These are my 5 rules for fashion: 1. You can wear white after Labor Day! White is a wonderful color to wear anytime on anyone. 2. Don’t let what’s in the mirror dictate who you are! Do what you feel for that day and dress that way! 3. Take a chance! Be bold! Live your life in living color. There’s beautiful colors all around in the world, take advantage of that. 4. You run the fashion, don’t let the fashion run you. Don’t let the fashion police tell you what to wear. 5. Fashion does not age you! You age in the fashion. Older women can pull off just about anything if you’re confident. I’m 54 and I still get complements on items I brought years ago and still wear. Do you in whatever you do and wear as you do Kay. If you live that way, You will always be well put together. Thanks for the great tips Kay. I just wanted to share mine as well.
...I agree! I was still able to pull off wearing a mini skirt till age 53 !! And I don't mean " really short mini skirt ", just mini enough, lol. I owned that skirt since I was 45 ..... it was so well made, a Donna Karan , beautifully made, lined, very small slit on the right side . I got compliments every time I wore it. I still have a few items from when I was 50, that still fit ( I'm in my 60's) and still look nice.
Love your rules. Completely agree with 5. My mom is 70 and has a great style and fashion. She has mostly classics but adds a few modern pieces which keeps her looking sophisticated. I try to learn from her! She also lives shipping at thrift stores!
I love the fashion education you share as well as the gentle reminders to be the best person we can be. An ugly spirit sure can undermine surface beauty.
Lol! You caught me! I grew up poor, and “high water “ pants were shamed. I had them and had to wear them. I didn’t realize it until now that not only am I still critical of them, but why I wouldn’t allow my kids to wear them. If they had a growth spurt and I didn’t get ahead of it with the proper length pants, they weren’t allowed to wear them outside of the house! I stand corrected. Thank you for being gentle!
I wore my older sister’s hand me downs when I started elementary school, problem was, she is a petite and I was never petite. Mom said I wore her second grade clothes in kindergarten. I have a problem with shorter pants that I am trying to break. I totally understand how you feel. I was very aware of what my children, three sons, wore to school. A few pieces of well fitting clothes is better than a closet of hand me downs. Peace.
Amen. I think the best takeaway is that these rules cause us to judge others. Was overweight for years and never felt I should wear horizontal stripes. Then one day decided everybody already knew I was overweight so not wearing stripes wasn’t hiding it. 🤣🤣
I think rules about the fit of a garment, and the most flattering styles for your shape need to be followed, and you usually look more attractive in colors that are in your palette - but other than that - throw the rules out the window, be adventurous, try new styles. Being modern (rather than trendy) is something that's not too hard to achieve, but I think that you have to be in the mindset where modern is OK! I'm in 74, and I often wear things that my 40 year old daughter in law says she is afraid to try! I'm certainly not outrageous, stay away from too tight, too short, too glittery, because that's not my style, but I think all of the current fashions can be adapted to fit different ages, shapes and sizes. You are right about customs, cultures etc.having an effect. I remember moving to the US in the 80's, to a small New England town, and my neighbors being shocked that I wore high heels (I was only 35!) as they thought they were for younger people! But - if something makes you feel good, then it shows on your face, and that in and of itself is a beautiful thing.
There's a rule that I have a harder time breaking although I do it sometimes and that's "Don't wear white after Labor Day". White pants or white shoes specifically. A white shirt is always in style. Another is that "You should not wear pantyhose and bare legs are in" that's a tough one especially as you get older I think a nude hose can make you look so much more toned and pulled together. It's important to not be critical of others and I really appreciate you bringing that to our attention with love.
It is so funny that you said that. My kids have been telling me to wear pants above my ankles and I tell them that I just cannot wear "high waters" because of how I grew up. I have some now but it took a lot of convincing.
I have just returned home after clothes shopping for some needed pieces and thoroughly enjoyed it. I felt confident and focused and bought items I really like and look good on me. Usually I am overwhelmed and have difficulty deciding and often return things. Your videos have taught me a lot and been very helpful, thank you Kaye.
Thank you for talking about this.We need freedom in fashion too. One of the rules I like to break is color for different seasons of the year. Like no white from Labor Day etc.
You hit a home run on this one (as the saying goes.) I have had these "fashion rules" drilled into my head as a child. Am still trying to shake them; especially the one on pant lengths. I love the suggestion about a color that maybe are not our best but using a scarf to soften it. I so appreciate your fashion suggestions and how to wear on trend clothes. I always said I didn't want to look frumpy when I get old (or at any age.) EACH AND EVERY TIME I wear something you suggest I get at LEAST one compliment. You also have such a beautiful loving spirit and it truly comes through in your videos. This is truly a beautiful ministry. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.
Kay I just love watching your videos about fashion advice! You are such a sweet, kindhearted, Christian woman!! I wish more women had a positive attitude about life as you seem to have, including myself. 🙏🏻☺️
Absolutely spot on, Kay! I have broken some of these rules from time to time, and guess what? My family and friends still love me! The key rules I try to follow are some that you have mentioned in previous videos and posts: Dress for the occasion, less is more (and mysterious or alluring!), keep your garments and accessories in good repair, “set it and forget it “ (i.e. once you’re dressed for your day, don’t think any more about it), practice good posture, and always wear the same accessory-a genuine smile. (And remember that poem about “when I’m old I’ll wear purple”? I’ve loved that colour for years!).
I have been encountering a "rule" that says nude hose or stockings are "out" and that bare legs, tights, or perhaps sheer black hose are the only acceptable legwear with dresses or skirts. I say phooey! Those folks don't have splotchy skin or spider veins or varicose veins. If a nude stocking is a close match to your skin color, they are barely noticeable, and anyone who comments negatively is too close. And as far as pants length, I wore just slightly too short pants for years because of long legs, and I am very sensitive about it, it makes me feel frumpy. Plus, I need socks in the cold weather, and then I prefer pants which just break at the top of the foot. The difficulty with all the various shorter pants length is that they put the focus on the shoes. I have problem feet and cannot wear heels or some other trendy shoe styles, I just feel glad to buy shoes that don't hurt. My comment on mixing patterns is that two different patterns need to have something in common to mix well, such as a common color, or mood or style. Or sometimes one of the patterns can be viewed as a "neutral", such as animal prints. And it is easier to mix patterns if they are not touching in the outfit. Thanks for addressing this topic.
Sometimes the rules are like taboos! Always do this! Never do that! But I agree so much with you, Kay, we need to do what makes us feel great :) I do like following certain "fashion rules", if they are chic, flattering and comfortable (most old French fashion rules are timeless anyway), but I don't like being limited to these only. For instance a few years ago, matching the colours of shoes and handbags suddenly started to be considered "boring" and dated, after DECADES being THE right/chic way. I love matching them, I do think it looks harmonious and put together, so I still often do it! But it's also fun to become more creative and not match them. Also common sense it important to me: wearing short length trousers leaving the ankles bare in cold weather because a few years ago it became trendy and socks were kind of banned... well... it doesn't make sense, so I stick to the older, classic rule of wearing socks with my loafers/ankle boots, and trousers longer than in the warm season.
