As a guy it may seem weird for me to say this but I'm actually excited for this video because since everyone houses masculine and feminine energies we all must strive for a balance between the two. The Hermetic Law of Gender is a powerful one.
Yes yes yes! I don't know much about it through the lens of Hermetic Law of Gender (I'll look that up to learn more) but my spiritual path has been deeply Tantric which totally accounts for and looks at Masculine and Feminine energy. This is kind of a fun video... a different perspective. My ultimate perspective is YOU ARE GOD and therefore you create everything (and for this reason, ultimately masculine/feminine energy don't matter) AND ALSO, in my belief system, I abide by the energetic dynamics of Masculine Feminine energy. Love that you're excited for it Jack!
@@ShellyBullard Absolutely. I am grateful to receive any information that I can to further grow as a spiritual being. In fact, as there is quite the mass of spiritual teachings, I constantly work to fit in everything possible to not only enhance the experience but to become that much closer to just being. The more I am rooted into spirit the more I can expand such wisdom to all who wish to receive. For example inner reality is extremely important however there also exist the (outer reality) matrix's laws or Hermetic principles. In my personal perspective, creating one's reality is primarily centered on manifestation. And while it's a powerful thing there are also other lessons to be learned such as what is taught by Eckhart Tolle (who preaches being in the present moment), Gabriel Dee from Immortology (who preaches about the understanding of Death and why it is an important part of life, there's more to it than this), William Walker Atkinson (the founder of the new age movement) at the start of the 1900s who wrote close to 100 books on the topic of spirituality (he has a biography but it is unknown how he knows so much of what he does on the subject), Elizabeth Prophet who speaks of Karma and Reincarnation amongst other topics they've covered, then there's Linda Howe on how to read into the Akashic Records (the book of life) to learn more about oneself/past lives/etc., Dr. Dwayne Dyer on the Power of Intention, and more. Neville Goddard is still just as important as these other spiritual teachers though because when it comes to spiritual growth there will always be something to take away as we are all still awakening everyday. It is truly a wonderful thing of what you do on here Shelly. May you continue to spread the truths that you teach. People need this. We all need this. For the sake of understanding who we really are.
@@ShellyBullard I love your work and respect your spiritual path....yet, for me, I am a Christian and still think I can apply the energy work without changing my entire belief system because nothing is all black or white, right?
@@mandyford7357 I've been studying scripture through the lense of the New Thought movement (mainly Judge Thomas Troward), and from what I've learned the individual soul is considered feminine (the receiver, the protected one), while God is masculine (the giver, the protector). So the masculine/feminine dynamics should be present in Christian ideas as well.
In my 20, and most of my 30’s I have been more in my masculine energy because that’s what I felt I was ‘supposed’ to be like. Go after what I want, pursue it, get it...haha. Only now in my 40’s am I more in touch with my feminine energy. It feels good to me and I feel so much more natural and who I am authentically.
When the pandemic hit and I was doing self work on 'calling in the one' and allowing my feminine energy I felt like I was on track - I'd been in south carolina meditating and doing yoga by the water and just allowing and flowing. But then I got back to NYC and I've been completely in my masculine, working all the time and pushing and forcing. I woke up today with a message to 'accept and allow love' and this video 100% confirms the message and breaks down how I can listen to it. your work has been a blessing to me so many times Shelly, seriously thank you! x
NYC is the most masculine place in the USA - I lived there and it was SO MUCH masculine energy (for me). So yes, I totally understand being in NYC and automatically going into mega-masculine mode. Very common. Love that you're getting the inner message to relax back into your Feminine. Beautiful.
I am so feminine energy.. I really liked to be pursued by my SP (not by everyone). I have been masculine energy and it was not actually good feeling. To sit back and relax and ready to receive is just an amazing feeling. Shelly, you make me understand myself what I really want and who am I. I love you girl.💗
So what happens if you’re with a man who is more passive? I end up being more masculine as things need to get done. But then I resent having to be masculine so much.
I have been guided lately to embody my feminine energy. I didn’t realize how much masculine energy I actually have. I am extremely girly, but it’s more about how I come across. Feminine energy=receiving mode. I have walls up galore from past experiences. Not to mention, I went through a divorce after 16 years of marriage. Real quick I started embodying my masculine because I had to be so tough through the messy situation. Over time, I believe I have become hardened and way too much In my logical headspace instead of my heart space. 😍 Thank you Shelly! I love your feminine energy. It serves you well w/this TH-cam venture. Hence the reason you don’t retaliate or even acknowledge any haters. You aren’t in competition w/other youtubers. Masculine energy is more competitive it seems.
How to awaken the feminine energy to receive love naturally.? * Feminine doesn't mean women. * We all individuals regardless of gender have both feminine and masculine energy. * And certain will be identified more with one or both equally. * this will be for who identify more of themselves with feminine energy.And want to embody more of it. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: * When you look at life or relationship look through feminine or masculine enrergy how they are aligned. * When it comes to feminine or masculine energy in a relationship dynamic there is often will be a person who identifies with masculine or feminine energy. * What creates a energy or attraction between them is difference in the energies. * The flavour of energy. The masculine energy is the persuing and giving energy.it is straight, firm energy. The feminine energy is the receptive energy . The receiver of the masculine energy. * This is how a particular relationship dynamic . ////////////////////////////////////////////// * There is couple things going on in the world. And there is a rise in feminine energy. * To rebalance the world there is a rise in feminine energy . * The feminine is some how lost because of lot women has lost the energy and embodied the masculine energy. * And if you want to embody the femine energy this what you can do . * The one way is to becone receptive. * When a relationship dynamic is holding a pole of their energy correctly and not reversed it looks more good. * if the feminine does all the masculine stuff they tend to pull off. * Chasing or pursuing is more of masculine thing. """"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""" * If you are a feminine person and you know and can relate yourself and you tend to take up more of masculine role. What you can do is + Practice more of receptivity. * Receptivity is relaxing back, opening and being available to recieve from masculine. * And if you are customed to be more of masculine role you must actively practice to allow yourself to recieve. * This is in manifesting realm where you feel. + i pull back and i can feel them coming towards me. + i come back and feel them coming towards me. + I don't have to move towards i can relax. And just recieve. * This way you can also you can relate to your life. + i don't have to do anything. + i am just here to recieve. + i know it is coming towards me. + i know life is delivering my manifestations to me. + i am open to receive. * There is particular frequenices where you can mediatate to receive more. * This is practice for you and the wonderfull way to start to emody is it The frequencies are :- + I don't have to move forward. + I don't have to go after. + I can just relax back. + I can just recieve. * You can relate this to a person and manifest this new dynamic to a new person or life itself. * But you are going to start to relax back and start embodying more of feminine energy as you practice. * one more thing to keep in mind Sometimes you can co- relate the giver taker or giver reciever one position is better than other . * In relationship for your man and for you to recieve it is and you allow you to do is what they might really what to happen. * They might want to be the one to do things for you and you allowing it can be a incredible balance in your bond.And also incredible attraction. Thank You Shelly❤
I felt an awakening watching your “everyone is you pushed out” video. I immersed myself in “feeling” this reality (at this point 6 days). I have a SP who I could feel myself “giving” to instead of receiving from, while watching this video and feeling a greatly relaxed state descend upon me, my SP text me my exact desired phrases I used in my affirmations. He has continued to text me wayyyyyy more than he ever has, he has opened up and text about his feelings, how he feels about me, how he feels about us and more. I used to receive one- two word texts. The biggest change I felt was when I heard you say it feels as good to the giver to give as to the receiver to receive… 🤯 The key being I felt a physical change, that I continue to feel and continue to focus energy upon, and I fully admitted I wanted to lavishly receive whereas somehow I felt guilty about that feeling previously. During the above process, my priority focus was self love and inner child… those techniques shifted me into a blissful state of being. I appreciate you, your work, and your vibe, feel that you do make a special, cherished, and divine difference! :)
Being feminine person is more easy n interesting. I think feminine energy actually makes us relaxed and excited in receiving mode.masculine energy is something we actually look for in our life more to make us feel comfortable and happy😊😊.Interesting topic👍👍
This is going to be an interesting video. Can't wait for this one.💕 ✨And Shelly I have a little request is it possible to stop hair fall and grow healthy voluminous hair with a positive mindset it would be a great help for many people if you can make a video on this topic. Lots of love ❤️
Shelly, can u please make a video on how it feels to manifest a specific person from begining to end...Like the bridge of events , how it feels first and how it changes slowly and all...This will help so many people who are in process of manifesting their SP...and also it gives us strength... 😍
I was definitely living in the masculine “doing” energy for a long time and I now choose to live in more feminine energy because it feels good to mix it up!
