Another important issue in the Philippines is this question that Filipinas need to ask Filipino men is (or maybe it should be an order) - why don't you use a condom especially if you are planning on ditching me if I get pregnant? There's such a huge problem with single mothers getting no support from their former boyfriends or former spouses there. It affects the entire economy. I'm liking this channel more and more because Calvin speaks directly and brings up poignant topics.
Strong Catholicism. No idea the details, but I met a Vietnamese guy in Grad School (health field) that was 100% against condom use. His GF (our classmate) loved him to death, but did NOT want kids yet and was begging us guys to talk sense into him. Said he was a 'Good Catholic Boy'. Never happened, she got pregnant 2nd year, had to leave school and never got her degree. Very Sad. They're married and all but lost out on a 2nd income (she's a stay at home mom), and she lost out on achieving her dream.
@@Mutiny960it’s more Catholic countries in the world that don’t operate as such so I can’t say religion is the cause it’s more misguided uneducated poor decisions like all other countries!!!
@@SunMoonNights "Religion influenced their CULTURE" Can you not read? Like all online idiots, you can't when the facts prove you wrong. It's the same reason sex before marriage is looked down upon in the U.S. Less people than ever are religious, but the secular culture adopted the religious BS. Same thing happened highly Catholic countries like Vietnam and PHP with their hatred of condoms.
I am by no means condemning the culture here, but I have observed that the people can compartmentalize their religious belief system as easily as breathing. That is to say that a Filipina may go to the club, lie to her partner, go to mass, and then hop in the bed with you as seamlessly as taking a shower and washing her hair, no hesitations, regrets, or long pauses to break her stride. I believe that's how people in a country inundated with Catholic beliefs can have a single motherhood problem that occurs in epic proportions. Synopsis: There is a strong belief system, but piss poor practices. Which translates into unbelief, yet going through the motion for tradition sake. There is a disconnect between higher thinking and lower passions. Why? That's the million dollar question. But, if I had to guess I would say that's what happens when rules, ideas, and concepts are forced upon people through hundreds of years of colonization. They become Oscar and Grammy award winning actors and actresses.
Great advice. I field under writer needs to ask every question after you have established your a decent person. Much thanks. The Villages a huge retirement community North East of Tampa Florida has the highest cases of STDs in the nation. And there average age is over 60.
You have to pay attention to the answers. People who lie have a hard time getting their actions to match their answers. The first few answers may be easy for them but the deeper you dive into understanding who they are by asking relevant questions the harder is to be deceitful and have it all make sense. If he/she says something that signals a warning to you dont just let it go. Ask for clarification and question them from another angle the next time you see them.
@@calroach1 if you ask, do you have an std? and she gets angry and says do you think I'm a prostitute and she starts throwing bottles around where to go from there?🙂
@@123sabong You say that is what I am trying to find out. If you are not willing to answer my questions honestly and without getting mad then I have to think you are hiding something and it may be that you are a prostitute.
Man,them some slow men, I been here 3 months now ,soon as I met my filipina we went and got tested,fir s.t.d. and pregnancy, we chatted for 11 months before we met, now she's 10 weeks pregnant with my child and it's plan, we good to each other, in coming years, I will build a home, but skeptical about going home in April cause she's pregnant I don't want to leave her cause I know her situation is not good without me, so I'm thinking till she have the child, and keep her safe and stress free...CALVIN IM HERE BINANGONAN RIZAL, I BEEN FOLLOWING YOU FROM OMAHA,NEBRASKA SINCE YOU STARTED IN YOUR IN LAWS HOME IN THE LOCKDOWN, IM ENJOYING YOUR INFORMATION AND IT HAS HELP ME ,THX YOU BRO
Thanks for educating the men out there about STD and being embarrassed to ask these questions. You are right also about asking a women the reason for looking for a guy online. I come from an Arabic country and sex before marriage is for both not allowed and to get a wife as a man you will get researched like a criminal before her father says Yes. Which is not the case in the Philippines
I have taken some girls to the DRS before. Over the 7 years I have been here I offered about 15 girls to go with me to the drs for everything just to get checked out and only 4 accepted the offer eventually cause it took more then 1 time trying to get even those 4 to go. The problem is they are reluctant to go cause they are scared of the results.
Good evening Calvin, that's very funny you bring this up. Those questions are not asked in the states, so I know they are not asked abroad. Hunger removes a lot of preliminary questioning on both sides, everyone is on their best behavior until their objective changes. I agree it is best to ask these questions, but most of us don't. The real reason is because with all the things going on around us we are just happy to be alive. EVERYONE HAS A VERY GOOD QUESTION UNTIL THEY GET HIT WITH THAT LUST BUG. The question is: "ARE YOU SMARTER THAN AN STD?"
