He Was Obsessed With Me And I Couldn’t Escape
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- Welcome to Unfiltered Stories! Today our guest Talia Gamble shares her life story with us. When she was 14, she met a 19-year-old junior, who slowly became obsessed with her. His obsession with her became dangerous and unbearable as he kept following and cornering her. Her childhood and innocence were taken by this man.
She had flashbacks and specific triggers about her experience even after years. She now has a daughter and gives advice to parents to give their kids a safe space to speak freely
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You can tell by that combover that man doesn’t let anything go.
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Best comment I’ve read today😂😂😂😂
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30?! What the heck had he been doing with his life? My husband is 55 and looks younger than him. My daughter’s husband is nearly 30 and looks so young compared to the photo you show. Drink? Drugs? Hard life? Combination of all three? He’d look a bit young if he just shaved all the hair off.
Predators never stop. My Father got me, my brother and his own grandchildren TOO. So, it didn't matter about the genders or anything else. What matters was the availability of the victims and how easily he could get to us. This person would have NEVER stopped himself unless he was going to be put in prison. Constantly monitoring for vulnerable children who would be interested in his machinations. It doesn't matter what this victim looks like today. She's trying to raise her daughter in the correct way to protect her against future damages from the no doubt predators who are STILL waiting for victims here in society. Because, without questions they are here. AND, sometimes they don't have scary comb overs. BUT, any adults who take an inappropriate interest in a youngster, develop a deeper than normal or sexualized connection with them. This should be a red flag. Particularly if the child is told to keep these things as a secret knowledge. Or given "special gifts for participating."
I think what you're doing with your daughter is amazing. You're a great mom and sorry for what happened to you.
It's so important to provide kids a safe space! Thank you for your support! 💛
7:45 That extreme comb-over though. When a dude is that in denial of his own hairline, he's probably in denial about being a supercreep
This is me. This is my story. Thank you all SO much for your support. 🖤
They must've got his age wrong this man wasn't 5 years older more like 15
There’s a great book called “good touch, bad touch” written by a survivor as well.
Hope he experiences all the trauma he caused others when he goes to prison
Peer on peer grooming and SA absolutely exists and it is even harder as a survivor to frame it correctly.
I know that in this case it's a 19 year old assulting a 14 year old but they were students at the same school hence me referring to it as peer on peer.
Talia, it saddens me to know this was happening down the street from my house. Had i known any of this, i would have broken his neck when i had the chance. I'm so sorry.
You know her
Glad you spoke out❤❤ me on the other hand the right people know not that anybody got prosecuted for the abuse i had i have a narcassist alcoholic mother.....and basically if she heard i am saying i was abused she would say im lying which is wrong.....but i don't care for her opinions my own children don't like her🙄🙄
The right people believe me and that's what matters
Not cool to judge a person by their looks, but I just gotta say that dude at 6:34 looks like evil personified. Not sayin' that what he did to Talia wouldn't be so bad if he was handsome, but holy crap he looks like a monster, and of course he proved it by his gruesome SA.
So sorry this happened to you, Talia. The beautiful photo of you at that age is heartbreaking in context of your story. So sweet and innocent. So horrible that you lost your virginity to this demon rather than surrender it lovingly to your future husband at the appropriate time.
And I LOVE what your future husband said to this villain on their first encounter. THAT's what a real man does to protect his woman! Some feminists may call that "toxic masculinity", but OK, whatever. I'm a cis het male and it kind of turned ME on a just a little! Damn! Give that a#*swipe child molester a little dose of the Dirty Harry treatment.
That man. In that photo is 30 in dog years
It's strange to put "like" on this video. But I wanna help to promote the story. The horrible truth is never easy to be accepted, but everyone must be awareness to protect ourselves and our kids.
You are totally right
Liking this video to help it get on to the algorhythm so more people can see it. I am so sorry to hear about your experience and the experience that the other girls went through at the hands of this sick monster. People need to hear your story. People need to know that it's not ok for individuals to force themselves on others and boundaries must ALWAYS be respected and if something like this happens, to not feel ashamed to tell someone and get help/support. Thank you for coming forward to tell this difficult story. Sending healing thoughts your way. ♥
Thank you so much for your support ♥
I'm so sorry that you had to deal with all of that. Just, in case you ever think you did something wrong, know that you didn't. Also, good job, Momma! Empower your daughter. 😊
Never give in!! Sorry this happened to you
She said “D said something MILDLY PERVERTED “
You put “D said something MIGHTLY PREVENTIVE”
How could those two things be alike? If you are going to highlight that sentence at least listen and get it right.
