Tinder Experiment Proves How Brutal it is For Average Guys

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  • @FelixEA
    @FelixEA ปีที่แล้ว +4190

    If that dude's a 6/10 I'm fucked lmfao

    • @lizzinessbibi7202
      @lizzinessbibi7202 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      What is so damn hard to understand? If you guys are average or below average, then date women in your league: average or below average. You're only going after photoshopped 18-year old Instagram models, regardless of if you're 40 and balding. What the hell do y'all expect?! Of course you're getting rejected

    • @FelixEA
      @FelixEA ปีที่แล้ว +644

      @@lizzinessbibi7202 wtf who hurt you

    • @william6587
      @william6587 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      We’re all fucked my guy 😅

    • @Blackout0O0
      @Blackout0O0 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@lizzinessbibi7202 lol. I wanted to write a longer comment but it's a waste of time! Good luck on life: your friends AND you who speaks on their behalf :)

    • @gcioo-4488
      @gcioo-4488 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @A P 7? hahahaha

  • @Silverhand_1999
    @Silverhand_1999 ปีที่แล้ว +12582

    I was at a restaurant with my family last year and I witnessed a tall Chad sit at a table next to us, all dressed up, obviously waiting for his date, he sat there for like 15mins before he walked out from being ghosted. It was jarring for me because I realized even Chad could be treated like that by a woman.

    • @thotslayer9922
      @thotslayer9922 ปีที่แล้ว +412

      @Tj that’s insane. I’m 15 and wouldn’t consider myself a Chad I’m working on it but My closest buddies are Chads and they never get treated like that, Ghosted or left on read like that

    • @Dev-qs2yb
      @Dev-qs2yb ปีที่แล้ว +712

      maybe she was a catfish and knew he's gonna ghost her after meeting her in person so decided to not show up and chickened out! When women are insecure ...

    • @thebxx724
      @thebxx724 ปีที่แล้ว +686

      I'd consider myself a chad and I've dealt with plenty of ghosting and flaking, everyone gets treated like garbage on the apps.

    • @thotslayer9922
      @thotslayer9922 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @BX no one takes u serious on the apps.

    • @thebxx724
      @thebxx724 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      @@thotslayer9922 I know that's why I stopped using them. Now that summer break is almost here Im gonna try to go out 2-3 times a week. I'm a good catch, odds are if I put myself out there, some women will appear that'll want to date me.

  • @lewdogzombies
    @lewdogzombies 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +133

    I feel like all men should boycott dating apps

    • @professionalcheekclapper7608
      @professionalcheekclapper7608 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Na you just need to adapt

    • @JackD0ff
      @JackD0ff 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Instead of getting better you feel like boycotting. You're doomed forever.

  • @hermitcraftvideos9772
    @hermitcraftvideos9772 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +407

    Sir if he is AVERAGE then I'm FUCKED. 💀

    • @TheRogerhill1234
      @TheRogerhill1234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am triple fucked, or worse

    • @OccidentalAryan
      @OccidentalAryan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      He's well below average actually. Learn the female gaze.

    • @craz4jaymz
      @craz4jaymz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He's not attractive to me. Just average.

    • @jasoar1563
      @jasoar1563 หลายเดือนก่อน

      im ripped and good looking still the same.. only i match with fatter or the hotties never write back.

    • @ThomasNoname
      @ThomasNoname หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@craz4jaymz What's attractive to you is irrelevant, he's objectively a good looking guy.

  • @JackoBanon1
    @JackoBanon1 ปีที่แล้ว +6003

    2.5 matches per day in average.
    Me as an ugly guy:
    That's so impressive!

    • @Ningishzidd4
      @Ningishzidd4 ปีที่แล้ว +603

      Yea, try 2.5 matches per month.. that's more realistic for an average guy.

    • @sandipbiswas766
      @sandipbiswas766 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      I got 2 matches in the past 2 years 😂
      But i didn't try too hard to be fair..

    • @richardv9648
      @richardv9648 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Mine was like 35 in the first 2 hours on bumble in NY. then it tapered down to 10 per hour. At the end of the week until I subscribed to it got like 2 per hour. But again i too stoped swping and focused on talking to women i matched. Definetly something is wrong with the algorithm. But I only dated 2., thats all i asked out. I dont feel right dating a woman who is swipping on countless men. Let alone make her my wife or gf.

    • @Seb2
      @Seb2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I‘ve got 1 Match after two months of intensive swiping. Thats so frustrating…

    • @notyetforkliftceritified373
      @notyetforkliftceritified373 ปีที่แล้ว

      they 0.1 per day club, ye baby. but fuck them hoes, we hit the gym

  • @robertfindley921
    @robertfindley921 ปีที่แล้ว +5288

    Only 3.7% matches for a 6'3" fairly handsome outgoing university guy? Only 3 dates? Yikes!!!!! What's this guy need, a face tattoo and a criminal record?

    • @amongallothers
      @amongallothers ปีที่แล้ว +615

      Yeah.... It's unreal.

    • @smithsmith1956
      @smithsmith1956 ปีที่แล้ว

      Add a few bodies to his basement and vvomen will be all over him. vvomen have a thing for murderers, apparently.

    • @sensoeirensen
      @sensoeirensen ปีที่แล้ว +245

      Tbh he‘s not a Chad at all. So he‘s competing against the best 5%. And against the he has no chance.

    • @oxymoron9821
      @oxymoron9821 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      @@sensoeirensen chadlite

    • @InimicusTuus
      @InimicusTuus ปีที่แล้ว +197

      @@oxymoron9821 guy is barely above the middle tier normie lookswise

  • @AlbionTVLondon
    @AlbionTVLondon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    Not just waste of time. Waste of money too. And waste of electricity.

  • @williamgrand9724
    @williamgrand9724 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

    Men are stranded in the desert, and women are stranded in the ocean.

    • @v-22
      @v-22 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Both are horrible, wrong analogy.

    • @sasquatch5577
      @sasquatch5577 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Women are fishing bait in the ocean, and all of the fish want a bite.

    • @williamgrand9724
      @williamgrand9724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @v-22 That's my point...

    • @georgebailey7256
      @georgebailey7256 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Fucking good analogy

    • @duckchen2676
      @duckchen2676 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@v-22 thats obviously the point though

  • @Watashi.Atashi
    @Watashi.Atashi ปีที่แล้ว +2707

    I made fake female profile with just picture of one flower. No bio ,no female pictures or anything and I got over 100 matches in less than 24hours. No wonder girls tend to overestimate their appearance so much.

    • @keybored67
      @keybored67 ปีที่แล้ว +621

      but the matches were all from lawn care companys

    • @brianpowers4998
      @brianpowers4998 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      Most men swipe without looking at the profiles. But women use it to boost their ego without thinking that we don't really take the time to look into their profiles. It's just surreal.

    • @DingoDman
      @DingoDman ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianpowers4998 exactly men swipe like a crack head dont take it personal girl’s you treat us like trash so you’re a piece of meat to us

    • @happygolucky9004
      @happygolucky9004 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      It shows that swiping is a broken system.

    • @calahad
      @calahad ปีที่แล้ว +72

      This was the case for one of my female friends. She used a fake name and just one picture with a glass of wine showing just a hand which wasn’t even hers and within an hour she was on 99+ likes. Within a week she was dating. I mean…. How?!

  • @mrdee2454
    @mrdee2454 ปีที่แล้ว +943

    I went through thousands of women on tinder years ago never got 1 date so I never went back. Waste of time and just kills self esteem

    • @gokublack9080
      @gokublack9080 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lol

    • @vileproductions8511
      @vileproductions8511 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      this !!! it’s so damaging man , i tell any guy i know to STAY OFF

    • @rodbelding9523
      @rodbelding9523 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I believe you man, I had basically the same experience. Wheat Waffles kept saying the subject of this video had bad results, but honestly the subject did very good compared to most men, and I 100% guarantee the only reason he had some results is because he's 6'3.

    • @rogerm3708
      @rogerm3708 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      This guy had 250 matches, which is huge but a success rate of less than 4% (she leads), which is abysmal

    • @HateDietPepsi
      @HateDietPepsi ปีที่แล้ว

      Feminism has done a great job of brainwashing women to deeming men as being oppressors.
      Men are oppressive means men hold women to morality standards best for family and society.
      Women have deteriorated fast. The amount of wife material has gone from 1 in 3 to 1 in 50 in just 20 years.

  • @pavementpounder7502
    @pavementpounder7502 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I'm Asian Australian from Melbourne. I had tinder for years and literally did not get a single date out of it, and maybe 20 matches. I didnt use it much, but enough to know it was pretty pointless. Then when I travelled to South America and tried it for fun I was getting quite a few matches (I'd say I'm average looking). So there's that too. I remember in the old days of okc I had a rough 'rule' that for every 100 likes I'd get 10 matches, and of those maybe 1 date. So 1 in 100. If this dude is getting 3 dates from 16k thats wild. If I was a woman he'd seem pretty attractive to me.

    • @bartoszbucholski8981
      @bartoszbucholski8981 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If u travel to Europe u will have tons of women. Especially from eastern Europe

    • @pavementpounder7502
      @pavementpounder7502 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bartoszbucholski8981 how many don't just want a ticket out of their country though?

    • @bartoszbucholski8981
      @bartoszbucholski8981 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@pavementpounder7502 of course this is the case.

  • @radumoraru02
    @radumoraru02 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    People don’t realize that putting yourself on tinder is actually objectifying yourself. And a 6/10 for this guy? I think he looks really good, especially in the dog photo. Stop looking for desperate people’s validation, cause that’s what this app is all about.

