Just be yourself. People who wanna like you will like you. People who wanna hate you will hate you anyway no matter what you do. Don't try to fit yourself in anybody else's box. Just be yourself. Respect yourself. That's it.
It holds good when you are meeting someone for personal relationship ( like example Meeting partner for arrange marriage proposal, etc) But not in professional meetings.. You have to follow basic etiquettes in professional meetings...
My advice to impress others 1)Be yourself 2)Use a natural smile when you meet known persons.Keep your face natural without over expressions. 3) Avoid hand gestures.It looks like overacting 4)Use your full attention while speaking with others 5)Speak in your voice naturally. These tricks will help everyone.
I don't understand why you people are doing mean comments you guys are saying she is overacting but that's not all....that's her self-confidence.please stop doing mean comments.
Mam u r SMART GIRL...a lot of ppl doing negative comments...ur style suits u although many r saying negative...mam,dont get demotivated,i am in ur support..Thanks you...
The habit of people is very bad,they always troll when CUTE and SMART GIRL says something....even girls doing negative comments,i ask them Where is Girl Empowernment now??
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She knows how to talking with peoples / learners and those tips are very useful nd it's not mean she is overacting Definitely she know how to talk properly
Swapnil Borale yeah bro ..i agree with u ...U told such a good point and that's why u got so less likes but the other's bad comments have got so many likes ... disgusting
rule no.1 you can make people like you without doing over acting. rule no.2 follow rule no.1 😂 #Edit: wow 1.3k likes. Thankyou so much guys. Lots of love 😘😍💕
Your 5 points are absolutely correct. I have already applied them in life before seeing your video. I have learnt first 3 point and last point on my own by using observing skill, but the 4th point i.e. giving full attention learned from you today. Thank you for the 4th point.
To the people saying to "just be yourself": This video isn't a tutorial to change your entire personality. This girl isn't saying "hey guys I'm gonna teach you how to change who you are and how you live your life to get people to like you more!" This video is strictly explaining how body language can change how you affect people's initial reaction to you during confrontation or during a meeting or anything of the sort. It's actually a very informative video if you *ever* want to land a new job somewhere. You don't want to go into an interview fidgeting your hands, touching your hair, avoiding eye contact or giving the impression that you can't handle confrontation, do you? I didn't think so. Some people really miss the point. Great video, really helpful! :)
My friend likes your tips but the way you speak looks like you put all your energy and so much pressure in every word and when you speak we can see inside your mouth even your throat . So my suggestion is you speak softly and please do not wear red lipstick it takes all the attention on your red lipstick and when you talk please stop moving your hands and stop the motions it makes it weird.o yeah one more thing THINK BEFORE MAKING A VIDEO! It's just a friendly suggestion .
I love all ur videos... I don't know why the people are commenting so negative.... I think they can't speak in British English that's y they r jealous of you... U please continue wot u r doing.. I always watch all yr videos and yr voice is so cute.. Thank you Dr neharika
i was in school when i have went through this video .. i was totally in love with this.. her teachings.. thanks a lot.. watching it in my masters now .. still giving me goosebumps
Dynamic and enthousiastic video ! A few years ago I started to smile more often (without faking it).. It changed my life. You become happier and warmful towards others and you stop thinking about your problems. As a seller, it is also very effective and very pleasant for the customer and the co-workers. Please smile people ;-)
1. Smile. 2. Make eye-contact. 3. Give all the attention to the person. 4. Don't move much. (Can I move my mouth at least?) 5. Use your hands to talk. (Wait, haven't you said to don't move?)
some people are just so mean... If you don't like this video, then go watch the ones you like... why bash a woman whose intention is to help others who may need it.
I love it! I'm an English teacher also. I recently did a video on making English speaking friends. However you took a different take on the issue. Really helpful! Love the flooding smile. :)
Thank you so much for your tips, and for trying to make the world a better place. I subscribed to your Channel. Looking forward to watching more videos. Namaste.
I love watching your videos, I'm improving my English speaking skills with the help of your best contents provided in your you tube videos. Thank you Niharika..
Please don't be so rude with her. After all, she is an English teacher, necessarily she needs to be more expresive and gestural , actually I understand all that she is saying thanks to her way of teaching....:) ... thanks a lot!
thanks Nihirika!!! understanding body language, in both its use and interpretation, is so powerful in relationships of all types. I have used similar techniques regarding interpersonal and professional communication with much success for years now. Additionally, I have found that using and repeating a person's name 3 times during the conversation emphasizes the value placed on the speaker and topic. btw - your hair is beautiful. Thanks again Nihirika✌
You don't need to have a pretty face in order for you to be charming. You can charm other people with your good personality by being nice and kind because looks can fade but personality will lasts a lifetime.