Love this, especially when you talk about it in relation to chasing. My sp was pursuing me in such a wonderful, lovely way ( at the time it felt perfect) He was being so lovely, going out of his way to do things for me, helping me with everything .👰🤵 But I turned into the chaser when I had doubts, even though i had nothing to doubt. It will not happen again. 😁 Even though I didn't see it at the time i know it was my chasing that stopped us getting together. Thank you Shelly ❤❤❤❤❤ HAPPY MANIFESTING EVERYONE 🌌🙏🙌❤
@@samhitaparab exactly. At the time i didn't even realise i did it, its only since learning about E.I.Y.P.O that I understood this. At the time i thought I was been really relaxed and letting him make decisions, but it would still have been chasing. Looking beyond manifesting my sp, i know how much i have gained from everything im learning about how our energy/ thoughts affect everyone. And how empowering it feels to learn and do everything. I know im going to be so different this time, still me, just nor stressing over him so much 😘😉 How's it going today? ❤❤❤❤
@@ruthcarlisle2663 on point! Even I realised what I did and I have commented here so that I can have Shelly's opinion!♥️ And you are right, after learning about EIYPO, things have been changing for me.. though I still feel I have much more to learn...but I can feel.the changes in me💖 also my mother , the other day said that I've changed and grown up. And that coming from.her...means a lot! I am sure my sp has already started noticing this...and both of us (me and him) will enjoy new versions of each other! (Since he is me pushed out!)❤️
I think gender roles influence why some ppul would feel oh this isnt me but as a man i know i need to step in to my feminine energy more so im here lol i dunno where the world would be without feminine energy
all my life i’ve felt so off within my own skin. Something always felt wrong. But as i started watching shelly and just seeing her feminine aura i knew instantly that i needed to embody that. I have stepped into my feminine more and more and never felt more like myself! It’s amazing. Ty shelly🐚 You are a phenomenal teacher.
I sincerely want to understand this concept but I don’t at this point. I’ve always thought the feminine energy as the giver I.e., the nurturing, maternal, giving, maybe even a caregiving, energy. To me that says “giver” but based on your perspective the feminine is the receiver? Can you explain in a more practical everyday scenario? In your relationship, for example, you describe your dynamic as largely feminine and masculine. Not a balance of both energies in each of you but you are the feminine and your guy is the masculine. So he would be, using your example, the giver and you the receiver or taker. So on a practical level does that mean that he’s always giving to you and you’re just taking and not giving? . I’m so confused? And if that’s the case, why would anyone like to be in a position where they’re never receiving? I genuinely would like to understand if you can help?😊
Hi. I have watched other videos on this. I won’t dare attempt to explain as Shelly can. However, I gather that being in your feminine is allowing him to take the lead. Receiving his gifts, kindness, affection, etc. and then responding to that lead. And of course, offering it back. When we operate out of masculine energy we are doing, pursuing, making things happen, taking the lead, and in some cases, forcing. Feminine energy patiently waits.....receives.....and then, responds. Just my two cents😊
Agree with Tamara’s response! It’s about being in a more receptive energy/mode. And making it known to him how much you Appreciate him! (That part is huge!) So many men feel under-appreciated or unappreciated totally by their significant other. Which often leads to a host of other issues! Hope this helps!
I love this i can resonate soo much with this video. I thought i needed to be masculine to successfully manifest. But i always felt like "i dont want to do do do all the time. I want to relax and just recieve beautiful things from life." so definetly going to relax a bit and just enjoy enjoy enjoy. Recieve recieve. life is manifesting in a great way anyway❤️💜 plus. My sp is chasing me and i LIKEEE THAT thanks shelly!!!
I hate that she has to keep justifying herself for saying he or she and explaining. Girl you don’t have to keep doing that for the exception most people are woman wanting to be more feminine it’s ok ❤
So if you’re naturally more masculine and a go getter, is this why a feminine way of manifesting might not work for you…. Because you’re not spiritually feeling natural with just sitting around?
This lady has spoke in multiple videos about being chased and desired. I wonder if she is aware that she is very attractive and beaming sensuality. I think her success with men has more to do with that then manifesting. Lol
Yay I'm excited for this one because I prefer to be pursued! I've definitely experienced the energy being flipped and it did not feel good. Really valuable video! Especially as I've been in more of a masculine energy with my SP. Time to switch it up! 💕
How about being a mother n being used to give. Giver .... Mainly . Then with a man becoming the receiver is not easy cause all day long we give to the child, switching to receiver can be challenging...
If you're in masculine energy and are trying to balance it out, do you always sit back and allow yourself to be receptive to the other person making plans or can you suggest and initiate it from time to time? My SP texts me every single day but recently there has been a flip in our dynamic and I have been in "chasing" mode while he has pulled back emotionally. I try to catch myself and step back into the feminine and trust and allow...but it's been two weeks since I've seen him and I would really like to spend some in person time with him again. What would you suggest? Just scripting it out and letting it manifest without trying to control the 3d? Or is it ok to give the 3D an occasional nudge?
Shelly. I hope you read this. Yesterday, literally yesterday, I was decreeing that I would get to hear from you on feminine energy.And look what pops up today. Are you psychic? What's happening? How did you read my mind Shelly? How? Because I love the concept of being feminine. And my man is masculine but when I Eiypo, I imagine him as a bit more in tune and alignment with his masculine energy.
brilliant. aha moment for me. I'm always the pursuer, with everything, I use my energy to push thru. This is how I sell at my work, this is how I pursue men, friends, I'm the one who plans, asks, texts, who does things. no wonder others just wait for my action energy to happen. I'm basically a man. and then I want to be pursued. Impossible. I dont open myself to this. I dont have the path energy cleared, im not in a receiving mode, even if think i am. I would love to pursued from now on, when things land on my laps.
I feel I am more in my feminine but I use my masculine a lot in my job. I try to balance myself enjoying life out of job, receiving and allowing life to unfold. Sometimes I catch myself ‘pursuing’ my partner but not from a place of fear but from love and a soft place without outcome! Extremes are not good. If you catch yourself ‘waiting’ or ‘submissively leaning back’ is also not good!