Me, too. I both wear matching (or not) sets of shoes, belt and bag, match my hardware and jewelry metal colors, and wear socks when I want. I don’t like the feel of bare toes in a closed shoe, so I always wear at least toe covers, even if I want bare ankles.
Good advice. So many women have been given the wrong advice about fashion. It is never too late to change and they should take your advice and try to gradually change their old ways. Fashion should be fun and not something that creates fear.
I love that you mentioned the no black after fifty. I also love black, and I think it shows off my salt and pepper hair beautifully. I love your positivity. It makes your channel enjoyable.
Thank you for reminding us that fashion is supposed to be fun and energizing. It's the best way to share your personality with the world each and every day 💚
I think you hit the nail on the head. I grew up hearing all these rules and criticisms. I agree that making fashion your own in a classy way is acceptable. I’ve ALWAYS heard that older women can’t wear red or bright lipstick. I think older women CAN wear red lipstick if it’s the right red for your coloring. Happy Thanksgiving, Melissa 🌼
Thanks Kay . I agree about your fashion statement.. It is what each person desires. A matter of personal taste - likes and dislikes. Enjoy being out and about. Happy Thanksgiving to all in our wonderful country
I loved your comment about how to wear colors which aren’t necessarily the best when held against one’s face. I love bright yellow, but it does not look well on me when it is right against my face. Years ago I brought a brilliant yellow summertime skirt, and not only was the color supposedly wrong for me but it was also cut in a way which wasn’t considered to be the most flattering for my pear-shape. My daughter tried to talk me out of it! I balanced it with a white blouse which was also cut kind of full so it balanced out the skirt which was supposedly too full for me. After I wore the outfit she loved it on me… She told me I had such an attitude in it! And I did, because it made me so totally happy. I really believe we should wear what makes ourselves happy. We should wear the clothing rather than the clothing wearing us, if that makes any sense!
I appreciate your original thoughts on this subject and positive attitude. Another childhood message was that people who wore ripped or stained clothing were poor. Today they do it on purpose! This is a trend I don’t personally like so I’m not going to wear it. I’ve decided to wear the nicest loveliest things that I can afford for the rest of the time I’m blessed to be on this earth.
Thanks for sharing Teresa. Yes I think it’s wise to evaluate trends and see them for what they are (and are not) and then decide if we want to participate or not. That way we can appreciate the trend on other people without being critical but still stay in our own lane too. 🥰
Yes Kay your kindness and down to earth comments are a model for all of us. I’m beginning to understand your mission here. Hoping to remember and have your words in my heart so I too am less critical and more supportive of others.
I'm someone who hates to shop for clothes. Not sure why as I can spend hours in a kitchen store. But, I am so grateful for your information as it tells me what is in style/trend and I can shop accordingly without having to go from store to store. Happy Thanksgiving.
Thank you for all the thinking you did to prepare this video. The anxiety about everything related to the pandemic has created a national irritability.🤨 It was good you addressed the negative impact of a critical spirit, both on ourselves as well as our targets! I was amazed what a difference the vertical line of the navy vest made upon the Breton tee. You are so right: "high water" pants were always looked upon with derision in our childhoods. How interesting to have that insight now at 73.🙂 You did a wonderful job of demonstrating ways to tweak things to present our own most flattering look. Thanks so much!
The one fashion rule I adhere to is 'no white between Labor Day and Easter.' If someone wants to, that is their choice and that is ok. For me, the only exception is winter white wool. Other than being brought up hearing this all my life, I like that white has its seasons - Spring and Summer. It is such a refreshing ,cool color. I hardly wear any other color of pants in the spring and summer. I love that fall and winter are for warmer, darker colors. Bottom line, 'you do you' as the saying goes. Wear what makes you feel good. Have a great day.
I actually do the same. I’m all for women wearing white year round if they’d like. But I like pulling out my true white pieces each spring and enjoying them for a couple of seasons and then putting them away. Thanks for sharing Peggy.
Thank you for another ‘pick me up’ video. I like the examples you share and the idea that we should not try too hard for perfection. Sometimes my mood chooses for me and I surprise myself!
This was great. I had never heard the "rules" about pants lengths, so that was a new one. But like you, I believe we should be wearing what we want and what gives us confidence. Appropriate attire is important, but that can still be done so creatively (and without arbitrary rules). Thank you for this!
I grew up in the Deep South and we were told not to wear white shoes after Labor Day. Pure white pants would be frowned upon too. Recently I have seen white jeans, with white boots in a winter outfit and it looked fresh as snow. If God dresses the winter landscape in white, why can’t we do the same? Yes, fashion should be fun and interesting and we should all dress our attitudes with grace toward each other, and joy in every day that God gives. Kay, you exude these traits, which makes me enjoy your channel! Thank you for this inspirational content!
Just found you Kay and I really love your channel. I’ve always enjoyed affordable style but lately now that I’m 69 I started thinking I need to dress down. After listening to you I feel motivated to dress with style but to keep it a little more simple and classic like you show. My mom passed many years ago and was always a stylish influence on me. I miss her but now I can confer with you! Thank you!
I was once told white washed me out, but it’s my go to ‘colour’, especially since I’m greying gracefully now. Looking back, I must have been extremely tired and weary with little kids at the time. I’m glad didn’t let it get to me.
I love your tips that are given with such graciousness and with such positivity! Your vibrancy is contagious! Most of all, I love the bottom line. God made all of us in his image, so let’s not be grumbling, complaining or critical of ourselves or other women. We are all doing life together! Happy Thanksgiving!
You made some very good points in this video. Regarding trends, we women of a certain age need to be judicious about which trends we choose to wear and how we wear them. For instance, I can't imagine wearing a bra top, even though it's a current trend. Better leave those for the well-toned teens and early twenty-somethings.
What an absolutely lovely spirit you have. I’ve been binge watching your videos and the love of Christ just shines right through you. Thank you! I’m just a couple of years older than you and have never given any thought to makeup or fashion, but you popped up on my feed and, well, here we go. Thank you for showing that good style (or even on trend) is an option for the older woman and for giving up “all the tips” on how to make it work. Now to loose those extra pounds so I can feel better in my skin.
Thanks so much, Linda. I’m glad you’re enjoying my videos. No new video today because I’m taking a couple of weeks off to refresh. But normally I upload new videos on Wednesday. I hope you’ll subscribe to my channel. 😊
Thank you, it is so important to be ourselves. I always feel if you like what you have on your going to carry yourself better too like standing taller or just an overall confidence booster!!!
Totally Agree. Another one that has always bugged me is NO WHITE AFTER LABOR DAY! This Christmas Eve I am wearing a gray sweater with white snowflakes with WHITE PANTS ….Gasp ! Lol !
