5 Classy Behaviors Men Always Notice in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive

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  • @reneecaines9097
    @reneecaines9097 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1374

    I started ballroom dancing recently and there us an aspect I love and have missed. When dancing the men comes ask for a dance, then when dance is done they walk you back and thank you for dancing with them. I feel so feminine and cared for. I am trying to find that feeling outside of the ballroom when it comes to dating.

    • @CelineSuphai-iz9yo
      @CelineSuphai-iz9yo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😮

    • @BlueRivers-xg2rt
      @BlueRivers-xg2rt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good luck because modern men lack class.

    • @lilianwal2385
      @lilianwal2385 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@cheriem432hahahaha

    • @gerrimiller3491
      @gerrimiller3491 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Have you noticed any potential gentleman at your dance lessons that you may want to get to know more of? Sometimes we have to show a little interest in a suddle way. I believe you are close to meeting a good companion 😊

    • @reneecaines9097
      @reneecaines9097 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@cheriem432Thanks 😊

  • @anidilollo5478
    @anidilollo5478 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1052

    Lol the "do they think we don't know how much time has passed??" Cracked me up. I had a guy ghost me once--big time--and then A YEAR LATER texted me like "hey what's up". I did literally say, "who is this". He said his first name only (very common name) and when I asked for his last name he said, "oh, I thought we had a great connection but I guess not if you don't remember me." The audacity knew no bounds. I blocked him.

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Try Years, yes years. At the time, they had said he had a girlfriend (which his sibling was sent in to tell me) to which I just nodded like ok, fine. Then left him be. Well his sibling has popped in periodically at my office (we’re in the same field and their company does business with ours) but their sibling has visited maybe twice a yr for few years cause I didn’t chase after. Like hey, don’t forget me… which is how people used to be years ago. Remained friendly.

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      You should have said if it was so great, where have you been for the past year?! 🙄🙄

    • @Julybaby12619
      @Julybaby12619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      LOVE your response to this lazy, lazy man!

    • @simoneharlow
      @simoneharlow หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Hey ladies plot twist 🎉 YOU ARE ALREADY MAGNETIC I SWEAR BUT YOU DONT BELIEVE IT YET💯if you are watching this, then go within and find the love within yourself. You don’t need to seek advice from other people literally make your own rules. You have that power. There are no absolutes in this world, and there are no things that ALL people find wildly attractive click off this freaking video, and make your own rules you can do it I believe in you ❤

    • @artstudiogirl784
      @artstudiogirl784 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Just looking for a booty call. Glad you drop kicked him!

  • @tiffanyb.7596
    @tiffanyb.7596 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +540

    My husband told me, One of the main reasons he asked me out on a second date is because my phone kept going off on our first date, but I didn’t answer it… I just kept talking with him & having a great time. 🥰

    • @WynneL
      @WynneL 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      See, that sounds like a potentially brilliant strategy. Get a friend to text you during your date a few times; maybe trade it back and forth if you're both dating. You can say it's an emergency if the date is awful and leave ("my friend just got dumped and she needs me"), or you can ignore it and impress upon your date that they're interesting to you if it's going awesome.

    • @living7063
      @living7063 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@WynneL gotta write it down now

    • @AdrianaCowick
      @AdrianaCowick 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@WynneLNow that’s just manipulative. No no

  • @esencialnizdravi8608
    @esencialnizdravi8608 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +733

    “You are the priority, not an option”.. well said!

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Proceeds to say you have multiple options as a women

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Any time a guy treats me like I am an option I remove myself from the equation entirely. If there's someone he wants more than me he can HAVE her. I will wait for the guy that WANTS me.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@hemantks4353😂 that's the point. Get over yourself dude.

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@UnashamedCaliforniagirl What's the point? Women having multiple options?

  • @DaniElleBeesBuzz
    @DaniElleBeesBuzz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +738

    Be who you really are and you will attract the best person for you.

    • @Serenity5
      @Serenity5 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      That is really the only thing a person has to do.

    • @melissabryant2251
      @melissabryant2251 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Not working for sooo many women. Men want skinny red carpet looks and pass over good women.

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That didn’t work for me 😭😭

    • @prader1330
      @prader1330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Ultimately yes. That's the best way. She's eventually going to find the real you so might as well get it over with early on and save everybody time if you're not her "thing." Hell, if I'm not her type there's a really good chance she's not mine anyway.