    • @hellothere9964
      @hellothere9964 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Realest comment

    • @WorstYTChannel
      @WorstYTChannel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah this dude is at least an 8+, when he said 6/10 i nearly lost my shit. And my self confidence lol😂

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah 6/10 was just cruel and wrong.

    • @mickethegoblin7167
      @mickethegoblin7167 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wtf?
      He IS 6/10, that is a very accurate and honest appraisal.

  • @orenmontgomery8250
    @orenmontgomery8250 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    If he weren't 6'3" he would've gotten 250 less matches.

    • @rodbelding9523
      @rodbelding9523 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      This, 100%. The sad fact of the matter is the only reason he got as many matches as he did is because he's 6'3.

    • @coops1992
      @coops1992 ปีที่แล้ว

      And an inkwell for life if he was 5'7 and below xD

    • @progfrogg
      @progfrogg ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coops1992 aww man.. im 5'7.

    • @progfrogg
      @progfrogg ปีที่แล้ว

      @J Meadows its all good, short king status will get me all the ladies

  • @mr.sophistication3232
    @mr.sophistication3232 ปีที่แล้ว +1246

    Thank you for telling the truth about these predatory apps and helping men in these dark times.

    • @rogerm3708
      @rogerm3708 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      The times are dark but truth is light

    • @spareaccount2274
      @spareaccount2274 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      the absolute brutal part is that this guy isn't average. He clearly falls in the 6-7/10 Range.

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said Fella …. 💯

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The apps AND the women are

    • @mr.sophistication3232
      @mr.sophistication3232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@harsh3948 Truth

  • @hermitcleric
    @hermitcleric 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The thing that kept me on Tinder for a long time is that between 2014 - 2017 I had a really significant experience on Tinder, not only with more matches but also significant chats and dates, and my profile photos looked worse than today, my bio was worse, I was a worse conversation starter than today, and still I got good results! From 2017 on the experience nosedived noticeably and I could say the pandemic was coffin nails. My theory is that Tinder worked great for first adopters because of lower competition, and as the amount of guys increased exponentially, even above average guys got obliterated.

    • @lunistylz587
      @lunistylz587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As someone who didn’t get on tinder until 2022 and find a girlfriend after 2 months my theory at least what I think is that it’s easier in rural areas than it is in the big cities. I don’t consider myself a chad, no hollow cheeks and lack the jawline chads have yet I was still able to achieve success on tinder. I come from Montana a rural American state, the gender demographics aren’t even favorable in my town (52% Male 47% Female) but i was able to get a girlfriend. I feel as if I was from the city rather than rural Montana I would be like everyone else in the comments.

    • @YoureSoCreezy
      @YoureSoCreezy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tinder has changed a lot over the years, I remember using it back in the day like 2014 and actually getting some matches and it was completely free, no paid tier subs like it is now. The apps been completely changed into a revenue generating machine and nothing more, between the disgusting hidden algorithms to the grossly overpriced subs. Ive tried using it once or twice over the past couple years but its just deafening silence. You'll get a few matches in the first couple days of creating a new profile and then it completely drops off (hidden algorithm) and all those matches you are just left on read anyways. Complete waste of time.

    • @tohrum2679
      @tohrum2679 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ive been on dating apps(before there/they were apps, there were websites) and it was a far better experience than it is now. Not gonna pretend i was dating left and right, but people actually made conversations. I went on a date every now and again. And while it didnt lead to anything long-term, i still had a number of great(and a few terrible/annoying) experiences. Now its like no one wants to talk, and these apps are all geared to take your money. Bots galore, women looking for a man-bank, and stilted/one word conversations all the time. Its sad.

  • @nelsonbarrantes7349
    @nelsonbarrantes7349 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This video is great, and an eye opener. I will stay off those apps and focus on improving myself. Thanks.

  • @psychoaztecs
    @psychoaztecs ปีที่แล้ว +2862

    as a below average guy in looks, i just gave up in dating in general and just focus on myself and helping out my family to at least have a sense of purpose in life.

    • @CognitiveDissident.
      @CognitiveDissident. ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Same here. I'm also figuring out how to raise funds for a non-profit that means a lot to me.

    • @logank444
      @logank444 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Dude if you wanna date and find a woman you could. As someone who's not traditionally good looking I've been with some women who are way better looking then me.

    • @arthurmorgan2906
      @arthurmorgan2906 ปีที่แล้ว +325

      @@logank444 then you are lucky or extroverted with charisma. Dont you get it? Guys like this just had enough and cant take it anymore. I fully understand them. I might be one of them too soon.

    • @logank444
      @logank444 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@arthurmorgan2906 but I'm not, im fat, dont have a big dick, I have crooked teeth. I just never gave up on myself. The charm and confidence didnt come till my 30s after years of hating myself and body. Men are lucky actually we dont need good looks to be considered attractive

    • @iamthelaw69
      @iamthelaw69 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's a nice sentiment. I don't even have a family I want to help in any way because they've been leeching off me since I graduated high school 20 years ago and I've done fed up with it. Bettering one self is the best way to go.

  • @GOD.OF.ARGUMENT
    @GOD.OF.ARGUMENT ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I did an experiment of my own, I'm an architect average looks,
    Firstly I made a profile like a normal person, with normal pictures. in 7 days no matches.
    Then I made another profile with the pictures of same day as before, same clothes same person but a nice BMW under the me. Got 8 matches in 3 hours .
    Guys don't go on these apps, it's just f*ing waste of time and value.

    • @pedroRodriguesMD
      @pedroRodriguesMD 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Yup, just gold diggers.

    • @Real_Nutella
      @Real_Nutella 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's actually really good insights. I put a picture of my driving my old boss' vett and got way more matches

    • @williamzebub3252
      @williamzebub3252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I did an experiment too. 7 dating apps/site over 3 weeks. No idea how many times I swiped. Got 5 matches. 3 were bots, 1 was a catfish, the last one never replied.

    • @ancientslav4863
      @ancientslav4863 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The girls and women on these apps are all fake and shallow. Mostly gold diggers and only fans hos

    • @Kiowan918
      @Kiowan918 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thing is the apps have changed drastically since before COVID. Before 2019 it was pretty good, i'm not a bad looking guy and on Tinder I used to get about 7 or 8 matches a week with swiping once every 3 or 4 days, i'd miss out on quite a few women who swiped me as well as I wasn't interested. Bumble was much better, it'd be maybe 5-15 a week depending how active I was, but the quality was far higher than tinder and way more of them actually spoke, most Tinder matches never speak or can't manage more than one word replies.
      Since COVID started it's tanked, we are talking 1 match on Tinder every week or two and they are all incapable of speaking or holding a conversation, Bumble was still better at maybe 1 or 2 a week until i got banned for saying to a woman that i'm not putting pronouns in my profile as it's nonsense. Unfortunately i'm looking for a proper woman so i'm not putting anything that'll attract gold diggers to increase matches, it's futile.
      I was in 2 asian countries last year, one of them is an advanced country with people who don't actually want to leave. I used both apps in major cities and in smaller ones and the apps became almost unusable as every day it was 300+ likes and when you swiped pretty much anyone you swiped yes to was an instant match, problem is the conversations all got buried, in the poorer country many of them were using translator apps to speak to and actually didn't speak English so you'd meet and it would be awkward as hell. I think the problem is North America, Canada/USA where I live, something has changed here with online dating.

  • @RX-du2hv
    @RX-du2hv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Best video on dating apps I ever watched , literally deleted all my dating apps as I was watching this video !

    • @Trynottoblink
      @Trynottoblink หลายเดือนก่อน

      Briefly hopped on the apps after a breakup and then deleted them after rewatching a Wheat Waffles video that set me straight lol

  • @rizalukman7982
    @rizalukman7982 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for the video.Thank you my mom for pushing me to study hard in university and working in a multinational company

  • @Alexdad84
    @Alexdad84 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    I remember I tried to match on POF with girls that had nothing. Average looks, multiple babies, no job, never graduated and drama AND I STILL NEVER HAD A RESPONSE. That was eye opening. I had everything, they had nothing and still they thought they were too good. Women on those apps feel like GODS.

    • @clozza4033
      @clozza4033 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      It's this 'goddess' culture I'm sure of it, imagine if men started calling themselves gods women would lose it! 😂

    • @angelg3986
      @angelg3986 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@clozza4033 some of us are trying.

    • @EvaSlash
      @EvaSlash ปีที่แล้ว

      POF is worse than Tinder. Many women on there are basically losers themselves looking for flings with other bad boy losers. They live a mediocre loser life so it makes sense they want bad boy losers because it is really what their lifestyle is

    • @ondawallfly9427
      @ondawallfly9427 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Couple of years ago I created a female profile to see the other side of things. Turned out there were multiple times more men on the app than women. And that's the thing. Most of the quality women wouldn't use dating apps.
      That's why this guy in the video (who I would be happy for my daughter to date) isn't getting any attention. The women in his area want a man with tatoos and muscles.

    • @GermanTaffer
      @GermanTaffer ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah they feel like, but they aren't, or are they? Solely they think bunga dates are equal partnership material, and the betray of modern feminism about age doesn't matter, the cougar lie...
      Imagine the hard bitter fall, they will encounter soon.

  • @revibe6298
    @revibe6298 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    For some reason it's still not known to the general public that if you're not deemed desirable by the app's algorithm, they give you a low ELO score which basically shadow bans your profile. You're not ugly, just literally nobody ever sees your profile. What this also means is that at that point buying boosts doesn’t help. It doesn’t show your profile to x amount of people, it shows your profile like 10x more than usual. 10x0 is still 0 tho.

