10 Simple Tricks to Manipulate People's Mind
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ม.ค. 2019
- The development of psychology allowed scientists to study the biological processes in the human brain, emotions, behavior, and reactions. This information gives us an understanding of our own actions. It also makes it easier for people to control others.
Do you ever wish that you could make people agree with you, like you, or remember you with a snap of your fingers? Believe it or not, it's actually possible - you just have to know a couple of tricks. They work on a subconscious level and help you win another person’s trust or get somebody’s approval. Bright Side will share 10 tips that work every time and can be useful in any situation.
TIMESTAMPS:
Mirror your opponent's body language to make them trust you 0:37
Use the word “because” to have it your way 1:27
Pause to give your words a bigger effect 2:45
Stay silent to find out more 4:02
Be the first or last one to make them remember you 4:40
Sit next to your opponent to receive less criticism 5:18
Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you 5:57
Use contrasts to get what you want 6:57
Nod slightly to make someone agree with you 7:34
Draw a triangle with your eyes to stop the conversation 8:11
#psychologicaltricks #psychologicaltips
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SUMMARY:
- If you want someone to like and trust you, mirror their body language - especially their poses and gestures. The most important thing is to be smooth about it.
- During a heated discussion, every opinion has to be heard, but only one will be chosen as the final one. If you want it to be yours, simply use the word “because” with your reasoning!
- If you want them to remember what you said and really think about it, add a pause after the statement. This simple trick will help you put all the right emphases in your speech.
- If you want to get everything out of another person, you shouldn't insist or be too demanding about it. Simply stay silent, and they'll tell you everything!
- If you're doing an important interview, try to arrange things so that you’ll be the first or last person seen.
- Let's say you know that your colleague or boss plans to lash out about your work skills at an upcoming meeting. How can you prevent a total disaster? Sit right next to them!
- Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you. This psychological trick is also known as the Benjamin Franklin effect.
- One of the most popular psychological manipulation techniques is to ask for something way bigger than what you actually want.
- To get the positive response you need, nod slightly while asking the question. Remember to maintain eye contact with your opponent!
- Look your opponent in one eye, then in the other one, and then at their forehead. Keep “drawing” this triangle shape for the rest of the convo. They'll soon get the message on the subconscious level and say their goodbyes.
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When do you think it's ok to manipulate? 🤔
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Dalin Zwart I like your thinking
It’s not really wrong. It’s not like you’re being dishonest. You’re just doing what you know to do to be viewed better.
When your life is at stake
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@@Craig121000 cool!
Bright side: "share this with your friends"🤭😊
Me: "then who am I gonna manipulate?"🙄🤷♂️
Lol 😂 same
😂😂 that's a good one😉
Your enemies! 💪🏼
strangers
😀😂😂 so true.
I’ve mastered all of this and now I’m a psychopath
😂😂
Hey sir can I get straight A's? *nods unnaturally*
Lol
Neither psycho nor socio can destroy real genuis (^o^)/
Good for you, I’m proud
5. Be the first or last one to make them remember you.
As a middle child, now I know why my parents often forget me at the mall 😭
😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Ouch, relatable! 😶😂
Even I'm the middle one .... I know the feeling bro
Nobody:
Mom: *BeCaUsE I sAId sO*
Hi
Yeah. Just
What??
😂
Ha ha tried this on my 11 year old, she said "mam because is not a good enough reason" oh well guess it doesn't work on all,
Another trick to win over your opponent is to say everything you think he will say against you .
This is Eminem's tactic in rap battles .
@@user-fb1mw2nl3i so that's mean you said to your dad that's his dad or your Grandpa left him
The bridesmaid is the one who tricked me into dating him.
You should have seen her face!!!
Like one of the most famous examples “moms spaghetti”
Lol oh my god
How to manipulate :
Say " I have many foods " and all of your friends will come to you like a zombie.