    • @shaunilashaye1976
      @shaunilashaye1976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree ❤

  • @TahoeSnowbird
    @TahoeSnowbird 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +442

    I fell in love with my husband 55 years ago because his first kiss was a promise he would love, cherish and protect me all our lives. It's a promise he kept for 52 years before God called him to his eternal home. When I told that story, some friends asked if it was the first time I was kissed. I' ve been kissed 3 times before by 3 different guys. I don't even remember how I felt the first time I was kissed.

    • @Julybaby12619
      @Julybaby12619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Wow.... What a beautiful story about your first kiss with your husband of 52 years. It's so true that we remember the first kiss/kisses that Really stood out to us as women, and it's usually because the man made us feel truly special, and time told us that it was REAL.

    • @WynneL
      @WynneL 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      So many guys seem to think physical touch is some kind of permanent seal, but your story proves the opposite. Touch is easily forgotten when it means nothing, and NEVER forgotten when it is given with a full heart. My covert narcissist ex, I remember nothing of the boredom of his touch. Conversely, many years later I have strong and vivid memories of my first experience with true love.

    • @peacelovejoyandhappiness
      @peacelovejoyandhappiness 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉intense story I loved reading this.

  • @MsPossums
    @MsPossums 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +600

    Opening the door is good manners and says alot about a man. Trust me.

    • @minakumari9866
      @minakumari9866 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      what if he opens door only for me like it not coincidence i have noticed it with other women too ,he doent open fo them .dosent give them as much as space to pass around through the door. but if i enter he just swoops in the side to give me full space. im confued is it bad that he treats other peopel differntly or i it good that he traet me speacially

    • @patmanchester8045
      @patmanchester8045 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@minakumari9866 I can't stand it when any person opens a door and then lets it slam in the face of the next person. If there is a long line that you get stuck holding the door for. Just comment that you need to get to your friend and could someone else do it now.
      when a man, or any one, opens a door for opens the door you, I see it to be good manners that if he opens one door for you, you hold the next one for him. this is especially easy when you have to push and not pull the door to open it. It also nicely sets you as his equal. It also lets him show if he can be comfortable with it and is appreciative. If not, rethink things about your relationship.
      also remember any person ( male or female) shows their BEST side in the dating process and shows their REAL side in marriage.
      I also pay attention to waitstaff. These people work hard for little pay. Just because you may leave a big tip, doesn't mean you have to be rude or dismissive.
      I believe all these things should be taken seriously by both sexes. women should be polite, thoughtful, friendly , and helpful too.

    • @jasmines4493
      @jasmines4493 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂 about the camel. You are too funny

    • @sreyaprem
      @sreyaprem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@minakumari9866 he is not a good person then

    • @sreyaprem
      @sreyaprem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesn't. I have experience.

  • @lillllllllllllllllllllllllli
    @lillllllllllllllllllllllllli 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +144

    i think one of the biggest problems in our modern time is the way the media forces women to act like men. femininity is so often seen as "weak" or "dumb", while this actually is what makes most of us women the happiest.

    • @TheOReport1994
      @TheOReport1994 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The media tells young girls and women that they should act like men (because they're equal to men, while preaching that women are 'stronger; than men but having them compare themselves to a 'lesser'(by their standards) thing to prove that they're stronger. . . . , but then they wonder why men aren't interested in them.
      Hmmmmmmm. . . . . I wonder why!
      In all seriousness though, men and women are equally strong in different ways, and that's what makes a relationship and/or marriage work!

    • @blueshoes5145
      @blueshoes5145 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      The issue doesn’t stem from media but society. Femininity has been viewed as weak by men because the roles society gives women are usually not the stronger ones. So, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out the comparison to weakness.
      It becomes problematic when that transfers into THEIR perspective on OUR actions and thoughts, our likes and dislikes and in our strengths and weaknesses. And that creates an unsafe/uncomfortable environment for women. When a woman feels safe she can be feminine.

    • @thulasibai6136
      @thulasibai6136 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True.A human can be shy,cry,bold,fearless,sassy,sensitive etc whatever their gender and sexuality.Women with nice and strong personality are feminine and men with nice and strong personality are masculine.

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +310

    I appreciate a man with good manners who will open the door for me. Always smile and say thank you.