    • @ProfWho-ut5he
      @ProfWho-ut5he ปีที่แล้ว +67

      True. I made experiments with male model pics and still did not get any matches.

    • @0000SYL
      @0000SYL ปีที่แล้ว +12

      cope. i did experment and it mental ly crashing given my 1 in 500 match ratio vs models 1 in 15

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s what I been saying to people!!

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@ProfWho-ut5he Great work! I'd love to see more of this. It wouldn't be so bad if they didn't put a land whale on the covers of Cosmo, Fitness and SI magazines and demand we say they are objectively beautiful. Today, if a man isn't beautiful he's called ugly and if a woman isn't ugly she's called beautiful. It's just as biased against men as the MSM were against Donald Trump.

    • @revibe6298
      @revibe6298 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@Cameron_David_ mate, there’s nothing they don’t do for business reasons. They really don’t give a shit whether you and i find a girlfriend or not

  • @fearnobodyandtrustnoone
    @fearnobodyandtrustnoone ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I'm glad prostitution is legal here in my country. No strings attached, just pay for the service.

    • @JK-nj3bt
      @JK-nj3bt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah but i'm not looking for sex only

    • @SperberMeister
      @SperberMeister 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      its sad that this is really the best option for men

    • @davidd854
      @davidd854 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      No it's really bad for you, fucks with your mind/soul or whatever

    • @SperberMeister
      @SperberMeister 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@davidd854 id go as far as to say, women fuck with your mind/soul in general

    • @davidd854
      @davidd854 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SperberMeister Well if they are manipulative they might mess with your head. But I mean more in a spritual sense. I think it changes people when they have sex with prostitutes.

  • @cybercashclassroom
    @cybercashclassroom 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Interesting experiment! It's important to understand the challenges of online dating, especially for average guys. Thanks for shedding light on this topic.

  • @Blaza303
    @Blaza303 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    If he's a 6/10 then we really have no hope, dude's genuinely good looking

    • @qh8j
      @qh8j ปีที่แล้ว +2

      fr tho

    • @salga6705
      @salga6705 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He is a 6 though , nothing special about him, pretty average face, he’s only got height going for him and he looks really dorky . I guarantee if he didn’t look like such a dorky techie , he’d have more matches

    • @OccidentalAryan
      @OccidentalAryan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@salga6705 He's not a 6. Most women would say he's a 3/10 to be honest.

    • @Marinaacr
      @Marinaacr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      ​@@OccidentalAryan I'm a woman and he would easily be a 9 for me ? Idk what parameters he uses to rate them

    • @fernandaabreu8510
      @fernandaabreu8510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@Marinaacr i agree with you, he is really handsome. I was shocked when the guy called him a 6/10, he is nowhere average looking.

  • @hischransen8069
    @hischransen8069 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    They made an experiment back then on TH-cam with a guy who had some Chad Pics on Tinder (wasnt his) and got a lot of swipes. During conversation he mentioned he was jailed for pedophilia in the past. The Answers he got were like: "Everyone made mistakes in the past, I think you should not be judged, followed by dating and even intercourse offers." Just a glimpse in the bizarre psychology and why there is barely any hope left for Men.

    • @il9001
      @il9001 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I don't believe it. Otherwise they might have replied that kind of answer to not be threaten by him (and ghosted him, blocked him later).

    • @hischransen8069
      @hischransen8069 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@il9001 Nope you're wrong. The video was taken down already but I saw it with my own eyes and they were flirtacious, engaging and pro active in getting him to sleep with them.

    • @il9001
      @il9001 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hischransen8069 That's disgusting... but it says a lot about the kind of women they are... And who would like to be with such women?

    • @cl-pt6cv
      @cl-pt6cv ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@hischransen8069 I remember this video, th-cam.com/video/MSq54f2JT_U/w-d-xo.html&t. Skip to 4:19 for chad profile, and 6:50 for results.

    • @hischransen8069
      @hischransen8069 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@cl-pt6cv Ah yeah, that's it (or at least a video based on the one I saw). Thanks for sharing!

  • @ScottLucian
    @ScottLucian 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    3 DATES?! Out of 16,600?? Insane! (In a bad way) 😧

  • @kushwood
    @kushwood 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great study! Thanks for exposing the time waste on these apps.

  • @siegfriedo
    @siegfriedo ปีที่แล้ว +668

    I am 6'4", mid 30s, average looking, skinny athletic, good social skills and sense of humor, good paying job, healthy hobbies (sports, hiking, traveling)
    No debts, no major issues, no drug use.
    I have had next to zero success on dating apps and gotten rid of them.
    This excellent video only reconfirmed what I already knew.
    Guys, get off the grid and get into real life.
    As far as women are concerned, warm and cold approach is the ONLY way to go.

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies ปีที่แล้ว +77

      No, definitely not cold, unless you're highly attractive

    • @siegfriedo
      @siegfriedo ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@TwistedLullabies Not cold approach as in "I must approach ten chicks per day". But should the opportunity present itself, I will go for cold approach. Nothing to lose, always win win situation.

    • @thereallegend4lyfe
      @thereallegend4lyfe ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you gotten laid via warm/cold approach?

    • @yyysamuel3215
      @yyysamuel3215 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Cold approach is nothing different than dating apps tbh. Is all about looks.

    • @siegfriedo
      @siegfriedo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@yyysamuel3215 No.

  • @nco6893
    @nco6893 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    The one thing he left out is that the women you will match with will often be far below your rating. You will likely only see 3s,4s and 5s in your matches which further frustrates oneself

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm proud to say that in my day my dates were prettier than I am.

    • @gspcro9047
      @gspcro9047 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you’re doing online dating, you can, on average, deduct 2 points of your SMV. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Means a HTN will date mostly below average women. Law of supply and demand.

    • @samhyde8684
      @samhyde8684 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@bigneiltoo nothing to be proud of. Dating was literally 100x easier before the internet.

    • @emmarose7491
      @emmarose7491 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly. That’s the whole conclusion of average male dating experience. Getting rejected by Stacys and crying about it online making it seems like no women ever wants them (probably because female normies are not even considered as women to them lmao)

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@emmarose7491 stop.... just stop.....
      When you're alone for an extended period of time, men adjust their standards. Women don't. Men will even take 3s or 4s because we're hornier....
      Get out of here with your nonsense.

  • @static_Tricolor_camry
    @static_Tricolor_camry หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    His mistake was not posing next to a $400,000 car, a millionaire mansion, and a high class suit. With the word on his description, looking for a sugar baby to spoil.

    • @SamuelJochman
      @SamuelJochman 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      On my tinder, I pose nearby my fathers SF90 and I dont have any matches as well, that doesnt work either... I added the photo just to see whether it will change, but no, not at all

  • @dorianrawls1927
    @dorianrawls1927 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said about the opportunity cost: every activity is better than wasting your time on Tinder et such. Both statistically and in terms of self esteem/mental health, you get better rewards even playing video games or biking.
    I would not put "hope" in the pros. Disappointment is a huge setback and false hopes foster low self esteem. Those apps detroy your psyche to entertain a few women, you become their toy. No one should ever stoop to being a product for others to play with.

  • @NinjaKiller999
    @NinjaKiller999 ปีที่แล้ว +1273

    The problem is even if you meet girls irl, most of them have dating apps so when they go back home they'll still have those thousands of matches. This has ruined everything and people cope by saying "tinder isn't real life". IT IS. Even when you meet girls irl their brain will still be on tinder mode, so no matter where or how you meet her you're still competing with those top 5% of guys

    • @Ri-hr4uy
      @Ri-hr4uy ปีที่แล้ว

      I doubt most girls irl are on dating apps looking at the stats. I think it's more likely for them to get corrupted via social media

    • @nathancasey7712
      @nathancasey7712 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I get where you're coming from but it's not necessary true. Talking to women in real life is way different than Tinder. There's a lot of girls i could never pull on tinder that i could have a conversation with in person and maybe get some interest from them.

    • @Longlostpuss
      @Longlostpuss ปีที่แล้ว +61

      The top 5% of guys don't waste their time on dating apps, they're socialising on a completely whole other level.
      You're actually competing alot lower down, which is even more worrying if you still can't gain traction.
      Women just want the best male they can attract, just like men do.
      What you need to understand also is that alot of attractive men underscore themselves and sleep with alot of substandard basic women. Men always tend to sleep down, while women sleep up.
      I probably wouldn't swipe right to 95% of the women I see on Tinder and other apps either, most of them are a mess.

    • @jonathangrayson9626
      @jonathangrayson9626 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Who said I was competing for these women of sand? Lemme be honest when I say that dating apps are a blessing because now the average man doesn't have to endure the hardships of the "Catfish": Women being who you want to be for a month and then exposing their true intentions, the average man can focus on bettering himself. Chad has limitless amount of puniti and I'm fine with that. I rather be invisible than enduring a woman that complains over ever single persona I have.

    • @tonyg4058
      @tonyg4058 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Exactly! I always have to point this out to those 'Tinder is not real life' people.

  • @panagenesis2695
    @panagenesis2695 ปีที่แล้ว +790

    No joke, this guy is in his prime and will be for the next 10-15 years. He's too good for the dumpster fire that is Tinder. He's needs to just live life and meet women organically (i.e. work, school, gym, socializing, fun leisure/activities, etc.)