I would love to watch more videos on embodying feminine energy and being more receptive! ❤️ I grew up believing that I had to "be masculine" to do well in the world, but recently I realized that it is so stressful and it doesn't feel good to me to be that way. I am my happiest self when I sit back and watch everything come to me and unfold beautifully and effortlessly 🌹🌺
I have been single for so long I became very masculine 😕 however once I did the inner healing work and worked on self love, I found myself becoming more femine ❤️ and I love it. They way I dress and feel makes me feel so much more feminine, even at home by myself, I insure I dress to create comfort plus feeling feminine 👗with a touch of lipstick all the time 💄💋
I’m just naturally a very feminine woman. Not like I wear dresses and frills every day, but my spirit, the way I move through the world is just extremely feminine. I used to try to put on a more masculine energy because I thought it made me more powerful, but it really felt off, like I was a fraud -it never felt REAL to me. I finally gave up trying to put up a front and have since discovered just how powerful my feminine energy is... it’s powerful in a different way than the masculine, but just as powerful, if not MORE so.
i just want to be femenine in my relationships, couse i like to make plans and think and do. but dosen´t work for me in relations, couse i like very masculine men. i think thats one of the "problems" with my sp
Loved this topic as usual all ure topics you choose are facinating and inspiring 😍 I missed the live premier but someone mentioned on the chat about the twinflame dynamic yes alott has to do with polaraties plus minus. In a tf relationship the chaser is the feminine and runner masculine... kurt johnson has a channel all about it new allstar twinflame. I hope its ok to mention another coacher here but his speciality is in the tf area . Basically theyre are specific telltale signs if you think you met them not every sp is a tf those who have met them know. Number one key to the whole tf dynamic is aligning with your soul and thru detachment letting go, presense u attract them back to you ... its a vey strong dynamic. Did u c dylan james posted a live apology to allbthe coachers he bashed obviously he realized his mistake thiught id let you know ❤
I’m so with you on this! If your SP is very dominant, masculine..it’s going to be a must that you tap into more of your feminine energy! This has been a true learning (&healing) experience for me, as I spent my 20’s and most of my 30’s in very masculine energy. Much of that time I was also very unhappy (in an unfulfilling marriage) and was experiencing times of higher anxiety and depression. Being more in my feminine, especially as it relates to romantic relationship, feels so much better to me.
Now that i know i am the creator of my reality, i intend to have faith that everything i ask for i shall receive. To now trust in that, because i know that is the truth. Masculine to create it, feminine to receive it ❤
mam my sp has had a muddy past even though right now we r very close and intimate whenever i think about her past it makes me angry and it makes me feel i am in lack please advise before i spoil this
Valuable video🌟🌟🌟. I am used to function in my masculine energy and it s a challenge to embody my feminine energy. I used to think that if you are not doing something, you are lazy or you are taking advantage of others. Two last years, i am starting to see that for some people it s a pleasure to give you constantly because that makes them happy. They receive also at the same time. Blessings to you Shelly for delivering such beautiful messages all the time!💜💙💚❤️💛
Hello Shelly, this is Debra I Am sooo glad I came across your videos I Don't care what people think I Am gay and I love this feminine energy I Am feeling after all my mother always wanted a girl now she has one my late mother of course when I was younger I found out I had breast and through curiosity I found myself wearing pantyhose stockings so now that really don't make any difference now the only difference is that I'm proud of it Shelly your girl Debra ❤
I felt like I’m open to receiving & embodying the feminine more but then I don’t receive... could there be a limiting belief in the way??? It’s so annoying!!!
Just try “leaning back” a bit to get more into a receptive state. You can still be affirming what you want to manifest but much less “trying to make things happen” in the 3D.
I loved this video. I like most when I feel a guy brings out more of my feminine energy. I am always thought you came through very feminine and I like your outfit, which I feel is very feminine as well.
Thank you for explaining the masculine and feminine energy and how we all have both. I am a lesbian so the way you explained it was beautiful. Loved it! I embody more of the feminine energy as well, when I’m in a relationship I like the energies balanced because sometimes I do take the masculine role. I like the roles to be balanced & you're right the most magnetic relationships I’ve have been in are with women that know how to balance both because since we are balanced, the energies just flowed naturally like a beautiful rainbow😀 Great job in explaining it all, I resonated with it very well 🙏✨
Oh I love this!! Yes, everyone has their own preference about how much they want to be in the masculine or feminine in their lives and in a relationship. It actually is all about Authenticity. It's like: "How do I want to show up when I'm being completely authentic with myself?" It's going to be different for everyone! And I'm so happy it resonated for you. I love how well you know what energies you prefer in a relationship - both in yourself and in your partner. Beautiful.
TH-cam showed your video on exactly at 1:00 P.M. and it is 1:30 P.M. and didn't know this was uploaded hours ago! Sorry I am so late to responding! Loved this video very much! Also, love your channel and today is Day 2 since discovering your yesterday after my search on the subject "Mental Diet"! Thank you so much for that video! Today I started my 7 Day Mental Diet Challenge but have been having negative thoughts come in! I am going to go meditate and keep using affirmations! I did however as I was doing my Self-Care Skin Care Routine! I scrubbed and washed my face with my skin cleanser and then went to create my own skin astringent to get the extra cleanse to take out any dirt and oils and then used Castor Oil, Argan Oil, Moringa Oil and Tea Tree Oil mixed together as my skin moisturizer! Afterwards I used my Rose Quartz Crystal Face Roller and as I am massaging my face with it I speak out loud and afford, "I have Perfect Skin that is Beautiful, Healthy, Lovable, and Flawless and I have no acne, no bacteria and that it is soft and Glowing"! I kept affirming my affirmation numerous times feeling the feeling tons of Love and Gratitude! I am embodying the feeling of manifesting more great outcomes and to also start making it a practice to making my Mental Diet be stuck with me meaning to make it be a consistency and be much more easier and not allow any negative thoughts come in to ruin my manifestations! I am very serious about my Mental Diet and also to keep growing, expanding and healing areas that I know deserves better and I am so excited for this wonderful continuation on my wonderful journey! Thank you for the beautiful welcoming yesterday on your Mental Diet and I am again sending you more tons of Peace, Love, and Hugs! 🤗😍💖
Yes, feminine and masculine don’t necessarily mean male and female. If it makes you more comfortable or easier to understand, you can use the terms “yin” and “yang”. Men who feel they are more masculine can practice feminine energy to help balance themselves. If you are thinking in LOA terms, it seems that a lot of coaches teach in a more feminine aspect most of the time
I really love this! Your explanation is very on point. I find myself in the past not being able to be receptive, and that can just be because of my up bringing watching my mom do everything and being both parents. So deff the feminine energy for me has been difficult to do which in turn adds more stress on me rather than enjoying the actual nature of how the relationship should be. But I’m just ready to receive and open to being treated for once Thank you for this you’re awesome ❤️✨
Hi Shelly , thanks a lot for this video. It's just wonderful to know that. We are so grateful to you , if you would do a guided meditation for this so we can practice. Thank you
Is it a limit of my perception or why does alot of masculine energy principles appear to be the opposite of manifestation principles? in my own experience as a masculine man I've manifested and created alot more by just surrendering and it comes to me but I asbolutely love the inner feeling of the masculine doing achieving fighting exploring controlling energy. I see it as no matter what you have to have both ? someone has to do and produce for there to be anything to receive after all yes?
Shelly I was just about to request you to make a video on how to allow ourselves to receive what we want 🤩 Thank you for this ❤️ How can I teach myself to let myself receive the things I want when I don’t feel worthy or deserving of them?
Serendipitous that I just purchased your feminine session and this is the video today 😊 I’ve always been the chaser. I’m very masculine in other areas of my life but never enjoyed it in my romantic life. It felt off. But I thought I had to be the one to do everything or they’d lose interest or leave. And they always would leave. They loved my confidence when they first met me but because I’m not used to receiving in this area of my life (even though my natural tendency is to be the receiver and that is what I want) I’d end up pushing things along and it all inevitably blows up. The courses I purchased from you was how to stop picking avoidant/unavailable partners and the feminine one (I’m not using the correct titles). Anyway...already started working through them and I have to say my mind is blown. Sitting in the felt experience of what type of love I want is amazing! I’m taking 6 weeks to focus on me. I figured I’d start with 6 weeks because in 2020 time is moving so slowly 😩 My life has and is changing 💕
I don't do anything in my relationship!😂😂 That's totally an exaggeration... I offer a lot. But I chose men who want to "provide" not even necessarily literally (however that too)... they want to be the masculine lead and I'm happy to be led. :) So happy you have my courses to help lead the way for you. Big transformation on the horizon. :)
i have a bussines on my own. i think that my energy there has to be masculine, couse i have to make choices and step hard sometimes, but i want to have more femenine energy in other areas on my life, especialy in romantic area, is this posible?