This also a 5 step guide to giving people the impression you're an intense psychopath. Btw this presenter said the eyes are the most important part of the body and later changed her mind to say the hands are the most important part of the body.
You said it! People would think a person is bat poop crazy with giant creepy smiles, staring in their eyes, using crazy hand movements! This stuff screams creepy creeper creepily creeping around some creepy corner!!!!!!!
This is a nice video and really love the way you presented the whole video. Love the energy as well. I hope everyone reading this comment is filled with energy and optimism.
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2:15 eyes is the most important part of our body & 5:45 hands is the most important part of the body😂plzz don't confuse mam 😕 but the video is awesome😇
This content is very useful to me,miss. Please make the vedios like this. I am looking forward to watching such vedios. Again I would like to say that this is more useful to me for my presentation.
Hi. Niharika.... U r gifted with a lot of talent.... Don't worry about negative comments.... People can only do that.... But they can't motivate like you..... Even if one person changed bcoz of u.... It's really awesome.... N am the one for sure....... Thank youuuuuuuuu
I have a neighbor who is liked. She laughs at everything we say, she helps a lot, she is so good natured. She is a great neighbour. Everyone likes her. I can’t be like her and I don’t have friends except a few. Yet happy as I am. Laughing aloud and too often makes me feel artificial
Thank you ma'am this lecture was very very interesting and lots of stuff were useful for me. I hope I will get a call for interview soon. Have a good day.
+Divyanshu Mishra instead of picking out the faults out of her telling, you should better pay attention to the core part which she has explained, brother...! Don't you think it was much helpful...?!
Ma'am i have a question about the hand gesture? What if the situation is like this, I need to go in my interview,,ofcorze i cannot use the hand gesture right? Thank you
Myla Cabrera that's absolutely right now .don't lose confidence bcz all the power with in u .u can do anything and erything ..belive in that..hate the sin
Just be yourself. People who wanna like you will like you. People who wanna hate you will hate you anyway no matter what you do. Don't try to fit yourself in anybody else's box. Just be yourself. Respect yourself. That's it.
Very true they ll like the way just how we are!
Hmm....💯true
I disagree... Sucess in life matters... It's just only etiquettes in conversation which benefits.. take it in a positive way..
You are right 100% @S V
@@elizabeththomas4956 yes, this is a mature stuff. I m sure they will surely realise later.
1. Flooding Smile 0:57
2.Sticky Eyes 2:02
3. Big Baby Pivot 3:12
4. Limit the fidget 4:33
5. Using hands 5:27
You are welcome.
+Oscar Estrada Nice summary. Thx.
thanks man
thanks.
+Oscar Estrada thanks man u read my mind
+Oscar Estrada or if you are super short on time, read it in the description.
I smiled at an angry person and now I have only 2teeth left.
hehehehe...
😁😁 nice yeaa
RazerX Gamer 😂😂😂
RazerX Gamer hahahahahah
swiftie forever m
No trick needed. Embrace the moment with sincerity🙏🏾❤️🔥
Then why are you here?
It holds good when you are meeting someone for personal relationship ( like example Meeting partner for arrange marriage proposal, etc)
But not in professional meetings..
You have to follow basic etiquettes in professional meetings...
My advice to impress others
1)Be yourself
2)Use a natural smile when you meet known persons.Keep your face natural without over expressions.
3) Avoid hand gestures.It looks like overacting
4)Use your full attention while speaking with others
5)Speak in your voice naturally.
These tricks will help everyone.
Agreed. Some people just seem like they're trying too hard and it's a bit overwhelming.
be yourself.. thats the only and best tips to be like by others.
👏
Be the best verson of yourself.
If you know this , then why are you here
Yeahhh
perfect.. 😎😎😎
I guess best body language is being confident with simplicity☺
👙❤️💋
What like, hmm are you married,
Undoubtedly..!!!
Not even , they've already got clarity. So, NOthing else matters.
I always gave smile to everyone but then, some of them called me crazy.
Me too,😂
Not that simile in this video,you are like smiling to boys its become crazy
Hhhhh me to 🤣🤣🤣🤣
smile to me i think you make me crazy
😂😂😂itni b smile n krnii hoti😂😂
I don't understand why you people are doing mean comments you guys are saying she is overacting but that's not all....that's her self-confidence.please stop doing mean comments.
GGD
@@LalitKumar-sc9hs what does that mean
ur are right
@@stylishteens989 right 👌❤
Right words
I did the first one ie: "FLOODING SMILE THROUGH THE DAY" then on nxt I was in MENTAL HOSPITAL 😑.