😆😆😆😆😆😂sure😆😆😆
You open your packet of kinder bueno and the entire school stares at you XD
nice one😄
hahaha
In my school, if you have a pack of gum, everyone around you will instantly become your best friend
Bright Side: “how to get whatever you want”
Spoiled kids: “I’m listening”
😂😂😂
and you have 36 subscribers...lol!
Best comment ever 😂
Well, spoiled kids already get whatever they want...
....you caught me
One of the tricks I use- When you want to manipulate a person into doing something huge for you, spend more time with that person. Converse with the person more often. Through that, learn what that person wants the most, and then give them a little taste of it. That will excite them and they will do anything for you.
biggest of brains
Isn't that called "using them"
@@anulowanshi1528 using somebody is the epitome of manipulation
My freind do it on peoples lol
Same. It is very easy to manipulate low self esteem people. As they are people pleaser, they are shy to refuse you so It is easy to get what you want from them. It almost close to "using them". But some people are aware of it and they allow that you use them. They are very submissive and they are attracted to dominant and manipulative people.
I have dark side but I am not afraid to show the real me to people. I attract the exact people or target people in my life easily.
I remember the first and the last trick, ,the rest was blurred 🤔
But you just lied cause you said a trick which was a middle one😂😂
😂
George Michon 😂
I’m also nodding my head slightly
lolllll
With this knowledge I will rule THE EARTH!
First decide , whether you're a human or alien ...
Lol
no one can make eye contact with an alien
they're too weird
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Wish you best of luck
I actually used most of these on the first day of my new high school. I'm REALLY shy, and my new school was close to my old one. I lived in a small town and I had run ours from my old school so as you can imagine the first day I started I already heard kids whispering about me. I watched carefully to see what the most down to earth group was to hang out with. I had an abrasive appearance because I was going through my tough stage. But I had a plan.
1) The first period sit on my own, just observe everybody
2) Second-period sit next to the "leader" of the group
3) copy their body language (one arm under the chest and another arm on the table pointing up to lean on)
4) Ask them for a pen
5) See he had a Pokemon keychain and a messy book so I doodled Charizard on my paper
6) let him so the rest.
It worked super well and we are actually still close friends :)
bahahah loser
WOW
Woww ! I'm going to try this too
Yes I'm not a natural at getting to know people. So I would do this kind of thing - still do!
Oh no it's been my habit of nodding at my teacher when I understand her lectures and statements, later on I gave an example of the subject she's talking about and she said I was correct. After a few hours I realized my answer was wrong and she didn't notice😂
Great! You can now rule the entire world with your mind manipulating skills
Oh my...😱
Imagine your teacher saw this-
😂😂she'd know
I talk too fast because I do have anxiety so you’re right about that
Hey same here
I F *So what should we do?*
_I talk fast too_ :(
Same
AlanD20 I dunno man. I guess knowing why and making a conscious effort to slow down is the most helpful thing to do
How about Eminem😂
"Tries it on my mom"
Fails
Retreat tactical retreat
mom coming in with her deadly weapon called sandal
How rude of everyone to not ask if you're okay?
U okay😂😂😂?
In spanish we call it chancla and it sounds like a monster
la chancla 😍‼️
Called NA3AL
Manipulators: Everyone can get manipulated by me.
Introverts: *am i a joke to you?*
I agree
Can someone explain this?? I don’t get it, I’m just very slow at understanding jokes
Liam Beasley Thanks for clarifying, man!
@Liam Beasley they may not like groups of people, but that doesn't mean they know when they are being manipulated..
Introverts pass a lot of time inside their own heads, they reflect a lot on other peoples actions. As a result, it is easier for them to spot a manipulator.
I can say that because I've been on both sides of the personality spectrum through my life: solitary introvert to extrovert leader.
In any case, there's no doubt it is easier to be the leader if you are an extrovert.
Some people are just too stubborn. They will never stop talking no matter how many signs you give them
I am one of those. I deal with life or death situations in medicine so eh ya, I kinda have to be an advocate/lobbyist in USA's disease management system.
Then just smack 'em
IKR
This was like reading 10 books on self-improvement. Thank you.
