Cool if we take a deep dive on how to shift your identity? This concept is a game changer, AND the most requested topic from you when I sent out a poll last week. Lmk if you'd like more tips/breakdowns on this. If you want to go deeper, check out our free training that goes deeper into identity shifting and how to use it to change your life ➡ www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study . And if you want you want our help creating the 2.0 version of you... apply here for our metamorphic coaching program while there are still slots ➡ bit.ly/METAMORPHIC
Thanks alot Clark your channel got me right back on track am in alot of pain and am suffering but you brought me back to life and perspective thanks alot
Hey, Clark! Thanks for posting this Vid. This is truly and eye opener when it comes to redefining your life. I do have a question. Are all of our stories necessarily bad? Can we have core stories that are defining moments in our life that changed us for good? Is it good to take the stories and hold on to them even if they were difficult times in life? Or should they be let go?
Hey, rarely write a comment but this is not your original work and you should give credit to Frederick Dodson's Parallel Universes of Self .. assuming that you didn't know
"Doing as others told me, I was Blind. Coming when others called me, I was Lost. Then I left everyone, myself as well. Then I found Everyone, Myself as well.” ~ Rumi 🙏🌏👁️🐛 💥🦋 💝🔥🕊️ 🙌
@@ArcticButterflyWolf It sounds like you're at a crossroads and would do well to embrace the silence and soberly contemplate which direction will serve you best long term. When we go through DNOTs and having cleared house of all we are not, we find ourselves in the void where it can feel empty and lonely. It's Spiritual Warfare and having rid ourselves of any demonic strongholds we need to faithfully and fully attune ourselves with God source energies rather than fall back into old, comfy, tempting yet toxic patterns of behaviour we've outgrown or we risk an even worse outcome ... When the demonic spirits find our house empty of faith, love, peace, gratitude, self control, humility, compassion, good works, ie; the fruits of the Spirit, they invite their friends and party even harder to destroy us if we let them in ... Matthew 12:45, NIV: "Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that person is worse than the first. That is how it will be with this wicked generation.' It's the journey, not the destination that matters most. It's our choices, not the risks we take that determine our destiny. Eyes open, no fear, choose wisely, travel safe and light my friend xx 🙏🐛👁️🦋💞🕊️✌️
Just my two cents: I made a big change in wardrobe and the way I looked at myself. I left a lame environment and realized your environment can shape the way you think or feel. Long story short my "friends" and even some family members kept me down. Didn't realize I was playing a role they established for me. Once I moved to another state I didn't have that on me and over the course of a couple years completely rebuilt myself (gone thru therapy physical&psychological) became an entrepreneur and a dad. Boy did that shake things up back "home" now no one talks to me mostly cause I don't fit that image they had of me. In essence they liked the old me that made them feel good about themselves not if I was doing well in my personal life. Kinda like a stepping stone for their personal well being. Those ain't your people and success shine a light on the people who grinned in your short comings and now sour to hear I'm doing better for myself. Put in the work (it's very hard) but eventually you'll see the fruits of your labor 🙂
It still blows my mind that often times it your relatives your family that keep you down and then blow you off when you rise above. Its hard to wrap your mind around even when you see proof time and time again
Heck yeah thats amazing mate! Only you can truly approve of you, and that is the only approval that really matters. From that space you naturally will emanate your best self and other people soon enough will validate you and be magnetized to you, only from this place of authenticity and commitment to self!
This is truth to the bone, is scary to realise even your own family drag you down, even if unconsciously since family is basicaly related to karma, so sometimes the best thing is do like Buddha, leave for good, leave for your self, to go in your quest. Not leaving with anger but as an example of the principle of choosing your self first and your mission in life.
Your thoughts create feelings, Feelings felt long enough, create plans, Plans initiate action, actions develop habits, habits practiced long enough, create a lifestyle, lifestyle is your destiny; Control your thoughts!
I love this video. The hardest part is sticking to the new identity. It’s too easy to slip back into the old identity, even if you’re working hard at adopting the new identity you’ve created. Clark is right about the dating aspect. After a string of losers I stopped dating completely and worked on becoming a much better and healthier partner for my future partner. I clearly defined what kind of person I wanted as a partner. Then my future husband literally dropped out of nowhere in a game chat, I knew he was the One pretty early on by how friendly and respectful he was with everyone. We’ve been married over 7 years, and deeply in love. If I hadn’t done the work on myself I would be still attracting shifty losers.
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across
True we tend to go to what is familiar to us even in our own behavior which we may not like however it really is about establishing new behaviors which in turn will create familiarity the more we practice the new behaviors.
Fake it till you make it does work, just like changing your body posture works to increase your confidence. It's not about lying to others but about helping yourself.
This is the most interesting dude I have seen in such a long time. I've looked for a lot of channels giving life advice, but this is the first dude that actually has good advice!