  • @user-sw6jm8hj2p
    @user-sw6jm8hj2p 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +64

    As a young woman, i always opens the doors for anyone, and appreciate others doing that for me. Who gets mad at that? Insanity

    • @TheOReport1994
      @TheOReport1994 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I've learned by witnessing other women getting offended by men holding doors open for them, then they have huge problems! Men, run from this! This is the first, and major red flag!
      Don't try to date someone who gets offended by you holding a door open for them!

    • @menmanom
      @menmanom 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tiktok kids do XD like, i tick it as a beige kinda i cant say red, but lighter flag if they dont open a door for me (a man) or if they dont pour my drink or smth like, literally thats bare minimum. Act luke a gemtleman dont be like i have a lot of money im bulky im this that blabla, show it stupid show it, dont just talk.

  • @FP65
    @FP65 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +646

    I have seen women, (it’s always young indoctrinated women) who get mad at men for opening their door. I’m an older woman really appreciate a gentleman. Any man who opens the door for me, I look him straight in the eye and thank him for being a gentleman. Men aren’t toxic contrary to what young women are being taught.

    • @LLCoolJ_25
      @LLCoolJ_25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      Do they really get mad? I’ll be 25 next month and I’ve never seen women of any age get mad at this. I know this all based on personal experience. That’s just crazy, if they do. I know I’ve seen it portrayed in recent movies. “I can open my own car door” is not a flex. Just arrogant and we don’t need to be hyper independent all the time. I always thank men when they’re chivalrous. But I never expect them to be because of the fight between men and women.🙄 I work in corporate America and when I’m on elevators, from what I’ve observed, millennial men do not allow for women to go first. I’ve only gotten on the elevator with one other gen z guy and he was really kind to everyone. The gen x and boomer men always allow women (and men) to go before them.

    • @dmdr11
      @dmdr11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      I'm in my 60s and I open doors for *people*, men AND women. We have had a patriarchal society since the beginning of time and a male-dominated society continues to exist today. That, to me, is responsible for the inequality that women suffer and, believe me, inequality has affected my life in many arenas. So, it's not about "getting mad at men for opening doors". I just do not want to perpetuate that inequality.

    • @michellebatzel5809
      @michellebatzel5809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dmdr11No wonder the world is in the toilet, your generation helped it happen! Men and women aren’t equal. That exact brainwashed mentality is why men pretending to be women are in women’s sports. You’re probably also jabbed aren’t you?

    • @armystrong6809
      @armystrong6809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women aren’t being “indoctrinated “. To the contrary it seems they’ve arrived at their own conclusions. I raised a young woman and not once have I “indoctrinated “ her. That comment is offensive, rude and quite frankly out of touch with reality. If you want to live under strict and rigid patriarchal gender rules by all means go for it, but the days of men having full reign and power and privilege over women are over.

    • @mellocello187
      @mellocello187 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well clearly some are. Read the news.

  • @dmdr11
    @dmdr11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +246

    Boy, am I ever grateful that my man and I are balanced in our "feminine and masculine" energies. We don't need to even think in those terms. There's no game playing, no calculating, no worrying about offending anyone or emasculating anyone. We each like to feel needed, valued, respected, and taken care of... and we do that for each other.

    • @chiarac3833
      @chiarac3833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's a good relationship. I know, because I'm in a good relationship as well. My lovey puts me first because I put him first.

    • @dmdr11
      @dmdr11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's nice, but you should always put yourSelf first, ;), not as in "being selfish", but as loving yourself first because it's only when you love yourself first that you can properly love another person. @@chiarac3833

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you! This is how it should be.

    • @dmdr11
      @dmdr11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Himmiefan I know. This "balancing of masculine and feminine energies" b.s. is de rigueur now in all these so-called "relationship coaches'" videos. I think they have all piggy-backed on Gray's "Venus/Mars" idiocy to make it sound more relevant.

    • @nathalian.7209
      @nathalian.7209 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dmdr11 why do you need to turn down the concept of "masculine and feminine" to feel good about your relationship? this concept actually work for a lot of men and women. Why would you diminish a concept that fits other couples to say your relationship is good?

  • @thekrystalmethod
    @thekrystalmethod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +247

    The phone thing - if I’m with someone, I will do my best to have my phone put away unless I’m showing them something funny. If I absolutely must respond to something, I will tell them “I’m not ignoring you, I’m just going to respond to this text really quick so you can have my full attention”
    I once hurt a FRIEND’S feelings so much that she scolded me about it in frustration for being on my phone while she and I were out to dinner and that moment has never left me, which is why I make it a thing now to not have my phone out if I’m out with close friends/family.