Hey Shelly 💖this is really an amazing topic and I loved your take on this.. If I see my relationship now, by nature, I am more of a giver, I would go out of the way for my sp almost always (masculine). However I would also allow him to come in and take care of things like planning the outings, dates and stayovers, expressing his love for me (which was a bit challenging for him because he had never loved and expressed his love for someone so genuinely before me). And our love was blooming then!😍♥️ However, overtime the energies flipped and I am now seeing that I was the one pursuing him and he started pulling back and this person who was initially trying to impress me by doing things he hasn't actually done for anyone before me, started taking me for granted...and then more I was initiating the more he started repeling.. And that's where we started fighting..I remember him telling me I have become dominant ( Maybe the masculine energy) (Correct me if I am wrong?) Now that i am Manifesting "US"back, I am stepping back and affirming more of him coming in and it is working! ❤️❤️ So now, all I have to do sit back and relax 💕😉💖 because I know he's coming in, I am just here to receive! Also, I realised that most of your teachings are more feminine: you essentially tell us to sit back, relax and imagine our sp's to step in rather than us going after them and hence I resonate more with you!!♥️
Yes, your perspective on your dynamic is accurate - you moved into masculine (dominant), him back into feminine. Yes, my teachings are HIGHLY FEMININE. Feeling is feminine, Body is feminine, Receptivity is feminine. DOING is more masculine, which, as you guys know, isn't really my style. ;)
Yes! I want to release and have more feminine energy. As a single mother, it's so easy to exhibit both as needed. I want to be pursued and receive more love.
Thank you for articulating how the principle of assertive and receptive energies are embodied in different philosophies (manifesting, LoA, etc.) in similar ways. That's very helpful.
I intuitively feel feminine too, the time I flip my interactions to being masculine are when I became insecure; I'm happy to feel rebalanced, relaxed embodying again
Omg, yes, Shelly so I have been waiting for this video♥️ I could recognize your feminine energy so easily since when I first got into your videos. I identify as a very feminine woman. Despite working in a masculine field and always having been super tomboyish, I always just felt that way d allowed life to happen to me. I worked hard but never put in much effort and instinctively knew things would work out. The relationships where I connected most with a man was when I was beautifully resting in my feminine energy and allowed the masculine to do his thing. I realized also, fear is one of the biggest killers of feminine energy. It's all about trusting and allowing. I loved this video. Thank you for always sharing such wonderful wisdom and knowledge ♥️
This is very helpful language! In my particular two families, both my Mexican grandmothers were extremely strong willed and ruled their families with iron fists lol. The one grandfather I knew was quite masculine and extremely smart as he built houses and churches, and my father is quite masculine in similar ways, but they both had/have very feminine energy in the receiving sense. My grandfather in particular trusted God very much and he lived to a ripe old age of 98. He was amazing. He definitely was of the opinion he had to work hard (child of the Great Depression) but his adult experiences seemed to teach him anything was possible. My mom is very feminine outwardly, but I think using this language she has a very masculine energy with taking care of my dad’s every want. (It’s a very Mexican thing I think) So now I understand while I feel crazy- I also WANT to receive, but I find myself serving everyone until I’m exhausted, especially when I’m with a man. I say so want a peaceful work environment , but I work in a police department where I give and give and give. And I don’t feel comfortable but I also don’t feel comfortable receiving. So now I understand why I need to work on receiving!
Intuitively my Being was drawn to it many many years ago (like 15 years ago or something?). I wrote in another comment that my go-to teacher on the subject is David Deida. He has many books about it and I've studied with him in person, too. :)
@@ShellyBullard David Deida - I just checked out some of his audios. Oh. My. God! 😄 This stuff is so powerful! What he's describing is EXACTLY what I've been intuiting and envisioning. It's like he's putting words to what I always knew existed. I already recognized it in the way you described your own relationship. It's so beautiful! I'm so glad I've found you Shelly - you really inspire me! 😊
Shelly, even though I'm male I love this video, so informative. I love the part about coming into a place of being able to receive vs. chasing dynamic, and masculine and feminine energies which you have mentioned to me before. Thanks again for bringing all this loving beautiful knowledge and energy to our world!
I feel like this when I'm listening to your guided meditations: leaning back and receiving. What an amazing experience would be a guided meditation on how to embody the feminine energy!
This is what I'm missing!! I've lost out on many possible relationships because of my masculine energy! I have 5 brothers and I wasn't taught how to be receiving. I just learned the energy I grew up with!
I love how this is entertwined with your manifestation work... I feel ready to embody the energy that feels good instead of staying in the masculine energy...I can see how this is blocking my manifestation
I’m just here to receive, amazing, I have actually instinctively started to do this after opening my heart chakra maybe that is something that happens? 😌❤️
Ha - you are about the most feminine of feminine energy I have encountered - for sure more than all the LOA teachers on You Tube. I have to be masculine in my job but I want to be in my feminine so much more. That’s where I’m happiest.
Just watching your videos daily changes my energy and makes me so happy. I’ve been doing so much self love, I set a goal last week to manifest $10k and I actually manifested half of it. Thank you. Would also love your ebook free yourself since I already have manifest your SP
As a guy it may seem weird for me to say this but I'm actually excited for this video because since everyone houses masculine and feminine energies we all must strive for a balance between the two. The Hermetic Law of Gender is a powerful one.
Yes yes yes! I don't know much about it through the lens of Hermetic Law of Gender (I'll look that up to learn more) but my spiritual path has been deeply Tantric which totally accounts for and looks at Masculine and Feminine energy. This is kind of a fun video... a different perspective. My ultimate perspective is YOU ARE GOD and therefore you create everything (and for this reason, ultimately masculine/feminine energy don't matter) AND ALSO, in my belief system, I abide by the energetic dynamics of Masculine Feminine energy. Love that you're excited for it Jack!
@@ShellyBullard Absolutely. I am grateful to receive any information that I can to further grow as a spiritual being. In fact, as there is quite the mass of spiritual teachings, I constantly work to fit in everything possible to not only enhance the experience but to become that much closer to just being. The more I am rooted into spirit the more I can expand such wisdom to all who wish to receive. For example inner reality is extremely important however there also exist the (outer reality) matrix's laws or Hermetic principles. In my personal perspective, creating one's reality is primarily centered on manifestation. And while it's a powerful thing there are also other lessons to be learned such as what is taught by Eckhart Tolle (who preaches being in the present moment), Gabriel Dee from Immortology (who preaches about the understanding of Death and why it is an important part of life, there's more to it than this), William Walker Atkinson (the founder of the new age movement) at the start of the 1900s who wrote close to 100 books on the topic of spirituality (he has a biography but it is unknown how he knows so much of what he does on the subject), Elizabeth Prophet who speaks of Karma and Reincarnation amongst other topics they've covered, then there's Linda Howe on how to read into the Akashic Records (the book of life) to learn more about oneself/past lives/etc., Dr. Dwayne Dyer on the Power of Intention, and more. Neville Goddard is still just as important as these other spiritual teachers though because when it comes to spiritual growth there will always be something to take away as we are all still awakening everyday. It is truly a wonderful thing of what you do on here Shelly. May you continue to spread the truths that you teach. People need this. We all need this. For the sake of understanding who we really are.
@@ShellyBullard I love your work and respect your spiritual path....yet, for me, I am a Christian and still think I can apply the energy work without changing my entire belief system because nothing is all black or white, right?
@@jackalvah3932 I love this! It's all about evolving from doing to being!
@@mandyford7357 I've been studying scripture through the lense of the New Thought movement (mainly Judge Thomas Troward), and from what I've learned the individual soul is considered feminine (the receiver, the protected one), while God is masculine (the giver, the protector). So the masculine/feminine dynamics should be present in Christian ideas as well.
In my 20, and most of my 30’s I have been more in my masculine energy because that’s what I felt I was ‘supposed’ to be like. Go after what I want, pursue it, get it...haha. Only now in my 40’s am I more in touch with my feminine energy. It feels good to me and I feel so much more natural and who I am authentically.
