Margarita, you've literally helped me these past few months in becoming the woman I've always wanted to be. I'm continuing to grow everyday in my feminine energy and it feels incredible! Thank you for all that you do, you are a true role model🥰❤️
While listening you‘ve inspired me to write down some affirmations and insights: -Setting boundaries is not selfish -I am not selfish for saying no -I deserve to deny whatever, whenever -Don‘t acknowledge but don‘t dismiss -Demand respect by exit and expectation sharing so that maybe others will be able to resonate with my extractions and conclusions of your wisdom 🥰🙏🏻
Setting boundaries is self-care (try not to use negative wording in the affirmations instead of saying not selfish, try replacing it) the subconscious brain can't always differentiate the NOT before selfish
So glad you're doing these videos, wish you had been around 30 years ago. wish laptops were too! could of saved myself, my marriage, less pain, my poor kids' pain fro divorce, etc. My mom, divorced, never had time for me and all i ever wanted was a family. I had that for 30ish years, only to realize I'd married a narc and that most of what I thought we had between us was false. My mom worked and worked and worked, and complained (just as you described). i worked and worked too to be the best mother to 3, i didn't complain, I loved my family, but guess what, today none of them care. BIG lesson.
I’m 25 and your videos have saved me so much. I’ve never commented but I stay watching all of them even your older videos. Congrats on your new baby and thank you so much for your wisdom.
I absolutely love you and your content. I’m almost 50 and you help me see my worth, get my power back and love ME!! Thank you for your messages and just being you! ❤
I love this session again! I'm going on a date(?) meet-up(?) tomorrow and listening to this helped to remind me to take things easy and to be in my divine feminine power. I've been using it with the recent guys that I'm talking to and I really find that it's more empowering for me. Not that I am trying to illicit a certain action or reaction from them, but to keep myself more level headed since I know I am naturally a romantic with rose-coloured glasses. Being in my feminine is to protect me more than it is to get any guy, and it is for me to learn kindness, compassion, and empathy for myself. In this way, I heal my wounds, and lift my self esteem and raise value in my own eyes so that I won't feel depressed or down. Honestly, Margarita, you are an amazing life coach, even if you don't think yourself that way. I love your podcasts and can't wait for more videos and updates! ❤️❤️❤️ Sending much love to you and the new baby girl! ❤️❤️❤️
Why have I only just found this woman 🙃 great video. Discovered you today. I am bingeing ALL the videos. I’m 48, and I gotta tell you, we were never taught a lot of this “stuff” how different people ones life may have been with this new knowledge 😊 x
You are an amazing human being. I'm in a very difficult time of my life and have felt lost for most of this transition. Listening to what you have to say is one of the very few things that brings me back a sense of joy and power in being a woman. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤
So last year I came out of a ten year relationship, it was one of the worst pains I had experienced and nothing seemed to help. I was also pregnant and it just felt so abnormal. I stumbled across your videos and I am forever grateful. You made me see the beauty in myself again after hiding away for many years. I know my worth now and will never settle for anything less ❤️
Congratulations on your baby girl! Welcome back. And please make a video about pp1 vs pp2. My both postpartums were so different too. I’m very interested in hearing your perspectives.
Girl illusions or delusion, like your best strategy moving forward is to embrace your Madonna energy and Express Yourself, Vogue & srike a pose. You'll become that Ray of Light you've been seeking out elsewhere. It was always in you. Just needed the spotlight on you to see it.
@@kc17131what did you decide? I'm in the same boat but I don't think he's going to be interested in marriage. I would not have started this relationship if I had realized it.