When first being introduced to someone (when a handshake is expected), extend your hand with your palm “sideways”. This way, when they respond, they will have to assume the same hand position. If you have your hand extended, palm up, and they have theirs palm down, they will assume a superior attitude. In reverse, with YOUR palm down, they will have to extend their hand palm up, that makes them feel lesser than you. Side by side hands show that you are willing to work on an even plane.
You're correct and that's exactly why you should go sideways with your palm because it will make people feel equal and then they will trust you more.You could also go underneath so they feel like they're in power when really you are and you can manipulate them.I personally wouldn't go over because it gives off a tone of "I'm in control over you,"and then they'll be harder to manipulate.
If anyone tries to shake hands with me with their palm facing downwards i`ll just do the same thing. It`ll be like a mini power struggle XD
I literally can't understand you
Me when i try to draw a triangle:
Roles eyes
Person: don't be so RUDE!
Lol
oh....😂
hm. . . try doing it more slowly, so they don't realize this. remember, you're looking in one eye at a time and not both of them. . .
teacher: why didn't you go to the bathroom at lunch?
me: because
teacher: because what?
me: bright side told me to say because so I can get it my way
teacher: -_- whatever just be quick
Hey! It still works
@@kennethlake6172 lol yea
Lol 😂
Lol good idea
But why does he or she ask if you go or not it is your problem 😕😕
TIMESTAMPS:
Mirror your opponent's body language to make them trust you 0:37
Use the word “because” to have it your way 1:27
Pause to give your words a bigger effect 2:45
Stay silent to find out more 4:02
Be the first or last one to make them remember you 4:40
Sit next to your opponent to receive less criticism 5:18
Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you 5:57
Use contrasts to get what you want 6:57
Nod slightly to make someone agree with you 7:34
Draw a triangle with your eyes to stop the conversation 8:11
You should probably pin your comment so it’s the first one people see
You should pin this comment because everyone wants to read it.
Hey brightside, can you make another video on how can we apply all of this in to real life, because I can't imagine when to use these techniques. Thank you
-_- omg bright side o. m. G.
You should pin this comment on the topic
Most of this will absolutely NOT work on an introvert
I know we never even leave our house. We don't need anyone. We wish all others would just leave. So all of us can be happy living inside our houses.They are really annoying.
@@lastweek3606 relatable but, I might leave the house to explore, wonder, and travel like my mind
Im an introvert, it will not work for me
Yea im an introvert and i already mastered the being silent trick
Exactly
Don’t talk too fast because it looks like you have anxiety, but like... Ben Shapiro
Ben shapiro nasal voice
But he's got massive amounts of information to offset any perceived tension
You just lack intelligence woman.
He’s a genius
Ben Shapiro is not human.
Some tricks I know to manipulate people are:
1. If someone is mad at you, stay completely calm. This will later make them feel silly that they overreacted
2. Of you want something, first ask for a bigger thing, so that what you really want won’t seem as much
Stop people from talking with just : " k "
Just don’t talk at all. They won’t say “k”.
@@jden_224 k
Aldrin Sean Pereira Oof.
k
K
The narrator here is king of dad jokes
😂
You wouldn't believe it but my dad is MAXIMUM cringe.
Aneshka your dad should substitute for this guy when he’s sick then
hahaha😂 but some of what he says actually works
The whole triangle thing at the end - this is how I naturally make eye contact. I’m 36 yrs old and wondered why all my life I can’t get someone to wanna keep the conversation going… if I make direct eye contact, I get very distracted and can’t fully listen to the person (I have ASD). But if I alternate between looking at their left eye, right eye, and forehead and although I do it consistently, it’s more like every 10 seconds rather than consistently drawing triangles with my eyes. People say it looks like I’m making eye contact when I do this, although I feel like I look like I have shifty eyes.. although I do notice when I’m talking to someone, when they make eye contact with me, they get distracted and almost have an expression on their face like they’re not sure what to make of me. But this was great and I really enjoyed ur tips. Saved it to my “life skills” playlist.. haha
Share your playlist
Using the words ' please and i thankyou' are words that open doors with ease!