Exact same here!
When the pandemic hit and I was doing self work on 'calling in the one' and allowing my feminine energy I felt like I was on track - I'd been in south carolina meditating and doing yoga by the water and just allowing and flowing. But then I got back to NYC and I've been completely in my masculine, working all the time and pushing and forcing. I woke up today with a message to 'accept and allow love' and this video 100% confirms the message and breaks down how I can listen to it. your work has been a blessing to me so many times Shelly, seriously thank you! x
NYC is the most masculine place in the USA - I lived there and it was SO MUCH masculine energy (for me). So yes, I totally understand being in NYC and automatically going into mega-masculine mode. Very common. Love that you're getting the inner message to relax back into your Feminine. Beautiful.
I am so feminine energy.. I really liked to be pursued by my SP (not by everyone). I have been masculine energy and it was not actually good feeling. To sit back and relax and ready to receive is just an amazing feeling. Shelly, you make me understand myself what I really want and who am I. I love you girl.💗
I'm so happy it resonated for you. Makes me so happy.
So what happens if you’re with a man who is more passive? I end up being more masculine as things need to get done. But then I resent having to be masculine so much.
I have been guided lately to embody my feminine energy. I didn’t realize how much masculine energy I actually have. I am extremely girly, but it’s more about how I come across. Feminine energy=receiving mode. I have walls up galore from past experiences. Not to mention, I went through a divorce after 16 years of marriage. Real quick I started embodying my masculine because I had to be so tough through the messy situation. Over time, I believe I have become hardened and way too much In my logical headspace instead of my heart space. 😍 Thank you Shelly! I love your feminine energy. It serves you well w/this TH-cam venture. Hence the reason you don’t retaliate or even acknowledge any haters. You aren’t in competition w/other youtubers. Masculine energy is more competitive it seems.
Thank YOU 💙✨
How to awaken the feminine energy to receive love naturally.?
* Feminine doesn't mean women.
* We all individuals regardless of gender have both feminine and masculine energy.
* And certain will be identified more with one or both equally.
* this will be for who identify more of themselves with feminine energy.And want to embody more of it.
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* When you look at life or relationship look through feminine or masculine enrergy how they are aligned.
* When it comes to feminine or masculine energy in a relationship dynamic there is often will be a person who identifies with masculine or feminine energy.
* What creates a energy or attraction between them is difference in the energies.
* The flavour of energy.
The masculine energy is the persuing and giving energy.it is straight, firm energy.
The feminine energy is the receptive energy .
The receiver of the masculine energy.
* This is how a particular relationship dynamic .
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* There is couple things going on in the world. And there is a rise in feminine energy.
* To rebalance the world there is a rise in feminine energy .
* The feminine is some how lost because of lot women has lost the energy and embodied the masculine energy.
* And if you want to embody the femine energy this what you can do .
* The one way is to becone receptive.
* When a relationship dynamic is holding a pole of their energy correctly and not reversed it looks more good.
* if the feminine does all the masculine stuff they tend to pull off.
* Chasing or pursuing is more of masculine thing.
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* If you are a feminine person and you know and can relate yourself and you tend to take up more of masculine role.
What you can do is
+ Practice more of receptivity.
* Receptivity is relaxing back, opening and being available to recieve from masculine.
* And if you are customed to be more of masculine role you must actively practice to allow yourself to recieve.
* This is in manifesting realm where you feel.
+ i pull back and i can feel them coming towards me.
+ i come back and feel them coming towards me.
+ I don't have to move towards i can relax.
And just recieve.
* This way you can also you can relate to your life.
+ i don't have to do anything.
+ i am just here to recieve.
+ i know it is coming towards me.
+ i know life is delivering my manifestations to me.
+ i am open to receive.
* There is particular frequenices where you can mediatate to receive more.
* This is practice for you and the wonderfull way to start to emody is it
The frequencies are :-
+ I don't have to move forward.
+ I don't have to go after.
+ I can just relax back.
+ I can just recieve.
* You can relate this to a person and manifest this new dynamic to a new person or life itself.
* But you are going to start to relax back and start embodying more of feminine energy as you practice.
* one more thing to keep in mind
Sometimes you can co- relate the giver taker or giver reciever one position is better than other .
* In relationship for your man and for you to recieve it is and you allow you to do is what they might really what to happen.
* They might want to be the one to do things for you and you allowing it can be a incredible balance in your bond.And also incredible attraction.
Thank You Shelly❤
Thanks for the time you spend to summarize the video i will have it as a reference 🙏🏻💕
Thank you 💙
fatma you’re welcome 😀
LeenLovesDancing 🎈 you’re welcome 😇
Thanks ❤️
I felt an awakening watching your “everyone is you pushed out” video. I immersed myself in “feeling” this reality (at this point 6 days). I have a SP who I could feel myself “giving” to instead of receiving from, while watching this video and feeling a greatly relaxed state descend upon me, my SP text me my exact desired phrases I used in my affirmations. He has continued to text me wayyyyyy more than he ever has, he has opened up and text about his feelings, how he feels about me, how he feels about us and more. I used to receive one- two word texts.
The biggest change I felt was when I heard you say it feels as good to the giver to give as to the receiver to receive… 🤯
The key being I felt a physical change, that I continue to feel and continue to focus energy upon, and I fully admitted I wanted to lavishly receive whereas somehow I felt guilty about that feeling previously.
During the above process, my priority focus was self love and inner child… those techniques shifted me into a blissful state of being.
I appreciate you, your work, and your vibe, feel that you do make a special, cherished, and divine difference! :)
Do you have any updates?
Being feminine person is more easy n interesting. I think feminine energy actually makes us relaxed and excited in receiving mode.masculine energy is something we actually look for in our life more to make us feel comfortable and happy😊😊.Interesting topic👍👍
Love this💙
This is going to be an interesting video. Can't wait for this one.💕
✨And Shelly I have a little request is it possible to stop hair fall and grow healthy voluminous hair with a positive mindset it would be a great help for many people if you can make a video on this topic.
Lots of love ❤️
Shelly, can u please make a video on how it feels to manifest a specific person from begining to end...Like the bridge of events , how it feels first and how it changes slowly and all...This will help so many people who are in process of manifesting their SP...and also it gives us strength... 😍
Yes!!
I was definitely living in the masculine “doing” energy for a long time and I now choose to live in more feminine energy because it feels good to mix it up!
Love it!
@@ShellyBullard can you do a feminine meditation please 🙏🏻
Love this, especially when you talk about it in relation to chasing.
My sp was pursuing me in such a wonderful, lovely way ( at the time it felt perfect) He was being so lovely, going out of his way to do things for me, helping me with everything .👰🤵
But I turned into the chaser when I had doubts, even though i had nothing to doubt.
It will not happen again. 😁 Even though I didn't see it at the time i know it was my chasing that stopped us getting together.
Thank you Shelly ❤❤❤❤❤
HAPPY MANIFESTING EVERYONE
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Yes, exactly. That's the dynamic that throws things off! Great that you understand it now so you don't ever have to do that again!! :)
Hey Ruth! We're going good!💕 Even I realised how my chasing made things go bad...
Now that we know what we were into..we can step back and relax!♥️
@@samhitaparab exactly. At the time i didn't even realise i did it, its only since learning about E.I.Y.P.O that I understood this. At the time i thought I was been really relaxed and letting him make decisions, but it would still have been chasing.
Looking beyond manifesting my sp, i know how much i have gained from everything im learning about how our energy/ thoughts affect everyone. And how empowering it feels to learn and do everything.
I know im going to be so different this time, still me, just nor stressing over him so much 😘😉
How's it going today? ❤❤❤❤
@@ruthcarlisle2663 on point! Even I realised what I did and I have commented here so that I can have Shelly's opinion!♥️
And you are right, after learning about EIYPO, things have been changing for me.. though I still feel I have much more to learn...but I can feel.the changes in me💖 also my mother , the other day said that I've changed and grown up. And that coming from.her...means a lot!
