10 Simple Psychological Tricks That Always Work
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- Can you shape how others perceive you? Do you ever wish you could control what people thought of you? Or maybe you just wanna communicate in a more confident way? Well, you don’t need any magical powers to make it happen - just good old-fashioned psychology tricks!
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TIMESTAMPS:
Find out if someone is secretly looking at you 0:36
Diffuse a conflict with food 1:45
Get someone to tell you more 3:10
Make yourself memorable in job interviews 3:47
Form stronger bonds with people 4:54
Control people’s assumptions about you 5:42
Make someone feel like they’re important 6:43
Get someone to help you do something 7:49
Get people to believe in you 8:33
Keep people’s attention 9:24
Music by Epidemic Sound www.epidemicsound.com/
SUMMARY:
- If you want to learn if someone has been looking at you, try yawning. No, it’s not some secret code, but if someone is looking at you and you happen to yawn, they won’t be able to help but yawn themselves.
- The food serves as a great distraction and can actually relieve tension since you’ll start to care more about the food than what you’re talking about.
- When there’s silence, the other person is more likely to talk and will probably say more than they would if you were to interject.
- A sure way to stand out from the crowd is to use the “serial position effect.” This is based on the idea that people tend to remember the first and last parts of things and not as much of the middle.
- If you’re in a new relationship or starting a friendship with someone, instead of going to the movies or out to eat, try doing an activity together that can get your blood pumping.
- While you’re talking and getting to know each other, try to point out something you both have in common. Maybe you grew up in the same town or you both have the same alma mater.
- When you meet someone for the first time at a party or work event, say their name right after they introduce themselves.
- Instead of asking the person point blank if they can help, pose a false dilemma.
- Even if you aren’t sure of something, that doesn’t mean you should question what you say. Try leaving out the word “I think” when you talk to your friends and family.
- For people to pay attention to what you’re saying, keep direct eye contact with them while you’re talking.
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Hey guys, what’s your opinion: how many job interviews must a person have in a lifetime?
Like 10
Aronde 5
At my age right now (23) I have 13 with different companies
Must? 0
Must: nought
Could do: about 3
*Psychology tip: the words you chose can directly affect your mindset throughout the day. If you use more positive words you will notice the difference!*
Shihab Mohammed anytime shihab!! 🙏
Your Favorite Lifecoach do u practice it?
BRIGHT SIDE YES! Everytime i think negative thoughts i speak out positive words and it helps me a lot!
@@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL My trick: Thank people right after you ask them a favor or help, they'll do you the favor :D
That's true
Who else is watching this because they have nothing else better to do
nah bro just you here
Me hi5!
Slanda Philistin I have a big exam tomorrow and should be revising
I have nothing to do
Hahahaha😂
Me: *yawn*
She: I have a boyfriend
😂😂😂
Y just y?
She: kbi naha lia kro.
😁😁
😂😁🤣🤣😃😃😄😃😃
“After you ask someone a question, stop talking and stay silent”
Ah yes, the most affective psychological trick out there
although this one doesnt actually work because people only notice how they start adding extra words then suddenly people forget that if you hadnt done that and actually had the conversation the following structure of said conversation wouldve actually led you down a much more fruitful road sadly people judge what psycology trick as most effective based on feelings and not subjected change
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@@iamusdamma2637 ironically, you used so much words without dots, i cant understand you
Unlikely to work these days because people are more likely to fill that void by using phone
Effective*
Omg! lol I yawned after looking at the cartoon yawning 😅
Why
I yawned when I was reading this comment
@@echfx9201 lol hhh
Sparkles.Sasha, SAME!!!!
oh my I did
An introverts guide to how to act human
Or for psychopaths trying to manipulate people....
Lol I clicked this video recommendation because of that reason
That's the reason Introverts watched this
Introverts or extroverts. People are usually a bit of both but one recharges by being alone and perfecting and learning about something. The other recharges by having fun each day or doing something social. Both are perfect.
There are crazy introverts (like the shooters) and there are crazy extroverts (like Manson).
A humans guide to introverts✔
(1) If you suspect someone has been looking at you, yawn, they will most likely reciprocate. We don't know why.
