gym every single day of your life. I've never deliberately tried to attract women but from my life experience this is a formula that does. You can practically be wearing a clown outfit and women will still come to you if you're 100% on purpose and in great physical and emotional shape. The more important issue is, do you want them?
Great advise, thank you!
Wait American women like Indian and Thai pants??
you were doing sooooooo well till you mentioned the M word. Legal marriage is a scam .Men are always on the losing end on this one.
@@altheboss5722 Well my wife is Romanian and traditional in the deepest sense of the word. I hardly feel scammed.
@@alexa.9446 As a Romanian myself i think you should reconsider your life choices.
I'm joking, obviously 😄
I'm standing up for the V-neck: It's more interesting when worn alone or with an open overshirt/jacket, it's less visible when layering under a button-down or sweater, and the larger opening makes it easier to squeeze my big head through them! Which is less likely to mess up my hair and avoid stretching the collar as quickly over time.
Agreed. I've been switching over to V-necks recently and I think they look better. Shows more skin too.
V necks are it, let the fools wear crew neck
It also creates visual illusion to make your shoulders appear broader 😁
@@svetlio37 Lengthens my stubby neck and round face so my short ass looks taller, heh.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
I agree about a well fitting suit. A pink shirt, preferably by Thomas Pink on Jermyn Street, shows confidence and power. I get lots of positive comments.
In a more relaxed setting, crisp jeans, western boots, a crisp, white oxford cloth button down shirt, a barn coat and a Stetson. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.
However, my number one is to wear a tartan kilt (best if you have a connection to the tartan - can be regional), with an argyle jacket and matching vest, ghillie brogues, kilt hose, sporran and sgian dubh. Many men are jealous because this takes a lot of confidence. Some women are shy but far more are intrigued and want to have a conversation that can lead on from there.
#1 - I have a few suits which I only wear on formal occasions.
#2 - You cannot go wrong with a good button-down shirt. Even better is a linen button-down one.
#3 - Basics never out of style.
#4 - As far as fragrances go, subtle works for both genders.
#5 - A good watch is always welcome. It does not have to be a $40 000 Rolex. For a few hundred you can buy a really smart watch.
#6 - I like to wear a chain. Also a wrist band on my right wrist. On my left one I of course wear a cool watch ;-)
#7- Loafers are OK, but I need these ankle socks with them, lest they chafe me.
#8 - Layering is good in cooler weather.
#9 - I only wear boxer-briefs. They are the best of both worlds.
June is Wedding Season! Are you going to any? No doubt you are! 😘
thank the Lord I live in Africa , you people live such dull and uninteresting lives
Boxers over time in your mid to senior years makes your scrotum sag due to lack of support. Younger boys and men in their growing years should wear Boxers to have room to grow. If you restrict a plant in a jar it gets stunted.
For me the word “basic” comes along with the wrong connotation nowadays, it doesn’t mean you look average or basic; it means that these are absolute staples, you basically should have them!
Great video Courtney 👏🏼👏🏼
@@basilmagnanimous7011 I agree with the majority of what you’ve said but I haven’t a clue what it has to do with my comment…
Hi Courtney, love your videos, to me, as a man, when it comes to wearing a chain, it should NEVER be worn outside, I also believe the Cuban link is the sexiest design out there, the Fígaro I think it’s too loud and less formal and more of a screaming for attention of a design regardless of ocasión, season or time of day, and if worn outside, I get the sense it makes me look like a mess or de organized person, but then again, that’s just me. I also advise to avoid those outrageously thick chains. Wouldn’t go thicker than a 1cm or 3/8 of an inch wide Cuban link.
What’s your opinion Courtney?
Be yourself. Be your best. Be dignified. Never be something someone else expects.
Best advice here.
As someone that only use a chain and nothing else mentioned in this list, i can confirm that its not as important as you might think. For example usually people tell me that I have a pretty unique style(girls and friends), so if you dont fell sure about what you wear, just remember that sometimes being off the standarts is also good. Ofc you need to know how to dress yourself and how to combine colors, etc but just be yourself and wear what you think represents you :).
What about men who love to wear 2 1/2" stacked or platform high heels & nylons?