I am sure my sp has already started noticing this...and both of us (me and him) will enjoy new versions of each other!
(Since he is me pushed out!)❤️
I think gender roles influence why some ppul would feel oh this isnt me but as a man i know i need to step in to my feminine energy more
so im here lol i dunno where the world would be without feminine energy
all my life i’ve felt so off within my own skin. Something always felt wrong. But as i started watching shelly and just seeing her feminine aura i knew instantly that i needed to embody that. I have stepped into my feminine more and more and never felt more like myself! It’s amazing. Ty shelly🐚 You are a phenomenal teacher.
You’re welcome 💙
I sincerely want to understand this concept but I don’t at this point. I’ve always thought the feminine energy as the giver I.e., the nurturing, maternal, giving, maybe even a caregiving, energy. To me that says “giver” but based on your perspective the feminine is the receiver?
Can you explain in a more practical everyday scenario? In your relationship, for example, you describe your dynamic as largely feminine and masculine. Not a balance of both energies in each of you but you are the feminine and your guy is the masculine. So he would be, using your example, the giver and you the receiver or taker. So on a practical level does that mean that he’s always giving to you and you’re just taking and not giving? . I’m so confused? And if that’s the case, why would anyone like to be in a position where they’re never receiving?
I genuinely would like to understand if you can help?😊
Hi. I have watched other videos on this. I won’t dare attempt to explain as Shelly can. However, I gather that being in your feminine is allowing him to take the lead. Receiving his gifts, kindness, affection, etc. and then responding to that lead. And of course, offering it back. When we operate out of masculine energy we are doing, pursuing, making things happen, taking the lead, and in some cases, forcing. Feminine energy patiently waits.....receives.....and then, responds. Just my two cents😊
Agree with Tamara’s response! It’s about being in a more receptive energy/mode. And making it known to him how much you Appreciate him! (That part is huge!) So many men feel under-appreciated or unappreciated totally by their significant other. Which often leads to a host of other issues! Hope this helps!
I love this i can resonate soo much with this video. I thought i needed to be masculine to successfully manifest. But i always felt like "i dont want to do do do all the time. I want to relax and just recieve beautiful things from life." so definetly going to relax a bit and just enjoy enjoy enjoy. Recieve recieve.
life is manifesting in a great way anyway❤️💜 plus. My sp is chasing me and i LIKEEE THAT thanks shelly!!!
So glad you like it!
For the first time since you are on TH-cam I finally SEE YOU , I get everything youve been teaching
I need to pull back. I find being more on my masculine can scare some guys off. Thank u for this Shelly 😊
You’re welcome 💙
Me too but where do we start
I hate that she has to keep justifying herself for saying he or she and explaining. Girl you don’t have to keep doing that for the exception most people are woman wanting to be more feminine it’s ok ❤
So if you’re naturally more masculine and a go getter, is this why a feminine way of manifesting might not work for you…. Because you’re not spiritually feeling natural with just sitting around?
This lady has spoke in multiple videos about being chased and desired. I wonder if she is aware that she is very attractive and beaming sensuality. I think her success with men has more to do with that then manifesting. Lol
I was wondering yesterday how feminine energy has anything to do with manifesting
Amy LeBlanc 😉
Yay I'm excited for this one because I prefer to be pursued! I've definitely experienced the energy being flipped and it did not feel good. Really valuable video! Especially as I've been in more of a masculine energy with my SP. Time to switch it up! 💕
Amy Lever nice. Yes! So good to recognize this so you can move back into the feminine.
How about being a mother n being used to give. Giver .... Mainly . Then with a man becoming the receiver is not easy cause all day long we give to the child, switching to receiver can be challenging...
It made sense, after watched this video I realized I'm mostly in my masculine mode, I'm practicing relax and receive from now on, love ya Shelly 💚😽
Beautiful darlin.
If you're in masculine energy and are trying to balance it out, do you always sit back and allow yourself to be receptive to the other person making plans or can you suggest and initiate it from time to time? My SP texts me every single day but recently there has been a flip in our dynamic and I have been in "chasing" mode while he has pulled back emotionally. I try to catch myself and step back into the feminine and trust and allow...but it's been two weeks since I've seen him and I would really like to spend some in person time with him again. What would you suggest? Just scripting it out and letting it manifest without trying to control the 3d? Or is it ok to give the 3D an occasional nudge?
Shelly. I hope you read this. Yesterday, literally yesterday, I was decreeing that I would get to hear from you on feminine energy.And look what pops up today. Are you psychic? What's happening? How did you read my mind Shelly? How?
Because I love the concept of being feminine. And my man is masculine but when I Eiypo, I imagine him as a bit more in tune and alignment with his masculine energy.
🔮 i guess you’re good at manifesting!! 😉☺️
brilliant. aha moment for me. I'm always the pursuer, with everything, I use my energy to push thru. This is how I sell at my work, this is how I pursue men, friends, I'm the one who plans, asks, texts, who does things. no wonder others just wait for my action energy to happen. I'm basically a man. and then I want to be pursued. Impossible. I dont open myself to this. I dont have the path energy cleared, im not in a receiving mode, even if think i am. I would love to pursued from now on, when things land on my laps.
Same!
Dear Shelly now i understand that I have been in maskulin energi towards my SP. I am going to change it now. Than you dear Shelly.
You’re welcome 🙏
Whenever i watch ur video.... I got my next move.
Thnkxxx
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I feel I am more in my feminine but I use my masculine a lot in my job. I try to balance myself enjoying life out of job, receiving and allowing life to unfold. Sometimes I catch myself ‘pursuing’ my partner but not from a place of fear but from love and a soft place without outcome! Extremes are not good. If you catch yourself ‘waiting’ or ‘submissively leaning back’ is also not good!
I would love to watch more videos on embodying feminine energy and being more receptive! ❤️ I grew up believing that I had to "be masculine" to do well in the world, but recently I realized that it is so stressful and it doesn't feel good to me to be that way. I am my happiest self when I sit back and watch everything come to me and unfold beautifully and effortlessly 🌹🌺
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I have been single for so long I became very masculine 😕 however once I did the inner healing work and worked on self love, I found myself becoming more femine ❤️ and I love it. They way I dress and feel makes me feel so much more feminine, even at home by myself, I insure I dress to create comfort plus feeling feminine 👗with a touch of lipstick all the time 💄💋
Okay but I JUST noticed your Alexander McQueen book. I have the same too! We love like minded people with TASTE
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I’m just naturally a very feminine woman. Not like I wear dresses and frills every day, but my spirit, the way I move through the world is just extremely feminine. I used to try to put on a more masculine energy because I thought it made me more powerful, but it really felt off, like I was a fraud -it never felt REAL to me. I finally gave up trying to put up a front and have since discovered just how powerful my feminine energy is... it’s powerful in a different way than the masculine, but just as powerful, if not MORE so.
Beautiful ✨
My goodness, look at your fabulous tan. Beach living agrees with you, and so does that shade of blue!
alien baby 🥰🥰🌊🐬🏖
I love this! Would enjoy more videos on embodying feminine energy and techniques to help with that :) thank you!!
Marisa good to know🙏🏼💛
Me too please 😊
i just want to be femenine in my relationships, couse i like to make plans and think and do. but dosen´t work for me in relations, couse i like very masculine men. i think thats one of the "problems" with my sp
I wonder if is possible to manifest a more masculine version of our sp? I like a really masculine man too.
Loved this topic as usual all ure topics you choose are facinating and inspiring 😍
I missed the live premier but someone mentioned on the chat about the twinflame dynamic yes alott has to do with polaraties plus minus. In a tf relationship the chaser is the feminine and runner masculine... kurt johnson has a channel all about it new allstar twinflame. I hope its ok to mention another coacher here but his speciality is in the tf area .
Basically theyre are specific telltale signs if you think you met them not every sp is a tf those who have met them know.