That was brilliant thanks. Iv been scripting my identity every night before bed for 7 years, I choose my human Avatars identity, stories, emotions & actions for the next day as if its already done.. Everything I have written became my reality at quantum speed.
love the advice. I didnt put words to it but ive been doing this subconsciously for the past 5 yrs or so. 3 yrs ago at 27 i decided to get into real estate and for awhile i had a lot of self doubt. Not even so much about my abilities as it was about me deserving to make money and be successful. After many conversations in my head i realized I DO deserve to be happy especially if Im working hard for it and right then I had this internal identity shift where I was now a millionaire in the making. Didnt matter that i had 4 cents in my bank account. I was a broke millionaire. And thats how i work....I gotta reach that million because thats who i am and thats whats meant for me. Dw i intend to use most of it for charity and my mission in life is to build and sustain orphanages around the world. and i didnt let anyone know about this identity shift ofc, its just a feeling that motivates me to work. (Wanted to delete this obnoxious sounding comment a few times while writing it but i know how valuable other peoples comments can be when they relate.) Thanks for the tips man! -30 yr old single mom in NY
I was thinking of doing a mindset shift but this right here, is deeper and the overall big picture. It's basically self-affirmation of who you want to be
That shit works. Lost 30 kg in 3,5 month effortlessly. I mean of course I changed my diet, fasted, walked for long walks etc. But all this wasn’t hard. I enjoyefmd the process while before I often tried and failed. The magical trick was that I saw my self in a different light. I was proud about myself about achieving my goals even before it was done. Crazy I know but from now on this is how approach everything in life. Self concept and Law of Assumption for the win 😂🎉❤
I changed my identity and moved closer to my ideal self by changing my beliefs about myself first. In doing so, you can become the person you want to be and live a better life. Your thoughts, words and deeds reflect your true identity! Create a unique identity!
Loved the idea of doing the work in reverse. Identity, Stories, Beliefs, Emotions and Actions. Thank you for the video Clark. The "Stories" video would be great.
This is what I’ve been doing since 2020 and my whole identity has changed for the better now it’s time to step it up to millionaire status. 2023 is mine and it’s yours we claim it today!!!!
You are the easiest man-crush I've seen in a while. Very impressive! From the way you present with personality, your impressive reading-habits, you have real wisdom and the right masculinity. The non-toxic kind. 👍
Ill make it simpler: Step one. Choose the identity you want. You know what you want out of life. You know what you like, what you consume, what you are good at, Who you look up to and wish to be like. The catch is it must be realistic and truely part of you. After step one 'choose an identity.' Then Act how the person you made up acts like and you will slowly become them. Daily goals of actions towards the man you wish to become. This is what every successful person i respect has told me 🙏 Good luck 👍
Clark!!! The numbers story! Math holding you back, I’m in that boat personally!! That’s why I never enrolled into college BECAUSE of the MATH! Well I’m here to say that will no longer be my story! I’m looking at college at 41 years old to change my story! My friend just told me today that Math may not be the same to me now, that I may see it differently and you just stated that in this video (your experience now with numbers)Wow! It’s a synchronization I cannot ignore! Thanks for sharing
Love Clark and his videos! He always speaks truth… I personally made an identity shift, after trying many times and failing, to go from step 5 to step 1.. wish I saw this video years ago. Once I made the identity shift, everything else in my life has just begun to fall into place. I’m getting the things I REALLY want and need rather than the things I thought I wanted. One thing Clark said though, “our people’s bull shit detectors are so fined tuned this day and age..” unfortunately seems the opposite when you look at how many people fall for the lies of main stream media. Hopefully a shift in the hearts of mankind happens soon. Gotta take the power back. 🙏🏼 Keep pulling up those around you. Fight the good fight. Thank you for these videos!
Brandon, congrats!!! Do you mind me asking what you did to make the identity shift? What led to it and how did you do it? I ask, because I also did the same years ago. At one point I was stuck in life for four years. Felt lost. I was angry life wasn't going my way and at one point I just got fed up with myself being a whiney baby. So, I made a decision to not be a negative angry dude. I made a decision to be positive and focus on what I can control.....and practice gratitude And that one decision shifted my mindset
Hey whatsup Brandon, hope you're doing well bro, I'm currently in a fight with my identity...if you can please shine some light on this for me it would be greatly appreciated
You explained what I had stumbled upon in order to change my life drastically from being an Addict to being disgusted by it. Been clean for years because of my identity shift. Thank you for putting it into words that I could not explain better myself. This type of thinking is truly a life saver.
Our entire Perception of who we believe we can and cannot become boils down to the story we CHOOSE to identify with! When we learn to transcend the stories told us by our wounded sense of ego, our limiting beliefs can alchemize into expanding and inspiring beliefs. Our whole world boils down to how we can embody the person we KNOW that we can become through the story we choose to believe in! So epic to hear the timeliness of this message Clark, right as so many of us are expanding our true potential. yeehaw
It's amazing how much truth this video holds! This is what i was looking for. Our Core Stories are our subconscious beliefs, they are what affect our day to day life. Thank you Clark Kegley
Now I’m not disagreeing with anything you said but fake it til you make it works when you use it correctly. When you “act” like the person you want to be you begin to do the things the like person you want to be and begin to see results, thus really becoming the person you want to be.
