Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?
I think this is opposite 🤔 I'll explain why. Every scenario is different. Push him to pursue his dreams, leaves you in the dust... With his mom, or he gets cancer after made millions, or gets with another out if status or fame. All is impermanent. End of day save as much as you can throughout the years, as I didn't so you go back to abuse and if nicer after cancer depending on the age of the man. 30 is dirty... not evolved. 60 us companionship but health issues may arise. It does depend on age, who you are at heart and them. To salvage anything means willing to sacrifice your needs for them if they want to provide and you shut your mouth be a kept somewhat women and put needs on weekends or be the teacher if you can't get there without vehicle or transportation, find friends, people who inspire, and if there wiling to fly you back home do it again and again 😉 influence is key 🔑 because you as a women will never get ahead worth millions and if they have you on their will its all fair in love and war. Abuse before health happens so they realize your worth that's 😢sucks!!!! Passion is immature lystful no gamble leave that behind. True love will let you go but ultimately knows you want freedom and independence even if they tey to keep or bond you with money. Get put while you can on your own two feet if not without a child make your MILLIONS You tube 🎉🎉🎉channel or not, or have them pay for nursing, just do it. Everything they want they know a woman beeds..needs... and what they bring to table bit NEVER SACRIFICE YOURSELF YOUR LIFE, YOUR PEACE, DESIRES, WANTS ETC FOR ANYONE! One of my hardest lessons last 2 years.
@@madisonmcgettigan3296 if that's the case...why are you with him? Let's be serious ladies. When you started dating him he was already that way, so why would he change now? Yo accepted him that way. And if not...ok well, then you separate from him. Why? How? Because if you have to choose between letting someone down or yourself, let them down. And how? Doing it. Is difficult of course, but if you don't the only person suffering is you.
As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.
There's a difference though. It needs to come naturally from her....not just because she's getting more love from you. If you truly love someone be it either man or woman....why wouldn't you want the best for them?? That's my opinion anyway.
@@dijonvolner6024 none of this is natural. You naturally want to leave your woman and sleep with 1,000’s of 18 year olds. You are naturally lazy and undisciplined. Naturally, you would never change or work on yourself. So it takes discipline to be a good partner. You have to work on consciously doing these things. Like constantly having patience and being able to give your undivided attention to your woman when she wants to talk. Women need to do the same except they need to show support for their men.
@@weekendwankere69 I don’t think you understand the concept . Man or woman whether you are protecting or being protected, when someone discusses a polarizing topic in genuine and honest manner, you protect that person because you value the insight.
@@ManuelaSeven I think how she explained the concept had depth and any man or woman that speak candidly about a serious topic should be protected period. I don’t care how many people have said it..doesnt change the fact that its true
Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊
This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.
Here from tik tok. Your content on that platform is GOLD and I'm glad you're bringing it to TH-cam because the advice you share is absolutely vital for women of today. Keep marching forward and doing the Lords work!
Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life
I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.
No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤
You are one of my most down to earth straight to the point TH-camr who I watch and enjoy. From fashion, new mum, lovely daughter, and amazing wife you always stand to your believes which are very relatable to many. Don’t have tik tok so hope you don’t stop posting on you tube. 🥰💖
The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!
This grrrrrrrl has the gift of gab. I think she’s brilliant and have sent her channel to my best friends in need of her worthy advice. Keep it coming Margarita. 😊
You speak nothing but facts Margarita! You have completely changed my thinking over the course of a month! My life has never been better. You also are so funny! 🤣
Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
would love to see you break down how to begin to build self confidence. I’ve been working on that for a while and have come a long way. Healing mild attachment and just caring too much about what he thinks. Wanting to learn to provide that for myself
Please continue with all this information that you’re providing us with as women. I am so grateful to have access to such information especially being a young 20 year old who eventually wants to get married and have a family at some point. Thank you so much From South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕
It was a women who wrote the article. And a women who made this video to na.e it exactly same. Looks like your women arent too sharp with their feminism BS 😂
Good thing i am boy i was never manipulated by girls do your bulshit like you want to you will never manipulate me trust you can try but you wont manipulate peapole can try but they cant get me
I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.