PENCHANT not PENSION! Penchant is a strong or habitual liking for something. In his case it was young girls. The people who do your subtitles need to listen harder and have a little more education. If something doesn’t fit then think about what May fit instead that sounds like it. Rewind, re listen, rewind again re listen until you get the right word. Don’t just throw a word in with a ‘that’ll do’ attitude.
Where were your parents
Well now we know hes still stalking her named jamie chavez ...any hackers want to track that fer down?
I’m so glad I didn’t date on high school. Things like this will haunt you
Later. He looks funny.
He has the head of a robber’s dog
This is sooo sad 😔 he took the advantage of you 😢 its not your fault 😢 he was a womanizer he is a old jerk 😢 😉 please start gone to chruch invite God into your life 😢 💔💔😭😇😪💔💔😇😇😢
Church really 😮 There's child molesters at church and Down Low Men there too
Outstanding my dear❣️ You are loved with an EVERLASTING LOVE
Some men r just not well.
If you read this comment that is still a form of rape! You said no, you said you weren't ready , like you said he just took what he wanted. I dont want you or anyone to walk through life thinking there is only one form of rape.
You’re amazing, thank you for your testimony.❤️
Omg i can reto sooo many things dhe said like sm1 touching your face making you recoil omg 😢, certain smells, certain things a person can say, being so young and innocent and have that taken away. What's really really sad/messed up is i don't even remember losing my virginity
Also, good point at the end bc I think a lot of parents avoid certain situations when we become teenagers!!! Like they trying to the the “cool mom/dad” or just neglectful bc they don’t want to be bothered. I was neglected as a child. I will make sure my kid is ok even till death
I was going to submit a story, but whatever website is linked for sharing looks like a total scam…there isn’t even anywhere to submit.
Idk how to trust this channel now.
You have to physically type the link into your browser..not sure why but only half of it is a clickable hyperlink. I had the same issue.
Those wires hanging from your lower 👄 lips really look painful 😖
I have a grown up daughter too but she has been with her highschool boyfriend and he wouldn't ever try doing anything forceful....i understand that one that you don't want the same to happen she knows what happened to me and yeah ive always told her if your uncomfortable or unhappy never feel forced into anything....but she wouldn't tolerate anybody like that she has a mouth on her like myself i speak as i find these days.....even if people don't appreciate the truth😂❤❤
The school wasn’t paying attention either how was he 19 in school smh
The School was a where of his age
Dang Josh great job!
Thanks for sharing ❤
Great job at being 💪 and a wonderful mom ❤
id' tell my dad if i was her
I still deal with flashbacks from being sexually abused when I was a child but there not so frequent
Just seeing his face made me shudder in disgust😖😖😖 gross
Just say no and call the police
Talia I'm sorry that you were assaulted and was stalked by that monster I hope that you are doing better in your life now and have healed from your trauma
You’re so well spoken.. thank you for your story.
Penchant not pension
Brave SO❤L
Erik Satie again
Why did you tell him where you lived? half of your problems could have been solved if you didn't tell him where you lived. also that man is not 30.
That sounds like victim playing, there would have been 0 problems if that predator kept his hands to himself and not be a crazy creepy stalker who assaults people.
@@wartanabadanooh7157 I'm not trying to victim blame, I'm just asking questions. If she said she thought she wasn't into to him why tell him where you live? I'm not blaming anyone, but at the end of the day, she should know at 14 not to give out her address to people she doesn't know or like. If other people did that, we would be told they're 'looking for trouble' so I don't know why it's so wrong to ask questions or point out the flaws in someone's behaviour that may have then caused them future issues. Yes that fool should have not been an abuser, but she should have been more protective of her safe space because you never know who'll turn out to be an abuser.
@@jiolion-zion9716Because it doesn't change a thing. If she liked him, he would've assaulted and harassed her anyway. Who cares whether she gave her address or not? She mentions multiple other victims who didn't give their address but still got assaulted in other places. She got assaulted in places other than her home. You ARE victim blaming by saying she shouldn't have done this or that, when clearly it didn't matter what she did, he was out to hurt her and we should all condemn what he did instead of criticizing her for handling this horrible situation.
@@jiolion-zion9716She was a KID! Come on. Kids are dumb and she’s totally inexperienced. You ARE victim blaming, and a minor at that
@@jiolion-zion9716 you are totally blaming the victim she was just a child
You have it up.