My advice is do it both ways, the old way and the new way. Change your identity to change your actions but also change your actions to change identity. Double power!
I feel like that’s still choosing an identity of who you may not be yet but are looking to be so you embody that identity to “fake the act” which ultimately leads to success
OMG. My daughter cried over some students laughing at her for some math mistakes she made in the class. I literally was just saying the word like Quote 1. I think the message found a way to come to me.
Love it 🔥Brian Tracey says it’s important to have affirmations like it already happened. I am…(insert what you want). But that the identity has to change from the inside. It you want to level up, you have to level up from the inside - and on all levels. Now listening to you - this is my wakeupcall! Will check out more of your stuff. Big thanks! ❤
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
Can we talk about how this man is soooo handsome and saving lives most good looking people are not this humble he is so inspiring and I have been watching for a week now to get back on track coz am so lost in life I feel stuck and just in alot of pain
Thank you Clark, it all does start from the inside out. My workout routine is finally showing results, and yes, I left my past person to continue growing and evolving into my 10.
Clark I just love your approach to life and the way you explain the theory in your videos is so cultivating. I'm learning so much from you and I'm so happy to have found you. I'm wishing you so much luck, love, blessings and all the abundance in the world ♥️ Much love, Melissa Karagöz from The Netherlands
As Marisa peer said: the strongest force in all of us is that we must act in a way that matches how we define ourselves.. If you want to be great .. act great adopt greater values and thoughts and keep repeating 😊 and if you want to be a joker 🃏 act like a joker, How to find out about your thoughts?? Simply you’ve got to start thinking of what you have been thinking over and over then you will realise what kind of thoughts you have and start changing them because your thoughts are yours if they’re not serving you change them…. It is powerful
Clark, I’ve been following you for years and I must say this is by far one of your best videos :) leveled up in every single aspect. Love watching your journey and how you make your stories so relevant to the people you are coaching. Well done 🎉
Man ur videos are holy grail for me, thanks for pretty clear instructions. I had already shifted my identity before in some way, but my understanding of the process was not so good. Now i can shift it further and higher
Remember, the concept of identity shifting may resonate differently with everyone, and people may have diverse opinions and experiences with it. It's essential to approach the topic with an open mind and respect the perspectives of others.
I absolutely love you & so glad I found this channel because it’s everything I am ready to learn! When the student is ready the teacher appears. Thank you Clark 🙏🏼
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
I would love to see a video on "stories"... because I struggle with a balance of ... ok.. maybe some of this story is valid? & not wanting to be gaslighted (by my own self & others)out of what I have actually been through.. if that makes sense.. because.. I feel like we all need to feel valid telling our stories but.. I do need to not identify too much with the crap that is the past. I hope it makes sense what I'm saying. LOVED this video!! THANK YOU!!
﴿ذلِكَ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ لَم يَكُ مُغَيِّرًا نِعمَةً أَنعَمَها عَلى قَومٍ حَتّى يُغَيِّروا ما بِأَنفُسِهِم وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ سَميعٌ عَليمٌ﴾ [الأنفال: ٥٣] (53) That is because Allāh would not change a favor which He had bestowed upon a people until they change what is within themselves. And indeed, Allāh is Hearing and Knowing. Surah Al Anfal.[53]
This is a next level video, I can relate to it because it made remember and understand why and how I quite smoking 6 years ago And why I should use the same way of thinking in picking up my life together 🙏🏻 If I don’t succeed in the next 12 months, I will take the course, save the date and this comment
Did you ever do the video on stories? I'd like to see it. I'm an aspiring author, coach, and transformational tarot reader and stories and how they influence human behavior is a really important topic to me. Thanks Clark!
I gave up all forms of alcohol 8months back after I took my holy vows ( I am a Hindu). I shifted my identity to a Monk. Never had any cravings after that. Left cold turkey after 10 years of heavy drinking. I already feel like a billionaire. The next identity I m gonna create is that of an athlete.
Brilliant! Your ability to take something as complex as human change and make it sound so simple and exciting is epic! I suppose being a handsome and well-spoken dude helps 🙂 Well done!
Long story short up to minute 7 , my conclusion is your perspective of how your self is the deepest change or what is known is identity shift and what allows you to reprogram your whole way of thinking thus allowing you to become who you identify/see yourself as . Feel free to elaborate and correct me if I’m wrong
Guys - don’t learn lines. Girls just want to be listened to and to connect. If you aren’t interested in what she’s saying, she’s the wrong girl. My son (23 yrs old) has a rule - anytime a girl talks to him he asks her two questions about what she has told him. Girls adore him. And this method gives him time to decide if she’s his type.