00:28 📹 Margarita Nazarenko discusses how to manipulate men, emphasizing her recent success on TikTok and separating her life coaching content from luxury-focused videos. 01:54 🎙 She clarifies misconceptions about manipulation, stressing her focus on building positive relationships and encouraging mutual support between partners. 03:44 🤔 Margarita advocates for skillful influence rather than forceful manipulation, emphasizing the importance of feminine energy in achieving mutual goals. 07:38 💡 She advises against complaining and nagging, suggesting positive reinforcement and setting an example instead to foster healthy relationships. 10:26 🔒 Margarita recommends maintaining personal boundaries and not revealing intimate details early in dating to preserve self-value and confidence. 11:38 💑 She highlights the importance of supporting worthy partners in committed relationships, advocating for mutual respect and admiration. 13:40 📝 Margarita commits to providing more content, addressing viewer questions, and offering insights into various life subjects while incorporating fashion content.
I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!
Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!
Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx
Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️
So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content. I actually find you pretty straight forward!
Oh yes, sticking up for men to nit be manipulated is so insane. You know what really is insane? Abusing and manipulating us all while wondering why we won't take you all seriously...
I came here to get some tips on how to manipulate men, but then I learn its about support and encourage his passions?? Am I his therapist ? His coach? His rehab? Enough of women working for 2 and more. I just wanna know how to treat men the way they are learned to treat us (systematically) . Who caressss about their passions and stuff, honestly.
Man I'm glad I found your tiktoks, I met a man that I fell head over heels for, the more I wrote and texted paragraphs the more he pushed away. I was chasing so bad and not getting what i wanted. I started listening to what you where saying. After I stopped texting and chasing he started coming back around. I felt better for not sitting g by the phone and waiting for his response. I took charge of my life, now if he wants me he will chase me. He hasn't chased much and that makes me move on to better..
I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well. The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.
By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.
They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays. On a side not~ I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.
I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗
I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.
Wow wow wow!! This is absolutely amazing advice….I dunno but the way you put information out there is so wonderful and easy to see how it would aid a relationship. Thank you for sharing this!
You have been the only one to explain dynamic men and dynamic women and how to create a healthy harmonized life by sharing your gifts and wanting the best for people because you have been hurt and now lead people thru their darkest time because you have faced them thru your life experiences. Can't say how happy and how Very grateful I personally am and glad you are posting again. You are a life saver. Not to say your message is easy to hear at first but it is so refreshing Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are so closed because they are stuck in their ego. But any publicity is good publicity. Your break down of the article helped even more, the real task at hand about what you are trying to teach and correcting the false projection, that you are doing this for your ego, also a master class of how not to fall for being bated. It is helpful to see emotion regulation be modeled where most of us never had that taught to us.
We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?! Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you. Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely? We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.
I imagine it was a lot easier to support your husband in projects that you did believe in whereas now (or at least when you posted) you don’t believe in his current project. Here’s the thing you’re being 100% genuine and you’re trying to remain genuine, that is admirable. Now her advice is correct you need to support the current project, you just have to find a facet of this project (aside from the fact that he’s committed to it) that you do believe in so that you can pour your genuine enthusiasm into him. If you don’t like it, perhaps the skills he uses in pursuing it are transferable? You’ll find an angle.
Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!
Sometimes you need talk to a person in a certain way to get them to understand. If your calling that manipulative then so be it. I’ve seen this with my mum. She’ll say something to my dad. He goes in defence mode thinking she’s nagging. Then I say the same thing but worded in a manner that he understand and if he thinks I’m right then he’ll agree with me. I’ve told my mum and aunt dad’s sister. With my dad you need to word yourself strategically . So you can’t be blunt and say whatever thing you want in a straight forward way. Where’s with my bro he doesn’t like that you need to be blunt. Just like how everyone has a love language. Everyone also has a understanding language too. My friend understands what I’m trying to say because when I talk to her and I’m trying to get my point across I give her examples. I Have no children she has 2 but I did help my mum with my bro. So if we are talking about children I use my own experience or from my bro. She’s a female, when I talk to my bff from high school I’m 30 now so I know her for 15yrs. Again I’m direct with her but also tone into my emotions more. Because she’s a compassionate person too. So understands better if you talk emotionally. I don’t know what you call this or even if there’s a name for it. But that’s not me being manipulative . Because I have no bad intentions when I’m doing this. This works for me on men and women. All I’m doing is understanding any individual understanding language. For me it only works if I know the person. It would be wrong if I was trying to brainwash someone but even for that the individual has to use their own mind.
