Narcissist Dont Change...They Just Change People
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They are loyal to no one, not even to themselves because they lie to themselves.
Big LIARS
"The narcissist always has one foot in and one foot out." So true.
In their minds You are always replaceable! FACTS.
Wolves in sheep's clothing 🙏
You are so right!! I remember when I called off our wedding everyone was like did he cheat? While I have no proof of him cheating, knowing what I know now I wouldn't put it past him. I called off the wedding bc after 6yrs of talking about having a family together, 6months before the wedding he told me he never wanted kids. When the drs thought I had cancer and were running tests, he said it was too much for him to deal with and left town for 7days. Later I found out he was vacationing in Cuba while I was alone wondering if I had cancer. When i got sick again he said my health issues were causing him to doubt marrying me. He had a habit of being emotionally unfaithful. Of never being there when I really needed him to be. He was only emotionally available when it suited or benefited him or if ppl were around. I honestly think being emotinally unfaithful provides the same feelings as being betrayed by someone who is sexually unfaithful.
its so crazy how spot on these videos are and how all narcs DO THE EXACT SAME THING!!!
My ex narc went and found new supply when I forced him to go to therapy. She has two small children and they are now a happy family.😑 his way of locking this in is his promise to her. He is a very motivated and aspiring person. Very giving and a go getter. He treated me like pure shit and abused me for 6 years and now he gets to go off and pretend. I’m stuck in reality.
I no longer wish to be just somebody's fairytale, im here to be your wake up call!!
This is my ex this whole video they say that they love you but they're just buying time to keep you around and they keep you around it will use you exploit you abuse you then when they find somebody else they throw you in the trash they always have a backup and they always have one step out the door because they want you to think that you are not good enough and that you were replaceable and for you to work harder and when you work harder it still won't be good enough oh I know this all too well it's all a game and it's a very dangerous game
Can’t change when you don’t believe you have a problem 💯
Their true reality is a horrifying hell.
Knowledge is indeed power
Omg had a bad day....Im in no contact - tears today - my narc used to constantly tell me “i am going to replace you”! “Don’t get too comfortable”. He used to text his nieces & nephews - who I got on with “I am thinking of replacing Auntie T”!
The kids would get upset - Id be upset and he would say “I am only joking”!
Today I was crying because I felt so angry and stupid why did I not leave sooner, how could I have loved such a person etc etc! Came home this video popped up - “They are planning to replace you always”! Made me feel better - its the Narcs not us nothing we could do better they are just crazy people! Thank you 🙏🏻 kept me strong tonight !
I agree they can be over the top however, my narc met his match. I wasn't falling for the okie doke. I was always many steps ahead. And at the end of the day I won the game. #checkmate
They Reject God, Reality & Themselves~nothing good comes from that #Jude 1:12
Wait till u have a health crisis,crickets..even when they pick u up from hospital.Coldest &;#!%/you ever meet.Zero empathy.If u stay after this,bad you.Walk fast!!!
I find this to be so true. I am just coming out of a relationship with a narcissist. I met this person back in 2017 and right after our relationship started he went to prison for two year after only 8-weeks in the relationship. I saw some red flags then but I was unsure so I stayed the course for the two-years, fast forward to 2019, he was released in September and immediately I saw those same red flags and much more. After discussing issue after issue until I was blue in the face for about 5-months, I discarded him and he turned into this vile creature. As a licensed counselor, I should have seen the signs, however, I always give people the benefit of the doubt. Everything that you have said is exactly who he is, no empathy, never wrong, cheater, liar, thief, and empty.
You nailed this one on the dot. I really thought we were going to be forever because he said he would never enjoy life again without me and that I was his better half and nothing would jeopardize our relationship. I was married 20 years and when he was in his 20s I knew he was cheating but he seemed to settle down in his 30s. Or so I thought! I felt he could be entertaining someone else but there was a strong denial on my end thinking he wouldn't be that dirty especially after all we went through but damn I was so wrong. After about 10 years of thinking he settled down with me it ended with him trying to take my life because he didn't want the responsibility of a family and he felt I was the only thing standing in the way between him and his new narc. I'm only alive today because my brother came to my rescue and I thank God hes still alive after my ex slashed his throat with a meat cleaver. Another thing you said is it gets worse every time you take them back. I thought he mellowed out after 30 but when he got this new source lined up the abusive side of him went full on demonic with the last and finale discard. That Hot and Cold crap had me thinking he was on drugs and that he couldn't be that abusive over a new source. He didn't want me to move on and made every effort to try and destroy my self-esteem, credit, new car, new phone, house, relationships with the children, and others before he snapped. I wish I found your channel sooner but I thank God for the wisdom I gained from you. You tell it like it is with what I experienced and you give me goose bumps when you start telling what sounds to be my story. You gave me the understanding of my experience and that's taking me far into my healing. Thank you.
My baby daddy is like this every video you did describe him im am so amazed you got him down to the science lol he just left me for a new supply and this women is not attractive and she has five kids his is on desperation mode right now i told him your just around her beacuse its tax season lol then when he get what he wants he will flip on her lol
Very well said. What we need we the survivors is our sanity. That is why your work is so important. Very clearly said the patterns they use and their way of thinking. The knowledge is our freedom.So co survivors we have a chance to thrive and move on...
Great presentation Quinn. I thought I came down too hard when I learned about the affairs. I had a beautiful home and two beautiful children. I asked the narc to be honest with me, and they filed for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty. The court ordered psychologist blamed me. I lost everything. I wish I knew about NPD. I nearly committed suicide. I want to know if my adult children should be told.
Wow!!! This is excellent! You know your stuff! I went through it with my ex-Narcissist! You described him to a tee! Thank you for this video.
Great title Quinn.
Some narcs & empaths don't want to hear this truth.. they don't want to admit that the narc is an accumulator. I know of 2narcs that are together and the female one gets angry because her partner has a wondering eye and dingaling lol. So she blames everyone else but fails to admit that he just loves women! simple.
Parents do this too.. they change faves of their kids.
Deep stuff...Thank you Quinn.
That the best shit I heard all year 💯.
👄 sometimes it's
so hard hearing the
truth... thanks Quinn
My ex used to say that she wasn't jealous of her married friends because she had freedom. I thought maybe it was a language issue since she's English second language but come to find out she was pretty sincere.
Quinn as always your my counselor. 😊
The narc told me I know we will not be friends. Abd you will leave. I thought what a strange comment.
Now I fully know what ut means. You will do every attempt to find safety and protection. When I unlease the full force if shock and awh destruction in your life. With no recall code. The nuclear ICBM.. headed right for you. But have not turned the keys to launch.it.
But they did
Facts.
I'm married still to Narc, NC for 3years,she & son living w/her parents. Daughter married, Narc completely got son to go NC w/me, now daughter is to.
Do I just flip the off switch w/my kids.. so I can move on?
...change for good...
atleast there is change
...if not for narc... evenso...
Change is still happening
Mine used me to improve himself only to hurt me future fake a life we were going to have all I wanted was basic happiness not $$$$ we had none and this evil man left me to marry only 4 months after our engagement was off It really devastating me and I still don't know why? All the comments here are similar pain
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