Hello liz how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
Thank you for your videos! And yes, that would be so great if you'd make a video about inner stories :') I love your manner of speaking and explaining things
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
Yes. Do a video on stories. I think that would be a very important one to dig deeper into. Stories are everything!! It's how you bridge conscious to the unconscious.
If I’m being honest I just wish my ex would come back to me. We were together for 4 years and she left me in September on a whim and hasn’t looked back since. I’ve been hurting for so long and to see how she acts when I talk to her hurts even more. She’s already detached from me so quickly it’s so hard to come in terms with.
Move on. She isn't the one, you won't get anywhere going down this path. The right girl is out there, but you'll never see her while you are staring at the girl who dumped you. Its pointless self inflicted mental abuse. But if you could help me give up smoking on the other hand...
I just saw a video about this topic from this guy last night. Being held up on the relationship is only going to hold you back. Move on king and become an even better you❤️
It’s okay, keep ur head up and remember that the right person is out there and is looking and searching for you too! Not just the other way around, you’ve got this
If you’re SURE you want her back, search manifesting an ex back on TH-cam. It works. Try it. Best of luck to you! Wishing you peace and comfort. I know it hurts.
Identity is a mind construct. With all respect, why would changing a construct to another construct bring one to oneness? Constructs create separation. Please respond how you understand this. I appreciate food for thought ❤
Hello lisa how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
This is a game-changer. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was a game-changer. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
I thought I was the only one noticing the amount of Dating advice on TikTok. Twitter also have its own preference topics, writing,creation,copywriting is the Twitter main vibe
Ok I actually really love this TH-cam channel, some of these videos have been actually the best advice I’ve seen. I find it funny tho that the relationship examples are clearly directed towards the target population of incels that watch this 😂
Thaaaaank you sooooo muuuch Clark !!! That's amazing .. and Yes ! we would like a video on STORIES please.. Big thanks Goood Blesss Youuuu you're sooooooooooooooooo inspiring
I think a video on our inner core stories would be so good. Because I’m not sure what mine are. I think I’m effectively shifting my identity, but parts of me are hanging on to the old
Cool if we take a deep dive on how to shift your identity? This concept is a game changer, AND the most requested topic from you when I sent out a poll last week. Lmk if you'd like more tips/breakdowns on this. If you want to go deeper, check out our free training that goes deeper into identity shifting and how to use it to change your life ➡ www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study . And if you want you want our help creating the 2.0 version of you... apply here for our metamorphic coaching program while there are still slots ➡ bit.ly/METAMORPHIC
More please. This is already happening to me but I didn’t know there was a name for this. Definitely seeking. Thank you ✨
Thanks alot Clark your channel got me right back on track am in alot of pain and am suffering but you brought me back to life and perspective thanks alot
Hey, Clark! Thanks for posting this Vid. This is truly and eye opener when it comes to redefining your life. I do have a question. Are all of our stories necessarily bad? Can we have core stories that are defining moments in our life that changed us for good? Is it good to take the stories and hold on to them even if they were difficult times in life? Or should they be let go?
sad to see this coaching program has filled up :((
Hey, rarely write a comment but this is not your original work and you should give credit to Frederick Dodson's Parallel Universes of Self .. assuming that you didn't know
"Doing as others told me, I was Blind. Coming when others called me, I was Lost. Then I left everyone, myself as well. Then I found Everyone, Myself as well.” ~ Rumi 🙏🌏👁️🐛 💥🦋 💝🔥🕊️ 🙌
C h i l l s 🙌❤️🔥🙌 Thanks for sharing
Currently on that left myself find myself vibe in solitary confinement section of journey. Goodness give me the strength to finish
@@ArcticButterflyWolf It sounds like you're at a crossroads and would do well to embrace the silence and soberly contemplate which direction will serve you best long term.
When we go through DNOTs and having cleared house of all we are not, we find ourselves in the void where it can feel empty and lonely.
It's Spiritual Warfare and having rid ourselves of any demonic strongholds we need to faithfully and fully attune ourselves with God source energies rather than fall back into old, comfy, tempting yet toxic patterns of behaviour we've outgrown or we risk an even worse outcome ...
When the demonic spirits find our house empty of faith, love, peace, gratitude, self control, humility, compassion, good works, ie; the fruits of the Spirit, they invite their friends and party even harder to destroy us if we let them in ...
Matthew 12:45, NIV: "Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there.
And the final condition of that person is worse than the first.
That is how it will be with this wicked generation.'
It's the journey, not the destination that matters most. It's our choices, not the risks we take that determine our destiny.
Eyes open, no fear, choose wisely, travel safe and light my friend xx 🙏🐛👁️🦋💞🕊️✌️
Love that lil worm
Theirs something about the islamic sufis really
Just my two cents: I made a big change in wardrobe and the way I looked at myself. I left a lame environment and realized your environment can shape the way you think or feel. Long story short my "friends" and even some family members kept me down. Didn't realize I was playing a role they established for me.