@@kc17131 If you settle for a mummys boy there will be 3 people in your marriage, and you will grow to resent his weakness. Also, if he doesnt think you're gorgeous and you accept that, it will become your reality. Find a man who makes you shine, not a man-let who dulls your sparkle ✨️
Omggg the big sister i never had... where have you been, I've been looking for you for so long! New suvscriber. About to binge watch you! Thank you for being sensible, honest, raw, realistic, natural, logical and loving with all the advice and wisdom you give. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl. ❤️
I love all your answers to these questions. You are absolutely killing it. And you were so right. So many instances in life it gets busy or stagnant or whatever. But you must just know that you are in your WOMAN and feminine queenness. :) This is very true. Having that confidence in those busier, harder or just stagnant moments is so important and that sparked extra confidence in me that those times are ok! And they do not set you back.
I am turning 40 and very impressed with your level of knowledge and conection and the humph and great energy. You are amazing and i am here learning/sedimenting what i already know inside but always doubtful. Your helping so many people. Congratulations!!!
Congratulations beautiful! As for the podcast I LOVE the premise. I just took my power back 5 minutes ago by finally getting a personal trainer. I’ve already mastered my nutrition…I’m about to enter the best body of my life. Thanks for the inspiration Margarita. I’ve finally taken the scariest step forward and im so happy about it.❤.
I was feeling really down today because of a recent breakup but your voice, your energy, your thoughts soothed me so well ❤ so thank you for this podcast :)
I notice you say Rebecca a few times in your videos. Rebecca is my birth name and I come here as if you're my big sister. Aha, made me smile. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and inner lionness. 🦁
Can you do a talk on how to handle the “little” annoyances that build up in marriage. Husband always late. Lack of communication when you have kids, etc. how do you set boundaries and also not build resentment but get change 🤷🏻♀️ … you know… find the balance in the LONG TERM
It's so funny you mention showing up in your "postpartum self", at the beginning of the video --- because the first thought that popped in my mind, when I saw your thumbnail, was "if there was a real-life portrait of a Greek goddess, I think this is what she'd look like" stunning as usual! Thanks for the vid!!
Amazing video as always! I`d love if you can do a video about how to find a way to relax and stay calm on the inside in our super busy lives. I constantly live in fight or flight mode and I am constantly thinking and planning. And this is causing adrenal high cortisol reaction in my body.. it`s all a mess.
I have developed feelings for a friend (man) after almost 2 years of being just friends. He is my next door neighbor and there is no way of getting around seeing him every day. I am anxious and he is avoidant (of course) I told him how I felt a couple of months ago and he said he did not think he could ever love anyone expect his long term girlfriend of 25 yrs that died about 2 1/2 yrs ago. He treats me like a girlfriend except the physical affection. Everyone in our community thinks we are a couple. We are older and I am torn between just trying to be happy with the companionship but I keep wanting more. Since I get so many mixed messages I am not sure how we really feels. This is causing me emotional pain. All the experts say tell him to figure it out and leave but that is physically not possible. He is a very kind, good man that I really do want to have in my life. How do I get rid of the pain? and be happy being just friends and companions?
Don't be friends with him again. Find something else to find you occupied. Withdraw your attention, let him miss you, sometimes that can make him realise that he needs you in his life. Don't give him any explanations though. Start a new hobby, watch a new series, read a book, do something that will keep you busy for at least two weeks. When he asks give him excuses, don't tell him you are taking your space. Keep him wondering why you suddenly don't have that time for him anymore. Try it for two weeks and also reduce communication. People are not special, we make them special because of the way we feel about them.
He is confused and sounds like he really, genuinely likes you, but sounds like he's stuck. You need to step back, take your power back and let him feel the void of your presence. It might make him realize he actually likes and appreciates you more than the realizes because he's comfortable with what you guys have or what you are providing. I'd say step back, don't be as available, etc. and let him come to you.
Congratulations Margerta, what a gorgeous child, God bless her and bless you. Thank you for shining and sharing 🌸 Can you please share with us what you perceive as healthy dynamics in terms of chores and finances, is one an exchange for the other? I'm a mum of 2, I was married to a narcissist, I was raised with the perception that women's value is measured by the extent she serves in the house, I instinctly rejected it because it is false and a huge burden. I 100% do my part and more, but unless I pick up someone else's slack I'm afraid I may be perceived as not a good wife. Is it emasculating for a man to take responsibility around the house while also providing and protecting? Who do I have to be to be a match for this kind of person. I'm in search of a healthy role model.