    • @gokublack9080
      @gokublack9080 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Factos

    • @GangdamStyle20
      @GangdamStyle20 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@gokublack9080 That's not true. The tinder phenomenon obviously has also an impact how women see themself in real life. Best thing you can do right now is to become religious! It doesn't matter what religion!!!! Any religion is aware of this problems wheater we talk about christianty, islam, judaism, hindu or buddism. They all have restrictions for the women mainly but also for men. This is scientificly proven, that religious people have way more children than non religious ones. "Until death devides you"

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The age pill will be setting at point

    • @yyysamuel3215
      @yyysamuel3215 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      The problem is even if you meet girls irl, most girls are using dating apps too nowadays in 2022.

    • @ihatelensflare
      @ihatelensflare ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@yyysamuel3215 women's standards have gone through the roof and you're at risk of being cancelled for being too unattractive as that's classed as harassment. Meet IRL at your peril. You better be chad.

  • @richleebruce
    @richleebruce 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There is no way that this guy is just a little above average. He is clearly way above average, probably in the top 20 percent, and therefore he should be a Chad.

    • @willshad
      @willshad หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL he's not a 'Chad'. 6 seems about right,, he still looks 'boyish'.

  • @davidrick5897
    @davidrick5897 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Women: "Ugh, men should never judge women or be picky!"
    Also women: 2:45

  • @origins5490
    @origins5490 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    As a male, I've gotten 1 match and 1 like in the last 5 years. On every dating app you can name. 5 years. 1 match. The conversation was 1 sentence. I just said Good evening. And that was it.

    • @WilliamHeil-ow1of
      @WilliamHeil-ow1of ปีที่แล้ว +23

      About the same for me

    • @normalusername6387
      @normalusername6387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In a month i got less than 20, at one point i had tinder and badoo installed. Escorts for me buddy boyo

    • @seribelz
      @seribelz ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Bs, why would you keep using it then

    • @senseisouls4830
      @senseisouls4830 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      lift, shower, get money. It'll happen.

    • @Richibull17
      @Richibull17 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Do you swipe left on below average looking women? You're probably aiming too high my dude.

  • @tiana4102
    @tiana4102 ปีที่แล้ว +2037

    I honestly think a lot of women just use tinder for male validation and attention, to get an ego boost. Also, in the real world, I've become attracted to men just from knowing them and them being kind to me. This isn't something that can be really done online.

    • @trollnerd
      @trollnerd ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Yeah but it's all fake. Dudes are swiping right on literally everyone. If you knew that girls swiped right on literally every guy, wouldn't you only try to match with the hottest girls?

    • @dextermorgan2117
      @dextermorgan2117 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's not attraction and never lasts.

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust me I know this is true because the fake friends I have proves this

    • @notoriousdom1799
      @notoriousdom1799 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Stop the lie Tiana

    • @ciararespect4296
      @ciararespect4296 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It's true as they say men are more physically attracted to women whereas women want the whole package. Not saying they don't want physical attractiveness but for women theres more complicated than that. I dont think you're attracted to someone just through kindness shown though. There has to be some spark

  • @rowdendunshie
    @rowdendunshie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This has been my experience of online dating my entire 20’s I’m 27 now

  • @ebermtheburn
    @ebermtheburn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for spreading the truth

  • @KierMailan
    @KierMailan ปีที่แล้ว +1178

    Bruhhh. This guy ain't a 6 he's more like a 7.5-8 on looks, jawline, height, skin, looks fairly well kept and what seems like a healthy lifestyle. Educated and with some interesting hobbies. We don't even stand a chance. 😭

    • @robocop2468
      @robocop2468 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Lets be real this guy is a 5-6. If thats you in your pfp oh boy, i understand why you overrate people. I hope thats not you and just some bloke you set your pfp as to make fun of cuz thats brutaaaaaal.

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I think you are right. he is a 7.5-8 on looks and has his shit together. I think his problem is women want a 'bad boy' that will toss them around and give it to them hard. This guy doesn't give off that vibe. Idk how you are supposed to give off that vibe other than to just look like a tool with tats, backwards hat, and tilt your head back with gang symbols up.

    • @DOPEdwarf
      @DOPEdwarf ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmfao an 8.
      Incels yet again exposing their ideology of nothing more than the fault of false delusions. Makes me think that the supposed "average men" they constantly include themselves in as "struggling" are actually just genuinely ugly people if they overrated this dude so much.

    • @fi-train8961
      @fi-train8961 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      No he isn’t. You have not seen actual 8+

    • @joaom3664
      @joaom3664 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @ProteusXF Exaclty, if you go out in the streets often, taking busses and the subway, you will see that the average person is far off from the "average" you see in social media. This guy is definetely good looking.

  • @redness1924
    @redness1924 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    Keep spreading the message man. As long as men keep simping for women on social media and dating apps, it will never end.

    • @drbh6331
      @drbh6331 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My parents set me an arranged marriage .where the girl and me talk about ourselves and got married in 1 month where both of family members and parents are happy .. Im lucky to have her .we shared our opinions and education and interests . we are happily married.

    • @distortion7465
      @distortion7465 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@drbh6331 how does this help men in any kind of way ?

    • @VarnoSlimm
      @VarnoSlimm ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes simping needs to stop. I don't follow IG models anymore.

    • @Twtgod
      @Twtgod ปีที่แล้ว

      @@distortion7465 Don't mind this idiot, they think life is black and white.

    • @debanikgoswami4834
      @debanikgoswami4834 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@drbh6331 are you an Indian btw?

  • @hamidmosalla1094
    @hamidmosalla1094 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for making this video.

  • @shanecar84
    @shanecar84 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good reminder. Thank you.

  • @BPTtech
    @BPTtech ปีที่แล้ว +677

    There should be a class action suit against these dating apps.

    • @rodbelding9523
      @rodbelding9523 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm on board with this. It's been proven that these apps are rigged, they are intentionally ruining men's mental health.

    • @aleterra
      @aleterra ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I think it will eventually happen. I think we should start demanding transparency and certain quality of service, for example you pay to the app only if you get a date or some other scheme.

    • @bobsmithy9024
      @bobsmithy9024 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Why do men assume they're entitled to get responses? If the dating apps never guarantee you'll get responses then it's arrogance/delusion to think you'll get many replies.
      It's just people posting photos and text . It's a crazy way to meet someone.

    • @AZITHEMLGPRO
      @AZITHEMLGPRO ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can’t should’ve could’ve your way to power

    • @MatiKosa
      @MatiKosa ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think Tinder is something that actually has an influence on today's world in terms of relationship, fertility rates, demography and more. Because of how it works and what it promotes, many hearts have been broken. Sure, many people got married as well, that's true. But overall experience for medium to okay looking guys is rather a disaster and leads to a massive time waste.

  • @user-nd5ut4zo2p
    @user-nd5ut4zo2p ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Women will tell you that you need better photos, that you need to improve your bio etc. When I chadfished I had 3 bedroom selfies and a one liner bio. After a day I had hundreds of matches. Online dating is 100% about looks.

    • @stonemarten1400
      @stonemarten1400 ปีที่แล้ว

      Proves many women these days are just looking for hook-ups, sabotaging their long-term relationship potential.

    • @randyjones3050
      @randyjones3050 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are 100% correct!

    • @coops1992
      @coops1992 ปีที่แล้ว

      Height is also only issue if you are a midget like 5'5 and below. Women would pick 5'10 actual Chad over this 6'3 blonde guy easily.

    • @omniscientnegro6585
      @omniscientnegro6585 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bullshit unless your face is superstar level selfies wont work they wpuld just look austistic and they wontatch you if you dont have insthram out and verified.

    • @LucasFerreira-et4mg
      @LucasFerreira-et4mg 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Everything is about looks to a vast margin, even iq or intelligence is related to good looks

  • @user-qo1us9oc7g
    @user-qo1us9oc7g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Tinder is a menu for woman on the red light district, except they dont have to pay for all the flavours.

  • @spedunicorn2473
    @spedunicorn2473 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly bro. I appreciate you ❤

  • @TAC_100
    @TAC_100 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Bruh, getting a date on tinder be harder than getting accepted to HARVARD med school LOL.

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big facts

    • @conradmonson30
      @conradmonson30 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What’s funny is that 3.7% is the acceptance rate of Harvard, which is coincidentally(?) the same as two other rates in the video

  • @focusedonfuture3255
    @focusedonfuture3255 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Using a dating app is like panning for gold in an outhouse.

  • @thebrantfordrailfan
    @thebrantfordrailfan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For the most part, i've found dating apps to be a waste of time and money for men. I am somewhat luckier than a lot of people. I'm shy, autistic and awkward as hell. After months of swiping with zero results, i finally matched with a very forward/aggressive girl and went on a few dates. She ended up giving me my first kiss 5 weekends later, and took my V card the following week. This kind of story is VERY rare, and i feel like i may as well have won the lottery. I don't expect it to happen again.

  • @shreyassen4260
    @shreyassen4260 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Sad reality is that even subfive girls are trying for chads instead of someone of their own tier. Credit goes to simps who have overrated them all the time 🤬

    • @riproar11
      @riproar11 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Chads hook up with sub-fives a lot because it is a guaranteed lay. One of my housemates was a chad who brought home many sub-five Asian women.

    • @shreyassen4260
      @shreyassen4260 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@riproar11 although i would say that asian women are not necessarily subfive. But yeah i agree with u. Chads use lower tier women for casual hookups and one night stands coz its an easy and effortless win.