In my opinion, you shouldn’t even apologise…it’s in vain! They are not going to understand and you are wasting your time! I think you are very brave and your guidance is correct!❤
I've always saw you as an inteligent woman, who advices your audience with the best advices,acording to your experience, i always loved your videos and i don't understand why it is so difficult for some people to aknowledge this and support it,to more women like you!
@@Margarita.Nazarenko you do you,i know your audience loves it!And please let's support this kind of content that gives the best advices to live a much better life as human beings.
Hi Margarita, I started calling you “the goat of feminine coaching” on Tiktok, just checking you out here. I think the press can be wack and it’s just designed to build you up and tear you down, I suggest you ignore the haters and out of context criticism; treat them like the other girl a man might be checking out. It’s bound to happen, be prepared and stay in your confidence and power. What I wanted to mention is that I took your advice on embodying feminine energy and how to navigate male/female dynamics-and I saw results almost immediately. So haters can say what they want (they’re just doing their job😑) but I find value in your content and perspective esp if it’s result driven. I think I was getting caught up in a certain type of aggressive energy or just “calling out” stuff and even if you’re right-nobody wants to hear it. People don’t respond well to it, especially not men. When I listened to your advice and leaned back into my feminine, focused on me, improving myself (and how i present/look) and pretty much didn’t nag, chase and became “bored” and uninterested-suddenly there’s more texts, phone calls and wanting to show up. It’s just facts; dynamics between men/women are real and often predictable. Even in a fast paced, modern and evolving world--some aspects are just not cut out for women so knowing how to act and respond can really change or improve the energy or way you move in life as the fairer sex. Just wanted to give you some feedback and let you know your videos helped and that I also don’t think you should address the haters at all because there’s more coming and you need to be unbothered or just act like it. Only address something if it’s really crucial, relevant or important. Get used to being a star 💫 and keep shining bright 🌟. Thank you 😊
Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time! Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊
Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.
I really hope he sees this and divorces your ass. It's not because you nagged him that he's better. It's because he continued trying to make both of your lives better despite your misandric abuse.
Straight up, how pissed off would you be if everything you did to try to lose weight and look good for your husband he called stupid? Actually, don't answer. You don't seem like the type of women who gives a shit hiw their husband feels...
I came across you today and fell in love with your content. I pretty much binged on your videos for the past few hours because it's so good and it speaks to my reality and life right now. Anyway, I never read this news article about you (they clearly didn't really watch your content to know what you stand for) but I want you to know that your content has blessed and quenched my soul and is helping me to not only survive my past traumas and relationships but it's helping me learn how to thrive in life and in the wonderful relationships that I have now. Please keep making this wonderful content. Sending only blessings/good vibes your way.
Can't worry about what haters believe. It's to bad they waited until you weren't busy with what you were doing but that's how bullies operate. Your doing a great job and I appreciate the content you bring us and I'm sure there are many of us. How your words were twisted. Keep up the good work girl!
Im truly in love with you! you really break things down into real realities. I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset. as for the media? well ? what did you expect? handle it as you always handle everything else, with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.
My husband is in therapy and it doesn't seem to be helping him much, he doesn't do any extra work or practice. Me on this channel and other, ex. put the shovel down, have help the most. It is like dog training, you need to teach the owner to be effective in training a dog and give it a healthy environment to grow. Having these women help us understand and handle our men properly is key. They are happier and healthier and so are we. They will have triggers hit a lot but use this time to enhance your emotional intelligence and work on yourself.
You might call that "individual guidance". It still feels so shallow because you can't have a real discussion with the other party. it's like walking on a mine field. You can only treat him like a dog so he always behaves like a dog
Your problems are only gonna be solved once you understand that you're the dog. You're the one being cared for and fed. You're the one who lives in this fantasy world where making yourself pretty and feeding someone's ego is gonna make your life better. A man has no other alternative but hard work. To be honest it is less like a dog and more like a sheep. Women feel safety in the herd, but the excess of conflicting messages and loss of community is making them go berserk. It is not about not being pampered for men. It is about the fact that you feel a biological imperative to make women's lives better. Now, I think most men agree, you can make your own life better.
Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.
Hi Margarita. Thank you for your videos. I am learning how to use my voice. I notice you have a strong voice. I feel awkward around people. They think im fake when i get excited. Much kove ❤
You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.
Great excuse for a reason to abuse men when you're not in control of your emotions. If this was applied to men you would call it toxic. Hold up a minute, you do...
Women nag because the men put up with it. Or maybe the man is slacking, but rest assured he knows it you can let him know gracefully not nag, it's like calling y our lady fat or overweight, she knows but don't nag on it, embrace it. You will get old one day. This video is much different than the title suggested, well done. That thing with the pizza vendor and Obama, so true, Obama knocked the pizza guy, but she said if she would have stayed with the pizza guy he would have been the president, I like her for that. She stuck up for the pizza guy. 10:55 100% correct, first 3 dates if you even have any, don't spill it all, it creates an attachment, because when a man asks questions a woman ASSUMES he is interested, but typically it's just to get laid. Cheat code 101 for women still stuck in a loop. The big deal is, the media wants to push feminism and disrupt the family home, they don't want women supporting/raising the man up. They wanna chase anything that finishes first.
I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!
agreed with those saying not to give too much air/fuel to such reductive "journalism," but god how i laughed at the line, "i don't mean support JAKE on the road over there"… keep up the great (& nuanced) work!
Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?
What if his passion is poker, gambling and video games
@@madisonmcgettigan3296😄
This is only possible is if he respects you and you put up boundaries from the beginning. Healthy ones
I think this is opposite 🤔 I'll explain why.
Every scenario is different. Push him to pursue his dreams, leaves you in the dust...
With his mom, or he gets cancer after made millions, or gets with another out if status or fame. All is impermanent.
End of day save as much as you can throughout the years, as I didn't so you go back to abuse and if nicer after cancer depending on the age of the man. 30 is dirty... not evolved. 60 us companionship but health issues may arise. It does depend on age, who you are at heart and them. To salvage anything means willing to sacrifice your needs for them if they want to provide and you shut your mouth be a kept somewhat women and put needs on weekends or be the teacher if you can't get there without vehicle or transportation, find friends, people who inspire, and if there wiling to fly you back home do it again and again 😉 influence is key 🔑 because you as a women will never get ahead worth millions and if they have you on their will its all fair in love and war. Abuse before health happens so they realize your worth that's 😢sucks!!!!
Passion is immature lystful no gamble leave that behind. True love will let you go but ultimately knows you want freedom and independence even if they tey to keep or bond you with money.
Get put while you can on your own two feet if not without a child make your MILLIONS
You tube 🎉🎉🎉channel or not, or have them pay for nursing, just do it.
Everything they want they know a woman beeds..needs... and what they bring to table bit NEVER SACRIFICE YOURSELF YOUR LIFE, YOUR PEACE, DESIRES, WANTS ETC FOR ANYONE!
One of my hardest lessons last 2 years.
@@madisonmcgettigan3296 if that's the case...why are you with him? Let's be serious ladies. When you started dating him he was already that way, so why would he change now? Yo accepted him that way. And if not...ok well, then you separate from him. Why? How? Because if you have to choose between letting someone down or yourself, let them down. And how? Doing it. Is difficult of course, but if you don't the only person suffering is you.
As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.
I love this! You nailed it! ❤️
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@@amgadmansour5310 TROLL
Her manipulation worked on you 😂
having this mindset, you will
Man here, super accurate.
When my woman supports the weird ideas I have, it makes me love her even more.
There's a difference though. It needs to come naturally from her....not just because she's getting more love from you. If you truly love someone be it either man or woman....why wouldn't you want the best for them?? That's my opinion anyway.
@@dijonvolner6024 none of this is natural. You naturally want to leave your woman and sleep with 1,000’s of 18 year olds. You are naturally lazy and undisciplined. Naturally, you would never change or work on yourself.
So it takes discipline to be a good partner. You have to work on consciously doing these things. Like constantly having patience and being able to give your undivided attention to your woman when she wants to talk.
Women need to do the same except they need to show support for their men.
@@caleb6595 damn, you just told on yourself with the first sentence. that's disgusting. speak for yourself, weirdo.