I have everything on the list aside from a chain. Under 40s I think it fits, but now entering 40s doesn’t quite feel right. Maybe it depends on the vibe I want to give off, but I prefer put together and established over trying to look young again.
Great video as always!
The chain I've got is a family heirloom and just the right weight, length, and thickness to be timelessly classy. It's always tucked under my shirt anyway but it's incredibly comfortable all the same.
They really knew how to make jewellery back in the 50s.
Now admittedly I'm 24 but I can see this necklace still being on my neck when I'm 40, just as how my grandfather did.
As long as you don't dress from the young men's catalogue and wear Skechers.
Yeah I think a chain is for guys under the age of 30. Only rappers can get away with jewelry outside of a watch or wedding band past that age.
I've been wearing Kouros by Yves Saint Laurent for over 35 years. Still love it! Thank God they still make it! It's the GenX version of Old Spice. LOL!
The time & place dictate what to wear…Past this the cut & quality have a big influence…Past this the blend of colors & fit…Have at least a couple bespoke blazers & suits…I do not wear a watch these days but when it works I wear very nice cufflinks…Past this I view quality shoes along with serious belt-buckle as way to accessorize …And a great hat (NEVER BASEBALL CAP) is often a cherry on top…In the summer a quality straw hat is great…Key point is dress for the occasion …
Hey courtney, why do you say not to go for a v neck? As a bigger guy, Ive been told vnecks are better because crews exaggerate how round the face is. Thanks for the vid!
You are correct… I have a thicker neck and my wife hates crew necks on me. A good option is a Henley… best of both worlds. You do get the stretched v-neck that goes too low… those suck.
You are correct! I should have specified and went into detail here!
@@CourtneyRyan Honestly Ive heard both perspectives with some on youtube saying the v points to your belly while others say it structures the face better. Its confusing lol but I like vnecks personally. Maybe you can make a style video for larger men? Love your channel 🙏
I didn't wear v necks until I got a beautiful full throat tattoo. The combination really does something for my slightly weaker chin and I get compliments nonstop since
If you take reasonably good care of yourself and groom fairly well, you can wear just about anything.
Here is an interesting experiment. Ask your women followers to name the things that men wear that are a turn off or not sexy. Take the top 9, put them on a male fashion model, photograph them with a professional fashion photographer, then post the photos, asking women to rate the outfits on a scale of 0 to 10. If the outfits are really a turn off for women, the photos will all get a low rating. If they don't, then it proves that it doesn't matter what you wear if you're already good looking. BTW, I've been told by a number of women that wearing cologne is a turn off because either they, or someone they know, is/are allergic to cologne. It happened so often that I just stopped wearing any scent. Full disclosure, I don't look like a male fashion model.
This would be a great idea for a video
Well, I had no idea that your "Teddy" was Teddy Baldassarre who's got me addicted to his TH-cam Channel on watches. You two have added so much enjoyment and value to my life. Keep your objective, straight talk approach. It's refreshing. You have a lot of competition in your space. He has none! Keep it up and best wishes!
I think the key is to really know how to dress for your body type, which is something I find men struggle a bit more with.
Also dress for your skin tone and eye color etc. Knowing what colors fit u well.
What are the rules for wearing shirts and t-shirts tucked in or worn outside the trousers?
I'm a 70 year old man who wears old joggers, a frayed T Shirt, and old trainers, and the ladies still look at me. 💘
Well since men die sooner, the pickings are getting slim by 70. Could also be you are just above the average looks wise.
10. If you have lots of money, 1 thru 9 don't matter.
A 70 year-old man is a broke ATM spitting out hundreds to these ladies! 😂 ... old joggers and stains be damned.
Keep crushin' it, my man. You are on the right track. Vintage ALWAYS gets ALL the 🐱.
At 70 years old, you should be guarding your money. The ladies arent looking at you for your mesmerising beauty, but are encircling you like vultures on a dying animal.
The thing about fragrances getting a guy laid reminds me of a guy who sued the company that makes Axe shampoo and deodorant because he wasn't getting laid when using those products.