    • @robvitalo2788
      @robvitalo2788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kylemarsun do you also have a close chad friend? I have 2 of them, in their mind both are blue pill and its hard to bare to hear their jokes and also when they communicate their standards/values if some other "normie" guys talk about whom they flirted with. They will joke if "it was their material" and maybe mock a person if they talked only. There might be a glimpse of naive way of thinking that this is as easy for anyone if you know tricks (as they do not realise they are only able to live their small wannabe-high-society-life because of looks). In the end I do not get that most of them have never thought about this. They wouldn't understand a word and one of them even tried to make me feel better about me and my average looks when I spoke to the "more bluepilled" one about looks and about kind of girls he can get and what girls I will get if I try. He did not really got the point and an evidence I notice just right now while writing my text: He looks hispanic, but has a more oriental looking brother. This brother has not that much luck with girls like him. He also knows his non-chad brother is unhappy about this but the chad-brother only reflects the "unhealthy" way of thinking in which his non-chad brother somehow "competes with him in his mind". The chad only sees the mindset stuff and (possibly real) mindset "mistakes". That these people all do not reflect these things...

    • @valhalla7567
      @valhalla7567 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True. If men were a little more critical with swiping on Tinder.. those sub 5 girls have also not much options. Desperate men no standard men on dating apps are the problem that women are so picky right now! Incells are a incells worst enemy!

    • @riproar11
      @riproar11 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shreyassen4260 How can many Asian women not be sub-five?? There are plenty of unattractive ones with really flat faces. In Asian countries, they are the leftover women who work in factories sewing Timberland jackets, assembling iPhones, and cutting up fish.
      From my observation and from word of mouth from fraternity friends, many tall good looking chads did a lot of sub-five women. One sub-five lived many days per week in the frat house and was passed around like a beer.

  • @ptrk1337
    @ptrk1337 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Ive once created a fake profile on Tinder, with pictures of a Romanian male model, a 9/10 at least.
    I was shocked at how bad my matching rates and conversations were even then.
    It should be just not worth your time.

    • @GangdamStyle20
      @GangdamStyle20 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      That's probubly because you still had the old ELO ranking of your real self...

    • @Longlostpuss
      @Longlostpuss ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Makes you wonder if there are actually real people behind these profiles or just bots looking to take your money?
      Have to remember that alot of people gave their image rights away with certain party apps years ago.

    • @KAMIOUKA
      @KAMIOUKA ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude I once created a tinder profile of a good looking chad (8/10 I would say) and I got nudes from like 20 girls

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I actually had the opposite effect. I used some fitness influencer who looked like he was straight out of Twilight and I got at least 5 matches per day.

    • @user-nd5ut4zo2p
      @user-nd5ut4zo2p ปีที่แล้ว +53

      If the pictures are obviously a male model then women will know it's a catfish.

  • @joseph1568
    @joseph1568 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've used Tinder, Bumble, and another dating app and almost always are they never long-term. If you get a match and you meet up, most likely the match will be short-lived, having no purpose and clueless as to what both sides came there for. Tinder and most other dating apps actually lower men's self-esteem and objectifies women in the process as we swipe for hours. It is far healthier to get outside in the real world to meet a woman and gain social skills, as Wheat Waffles mentioned, than it is to waste time and hope that we get a '"good match". Women should not be our priority if we are single. Focus on yourself and the women will start to come.

  • @coughhdropps
    @coughhdropps ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Am i crazy or 2.5 matches a day is pretty good?

    • @nodatesape9124
      @nodatesape9124 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's top shelf, for men.

  • @ajspice
    @ajspice ปีที่แล้ว +189

    It's awful! My wife left me a few years ago and it's been impossible to move on. I can't get a simple coffee date. I'm a military veteran, college educated, a content creator by trade, I have steady income, I'm decent looking, I'm in great shape at 40 years old, I have fun hobbies, I like animals, and yet, nothing.
    What makes it worse is people have always assumed that women are just attracted to me. It's to the point now where the fastest way to piss me off is by complimenting my looks. I wish I were just butt ugly. At least then there would be a reason...

    • @blahblah2779
      @blahblah2779 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Military veteran. That’s your issue.
      Fuck veterans.

    • @ajspice
      @ajspice ปีที่แล้ว

      @@atavism-dream I don't have any friends. I have one acquaintance I hang out with a couple of times a month. Other than that I spend most of my time with my cat an my mother. I've already given up. And as far as escorts go, I'm too worried about getting busted.
      But at least I have an excellent excuse as to why I don't give a flying fuck about women's rights. Can't get an abortion? I guess you better shut your legs then and get a good calendar.

    • @blahblah2779
      @blahblah2779 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@atavism-dream I’m not sure what’s worse.
      •that you seriously believe that because one gets rejected it means you are “too good” for them
      • or that you think I’m so stupid, that I’m going to believe all that nonsense you wrote.

    • @atavism-dream
      @atavism-dream ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blahblah2779 The average female has the personality and competence of a tree stump let's be real. They're attractive but that's about it. Exceptional females are gigachadonly.

    • @GeneticallySexy
      @GeneticallySexy ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Based on your picture it seems to explain your lack of success. No need to wish for it.

  • @AZITHEMLGPRO
    @AZITHEMLGPRO ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Yea I’ll never go back to tinder

    • @Darkkent83
      @Darkkent83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FACTS!

    • @kyloren8133
      @kyloren8133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the real world is better? how? it is a numbers game

    • @AZITHEMLGPRO
      @AZITHEMLGPRO ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a robot doll probably when they’re affordable. Until then, maybe I’ll just approach thee entire world Bro

    • @jkshallinheritearth3883
      @jkshallinheritearth3883 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AZITHEMLGPRO Feminists are shaming doll robots from 2 decades coz they know that they'll not get validation from average guys!

    • @AZITHEMLGPRO
      @AZITHEMLGPRO ปีที่แล้ว

      @meeks welp I guess we’ll have to just live in the woods with our dolls then

  • @albedz7759
    @albedz7759 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm probably like a 4.5 at best. Only get like 1 match every couple of months. If you're not a golden Greek god, an Adonis of a man, it really isn't worth trying anymore. It is better to put whatever time, money, and energy you can into friends and hobbies.

    • @brickflair8926
      @brickflair8926 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hear ya brother, and the match u do get is some fat chick or someone that’s just not it it’s a shame

  • @thepurpleturnip534
    @thepurpleturnip534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    That’s very interesting, as a girl on a dating app, it’s easy to get dates, when I first started I was very new to dating so I just matched with a lot of people in the first couple week, my friend said to keep an open mind so I even matched with people I personally did not find attractive, but one part of their profile may have been interesting, I soon realised this was a huge mistake and was already I was burnt out talking to all these people/repeating the same conversations/and everyone wanting meet up, it took alot of time and social battery, so I ended up rarely matching with guys so I could have only a couple conversations at going at once, I hear from my friends that their experience is similar, getting burnt out talking to new people all the time, so that may be a reason a lot of other girls rarely match

    • @imyourocd
      @imyourocd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's really a pointless comment, it's always been easy for women to pick up men they don't have to do much more then say hey anyone want to go out LOL!

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      How awful this must be!

    • @cappuccinogrande
      @cappuccinogrande 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a girl, I can rely. Used tinder for a month looking for serious relationships. Matched as a result with dozen of f**kboys, whose interest were one night stand.
      Deleted app, tired of these liers

    • @ironknobsteelworks4063
      @ironknobsteelworks4063 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I met a woman ( average looking) on match. She showed me all her messages. Over 300 in the space of a few days. She picked me like she would pick a lottery ticket.
      In contrast I had 6 messages. She couldn't believe it.

  • @simppolice123
    @simppolice123 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    Most of the guys that I know that "beat the game" (got married), did so without much effort. A woman came into their life and chose them, and they chose the woman. There wasn't any extensive dating or games, they just got really lucky and it worked out. They have kids and families now, while I'm still single wondering why I can't meet any women

    • @paultest4544
      @paultest4544 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      You are right. There's a lot of luck involved in marriage. You have to find a woman that has decided she wants to get married. You have to pass the "first impression" test to get a date.. Then if you do get married, 50% chance you will get divorced. If you are not divorced.. huge percentage chance that the marriage is not really that happy lol. The point? Just because your friend has kids doesn't mean that the marriage is happy. Lots of couples put on the good front, the man brags about how awesome his wife is, then they get divorced 6 months later. Focus on your own goals my friend, even if a woman is in your life, only you can control your own happiness. (Not meant as a lecture, just trying help)

    • @simppolice123
      @simppolice123 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@paultest4544 thanks Paul. Good points indeed

    • @packisbetter90
      @packisbetter90 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Happened to my best friend. He never even went on a date or really even tried with women then one day he magically finds someone online and she moves all the way from LA to Indianapolis. Then they're engaged and get married and been married for 7 years now with 1 kid. He was just 24 when he got married too

    • @KubiG1000
      @KubiG1000 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      They were lucky, it’s sadly true, when a girl happens to “choose you”, you’ve already won - you can say something stupid, even make the date terrible and she’ll just laugh it off and still want you. There is no complicated dating/flirting/getting to know for days, only to be ghosted/rejected.

    • @DarkMikaruX
      @DarkMikaruX ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Paul is right. It really is luck.. plain and simple. I've had friends of mine try to debate me on this but once they start to think about it..... they suddenly go silent and realize I'm right. Wether you call it fate, destiny, luck, whatever... it's generally something completely out of our control.
      If I participate in a podcast again I'll def bring this up as I just don't hear to many people acknowledging this point. Finding someone is a matter of luck.. not choice. So many variables involved it's nothing but luck.
      A good friend of mine who is older than I am and still a virgin, never had a girlfriend told me once.....
      "Relationships aren't a choice if it was never an option first."
      No truer words spoken.

