As a SO 1, I have listened to this one many times on my commute to work so I could really learn and understand the subtypes better (shocking, right?!) and then I told my husband if he wanted to crawl into my head and understand me he should watch it too! He did. This is so accurate and I am thankful for the perspectives - especially outlining where we have to do the work. Can't wait for the other numbers to be published. I've already listened to 1 (me and my son-in-law), 2 (our daughter),6 (my husband), and 9 (daughter-in-law). All great!! Thank you so much.
My husband is a SO 1 and he does not feel like a judger to me, but maybe more of an unintentional micromanager. It is more that he has a "perfect" way of doing whatever he does because he has spent hours researching the best way, and that is how he does it every time. Then he shows the rest of us how it should be done, preferrably when we are in the process of working on a project or something like making dinner. :) I always thought he was a 5 before he took his IeQ9, but the description of a SO 1 on the test feedback was spot on. A 1 is supposed to go to 7 in growth, but I don't ever see him go to 7. What does it look like when a 1 goes to 7? My mom is also a Type 1 (Also seems like a 6) and she is very much a perfectionist, and no matter how hard I tried, I didn't feel like I could make her happy. They both have a lot of really good and respectable traits that I admire.
My experience of going to 7 as a 1 is I become much more open-minded to different ways of doing things and realize there are multiple “right “ ways. I also become less rigid and more spontaneous, more open to new possibilities and adventure. I am comfortable and happy to say no to work and yes to fun and relaxation. I no longer treat work as most important. Just one of many important things in my life. I also am likely to share funny stories with those I am close to. My sense of humor is more accessible. I’m still organized and disciplined. I just take life less seriously when I move to 7. Hope this helps Anita.
@@nonamenoidea9792 Thank you! Yes, he does do that after he has complained and dragged his feet about something he will realize he is being rigid and change his mindset to try and be more playful.
I’m so sorry that Beatrice had to grow up with 2 SO type 1s. I’m a 1 and I realize that it can be really hard if we aren’t healthy. I was surprised at how her family members are so perfectionistic, though! Thankfully I’ve never been that anal! 😂
I found most of this analysis to be helpful, but the tone of much of the insight Ms. Chestnut shared felt flippant and judgmental towards 1s, which was off-putting. I also think it'd be massively helpful for the panel on ALL of these podcasts to include someone of that type. There's nothing worse than being talked about, but not really understood, especially on the road of self discovery. Overall though, I appreciated the good discussion around subtypes and how that affects how your type manifests.
I felt exactly the same. Very put off by the laughter in making fun of the 1 and condescending tone was not helpful for me to better understand myself.
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As a SO 1, I have listened to this one many times on my commute to work so I could really learn and understand the subtypes better (shocking, right?!) and then I told my husband if he wanted to crawl into my head and understand me he should watch it too! He did. This is so accurate and I am thankful for the perspectives - especially outlining where we have to do the work. Can't wait for the other numbers to be published. I've already listened to 1 (me and my son-in-law), 2 (our daughter),6 (my husband), and 9 (daughter-in-law). All great!! Thank you so much.
My husband is a SO 1 and he does not feel like a judger to me, but maybe more of an unintentional micromanager. It is more that he has a "perfect" way of doing whatever he does because he has spent hours researching the best way, and that is how he does it every time. Then he shows the rest of us how it should be done, preferrably when we are in the process of working on a project or something like making dinner. :) I always thought he was a 5 before he took his IeQ9, but the description of a SO 1 on the test feedback was spot on. A 1 is supposed to go to 7 in growth, but I don't ever see him go to 7. What does it look like when a 1 goes to 7? My mom is also a Type 1 (Also seems like a 6) and she is very much a perfectionist, and no matter how hard I tried, I didn't feel like I could make her happy. They both have a lot of really good and respectable traits that I admire.
My experience of going to 7 as a 1 is I become much more open-minded to different ways of doing things and realize there are multiple “right “ ways. I also become less rigid and more spontaneous, more open to new possibilities and adventure. I am comfortable and happy to say no to work and yes to fun and relaxation. I no longer treat work as most important. Just one of many important things in my life. I also am likely to share funny stories with those I am close to. My sense of humor is more accessible. I’m still organized and disciplined. I just take life less seriously when I move to 7. Hope this helps Anita.
@@nonamenoidea9792 Thank you! Yes, he does do that after he has complained and dragged his feet about something he will realize he is being rigid and change his mindset to try and be more playful.
What happened to the video version of typology? Did you revert back to audio only again? Is anybody seeing the episodes with video?
We got new equipment and will be filming video again soon!
I’m so sorry that Beatrice had to grow up with 2 SO type 1s. I’m a 1 and I realize that it can be really hard if we aren’t healthy. I was surprised at how her family members are so perfectionistic, though! Thankfully I’ve never been that anal! 😂
This ain't strengths finder. 🤣
I found most of this analysis to be helpful, but the tone of much of the insight Ms. Chestnut shared felt flippant and judgmental towards 1s, which was off-putting. I also think it'd be massively helpful for the panel on ALL of these podcasts to include someone of that type. There's nothing worse than being talked about, but not really understood, especially on the road of self discovery. Overall though, I appreciated the good discussion around subtypes and how that affects how your type manifests.
Agreed. She comes from a family of ones so that could be a factor.
I felt exactly the same. Very put off by the laughter in making fun of the 1 and condescending tone was not helpful for me to better understand myself.