I would love to hear about your postpartum journey! Mine has been really dark and I’ve suffered with ppd and ppa, I still am, 14m postpartum, with my first baby! Im an anxious mom 😅 i would love to hear your experience and maybe some advice to us anxious fearful first time moms ❤️
I have signed up for your seminar. I might be the opposite of what you are describing here. I’m very independent, self-sufficient, I enjoy my own company. I consider myself to have high self-esteem but I have a tendency to panic when I’m in a relationship and I run. It’s almost like I’m going to be locked up and locked into this relationship. I have told myself this happens because this is not the right relationship. But is that correct thinking? Now I’m beginning to wonder.
Thank you so much. I'm brainwashing myself with your videos last few weeks while putting my baby to sleep. I'm interested in your postpartum journey and if you have some suggestions on how to stay connected with your husband while being mom of a young pup. How to deal with anger, resentment and lack of connection, feeling disinterested for marriage..
So true about telling men your vulnerabilites, be very careful with whom.
I’m in a divorce and coming off an addictive relationship. Your voice in my mind dims the despair and grief.
Sending healing thoughts and hugs and wishing you strength through it. ❤💪
Been there. It does get better. Hang in there. One day at a time ❤
It will get better love.
@@rollierollouthealing?What does this mean?
Congratulations, you're so strong! It will get better and better keep moving forward. Xoxoxo
"He used you for his own ego" Damn i will never let that one go
Margarita, you've literally helped me these past few months in becoming the woman I've always wanted to be. I'm continuing to grow everyday in my feminine energy and it feels incredible! Thank you for all that you do, you are a true role model🥰❤️
I second that. Thank you for all you do and all you have to share ❤️
❤
Baby Momma... you are sooooo fabulous! I adore you! YOU ARE SOOOOOO FREAKING WISE!
While listening you‘ve inspired me to write down some affirmations and insights:
-Setting boundaries is not selfish
-I am not selfish for saying no
-I deserve to deny whatever, whenever
-Don‘t acknowledge but don‘t dismiss
-Demand respect by exit and expectation
sharing so that maybe others will be able to resonate with my extractions and conclusions of your wisdom 🥰🙏🏻
Setting boundaries is self-care (try not to use negative wording in the affirmations instead of saying not selfish, try replacing it) the subconscious brain can't always differentiate the NOT before selfish
So glad you're doing these videos, wish you had been around 30 years ago. wish laptops were too! could of saved myself, my marriage, less pain, my poor kids' pain fro divorce, etc. My mom, divorced, never had time for me and all i ever wanted was a family. I had that for 30ish years, only to realize I'd married a narc and that most of what I thought we had between us was false. My mom worked and worked and worked, and complained (just as you described). i worked and worked too to be the best mother to 3, i didn't complain, I loved my family, but guess what, today none of them care. BIG lesson.
I’m 25 and your videos have saved me so much. I’ve never commented but I stay watching all of them even your older videos. Congrats on your new baby and thank you so much for your wisdom.
I adore how no-bullshit you are. Its so inspiring.
She makes a lot of situations more clear for me
Absolutely 💯
I absolutely love you and your content. I’m almost 50 and you help me see my worth, get my power back and love ME!! Thank you for your messages and just being you! ❤
I love this session again! I'm going on a date(?) meet-up(?) tomorrow and listening to this helped to remind me to take things easy and to be in my divine feminine power.
I've been using it with the recent guys that I'm talking to and I really find that it's more empowering for me. Not that I am trying to illicit a certain action or reaction from them, but to keep myself more level headed since I know I am naturally a romantic with rose-coloured glasses.
Being in my feminine is to protect me more than it is to get any guy, and it is for me to learn kindness, compassion, and empathy for myself. In this way, I heal my wounds, and lift my self esteem and raise value in my own eyes so that I won't feel depressed or down.