(2) Had a fight with friend/partner, dine out together. It will remove conflicts most likely.
(3) Ask a question and then remain silent. The other person is most likely to talk and think and deep conversation/relation is possible.
(4) Talk about yourself at the beginning and at the end of the conversation/interview, the other person is more likely to remember you later.
(5) Start your relationship/friendship with something physically active e.g. games. You are more likely to form deep bonding.
(6) Subliminally point out something common between you and the other person. You are more likely to leave a better first impression.
(7) Use the person's name, paraphrase them subliminally. It will more likely make them feel special and you get the reward for doing so.
(8) Carefully phrase your request for help. Leaving them a very little option to chose to say no.
(9) Whatever you say, say confidently. Avoid phrases like 'I think'.
(10) Keep eye contact. They will believe you more, agree with you, you will be more confident.
Satyendra Kumar thanks buddy
Thanks!!!
TYYYY
Here's a tip:
You gotta choose your words. For example, if you use more words which are not used by other people, at least most of the time, you will seem like you know more, people will think smarter of you.
Your choice of words can affect people and their opinion on you, even the smallest words can make a different.
Your bodylanguage can change a lot too! Standing leaned back and with your arms crossed, will make you seem more secure about what you are saying.
Holding your arms down and looking down, will make you look insecure, shy and scared.
There are more things that can affect people's opinion on you, but these are some basic things.
And another thing, if you use long answers as an answer, people will think that you listened to them, because they will think, that you are thinking about it and what to say. You might repeat yourself or things like that, but it can definitely change if people think that you are listening to them.
i want to stress to everybody on this video that people are not actually robots with readable wavelengths that are 1:1 ratio telegraphed with 0 and 1 answers to everything but instead we are very counteractive individuals with over estimations and under estimations and a lot of the time we dont know our own shortcoming but i will say that our subconcious is being confused with our conscious here because these psycology gurus have trouble telling the difference between an animalistic ape and a conscious sentient being who isnt at dooms end due to being readable like look at fighters we have evolved to be able to fight that means any kind of reads my subconcious can give out is just as easily maskable like i dare anyone to consistently make the same reads on me after their first success like poeple need to stop with the psycology thing its not actually consitant or guarenteed to work and in my experience in most cases it does not work if you want conformation ask a fighter before they commit to a all in move that is a game changer they will really extend their moveset and longevity of the round before committing to something and its because they need to constantly be making reads and re reading just to confirm things then again because it could be bait ect like people need to know that sociopaths exist and playing a psycological game with them is literally making you look silly literally all proffesional fighters are sociopaths because they have to be to compete at the level they are in trust me im not wrong here i too am a sociopath i am in a 0.1 percentile of a demograph on a leaderboards system that im not going to unveil to you but i say this not to brag but for people to take this seriously....psycology is not a tool to use under your belt it will only lead to harm you emotionally and people who use it against you actually fail infact ide argue you knew full well when someone was doing this to you and in your head you couldnt stand how oblivious he/she would be to your own intellect but so assumptive of his/her own?
Noted
Who else yawned be HONEST😂😂
Every human
@@abdulrafay7419 big time
Meeeeeee😂😂😂
I didn't yawn. Am I a psychopath!?!
Lol I checked to see if others yawned😂😂
Do you ever scroll through the comments and see a comment and think I wish I wrote that
I wish i wrote this comment 😅😁
Yeah
All the time.
No
Yes
1:50 “Took a bite out of a delicious burrito”...proceeds to show taco 🌮
Haha
🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
I was waiting to see if anyone noticed that
🌮 🌯 it’s the same
I tried yawning alone inside my house and I heard yawning outside the window
oh no-
😁
Someone is following u. 👁👁👀👀
😂
That’s your mind playing tricks on you.
TIMESTAMPS:
Find out if someone is secretly looking at you 0:36
Diffuse a conflict with food 1:45
Get someone to tell you more 3:10
Make yourself memorable in job interviews 3:47
Form stronger bonds with people 4:54
Control people’s assumptions about you 5:42
Make someone feel like they’re important 6:43
Get someone to help you do something 7:49
Get people to believe in you 8:33
Keep people’s attention 9:24
BRIGHT SIDE thank you so much!