  • @amon298
    @amon298 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    If this man is considered a 6/10 and has odds stacked against him, I stand no chance lol

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You and me both Fella hence why I have always Disregarded them ALL ….

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not that this will make you feel better, but most women would not consider his face sexually attractive. it's not better than a 5/10

    • @coops1992
      @coops1992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michaelangst6078 He literally looks like an insell in the thumbnail picture lol. That's why he has hard time getting dates.

    • @jaybrick8973
      @jaybrick8973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just meet women in real life you probably have a way better chance

    • @drew5681
      @drew5681 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jaybrick8973 this needs to be said louder. Screw tinder some people need to grow balls and talk to girls irl instead of the internet

  • @adamgreen1888
    @adamgreen1888 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen, well said bro.

  • @reneschaffer7020
    @reneschaffer7020 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great Vid, THANKS!

  • @r_r_rye2441
    @r_r_rye2441 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Someone needs to do this with an actual "average" looking man. 290 matches is killing it. And one needs to always bring up the sheer number of bots or girls who are only marketing their OF or whatever.

    • @mikelisteral7863
      @mikelisteral7863 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      women just troll tinder for ego boosts or free dinners

    • @knighnp
      @knighnp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No, it's actually a little bit below the average. Mikhail Peterson (Jordan Peterson daughter) brought online dating up with a guest on her podcast. Says around 4.1% of women will swipe right with men on tinder. So, about 290/7886 is 3.7% which is around it but still below.

    • @ReallyRyan.
      @ReallyRyan. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mikelisteral7863 It's that more than anything. The actual women who use Tinder are trash. They're just left-overs that are either too high maintenance or are too oblivious/mentally ill to understand that they were the problem in there past "bad" relationships or they feel they deserve some ideal being that could never exist, so they flock to Tinder for an ego boost and to have hoards of men swoon over them. A guy being average guy isn't the problem when he's got nothing but severely below average women to choose from and letting their insane/idiotic standards sway him into thinking he has less worth than he actually does is the real problem here. My advice to all my fellow men out there: just don't use dating sites, unless you want someone who's pure garbage and hate having an actual relationship with someone.

    • @AnimeReference
      @AnimeReference ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@knighnp Should use number of right swipes, not percentage. More male than female users could explain this, as well as more swipes per day per male user. Even with gold.

  • @MartianOrion
    @MartianOrion ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Dating apps absolutely destroyed my self esteem

    • @mrpantur7280
      @mrpantur7280 ปีที่แล้ว

      same. I now think I'm fuck ugly and any time I'm talking to people I think there looking at me and thinking "WOW this guy is disgusting"

    • @monk4ever
      @monk4ever ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then stay away from them.

    • @MartianOrion
      @MartianOrion ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@monk4ever ....no shit

  • @UnknownAlien475
    @UnknownAlien475 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This gave me the courage to finally stop dating apps, hopefully I can get myself together more now. Thanks for this, though.

  • @iliasshogenov5929
    @iliasshogenov5929 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m 25 good looking but not tall. 5,8.
    I used to get 3-4 matches a day, but damn these girls were crazy. Not just red flags but real crazy.
    Never had luck with tinder.
    3 years single streak!

  • @Mogamishu
    @Mogamishu ปีที่แล้ว +151

    What women want: a guy who is tall, strong, handsome, athletic, well-endowed, smart, funny, confident, creative, charming, ambitious, adventurous, educated and successful. Must have a nice car and a large income.
    What women offer in return: nothing.
    "Emma Rose" is now crying.

    • @malepatternbaldness5718
      @malepatternbaldness5718 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They have inherent value meanwhile sub 7 men have nothing so stop coping

    • @davidrivas6412
      @davidrivas6412 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They want an unrealistic perfect guy which is never going to happen. I see a generation of sad lonely ladies

    • @malepatternbaldness5718
      @malepatternbaldness5718 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidrivas6412 pls stop coping the only one that are suffering are men, women dont want your shitty genes

    • @davidrivas6412
      @davidrivas6412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @kiro_minev a pastor once said that the girls at church always complain to him that they always pray to god for a godly man who is strong ,six ft., tall, handsome and blonde hair and they're frustrated because god is not blessing them. But the pastor said maybe god has someone else's for them that don't fit their standards. Even the church girls want a perfect man.

    • @tensai6253
      @tensai6253 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@malepatternbaldness5718 take away the makeup and they have next to no value, lol. even the models are caked in makeup.

  • @Fankas2000
    @Fankas2000 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    The fact you can't write to someone without first matching is a death sentence for most guys out there. Tinder defaults to just looks. Your game, charm, confidence, none of it matters on Tinder.

    • @BigCEOMuyThai
      @BigCEOMuyThai 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Nope. Hold still so the women can judge you

    • @Dominik40301
      @Dominik40301 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Women first check for looks, if that doesnt pass other things are worthless to them, no matter how wealthy you are, or how rich life you live.

    • @Fankas2000
      @Fankas2000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@Dominik40301 You have never seen Russian "Businessmen"

    • @ancientslav4863
      @ancientslav4863 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In the USA, women are shallow. Glad to not live in a country where feminism and tik tok or only fans rule women.

    • @bLaffix
      @bLaffix 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dominik40301 tbh I'm older and remember the IRC days when I could chat with a girl for a few hours or even days before we exchanged pics. And by that time we've created some sort of an emotional connection, albeit superficial and this helped a lot. When you've already invested emotionally in someone even if they don't look the best, you're much more likely to go out on a date with them.
      Tinder is extremely focused on superficial looks and this is what is detrimental to dating.

  • @leafgreen83
    @leafgreen83 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Here's my experience that I've made on Tinder (and on bumble because I thought Tinder was broken):
    - Average looking guy, if the guy in the video is a 6/10, im probably a 4 or 5/10. Average body, going to university, average height.
    - used tinder and bumble for around 3 months
    - swiped around 3-4 times a week 100 times a day
    - probably around 40% likes
    - no tinder gold or any boosts
    - total amount of matches I got: 0.
    - total amount of people who liked my profile: 0.
    - What was i even trying to do? ffs
    Yea, no matches and no likes. No one even liked me by accident and I guess there was no bot or trolls liking me too.
    I've had some people help me edit my profile (guys & girls), i think my profile was okay.
    Just stay off tinder if you want to keep your self-esteem. Everytime you swipe, you could have done 1 push-up instead

  • @Salztoaster
    @Salztoaster 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Work!

  • @RobinBloodPK
    @RobinBloodPK ปีที่แล้ว +177

    It’s so correct, im 27 and luckily I met my
    Now fiancé and mother of my
    Child on a night out when I was 19 which was before tinder really kicked off.
    My girlfriends sister is 24. She is exactly like this video, gets a rediculous amount of attention on social media. But it’s just like WW says she never finds a real relationship because the only guys she goes for are in the top 10% of looks. They just pump her and move on. She won’t accept a normal looking bloke though. This is how messed up woman’s perception of what they deserve in a relationship has become.

    • @tja4379
      @tja4379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      glad you saved yourself the struggle :) i think everybody has experienced that people seem to be prettier the more we like them - that's not really a factor on dating apps (not before meeting in person). body language and hormons are extremely important for finding people attractive, but that only works when being physically near each other.

    • @NathanHedglin
      @NathanHedglin ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My gf's friend did the same thing. I told her to stop chasing all the super hot guys. Those guys have ZERO reason to stay as they can get all the women.

    • @trollnerd
      @trollnerd ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well let me ask you this, serious question. She's 24 years old. Why not shoot for the moon? Why not try to land a man who is "above" her? Don't men do the same thing? She's got plenty of time to figure out her life and find a partner. When she's ready for a real relationship, she will change her standards, as most women do when looking for a husband.

    • @randomguy4781
      @randomguy4781 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trollnerd because there arent that many type of men to go around for all women. and why would a chad settle down with a girl when he can just pump and dump them if theyre stupid enough to let him?

    • @simpbeforeusleep
      @simpbeforeusleep ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@trollnerd that’s terrible advice

  • @bigbanknewyork3655
    @bigbanknewyork3655 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    He's gotta wait til he's 50 to age like fine wine- Cars With Copes

    • @mthantilunga319
      @mthantilunga319 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂

    • @jkshallinheritearth3883
      @jkshallinheritearth3883 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      By Redpillers logic, all girls in school/university are dating HVM in his 50s & university guys are single! 😂

    • @coops1992
      @coops1992 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jkshallinheritearth3883 Well like 75% of young men are single for sure lol. ''University guys'' you mean Chads.

  • @lukethomas6900
    @lukethomas6900 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's why I got off that site. They don't wanna give me the time of day, why should I bother to spend my time on them??

  • @NevsTechBits
    @NevsTechBits 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Data is appreciated brother.

  • @mrshortshift7920
    @mrshortshift7920 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    lmao this guy mogs me in every possible way, its so over. i was conceived and it was over.

    • @AsgardTheFatcel
      @AsgardTheFatcel ปีที่แล้ว

      We must bring back Islam or extreme Christianism, soyciety is broken and weak.

  • @LateNightThinking2023
    @LateNightThinking2023 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Spending 13mins on this video to avoid spending 130 hours on dating apps which devalue men. Thank god! Brutal is so accurate.