@@caleb6595 ew 18 y/os ur weird asf
It's called falling in line. It's a great thing for both sides.
This women is pure gold and needs to be protected at all costs
@parisak6170 By a man? You've got equality, you protect her.
@@weekendwankere69 nobody gets protected by men. people need protection From men. even men. cope
@@weekendwankere69 I don’t think you understand the concept . Man or woman whether you are protecting or being protected, when someone discusses a polarizing topic in genuine and honest manner, you protect that person because you value the insight.
@@ManuelaSeven I think how she explained the concept had depth and any man or woman that speak candidly about a serious topic should be protected period. I don’t care how many people have said it..doesnt change the fact that its true
nah miss esther vilar needs protection
Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊
I agree. She is the most grounded person I've come across on TH-cam. 💕
I want her to be MY best friend😂😂😂😂❤. If I could design one, it would be HER!!! I love her!😊♥️💛💜💚🤎
This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.
Here from tik tok. Your content on that platform is GOLD and I'm glad you're bringing it to TH-cam because the advice you share is absolutely vital for women of today. Keep marching forward and doing the Lords work!
Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life
I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.
im not sure why either... people are strange. thank you for leaving your supportive message
@@Margarita.Nazarenko I’m tryna get attached to you
No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤
I have no idea why TH-cam offered me her video, but I must say she is 100% correct. The RV example is spot on. Lots of wisdom in her perspectives.
I find your clarity and logic very satisfying
Missed you Margarita!! I don't have tik tok so had no idea - but good for you spreading positivity and trying to improve relationships !
You are one of my most down to earth straight to the point TH-camr who I watch and enjoy.
From fashion, new mum, lovely daughter, and amazing wife you always stand to your believes which are very relatable to many.
Don’t have tik tok so hope you don’t stop posting on you tube. 🥰💖
The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!
This grrrrrrrl has the gift of gab. I think she’s brilliant and have sent her channel to my best friends in need of her worthy advice. Keep it coming Margarita. 😊
You speak nothing but facts Margarita! You have completely changed my thinking over the course of a month! My life has never been better. You also are so funny! 🤣
When the mass media hates on you, that’s when you know that you’re doing something right
oh ok so that means edp445 is doing A LOT of things right, totally bro
@@Goofygoober-d8y love how brain dead people like you use extreme examples 😂
😂😂😂 when the mass media is part of the agenda
Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
would love to see you break down how to begin to build self confidence. I’ve been working on that for a while and have come a long way. Healing mild attachment and just caring too much about what he thinks. Wanting to learn to provide that for myself
Hello Lisa how are you
Guuuuurrrrrrlllll preach! As a therapist working with 95% men, I support your content 100%!
That's not Men you're working with 😂😂😂. That's shell of a man .
Please continue with all this information that you’re providing us with as women. I am so grateful to have access to such information especially being a young 20 year old who eventually wants to get married and have a family at some point. Thank you so much From South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
Love u margerita... you're really my virtual mum on here, 23 and been growing my self confidence because of you
The press really did twist your words😂
You are the best, even the tone in your voice to do this video is not in anger nor defensive, rather calm and assertive. Good teachings 🙌🏻🙏🏻
You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕
So many Incels I swear… doesn’t even make sense since most women don’t need men nowadays. 😒 They refuse to self reflect and instead just hate women.
it wasn't boys it was a lady who wrote tha article
It was a women who wrote the article. And a women who made this video to na.e it exactly same. Looks like your women arent too sharp with their feminism BS 😂
Good thing i am boy i was never manipulated by girls do your bulshit like you want to you will never manipulate me trust you can try but you wont manipulate peapole can try but they cant get me
I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.
Hello pretty how are you
00:28 📹 Margarita Nazarenko discusses how to manipulate men, emphasizing her recent success on TikTok and separating her life coaching content from luxury-focused videos.
01:54 🎙 She clarifies misconceptions about manipulation, stressing her focus on building positive relationships and encouraging mutual support between partners.
03:44 🤔 Margarita advocates for skillful influence rather than forceful manipulation, emphasizing the importance of feminine energy in achieving mutual goals.
07:38 💡 She advises against complaining and nagging, suggesting positive reinforcement and setting an example instead to foster healthy relationships.
10:26 🔒 Margarita recommends maintaining personal boundaries and not revealing intimate details early in dating to preserve self-value and confidence.