    • @MegaMisfit138
      @MegaMisfit138 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It is very good that you correct your mistakes, and are able to evolve. Some people don't. My best friend and I wanted to go to The Beatles Cirque show in Vegas forever. We finally went, and she was texting half the time! I asked her to be present in the moment. She refused. I told her it was bad show etiquette. She kinda ruined it for me. All I could think about was how embarassing and rude she was! Till the usher came and told her to put her phone away! 😂 Next day we went to a fancy restaurant. She was dressed in a skimpy beach outfit, while I'm dressed like Marilyn Monroe! I said it was customary to put a napkin in her lap. She refused, while sitting spread eagle! Then she ended up sneaking off to a room, with a man. Needless to say, I won't be attending any classy events with her!

    • @princessofgenovia1407
      @princessofgenovia1407 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I leave my phone in the trunk of my car and rely on my I watch if I must,,,,, no phones on dates!! It's so rude!!

    • @vivhiggins5656
      @vivhiggins5656 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men get in touch whith you what do you do fore a liveing how old are you were do you live,know you talk a bout thing's first till you get too know one another know dont hate men,and what a bout what a woman wont,s,

    • @JamieLynnMorris
      @JamieLynnMorris หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I put my phone on do not disturb so it's not constantly binging with notifications, but allows my starred contacts to ring through. Mainly the local sheriff's office in case my horses get out and my BFF who will know what I'm doing so will not interrupt. My time is precious, so is yours.

  • @cdeweijer12
    @cdeweijer12 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Being lighthearted is really not that difficult. True, it takes some practise to look on the bright side but it definitely helps to feel oneself happier

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It’s hard for some of us 😭😭

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@LittleLulubeeit’s called neuroplasticity. Easily explained: Fake it til you make it! The more lighthearted I am, the better I feel!! 😊

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      "Being lighthearted" does not exist without a sense of humour, -- doesn't have to be extreme, actually shouldn't be extreme, but have a sense, the _sense_ of humour. Anyone without any sense of humour at all is disqualified from being lighthearted.

  • @dalianaferrero9110
    @dalianaferrero9110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    the hard part is finding men that WANT to step up

  • @MichelleKotler
    @MichelleKotler 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    I have just started seeing a man and he did not open the car door. I finally asked if he could he please do me a favor…could he please open the car door for me? He said he would like to do that and he used to do it but so many women chastised him for it, he stopped doing it. I had a feeling he was going to say that. I told him those women weren’t fully evolved yet and I probably thought that way about 15 years ago. Sure enough, when we walked back to his car, he opened my door. 😊

    • @frenchappletarte3252
      @frenchappletarte3252 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I don't mind a man opening a door but if he opened my car door, I'd feel like a child

    • @Bergziegen35
      @Bergziegen35 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I love that you kindly asked him to open the door for you instead of being offended

    • @readerzozo410
      @readerzozo410 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@frenchappletarte3252 It’s good if he’s the one who is driving and you’re just sitting in the car

    • @chaosqueen1703
      @chaosqueen1703 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@frenchappletarte3252 Same, idk why but it's the same with them like pulling a chair out or smt. I never get mad at them for it, it's just really awkward

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    My sense of humor and witty conversation and laughter draws men like immediately, I had men say I asked you out because of your sense of humor

  • @katherinemcintosh7247
    @katherinemcintosh7247 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    This video amused me. “Men” and “Women” are individuals when they are dating. Just date people who behave in the way which compliments your behavior and is in keeping with your values.

    • @bufficliff8978
      @bufficliff8978 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Toxic individuality breeds anxiety.

    • @katherinemcintosh7247
      @katherinemcintosh7247 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bufficliff8978 “toxic individuality?”

    • @bethm3152
      @bethm3152 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Agreed. Also, toxic individuality is lack of self worth, bad self esteem, self conscious… if I’m not mistaken, it’s things that keep you from being in a healthy relationship

    • @katherinemcintosh7247
      @katherinemcintosh7247 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bethm3152 I guess I am wondering what “toxic individuality” has to do with my comment.🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @joiab11
    @joiab11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +236

    De-center your man! You will be happier and he will be enthralled

    • @NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs
      @NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ‘Your man’? Any sense of ownership is a real turnoff

    • @KjcIpswich
      @KjcIpswich 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Please explain?! What’s “de-centering” a man?!