7:06 imagine asking for a lambo and getting a straight answer yes
The best day of my life!
@@Cookingkala_ a toy lambo?
Can't relate...
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i see you like unrealistic situations as well.
that feeling when you know you’re a good person but you just like manipulation itself and like manipulating. LOL
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them.
Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also!
When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble!
Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do!
I would never argue with you!
When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
I tried the number 8 with my dad. I asked him for a Boeing 747 and now I ended up homeless.
Because he bought one?
congrats on that, my dude.
At least not phoneless😂
1.)Mirror their body language after 30-60
2.) use because for your reasoning
3.) pause to give your words a bigger effect. (Talk w a calm and confident tone.keep i. The middle and add pauses wisley.)
4.) stay silent to find out more(they’ll feel the need to explain themselves) AND MAINTAIN EYECONTACT
5.) be the first or last one to make one remember you. (Try to arrange you being the last or first person seen)
6.)sit next to opponent to revieve less criticism
7.) ask for a favor and be grateful when u receive it
8.) ask for sun way bigger then ask for sun smaller but still be big then slowly ask to what u want so what I want won’t still seem so big
9.) knots slightly but slikly to make someone agree w u.
10.) look at eyes then forehead to make someone leave the conversation
“Use the word because to get what you want”
Parents: *BECAUSE* I SAID SO
Me: mom buy me a car
Mom : no
Me: then a phone ?
Mom: no
Me: a dog ?
Mom: no
Me: y ?
Mom: BECAUSE I SAID SO !
Me: that makes perfect sense mom!
@@maf-mp7lf Mom: Thanks for understanding!
@@dontbeafool2775 Me : Well how about all of them once?
@@ad3l It seems to me a vague. Can it be a bit more clear?
Very funny. Hahaha. Bruh.
Who else is binge watching psychology/manipulative techniques
after quarantine ima use it
I do it because I have no friends. How about you?
@@thebanana1980 Self gain.
@@adwye7 I'll just reply back because I have nothing else to do.
You should watch a movie
Was a customer service and received tons of anger.. i was basically saying like "really I am on your side, I understand, i would do the same thing if i were you" and showing my glass puppy eyes while nodding..always works really well..
I'm very good at being silent. That's why I know more than people think.
Same here.
@@sabrina1285 Feels nice, doesn't it? 😏
@@skyguy696 Yesss ; )
I'm I the only one who tends to forget tends to forget this information just when I need it the most
The most things have attracted me to this video is the infographic design with absolute great matching colors with fonts and backgrounds wow !
This is pure gold for anyone who deals with people!!!
Because doesn’t work if the people don’t like u 😂
Should have mirrored third body language, 😁
Nothing works if people don't like you
@@cl759 knife works ;)
Borrow their book first.... Silly.
@@cl759 this mirroring trick will make people who dont like you begin to start liking uou.
Number 7 is something just mind blowing....Hats off to Bright Side...😘😘😘
The last one would help me a lot... thank you bright side 😊
I’m the quiet person at school. And honestly being quiet can bring you a very long way, even if it wasnt intended.
A variation of the contrast method. If you want to get someone to admit to something you know they did wrong. Accuse them of something far greater but in the same line of what they actually did. When they are forced to tackle that accusation, you can slowly bring it down and get to admit that they at least did the lower one which is exactly what you wanted them to admit from the start.
You welcome😋
Immanuel T true...infact I use this technique just an hour ago and it worked
@@ginikanwokeji476 you're welcome😂...by the way are you Nigerian?
Immanuel T yeah...how do you know?
@@ginikanwokeji476 cos I'm Nigerian too...I recognize the Igbo name
@@immanuelt613 nice meeting you here...are you by any chance, Igbo as well?