HAHAHAHA
I mean, they DID advertise that on TV 😂
You are my favorite boss on the Mega Man X series
Sueing is such an American thing to do, LOL! xD
His smelling good certainly helps, but there is more to getting laid than just that.
@@jaysibiri If it is on TV, then it must be true 😂.
Most important rule: Be attractive!
If you don't have the looks then expensive fragrances, jewelry or fancy outfits won't make you look better. It'll actually seem a little bit weird on you.
She is absolutely right. I own a dealership and I walk around wearing flip flops and torn shirt and I wonder why I can’t get a date. You want to change your life? Change your wardrobe!!!
Thank you Courtney 🌹
I'd never buy a car from a guy in flip flops. Yuk.
Turtleneck….it’s always been an eye catcher for me….(winter of course). I’m 6’3 and 200, so I can pull it off. Maybe not for everyone
She forget to say thick walled :)
Confidence and being in the moment is probably the best expression. Wearing the right clothing puts me in that mode.
My only issue is white T-shirts. I love the look and feel but at least for me I can not keep them looking new. I may not be the neatest person but even the slightest discoloration shows on white shirts. To really look good I find I only get three wears/washes before white t shirts don’t look clean. Bleach helps. I buy white T shirts in bulk and generally don’t pay big bucks for them for this reason.
When in doubt go with classics and dress up 1/2 notch for the occasion. Overdressing is a thing and looking out of place is not a good look.
Getting hair cuts on a regular basis and keeping facial hair clean should also be on the list.
I think the most important thing is just to approach as many women as possible because a lot of women aren't gonna like you because you're just not their type, so you kind of have to get past all the women that aren't your type so you can find a women quickly that is attractive to and you are her type as well. It's a numbers game.
you're statistically correct!
The last one is very important; it took me years to realize I was wearing the wrong underwear on my head.
I’ve found women seem to really love guys in blazers and sports jackets as I get way more compliments from women about what I am wearing when I wear a blazer/sports jacket. The 2nd most complimented thing would be my dark brown leather dress shoes or boots.
The right guy could wear a paper bag just as long as his HYGIENE IS ON POINT!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Apparently there's a study about guys armpit hair is what woman look for a male. Idk it was awhile back but exercises seem to give off the smell more.
One of the few times I was ever cat called was when I wore a V neck. This wasn’t mentioned either but for some strange reason my baseball shirt made my ex crazy. I will say I could bench more in those days and body fat % was 7-8% as opposed to like 11-13% now.
I’m taking so many notes from this video, can’t wait to try these out!
i dont care what u say i wear what i want
I think it really depends on the region your in too. The suit and loafers and button down linen shirt works in big cities. I do like a chain to go along with my gold nugget wedding ring but since I’m always working (welder and mechanic) and I feel a man should always be ready to work, I pretty much wear the same thing a 100% of the time, even when I go out. Dark blue dickies work pants (not the cargo pocket ones) leather work boots and a tank wife beater tank top (I hate collars around my neck) I don’t wear a fragrance but I do use deodorant so I guess I have a fragrance. I think no matter what, if your clean and confident, you’ll be set. One time me and my wife were invited to a dinner right after I got off work so I had to go straight there. My wife thought it was so funny that I was a little late but my main concern was to clean my nails with my knife before I went in.
I never leave home without my belt knife
1. Be attractive
2. Be fit
3. Be clean
4. Smile
Totally surprised that suspenders didn't show up. I think your list is a list that says safe more than standing out and it seems that's what you are going for. I started wearing suspenders occasionally for comfort, they are infinitely more comfortable than belts. After a medical incident that a belt exacerbated I'm now wearing suspenders almost exclusively. Since, I get many compliments from women on them, some say they keep trying to get their boyfriend/husband to wear them.
Yeah, I've been wearing suspenders religiously since I was a teen, all my trousers are high waisted and cut tapered, my suit trousers, casual trousers, hell I've been complimented wearing the corduroy trousers with canvas patches over the knees, the older 20th century style does draw attention.
Don`t tell English girls you`re wearing Suspenders unless you want her to think you`re a secret transvestite 😄😁😆 We call them Braces.
I noticed my OD green/black Altama ripple sole jungle boots didn't make the list...... that's unfortunate.