Honestly, Margarita, you are an amazing life coach, even if you don't think yourself that way. I love your podcasts and can't wait for more videos and updates! ❤️❤️❤️ Sending much love to you and the new baby girl! ❤️❤️❤️
Why have I only just found this woman 🙃 great video. Discovered you today. I am bingeing ALL the videos. I’m 48, and I gotta tell you, we were never taught a lot of this “stuff” how different people ones life may have been with this new knowledge 😊 x
You are an amazing human being. I'm in a very difficult time of my life and have felt lost for most of this transition. Listening to what you have to say is one of the very few things that brings me back a sense of joy and power in being a woman. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤
How beautiful is your soul and energy Margarita! Im so eager to live a good life and get better and better after listening to this!!
So last year I came out of a ten year relationship, it was one of the worst pains I had experienced and nothing seemed to help. I was also pregnant and it just felt so abnormal. I stumbled across your videos and I am forever grateful. You made me see the beauty in myself again after hiding away for many years. I know my worth now and will never settle for anything less ❤️
Congratulations on your baby girl! Welcome back. And please make a video about pp1 vs pp2. My both postpartums were so different too. I’m very interested in hearing your perspectives.
Omg literally your energy in the first 50 seconds is AMAZING you loook stunningggg
❤❤❤❤... You're BEAUTIFUL! Congratulations 🎉...Thank you for your wisdom, humor and positivity!
Congratulations Margarita! And you look so beautiful as always ❤️
REAL AF - so refreshing and congrats ❤❤❤
Girl illusions or delusion, like your best strategy moving forward is to embrace your Madonna energy and Express Yourself, Vogue & srike a pose. You'll become that Ray of Light you've been seeking out elsewhere. It was always in you. Just needed the spotlight on you to see it.
My partner doesn’t think I’m gorgeous and this videos are almost convincing me that my relationship is wrong and making me miserable.
Stay true to your feelings. You deserve it😊
Partner? He should have wifed you. Forget partner. If he doesn't think your beautiful why is he with you? Pull back, reevaluate and pray.
He proposed out of the blue just cause his controlling mum finally was ok with it. Such a complicated situation I wish nobody goes through
@@kc17131what did you decide? I'm in the same boat but I don't think he's going to be interested in marriage. I would not have started this relationship if I had realized it.
@@kc17131 If you settle for a mummys boy there will be 3 people in your marriage, and you will grow to resent his weakness. Also, if he doesnt think you're gorgeous and you accept that, it will become your reality. Find a man who makes you shine, not a man-let who dulls your sparkle ✨️
I’m so happy to see you’re doing well - congratulations on your baby! You’re so inspiring, as always!!!
Watching your podcast got me through some tough times ❤i thank you.
Im so grateful I found your account and seeing all of your videos BEFORE marriage, dating etc. It will help me sm
Congratulations Margarita!!!! What a blessing☺
love the way you speak so much! like in the movie "barbie" just waking up us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are queens!
exactly what I need to hear right now! Thank you Margarita ❤
Such an adorable baby girl ! 😍
margarita is back with a BANGERRRR
Such a precious little baby! You're amazing girl! Thank you for your channel❤
Oh my gosh, you have the best dating advice ever! Also your advice regarding bullies is awesome. I wish you were in my life 20+ years ago… 😭
You are simply glowing 😇 … congratulations to you and your baby girl .. thank you for your wisdom 😘
Welcome back!!! This video is definitely helpful, thanks! Always have to have that power in you!! Hope you are doing well!
Omggg the big sister i never had... where have you been, I've been looking for you for so long! New suvscriber. About to binge watch you! Thank you for being sensible, honest, raw, realistic, natural, logical and loving with all the advice and wisdom you give. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl. ❤️
I love all your answers to these questions. You are absolutely killing it. And you were so right. So many instances in life it gets busy or stagnant or whatever. But you must just know that you are in your WOMAN and feminine queenness. :) This is very true. Having that confidence in those busier, harder or just stagnant moments is so important and that sparked extra confidence in me that those times are ok! And they do not set you back.
