🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:12 🗣️ When someone expresses a strong emotion in a conversation, it's a cue to ask three follow-up questions. 00:26 💡 Responding with empathy and asking for more details when someone shares their emotions helps build deeper connections. 01:06 ❓ Asking open-ended questions like "Is there more to the story?" allows the conversation to go deeper and helps in understanding the person's feelings. 01:20 🧠 Practicing this approach enhances emotional intelligence, making you more attuned to others' emotions.
🤩(face with starry eyes) You always have something insightful to share. This is amazing but also a problem at my end since I must be making notes of these insights.
Bro i get you now. You're my spirit person 🖤 you give such compliments which usually comes to my mind on daily basis. But it remains as unexpressed. Thanks for your exposer.
I focused my whole career trying to be better technically thinking that I will be fine with it even without having the social skills needed. My reasoning is that I will be very good at what I do so people would need me and be satisfied with my work; I don't need to communicate. After watching you, I realized that no matter how good I get, people will never realize my full potential if I cannot communicate well with them. Thank you for doing all this and I hope to see more conversation hacks as I try to start my way to being a good communicator by being good at conversations. This one's for you! 🦄
Hey Vinh! Please make a video on 'How we lead a conversation to a specific targeted point. For Example: Someone meet a person (known) and want to know the deal (Public deal) between that person and the merchant. How to get the data with a short conversation? Many times we have the right person infront of us and don't find the right time to have a conversation. Then we just ask for an another meeting to discuss the same thing. And sometimes that another meeting never schedule. for you!
I would add first "oh that's too bad, can I ask you about it?" Cuz maybe even tho they mentioned it doesn't necessarily mean they want to talk about it?
@@askvinh or maybe "oh, that's too bad, do you want to tell me more about that?" Cuz even "do you want to talk about it?" might sound like too much of a conversational and possibly personal commitment - as in what does "talking about it" mean, etc? 🤔
I would like some more conversation hacks Vinh😊 As for the emoji, I believe this one suits you the best according to me: 🤓🧐 (Happy to go and analyst. )
This is great. It's a great exercise to think about those who you really feel a great connection with when you talk to them and what it is that makes you feel that way. When you really think about it they use these tricks naturally, it makes you feel valued and you feel safe to open up more. Love these hacks Vinh, so much value 🙏
I was diagnosed with Asperger's as an adult, though im still just 29. I'm really emotional and care a lot for people around me, but I generally struggle with expressing it properly, and asking questions for small talk that makes me really connect and make new friends, part of it is of course cause I don't manage to read ques as well, but do you have some tips for conversations for small talk that can relate to most situations? A lot of your videos gives small and helpful tips, thanks a lot for all the tips and tricks you give! 😆
your emoji for me is🍜 ! Looks simple and nice on the outside, but is a carefully crafted thing with multiple components needing to be mastered to perfection or near perfection, and in balance with every other component in there, in order to achieve one overall nice dish both simple and complicated, and can consist of many different ingredients too, so you never really fully know the components, just the emergent properties :D
I want to Learn more Conversational Hacks Vinh Giang Sir! ❤️🔥This emoji Represents you the Best. A Person with a Sweet Heart and at the same time sparks fire within us to be a Better Version (in all aspects) ❤
All well and good--unless you're dealing with people who are personality-disordered, or people who trauma dump on others. Then it's just a frightening or even a dangerous approach, especially for sensitive types. Surface-level social niceties exist for a reason, and sometimes they're a necessary shield.
Oh yeah, he is a magician alright I was gonna put 💩 in here but now that his editor already did it I feel bad 😢 As for emoji : 🤓 Oh come that's not half bad
Absolutely wonderful! I've known this but it was a good reminder because I haven't been implementing it in conversation. Although since I'm a Psych major, I will probably find some negative replies like people who don't want me reading their mind or something like that lol. I think these emoji's represent you best 👋😆🧠🪄
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You are like the moon (source of endless knowledge)in my dark nights (world full of lack of knowledge)....so I would go with....🌜🌚🌛
🧨: Energy, positivity, compassion, driven- you're a firecracker!
I’d love more conversation hacks!