    • @malhunt7
      @malhunt7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙄🙄🙄😴​@@NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs

    • @shobhnaenrique6458
      @shobhnaenrique6458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Don't surround your life to the man only

  • @44ashley
    @44ashley 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Being light- hearted! I think a lot of parents forget this quality when dealing with our children also. Noted, thanks. Not worried about men right now but still appreciate your advice.

  • @CF-wp7xo
    @CF-wp7xo หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I let a man do things for me , just like you said to make them feel needed (i knew how to do these things).
    However, after 20 years he resented doing all these things.he said that i didn't love him i just used him..an i was useless and couldn't take care of myself.
    Now, i really appreciate men who know that i can take care of myself and push me to do my best.

    • @saddlerrye6725
      @saddlerrye6725 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I think it's about balance, and the type of things you let them do for you. Opening doors, helping with heavy stuff at times, etc. are things that I don't think would brew much resentment. But other things, like paying for meals or taking the initiative to organize dates - if it *always* falls on one partner, I can easily see it becoming burdensome, or seem like the other is just "freeloading". It really sucks that in your case your partner just blew up one day instead of talking to you about it when he started to feel uncomfortable with it.
      I hope you found someone who makes you feel like you're your best self!

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Thanking you (Geert) Brian, I wanted to say you're light hearted ways you express all you're advice really helps me and very sure many women, relate to you even when we're looking for advice because lifes very low.
    A little light hearted humour goes a long way to make the world a brighter place 😁🕊

  • @Openhearted2024
    @Openhearted2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I like you. One of the best things we can say and hear.

  • @jessicam3707
    @jessicam3707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    This gave me a good perspective on one thing in particular - showing that I like a guy even if it’s not super clear he’s into me. I was thinking that made some guys uncomfortable and that’s why they pulled away, but now I’m thinking that they just pulled away bc it was obvious what I wanted and they didn’t want the same things with me, and they’re good guys. And maybe they like my sincerity and like me as a person instead of feeling uncomfortable and bad for me. I could definitely see that being the case. I’m going to keep being open and not pretending, it’ll probably bring me to the right guy faster. Thanks for the insight!

  • @JaxSwim1
    @JaxSwim1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I love a man who opens a door for me ❤

  • @Pamela-sb5ev
    @Pamela-sb5ev 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You have a light hearted energy. It's very refreshing. Thank you for this video 😊

  • @loria7043
    @loria7043 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Great stuff! My wonderful mother taught me to do those things, and I have taught my daughter. As my mom would say, "It's classy."

  • @germanlanguageworkshop1542
    @germanlanguageworkshop1542 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Great! Thank you.

  • @heathermerrin6654
    @heathermerrin6654 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great content, thank you Brian Nox. I love your humour and delivery.

  • @karinafoster6974
    @karinafoster6974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I love your videos and advice. Thanks. Is always nice to hear from guys point of view

  • @genevievechirelstein6537
    @genevievechirelstein6537 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Hadn’t seen you for a while. I didnt realize how much I missed your presentations. Thank you. ❤😊

  • @heatherlynne7322
    @heatherlynne7322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Great advice

  • @CLRiley-rr1gd
    @CLRiley-rr1gd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    You really are SO very helpful- as many of your tips also help married folks- to keep things positive & fresh! It is so good for us self-supporting, competent women to hear how we can allow ourselves to be more feminine, which can hieghten a man’s masculinity.
    I am still learning that one at 65!

  • @dpcssn
    @dpcssn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    It is nice to see you again, Geert... I got this video in my suggestions and thought - he sure looks like the guy that saved me from panic disorder so many years ago. Decided to click to see if it might be you and voila! I cannot thank you enough for creating that course and your other work in that area, I got so much of my life back afterwards as I am sure many others did as well. I am interested to see what you have branched out into at present. Good luck!

    • @Snappypantsdance
      @Snappypantsdance 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Aww, what a great comment:).

  • @Paralegal1
    @Paralegal1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Geert, you're terrific, and your English is PERFECT! Love your content and sense of humor!! ❤
    Thank you 😊

  • @cindyjean3208
    @cindyjean3208 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I appreciate you so much 😍

  • @pferdeklauerin
    @pferdeklauerin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Im in a relationship about four month. He is very busy and paying so much for me. I only know lovebombing until him and it takes me hard times not to seem needy, cool down and to trust, when he only want to see me one time a week. But now we are going forward. Thank you Brian.

