Why You Feel Undervalued in a Relationship & What to Do
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Very helpful. Thank you so much, Thais.
Glad TH-cam recommended me your videos, your channel has been a great discovery. Hope you will have a lot of success and prosperity through your work. Keep it up!
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Thais, I really appreciate this channel! The TH-cam videos ALONE has helped me to truly understand what wa the breakdown in my last relationship and it’s helping me to understand & communicate my needs with the new guy.
I’ve even been able to pinpoint the he has core wounds causing him to want to run when I expressed being upset about something & my need. But bc of your content I knew to affirm him in a way that made him understand that I WASN’T about to abandon him just bc I had to put my foot down. 🙄😂
I really loved our conversation last night and I’m excited about moving forward in a really healthy way. I can see us joining PDS together as our relationship grows.
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This! live hearing all of that. Overjoyed we played a part in you understanding yourself and helping you in your new relationship. Hope we see you in the school! Thanks for your comment
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I absolutely love this! Thanks for the amazing content delivered so on point
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Honestly surprised that this channel doesn't have more subscribers.
Thais speaks nothing but TRUTH!! 😁👍
Such a great topic thank u ❤️🌹🙏🏽😘
The thumbnail photo doesn't seem to match the video or the video title. The thumbnail says "Fearful Avoidant: Bring Them Closer". But this video is about all 3 attachment styles. Thought you would want to know! Love this channel!!!
fixed! thanks for the heads up :)
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Thank You Thais 🙏
amazing amazing amazing video!
Yes it is Farah. It is helping me so much. Hope you are having a good day 🌱
Thank you Thais! ❤️
She's awesome right? I just found her channel. Sending much positivity to you 🌱
@@RebelforaSpell thank you my love! She is awesome ❤️ sending hugs and healing to you too ☺️💕
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Seriously!
Most times it has nothing to do with the person we're dealing with. It has more to do with our past issues. When we find someone who has similar traits as someone who has hurt or neglected us, we tend to attach to them and try to get that need met no matter what. We have to be aware of that and work out the issue internally. We were not responsible for meeting our needs as children, because we didn't know better. But as adults, we are responsible to meet the needs we have right now, instead of trying to find people who will do it for us. That way, we learn self-sufficiency and that past wound and trauma will no longer dominate our lives and relationships.
Thank you for this video ❤️ Thais , is this the correct title for this video ?
nope! lol
@@skwerl81 I just watched 3 times on rapid speed questioning myself
The title is supposed to be Why You Feel Undervalued in a Relationship
It looks like the wrong thumbnail was added
yes! because you alerted us we caught the mistake and changed it!! thank you so much!
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@@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🥰you are most welcome :) !!!
Sometimes the truth is we ARE being rejected for whatever reason. Throughout my life I have often been part of a group and its always clear I am lower in the hierarchy than the others - eg I’m part of the group but if its a group of three the other two will always have a stronger bond than with me. If people are talking in a group I will be of less importance than the others. If there is ever any conflict in the group the others will close ranks and no one will side with me. This isn’t my imagination or some story I’ve made up - it happens all the time. I can only assume it is an energy or look about me or my body language or my ideas and opinions. But I know it is definitely not my imagination or a story I have made up. To pretend otherwise would simply be lying to myself.
Do you have colored contacts on? Beautiful eyes.
Does PDS have a specific course to address pursuit of people who are emotionally unavailable? You mention the phenomenon here, just wondering if there's a specific place to start. Thanks!
Stop trying to pursue people who aren’t ready to be pursued in the way you naturally do. If it doesn’t flow, it’s not worth forcing.
@@xnflg3074 It did flow with an FA until deactivation. I'm interested in a course if there is one, thanks.
Thais said " you choose emotionally unavailable people because you are emotionally unavailable to yourself", it's the subconscious comfort zone - the goal is to tackle that first, so I would say "Emotional Mastery and Belief Reprogramming" course.
Please develop a course on how to have a relationship to oneself. Does it exist already?
The closest course to what you are talking about is strengthening self identity.
Rebuilding the Relationship to Yourself: Self-Love, Self Compassion & Self-Soothing
It’s in the PDS school I’m just doing it today
Who said “no more core wounds left?”
What needs to be done for that to happen?
The loads of inner work, which Thais invites us to do here and in the school.
Im also interested in this too!! Lol like is it possible to live trauma free
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😍Hahaha.... Awesome. I love when that happens. Hope you are having a fantastic day Bianca
@@RebelforaSpell thank you! Lol me too 😂
I really resonate with your videos, but I have a hard time keeping up. I'm not american speaking, so it's a little bit too fast for me.
There is a way to slow the speed of videos on TH-cam. Sorry, but I can't remember what it is! GOOGLE it, as they say.
@@toninatoli Maybe speaking slower would help though. Do you pick up every word? I will google🙂 thank you!
Yes. Annika it is a very helpful video. I hope you are able to get the "slow down". I am studying Spanish and can relate to that feel. Have a wonderful day
@UC85lfbkxVb%E2%98%BA%F0%9F%8C%B1WODoAwF3nRBQw Wow really? I didn't know.. Ok. Thanks for the tip will google. Hope you are having an awesome day Toni
@@Alphacentauri819 thank you!!👍🏻😃