Thanks!
Wow!
Im going to try the first one on a woman where I go to church.
I have to find out for sure. I think this will prove it one way or the other.
@@johnyoung468 It is not a 100% sure thing that someone will yawn but some people do.
Great tips. I do one or two of the things already. Another tip is to smile when you meet someone. Even when you are having a bad day, smiling and looking at someone can open a friendly discussion. Easy topics are weather, weekend adventures, or any events happening locally to start conversations.
Yea true , it really works
As a psychologist I can support all of these. The essence of this process is take control of situations, demonstrate that you are engaged with the other person (through eyes, voice, touch, repeat/rephrase).
Is there any other channels on TH-cam you could recommend that are like this? Thanks
“This PHENOMENON is called CONTAGIOUS YAWNING”
everyone watching this like: you don’t say
I have another mind trick that I use to make people feel more important and more at ease: Make them feel like an expert at something. And ask them questions, get their advice and opinion on some things:
Wow, you were singing very well! That was EXCELLENT!! How did you do that? How long does it take to practice in order to sing like that, etc? What methods could I use to improve?
Great!!!
Awesome mind trick! Thank you
But eventually they'll find out that they aren't that great at it. They might as well find out from a nice person like you then someone harsh later on in their lives. And besides, if you think you're an expert at something, you might not try as hard to improve, and I'm sure that if it's something they like, they'd want to improve and actually be amazing at it. Besides, I'd feel sort of betrayed if I found out later on that my friend was lying to me just to make me happy, when I could have had the opportunity to actually improve myself.
@@faydemaria1019 I did not say lie
@@HE360_Games Well if they're not an expert, it's great to congratulate someone, I agree, but constructive criticism can be well appreciated too. :)
Keeping eye contact & paraphrasing I learnt in Counselling Skills always useful. I also summarize at the end of the conversation what the other person has told me, that also confirms to the person that you were truly listening to them, another therapeutic skill!
Having a firm eye contact with someone, establishes our superiority and make others feel guilty. Also we can make our statements overlap on others. Very useful for BOSS.
Why this channel is one of the best TH-cam channel because of this types of content.
Here's a tip: Watch Bright side at 1.5 speed. Helps with the slow talking.
Thank you sooo much, I’ve always hated how slow the video is
@@rayans6875 its to get the 10 minute mark tbh
Bro.......thaaaaanks!
thanks...!!!!!
Vortex there's no speed mode in TH-cam app in mobile?
The Narrator’s voice is amazing. Keeps me interested and makes it sound fun. Good pitch and volume. 😴😴😴😴😴
Lol 😂
On a first date the theatre is very good. You talk during and have so much to talk about after at a restaurant
Word: People may not remember what you said but they never forget how you made them feel.. aye?
Yes
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Bright side has every video on any topic,love this channel!
Thanks for putting this video up
There small body language signs really understand other people’s psychology behaviour , really good animation and editing
Keep doing such good work
Honestly this channel needs rewards for how active they are 😊
True.....
Bythway sometimes you find comment section more informative than the video itself.
So true
This is so true
Yep
True that 😊
I see what you did there
Addressing people with their full name is also very helpful. It reminds that you pay attention to every detail.
Thank you bright side!
This VIDEO is SO effective!
“You’ll start to care about your food rather than your argument”
I felt that ❤️
Psych tip: Don't talk to strangers, they might harvest your organs.
NBI Open Up yeah i can confirm this. happened to me once
NBI Open Up omfg
NBI Open Up what about my Uber?
Just yawn around them lol
Just keep a 1911 45 on you and all will be ok 👌
Many thanks for useful tricks.
great advice. I am going through a crisis with an relationship so (i think) i will watch this video a couple more times. Thanks.
I remember being at a cafe with my ex, arguing. As soon as the chocolate crepe arrived, we forgot everything and dived into it 😂
Amazing... I have to try this tomorrow.
This is.... awesome 😊👍 , thank you
I started yawning just because that cat yawned, godamm that trick really works Xd
The best feeling is when someone is saying your name at the start of the sentence!😍
Love your channel because of timings in description and your content.
That was great and effective thanks for publishing this awesome video
Thank you, sir, for the great lecture.