Once I moved to another state I didn't have that on me and over the course of a couple years completely rebuilt myself (gone thru therapy physical&psychological) became an entrepreneur and a dad. Boy did that shake things up back "home" now no one talks to me mostly cause I don't fit that image they had of me. In essence they liked the old me that made them feel good about themselves not if I was doing well in my personal life. Kinda like a stepping stone for their personal well being.
Those ain't your people and success shine a light on the people who grinned in your short comings and now sour to hear I'm doing better for myself.
Put in the work (it's very hard) but eventually you'll see the fruits of your labor 🙂
It still blows my mind that often times it your relatives your family that keep you down and then blow you off when you rise above. Its hard to wrap your mind around even when you see proof time and time again
Heck yeah thats amazing mate! Only you can truly approve of you, and that is the only approval that really matters. From that space you naturally will emanate your best self and other people soon enough will validate you and be magnetized to you, only from this place of authenticity and commitment to self!
This is truth to the bone, is scary to realise even your own family drag you down, even if unconsciously since family is basicaly related to karma, so sometimes the best thing is do like Buddha, leave for good, leave for your self, to go in your quest. Not leaving with anger but as an example of the principle of choosing your self first and your mission in life.
Nice 2 Cents
Thank you for sharing your story. ✨
Your thoughts create feelings,
Feelings felt long enough, create plans,
Plans initiate action, actions develop habits, habits practiced long enough, create a lifestyle, lifestyle is your destiny;
Control your thoughts!
i screenshoted this 🙂
@@Adivar-1 same
@Adivar-1 haha me too!
I love this video. The hardest part is sticking to the new identity. It’s too easy to slip back into the old identity, even if you’re working hard at adopting the new identity you’ve created.
Clark is right about the dating aspect. After a string of losers I stopped dating completely and worked on becoming a much better and healthier partner for my future partner. I clearly defined what kind of person I wanted as a partner. Then my future husband literally dropped out of nowhere in a game chat, I knew he was the One pretty early on by how friendly and respectful he was with everyone.
We’ve been married over 7 years, and deeply in love. If I hadn’t done the work on myself I would be still attracting shifty losers.
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Hey
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across
True we tend to go to what is familiar to us even in our own behavior which we may not like however it really is about establishing new behaviors which in turn will create familiarity the more we practice the new behaviors.
"The only reason you're taking actions is to WIN & GET EMOTIONS"
this changed my life for sure.
Fake it till you make it does work, just like changing your body posture works to increase your confidence. It's not about lying to others but about helping yourself.
This is the most interesting dude I have seen in such a long time. I've looked for a lot of channels giving life advice, but this is the first dude that actually has good advice!
That was brilliant thanks. Iv been scripting my identity every night before bed for 7 years, I choose my human Avatars identity, stories, emotions & actions for the next day as if its already done.. Everything I have written became my reality at quantum speed.
How do you do that? Can you elaborate ?
please elaborate
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Could you give us an update please?
love the advice. I didnt put words to it but ive been doing this subconsciously for the past 5 yrs or so. 3 yrs ago at 27 i decided to get into real estate and for awhile i had a lot of self doubt. Not even so much about my abilities as it was about me deserving to make money and be successful. After many conversations in my head i realized I DO deserve to be happy especially if Im working hard for it and right then I had this internal identity shift where I was now a millionaire in the making. Didnt matter that i had 4 cents in my bank account. I was a broke millionaire. And thats how i work....I gotta reach that million because thats who i am and thats whats meant for me. Dw i intend to use most of it for charity and my mission in life is to build and sustain orphanages around the world. and i didnt let anyone know about this identity shift ofc, its just a feeling that motivates me to work.
(Wanted to delete this obnoxious sounding comment a few times while writing it but i know how valuable other peoples comments can be when they relate.)
Thanks for the tips man!
-30 yr old single mom in NY
I was thinking of doing a mindset shift but this right here, is deeper and the overall big picture. It's basically self-affirmation of who you want to be
That shit works. Lost 30 kg in 3,5 month effortlessly. I mean of course I changed my diet, fasted, walked for long walks etc. But all this wasn’t hard. I enjoyefmd the process while before I often tried and failed. The magical trick was that I saw my self in a different light. I was proud about myself about achieving my goals even before it was done. Crazy I know but from now on this is how approach everything in life. Self concept and Law of Assumption for the win 😂🎉❤
Yes this changes everything!
You sounds unique I'll love to know you 😊
YOU NEVER REALLY KNOW: You could be shitting in a stall, minding your own business, unwittingly changing the trajectory of a man's life forever.
This comment 😂
What a legend 🤩😂
Lmao
😂😂😂
"Stop chasing the money and start chasing the passion." Tony Hsieh, enjoyed watching your video :) thumb up !
Practicing this technique for the past few years has completely changed me. It takes time but it totally works!
I changed my identity and moved closer to my ideal self by changing my beliefs about myself first. In doing so, you can become the person you want to be and live a better life. Your thoughts, words and deeds reflect your true identity!