  • @TherealTFfromKingston
    @TherealTFfromKingston 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can say for sure that dating apps are a type of cancer to society. I got on there because I had “been too busy” to find someone in real life. Truth be told, I was just afraid of what might become of myself if I really just trusted the idea of eventually meeting a good woman in real life. I think a lot of guys struggle with believing in such a thing, so they (like myself) try out the apps in hopes of finding her. What I can say is that I’m currently seeing someone off of upward, but tbh it goes back to “would I have approached her in real life if her and I were at a gathering of some sort?” And that for me is a sobering question to ask because I’ve always counted myself out of pursuing in real life. Reality is, that pursuing and dating someone can be challenging and trying on a person’s psyche any way we put it. One day you feel good enough, other days you don’t. I think the self reflection and focus can really be a game changer. I’ve since then given myself a break from the apps and sincerely have little intention of going back to them. I think also talking in real life if you match with someone should be an emphasis because if it doesn’t materialize the girl will most likely back out. And if you meet her in real life, she can’t swipe left to a real life conversation. She’d have to at least afford you the time of day, and hopefully, allow you (the average guy) to grow on her a little bit at a time. We’re not all Chris Hemsworth, nor are we Michael B. Jordan; we’re not supposed to be. Just be yourself and the right one will be there when the time is right. If not, you’d have to remember that that is why baby mamma’s are a real thing nowadays since they turn down the average middle man for the top guys. Top guys are no better than me or you. They can still take advantage of a woman’s affection if their ego is never put in check by these head over heel women. So, improve as a man, don’t make excuses; if you need to stop complaining about how life isn’t fair, then stop doing that. Eventually, the world can be changed because men can build their potential to become better protectors, fathers, brothers, uncles, husbands, etc. keep going strong my guys 💪🏽🙏🏽💯🤙🏽

  • @Ad-Ac
    @Ad-Ac 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I stopped using dating apps around 2016, I can't imagine going back to that. I rather have a splendid isolation and live the rest of my life alone, than create an account on Tinder or some other silly platform.

  • @Matt-vp6eq
    @Matt-vp6eq ปีที่แล้ว +887

    The problem is: womens use of make up and other appearance augmenting measures leads to an inflated sense of attractiveness. This is why we hear even extremely average or below average women claiming they want "tall dark handsome" when in reality they should be going for 5/10 blokes.

    • @ashleyschofield5474
      @ashleyschofield5474 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      100% correct!!!1

    • @BilltheFifth
      @BilltheFifth ปีที่แล้ว +56

      The deception is what makes these apps suck. After 100 dates I can tell you that women ALWAYS FUCKING LIE about their appearance and I'm over it.

    • @lwedel3361
      @lwedel3361 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Matt
      Agreed.
      I don’t wear make up. Make up is sorcery lol and a major deception tool. Women should be required to submit one make up free picture lol

    • @SongSteel
      @SongSteel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, I feel the "self-inflation" of attractiveness is definitely a big part. Even without makeup, it's a commonly known and well-researched phenomenon - people will tend to rate themselves higher than average (usually 7/10), even if they are perfectly average or under-average.
      If it makes you feel better though, parts of this video that are inherently misleading or straight-up wrong if you understand how human perception works.
      The subject is quite average in terms of looks. There's a lot of research done on this topic, but the fact is that if you think someone is "just above average" they are probably just average. And I don't think everything else is particularly impressive either - the only *real* strength he has is his tall height, and that is even offset by some of the other profile points that make him less approachable. No offense to your friend, but it seems like he is as average as can be (which is normal), so it is only to be expected that he isn't getting tons of girls on these dating apps. In an environment where there are many more girls than guys, it makes sense that girls are more "choosy" and your average male isn't getting many hits. It's simply logical - he's not as "good" as the video makes him out to be, and being perfectly average on a dating app usually doesn't cut it.

    • @zekie106
      @zekie106 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      lol true, i can vouch for this and im a straight guy.
      I'm into alt fashion right now (kinda goth) and use eyeliner, nail polish, and other accessories like earrings
      I'd say I'm a 6/10 in terms of looks... but slightly above average in terms of my body since I work out. But because of my fashion style, I scored some hot girls through tinder
      I guess styling yourself really does make a difference 🤷‍♂️

  • @bendover7841
    @bendover7841 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He's 6'3" too. Pack it up boys.

  • @titustaddhaustaddltentakel9987
    @titustaddhaustaddltentakel9987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I tried it with some dating apps. I'm 6'4, skinny, had long blonde hair, lived in a small town but had my radar on for big cities close by. The only two "dates" I got were with a single mom, freshly broken out of a relationship and dumb as a loaf of toast and a 22 year old who was a highschool dropout and I meet neither more than twice. I stopped using these apps, found a girlfriend and realized, after that relationship went to shits, that talking to people, rather than texting or just showing my face, is my key. Humor, witts, knowledge, some wisdom and of course listening to people and figuring out what makes them sad or happy.

    • @xannecorinnex
      @xannecorinnex 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did you end up meeting your girlfriend?

    • @titustaddhaustaddltentakel9987
      @titustaddhaustaddltentakel9987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@xannecorinnex I meet her via a different friend of mine. She introduced us to each other without thinking she'd start seeing me after leaving her bf at the time. I'm not proud of that btw.

  • @ChristiansPlaymo-Ecke
    @ChristiansPlaymo-Ecke 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Just 290 matched" yeah I stoped at this point.

  • @x00oox
    @x00oox ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I'm scared to grow up and experience dating in these modern times, especially as an introvert 😬

    • @joshpatrick8809
      @joshpatrick8809 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same here...I'm 36 and just started...it's as bad as they say. Most women won't even have a conversation anymore, even though they lose absolutely nothing but time. I have gotten about 5 matches in 3 months and I'm not that great looking...one date (she was new to dating, too and an introvert as well, but wasn't what I wanted as she was also too busy to date and seemed indifferent), but the other women...one was an absolute racist...one wanted friends with benefits, but wouldn't be my first (I'm a virgin, too), and one wanted to control everything in my life after only 2 days of conversation.
      Still trying as I paid for 6 months and not gonna waste my money. But as it appears now...it's probably a lost cause.

    • @iamnotoforiginald9206
      @iamnotoforiginald9206 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@joshpatrick8809 brutal man

    • @stopgettingtriggered
      @stopgettingtriggered ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joshpatrick8809 are these single moms you're matching with?

    • @joshpatrick8809
      @joshpatrick8809 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stopgettingtriggered only 3 of them

    • @joshpatrick8809
      @joshpatrick8809 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth be told, I don't really mind single mom's, but I think they're looking for a single father.

  • @bobjamer8956
    @bobjamer8956 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    He has that "nice guy" look about him. When you see women on Tik Tok whining about..."Where have all the good guys gone?", especially, those who hit the Wall. It's guys like in this video they are passing up on.
    Women are in search of the Chad who is a gentleman like we're in search of the unicorn. Neither of them exist! What a messed up world this is.

    • @gaborb6577
      @gaborb6577 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like man looking for a 10/10 virgin housewife.

    • @missingperson2904
      @missingperson2904 ปีที่แล้ว

      >Neither of them exist
      Chads do exist and will sleep with these women on one night stands leaving them "alpha" widows. These chad-sexual roasties are dooming us all.

    • @mjkittredge
      @mjkittredge ปีที่แล้ว

      Women only want nice after they've been ravaged by abusive men. And it's usually a short stint with the nice ones, they want to get back to the overconfident, macho, highly aggressive men (who will abuse them again). And the cycle repeats

    • @williambreeze2659
      @williambreeze2659 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He does give off that nice guy vibe 👍

    • @WillThat
      @WillThat ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Every girl is probably thinking, "He looks like a nice guy I can settle for at 30." "And that's you!"

  • @ThorsShadow
    @ThorsShadow 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I used to use multiple dating apps for YEARS. Got a few handful of matches. Only one turned into anything, which was a friendship.
    Everyone else matched and then didn't respond to the first message or made me break my back by carrying a conversation.

  • @MathGPT
    @MathGPT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The secret to matching more on the apps is to have epic photos that tell a story. Women are always interested when you present an endearing narrative; your looks are only part of their judgement

  • @chrisnamaste3572
    @chrisnamaste3572 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I can confirm this is 100% accurate in Western countries. Even 6-7 years ago it was not this bad. Tinder and tinderization of the market.

    • @ihatelensflare
      @ihatelensflare ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's not just tinder. It's Instagram and tiktok. Most women don't open tinder because it's overwhelming and they can't handle the choice paralysis. It only gets worse over time as they simply keep accruing more followers.

    • @chrisnamaste3572
      @chrisnamaste3572 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ihatelensflare Then they hit the Willie Coyote moment....splat.

    • @coops1992
      @coops1992 ปีที่แล้ว

      @lgbtq_hitlеr Yeah we should. A Chad is a Chad anywhere in the world not just England or USA.

  • @CybrZone
    @CybrZone ปีที่แล้ว +180

    It's not just online dating. In previous generations the average man had something to offer with stability on a single wage. Nowadays, what does the average man actually have to offer? government welfare, women's hypergamy out of control and average men are living extremely lonely lives. All women have intrinsic value which is sex (juggernaut law), chad has intrinsic value with superior genetics, but what inherent value does the average man have? No wonder men end up exiting life.