You’re amazing with what you share with us, thank you! 🤩
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:12 🗣️ When someone expresses a strong emotion in a conversation, it's a cue to ask three follow-up questions.
00:26 💡 Responding with empathy and asking for more details when someone shares their emotions helps build deeper connections.
01:06 ❓ Asking open-ended questions like "Is there more to the story?" allows the conversation to go deeper and helps in understanding the person's feelings.
01:20 🧠 Practicing this approach enhances emotional intelligence, making you more attuned to others' emotions.
🤩(face with starry eyes)
You always have something insightful to share.
This is amazing but also a problem at my end since I must be making notes of these insights.
Your knowledge is eternal just like the ocean 🌊 and you're like a swan to me 🦢
🗿because you are a chad for sharing all of these conversation tips
I used to be nervous when having conversations but after watching your videos I've become confident in speaking
Thank you so much
🙂
"Is there more to the story" is such a great question
I totally perceive as someone who is so enthusiastic about life, so my emoji for you would be: 🤩
🔥 you're a torch that keeps torching other's candle so that we have our own light.
More convo hacks, please! 🐐
😮 you continue to blow my mind with your insights! thank you vinh!
Yes! More conversational hacks please!
🎵🎵🎶You are a symphony of communication Vinh.
You are a blessing to me
God bless.
🔥 this emoji is for your hair. Thanks for the tips
It will be really to share conversational hack ,this one really help me thank you sooo much 🥺❤️
🧑🏫🙂! These are the two emogis that I can use to describe u. You're like a teacher who always says profund things in a simple and funny way.
Bro i get you now. You're my spirit person 🖤 you give such compliments which usually comes to my mind on daily basis. But it remains as unexpressed. Thanks for your exposer.
This hack is great....looking forward to use it.
Vinh you are 😎😇❣✌
I focused my whole career trying to be better technically thinking that I will be fine with it even without having the social skills needed. My reasoning is that I will be very good at what I do so people would need me and be satisfied with my work; I don't need to communicate. After watching you, I realized that no matter how good I get, people will never realize my full potential if I cannot communicate well with them. Thank you for doing all this and I hope to see more conversation hacks as I try to start my way to being a good communicator by being good at conversations. This one's for you! 🦄
I both enjoyed & learned sth actually.❤❤❤
😋🪄🧞♂️🤹♂️🔮❤️🕊🦢🐝🎬😜🥸🥳- Thank you Vinh~ you shine with all the communication archetypes🌠 warmest wishes
- Faith from Adelaide SA 😋🦢🎨🐝❤️🎬
🤯🤯🤯🤯🤑knowledge man ,you gave our brain something to use
Hey Vinh!
Please make a video on 'How we lead a conversation to a specific targeted point.
For Example: Someone meet a person (known) and want to know the deal (Public deal) between that person and the merchant. How to get the data with a short conversation?
Many times we have the right person infront of us and don't find the right time to have a conversation. Then we just ask for an another meeting to discuss the same thing. And sometimes that another meeting never schedule.
for you!
🤗Thanks for the information Vinh! I hope this information might useful for me and PLEASE🙏 keep continue your great work😎.
🤠 - Always ready to guide us through a narrative filled with lessons. Inspiring.
Yes please to more conversation advice 🙏🙏
I would add first "oh that's too bad, can I ask you about it?" Cuz maybe even tho they mentioned it doesn't necessarily mean they want to talk about it?
Oh I love this ❤
@@askvinh or maybe "oh, that's too bad, do you want to tell me more about that?" Cuz even "do you want to talk about it?" might sound like too much of a conversational and possibly personal commitment - as in what does "talking about it" mean, etc? 🤔
🦁- The king of the communicational jungle, helping us cubs grow
😃👏you are so fun smart and much more. Love all of your videos
Your 🙌. Every tip you give is so useful. Thanks for sharing ✨️
I would like some more conversation hacks Vinh😊
As for the emoji, I believe this one suits you the best according to me: 🤓🧐
(Happy to go and analyst. )
In one emoji you Vinh would have to be 😎 you're just always cool no matter what.