Brutha there ain't nothing wrong with the jungle boots 😂. I wear bellvilles and wellcos and I still get plenty of compliments. It's a good idea to keep 1 really clean pair though and I find women like the clean desert tan more lol
@@1badombre82 Hell yea man, I still wear my jump boots with my suits in the winter. And IDK if people are F'ing with me or not but I get lots of compliments.
@@darkgardener9577 honestly by far I get the most compliments on my marines RAT boots. The brown and tan ones that have shark skin toe and heel. And when I dress in a suit I just wear my black square toe biker boots. They just look like slightly aggressive dress boots
great content but on boxers, what type, funny, black, grey does it matter. Needless to say most people wear pants (for the US crowd - boxer briefs) but what type is my question. Thanks
A suit that fits PROPERLY. If it's cardboard padded and the collar moves when your arms do, it doesn't fit
Absolutely! Fit is everything 😂
Hmmm, thanks for the tip about the collar. Never heard about that!
@@thedoneeye I learned it on the Gentleman's Gazette channel lol
Wait. They lied to me?!? This cologne won’t get me a paternity suit?!?
This was a better video than what I expected. Thanks.
Did you ever see the Big Bang episode were Howard says, "And don't spritz em with that spray that's supposed to make women crazy. It doesn't work, no matter how much you put on."
This is pretty accurate and makes sense and part of ny wardrobe as Im a fashion lover. BUT ULTIMATELY, if a woman finds you attractive it literally dont matter what you wear taha
Thanks Courtney for creating this video and keeping wardrobe tips easy and affordable. What are your thoughts on 'smart watches' as an accessory? - Ron
The only thing you are going to get with this advice if you are already good looking is superficial women. They look at your face, wallet and car nothing else matters to them.
A smart watch is functional, but there are absolutely no formal occasions where a smart watch is appropriate.
Haven’t watched the video yet but I already know it’s a banger because it’s Courtney! You never miss🔥😂
You rock! Thanks for being here 🤍
Simp! Simp! Simp!
Suit = most expensive mens wear
Thats one of the reasons women like them. It shows you have money and/or a job that requires you to dress well.
I feel lost without wearing a watch time is just precious to me even if i have nothing planned !⌚️
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
Add a Number 10 to the list: A well-fitting waistcoat(best combined with a dress shirt & tie, suit optional). I wear them occasionally when I want to dress up a notch or two(I wear button up shirts a lot as part of my semi-preppy style) but things to be less bulky, I'd change a suit blazer to a waistcoat, and almost always wear a tie to complement it, then match it with jeans/chinos/dress pants and dress shoes. I just feel amazing in this combo, plus lots of women love it when I wear this combo(see my avatar on the left)!
I had to look up what a waistcoat is 😅My girl looooves when I wear one. I call it a vest
nah, keep it to 9 specially if this would be your suggestion 😂
Waistcoat meaning a vest?
(That's what we Yanks call what people in the UK would call a waistcoat, as you may know)
When it comes to shoes, what is the stance on wing tips? (Whether as a shoe or a boot)?
Hey Courtney, love your videos! Your videos/tips help me out a lot, so keep up the good work ❤️
Happy to hear it! Thanks for being here 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan: Remember the Jay-Z lyric, saying: "I dipped in my stash and splurged on a chain"? Best way to describe me in a word "insane."
She only wants to make money off your views.
@@Zachw2007 who
Good point at the beginning about being yourself and having your own style.
Strange advice coming from insta lady who looks like everyone quotas on insta.
@@Rokosbasil I don’t have Instagram so I wouldn’t know
00:05🤵 A suit is a must-have for men, often equated to a woman's little black dress, exuding success and sophistication.
01:43👔 Button-downs and linen shirts are highly favored, especially with rolled-up sleeves, for a relaxed yet stylish look.
02:30👕 A simple white t-shirt is a versatile and universally attractive choice for men, both in white and black.
03:22🍃 Fragrance adds a final touch to a well-groomed appearance, enhancing overall appeal subtly.
04:21⌚ A good watch is a timeless accessory that adds maturity and elegance without being overly flashy.
05:01📿 Chains are a simple yet impactful accessory that can complement a laid-back, stylish look.