This haitstyle suits you so well! 😍😊 your Face is so beautiful. Thank you for This Video Margarita😊
Practicing sitting in the lower half of my body thank you Margarita❤Your messages are really giving me comfort after being discarded. ❤
Your authenticity is refreshing ❤
I am turning 40 and very impressed with your level of knowledge and conection and the humph and great energy. You are amazing and i am here learning/sedimenting what i already know inside but always doubtful. Your helping so many people. Congratulations!!!
Just want to say how amazing this comment section is, you seem to have a beautiful community here 🥰
Congratulations beautiful! As for the podcast I LOVE the premise. I just took my power back 5 minutes ago by finally getting a personal trainer. I’ve already mastered my nutrition…I’m about to enter the best body of my life. Thanks for the inspiration Margarita. I’ve finally taken the scariest step forward and im so happy about it.❤.
I was feeling really down today because of a recent breakup but your voice, your energy, your thoughts soothed me so well ❤ so thank you for this podcast :)
You’re like an Angel 👼 ❤
Congratulations to you and the family ❤
New exciting chapter 💚💚💚
Congratulations for your little girl
Can’t wait to hear her name
You look stunning as always xxx ❤
Great job Margarita! ❤ my second was way harder than 1 and 3 too in newborn phase. They are all so different.
Congratulations on your growing family ♥️
Usually I’m not into podcasts but you took my attention with your wisdom 🥰 so I’m gonna watch all your work dear ❤best of luck
I notice you say Rebecca a few times in your videos. Rebecca is my birth name and I come here as if you're my big sister. Aha, made me smile. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and inner lionness. 🦁
Omg your daughter is gorgeous congrats and love you and your videos I've learned so much
I was just sobbing, perfect timing hahaha 😊
Can you do a talk on how to handle the “little” annoyances that build up in marriage. Husband always late. Lack of communication when you have kids, etc. how do you set boundaries and also not build resentment but get change 🤷🏻♀️ … you know… find the balance in the LONG TERM
The foundation of the marriage needs to be the Lord. Little annoyances are part of life. Pray for wisdom.
You're like the best friend/sister I never had ❤
You are like the elder sister I never had 😢❤❤
MISSED YOU YAYYYYY
It's so funny you mention showing up in your "postpartum self", at the beginning of the video --- because the first thought that popped in my mind, when I saw your thumbnail, was "if there was a real-life portrait of a Greek goddess, I think this is what she'd look like" stunning as usual! Thanks for the vid!!
I’d really appreciate a postpartum episode. I’m due in May and would love tips
Thank you for your thoughts and congrats on the latest baby! Bless you and have a great day!
You are amazing! I love listening to you. xx
Great video. So glad to see you back. You look fabulous. Thanks for sharing your little one with us. She’s healthy and beautiful.❤
BIG YES TO THE SUGGESTED POSTPARTUM EPISODE
Love you Margarita, Your content is so valuable and you can't imagine the positive impact on our minds, your baby is adorable!
Amazing video as always! I`d love if you can do a video about how to find a way to relax and stay calm on the inside in our super busy lives. I constantly live in fight or flight mode and I am constantly thinking and planning. And this is causing adrenal high cortisol reaction in my body.. it`s all a mess.
Your videos are actively changing my life.. I listen everyday. Thank you ❤
I have developed feelings for a friend (man) after almost 2 years of being just friends. He is my next door neighbor and there is no way of getting around seeing him every day. I am anxious and he is avoidant (of course) I told him how I felt a couple of months ago and he said he did not think he could ever love anyone expect his long term girlfriend of 25 yrs that died about 2 1/2 yrs ago. He treats me like a girlfriend except the physical affection. Everyone in our community thinks we are a couple. We are older and I am torn between just trying to be happy with the companionship but I keep wanting more. Since I get so many mixed messages I am not sure how we really feels. This is causing me emotional pain. All the experts say tell him to figure it out and leave but that is physically not possible. He is a very kind, good man that I really do want to have in my life. How do I get rid of the pain? and be happy being just friends and companions?