    • @verenamaharajah6082
      @verenamaharajah6082 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      He only wants to see you once a week? He’s very busy? Paying for everything for you? I think you need to find out if he’s already married. If he’s not married or in a relationship with someone else, then you can relax a bit and enjoy your outings with him.

    • @pferdeklauerin
      @pferdeklauerin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@verenamaharajah6082 thank you. He is not married. He takes care for his little daughter twice a week, visits his mother in the rest home one time a week. I see he is very responsible, working shift. He invites me now more often, always cooking for me, takes care. Tomorrow i should get to know his grown daughters. He wants to be sure as me. It was very good for me, i see I still had to heal from traumabond a bit. I was working on my emotions to be able to let him come. Think this working good. He has a good feeling for me (he was manipulatet before also), I feel safe with him. Im happy now.

  • @ulianatkachuk9428
    @ulianatkachuk9428 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Love you Brian! You are wonderful!❤

  • @anwa6169
    @anwa6169 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Helpful and funny! Thank you for your awesome work

  • @waterlilynymph
    @waterlilynymph 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thanks Brian, got all 4 down 👌🏻
    Now…I will continue to do No Contact to my knucklehead I am in love with, as a product of #1 and #3 😂

  • @LightJoyHealing
    @LightJoyHealing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I do appreciate your videos, they are very helpful

  • @Emily-ke9xb
    @Emily-ke9xb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank youuuu, Brian!

  • @morganchristmas6299
    @morganchristmas6299 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I absolutely love your videos. Thank you so much.
    I never had a father, and have been through some terrible relationships and I'm just now stepping into my truth and learning how to say no And get away from toxic people and I just turned 28.
    Thank you from my heart ❤️

  • @onthedamsquare
    @onthedamsquare 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love your videos, thank you!!!!

  • @Lina_1517
    @Lina_1517 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love your content. Thank you ❤

  • @gypsydee9
    @gypsydee9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Brian. Haven't seen you for so long. Love your podcasts. I'm much older, and there is still plenty of advice I can use from you. Thanks!!❤

  • @TheAllanah216
    @TheAllanah216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    What a sweet man! I love his channel. ❤

  • @juliemoore6957
    @juliemoore6957 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great tips. Reminds me of the book, "The Rules".

  • @awmpropertygroup3839
    @awmpropertygroup3839 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great content. Well said. Love the humor. so true❤

  • @pnrpnr6708
    @pnrpnr6708 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The one light heartedness made everyone around me obsessed with me. My family, friends, clients. What i try to do is just not showing my stress to them and trying not to be angry. Before i was thinkimg if i have stress anger i have right to show them, behave formal to them.

    • @vedakin
      @vedakin 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You always vent and laugh about it after 😊

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great information, God Bless 🙌

  • @auberjean6873
    @auberjean6873 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Geert, thank you for your powerful videos. It's easy to forget to give up control.

  • @lanabanana6849
    @lanabanana6849 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved this helpful video ty

  • @hearthhomebykristina2233
    @hearthhomebykristina2233 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Very good video! I see so many of my friends doing the exact opposite of this advice and then end up with a real loser but not understanding why! Keep up the good work

  • @katelynbrown3404
    @katelynbrown3404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I do all of these things because they either come naturally to my personality, or because I’ve done my own work. And I’m still single as a Pringle. Lol. 😩😭 I feel like there’s something in the water where I live. Please send help. 😭😭 lol. Thank you for affirming qualities that prioritize wellbeing, joy, and safety. 💓✨

    • @living7063
      @living7063 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      looks like the same water is being supplied to my town. 😭

  • @icequeen6719
    @icequeen6719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you 🙏 you are so helpful

  • @acquadiamore
    @acquadiamore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love love love your content 💛

  • @adolfosofiao
    @adolfosofiao 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Hi Brian. Came across your channel today - god sent! You’re so right about conveying a positive energy. I’m a regular gym goer, and I’ve noticed someone that I like and I have seen around my neighbourhood for some years. It’s only recently I’ve began to see him in a more attractive way. We distantly smile at each other at the gym...I don’t anything about him. I do recall one mistake I made couple weeks ago when I went to the gym, I was in a bad mood...I walked passed him without my usual smile or a “hi”. He immediately he picked up on my demeanour and he appeared confused. I know my personality - I can be reserved and friendly and it doesn't do me any favour if I like a guy..I can become quite shy. Your teachings are very encouraging. I need to build the courage to at least ask him his name! That’s as far as I will go for now..I have no idea if he is attached..I will take it slow.