Great video - Thank You!
#3 is definitely a form of manipulation. As well as a couple others. But 3 really stands out to me
How many actually yawn at 1:08
I did🙋
I'm not pressing that time stamp
i yawned the second time while reading the comment]
l didn't 😅
But I just cant make eye contact idk why 😂🤣😅😅 it makes me uncomfortable. Lol I am weird
no you are not weird. most of the people feel the same waya bout maiing eye contacts. you just need to practise
It is a sign of lack of confidence. If you don't have such confidence just pretend that you have and then with the passage of time you will feel the difference
Look at the nose!
Try breathing through your nose, practice it becomes easy after awhile, hard to imagine, it can make a big difference in many ways.
Look at just below their eyes, they will think you are having eye contact. You won't feel so uncomfortable.
Finding out if someone is secretly looking at me is my favorite activity in class when i'm bored. Their reactions when i "caught" them is so hilarious😌
it doesnt work that way lol you must be getting so lucky if they were
These psychology tricks are quite witty and I have experienced some of these too. Yawns are contagious and food is the best resolved of conflicts. But what if we start arguing about what to order😂
Oder more food!!😄
What if the conflict itself is about food..
get more food
🤯
Hari Gopal. 🤦🏻♀️ I ALMOST DIED OF LAUGHING!!!
Yawn over it
easy, you just have to nod with the food
Now i know...thanks for this tricks...
I will definitely apply it. 😊
Paraphrasing Technique
Girl: I can't believe my boyfriend cheated on me.
Me: Wow, they didn't even carry that kind of bread?
Girl: 😐
Me: Was it something I said?
Lol!
😂
WHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
😂😂😂💀💀
I read all the comments about people yawning.
Tell myself "Don't yawn"
*yawns
It’s 4 am, I have a final tomorrow but I decided this is the best use of my time
amazing , Thanks a lot
I have long had a theory about contagious yawning. First, yawning has nothing to do with tiredness, rather it is the body's attempt to get more oxygen. Since we all need oxygen for survival, I believe that seeing someone else yawn triggers our survival instinct, which prompts our own bodies to yawn in hopes of getting some oxygen for ourselves. I don't know anyone who does contagious yawning research, so I have not been able to pass along my theory to that particular group. Any comments or suggestions?
I think I'll go with you for that. I'm a very shy person that even if facemasks aren't required in our school anymore, I'd still wear one for the entire school day until I get home. I do not remove it no matter what until I really had to. I'll finish my food without a minute, too. That's it about wearing my facemask, but I noticed something quite odd. in school I'd always yawn but rarely in home (and sometimes not). Though sometimes I had hard time regaining oxygen for wearing my facemask for a long period of time. "Body's attempt to get more oxygen" yup, I'll go with your theory .
( I apologize for not explaining that quite well, you see, I'm bad at English )
Interesting theory.
@@yuutotaku0415 Wearing facemasks especially for long periods is not healthy, I advise you to do some decent research yuutoaku0415.
The real title: How to Manipulate Others 😂
2 words at difference parts of the scale: encouragement and manipulation😁
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yep that's what I said
We're all manipulated everyday and we manipulate others 😂 we don't realize it.
@@Jackgritty28 then you must be different from the world. Congratulations.!! Lol
It is awesome. I loved it and also found it real. Thank You bright side
yeah
I really got fascinated with the video...at the end I just have to yawn yawn and yawn....thanks so much for this eye openers.
this has definitely helped... just have rinse and repeat more in more hectic situations
If you're having trouble with eye contact just look at the spot between someone's brows
Stare at their forehead to confuse them
Now I’m yawning and when I yawn I can’t stop yawning
Same
Thanks a lot. Yes, really it is happening.
Thanks for that video )
1:42 I wasn't convinced til i yawned too! That was hillarious, I was surprised 😆
When I want to push an idea to my boss, I always say "remember when you told me XX a few weeks ago? well, I was thinking that we should do XX". He always has some doubt and 2 days later he spreads it like his idea and I can get what I want :) WORKS EVERY TIME! :)
Really insightful !