    • @AbcAbc-th4yl
      @AbcAbc-th4yl ปีที่แล้ว

      The average man is not needed because the gubmint provides women with everything. The enemy of man is actually government, men need to adopt the anarchist mindset

    • @rogerm3708
      @rogerm3708 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Over a year ago when everybody was wearing masks, much younger women would confuse me with being younger because I have a full head of hair (hardly any gray) and physically fit. I went into a market to purchase a few items after hiking in my shorts. The woman at the cash register starts criticizing the high fat content of the cream cheese I purchased. I explain to her that I am on a high fat, moderate protein, low carb diet. I walked away wondering why she was even talking to me. After I got home and replayed our interaction I realized she was sh*t testing me. I am so accustomed to women having poor attitudes, I don't know when they are hitting on me

    • @bobsmithy9024
      @bobsmithy9024 ปีที่แล้ว

      Codeoncommand,
      Your logic is flawed. Most women on the planet date average men. This is evidenced by going outside and seeing looks matched couples.
      Average is the most common of anything. Average has to be 51 percent or higher of anything. Arguably 90 percent or higher. It's impossible for the vast majority of women to date/marry outside the 90 percent average.
      Black pill TH-camr Travis Blackpill has questioned the very essence of black pill. He's currently making YT videos debunking women dating chad and chad lite men. He argues the vast majority of women date average oofy doofy guys. The guy has revealed the deep flaw/truth at the heart of black pill. The truth is women date average looka/average income men not chad. I accept if you're 3 out of 10 on benefits you may prove the black pill is true but Travis Blackpill maintains women date oofy doofy men (arguably 4 to 6 looks). Travis is the most black pilled guy I've ever seen on TH-cam and even he has conceded women date average looking men.

    • @AZITHEMLGPRO
      @AZITHEMLGPRO ปีที่แล้ว +15

      & don’t forget the money printing

    • @Phoenix-ii8ff
      @Phoenix-ii8ff ปีที่แล้ว +16

      lol i love the expression "exiting life"

  • @Johnpeterson803
    @Johnpeterson803 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the video you've saved me money and time.

  • @YouLousyKids
    @YouLousyKids 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Average? That is a fit, handsome guy with a full head of nice hair. If he told me he was cast as the next James Bond, I'd believe him. That he rates himself as average means he is also humble. I'm only a minute into this video as I write this and I can already tell this is going to be brutal. If THAT guy can't get any women...

    • @QH96
      @QH96 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Most men are overweight or obese, so I was surprised that he was described as average.

    • @matelinec
      @matelinec 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What? He's around a 6, which is above average. Male actors and models are 7+, women counterparts are 8+. Cast as the next James Bond...? Come on. That being said I'm still surprised at his lack of matches since there are a lot of 6/10 women who should be matching with him

    • @matelinec
      @matelinec 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@QH96well, so are most women in America, but I don't think we should consider a woman who is totally average looking in the face to be "above average" just because she's not obese.

    • @QH96
      @QH96 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@matelinec women who are slim should be considered above average because the average is a fatty

    • @YouLousyKids
      @YouLousyKids 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@QH96 Exactly right. "Average" is average, and in America, average is not athletic and thin.

  • @taylorc2542
    @taylorc2542 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Hey Wheat Waffles, could you do an experiment where you make two identical male profiles, but make one say "bus driver" and make another say "investment banker". It would be great to quantify how much difference money makes.

    • @nocap2174
      @nocap2174 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They did one where someone changed one thing from his profile: he added that he was a home owner. The difference was stark

    • @Ri-hr4uy
      @Ri-hr4uy ปีที่แล้ว +21

      what's so interesting about being a betabux?

    • @nothanksfools
      @nothanksfools ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Ri-hr4uy lots of blackpillers argue that moneymaxxing doesn't work. I agree in the terms of a long term relationship but if you can fake it well enough I belive you can get consistent one night stands.

    • @Sefetriex
      @Sefetriex ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nocap2174 where can I find it? Could you link it?

    • @HateDietPepsi
      @HateDietPepsi ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If the bus driver is a tatted up ex-con and spends his free time smoking dubbies he would win.

  • @Krelian4400
    @Krelian4400 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Modern dating is getting to the point where all you can really do is looksmaxx best you can and hope someone takes an interest in you. Women have such absurd abundance and so much access to Chad that any kind of dating strategy is a joke.

    • @mjkittredge
      @mjkittredge ปีที่แล้ว +5

      getting lots of money helps too. It's difficult to be charming or interesting or confident if it doesn't come naturally.

    • @johnblah1040
      @johnblah1040 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Alex same Lmfao

    • @andradeb2695
      @andradeb2695 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Men shouldn't waste their time and energy on women that don't like you. Just focus on you

    • @James_36
      @James_36 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alex they are not, there is a reason simping has become a thing. I often wonder the guys who claim to check out, whether secretly those guys are out there simping like fck.

  • @hansgans658
    @hansgans658 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the video.

  • @Jay_Z.
    @Jay_Z. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just clicked on this video and I got a Hinge and Bumblebee dating app ad, while having yet to finish this video! Ya, NO I'm good on the apps but I'll watch this video!😂

  • @unkivv4376
    @unkivv4376 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Not using dating apps is just gonna make it easier for women to find chad , at the end of the day women can't lose

    • @renegade2325
      @renegade2325 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      exactly, just filtering out the undesirables. As they say, " the cream rises to the top "

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On dating apps, maybe. But not in real life. To fix women's perception of average attractiveness, men need to stop simping. Exiting the scam that are dating apps is a step in the right direction.

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Btw, not every woman can have chad for LTRs, especially if she's a becky.

    • @unkivv4376
      @unkivv4376 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Michael_the_Drunkard yeah , also a small percentage of chads engage in a relationship due to the unlimited options they have and yes chad will only get in a relationship with his looksmatch

    • @renegade2325
      @renegade2325 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Michael_the_Drunkard no, doesn’t mean she won’t cheat on you with chad. That’s what a lot of women do. Marry a less desirable man who can provide, and is caring and kind etc. Then cheat on him with chad. That way they get both their needs fulfilled.

  • @190roverk
    @190roverk ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Years ago, before tinder was super popular I went on a blind date with what is now my wife. We hit it off right away. We're both normal people, have great careers earning six figures each, children together, and now a home. I feel like nowadays we would have never matched based of how these apps work. They're designed to keep the user in an infinite loop and paying to play like some sort of casino. I got super lucky finding a quality girl, but my advice would be to stay off these apps.

    • @DavidSmith-by3is
      @DavidSmith-by3is ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Goooood for youuuuu.
      But yes you are correct. All about money. I’ve had tinder say the same 20 people have liked me for 2 years. Everything is a scheme now days.

    • @fuddyduddy306
      @fuddyduddy306 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly, there's a reason why the creator of Bumble is a billionaire. The apps are designed on a dopamine reward system like slot machines.

    • @realistically9091
      @realistically9091 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ur beta bux

  • @aaronyang8931
    @aaronyang8931 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree with you, I have been to 20 first dates but all of them never converted into something serious, the main reason is that the dating app tricked me into thinking "there is a better person on the next swipe", so instead of settling down, I have tremendous option to keep on swiping and go on forever, this is an issue. Or maybe I should terminate at some point and working on the existing girls but they just did not catch my attention after conversing at the first date, idk

  • @4Everlast
    @4Everlast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Social engineering at it's finest, produced desired results. The goal was soft world-wide depopulation by any means 24/7.

    • @rocknrollresignation93
      @rocknrollresignation93 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly right. It's all about depopulation at the end of the day.

    • @4Everlast
      @4Everlast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@rocknrollresignation93 100% Depopulation as they take as many of our freedoms as possible and reserving all they wanna take from us, for them selves, the 1%.

    • @vannhantran547
      @vannhantran547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rocknrollresignation93 how there will be more than 5 billion people in 2100

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Someone knows the dark truth about this world

    • @4Everlast
      @4Everlast 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@gregkareem9824 They either don't want or can't hide it any more. I was 8 when I saw the towers go down, even as a kid, and a European in Europe, something told me I need to watch it, there's something big going on... The truth is quite clear... If anyone wants to be a big step closer to whom took those towers down, ask Juliani who told him tower 7 needs to go.
      Considering you need weeks and months to set up the demo of such a building, it's pretty fkn clear who did it. The same folks who had an office in there, a 3 letter agency that starts with C...
      That was just the tip of it all.

  • @croatiancroissant28776
    @croatiancroissant28776 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I did well getting matches and dates on these sites. At least twice a week. My coworker calls me a Chad, in fact. I’m here to tell everybody that going into a dating app is like going into a grocery store where all the food is half eaten and returned spoiled. I stopped. I really don’t go for women in person anymore, either. Your perfect girl will come along organically, and you’ll have a real relationship come from it. These women are out of their damn minds. They all think they’re 10’s. We need to stop putting every pretty girl on a pedestal and start demanding a personality from them. For now, the well has been poisoned. Don’t bother. Reach your goals and enjoy your hobbies. Those are worthy investments.

    • @MixMeister5000
      @MixMeister5000 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Big facts!

    • @ronja_kkat
      @ronja_kkat ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Let's not compare women to food okay

    • @shasmi93
      @shasmi93 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @Stevey The Ex-Eevee let’s not. Food is one of the joys of life. Women usually drain that from men. Bad comparison.

    • @HelloOki
      @HelloOki ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When society stop fat shaming, age shaming, rating women on a scale of 1 to ten (objectifying) maybe they will focus on their character. But for centuries women have been reduced to looks, not character

    • @shasmi93
      @shasmi93 ปีที่แล้ว

      So basically you want 4.5 billion men to against what thousands of years of evolution have programmed into us. What got us this far to begin with. You want us to just shut that off …? Ok swell plan.