05:42👟 White sneakers, loafers, and boots are favored for their versatility and ability to elevate casual outfits.
07:21🧥 Layers such as jackets or coats showcase good taste and can transform an outfit for different seasons.
08:15🩲 Boxer briefs are highlighted as the preferred underwear choice among women for both comfort and aesthetic appeal.
Fascinating that women notice the little details in accessories. Nice insight Courtney. Will take some of these on board.
your accessory is a chain, mine is a lamborghini. Who wins? ME, 100%
@@cienciasatuariais4954 I drive budget built v8 mini truck and I feel it tells everyone all they need to know about me because it shows that I actually know how to turn a wrench and create something beautiful and powerful. Yeah what we drive says something about us. Yours says you can buy something pretty and powerful that somone else designed. Mine says I can design and build something pretty and powerful
I discovered Joop after going through a dozen colognes. I've never looked back. I wear it sparingly, only on date night or if I'm in a suit, but the compliments over the years have made me realize it is a favorite. Whatever my body chemistry, it is enhanced by that particular fragrance.
I wore Joop when I was a young buck definitely was a winner!
Not Guna lie. The top three I have always naturally worn because I was asked to; and because I felt out of the normal did so to feel at ease. One example was crisp clean blue dress shirt with sleeves rolled up bc I'm not a dressy guy. I was told many times that blue eyes paired well, and women had a hard time taking their eye off. (especially ones I thought were out of my league lol) Im in my mid-thirties now with dark hair and it still works for me as slight salt and pepper. Thats my two cents.
Finally someone mentions the idea of finding your fragrance and scent based on the person. The watch is also key, as I am biased as well. Super good!
True. I wear deisel cologne, military boots and a page pageboy cap. We gotta do what suits us
I'm thinking of wearing a shirt "I don't have the tik tok".. wish me luck lol
where to order?
@@GeoffryGifari customize locally brother
This girl is right. And I will add that if you don't wear cologne, a blazer and a watch, you are nobody.
Having a girl friend with good taste help with clothing and accessories goes a long way. I did this 35 years ago and was well dressed the night I met my wife.
I too find that having a girlfriend with good taste goes a long way lol. When I'm dating a pretty girl I always get way more girls coming up to me trying to steal me from her ahahaha
A Big smile says everything one Needs to know I feel That!
I can confirm the layers and the necklace does get alot of attention. I am always getting compliments about my beads on my neck. Also, the layering give a sort of confidence.
Absolutely loving the video, keep up the good work.
So glad to hear it. Thank you! 🤍
@@CourtneyRyan your welcome and question, what about fedoras?
"Fboy I will ruin your life" lol lots of success with that mode for me. Just being honest.
Thanks for the coaching and content! Improving as always.
Yeah I've been accused of being a Fboy and for me I take that as a great compliment since my bodycount is only 6 😂.
Where would you place a neatly pressed white handkerchief with a dab of my perfume or Ittar?
Great tips! And speaking of Fragrances…
I love Fragrances - and there are actually some great “Benefits” for wearing them…
-it makes your dating life more exciting, and more fun when you smell great!
-it actually makes you feel more confident - and you should know how women feel about confident men!
-it separates you from other guys - and makes you stand out, trust me! Women do notice!
-And finally, it just makes you more attractive - and who doesn’t want to feel, and look more attractive!?
So now that you know some of the benefits of wearing fragrances, here are some you could try…
Tom Ford Noir, Penhaligon's Juniper Sling, Jo Malone London, Dior Sauvage, and Paco Rabanne 1 Million! Cheers!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Woman & expensive purfume like a rodent trap with peanut butter& rat trap
Wearing a suit indicates you have money. This will attract a certain type of woman who is after a luxurious lifestyle, diamonds, expensive vacations and other monetary BS. Men just wear what you love to wear and the right woman FOR YOU will find you and love you for it.
I dress like a punk or a biker 95 percent of the time but once in a while I will put on 1 hell of a suit and the women go bonkers for it. Generally the women who already know how I normally dress. Shows confidence, class and taste. It has to be an outfit that is super well fitted though.