I am grateful to say that I am a born again Christian and have been since I was 19.......the reason I believe we have mean parents bad teachers and some of the meanest ppl who do some of the cruelest things such as abuse sometimes molest prey on children or anyone for any evil purpose!!!!!! we know that Satan is the ultimate abuser, molestor, and predator as the Bible says in 1 Peter 5:8 He goes around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour!!!!!! And it even breaks my heart that children are having to be taken to safe places! folks if you don’t know Christ as your savior then it burdens my soul to think that you are headed for a terrible place called Hell where the Bible says the fire is never quenched and the worm dies not! Folks you are not promised tomorrow! If you want to know how to be saved from this horrible reality then please by all means don’t hesitate to comment right back so I can lead you to the savior! 2 Corinthians 6:2 clearly states “now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation!” And Hebrews 3:aw15 clearly states, “Today if you hear his voice don’t harden your hearts! it is not me but the Holy Spirit that I pray reveals to you the truth of his precious gospel......John 3:16 says for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes on him will not perish but have everlasting life! V 17 says then V 18 says whoever believes on the son is not condemned but whoever does not believe on the son is condemned already because he has not believed on the son whom God has sent! Also Acts 16:30-31 what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house I am not threatening anyone but just warning them what will happen if they reject this precious gift of eternal life! Christ died a horrible criminals death! He was beaten brutally mocked spit upon and endured countless hours of torture pain for all of our sins! Ppl go to hell because they reject that pardon for their sins! And Jesus is saying to them in Matthew 25:41 depart from me you cursed into everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels! Hell was only prepared for Satan and his angels! It is not God who threatens anyone it is the craziness of rejecting the free pardon of salvation! It’s like if you’re in court you’ve committed a crime say you murdered someone! Now if you say to that Judge hey I know I’ve done a terrible thing of murdering that person but I hear you’re a good judge and so I know you’ll be fair to me...... the judge is going to reply well yes you’re right about one thing I am a good judge and because I’m a good judge I’m going to see to it that you’re punished and that justice is served! Well then all of a sudden someone you don’t even know comes forward and says you know what I know he’s committed the crime he’s committed and he deserves to go to jail but I really don’t want to see him go to prison so I’ll just go to prison for him so he can go free! So if you accepted that offer you’d be free to leave the courtroom but if you didn’t well you’d be crazy and go to prison yourself! Well that’s exactly how it was 2,000 years ago! He is God in human flesh and he came to this earth lived a perfect sinless life and even though he knew that we had sinned and because of our sins deserved to die miserably but he said no I don’t want to see them suffer so I will go and take their punishment for them! Even though he did absolutely nothing wrong still he chose to take the punishment for our sins so we can be set free from the power bondages and consequences of our disobedience to God! Romans 5:8 says For God commends his love toward us that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us! 1 John 2:2 says he was made to be the propitiation for our sins! And not just for our sins but the sins of the whole world! 2 Corinthians 5:21 He who knew no sin became Sin for us that we would be made his righteousness! The truth is if you had to get to Heaven by your own effort then you cannot do it! Because Romans 3:10 says there is not one that does good! No Not One! Romans 3:23 says For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God! Romans 6:23 says For the wages of sin is death! But the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our lord! But the good news is Romans 10:9 If we confess with our mouth and believes in our hearts that Christ died for our sins then was raised from the dead we will be saved! V 10 For it’s with the heart we believe and it’s with the mouth confession is made unto salvation! God gave us 10 commandments to follow and we’ve broken every one of them! And because God is a good God he cannot allow our disobedience to him to go unpunished! Well then like I just mentioned above his son Jesus stepped forward and said no I don’t want to see them punished so I will take their punishment for them! And also like I said he died a terrible substitute criminal’s death for us on a cross so now all we have to do is accept that payment for our sins and we can escape the terrible wrath of God that is to fall on them who do not accept this atonement that was sacrificed for our sins! Praise the lord Romans 10:13 says Whoever calls on the name of the lord shall be saved! And 1 Peter 1:4 you’re an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you! Christ clearly said in John 14:6 I am the way the truth and the life and no one comes to the father but through me! Acts 4:12 clearly states that there is no other name given unto Heaven or earth by which we must be saved as there is salvation in no other! Jesus clearly states that there is clearly only one way to Salvation and it’s him that’s it! There is no other way! God Bless everyone who reads!
You looked so nice without the face piercings, you dont need them, beautiful ❤
This comment really added something to the discussion. Thanks for your deep insight.
why do yall insist on telling people what they should and should not do with their looks/bodies?? Especially when it’s unsolicited advice . If you don’t like it , don’t get it for yourself. But let ppl like/get what tf they want to like/get . Damnn smh
100%% agtee 😢
This os exactly ehy she does need them. People will leave her alone of she has them and isnt pretty. Pretty girls get attemtion they dont want.
@@Padraigp I have piercings and still get lots of unwanted attention 😂😂
So nice try … not everyone find them unattractive unfortunately