I will never break the 4th rule. Will never mix prints but I rarely wear prints. Still wearing my skinny jeans. Thank you and I really enjoy your channel!😊
All great points Kay! I especially love how you present your material in a low key and gracious manner. I struggle with the pant length and type of footwear that looks good together. One of my rules was no white socks showing. Glad to see you wearing them and it looks good! I love your reminder to be gracious and not critical of others choices. Love your positivity and fashion sense.
This was a good one, Kay! I have tried to let go of these "rules" that I learned in grade school and high school! Fashion changes and we need to keep up. I don't think I can mix prints on myself, but I can let other people have fun with it. And I am so glad that pants are various lengths now. I am tall and it's so nice to not worry that my pants are too short when they are meant to be short. Thanks for another great video. You are my favorite fashion person.
I look so forward to your videos and blog posts. I’ve learned so much from you and enjoy your pleasant voice and sweet demeanor. 💕Thanks for helping me look and feel my best in my 50s!
Ok, here’s a rule we’ve all heard (and lived by): Don’t wear white after Labor Day…have to wait until Easter to wear white. I think that’s baloney myself. I love wearing white jeans. And I live in Georgia, where it’s warm/hot 8 months out of the year. I’d love for you do do a video on this topic! Thanks,Kay. You are very inspirational!
Fabulous video Kay! I have always been a rule follower and still am. Like you, I don’t want to be critical of others because of the rules floating around in my head.
Another wonderful and informative video! A rule I have always broken is no wearing white after labor day. I live in Southern California, and we wear white all year round!
I love how you teach us not to have a critical spirit and give one another grace along with such great fashion tips! I feel that a peaceful spirit and kind heart are some of the best anti aging benefits available to us. I’ve seen it in other women and at 64 years old am still a work in progress. Thank you!
Thank you, Elizabeth Henderson! I took your message to heart and purchased two headbands from Anthropologie during their Black Friday Sale! May God bless you as you continue to reclaim your life from the effects of breast cancer.
Great video Kay. I wore a classic black and white checked button up shirt with a black and white pokadot cardigan. Received many compliments. Being a quilter, I am always mixing up patterns. I also like your suggestions about colors that maybe are not our best but using a scarf to soften it. I seem to collect scarfs, need to wear them more. Have a blessed Thanksgiving
Good fashion content, thank you. All agreed except the mixing of prints... It is possible to mix prints but you need artist eyes for that, anchor colors that connect the prints and a substantial difference in the scale of the prints that are combined. Just my opinion here...
I’m really loving the shorter pant lengths. I’m starting to wear them with no show socks and ankle boots. Now I want to buy a pair of loafers and wear socks that match my top! Thank you for all your fashion tips! Happy Thanksgiving!
Omg the story about shorter pants and being poor resonates so much with me! I’m having a hard time allowing myself to wear the shorter lengths because of the messages from my youth! Thank you for this video! I’m going to give it a go wearing shorter lengths. It is the trend!
Wonderful tips. I will say that when I let my hair go grey I stay away from beige, brown, camel, and off-white colors which I love but feel they clash with my hair and skin. I wear purple pink red white shades of blue some gray some black.
Thank you, Kay! You spoke to several fashion “rules” that I have cowered under. What about headbands for women over 60? I am a young looking 62 year old. I see so many lovely headbands-I am mostly thinking of the ones I see at Anthropologie. I am letting my gray grow out and keeping a shoulder length style. What are your thoughts?
💐Mary Patricia: Anthropologie has been featuring some lovely headbands lately👍. As to your hair, I say God is a master colorist. Although depending upon your natural hair color, there can be a tricky transition (esp. for darker shades). If that's the case for you, a trained colorist can make it less painful. I'm a dark brown brunette who always turns reddish during the 😎 sunny months. My hair was in this natural transition year round with new & old growth too. Started getting threads of silver around the very front frame of my face in my 30s. (😉My mom💋 said they made her look older.) It never really went beyond that, but those hairs are white now. If I let it loose, they do not stand out. It's only if I wear a headband or clip it up on top that my 🦁 "lion's mane" is obvious. Now, the ladies (my age or older) are quick to disparage it. They may grudgingly say it looks nice on me, but would never work for them😔. Understandable, bcos I live in LA where almost everyone is chasing youth. Surprisingly, I get more unsolicited compliments from men my junior. All this to say, go for it. Do it for you. I just decided I didn't want to deal with chemicals or color upkeep. I also prefer to keep it up & off my face a bit. My delight, acceptance, & confidence has won over all the ppl in my life who truly count. For the rest, I try to let any negativity roll off like water💧on a duck's🦆 back. Life's simply too short to please everyone. 💚 Bridget from Cali☘️ (using my pal's YT acct)
Wow! I grew up listening to these fashion rules, it's frustrating when I go shopping! Thank you for the encouragement and your fashion ideas! I love this video!
Great video, Kay! Thanks for all the work you put into it. One rule I've always disliked is that you can't wear black and brown together. I love brown, and the right shades of brown and black go together well.
Thank you Kay, great video (again)! I think hair over 50 is another challenge and I know I have some opinions about it. It is probably similar to clothing in the sense that some can wear certain hair lengths/styles better than others depending on face shape and hair type. It can get tricky especially over 60, as I am finding out. Happy thanksgiving and thank you for all your hard work!
This is one of your best videos! We are all watching because we love fashion and still want to look our best. Thanks for getting into some of the history of why. I’m surprised that you didn’t mention that you shouldn’t wear white after labour day. Thanks for being so positive!
Kay - you are always gracious in your delivery with the brightest smile which I'm sure we all love. This video is becoming who you are - we all need that self confidence! Thank you.
Great video, I completely agree. I work at a Talbots store, I love that you rock our clothes, every day I hear someone said why dont they make vertical lines, horizontal lines make me look wide. I was expecting you to include the " white after labor day rule". Lol
As far as mixing prints goes, it works better if the two prints are separated from each other. For example, I would not suggest a print scarf over a print blouse. Or a print top worn with print pants should at least be separated by a solid belt. It also is helpful if the two prints have something in common, say both have red as part of the print, or both are geometric shapes such as wearing dots and stripes in the same outfit. Another good way to combine two prints is to have different scales of design, so a small print would combine best with a larger print. It is best not to just randomly mix two prints. Give it some thought so that the choice of the two prints looks intentional.
Thank you for this! I have been guilty of having a critical spirit because of silly outdated “rules” I imposed on others and myself. I moved from the midwest to Seattle in my 20s and learned quickly that when the sun comes out for a day or two in February afters months of daily rain you wear WHATEVER you want, for it may be a long time before you see that sun again😀
Yay for dressing in what we feel is flattering and fun, regardless of age! Sometimes it's just not important to follow "the rules"; especially in today's world where there are so many restrictions that we observe for health and safety...have fun with style.
I think your video is great. I bought two knit poncho/cape/scarf pieces that are usually worn over an outfit but not over a coat. It really limited my use of the pieces since we have a lot of cold weather. I have started wearing these things over a wool pea coat and a long wool coat. I like breaking the rules and doing what I like. It also gives a new way to liven up my same old coats. I also live where women don’t wear baseball caps but after a few years I decided I would break convention and started wearing a cap almost daily in summer. I can do it because I have confidence. My style is my own.