Create a unique identity!
I'm a guy delaing with very low slef esteem and social anxiety can u help me get over ? How to create a different identity ?
Loved the idea of doing the work in reverse. Identity, Stories, Beliefs, Emotions and Actions.
Thank you for the video Clark. The "Stories" video would be great.
This is what I’ve been doing since 2020 and my whole identity has changed for the better now it’s time to step it up to millionaire status. 2023 is mine and it’s yours we claim it today!!!!
You are the easiest man-crush I've seen in a while. Very impressive! From the way you present with personality, your impressive reading-habits, you have real wisdom and the right masculinity. The non-toxic kind. 👍
Can confirm. Its now "I get to go to the gym" no longer "I have to go to the gym". Keep up the great work brother!
Ill make it simpler:
Step one.
Choose the identity you want.
You know what you want out of life.
You know what you like, what you consume, what you are good at, Who you look up to and wish to be like.
The catch is it must be realistic and truely part of you.
After step one 'choose an identity.'
Then Act how the person you made up acts like and you will slowly become them.
Daily goals of actions towards the man you wish to become.
This is what every successful person i respect has told me 🙏
Good luck 👍
Clark!!! The numbers story! Math holding you back, I’m in that boat personally!! That’s why I never enrolled into college BECAUSE of the MATH! Well I’m here to say that will no longer be my story! I’m looking at college at 41 years old to change my story! My friend just told me today that Math may not be the same to me now, that I may see it differently and you just stated that in this video (your experience now with numbers)Wow! It’s a synchronization I cannot ignore! Thanks for sharing
Love Clark and his videos! He always speaks truth… I personally made an identity shift, after trying many times and failing, to go from step 5 to step 1.. wish I saw this video years ago. Once I made the identity shift, everything else in my life has just begun to fall into place. I’m getting the things I REALLY want and need rather than the things I thought I wanted.
One thing Clark said though, “our people’s bull shit detectors are so fined tuned this day and age..” unfortunately seems the opposite when you look at how many people fall for the lies of main stream media. Hopefully a shift in the hearts of mankind happens soon. Gotta take the power back. 🙏🏼
Keep pulling up those around you. Fight the good fight. Thank you for these videos!
People who watch mainstream media know their being lied to but they are scared of the truth. There like platos allegory of the cave
Brandon, congrats!!! Do you mind me asking what you did to make the identity shift? What led to it and how did you do it? I ask, because I also did the same years ago. At one point I was stuck in life for four years. Felt lost. I was angry life wasn't going my way and at one point I just got fed up with myself being a whiney baby. So, I made a decision to not be a negative angry dude. I made a decision to be positive and focus on what I can control.....and practice gratitude
And that one decision shifted my mindset
Hey whatsup Brandon, hope you're doing well bro, I'm currently in a fight with my identity...if you can please shine some light on this for me it would be greatly appreciated
You explained what I had stumbled upon in order to change my life drastically from being an Addict to being disgusted by it. Been clean for years because of my identity shift. Thank you for putting it into words that I could not explain better myself. This type of thinking is truly a life saver.
Me too an addict to my narc ex. Totally quit him like i had quit smoking cigs and drinking alcohol... all while still in a relationship w him lol
Our entire Perception of who we believe we can and cannot become boils down to the story we CHOOSE to identify with! When we learn to transcend the stories told us by our wounded sense of ego, our limiting beliefs can alchemize into expanding and inspiring beliefs. Our whole world boils down to how we can embody the person we KNOW that we can become through the story we choose to believe in! So epic to hear the timeliness of this message Clark, right as so many of us are expanding our true potential.
yeehaw
thanks for the beautiful articulation!
@@crystallinesurfclub7373 of course! Clark started the conversation!
Nicely said pal
@@psychedelicsalsa8520 jah!
It's amazing how much truth this video holds!
This is what i was looking for.
Our Core Stories are our subconscious beliefs, they are what affect our day to day life.
Thank you Clark Kegley
5:06 Thank You For Everything after this part
6:20
I had absolutely no clue Clark was the drummer for Andrew W.K. 😂 this makes me like you 100x even more
Now I’m not disagreeing with anything you said but fake it til you make it works when you use it correctly. When you “act” like the person you want to be you begin to do the things the like person you want to be and begin to see results, thus really becoming the person you want to be.
My advice is do it both ways, the old way and the new way. Change your identity to change your actions but also change your actions to change identity. Double power!
I feel like that’s still choosing an identity of who you may not be yet but are looking to be so you embody that identity to “fake the act” which ultimately leads to success
OMG. My daughter cried over some students laughing at her for some math mistakes she made in the class. I literally was just saying the word like Quote 1. I think the message found a way to come to me.