HARSHA ABHIMANYU Abhimanyu 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
HARSHA ABHIMANYU Abhimanyu 😁
😂😁😀
lol
Mam u r SMART GIRL...a lot of ppl doing negative comments...ur style suits u although many r saying negative...mam,dont get demotivated,i am in ur support..Thanks you...
The habit of people is very bad,they always troll when CUTE and SMART GIRL says something....even girls doing negative comments,i ask them Where is Girl Empowernment now??
If I make a eye contact to any one I probably forget what I was going to talk 😂
Hey wowww😂
😂😂😂😅Same her
Awww. 😍
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lolol
haha thank you buddy!
😂😂
good observation
yeep thank you !! that saved me a lot of time xD
She knows how to talking with peoples / learners and those tips are very useful nd it's not mean she is overacting
Definitely she know how to talk properly
Swapnil Borale yeah bro ..i agree with u ...U told such a good point and that's why u got so less likes but the other's bad comments have got so many likes ... disgusting
just setup
#RIPENGLISH
rule no.1
you can make people like you without doing over acting.
rule no.2
follow rule no.1 😂
#Edit: wow 1.3k likes. Thankyou so much guys. Lots of love 😘😍💕
Lol
😂
Mem is good
😂
Awesome😂😂
Your 5 points are absolutely correct. I have already applied them in life before seeing your video. I have learnt first 3 point and last point on my own by using observing skill, but the 4th point i.e. giving full attention learned from you today. Thank you for the 4th point.
Guess you forgot to credit the Book you referenced these techniques from. It's How to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes
+nishantve1 also there is this book titled 'The Definitive Book of Body Language' .
To the people saying to "just be yourself": This video isn't a tutorial to change your entire personality. This girl isn't saying "hey guys I'm gonna teach you how to change who you are and how you live your life to get people to like you more!" This video is strictly explaining how body language can change how you affect people's initial reaction to you during confrontation or during a meeting or anything of the sort. It's actually a very informative video if you *ever* want to land a new job somewhere. You don't want to go into an interview fidgeting your hands, touching your hair, avoiding eye contact or giving the impression that you can't handle confrontation, do you? I didn't think so. Some people really miss the point. Great video, really helpful! :)
I agree, but that's what youtube is about, field with trolls, and I am a troll catcher free of charge, lol
Gonna be honest, all this advice makes you come off as someone who tries way too hard and is super basic.
I hv fallen in lv wth u
My friend likes your tips but the way you speak looks like you put all your energy and so much pressure in every word and when you speak we can see inside your mouth even your throat . So my suggestion is you speak softly and please do not wear red lipstick it takes all the attention on your red lipstick and when you talk please stop moving your hands and stop the motions it makes it weird.o yeah one more thing THINK BEFORE MAKING A VIDEO! It's just a friendly suggestion .
Shortened version: How to be a morelikable/ attractive.
I love all ur videos... I don't know why the people are commenting so negative.... I think they can't speak in British English that's y they r jealous of you...
U please continue wot u r doing..
I always watch all yr videos and yr voice is so cute.. Thank you Dr neharika
Not EVERY single one of us AND since when could you read their mindset to know?
Over expression cannot be considered as genuine. One should not try too much as that becomes unnatural.
I don't think she is speaking British she speaks American
@@murrahfan ...yes sir
Woah woah I live in London that is not British English 😂
i was in school when i have went through this video .. i was totally in love with this.. her teachings.. thanks a lot.. watching it in my masters now .. still giving me goosebumps
I don't know why so many dislikes? She did a great job! Thanks girl.
Dynamic and enthousiastic video ! A few years ago I started to smile more often (without faking it).. It changed my life. You become happier and warmful towards others and you stop thinking about your problems. As a seller, it is also very effective and very pleasant for the customer and the co-workers. Please smile people ;-)
1. Smile. 2. Make eye-contact. 3. Give all the attention to the person. 4. Don't move much. (Can I move my mouth at least?) 5. Use your hands to talk. (Wait, haven't you said to don't move?)
Thank you
😂😂
😃
R you serious she says dont move extra or stop multitasking
@@ajaykumarkarn3356 and you replied to a person who commented that 5 years ago😭😂😂
hey girl!....u said exactly what is written in "How to talk to anyone"book..got u😁
no matter what people critize you in the comments section
but you are liked by atleast one person
,,.
Who's that lol?