I don’t do it myself. You absolutely can. But I prefer to put mine away for the winter and bring it out all nice and fresh in the spring. Just more fun for me that way. So just because you CAN break a rule doesn’t mean you HAVE TO. 😉
I remember hearing, "Blue and green should never be seen" when I was younger. This is a "rule" that I have never bothered to follow. Blue and green are beautiful together.
Artist here. Blue and green are analogous colors. Which means they are near each other on the color wheel. The are very good together. I teach my students that you want to live next door to your best friend. Two of my favorite combos are lime green with navy or lime green with peacock blue. Gorgeous!
On this day before Thanksgiving I am so thankful for your videos, Kay. You really do make fashion fun. As I was watching this video two words came to mind. FLOOD PANTS. Even though I am now 63, I hear those words every time my ankle shows when I'm wearing jeans. That was the absolute worst fashion faux pas one could make when I was a teenager. You have given me permission to bare the ankles with confidence :). Happy Thanksgiving.
Great tips! I break all the rules you suggest we can. I wear whatever color I like. I love color and I don’t think I need a neutral wardrobe to be stylish. I mix prints, I wear trends and I wear pant lengths that suit me. I did smile when you talked about society’s comparison of pant lengths and socioeconomics. I remember hearing that as a child. Good for you in pointing out we should not be critical of others. 🥰
I love how you promote a gracious, kind heart to your viewers. In turn, that will spread, and we women will be kinder to each other. I have found that women can be very harsh towards other women, whether it be related to parenting, fashion, etc. Blessings to you! ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving from 🇨🇦
Thank you Tami. Yes, I find that to be true too, unfortunately. But I love finding women who are gracious and supportive of one another. So refreshing. Thanks for watching. 💕
For myself, I really can't wear my shirts, sweaters partially tucked into the front of my jeans/skirts. At 73, I just don't feel comfortable following that style, and yet, I often see that not tucking your shirt in males you look frumpy. I guess I look frumpy as I prefer to not put my tummy on display.
I am loving your videos so much! I am trying new ideas and getting a lot more confident about it! Thank you for showing us how to dress our best each day, Kay! You're beautiful!
Love the direction with regard to black because I LOVE to wear black! I feel pulled together and chic but I am 63. I have heard black is too harsh and you should wear navy but I always feel like a flight attendant in navy LOL.
Love this, thank you for tips and advice. I have just started wearing stripes and have a striped dress I absolutely love, and I’m not an hour glass figure. Haven’t felt comfortable mixing patterns but may try it. And a trendy piece with classic items, great advice. Now with all this great advice I wonder why I’m considering going to the store in my sweats!
I am in my early fifties and have found it hard to break some of the rules, mixing prints was something I wanted to do, but was frightened. I started a couple years ago, I use very fine polka dots and gingham tops with floral skirts or now the stripes and polka dots. It is so much fun, because as Kay has said, it’s creative! And it’s adventurous too, shackled all those years with ridiculous limitations due to color and prints. I quilt so mixing patterns has been a part of my life, as well as mixing prints when sewing clothes for small children. So if in doubt, look at these other things around you for inspiration. You will probably get compliments!
Excellent video! So much truth. This is refreshing. I especially like your advice about selecting trendy pieces that speak to us and our creativity and putting together outfits using classics from our wardrobe. I have been trying to do that this year and am having more fun getting dressed as a result.
Yes! We should be gracious. This is always in front of me as I go through my day. Now for my question: how about wearing white slacks during Autumn or Winter? I really do not have a problem with ”Winter White” and wear it quite often in the form of jackets, booties, slacks and vests.
What great suggestions! While the guidelines really do help us look our best, the key is to enjoy life, which includes enjoying our wardrobes. I have so much fun putting outfits together, which is a creative outlet for me. 🙂 You look lovely in just about anything and model the clothes beautifully. 🧡
What a wise woman! I do break rules and I agree these are so outdated. Like wearing white or mixing black and brown. Phooey on stuffy. I do wear longer pants but lantern pants came into my life through you so I ditched my always long rule. 🎄❤️
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These are my 5 rules for fashion:
1. You can wear white after Labor Day! White is a wonderful color to wear anytime on anyone.
2. Don’t let what’s in the mirror dictate who you are! Do what you feel for that day and dress that way!
3. Take a chance! Be bold! Live your life in living color. There’s beautiful colors all around in the world, take advantage of that.
4. You run the fashion, don’t let the fashion run you. Don’t let the fashion police tell you what to wear.
5. Fashion does not age you! You age in the fashion. Older women can pull off just about anything if you’re confident. I’m 54 and I still get complements on items I brought years ago and still wear.
Do you in whatever you do and wear as you do Kay. If you live that way, You will always be well put together. Thanks for the great tips Kay. I just wanted to share mine as well.
Absolutely! I love these. Thanks for sharing 🥰
I love these! I agree 100%!
...I agree! I was still able to pull off wearing a mini skirt till age 53 !! And I don't mean " really short mini skirt ", just mini enough, lol.
I owned that skirt since I was 45 ..... it was so well made, a Donna Karan , beautifully made, lined, very small slit on the right side . I got compliments every time I wore it. I still have a few items from when I was 50, that still fit ( I'm in my 60's) and still look nice.
Love your rules. Completely agree with 5. My mom is 70 and has a great style and fashion. She has mostly classics but adds a few modern pieces which keeps her looking sophisticated. I try to learn from her! She also lives shipping at thrift stores!
I love the fashion education you share as well as the gentle reminders to be the best person we can be. An ugly spirit sure can undermine surface beauty.
Absolutely. And who wants that? Thank you for sharing Kay. ☺️
Lol! You caught me! I grew up poor, and “high water “ pants were shamed. I had them and had to wear them. I didn’t realize it until now that not only am I still critical of them, but why I wouldn’t allow my kids to wear them. If they had a growth spurt and I didn’t get ahead of it with the proper length pants, they weren’t allowed to wear them outside of the house! I stand corrected. Thank you for being gentle!
I wore my older sister’s hand me downs when I started elementary school, problem was, she is a petite and I was never petite. Mom said I wore her second grade clothes in kindergarten. I have a problem with shorter pants that I am trying to break. I totally understand how you feel. I was very aware of what my children, three sons, wore to school. A few pieces of well fitting clothes is better than a closet of hand me downs. Peace.
Great content, Kay, like always :) For me personally I don't really have fashion rules. At my age - I'm 72 now - I wear what I love!
Wonderful! Thanks so much for watching. 😊
I'm 54 and do the same. I wear what's comfortable and what time love. I have no rules.
I agree 100% with you. I think we should wear what makes us feel pretty and good about ourselves.