    • @KarlaEmmerson
      @KarlaEmmerson หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you asked yet 😄

    • @CharleneMarshArtist
      @CharleneMarshArtist หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wait for him to approach you. If he is interested and available, he will. If not, you are wasting your time.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@CharleneMarshArtist I am a man, and from a man's perspective, we need some indication that the woman is a potential positive result, some hint, some clue, and regardless of everything, being congenial or sociable always, ALWAYS improves your chances and makes society more livable too.

    • @CharleneMarshArtist
      @CharleneMarshArtist 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@mtlicq I appreciate a man's perspective. And agree. For a man to approach a woman, he is taking a big risk on being rejected. A woman must react in a positive, friendly manner when a man approaches. But if there is no initial attraction on his part, it won't go anywhere. My experience is that a man will observe a woman from afar before approaching and assess if she is congenial and sociable. So when he approaches, he has some assurance that she will be kind and friendly and see where it goes. From my perspective, someone becomes attractive based on their personality, humour, intelligence, compassion, morals, service, etc.
      I just started at a new gym and a man has approached me a couple of times. Very casual, not sure if it goes anywhere and not connected to any outcome. I also have some male and female friends (married and single) who go to the gym and we end up chatting a lot about local politics, health, diet, etc. I'm pretty friendly to everyone and many (including strangers) are helpful towards me and I think that radiates to any observers. And, YES, makes society a much more happy, livable place! 🙂

  • @UrsaBella
    @UrsaBella 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    loving someone and sharing feelings with them is not obsessive...provided the love is mutual....

  • @lindabidwell6722
    @lindabidwell6722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I stop and WAIT for the man to open the door. I'm a southern woman.❤

    • @8jaime8
      @8jaime8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Love that! That’s a big-brain solution right there - giving them the opportunity to show themselves to be gentlemen.
      I live in the U.K. and it’s still normal for men to open doors here, thank God. When my friend and I first arrived here in 2004, we had men at the train station running up and offering to carry our bags whenever we approached a staircase. They wanted nothing from us but to help. It was incredibly lovely.
      Men are capable of being so much better than they are given credit for. Smart women like you help them along in the right direction!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I wanted to open the door for a woman, but the door was automatic ! 🤔

    • @Ravencycle21
      @Ravencycle21 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too❤

  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just found your channel, and I LOVE your vids ❤💕🥰

  • @kikitaube-hansen
    @kikitaube-hansen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you. So true😘.

  • @sharonmiller5327
    @sharonmiller5327 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good advice ty❤

  • @marylafrance9547
    @marylafrance9547 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    love that "who are you?"

  • @Morbid_Alice
    @Morbid_Alice 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sound advice, Sir. Very pleasant to listen too, when it popped up randomly. I hope everyone in the comments are not being to hard on yourselves and are have a peaceful day.
    Yawl may be one person in the world, but you are the world to one.

  • @yvonnejapin6403
    @yvonnejapin6403 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your advice !!! ❤❤ to be honest I applied them for not being in control with is very 👌 perfect and now I can see we don’t have any fights

  • @katnui
    @katnui 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I wanted to add for the getting him to pick a restaurant... I've found it helpful sometimes to narrow it down with a few *types* of food you might be feeling. Like Italian or Greek 😅

    • @chiarac3833
      @chiarac3833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Good point. I'm lucky, my lovey knows what I like and he always finds new and exciting places to go. Never a dull moment!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Or German or Chinese

  • @voice-of
    @voice-of 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your sense of humor 😂😂

  • @orange462
    @orange462 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg thankyou god for recommending me this video and i subscribed to your channel ❤🎉

  • @SobiaMM
    @SobiaMM 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks

  • @yorkiepuppykisses
    @yorkiepuppykisses 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I always attract a lot of men because I LOVE being in my feminine energy and letting the man be the man.

  • @kristiehonsinger8598
    @kristiehonsinger8598 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yes, man opening the door for you 😍

  • @aavvcc
    @aavvcc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When is your next book (or even some TH-cam videos) about navigating long term relationships coming out?

  • @legaleagle7896
    @legaleagle7896 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    great! You're hilarious Geert!