I like your cute smile with teeth:😄😍
And one here too😊
Oh is that you
Everyone will easily impress, if someone has smile like you.. ..none other tricks need to do....☺
😂😂
i was thinking of that when i see the thumbnail 😇
😂😂
Bade Tez Ho Rahe Ho 🙂
Sahi khely ho bhaiya
I appreciate the effort you have taken to share such lessons to the prudent generation of today!! You are so expressive. Good job!
Thank you for all those nice tips.
Hello Niharika! your five tips were very useful.. Thanks a lot..I liked the way you converse :-)
Prachi Kothawade ...in the most unnatural and overly exaggerated manner ever.
These tricks have been explained in Jeff keller's book 'Attitude is everything'. I have read that book more than ten times.
Nice hints. You're good at explaining things. I admire you. Keep up the good work.
Using hands tricks are really good
let me give you the 6th tip "Don't imitate, Be yourself" Girl you really need to work on this!!
some people are just so mean... If you don't like this video, then go watch the ones you like... why bash a woman whose intention is to help others who may need it.
Lavender I know right? no wonder they are all here
being rude to a women who is just trying to speak English is unattractive man
I just wonder
Wilna Torres you're right
very good reply for non senses
that's true ........I like her too much......people have excess time to waste on such things
It seems that mam,you have read HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE Written by Leil Lowndes. I've also read that book.It's absolutely incredible.
Well said . What she says , certainly works. Thanks
Just wow🌹
Mam u r amazing
The way u talk the way u explain ur expectations
And most important is ur smile 😊
💐👌🏻
I love it! I'm an English teacher also. I recently did a video on making English speaking friends. However you took a different take on the issue. Really helpful! Love the flooding smile. :)
You are so fluent in english👍👍
Thank you .. These are easy to impress
Thank you so much for your tips, and for trying to make the world a better place. I subscribed to your Channel. Looking forward to watching more videos. Namaste.
You are using all of the tips😁
Thank you again for another very useful lesson!!
Thanks for the tips. I am a completely insincere person and this videos has helped me appear sincere.
I love watching your videos, I'm improving my English speaking skills with the help of your best contents provided in your you tube videos. Thank you Niharika..
Is TH-cam telling me something by recommending this? O.O.
Same here
haha same
yup thats right
What does Google think of me? hnmmm ....
haha same here
Please don't be so rude with her. After all, she is an English teacher, necessarily she needs to be more expresive and gestural , actually I understand all that she is saying thanks to her way of teaching....:) ... thanks a lot!
By His Grace, am following the same in talks. ❤️👍🙏
I was walking at the street and saw a cute girl she looked sad a bit...I just smiled to her and she came to me and said "thanks".
How cute!!!
so
you are looking like a batman.hero
wake up dude
maybe you do look like captain america
stop criticizing the presenter yall are mean no wonder you guys are here for tips to be liked
+Kim edlund Yes, I notice all the haters. It's just amazing the level of stupidity that some of us still have. That's why we are where we are.
+Kim edlund oh so you defenetly dont have a sense of humor
dont be so sarcastic
+raptorjp4 No it isn't. It just makes you look like an ass.
+mahesh rautray Indeed! Arrogant and hypocritical.
+mahesh rautray hahahaha
These tricks are very effective , thank you for sharing this.
Thank you
You got my full attention, your style is loud and clear, thanks
2:15 "eyes, the most important part of your body"
5:35 "hands, the most important part of your body"
WHICH IS IT!!
Very nice mam, all your videos helped me a lot during my interviews. Ignore the critics and do your work. Great work
thanks Nihirika!!! understanding body language, in both its use and interpretation, is so powerful in relationships of all types. I have used similar techniques regarding interpersonal and professional communication with much success for years now.
Additionally, I have found that using and repeating a person's name 3 times during the conversation emphasizes the value placed on the speaker and topic. btw - your hair is beautiful. Thanks again Nihirika✌
What not
EXCELLENT information!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you ♥️
Im really impressed by your body language.
Crossed hands are self soothing...not what we’ve always been told it’s a fallacy but thanks for the advice
I have one more tip after watching this video --> don't move your mouth too much
😑😑😑
like how? 😂
Like u see her
+RP don't use such language
+sanu adake like who?
Incredible video
Keep it warm
You don't need to have a pretty face in order for you to be charming. You can charm other people with your good personality by being nice and kind because looks can fade but personality will lasts a lifetime.
LoveMe,com Shakespeare, Is that you?
LoveMe,com
so true
I don't any of your options
This also a 5 step guide to giving people the impression you're an intense psychopath. Btw this presenter said the eyes are the most important part of the body and later changed her mind to say the hands are the most important part of the body.
***** Hahahahhaa you're mean :D
You're right.