Absolutely! Thank you so very much for sharing. 🥰
Amen. I think the best takeaway is that these rules cause us to judge others. Was overweight for years and never felt I should wear horizontal stripes. Then one day decided everybody already knew I was overweight so not wearing stripes wasn’t hiding it. 🤣🤣
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing. 🥰
I think rules about the fit of a garment, and the most flattering styles for your shape need to be followed, and you usually look more attractive in colors that are in your palette - but other than that - throw the rules out the window, be adventurous, try new styles. Being modern (rather than trendy) is something that's not too hard to achieve, but I think that you have to be in the mindset where modern is OK! I'm in 74, and I often wear things that my 40 year old daughter in law says she is afraid to try! I'm certainly not outrageous, stay away from too tight, too short, too glittery, because that's not my style, but I think all of the current fashions can be adapted to fit different ages, shapes and sizes. You are right about customs, cultures etc.having an effect. I remember moving to the US in the 80's, to a small New England town, and my neighbors being shocked that I wore high heels (I was only 35!) as they thought they were for younger people! But - if something makes you feel good, then it shows on your face, and that in and of itself is a beautiful thing.
Yes! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Fiona. I loved this. 💕
There's a rule that I have a harder time breaking although I do it sometimes and that's "Don't wear white after Labor Day". White pants or white shoes specifically. A white shirt is always in style. Another is that "You should not wear pantyhose and bare legs are in" that's a tough one especially as you get older I think a nude hose can make you look so much more toned and pulled together. It's important to not be critical of others and I really appreciate you bringing that to our attention with love.
Oh I think you can definitely wear pantyhose if you’d like. Yes, a sheer nude or sheer black hose is very elegant and stylish.
It is so funny that you said that. My kids have been telling me to wear pants above my ankles and I tell them that I just cannot wear "high waters" because of how I grew up. I have some now but it took a lot of convincing.
I have just returned home after clothes shopping for some needed pieces and thoroughly enjoyed it. I felt confident and focused and bought items I really like and look good on me. Usually I am overwhelmed and have difficulty deciding and often return things.
Your videos have taught me a lot and been very helpful, thank you Kaye.
Thank you for talking about this.We need freedom in fashion too. One of the rules I like to break is color for different seasons of the year. Like no white from Labor Day etc.
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing Dana. 💕
You hit a home run on this one (as the saying goes.) I have had these "fashion rules" drilled into my head as a child. Am still trying to shake them; especially the one on pant lengths. I love the suggestion about a color that maybe are not our best but using a scarf to soften it. I so appreciate your fashion suggestions and how to wear on trend clothes. I always said I didn't want to look frumpy when I get old (or at any age.) EACH AND EVERY TIME I wear something you suggest I get at LEAST one compliment. You also have such a beautiful loving spirit and it truly comes through in your videos. This is truly a beautiful ministry. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.
Thank you Eileen. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. And thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🥰
Kay I just love watching your videos about fashion advice! You are such a sweet, kindhearted, Christian woman!! I wish more women had a positive attitude about life as you seem to have, including myself. 🙏🏻☺️
Absolutely spot on, Kay! I have broken some of these rules from time to time, and guess what? My family and friends still love me! The key rules I try to follow are some that you have mentioned in previous videos and posts: Dress for the occasion, less is more (and mysterious or alluring!), keep your garments and accessories in good repair, “set it and forget it “ (i.e. once you’re dressed for your day, don’t think any more about it), practice good posture, and always wear the same accessory-a genuine smile. (And remember that poem about “when I’m old I’ll wear purple”? I’ve loved that colour for years!).
This was so enlightening. It also made me think about other “life” rules we follow without reassessing them from time to time.
Absolutely. We need to be thinking women. 😊
I have been encountering a "rule" that says nude hose or stockings are "out" and that bare legs, tights, or perhaps sheer black hose are the only acceptable legwear with dresses or skirts. I say phooey! Those folks don't have splotchy skin or spider veins or varicose veins. If a nude stocking is a close match to your skin color, they are barely noticeable, and anyone who comments negatively is too close.
And as far as pants length, I wore just slightly too short pants for years because of long legs, and I am very sensitive about it, it makes me feel frumpy. Plus, I need socks in the cold weather, and then I prefer pants which just break at the top of the foot. The difficulty with all the various shorter pants length is that they put the focus on the shoes. I have problem feet and cannot wear heels or some other trendy shoe styles, I just feel glad to buy shoes that don't hurt.
My comment on mixing patterns is that two different patterns need to have something in common to mix well, such as a common color, or mood or style. Or sometimes one of the patterns can be viewed as a "neutral", such as animal prints. And it is easier to mix patterns if they are not touching in the outfit.
Thanks for addressing this topic.
As far as nude hose go I wear them it's cold in Michigan now and bare legs....no way.
Sometimes the rules are like taboos! Always do this! Never do that! But I agree so much with you, Kay, we need to do what makes us feel great :) I do like following certain "fashion rules", if they are chic, flattering and comfortable (most old French fashion rules are timeless anyway), but I don't like being limited to these only. For instance a few years ago, matching the colours of shoes and handbags suddenly started to be considered "boring" and dated, after DECADES being THE right/chic way. I love matching them, I do think it looks harmonious and put together, so I still often do it! But it's also fun to become more creative and not match them. Also common sense it important to me: wearing short length trousers leaving the ankles bare in cold weather because a few years ago it became trendy and socks were kind of banned... well... it doesn't make sense, so I stick to the older, classic rule of wearing socks with my loafers/ankle boots, and trousers longer than in the warm season.
Me, too. I both wear matching (or not) sets of shoes, belt and bag, match my hardware and jewelry metal colors, and wear socks when I want. I don’t like the feel of bare toes in a closed shoe, so I always wear at least toe covers, even if I want bare ankles.
Good advice. So many women have been given the wrong advice about fashion. It is never too late to change and they should take your advice and try to gradually change their old ways. Fashion should be fun and not something that creates fear.
I love that you mentioned the no black after fifty. I also love black, and I think it shows off my salt and pepper hair beautifully. I love your positivity. It makes your channel enjoyable.
Thank you for reminding us that fashion is supposed to be fun and energizing. It's the best way to share your personality with the world each and every day 💚
Yes! And you’re right. It energized us. I love that!
I think you hit the nail on the head. I grew up hearing all these rules and criticisms. I agree that making fashion your own in a classy way is acceptable. I’ve ALWAYS heard that older women can’t wear red or bright lipstick. I think older women CAN wear red lipstick if it’s the right red for your coloring.
Happy Thanksgiving,
Melissa 🌼
I’m an older woman and I wear red, I ignore rules 😂
Absolutely. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Melissa. 💄
Thanks Kay . I agree about your fashion statement..
It is what each person desires. A matter of personal taste - likes and dislikes. Enjoy being out and about. Happy Thanksgiving to all in our wonderful country
Agree!
I loved your comment about how to wear colors which aren’t necessarily the best when held against one’s face. I love bright yellow, but it does not look well on me when it is right against my face. Years ago I brought a brilliant yellow summertime skirt, and not only was the color supposedly wrong for me but it was also cut in a way which wasn’t considered to be the most flattering for my pear-shape. My daughter tried to talk me out of it! I balanced it with a white blouse which was also cut kind of full so it balanced out the skirt which was supposedly too full for me. After I wore the outfit she loved it on me… She told me I had such an attitude in it! And I did, because it made me so totally happy. I really believe we should wear what makes ourselves happy. We should wear the clothing rather than the clothing wearing us, if that makes any sense!