Number one key to the whole tf dynamic is aligning with your soul and thru detachment letting go, presense u attract them back to you ... its a vey strong dynamic.
Did u c dylan james posted a live apology to allbthe coachers he bashed obviously he realized his mistake thiught id let you know ❤
This video definitely tells me I'm on the right track. Thanks for sharing this topic with us.
You’re welcome 💙
I always be more to masculine than feminine. But now I want to be more feminine, I love being a receiver. It feels good.
Wonderful!
I’m so with you on this! If your SP is very dominant, masculine..it’s going to be a must that you tap into more of your feminine energy! This has been a true learning (&healing) experience for me, as I spent my 20’s and most of my 30’s in very masculine energy. Much of that time I was also very unhappy (in an unfulfilling marriage) and was experiencing times of higher anxiety and depression. Being more in my feminine, especially as it relates to romantic relationship, feels so much better to me.
Beautiful 💙
Lovely Shelly:)) Thank you🌹
You’re welcome 💙
OMG yessssss, I'm super duper excited for this one!!!
Awww yay!! Yes, people have asked me for this awhile 🥰
Now that i know i am the creator of my reality, i intend to have faith that everything i ask for i shall receive. To now trust in that, because i know that is the truth. Masculine to create it, feminine to receive it ❤
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I love this. I frequently talk about the gender less dynamic of the masculine and feminine. I love your perspective on this topic.
Glad you enjoyed it!
mam
my sp has had a muddy past
even though right now we r very close and intimate
whenever i think about her past it makes me angry
and it makes me feel i am in lack
please advise before i spoil this
Watch her yesterday's video on having a bad past with a specific person it's already there on her channel😊😇🤞🏻 good luck!
Forgiveness. Stop focusing on the past by focusing on the present.
Valuable video🌟🌟🌟. I am used to function in my masculine energy and it s a challenge to embody my feminine energy. I used to think that if you are not doing something, you are lazy or you are taking advantage of others. Two last years, i am starting to see that for some people it s a pleasure to give you constantly because that makes them happy. They receive also at the same time. Blessings to you Shelly for delivering such beautiful messages all the time!💜💙💚❤️💛
So glad you liked it!
Hello Shelly, this is Debra I Am sooo glad I came across your videos I Don't care what people think I Am gay and I love this feminine energy I Am feeling after all my mother always wanted a girl now she has one my late mother of course when I was younger I found out I had breast and through curiosity I found myself wearing pantyhose stockings so now that really don't make any difference now the only difference is that I'm proud of it Shelly your girl Debra ❤
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Thanks shelly❤ debra
You are welcome ❤️
I felt like I’m open to receiving & embodying the feminine more but then I don’t receive... could there be a limiting belief in the way??? It’s so annoying!!!
so basically the key is to let go of trying in order to receive? :)
Just try “leaning back” a bit to get more into a receptive state. You can still be affirming what you want to manifest but much less “trying to make things happen” in the 3D.
One of the Best Topic Sister Shelly😊❤️
Namaste from India🙏
Glad you enjoyed it🙏
@@ShellyBullard Stay Happy and Blessed. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS 🙏❤️😊
I loved this video. I like most when I feel a guy brings out more of my feminine energy. I am always thought you came through very feminine and I like your outfit, which I feel is very feminine as well.
Beautiful.
Thank you for explaining the masculine and feminine energy and how we all have both. I am a lesbian so the way you explained it was beautiful. Loved it! I embody more of the feminine energy as well, when I’m in a relationship I like the energies balanced because sometimes I do take the masculine role. I like the roles to be balanced & you're right the most magnetic relationships I’ve have been in are with women that know how to balance both because since we are balanced, the energies just flowed naturally like a beautiful rainbow😀 Great job in explaining it all, I resonated with it very well 🙏✨
Oh I love this!! Yes, everyone has their own preference about how much they want to be in the masculine or feminine in their lives and in a relationship. It actually is all about Authenticity. It's like: "How do I want to show up when I'm being completely authentic with myself?" It's going to be different for everyone! And I'm so happy it resonated for you. I love how well you know what energies you prefer in a relationship - both in yourself and in your partner. Beautiful.
TH-cam showed your video on exactly at 1:00 P.M. and it is 1:30 P.M. and didn't know this was uploaded hours ago! Sorry I am so late to responding! Loved this video very much! Also, love your channel and today is Day 2 since discovering your yesterday after my search on the subject "Mental Diet"! Thank you so much for that video! Today I started my 7 Day Mental Diet Challenge but have been having negative thoughts come in! I am going to go meditate and keep using affirmations! I did however as I was doing my Self-Care Skin Care Routine! I scrubbed and washed my face with my skin cleanser and then went to create my own skin astringent to get the extra cleanse to take out any dirt and oils and then used Castor Oil, Argan Oil, Moringa Oil and Tea Tree Oil mixed together as my skin moisturizer! Afterwards I used my Rose Quartz Crystal Face Roller and as I am massaging my face with it I speak out loud and afford, "I have Perfect Skin that is Beautiful, Healthy, Lovable, and Flawless and I have no acne, no bacteria and that it is soft and Glowing"! I kept affirming my affirmation numerous times feeling the feeling tons of Love and Gratitude! I am embodying the feeling of manifesting more great outcomes and to also start making it a practice to making my Mental Diet be stuck with me meaning to make it be a consistency and be much more easier and not allow any negative thoughts come in to ruin my manifestations! I am very serious about my Mental Diet and also to keep growing, expanding and healing areas that I know deserves better and I am so excited for this wonderful continuation on my wonderful journey! Thank you for the beautiful welcoming yesterday on your Mental Diet and I am again sending you more tons of Peace, Love, and Hugs! 🤗😍💖
Is it applicable to males also ?
Yes, feminine and masculine don’t necessarily mean male and female. If it makes you more comfortable or easier to understand, you can use the terms “yin” and “yang”. Men who feel they are more masculine can practice feminine energy to help balance themselves. If you are thinking in LOA terms, it seems that a lot of coaches teach in a more feminine aspect most of the time
9:15 watching this again and again
a "thank you" for this video
is not enough !!! 💎💎💎
🎁thank you thank you thank you💐
I really love this! Your explanation is very on point. I find myself in the past not being able to be receptive, and that can just be because of my up bringing watching my mom do everything and being both parents. So deff the feminine energy for me has been difficult to do which in turn adds more stress on me rather than enjoying the actual nature of how the relationship should be. But I’m just ready to receive and open to being treated for once
Thank you for this you’re awesome ❤️✨
Hi Shelly , thanks a lot for this video. It's just wonderful to know that. We are so grateful to you , if you would do a guided meditation for this so we can practice. Thank you
Is it a limit of my perception or why does alot of masculine energy principles appear to be the opposite of manifestation principles? in my own experience as a masculine man I've manifested and created alot more by just surrendering and it comes to me but I asbolutely love the inner feeling of the masculine doing achieving fighting exploring controlling energy. I see it as no matter what you have to have both ? someone has to do and produce for there to be anything to receive after all yes?
I think when I started being hurt in my relationships is when I let more of my masculine energy out. I also think it intimidates men.
And my dad taught me to do for myself. I’ve often pursued the men that I wanted😂 in a ♌️ so I can be aggressive.
Wow my manifesting has had a “ pursuing” feel to it. I needed to look at this video first. This is a big 💡 moment!
Shelly I was just about to request you to make a video on how to allow ourselves to receive what we want 🤩 Thank you for this ❤️ How can I teach myself to let myself receive the things I want when I don’t feel worthy or deserving of them?