Thank you
oh god I literally had an uncontrollable amount of yawning from this
God*
I cant stop the tears!!!.😢😢😢😢😢
Same😆I'm still yawning
😂😂
I'm yawning while reading your- (yawns)
When talking to someone i usually move my hands around, and it really works for me. They believe what i am telling them.
This tricks are so cool!!! 🤩🔥👌🏽 Thanks Bright Side 😁👍
This is intriguing I will bare all of this in mind!
I don't need to stay silent to make my sister talk more...
Him: "Just keep silent and they will fill the gap"
Me: "What if it was in whats app??"
You should use whatsapp call
It’s true. It’s a CIA tip. Peoples minds fill in the blanks that they WANT to think.
This video is really helpful
Thanks 👍
"have you ever felt mad eating a delicious burrito" proceeds to eat a taco, well now I DO feel mad
Do deaf people think other people are screaming when they yawn
No Because They Yawn To
@Amrita Mahant me 2
@@chosen1179 yes but they still wouldn't know if people were screaming
They would if they are looking at the person yawning because then the deaf person would yawn as well if they know thats how it happens
They may not hear u but they other abilities
My theory on yawning when one sees other ppl yawning is that ppl are in a constant state of being tired, even when they just wake up. And this is because even when sleeping, the body is ALWAYS working, ie breathing, blood circulation, heart beat, etc.
To make myself more memorable for job interviews, I swear like a sailor, quote Bible verses, and sniff my hands alot.
🤦♀️lol
Interesting points!
Thank you my Dear
"This psychology trick is really effective! Did you trust what I was saying more the second time?"
Me: No because I have trust issues!
Great video
My psychology professor showed us this video and the class couldn't stop laughing at how ridiculous it is. Now we have to write a paper about how this video contributes to the misrepresentation of psychology as a science.
Thanks.
i`m not that expert in psychology but i don`t fell that all of this info is right...so can you provide me with another reliable sources maybe since psychology is your major..Thanks in advance
I m not sure about everything that shows in video but some of them are true
This video contains some information that helps people. Not every technique will always work, which is why those naturally decide to improve their charisma.
Excuse me ?
But ridiculous ?
😡😡😡😡
Nice One!!
❤️❤️Awesome video
I am watching your channel for the first time and this video just impressed me
So, I Subscribed your channel in first look
The host's voice is so mesmerizing that it catches what he say
A tip i usually use and always works is that. whenever you are in a group whether you know all of the people in the group or not. just don't stay quiet. try to give your opinion on everything they are talking about. if you will stay quiet you will be considered as a boring person. secondly if you notice someone shy, or not talking too much , talk with them don't just let them be silent, ask them different things.etc they will soon feel free to talk with you.
Another tip. whenever you think the other person is getting annoyed with you while meeting first time, just tell them i know you must be feeling annoyed, lol say a joke about yourself and they will definitely say no you are not annoying and even their perception about you will be changed.A tip i usually use and always works is that. whenever you are in a group whether you know all of the people in the group or not. just don't stay quiet. try to give your opinion on everything they are talking about. if you will stay quiet you will be considered as a boring person. secondly if you notice someone shy, or not talking too much , talk with them don't just let them be silent, ask them different things.etc they will soon feel free to talk with you.
Another tip. whenever you think the other person is getting annoyed with you while meeting first time, just tell them i know you must be feeling annoyed, lol say a joke about yourself and they will definitely say no you are not annoying and even their perception about you will be changed.
wow... this is a great vlog, I for one do deploy the 10th trick (contagious yawning) and it's never disappointed.... I'll surely put the other tricks to a test too... :)
Shandaar Zabardast
BOUNS TRICK: lean your head to 75 degree while someone talking you. that will show them your interest in thiers words and show them you'r listening.
Srry but I'm a little tall so at which angle should I lean my head?
OMG I am remembering the 1st and last trick, 😂😂 don't you!!!
great tricks!
Tnx for the video :)
which program do you use to create video like that ? :)
Fyi, that’s a taco 🌮... not a burrito 🌯
the best psychology trick is money. "when money speaks everybody's listen."
I will try this out ✌️
Controlled smile through the convo. And realistic appriciation
My teacher always see me yawning at class but he didn't do ever