I appreciate your original thoughts on this subject and positive attitude. Another childhood message was that people who wore ripped or stained clothing were poor. Today they do it on purpose! This is a trend I don’t personally like so I’m not going to wear it. I’ve decided to wear the nicest loveliest things that I can afford for the rest of the time I’m blessed to be on this earth.
Thanks for sharing Teresa. Yes I think it’s wise to evaluate trends and see them for what they are (and are not) and then decide if we want to participate or not. That way we can appreciate the trend on other people without being critical but still stay in our own lane too. 🥰
Yes Kay your kindness and down to earth comments are a model for all of us. I’m beginning to understand your mission here. Hoping to remember and have your words in my heart so I too am less critical and more supportive of others.
You are such a great teacher! You've woven fashion with encouragement once again. Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving!
Thank you Stacey. And Happy Thanksgiving to you, too. I sure am grateful for you ladies.
I'm someone who hates to shop for clothes. Not sure why as I can spend hours in a kitchen store. But, I am so grateful for your information as it tells me what is in style/trend and I can shop accordingly without having to go from store to store. Happy Thanksgiving.
Hahaha! We all enjoy different things. I’m glad I can be of help. 😊
Thank you for all the thinking you did to prepare this video. The anxiety about everything related to the pandemic has created a national irritability.🤨 It was good you addressed the negative impact of a critical spirit, both on ourselves as well as our targets! I was amazed what a difference the vertical line of the navy vest made upon the Breton tee. You are so right: "high water" pants were always looked upon with derision in our childhoods. How interesting to have that insight now at 73.🙂 You did a wonderful job of demonstrating ways to tweak things to present our own most flattering look. Thanks so much!
The one fashion rule I adhere to is 'no white between Labor Day and Easter.' If someone wants to, that is their choice and that is ok. For me, the only exception is winter white wool. Other than being brought up hearing this all my life, I like that white has its seasons - Spring and Summer. It is such a refreshing ,cool color. I hardly wear any other color of pants in the spring and summer. I love that fall and winter are for warmer, darker colors. Bottom line, 'you do you' as the saying goes. Wear what makes you feel good. Have a great day.
I actually do the same. I’m all for women wearing white year round if they’d like. But I like pulling out my true white pieces each spring and enjoying them for a couple of seasons and then putting them away. Thanks for sharing Peggy.
Thank you for another ‘pick me up’ video. I like the examples you share and the idea that we should not try too hard for perfection. Sometimes my mood chooses for me and I surprise myself!
This was great. I had never heard the "rules" about pants lengths, so that was a new one. But like you, I believe we should be wearing what we want and what gives us confidence. Appropriate attire is important, but that can still be done so creatively (and without arbitrary rules). Thank you for this!
Absolutely. Thank you so much for watching. 💕
I grew up in the Deep South and we were told not to wear white shoes after Labor Day. Pure white pants would be frowned upon too. Recently I have seen white jeans, with white boots in a winter outfit and it looked fresh as snow. If God dresses the winter landscape in white, why can’t we do the same? Yes, fashion should be fun and interesting and we should all dress our attitudes with grace toward each other, and joy in every day that God gives. Kay, you exude these traits, which makes me enjoy your channel! Thank you for this inspirational content!
Just found you Kay and I really love your channel. I’ve always enjoyed affordable style but lately now that I’m 69 I started thinking I need to dress down. After listening to you I feel motivated to dress with style but to keep it a little more simple and classic like you show. My mom passed many years ago and was always a stylish influence on me. I miss her but now I can confer with you! Thank you!
I was once told white washed me out, but it’s my go to ‘colour’, especially since I’m greying gracefully now. Looking back, I must have been extremely tired and weary with little kids at the time. I’m glad didn’t let it get to me.
I love your tips that are given with such graciousness and with such positivity! Your vibrancy is contagious! Most of all, I love the bottom line. God made all of us in his image, so let’s not be grumbling, complaining or critical of ourselves or other women. We are all doing life together! Happy Thanksgiving!
That indeed is the bottom line! Thank you so much for sharing. 🥰
Thank you for another uplifting and informative video! ❤️Also a Downtown Abbey fan 👍!
Lovely! Thank you for watching. 🥰
You made some very good points in this video. Regarding trends, we women of a certain age need to be judicious about which trends we choose to wear and how we wear them. For instance, I can't imagine wearing a bra top, even though it's a current trend. Better leave those for the well-toned teens and early twenty-somethings.
Agree! It's kind of sad to see an older woman trying to dress like her 19 yr. old gr-dau.
I agree don’t be so rigid with fashion rules, enjoy it and if it suits you wear it
What an absolutely lovely spirit you have. I’ve been binge watching your videos and the love of Christ just shines right through you. Thank you!
I’m just a couple of years older than you and have never given any thought to makeup or fashion, but you popped up on my feed and, well, here we go. Thank you for showing that good style (or even on trend) is an option for the older woman and for giving up “all the tips” on how to make it work. Now to loose those extra pounds so I can feel better in my skin.
Thanks so much, Linda. I’m glad you’re enjoying my videos. No new video today because I’m taking a couple of weeks off to refresh. But normally I upload new videos on Wednesday. I hope you’ll subscribe to my channel. 😊
Thank you Kay for confirming on I'm on the right road at age 78,enjoy what you wear. I'm conservative but young at heart.
Thank you, it is so important to be ourselves. I always feel if you like what you have on your going to carry yourself better too like standing taller or just an overall confidence booster!!!
Wonderful! Thanks so much for watching.
Totally Agree. Another one that has always bugged me is NO WHITE AFTER LABOR DAY! This Christmas Eve I am wearing a gray sweater with white snowflakes with WHITE PANTS ….Gasp ! Lol !
Perfectly beautiful! Thanks for sharing Bonnie. 🤍
I will never break the 4th rule. Will never mix prints but I rarely wear prints. Still wearing my skinny jeans. Thank you and I really enjoy your channel!😊
Hahaha! Well that’s not a problem at all. ☺️
I rarely wear prints and it I do it’s one item and the rest are solids.
All great points Kay! I especially love how you present your material in a low key and gracious manner. I struggle with the pant length and type of footwear that looks good together. One of my rules was no white socks showing. Glad to see you wearing them and it looks good! I love your reminder to be gracious and not critical of others choices. Love your positivity and fashion sense.
Thanks so much for sharing, Nancy. 🥰
Well, its solid!...I like Deep,( ?or not) green....I'm trying to say,...the green sweater today is wonderful!
This was a good one, Kay! I have tried to let go of these "rules" that I learned in grade school and high school! Fashion changes and we need to keep up. I don't think I can mix prints on myself, but I can let other people have fun with it. And I am so glad that pants are various lengths now. I am tall and it's so nice to not worry that my pants are too short when they are meant to be short. Thanks for another great video. You are my favorite fashion person.