I loved that triangle looks from right , left then to forehead it really works to many people that keep talking nonsense, but still friendly 😂😂😂
Psychology gets a bad rap for its use in being manipulative, when it can be used to help understand each other and make stronger connections - which I think gets people to like you more. It’s not always about having your way.
The triangle rule if slightly varied can be used in your favor when talking to the person you like (especially if she is a woman) look at one eye, than the other, and finally at her mouth. Keep repeating the cycle in random order and don't overdo it 😄
*Do you really want to look back on your life and see how wonderful it could have been had you not been afraid to live it? ×*
What ?
Are you talking to me cause I am still alive!
I hate/love questions like these. They make me wanna face my fears.
Well , I finally understood it now !
Siiiiick bro!!🙏(high5)
I think the biggest manipulation trick is laughing even if the other person isint funny , a smile or a laugh makes them feel comfortable around you 😶✌️ has anyone ever tried it ??
WHAAAAAT is that why the new visitor is comfortable with me? I usually laughs and smiles at everything she says lol
"Stay silent and you will get to know more"
Me with adhd: thinking numerous stuffs while being silent
Thanks for this! Really helpful
I speak softly and less confident, thanks for the tips I'll try to apply in my life...
Always live on the bright side of life 💎
Yep "how to manipulate peoples "
💎
The Jones Family Yes because... Holy shoot!! That poped up out of no where! I put a heart and it poped up! That's spooky!
I see you in littarly every single comment section
Too late for that now
mirroring
use the word "because"
pausing at the right time, after the statement, calm but confidence tone
stay silent but maintain eye contact
be the first or the last
sit next to
ask someone a favor
nod slightly
draw a triangle
I've used that asking for something thats more outrageous and gradually working your way down when I wanted a bag and it worked!
Yes, the perfect plan to get people to like you is to not be kind or maybe share the same interests, it's to spend all of your conversations timing when to cross your arms.
When he says opponent I feel like I’m playing freaking wii tennis.
Thank you!❤
I really really appreciate the last trick. You are wonderful ☺️
"Because i said so that's why "
this line 👌👌
I support this channel its amazing 💖💖💖💖💖 love youuu bright side❤❤❤💙💙💖💖💝💝💝
ادتح
Thx bright side, just what is wanted. :)
That's so interesting about the word "because." Looking back on conversations I've had, it does seem to work.
It’s very useful tips for me. I argued badly with my father because of family problems. So, I got too depression to do anything :(
But after watching this video, I did know It’s time to go and do now ! And also change myself and apologize him what I misunderstand.
I’m just one of the Korean. So I don't know if the meaning has been conveyed properly. To sum up, this video allowed me to reflect on myself and take time to reflect on myself.
Thank you for making video !
CGM - Crazy Glasses Man I’m sorry, hopefully as you age, you’re relationship will get better. That’s what happened with me. It’s a lot different with a parent relationship when they finally listen and see you as a person and not an extension of themselves. It’ll get easier!
@@candya1040 Thanks for your advice ! I just apologize and we can make good relationship as before the argument ! My parents think me independent body :)
and I'm 19 years old ! In Korea, It is considered as a children people before 20 years old. I think that is problems in it :(
Now, I'm okay and happy ! Thank you, Candace Argo !
Hey! What happened to all your video's, why are they all on private?
Me: This is the best TH-cam channel
“You Nods head slightly”
“You Mentainan eye contact with screen”
And then hit the like button,
Thank you.
Wow!! Amazing!! adiyen ramanuja dasi!!
The last one is super helpful thanks
"and a quiet one with self conciousness"
I feel attacked
I hate when people use pauses when speaking, just hurry up!!🤣 im so unpatient
Impatient*
@@NikosPage I was just about to say the same thing
Same😗🖤
@@nunyanunya9645 Great minds think alike
😃😃
*Watch with your playback speed to 0.5x*
3:15
Fantastic just speechless....
These are very interesting, I'll have to use them at some point. Also, maybe bring up the fact that if you smile when you're making friends with someone, they will have a better time around you, and will remember you way easier.
Well...as a matter of fact...today I just got a proof that having an eye contact with your opponent actually works...