+IntouchMusic The tips seem useful for being on camera though
+IntouchMusic Exactly lol
You said it! People would think a person is bat poop crazy with giant creepy smiles, staring in their eyes, using crazy hand movements! This stuff screams creepy creeper creepily creeping around some creepy corner!!!!!!!
This is a nice video and really love the way you presented the whole video. Love the energy as well. I hope everyone reading this comment is filled with energy and optimism.
Wow! You are the perfect expression of what you teach
U r great mam
I realy loved hearing u
keep making videos for us 💕
It means she is liked by everyone...👸👌she is too cute and have positive vibes
I just love your reactions when you are talking. Please keep doing. ❤
Honestly; Your way of speaking is excellent and attractive enough.
Your intonation is awesome, with your smiling face I really love to watch you and learn from you. You are simply superb...💯
Very positive and Superb Tricks..
you have just listed the steps from the book "how to talk to anyone"- Leil Lowndes . -_-
Oh
Ishita Bendkhale can you give me phone number of dating only
Plz Help me With Personality development tips ishita ai Would Love To Have Yhem
Be yourself! The right one will stay
From Haiti. I love you a lot dear teacher.I am looking forward to meeting you in Your Country.Have a wonderful week!
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number 2 omfg I swear it works. did it in high school. smh
2:15 eyes is the most important part of our body & 5:45 hands is the most important part of the body😂plzz don't confuse mam 😕 but the video is awesome😇
you dont need to do such for impressing a guy ... just smile game over .
.
This content is very useful to me,miss. Please make the vedios like this. I am looking forward to watching such vedios. Again I would like to say that this is more useful to me for my presentation.
Friends can't be win they can earn only with love, with respect....
Yours videos are excellent and wonderful with smiling face your doing great job
To give Smile to people is Sunnah💖
Hi. Niharika.... U r gifted with a lot of talent.... Don't worry about negative comments.... People can only do that.... But they can't motivate like you..... Even if one person changed bcoz of u.... It's really awesome.... N am the one for sure....... Thank youuuuuuuuu
I really enjoyed your lesson and it's useful 🫂.... Thank you very much...
New subscriber 🥳
I have a neighbor who is liked. She laughs at everything we say, she helps a lot, she is so good natured. She is a great neighbour. Everyone likes her. I can’t be like her and I don’t have friends except a few. Yet happy as I am. Laughing aloud and too often makes me feel artificial
Sister,i love the way you talk...its really makes me perfect for the interview...there are .so many thing we learn from you...thank u sister..
Niharika you are very exceptional teacher that I have ever seen while your's teaching are very excellent.
I smiled at the mirror and looked creepy
hahah me asf. reading the comments before watching
I smile at the mirror and it smiles back...guessing I must be hot!!😎
Scream Akat hhjjddjkakakakaalakaaakakkamaakskakja
smile from the heart
cause ur probably ugly
That's amazing...👌 Keep going...👍
Why u all r jealous of her??what harm she has to u all??everyone is doing negative comment on her....she is so Cute
Thank you ma'am this lecture was very very interesting and lots of stuff were useful for me. I hope I will get a call for interview soon. Have a good day.
Your english is Simply very Awesome......
I most like your teaching style 😊
Absolutely Weldon 😍😍😍
You speak so smoothly
eyes - most important part of the body
hands - most important part of the body
what's not important then? :D
+Divyanshu Mishra nose
+Divyanshu Mishra thats what im thinking
+Divyanshu Mishra instead of picking out the faults out of her telling, you should better pay attention to the core part which she has explained, brother...! Don't you think it was much helpful...?!
Bipin Pawar I wouldn't have criticized if I had found this video helpful in any way. :)
+Divyanshu Mishra I'm sure that was just a test to make sure you were listening. lol
This would be really helpful.
Thanks for giving us such a wonderful lesson.
And yeah, you look beautiful.
Benign smile with a humble behaviour
but she is married
Ma'am i have a question about the hand gesture?
What if the situation is like this,
I need to go in my interview,,ofcorze i cannot use the hand gesture right?
Thank you
Myla Cabrera you should you hand gesture in an interview to express yourself but don't use it too much . good luck
Myla Cabrera that's absolutely right now .don't lose confidence bcz all the power with in u .u can do anything and erything ..belive in that..hate the sin
Niharika, I implemented these steps one by one while watching this video. Thank you.
Be yourself. you don't need to please people, you don't need that too much attention.
this tricks are the gift of the legend "DALE CARNEGIE"
Niharika the way to speak english with a smile taking my heart away. 😍😅
This 5 Body Languages is really useful for me . Hope for everyone . Thanks Niharika