Haha!! Good video bro. When I get over there I’ll definitely have a couple boxes of condoms. And I won’t be getting into any relationships over there. Too late for that in my opinion I’m in my early 50s, I won’t be saving some poor single mother of 2-3 kids. I just can’t afford it. I’m fine with dying alone.
You nailed it again bro! Social media and Dating apps have made casual sex easy in the USA and possibly in the Philippines all contributing to the high risks
My Pinay married very young. Her husband was unfaithful for her through their entire marriage, and he left shortly after she was pregnant with her second child. I insisted on getting tested both her and I got tested at the same time not because of anything she did but I was afraid of what her husband might’ve contracted and passed on to her. It wasn’t a pleasant conversation, but it was a necessary one. Total cost of the testing was under $50 for both of us well worth it for peace of mind.
Why would you say someone is lying if they asked these questions and took each other to the Dr. I did ask and I took her to the Dr. And bought her meds 8k. I was in the room with her, and the Dr was very blunt. I'm not going into the details, but we're still together.
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Now you're back to the nitty gritty, not sugar coated, boots on the ground experience!
One of your best and needed videos.
Another important issue in the Philippines is this question that Filipinas need to ask Filipino men is (or maybe it should be an order) - why don't you use a condom especially if you are planning on ditching me if I get pregnant? There's such a huge problem with single mothers getting no support from their former boyfriends or former spouses there. It affects the entire economy. I'm liking this channel more and more because Calvin speaks directly and brings up poignant topics.
Strong Catholicism. No idea the details, but I met a Vietnamese guy in Grad School (health field) that was 100% against condom use. His GF (our classmate) loved him to death, but did NOT want kids yet and was begging us guys to talk sense into him. Said he was a 'Good Catholic Boy'. Never happened, she got pregnant 2nd year, had to leave school and never got her degree. Very Sad. They're married and all but lost out on a 2nd income (she's a stay at home mom), and she lost out on achieving her dream.
@@Mutiny960it’s more Catholic countries in the world that don’t operate as such so I can’t say religion is the cause it’s more misguided uneducated poor decisions like all other countries!!!
@@SunMoonNights Religion has strongly influenced their culture. You say "Nu UH!" like some spoiled child proves nothing.
@@SunMoonNights "Religion influenced their CULTURE" Can you not read? Like all online idiots, you can't when the facts prove you wrong. It's the same reason sex before marriage is looked down upon in the U.S. Less people than ever are religious, but the secular culture adopted the religious BS. Same thing happened highly Catholic countries like Vietnam and PHP with their hatred of condoms.
I am by no means condemning the culture here, but I have observed that the people can compartmentalize their religious belief system as easily as breathing. That is to say that a Filipina may go to the club, lie to her partner, go to mass, and then hop in the bed with you as seamlessly as taking a shower and washing her hair, no hesitations, regrets, or long pauses to break her stride.
I believe that's how people in a country inundated with Catholic beliefs can have a single motherhood problem that occurs in epic proportions.
Synopsis: There is a strong belief system, but piss poor practices. Which translates into unbelief, yet going through the motion for tradition sake. There is a disconnect between higher thinking and lower passions. Why? That's the million dollar question. But, if I had to guess I would say that's what happens when rules, ideas, and concepts are forced upon people through hundreds of years of colonization. They become Oscar and Grammy award winning actors and actresses.
Believe me I will ask those tough questions. Guys should realize there's always another Filipina around the corner. You are the prize 🤨
Great advice. I field under writer needs to ask every question after you have established your a decent person. Much thanks. The Villages a huge retirement community North East of Tampa Florida has the highest cases of STDs in the nation. And there average age is over 60.
It's better to lose the best thing that's ever happen to you, than to have the worse thing happen to you in your life. It might even kill you.
This is a talk I appreciated Mr. Sunshine
You sounded like a Pastor but damn I needed the sermon!
Thank you Coach!
You are spot on with this. the ladies here will jump in bed with you in a hart beat but they don't want to tell you about their personal life.
Absolutely. It's a dangerous game we play Lavon.
Sometimes you learn the hard way to slow it down.
Problem is, even if you do ask, what makes you think they will be forward with you. I’d say no better than 50/50.
But ask anyway and protect yourself.
@@calroach1 I get that, yes.👍🏼
Asking is just stage one of the question. You must then wait to see how many times you catch them lying.