11:38 💑 She highlights the importance of supporting worthy partners in committed relationships, advocating for mutual respect and admiration.
13:40 📝 Margarita commits to providing more content, addressing viewer questions, and offering insights into various life subjects while incorporating fashion content.
I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!
I appreciate that and truly value you saying this thank you my love xxx
Hello pretty how are you
Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!
I will try. It’s a big topic x
Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx
Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️
So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content.
I actually find you pretty straight forward!
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Oh yes, sticking up for men to nit be manipulated is so insane. You know what really is insane? Abusing and manipulating us all while wondering why we won't take you all seriously...
I was dreading the title but this is an amazing video. Yes thanks! Thank you Margarita
I came here to get some tips on how to manipulate men, but then I learn its about support and encourage his passions?? Am I his therapist ? His coach? His rehab? Enough of women working for 2 and more. I just wanna know how to treat men the way they are learned to treat us (systematically) . Who caressss about their passions and stuff, honestly.
Same. There is a void for it bc I've been looking everywhere and can't find a topic on it
Man I'm glad I found your tiktoks, I met a man that I fell head over heels for, the more I wrote and texted paragraphs the more he pushed away. I was chasing so bad and not getting what i wanted. I started listening to what you where saying. After I stopped texting and chasing he started coming back around. I felt better for not sitting g by the phone and waiting for his response. I took charge of my life, now if he wants me he will chase me. He hasn't chased much and that makes me move on to better..
I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well.
The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.
Isn't it ironic that the media wants to rip into someone for "manipulation" 🙄
Beautifully shed your light where she tried to throw shade. Grateful for you and your content 💖
By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.
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I can listen to Margarita talk about paint drying and will still sit there and take notes
They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays.
On a side not~
I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.
Thank you. You help me have a sane, sereine, confident and happy relationship to people and to myself. Thank you. Go girl.
I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗
Don’t you just ADORE when you’re taken out of context.
Lovely ❤
Hello pretty how are you
I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.
Wow wow wow!! This is absolutely amazing advice….I dunno but the way you put information out there is so wonderful and easy to see how it would aid a relationship. Thank you for sharing this!
I’m from tik tok and have been waiting for some full length videos yay! Ready for more knowledge
You have been the only one to explain dynamic men and dynamic women and how to create a healthy harmonized life by sharing your gifts and wanting the best for people because you have been hurt and now lead people thru their darkest time because you have faced them thru your life experiences. Can't say how happy and how
Very grateful I personally am and glad you are posting again. You are a life saver. Not to say your message is easy to hear at first but it is so refreshing
Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are so closed because they are stuck in their ego. But any publicity is good publicity.
Your break down of the article helped even more, the real task at hand about what you are trying to teach and correcting the false projection, that you are doing this for your ego, also a master class of how not to fall for being bated.
It is helpful to see emotion regulation be modeled where most of us never had that taught to us.
yesssss
We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?!
Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you.
Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely?
We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.
I imagine it was a lot easier to support your husband in projects that you did believe in whereas now (or at least when you posted) you don’t believe in his current project. Here’s the thing you’re being 100% genuine and you’re trying to remain genuine, that is admirable. Now her advice is correct you need to support the current project, you just have to find a facet of this project (aside from the fact that he’s committed to it) that you do believe in so that you can pour your genuine enthusiasm into him. If you don’t like it, perhaps the skills he uses in pursuing it are transferable? You’ll find an angle.
Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!
The more success/influence you have the more resistance you will face
I discovered your content some months ago on tik tok and everything you say is gold.