Obviously it was unplanned...
What happened was that my younger brother who has an obsession for wrestling, marshal arts and other such stupidities, he uses to suddenly bend, pull his hand forward (as if he's gonna hit you) and at a second's notice...he pushes his fingers through his hair...
Like it's that he bluffs that he's gonna hit you...
He just did tried to do that to me again today...
(I often get trapped by his trick)😁
But today I unintentionally had an eye contact with him before he just bent down...and whoa...!!😃
Suddenly he just got paused and....his trick failed hilariously....😂😂😂😂
I made it...finally...😂😂😎
Woww great.. Truly helpful.. Thnx
I came to learn something new but realized I've been doing these things without even knowing I'm actually manipulating people
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them.
Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also!
When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble!
Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do!
I would never argue with you!
When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
Everything what u said is true, I've done it many times over the years. But the trickiest part is when she/he do something completely different from your thoughts, then u have to bettle for it. You need to change your strategy in order tho get the right answer from them. :)
Bright Side manipulates me like nothing else.
Ive been apt to understand the sitting next to the criticizing boss, because it sorta goes with that its easier to hate someone you dont know... so get known and ask for a favor, use because, and you'll get your wish, and lo and behold, youre liked, and cant be hated.
Nice thank you dude you are the bravest one of my teacher because I learned so many things from you
"Do you ever wish that you could make people agree with you, like you, or remember you with a snap of your fingers?"
No. but youtube seems to think I should...
One physiological trick if u wanna look more intamdating and more scary looking is by getting more close to the person ur talking to like invading there personal space and if there looking away from your face that’s when u can tell there really are uncomfortable or scared of u but if there still looking straight into your eyes they are not scared but they themselves are trying to look more intimidating to
Alex Trevino could you give more important tips
This is awesome! Gonna apply them later.
Ive study the psychological threat for me and so thank you bro for the heart welming advices
You can use the listening and observing trick too.. you need to listen and observe their words or feelings they're using while talking to you. So you would be able to know how you would approach that person. 😊
Lol this was in my recommended and let's just say that I didn't know that I've been manipulating people. 😂😂😂
😂
Same😂😂
Wow....thank you
I am running for something in school and I have to make a speech so now I will use because thank you
Who Did this all the time.. Without this Vid or any “manipulate Videos” Literally Everybody Was The Power To Do
1.Mirror your opponents body language (gain their trust)
2. Use the word because
3. Pause to give your words a bigger effect
4. Don’t talk to fast
5. Stay silent to find out more
6. Be the first or last one to make them remember you.
7. Sit next to them to receive less criticism
8. Ask someone for a favor to change their opinion on you
9. Ask for something way bigger than what you want
10. Nod slightly when asking a question to make them agree with you. (Keep eye contact)
11. Draw a triangle with your eyes to end a conversation
Number 11 just rolls your eye so they think they are boring u
And you did put the best tricks at the last....cool👌
Wow! Thanks
Them: mirror your opponents body language
Other channels: if they mirror your body language they like you
Me: *mirrors body language*
My enemie: they like me
I heard that before and you are not wrong about that lol
I’m an introvert myself (directed by you introverts) I believe that introverts are the most easy to manipulate because you can lay on them so easily what they want to hear because introverts have a smaller window to work upon and that is pretty easily able to work upon
What do you mean by smaller window to work upon
it's not that we are easy to manipulate but infact we just don't want to say no even though we know they are using us.
we will just go with the flow but we will that person in a the suspicious people list and we will do some extra observation on them.
Thanks.
This is amazing!
Credit/Debit Situation.
Cashier: Wave or PIN?
Customer: PIN!
Change into...
Cashier: Can I Wave it?
Customer: Ummm, ok yes. Wave.
Plus, with good combination of voice tone, facial expression and body gestures is important..
The last one is perfect for introverts
*proceeds to make a triangle with ur eyes and forehead*
yes i can agree
I think 20% of these will work for me! Thanks