I look so forward to your videos and blog posts. I’ve learned so much from you and enjoy your pleasant voice and sweet demeanor. 💕Thanks for helping me look and feel my best in my 50s!
You’re so welcome! Thank you for watching. 💕
Ok, here’s a rule we’ve all heard (and lived by): Don’t wear white after Labor Day…have to wait until Easter to wear white. I think that’s baloney myself. I love wearing white jeans. And I live in Georgia, where it’s warm/hot 8 months out of the year. I’d love for you do do a video on this topic! Thanks,Kay. You are very inspirational!
Fabulous video Kay! I have always been a rule follower and still am. Like you, I don’t want to be critical of others because of the rules floating around in my head.
Right?!? Thanks so much for watching Ginger! ☺️
Another wonderful and informative video! A rule I have always broken is no wearing white after labor day. I live in Southern California, and we wear white all year round!
Absolutely! Nothing wrong with that. I think it’s wise to dress more for climate than convention. 💕
I love how you teach us not to have a critical spirit and give one another grace along with such great fashion tips! I feel that a peaceful spirit and kind heart are some of the best anti aging benefits available to us. I’ve seen it in other women and at 64 years old am still a work in progress. Thank you!
We all are! Thanks for sharing Krista.
Thank you, Elizabeth Henderson!
I took your message to heart and purchased two headbands from Anthropologie during their Black Friday Sale! May God bless you as you continue to reclaim your life from the effects of breast cancer.
Great video Kay. I wore a classic black and white checked button up shirt with a black and white pokadot cardigan. Received many compliments. Being a quilter, I am always mixing up patterns. I also like your suggestions about colors that maybe are not our best but using a scarf to soften it. I seem to collect scarfs, need to wear them more. Have a blessed Thanksgiving
Thank you for sharing that Cyndi. Yes, mixing prints in fashion is definitely like putting together pieces for a quilt! Lovely example. 😊
This was great fun! Thanks Kay- it was useful… & also a bit of a giggle!😂❤❤🎉
Good fashion content, thank you. All agreed except the mixing of prints... It is possible to mix prints but you need artist eyes for that, anchor colors that connect the prints and a substantial difference in the scale of the prints that are combined. Just my opinion here...
Thanks for sharing. 🥰
Agree 100%! One more thing we need to get rid of is the rule about not wearing white after Labor Day.
Yes, that rule is long gone. 😉 Thanks so much for sharing. 😊
Great video Kay, I have to agree with them all. Have a blessed week ahead. 🙌🏻💛
I’m really loving the shorter pant lengths. I’m starting to wear them with no show socks and ankle boots. Now I want to buy a pair of loafers and wear socks that match my top! Thank you for all your fashion tips! Happy Thanksgiving!
That’s great! Freedom!
Omg the story about shorter pants and being poor resonates so much with me! I’m having a hard time allowing myself to wear the shorter lengths because of the messages from my youth! Thank you for this video! I’m going to give it a go wearing shorter lengths. It is the trend!
Wonderful tips. I will say that when I let my hair go grey I stay away from beige, brown, camel, and off-white colors which I love but feel they clash with my hair and skin. I wear purple pink red white shades of blue some gray some black.
Thank you, Kay! You spoke to several fashion “rules” that I have cowered under. What about headbands for women over 60? I am a young looking 62 year old. I see so many lovely headbands-I am mostly thinking of the ones I see at Anthropologie. I am letting my gray grow out and keeping a shoulder length style. What are your thoughts?
💐Mary Patricia: Anthropologie has been featuring some lovely headbands lately👍.
As to your hair, I say God is a master colorist. Although depending upon your natural hair color, there can be a tricky transition (esp. for darker shades). If that's the case for you, a trained colorist can make it less painful.
I'm a dark brown brunette who always turns reddish during the 😎 sunny months. My hair was in this natural transition year round with new & old growth too.
Started getting threads of silver around the very front frame of my face in my 30s. (😉My mom💋 said they made her look older.) It never really went beyond that, but those hairs are white now. If I let it loose, they do not stand out. It's only if I wear a headband or clip it up on top that my 🦁 "lion's mane" is obvious.
Now, the ladies (my age or older) are quick to disparage it. They may grudgingly say it looks nice on me, but would never work for them😔. Understandable, bcos I live in LA where almost everyone is chasing youth. Surprisingly, I get more unsolicited compliments from men my junior.
All this to say, go for it. Do it for you. I just decided I didn't want to deal with chemicals or color upkeep. I also prefer to keep it up & off my face a bit. My delight, acceptance, & confidence has won over all the ppl in my life who truly count. For the rest, I try to let any negativity roll off like water💧on a duck's🦆 back. Life's simply too short to please everyone.
💚 Bridget from Cali☘️
(using my pal's YT acct)
Wow! I grew up listening to these fashion rules, it's frustrating when I go shopping! Thank you for the encouragement and your fashion ideas! I love this video!
Thank you!! This is wonderful. This is lovely. May we all have grace for each other!
Absolutely! 💕
Great video, Kay! Thanks for all the work you put into it. One rule I've always disliked is that you can't wear black and brown together. I love brown, and the right shades of brown and black go together well.
Thank you Kay, great video (again)! I think hair over 50 is another challenge and I know I have some opinions about it. It is probably similar to clothing in the sense that some can wear certain hair lengths/styles better than others depending on face shape and hair type. It can get tricky especially over 60, as I am finding out. Happy thanksgiving and thank you for all your hard work!
Absolutely. Hair can be tricky. Thanks for sharing Lynda. 😊
This is one of your best videos! We are all watching because we love fashion and still want to look our best. Thanks for getting into some of the history of why. I’m surprised that you didn’t mention that you shouldn’t wear white after labour day. Thanks for being so positive!
Im so glad you enjoyed it. Im all for wearing white after Labor Day if you like. I just figured most people have heard that by now. But maybe not 🤔🥰
I Kay, I believe in not limiting oneself. Thank you
Kay - you are always gracious in your delivery with the brightest smile which I'm sure we all love. This video is becoming who you are - we all need that self confidence! Thank you.
Thanks so much for watching and sharing your thoughts Louise. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 🥰
Great video, I completely agree. I work at a Talbots store, I love that you rock our clothes, every day I hear someone said why dont they make vertical lines, horizontal lines make me look wide. I was expecting you to include the " white after labor day rule". Lol
As far as mixing prints goes, it works better if the two prints are separated from each other. For example, I would not suggest a print scarf over a print blouse. Or a print top worn with print pants should at least be separated by a solid belt. It also is helpful if the two prints have something in common, say both have red as part of the print, or both are geometric shapes such as wearing dots and stripes in the same outfit. Another good way to combine two prints is to have different scales of design, so a small print would combine best with a larger print. It is best not to just randomly mix two prints. Give it some thought so that the choice of the two prints looks intentional.