You don’t have to wear makeup honestly not many people express that quality. The beauty is defined in you
Sometimes you need talk to a person in a certain way to get them to understand. If your calling that manipulative then so be it. I’ve seen this with my mum. She’ll say something to my dad. He goes in defence mode thinking she’s nagging. Then I say the same thing but worded in a manner that he understand and if he thinks I’m right then he’ll agree with me. I’ve told my mum and aunt dad’s sister. With my dad you need to word yourself strategically . So you can’t be blunt and say whatever thing you want in a straight forward way. Where’s with my bro he doesn’t like that you need to be blunt. Just like how everyone has a love language. Everyone also has a understanding language too. My friend understands what I’m trying to say because when I talk to her and I’m trying to get my point across I give her examples. I Have no children she has 2 but I did help my mum with my bro. So if we are talking about children I use my own experience or from my bro. She’s a female, when I talk to my bff from high school I’m 30 now so I know her for 15yrs. Again I’m direct with her but also tone into my emotions more. Because she’s a compassionate person too. So understands better if you talk emotionally. I don’t know what you call this or even if there’s a name for it. But that’s not me being manipulative . Because I have no bad intentions when I’m doing this. This works for me on men and women. All I’m doing is understanding any individual understanding language. For me it only works if I know the person. It would be wrong if I was trying to brainwash someone but even for that the individual has to use their own mind.
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In my opinion, you shouldn’t even apologise…it’s in vain! They are not going to understand and you are wasting your time! I think you are very brave and your guidance is correct!❤
Thank you for shedding light on emotional Intelligence which I feel is so super paramount in all dynamics ie work personal life ☯️✨️☯️
I've always saw you as an inteligent woman, who advices your audience with the best advices,acording to your experience, i always loved your videos and i don't understand why it is so difficult for some people to aknowledge this and support it,to more women like you!
Love you ❤
@@Margarita.Nazarenko you do you,i know your audience loves it!And please let's support this kind of content that gives the best advices to live a much better life as human beings.
You are such an inspiration, not only for women. Thank you for your work!
I first saw you on TikTok and glad that you make long videos here. You did a good job❤
Hi Margarita,
I started calling you “the goat of feminine coaching” on Tiktok, just checking you out here.
I think the press can be wack and it’s just designed to build you up and tear you down, I suggest you ignore the haters and out of context criticism; treat them like the other girl a man might be checking out. It’s bound to happen, be prepared and stay in your confidence and power. What I wanted to mention is that I took your advice on embodying feminine energy and how to navigate male/female dynamics-and I saw results almost immediately. So haters can say what they want (they’re just doing their job😑) but I find value in your content and perspective esp if it’s result driven. I think I was getting caught up in a certain type of aggressive energy or just “calling out” stuff and even if you’re right-nobody wants to hear it. People don’t respond well to it, especially not men. When I listened to your advice and leaned back into my feminine, focused on me, improving myself (and how i present/look) and pretty much didn’t nag, chase and became “bored” and uninterested-suddenly there’s more texts, phone calls and wanting to show up. It’s just facts; dynamics between men/women are real and often predictable. Even in a fast paced, modern and evolving world--some aspects are just not cut out for women so knowing how to act and respond can really change or improve the energy or way you move in life as the fairer sex. Just wanted to give you some feedback and let you know your videos helped and that I also don’t think you should address the haters at all because there’s more coming and you need to be unbothered or just act like it. Only address something if it’s really crucial, relevant or important. Get used to being a star 💫 and keep shining bright 🌟. Thank you 😊
Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time!
Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊
Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.
Love this!🎉
I really hope he sees this and divorces your ass. It's not because you nagged him that he's better. It's because he continued trying to make both of your lives better despite your misandric abuse.
Straight up, how pissed off would you be if everything you did to try to lose weight and look good for your husband he called stupid? Actually, don't answer. You don't seem like the type of women who gives a shit hiw their husband feels...
@@jimbovetteja5168 all my content is about respecting your husband and how he feels. you should watch it. you sound like you'd love it.
I am sooooo happy that I found your channel! Thank you thank you! I’m learning so much.
I didn't want to watch this video bc of the title, but it's gold
These stars on TH-cam help more than online therapist.
I manipulate everyone. I love it. I take advantage of everyone in my path.
My mother used to tell me a proverb, “You can attract more flies with honey than vinegar.”
I came across you today and fell in love with your content. I pretty much binged on your videos for the past few hours because it's so good and it speaks to my reality and life right now. Anyway, I never read this news article about you (they clearly didn't really watch your content to know what you stand for) but I want you to know that your content has blessed and quenched my soul and is helping me to not only survive my past traumas and relationships but it's helping me learn how to thrive in life and in the wonderful relationships that I have now. Please keep making this wonderful content. Sending only blessings/good vibes your way.
I love that Margarita. It was my pleasure to listen to this whole video and say to myself I absolutely agree. 🎉🎉
im so grateful to have found your channel!!!!!