🤪
definitely want more of these short easy tips
This is great. It's a great exercise to think about those who you really feel a great connection with when you talk to them and what it is that makes you feel that way. When you really think about it they use these tricks naturally, it makes you feel valued and you feel safe to open up more. Love these hacks Vinh, so much value 🙏
I want a thousands video like that. Real life example are so much better than theory
I was diagnosed with Asperger's as an adult, though im still just 29. I'm really emotional and care a lot for people around me, but I generally struggle with expressing it properly, and asking questions for small talk that makes me really connect and make new friends, part of it is of course cause I don't manage to read ques as well, but do you have some tips for conversations for small talk that can relate to most situations? A lot of your videos gives small and helpful tips, thanks a lot for all the tips and tricks you give! 😆
the talk finally goes into the *Asking questions* 😂
your emoji for me is🍜 !
Looks simple and nice on the outside, but is a carefully crafted thing with multiple components needing to be mastered to perfection or near perfection, and in balance with every other component in there, in order to achieve one overall nice dish both simple and complicated, and can consist of many different ingredients too, so you never really fully know the components, just the emergent properties :D
This would be the exact ones for u 🗣️
💥 You always have such interesting and fresh tips to help us
Editing is getting better and better! Great video Vinh -- been watching you for several months and I love the value you bring.
You are ❤ and 👂to my soul 😄
🗣️ More conversational hacks please! This is perfect.
I think your whimsical
Not sure if this is the best emoji to represent that 🤗
Please give us more conversational hacks!!! Future therapist here, inhaling every bit of wisdom in communication from you.
🧑🦽
I want to Learn more Conversational Hacks Vinh Giang Sir!
❤️🔥This emoji Represents you the Best.
A Person with a Sweet Heart and at the same time sparks fire within us to be a Better Version (in all aspects) ❤
🕺🕺🕺 the energy 🔥🔥🔥
All well and good--unless you're dealing with people who are personality-disordered, or people who trauma dump on others. Then it's just a frightening or even a dangerous approach, especially for sensitive types. Surface-level social niceties exist for a reason, and sometimes they're a necessary shield.
😎 You are always the best
❤ bring more free stuff to surface
🎇 fireworks of inspiration!
🤴🏻a king, always generously sharing your wealth of knowledge with us. Thank you vinh.
🤎 beautiful energy
What aa nice tups😊😊
🎙Vinh, you often share wise advice that I can begin using right away.
😉 For the tips you gave.
🌟Star for inspirational
So you have any products / courses around conversation? 👑
🧬😘👍😀❤️ you bring life
😁 by seeing your ever green upsy Daisy optimistic quirky side this ones fits the best according to me
Another technique involves repeating the word stressed in a questioning tone
You are really a 🤓 (smart) guy
Since you asked me personally:🦉
🐐🐐 the goat
😎 a cool person
😋 the fun one
You are 💪
😃 This is you
🥑
Because you're worth it
🤪 - this is you, Vinh😂
What if they say they're ok? Or doing really well?
this is the emoji that comes to mind....👨🏽🔧
"😎" cool guy
Great tips and I see what you did there magician Vinh to win heart emojis ;-)
Guys does anyone know how I can have small conversations online with vinh? I mean text chat
I really need to ask him about such important things
You’re my sunshine 🤨
🔥🔥🔥🔥
What if the person stops at “I’m ok”?
Good
Me: How are you feeling?
My friend: Oh a bit sad, my grandmother passed away.
Me: Did anyone else die? Is there more to the story?
🔥🔥
Oh yeah, he is a magician alright
I was gonna put 💩 in here but now that his editor already did it I feel bad 😢
As for emoji : 🤓
Oh come that's not half bad
🤓🧠🤪
that's it, no questions asked😂
😂good vdo
🔥
😊❤❤
💯
👑
👑🎉
💪
Gosh, I laughed so hard at the end, love it. 🫶
🗣👑💯❤
🤗🤗🤗🤗
❤🔥✨
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Absolutely wonderful! I've known this but it was a good reminder because I haven't been implementing it in conversation. Although since I'm a Psych major, I will probably find some negative replies like people who don't want me reading their mind or something like that lol. I think these emoji's represent you best 👋😆🧠🪄
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