  • @enjennyr2949
    @enjennyr2949 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Not you bringing up the roman empire LOL!!! I love these videos and it is so validating for me! Thank you!!

  • @cinderling5472
    @cinderling5472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love you Geert ❤🎉 Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

  • @AKHWJ3ST
    @AKHWJ3ST 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    When we were dating, I told my husband to open the car door for me. After we were married, it never happened again. Why? Because I didn't tell him to. I thought he would on his own, but he didn't. Ladies don't trust men to do these things. If they are a good man, they will. Trust me.

  • @dianakurland2500
    @dianakurland2500 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great channel

  • @oglemedaris
    @oglemedaris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love❤ what have to say! I'm going to try this stuff on my husband after 25 years!😂😊

  • @SmithWR-ti3gl
    @SmithWR-ti3gl 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What stress me out is when you're trying to tell your man you're having problems with your car. And you're a single mom and you're saying I need help. And they're like oh I can point you in a direction. Instead of saying oh don't worry I got this come with me. I'll take you to the shop and we'll work something out. Because every time women go to the car shop we tend to get taken advantage of. So you telling me meaning you don't care? You're not going to try to help me and I have to change a tire myself or do the oil myself or figure out this thing myself like a man😢 I don't want to have to do that

  • @user-sj6kg2tu9e
    @user-sj6kg2tu9e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Uh so true
    Just a bit eghr when already did so many mistakes 🙈
    It’s a great lesson
    Thank you !!!❤

  • @minouchan
    @minouchan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video :)

  • @Khadiner100
    @Khadiner100 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @KathrynFritze
    @KathrynFritze 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Love your exaggerations🤣

  • @chionodoxa6772
    @chionodoxa6772 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love when a man holds the door for me. Equality of rights doesn't mean that courtesy has to be replaced by rudeness. I hold the door too!
    About being light-hearted : I have spent two years with a man who spent almost all the time complaining about his job. Sometimes over a full week-end, even a full week of vacation. Most of the times from morning till he falls asleep in the night. And the rest of the time, talking only about his topics of interest. I have shown lots of interest and he has enjoyed conversations. But I have also tried to bring up other topics, my own interest, but he has repeatedly dismissed any attempt, bashing me, bashing the topic, whatever. It is difficult to be light-hearted when you face such situations each time you meet, and when it continues in written conversations. When I complained, he did not accept critics. He reacted saying he will talk no more about his 'bullshit topics'.. and each time we met again, he did exactly like before again. I stopped feeling like spending time with him...

  • @kellywilson5301
    @kellywilson5301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this guy. He is very funny and interesting talk about the relation.😅

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Have a show on what we do when we have too many??? It’s overwhelming us!!! Right now I’m entertaining one and seeing how that goes.

  • @NS-neversaynever
    @NS-neversaynever 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're so positive. I like you.
    Yeah. No, not that I'm into you, but I like the way you explain things. Simple, easy, with no extra promises and annoying adds.
    By the way, I love one guy, I tell him how I feel but he doesn't believe me. It's so sad he had many girls before me who were unreliable and untrusted.

  • @maryharper9321
    @maryharper9321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I find when you bring your full attention to a person you needn’t push to be an interviewer it will flow if you listen

  • @pimpumpame3864
    @pimpumpame3864 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You read my mind about the Roman Empire 😂

  • @dianecourtney2724
    @dianecourtney2724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like you and your channel 😂✌🏼

  • @jamiearonson923
    @jamiearonson923 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Way to sneak the Roman Empire trend in there!!! So funny :)

  • @gamelakissy2076
    @gamelakissy2076 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    7:00 - Self-love is stress reliever

  • @georgia_rain
    @georgia_rain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope to see you in other videos with different shirt and color 😄

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're right and we take each other for granted and we need to say please and thank you and do you mind and can you help me please. Just showing kindness at all times. Just like if you would a stranger

  • @Keira88
    @Keira88 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤great video

  • @gigitijarain
    @gigitijarain 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Chapters pls

  • @CLGlitter76
    @CLGlitter76 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Brilliant advice as always. My life is full enough, a guy will be very lucky to fit into my life 😊

  • @robinchilds7492
    @robinchilds7492 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My last relationship was with a covert narcissist. He never stepped up for me but he was always trying to impress other women. I tried talking to him about it. He would storm out of the room.

    • @idid138
      @idid138 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sounds like a blatant narcissist. He wanted you to accept that. Be glad that's over!