What is "narcissistic rage"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)
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And next day he is calm like nothing happened while the rest of us are traumatised
“People become so scared of the narcissistic rage that they become afraid of communicating with the narcissist.” Yes. This.
Another unsettling aspect of being in a relationship with this kind of person is how they’ll manipulate and push you by insulting, belittling, controlling, devaluing (and more) you, again and again until you to at some point lose it, lash out and all the pent up feelings burst out…and then they’ll use it as evidence that you’re the “crazy”, aggressive, violent one.
I always felt when dealing with this in a person it's like walking on eggshells. You're always having to be careful of what you say and do. You keep a lot inside yourself just to keep the peace. Its very uncomfortable and very unhealthy.
In my family, it was always in private. To the world, this person was a saint....but we knew. Sigh.
My childhood just flashed before me. Also raging in a car then expecting you to act normal when you get wherever you’re going.
Ex-mother in law would always say: "He has a very sensitive nervous system. You provoked him. It's your fault". It was horrific
Did anyone else's heart start racing when she started describing the violence?
The "positive" aspect of witnessing this rage is that it can help the narc's victim finally realize that the narc is not just "difficult" but truly disturbed.
"None of us are responsible for the narcissist's rage." Amen 👏👏👏
My Dad was a narcissist with huge anger control problems. Was very draining to be around him. They're like spiritual vampires.
The lying and manipulation from my ex narcissist were bad, but the rage was absolutely terrifying. He punched walls, broke furniture, threw things, screamed and lunged at me. He nearly got us into a car accident a few times while raging as he drove, sometimes with our baby in the backseat. I'm so glad it's over. Anytime I start to miss being married, I just reflect back on those incidents and thank God we got away.
I always thought the “their eyes turned black” thing was either hyperbole or symbolism, until I saw it happen. It’s terrifying. My blood ran cold. The room went silent & all I could hear in my head was RUN. And run I did. That is the one time in my life I genuinely felt I might be about to die at the hand of another. If you ever see someone’s eyes go dark, I implore you to run as well!
I was one of those “he never hit me” ok but he punched and broke my bedroom door multiple times, slammed every door and cabinet, terrified me as he drove super fast, oh and let’s not forget him towering over me and spitting in my face. Sounds like violence to me
Yeah, my only thought in how to avoid relationships with narcissists is to have a zero tolerance policy for rage. If it’s happens once, they are done.
The narcissistic rage depicted in the movie "Mommy Dearest" is hard for me to watch as my mother behaved towards me like that. Eyes popping out, screaming, whipping, slugging, verbal abuse.Somehow, I always knew that there was something wrong with mommy. A realization that saved me.
I can’t even watch this video without being retraumatized by the memory of that persons rage.
You won’t want to tell the narcissist how you feel because you’re afraid they’ll just yell instead of talk it out and try to make it better.
My mother's narcissistic ranting sent my grandfather into a stroke and 10 days later he was dead. Back then we didn't know it was narcissism. Now we have a name to it. To the rest of the world she is a saint. To this day she sends all of us messages remembering my grandfather's birthday and acting like the best daughter in the world when she was the one that killed him. I'm just thankful I was the child that got away.
I grew up with a covert narcissistic mother. She did her "dark arts" when no one else was around. I completely agree it would look like a demon took over, their features would change and their voice would turn into something sinister. I would be left paralyzed in fear.