Don't be friends with him again.
Find something else to find you occupied.
Withdraw your attention, let him miss you, sometimes that can make him realise that he needs you in his life.
Don't give him any explanations though.
Start a new hobby, watch a new series, read a book, do something that will keep you busy for at least two weeks.
When he asks give him excuses, don't tell him you are taking your space.
Keep him wondering why you suddenly don't have that time for him anymore.
Try it for two weeks and also reduce communication.
People are not special, we make them special because of the way we feel about them.
He is confused and sounds like he really, genuinely likes you, but sounds like he's stuck. You need to step back, take your power back and let him feel the void of your presence. It might make him realize he actually likes and appreciates you more than the realizes because he's comfortable with what you guys have or what you are providing. I'd say step back, don't be as available, etc. and let him come to you.
Love you❤ loved seeing the little munchkin too!
Do you have a new mic? Your voice sounds so good and soothing
Congratulations Margerta, what a gorgeous child, God bless her and bless you. Thank you for shining and sharing 🌸 Can you please share with us what you perceive as healthy dynamics in terms of chores and finances, is one an exchange for the other? I'm a mum of 2, I was married to a narcissist, I was raised with the perception that women's value is measured by the extent she serves in the house, I instinctly rejected it because it is false and a huge burden. I 100% do my part and more, but unless I pick up someone else's slack I'm afraid I may be perceived as not a good wife. Is it emasculating for a man to take responsibility around the house while also providing and protecting? Who do I have to be to be a match for this kind of person. I'm in search of a healthy role model.
Omg, daughter is so sweet. I can'r with the sweetness
Margarita ❤️ congratulations on your new blessing. She is lovely 🥰 I would love for you to share more about authentic postpartum. Thank you
You are so much fun Margarita 🥰
haha I love when you used that kermit voice at 22:20 that made my day
You're always on time 🎉❤
Love your channel and podcast Margherita! Please make a postpartum video for us! ❤
You’re not only badass, but also very pretty
I would love to hear about your postpartum journey! Mine has been really dark and I’ve suffered with ppd and ppa, I still am, 14m postpartum, with my first baby! Im an anxious mom 😅 i would love to hear your experience and maybe some advice to us anxious fearful first time moms ❤️
Love you just as you are ❤❤❤❤
Omg congratulations!!! You had the baby!
You are awesome! I’m so glad I found your page ❤
She's great. Love this lady!
Hahah you are my hero and I just love you. Thank you again and again
Yes, for postpartum content! 🙌
Congrats for the babi queen. hoping your postpartum will ease rapidly. baby is incredibly cute. xoxo
You always inspire ❤
Had that ghosting with a situationship 2 weeks ago.
Told him he killed the vibe. So i went -> 👻😂
This happened to me, too.
Beautiful baby, congratulations 🎉
I love you so so much❤️🙏🤗
I have signed up for your seminar. I might be the opposite of what you are describing here. I’m very independent, self-sufficient, I enjoy my own company. I consider myself to have high self-esteem but I have a tendency to panic when I’m in a relationship and I run. It’s almost like I’m going to be locked up and locked into this relationship. I have told myself this happens because this is not the right relationship. But is that correct thinking? Now I’m beginning to wonder.
Thank you!
Congratulations ❤
We want the postpartum journey !!!
Congratulations 😊
You’re really beautiful in your natural state 😊
You are so chill after the birth! Congratulations 🎉❤
Omg your baby is sooo cute ❤
Congrats ❤❤❤
Thank you so much. I'm brainwashing myself with your videos last few weeks while putting my baby to sleep. I'm interested in your postpartum journey and if you have some suggestions on how to stay connected with your husband while being mom of a young pup. How to deal with anger, resentment and lack of connection, feeling disinterested for marriage..
I’m interested in your postpartum story !!!!!!!
13:17 👍👍👍