Love your video Kay...so creative and free to progress with fashion!!!thank you!!!xxx
Thanks for watching! 🥰
Such great advice! I totally agree with breaking these rules. I love putting outfits together. It’s such a fun creative way to express oneself!
This was so much fun! I love your passion for getting rid of these rules. I love being affirmed to be creative with fashion!!
Wonderful. Thanks so much for sharing Terri. 😊
Thank you for this! I have been guilty of having a critical spirit because of silly outdated “rules” I imposed on others and myself. I moved from the midwest to Seattle in my 20s and learned quickly that when the sun comes out for a day or two in February afters months of daily rain you wear WHATEVER you want, for it may be a long time before you see that sun again😀
What about white after Labor Day? That one needs to go!! Love your channel!
Yay for dressing in what we feel is flattering and fun, regardless of age! Sometimes it's just not important to follow "the rules"; especially in today's world where there are so many restrictions that we observe for health and safety...have fun with style.
I think your video is great. I bought two knit poncho/cape/scarf pieces that are usually worn over an outfit but not over a coat. It really limited my use of the pieces since we have a lot of cold weather. I have started wearing these things over a wool pea coat and a long wool coat. I like breaking the rules and doing what I like. It also gives a new way to liven up my same old coats. I also live where women don’t wear baseball caps but after a few years I decided I would break convention and started wearing a cap almost daily in summer. I can do it because I have confidence. My style is my own.
I couldn't mix those prints.
Loved this, thank you Kay 👏🏽🤍🤗
Thanks so much for watching. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 😊
I enjoy fitted ankle-length trousers, but styles have been moving toward looser, full-length cuts, which I also like, so I wear both.
Women are wearing white denim in winter, but I can't quite embrace that. Maybe with red for the holidays.
I don’t do it myself. You absolutely can. But I prefer to put mine away for the winter and bring it out all nice and fresh in the spring. Just more fun for me that way. So just because you CAN break a rule doesn’t mean you HAVE TO. 😉
Love the light pink and rust pants! Trying to wear brighter colors with my neutrals,
I remember always being worried I was wearing "flood pants" growing up. I grew a lot during the middle school years!
I can do all but mix prints. My little mind cannot do it! 😂😂
I remember hearing, "Blue and green should never be seen" when I was younger. This is a "rule" that I have never bothered to follow. Blue and green are beautiful together.
Oh my yes! I love blue and green. Isn’t that funny that someone came up with that???😃
Artist here. Blue and green are analogous colors. Which means they are near each other on the color wheel. The are very good together. I teach my students that you want to live next door to your best friend. Two of my favorite combos are lime green with navy or lime green with peacock blue. Gorgeous!
Wonderful! Thanks so much for chiming in! 💙💚
On this day before Thanksgiving I am so thankful for your videos, Kay. You really do make fashion fun. As I was watching this video two words came to mind. FLOOD PANTS. Even though I am now 63, I hear those words every time my ankle shows when I'm wearing jeans. That was the absolute worst fashion faux pas one could make when I was a teenager. You have given me permission to bare the ankles with confidence :). Happy Thanksgiving.
I also grew up with “Flood” pants and it sure has taken me a while to feel comfortable wearing them now!
Absolutely! Ankle length is very on style. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 💕
Great tips! I break all the rules you suggest we can. I wear whatever color I like. I love color and I don’t think I need a neutral wardrobe to be stylish. I mix prints, I wear trends and I wear pant lengths that suit me. I did smile when you talked about society’s comparison of pant lengths and socioeconomics. I remember hearing that as a child. Good for you in pointing out we should not be critical of others. 🥰
Thanks so much for sharing Tracy. 🥰
I love how you promote a gracious, kind heart to your viewers. In turn, that will spread, and we women will be kinder to each other. I have found that women can be very harsh towards other women, whether it be related to parenting, fashion, etc. Blessings to you! ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving from 🇨🇦
Thank you Tami. Yes, I find that to be true too, unfortunately. But I love finding women who are gracious and supportive of one another. So refreshing. Thanks for watching. 💕
For myself, I really can't wear my shirts, sweaters partially tucked into the front of my jeans/skirts. At 73, I just don't feel comfortable following that style, and yet, I often see that not tucking your shirt in males you look frumpy. I guess I look frumpy as I prefer to not put my tummy on display.
I agree. We should break those rules.
I'm a little more of a rule breaker than a follower. I'm 51 and wear some trends; I always did.
I am loving your videos so much! I am trying new ideas and getting a lot more confident about it! Thank you for showing us how to dress our best each day, Kay! You're beautiful!
That’s wonderful. Thanks so much for letting me know Vickie. 🥰
Love the direction with regard to black because I LOVE to wear black! I feel pulled together and chic but I am 63. I have heard black is too harsh and you should wear navy but I always feel like a flight attendant in navy LOL.
Wear what you love wearing. Confidence shows!
Love this, thank you for tips and advice. I have just started wearing stripes and have a striped dress I absolutely love, and I’m not an hour glass figure.
Haven’t felt comfortable mixing patterns but may try it.
And a trendy piece with classic items, great advice.
Now with all this great advice I wonder why I’m considering going to the store in my sweats!
I am in my early fifties and have found it hard to break some of the rules, mixing prints was something I wanted to do, but was frightened. I started a couple years ago, I use very fine polka dots and gingham tops with floral skirts or now the stripes and polka dots. It is so much fun, because as Kay has said, it’s creative! And it’s adventurous too, shackled all those years with ridiculous limitations due to color and prints. I quilt so mixing patterns has been a part of my life, as well as mixing prints when sewing clothes for small children. So if in doubt, look at these other things around you for inspiration. You will probably get compliments!
Excellent video! So much truth. This is refreshing. I especially like your advice about selecting trendy pieces that speak to us and our creativity and putting together outfits using classics from our wardrobe. I have been trying to do that this year and am having more fun getting dressed as a result.
You look stunning in black! I'm glad you love it. Enjoy the information you share so much!
Yes! We should be gracious. This is always in front of me as I go through my day.
Now for my question: how about wearing white slacks during Autumn or Winter?
I really do not have a problem with ”Winter White” and wear it quite often in the form of jackets, booties, slacks and vests.
What great suggestions! While the guidelines really do help us look our best, the key is to enjoy life, which includes enjoying our wardrobes. I have so much fun putting outfits together, which is a creative outlet for me. 🙂
You look lovely in just about anything and model the clothes beautifully. 🧡
Great video, Kay! Thank you for helping us break these rules! Hope your back is feeling much better! God bless.
It’s all better! Praise the Lord!
Loved this. Expected to hear you address, "No white before Easter or after Labor Day." :)
I love all your videos. 🥰 You are an inspiration‼️ God Bless you Kay . . 💕🙏
Thank you so much, Joyce. 😊
What a wise woman! I do break rules and I agree these are so outdated. Like wearing white or mixing black and brown. Phooey on stuffy. I do wear longer pants but lantern pants came into my life through you so I ditched my always long rule. 🎄❤️