Serendipitous that I just purchased your feminine session and this is the video today 😊 I’ve always been the chaser. I’m very masculine in other areas of my life but never enjoyed it in my romantic life. It felt off. But I thought I had to be the one to do everything or they’d lose interest or leave. And they always would leave. They loved my confidence when they first met me but because I’m not used to receiving in this area of my life (even though my natural tendency is to be the receiver and that is what I want) I’d end up pushing things along and it all inevitably blows up. The courses I purchased from you was how to stop picking avoidant/unavailable partners and the feminine one (I’m not using the correct titles). Anyway...already started working through them and I have to say my mind is blown. Sitting in the felt experience of what type of love I want is amazing! I’m taking 6 weeks to focus on me. I figured I’d start with 6 weeks because in 2020 time is moving so slowly 😩 My life has and is changing 💕
I don't do anything in my relationship!😂😂 That's totally an exaggeration... I offer a lot. But I chose men who want to "provide" not even necessarily literally (however that too)... they want to be the masculine lead and I'm happy to be led. :) So happy you have my courses to help lead the way for you. Big transformation on the horizon. :)
Liked and subscribed "manifesting your e 📖" 💞😍 love your videos shelly ✨
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i have a bussines on my own.
i think that my energy there has to be masculine, couse i have to make choices and step hard sometimes, but i want to have more femenine energy in other areas on my life, especialy in romantic area, is this posible?
Hey Shelly 💖this is really an amazing topic and I loved your take on this..
If I see my relationship now, by nature, I am more of a giver, I would go out of the way for my sp almost always (masculine).
However I would also allow him to come in and take care of things like planning the outings, dates and stayovers, expressing his love for me (which was a bit challenging for him because he had never loved and expressed his love for someone so genuinely before me). And our love was blooming then!😍♥️
However, overtime the energies flipped and I am now seeing that I was the one pursuing him and he started pulling back and this person who was initially trying to impress me by doing things he hasn't actually done for anyone before me, started taking me for granted...and then more I was initiating the more he started repeling..
And that's where we started fighting..I remember him telling me I have become dominant ( Maybe the masculine energy)
(Correct me if I am wrong?)
Now that i am Manifesting "US"back, I am stepping back and affirming more of him coming in and it is working! ❤️❤️
So now, all I have to do sit back and relax 💕😉💖 because I know he's coming in, I am just here to receive!
Also, I realised that most of your teachings are more feminine: you essentially tell us to sit back, relax and imagine our sp's to step in rather than us going after them and hence I resonate more with you!!♥️
Yes, your perspective on your dynamic is accurate - you moved into masculine (dominant), him back into feminine. Yes, my teachings are HIGHLY FEMININE. Feeling is feminine, Body is feminine, Receptivity is feminine. DOING is more masculine, which, as you guys know, isn't really my style. ;)
@@ShellyBullard so by stepping back, I am flipping our energies back to what we were!💖 Not doing this mistake again!
Yes! I want to release and have more feminine energy. As a single mother, it's so easy to exhibit both as needed. I want to be pursued and receive more love.
I wonder if this is why marriages fall apart. The energies get flipped. 🤔
This is one of my favorite videos. So appreciative.
I want to embody more of the feminine energy like you 😁 your videos are so soothing and beautiful
Aww thank you!
Thank you for articulating how the principle of assertive and receptive energies are embodied in different philosophies (manifesting, LoA, etc.) in similar ways. That's very helpful.
You’re welcome!
I intuitively feel feminine too, the time I flip my interactions to being masculine are when I became insecure; I'm happy to feel rebalanced, relaxed embodying again
I find it fascinating to be aware about masculine and feminine energies in my interactions, love the topic
Beautiful 💙
Very well said and pertinent to a modern construct.
Omg, yes, Shelly so I have been waiting for this video♥️ I could recognize your feminine energy so easily since when I first got into your videos. I identify as a very feminine woman. Despite working in a masculine field and always having been super tomboyish, I always just felt that way d allowed life to happen to me. I worked hard but never put in much effort and instinctively knew things would work out. The relationships where I connected most with a man was when I was beautifully resting in my feminine energy and allowed the masculine to do his thing. I realized also, fear is one of the biggest killers of feminine energy. It's all about trusting and allowing. I loved this video. Thank you for always sharing such wonderful wisdom and knowledge ♥️
Beautiful, girl. I'm so happy it resonated.
This is very helpful language! In my particular two families, both my Mexican grandmothers were extremely strong willed and ruled their families with iron fists lol. The one grandfather I knew was quite masculine and extremely smart as he built houses and churches, and my father is quite masculine in similar ways, but they both had/have very feminine energy in the receiving sense. My grandfather in particular trusted God very much and he lived to a ripe old age of 98. He was amazing. He definitely was of the opinion he had to work hard (child of the Great Depression) but his adult experiences seemed to teach him anything was possible.
My mom is very feminine outwardly, but I think using this language she has a very masculine energy with taking care of my dad’s every want. (It’s a very Mexican thing I think)
So now I understand while I feel crazy- I also WANT to receive, but I find myself serving everyone until I’m exhausted, especially when I’m with a man. I say so want a peaceful work environment , but I work in a police department where I give and give and give. And I don’t feel comfortable but I also don’t feel comfortable receiving.
So now I understand why I need to work on receiving!
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This is one of my favorite videos of yours! 😊💚 I bookmarked it.
Shelly, I'm curious: how did you first get into the Feminine/Masculine philosophy?
Intuitively my Being was drawn to it many many years ago (like 15 years ago or something?). I wrote in another comment that my go-to teacher on the subject is David Deida. He has many books about it and I've studied with him in person, too. :)
@@ShellyBullard David Deida - I just checked out some of his audios. Oh. My. God! 😄 This stuff is so powerful! What he's describing is EXACTLY what I've been intuiting and envisioning. It's like he's putting words to what I always knew existed. I already recognized it in the way you described your own relationship. It's so beautiful!
I'm so glad I've found you Shelly - you really inspire me! 😊
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Shelly, even though I'm male I love this video, so informative. I love the part about coming into a place of being able to receive vs. chasing dynamic, and masculine and feminine energies which you have mentioned to me before. Thanks again for bringing all this loving beautiful knowledge and energy to our world!
One of my favourite teachers on this topic is this youtuber called Dylan James! And you have the same name!!
This is so wonderful!!!! I'm using this for my life! Thank you Shelly!
You’re welcome!
I feel like this when I'm listening to your guided meditations: leaning back and receiving. What an amazing experience would be a guided meditation on how to embody the feminine energy!
U r PRO....!!
Thank you!
This is what I'm missing!! I've lost out on many possible relationships because of my masculine energy! I have 5 brothers and I wasn't taught how to be receiving. I just learned the energy I grew up with!
I love how this is entertwined with your manifestation work... I feel ready to embody the energy that feels good instead of staying in the masculine energy...I can see how this is blocking my manifestation
Yeeessss. Whatever feels good/natural in your body IS creating what you want.
I’m just here to receive, amazing, I have actually instinctively started to do this after opening my heart chakra maybe that is something that happens? 😌❤️
Perhaps!
Love you hun, thank you for making this one, it's so timely!!
You’re welcome!
yay! i’ve been requesting this 🤩
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Commenting for ebooks and thank you so much Shelley! ❤
You're welcome!
Thank You So Much Shelly, I'm really looking forward to watching your Video 🎈🌺❤👍👍
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Thank you so much Shelly ❤️
Ha - you are about the most feminine of feminine energy I have encountered - for sure more than all the LOA teachers on You Tube. I have to be masculine in my job but I want to be in my feminine so much more. That’s where I’m happiest.
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Just watching your videos daily changes my energy and makes me so happy. I’ve been doing so much self love, I set a goal last week to manifest $10k and I actually manifested half of it. Thank you. Would also love your ebook free yourself since I already have manifest your SP
First off, I like your top, I love ruffles.😀
I change from feminine to masculine depending on the situation. I harness either one. Great topic!
I e been wondering about this. I’ve not been super educated on both sides. This was very informative 🤗
Glad you liked it!
My energy is very masculine
This topic is totally new for me... thank you for letting me know 😇
You’re welcome!
Great video 📹. I'm working on this currently
Great!
Excellent video, Shelly.Wanted to know how to balance the Yin and Yang and I got the answer.
Wonderful!