You have to pay attention to the answers. People who lie have a hard time getting their actions to match their answers. The first few answers may be easy for them but the deeper you dive into understanding who they are by asking relevant questions the harder is to be deceitful and have it all make sense. If he/she says something that signals a warning to you dont just let it go. Ask for clarification and question them from another angle the next time you see them.
Another great one Cal. So true.
if you going to ask all those questions you better bring a lie detector
It's not about the answers it's about the questions! At least ask.
@@calroach1 if you ask, do you have an std? and she gets angry and says do you think I'm a prostitute and she starts throwing bottles around where to go from there?🙂
@@calroach1 if you ask do you have an std? and she gets angry and says do you think I'm a prostitute .where do you go from there?
They sell lie detectors at the Cebu airport on the second floor specifically for this situation.
@@123sabong
You say that is what I am trying to find out. If you are not willing to answer my questions honestly and without getting mad then I have to think you are hiding something and it may be that you are a prostitute.
Thank you, Calvin for a great video, great topic.
Preach brother preach. Very good video.
Man,them some slow men, I been here 3 months now ,soon as I met my filipina we went and got tested,fir s.t.d. and pregnancy, we chatted for 11 months before we met, now she's 10 weeks pregnant with my child and it's plan, we good to each other, in coming years, I will build a home, but skeptical about going home in April cause she's pregnant I don't want to leave her cause I know her situation is not good without me, so I'm thinking till she have the child, and keep her safe and stress free...CALVIN IM HERE BINANGONAN RIZAL, I BEEN FOLLOWING YOU FROM OMAHA,NEBRASKA SINCE YOU STARTED IN YOUR IN LAWS HOME IN THE LOCKDOWN, IM ENJOYING YOUR INFORMATION AND IT HAS HELP ME ,THX YOU BRO
Awesome, one of your best messages if not the best.
Thank you...
Thanks for educating the men out there about STD and being embarrassed to ask these questions. You are right also about asking a women the reason for looking for a guy online. I come from an Arabic country and sex before marriage is for both not allowed and to get a wife as a man you will get researched like a criminal before her father says Yes. Which is not the case in the Philippines
I have taken some girls to the DRS before. Over the 7 years I have been here I offered about 15 girls to go with me to the drs for everything just to get checked out and only 4 accepted the offer eventually cause it took more then 1 time trying to get even those 4 to go. The problem is they are reluctant to go cause they are scared of the results.
Absolutely 💯
Yes a real video i love these videos
Good evening Calvin,
that's very funny you bring this up. Those questions are not asked in the states, so I know they are not asked abroad. Hunger removes a lot of preliminary questioning on both sides, everyone is on their best behavior until their objective changes. I agree it is best to ask these questions, but most of us don't. The real reason is because with all the things going on around us we are just happy to be alive. EVERYONE HAS A VERY GOOD QUESTION UNTIL THEY GET HIT WITH THAT LUST BUG. The question is: "ARE YOU SMARTER THAN AN STD?"
Calvin, this is not a video for dating in the Philippines, but a video for Worldwide Dating!
Haha!! Good video bro. When I get over there I’ll definitely have a couple boxes of condoms. And I won’t be getting into any relationships over there. Too late for that in my opinion I’m in my early 50s, I won’t be saving some poor single mother of 2-3 kids. I just can’t afford it. I’m fine with dying alone.
You nailed it again bro! Social media and Dating apps have made casual sex easy in the USA and possibly in the Philippines all contributing to the high risks
thats why i love u man,,
My Pinay married very young. Her husband was unfaithful for her through their entire marriage, and he left shortly after she was pregnant with her second child. I insisted on getting tested both her and I got tested at the same time not because of anything she did but I was afraid of what her husband might’ve contracted and passed on to her. It wasn’t a pleasant conversation, but it was a necessary one. Total cost of the testing was under $50 for both of us well worth it for peace of mind.
I was guilty of that in the 90's
Promiscuity may lead to prescriptions
Ask for a CENOMAR.
Why would you say someone is lying if they asked these questions and took each other to the Dr. I did ask and I took her to the Dr. And bought her meds 8k. I was in the room with her, and the Dr was very blunt. I'm not going into the details, but we're still together.
Congratulations because you're the exception. Good thing you did take her to the doctor. She must have been really sick to spend 8K on meds 😮
Good info👍🏾🇺🇸🇵🇭
Boss Cal
That’s real I even ate the 🙈 and never even thought about that
I also suggest ask the question ❓: "What was your biological sex @ birth ?"