You're so enthralling; love watching your videos! 🤩
I definitely need a dive into divine femininity
I would definitely love to see more videos on your channel talking about the topics addressed in this video!
Can't worry about what haters believe. It's to bad they waited until you weren't busy with what you were doing but that's how bullies operate. Your doing a great job and I appreciate the content you bring us and I'm sure there are many of us. How your words were twisted. Keep up the good work girl!
I am with you Margarita all the way, keep doing what you are doing ❤
Completely agree with everything you said!! Love your energy!
I was with an abusive psychopath for 21 years. Left him 6 years ago and not dated since. How do I not talk about it?
Well you talk about it when you feel you can trust the listener. And that takes time.
Men watching this learning how not to be manipulated…
Margaritas, you are Hilarious, and the near absolute confidence is inspiring...
Margarita I love you thank you so much 💗 for coming on here and sharing
WE MISSED YOU MAMA❤️
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Im truly in love with you!
you really break things down into real realities.
I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset.
as for the media? well ? what did you expect?
handle it as you always handle everything else,
with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.
My husband is in therapy and it doesn't seem to be helping him much, he doesn't do any extra work or practice. Me on this channel and other, ex. put the shovel down, have help the most. It is like dog training, you need to teach the owner to be effective in training a dog and give it a healthy environment to grow. Having these women help us understand and handle our men properly is key. They are happier and healthier and so are we. They will have triggers hit a lot but use this time to enhance your emotional intelligence and work on yourself.
You might call that "individual guidance". It still feels so shallow because you can't have a real discussion with the other party. it's like walking on a mine field. You can only treat him like a dog so he always behaves like a dog
Your problems are only gonna be solved once you understand that you're the dog. You're the one being cared for and fed.
You're the one who lives in this fantasy world where making yourself pretty and feeding someone's ego is gonna make your life better. A man has no other alternative but hard work.
To be honest it is less like a dog and more like a sheep. Women feel safety in the herd, but the excess of conflicting messages and loss of community is making them go berserk.
It is not about not being pampered for men. It is about the fact that you feel a biological imperative to make women's lives better.
Now, I think most men agree, you can make your own life better.
Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.
Encouragement and manipulation are two different things. Strong minded men don't need either to achieve their goals.
Hi Margarita. Thank you for your videos. I am learning how to use my voice. I notice you have a strong voice. I feel awkward around people. They think im fake when i get excited. Much kove ❤
So glad I found your channel🥰 Love the content. You make me feel “normal” 😅
You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.
Great excuse for a reason to abuse men when you're not in control of your emotions. If this was applied to men you would call it toxic. Hold up a minute, you do...
To have self esteem and to feel good about yourself is not narcissism.
Women nag because the men put up with it. Or maybe the man is slacking, but rest assured he knows it you can let him know gracefully not nag, it's like calling y our lady fat or overweight, she knows but don't nag on it, embrace it. You will get old one day. This video is much different than the title suggested, well done. That thing with the pizza vendor and Obama, so true, Obama knocked the pizza guy, but she said if she would have stayed with the pizza guy he would have been the president, I like her for that. She stuck up for the pizza guy.
10:55 100% correct, first 3 dates if you even have any, don't spill it all, it creates an attachment, because when a man asks questions a woman ASSUMES he is interested, but typically it's just to get laid. Cheat code 101 for women still stuck in a loop.
The big deal is, the media wants to push feminism and disrupt the family home, they don't want women supporting/raising the man up. They wanna chase anything that finishes first.
Omg this actually worked and literally the next day
please do more content here bc i don’t get enough of you on tiktok 😂❤
What a great video thanks so much for sharing. I don't use TikTok but glad to see you on YT and Instagram. Have a great weekend.
This confirms my life, I’m half male and female brain in a feminine state! Anyone else?
❤❤ Great video, love your content, thanks for sharing. :)
I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!
Hahaha funny how they reacted to your post.
Happy to support you!
Love your energy, love your content. Keep posting videos, you know your shit. I find it beneficially entertaining 😆
agreed with those saying not to give too much air/fuel to such reductive "journalism," but god how i laughed at the line, "i don't mean support JAKE on the road over there"… keep up the great (& nuanced) work!
What you're saying is all true!!!👌