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Love it 🔥Brian Tracey says it’s important to have affirmations like it already happened. I am…(insert what you want). But that the identity has to change from the inside. It you want to level up, you have to level up from the inside - and on all levels. Now listening to you - this is my wakeupcall! Will check out more of your stuff. Big thanks! ❤
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
Can we talk about how this man is soooo handsome and saving lives most good looking people are not this humble he is so inspiring and I have been watching for a week now to get back on track coz am so lost in life I feel stuck and just in alot of pain
I love the feeling i just got when i realised this kind of real advice is what i’ve been looking years for. I finally found it. Thank you for real.
PLEASE do a video on core stories! I suspect I’ve got enough of ‘em to fill a library. Help me dig them up, I’m begging you!
Thank you Clark, it all does start from the inside out. My workout routine is finally showing results, and yes, I left my past person to continue growing and evolving into my 10.
Watching this while vaping, I guess this is my sign 😅
It is
Clark I just love your approach to life and the way you explain the theory in your videos is so cultivating. I'm learning so much from you and I'm so happy to have found you. I'm wishing you so much luck, love, blessings and all the abundance in the world ♥️
Much love,
Melissa Karagöz from The Netherlands
I’ve been doing the new version of identity change without realizing it this is cool
As Marisa peer said: the strongest force in all of us is that we must act in a way that matches how we define ourselves..
If you want to be great .. act great adopt greater values and thoughts and keep repeating 😊 and if you want to be a joker 🃏 act like a joker,
How to find out about your thoughts?? Simply you’ve got to start thinking of what you have been thinking over and over then you will realise what kind of thoughts you have and start changing them because your thoughts are yours if they’re not serving you change them…. It is powerful
Yes, a video on stories would be great. This was fantastic, btw.
Clark, I’ve been following you for years and I must say this is by far one of your best videos :) leveled up in every single aspect. Love watching your journey and how you make your stories so relevant to the people you are coaching. Well done 🎉
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Hello Beautiful, How are you doing?
You sure have a nice smile 😊
Man ur videos are holy grail for me, thanks for pretty clear instructions. I had already shifted my identity before in some way, but my understanding of the process was not so good. Now i can shift it further and higher
Remember, the concept of identity shifting may resonate differently with everyone, and people may have diverse opinions and experiences with it. It's essential to approach the topic with an open mind and respect the perspectives of others.
I'm a new subscriber . Really enjoying your content..
Holy crap you were drumming for Andrew W.K. that's awesome 👍
Hi there 💕
I absolutely love you & so glad I found this channel because it’s everything I am ready to learn! When the student is ready the teacher appears. Thank you Clark 🙏🏼
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
I’m using this to quit smoking cigarettes. Thanks Clark!
I would love to see a video on "stories"... because I struggle with a balance of ... ok.. maybe some of this story is valid? & not wanting to be gaslighted (by my own self & others)out of what I have actually been through.. if that makes sense.. because.. I feel like we all need to feel valid telling our stories but.. I do need to not identify too much with the crap that is the past. I hope it makes sense what I'm saying. LOVED this video!! THANK YOU!!
You’re a life saver my guy, thank you. ❤️😌
﴿ذلِكَ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ لَم يَكُ مُغَيِّرًا نِعمَةً أَنعَمَها عَلى قَومٍ حَتّى يُغَيِّروا ما بِأَنفُسِهِم وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ سَميعٌ عَليمٌ﴾ [الأنفال: ٥٣]
(53) That is because Allāh would not change a favor which He had bestowed upon a people until they change what is within themselves. And indeed, Allāh is Hearing and Knowing.
Surah Al Anfal.[53]
Dr. Maxwell Maltz and trading psychology by Mark Douglas pioneered these concepts and are well worth reading.
What a weird coincidence that you happened to publish a video when I’ve been having this epiphany over the last 24 hours.. thanks for the video!
Best video on TH-cam for self- improvement❤
Great video all the content nowadays sucks and doesn’t help people. This HELPS
Man, you always know what you're talking about. You go deep while others stay at the surface. 👍👍
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You are such a Legend Clark, thank you!
Great visual representation of this concept. Also, your script was very clear. Keep up the great work.
This is a next level video, I can relate to it because it made remember and understand why and how I quite smoking 6 years ago
And why I should use the same way of thinking in picking up my life together 🙏🏻
If I don’t succeed in the next 12 months, I will take the course, save the date and this comment
I'd like to see a video on stories. I believe stories provide the best context on people and what is ailing/motivating us.
Did you ever do the video on stories? I'd like to see it. I'm an aspiring author, coach, and transformational tarot reader and stories and how they influence human behavior is a really important topic to me. Thanks Clark!
Hello Beautiful, How are you doing?
You sure have a nice smile 😊
Hello there wow you look so beautiful
I gave up all forms of alcohol 8months back after I took my holy vows ( I am a Hindu). I shifted my identity to a Monk. Never had any cravings after that. Left cold turkey after 10 years of heavy drinking.
I already feel like a billionaire.
The next identity I m gonna create is that of an athlete.
This was a 14min ad and I’ve no idea how to change my core beliefs
This is so helpful right now at this juncture of my life. Thank you, Clark.
Brilliant!