My Royal Navy uniform was a real winner in the fifties and the sixties.especially the many,many times girls and ladies of all ages came up to me, and said "can I feel your collar for luck" Wonderful.❤
Can confirm: a watch on my wrist made me immediately look more mature... Didn't *make* me more mature, but hey, you get what you get.
Don't you have a cellphone ?
Why would you wear a watch then ?
@@vonarg 1) It's a split second vs a good 2 seconds to know what time it is (jeans ain't tight, but pockets sure are), and 2) It's a little thing that adds alot
i wonder if it is a bot or actually Courtney who replies back
A live stream soon next month and a ten minute video from Courtney about the USA abortion ruling would be interesting as a women
I know this is a Fashion and dating channel more, it would be a good video topic.
Happy Friday too!
It’s really me! 😂🤍
@@CourtneyRyan Courtney is a bot.
@@noobbotgaming2173 haha
@@CourtneyRyan you do try to read and reply to every comment so that is good 💜
@@BALHAM69 She has automated responses that she manually copies and pastes so she can technically say she isn't a bot. :)
Jk.
All of these are pretty surface level fits to have and I love that! Doesn’t have to be super expensive or crazy but just the basics are usually pretty effective!
Great vid with a good perspective. Appreciate your videos!
Confidence is key!
nah
Courtney Ryan a great video, but I have to ask what is an F-Boy? I heard you mention this term when you were talking about chains. Several things came to mind but I'd like confirmation I completely got your drift. Thank you, much appreciated if you reply.
No joke, i took courtney’s advice on facial hair (ive never let it grow on my face). And i definitely notice a difference…. More like women are actually flirty now wtf
🔥🔥
So you have facial hair now?
If anyone else besides me has issues with polyester and you want no show socks, take a peek in the women's section. I've done it and I made it out just fine
Great tip! Hope I can find some with my big feet😅
@@Abel-1609 buy the largest pair then we will just call them "barely there"
I actually think rolled up sleeves look pretty inelegant and immature compared to being worn down with the cuffs around the wrists where they're designed to be at. Bundling it up not only looks messy, but it counterintuitively restricts air flow making you even warmer. When it's too hot for long sleeves, I'd recommend wearing short sleeve shirts.
#10. ….. a full wallet..
#11 Lamborghini
Nobody likes a gold digger
I can't even find a fragrance where do I find a fragrance like Macy's or something cuz I'm not ordering it offline
Nice to see Grandpa making a cameo putting on his jacket.
First of all, thank for your videos. About fragrances, I discern, I’m sorry, I love good parfumerie and I don’t use it thinking about I’ll get something in return for it, each parfum I own I’m just wear it because I love it and that is all. Happy Thanksgiving 😊
Courtney, Thanks for using the older gentleman putting on a sport coat, he is about my age. I know your main audience is younger men but nice to see you throw in some of us old guys. BTW I have 2 suits, 6 sport coats about 12 button-down oxfords that I wear with and without ties, and about 6 pairs of Allen Edmonds shoes not counting my western boots and chukkas.
I'm an older *woman* (53) who watches Courtney, and I agree (5 sons)! I was so impressed by that. I'd agree with everything but the chain. Lol. But perhaps that's a generational thing. I LOVE suits, sport coats, button down oxfords, white/black tees, layering jacket over tee, top-siders, and dress shoes. Fragrance is an absolute bonus. IF it's good. Oh, and boxers. ;) Great list.
@@murphymomof9 Honestly, we don't dress to impress y'all. If you don't like how we dress, get out of our lives.
Hello my name is Rose, and I must say, your content really caught my attention. There's something important I'd like to share with you. Can we have a chat? I'm looking forward to it! 😊
No. 1 tip to attract girls ; don't ignore them!
What women love men to wear: A very expensive suit, a very expensive watch, very expensive shades and very expensive shoes - plus a wedding ring.
I can't help but agree, the basic tee and jeans and trainers seem to attract women quite well and it a confidence booster! 🤓
i love casual wears, i love putting on a black light jacket,with white tee shirt, dark blue jean and white sneakers with stylish blue, i get thumbs up by ladies, especially with black hat on, i love it simple and stylish.
@@BenjaminEgwuasi-oq5qc Exactly!