Your ability to take something as complex as human change and make it sound so simple and exciting is epic!
I suppose being a handsome and well-spoken dude helps 🙂
Well done!
Whoa! 2 bedroom Seattle apartment for $700 a month? Man, that must have been back in the day.
Long story short up to minute 7 , my conclusion is your perspective of how your self is the deepest change or what is known is identity shift and what allows you to reprogram your whole way of thinking thus allowing you to become who you identify/see yourself as . Feel free to elaborate and correct me if I’m wrong
Guys - don’t learn lines. Girls just want to be listened to and to connect. If you aren’t interested in what she’s saying, she’s the wrong girl.
My son (23 yrs old) has a rule - anytime a girl talks to him he asks her two questions about what she has told him. Girls adore him. And this method gives him time to decide if she’s his type.
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Good Morning liz.Hope you had a lovely night rest?
Hello liz how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
Thank you for your videos! And yes, that would be so great if you'd make a video about inner stories :') I love your manner of speaking and explaining things
Brother I absolutely love the work you are doing for the people.
A video on stories, heck yeah! Thank you for the advice, again.
This is awesome! Also learning about chakras and your shadow self helps with your frequency and attraction. Love your vids!
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
Self-improvement is about changing behavior. Conscious self-evolution is about re-evaluating perception. Real change comes from perception.
I truly enjoyed your performance on the drums. Did you do it just for this video? Made me smile.
Yes. Do a video on stories. I think that would be a very important one to dig deeper into. Stories are everything!! It's how you bridge conscious to the unconscious.
carl jung!!! make the unconscious conscious so the consious can inform the unconscious!
@@kevji Exactly!!
If I’m being honest I just wish my ex would come back to me. We were together for 4 years and she left me in September on a whim and hasn’t looked back since. I’ve been hurting for so long and to see how she acts when I talk to her hurts even more. She’s already detached from me so quickly it’s so hard to come in terms with.
Move on. She isn't the one, you won't get anywhere going down this path. The right girl is out there, but you'll never see her while you are staring at the girl who dumped you. Its pointless self inflicted mental abuse.
But if you could help me give up smoking on the other hand...
I just saw a video about this topic from this guy last night. Being held up on the relationship is only going to hold you back. Move on king and become an even better you❤️
It’s okay, keep ur head up and remember that the right person is out there and is looking and searching for you too! Not just the other way around, you’ve got this
If you’re SURE you want her back, search manifesting an ex back on TH-cam. It works. Try it. Best of luck to you! Wishing you peace and comfort. I know it hurts.
Thank you brothers ❤️
I feel like I am listening to Ed Mylett Change your identity I love it!
Hi Clark! I love your videos. Thank you for motivating me to start my own TH-cam account.
I just subscribed.👍🏽I like your content. Keep commenting, that’s how a lot of people find new channels.
Can''t, believe you did this one Clark, glad you took this away from you
Bro i've been watching a few of your videos for some time now... you bring top tier content all the time 🔥
Identity is a mind construct. With all respect, why would changing a construct to another construct bring one to oneness? Constructs create separation. Please respond how you understand this. I appreciate food for thought ❤
A video on stories would be fire!
LOVE YOUR CONTENT! Thank you so much.
This is the most interesting thing I’ve watched so far since subscribing to your channel can’t wait for a part2
Much love from Nigeria
@Clark-Kegley-. 😳😳😳alright ❤️❤️❤️
Done that already sir
If a person lives to pick up women, then yes, they will need to exercise more to make it easier. Because there's some pretty heavy women out there!
one of your best videos yet brother! thank you for this! 👏
Love this explanation!!
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Hello lisa how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
Good Morning lisa.Hope you had a lovely night rest?
This is a game-changer. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was a game-changer. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
Never let down!
Incredible that that was just what I was looking for last week. Good job!
What a great video. Thank you so much
and YES, please make a video on Stories
I thought I was the only one noticing the amount of Dating advice on TikTok. Twitter also have its own preference topics, writing,creation,copywriting is the Twitter main vibe
How many indentity shifting videos this guy will do.
We get it dude
Changing lives my friend!
Thank you! Didnt know Ben Affleck is a self-development coach!😊
I love your videos. Greetings from Brazil ❤
Interesting change of perspective. Thank you. This was helpful!
Another fab video. 👌 Definitely going to reach out for some coaching in the new year :) 😀
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Hello,you look amazing
Ok I actually really love this TH-cam channel, some of these videos have been actually the best advice I’ve seen. I find it funny tho that the relationship examples are clearly directed towards the target population of incels that watch this 😂
Thaaaaank you sooooo muuuch Clark !!! That's amazing .. and Yes ! we would like a video on STORIES please.. Big thanks Goood Blesss Youuuu you're sooooooooooooooooo inspiring
I think a video on our inner core stories would be so good. Because I’m not sure what mine are. I think I’m effectively shifting my identity, but parts of me are hanging on to the old
Wow you look so beautiful and so sweet